As a married man that has a past first love, I think this song is beautiful. Anybody who has a healthy relationship and memory box will tell you it's a beautiful thing to look back on and see how far you've come, how much you've grown and the important people that helped you get there. Appreciate your significant other's past because it's why you have them as they are today
Totally agree my brother!!! She has a beautiful voice and love to drink some beers listening to her music and can't believe she doesn't get more recognition for her music!!!
I’m going through this right now, we were together almost 4 years, broke up about 10 years ago and haven’t spoke since, I never stopped loving him and never will, he’s happy and getting married this year, breaks my heart but I try to be happy for his happiness because he deserves it, god I miss him though! I wish it could be me marrying him 😢💔
I love this song. I'm blessed to get the boy and the man. I was 14 & he was 16 when we got together. We have been together for 21 years. This April we will celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary.
My parents 18th wedding anniversary is in may this year but I'm so happy for you their 10yrs apart but its nit the age that matters it's the love that counts
I still love him more than anything else in my life...but I am happy to see him with his happiness...I just want him to be happy and live a healthy life... I wish I could send this song to him but it's not possible...so I am just leaving this comment so that whenever someone will like the comment I'll be back here to listen to this masterpiece with the all memories 🖤✨...keep loving guys and don't forget to tell your loved ones how much they meant to you 🖤🌹...
Girl, i just wanted to tell you, you are amazing person because you are happy to see other's happiness. I'm dealing with the same thing but my man wasn't the right one for me but i want him to be right for the person who genuinely love him. Take care of yourself and don't worry soon your perfect one will find you❤
Can you tell us your story with him just a little bit? I really wonder what happened to you cause .. how this kind of things happen when they still love each other..?
I feel you, I was able to send him this song but seeing happy makes me happy. We both have our lives and the only thing that we both understand and cherish is each others family but our love will always be there.. 😢
I met Jana maybe 2 years ago while delivering her kids furniture and she was really cool. The guy who she's been with the past few years has been treating her how she should've been treated her whole life. He was cool as well and likes to ride motorcycles is what got us to chatting.
I cried the first time 2 days over this song. It sure does hit hard. He reached out after 12 years to see how I was doing. He's happily married and I'm just me
Me too!!!! I looooooove jana she is my favorite singer ever. i love how she's so open with her feelings and I'm only 11 and I will relate someday hopefully no but......
Lyrics: I saw your picture in a paper Honeymoon in Jamaica, she's a lucky girl You look so grown up in your black tux From a ball cap in a pick up, seems like another world You and me and our big dreams, falling in love We were two kids in the backseat, all fearless and young I got the first kiss and she'll get the last She's got the future, I got the past I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band I got the boy, she got the man Yeah there's an old you that I knew, Fake IDs to get into those spring break bars Back woods on a four wheel, hanging on tight I can still feel my racing heart And now you're cleaned up with a hair cut, nice tie and shoes If things were different and I had a choice, which would I choose? I got the first kiss and she'll get the last She's got the future and I got the past I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band I got the boy and she got the man I got the first kiss and she'll get the last We each got something, the other will never have I got the long hair, hot head She got the cool and steady hand I got the boy and she got the man I got the boy and she got the man
Hannah and the store and the kids are you and you are a little left out of your room and the boys and the girls have a few minutes and I think 😂 tu is going 😄 and then I'll be there in a minute but I have to go you can come in and then get it done right now and I'd like to get it turned eyy❤
Today was the first time I heard this song and that made me remember my first love, it was like a flash back from the past, I remembered when he realized that I was feeling the same way about him, his eye were shining so bright, he had this big smile in his face and he couldn't stop staring at me, he said that I was sweet and beautiful, he seemed to be so happy, and when we kissed for the first time that was magical, I remembere our hearts beating so fast, being nervous and the butterflies in my stomach, I also remember asking him what was he thinking at, and he gave the same answer every time I asked, "you", that was so sweet, he went back to his country and wrote me the most beautiful love letter ever, but we were to young, living thousands miles away, and it wasn't supposed to last, now twenty years later I am a mature woman, I got married with a wonderful man who love me so much, and I have a beautiful daughter, I am very happy, but I guess there will always be a small place in my heart that will always belong to that little thing called first love, I hope everything turn out to be good for him and I wish him the best, he will always be my first love and my husband my soul mate !!!! 💕
This song means so much to me. My "boy" passed away after being close friends for over 40 years. His lovely wife is devastated, as am i. Cherish every moment.
My ex wife called me and told me to listen to this song. Wow how true it is! I was married to my first wife for 22 years after we met in high school!A lot of up and downs but I don't regret our marriage. Have 3 wonderful children, I was just a immature boy. Now I am married again and my current wife ended up with the mature man! True song!!
This song made me feel so sad. Not for me but for my husband’s ex wife. They got married when he was just 19 years old. He was too young to be the man she wanted him to be. Today I have the loving, responsible husband she wanted. I feel bad for her. I’ve even heard her say it in her own words.
My first love sent me this song a few years back. At a time I thought she had forgotten all about me, Made me question a lot of things. She took her life a year ago and this song always brings back all those good memories we had years ago.
I had the "boy" for 20 years, marriage, raised 7 kids. Alcohol, drug and cheating problems.......eventually it all ended very badly. So much struggle and hurt. Now, at the age of 47, he's cleaning himself up and moving on to a 26yo girl......I got and was stuck with the boy and she'll get the (developing) man that I always wished he would become for me. This song brings instant tears but I love it.
I'm sorry Stephanie D. My bf and I have been together for 6 yrs. I'm in ♡ with this song. He is 13 yrs older than me. And I think of how lucky I am to have him now. How much he has changed.And is an actual man now. . also reminds me on my 1st love 16 yrs ago. :( He and his new wife are so happy. and he treats her better than he ever did me.
It's adorable to have such fond memories of being someone's first love, but there's something even more satisfying in being the one who ends up being everything they were always looking for and more. ❤❤❤
I got the boy in 7th grade, October 6th 2013. We were in love for as long as I can remember. Living close enough to walk, family friends, same church, mutual friends in school. We were high school sweethearts. He went into the military and we pulled through still. Sending letters, so sweet and old fashioned. We were on and off during these times because he kept choosing alcohol, clubs, friends, video games, and so much more over me and more importantly over God. It was very heart breaking to watch. I went to college and sometimes saw him when he came back home on vacation leave. He reached out to me while I was on a missions trip in Australia. Ready to get back together, get married and move in together. I prepared to be a military wife because I knew we could get through anything. But old habits came back in and I knew I deserved better. Now I watch him with a wonderful woman who is also in the military. She's the girl that took his virginity at a party in high school. (something he lied to me about that I am finding out now) But they have a lot in common and he's happy. That's all that matters I guess. He treats her so good. Just makes me feel like the practice girlfriend. Like he had the trial run with me so that he would know what to do in "real relationship". I know I deserve better, just wish Those 7 years weren't wasted.
They weren't completely wasted were they?? Bc you've grown a little wiser out of it all, yes? Also, you now know exactly what you want & what you don't want ((won't tolerate)) out of a life partner right & even better yet--- You're Wisdom out of it all has shown you-- that you love yourself more than he ever could--((which is extremely important)) bc you knew you deserved better than his lack of love, ect...Idk about anyone else,but me personally--I'd think that id just be ever so grateful to have had love in the first place---If even for only 1 day,,,rather than being alone & not knowing what it felt like at all yanno
Those years weren’t wasted, they helped you become who you are.Sounds like if you would’ve stayed together then maybe both your lives would’ve been wasted. Think about it: we only marry the final person we dated. All of the others are preparing us for that last right one.
Its crazy that Jamie Lynn Spears wrote this song. She said she felt as if it wasn't her song to sing, but it was her story. Jana Kramer does a beautiful job bringing the song to life.
I love this song. My HS boyfriend is happily engaged with two little boys of his own and I know he’s happy. I’m truly happy for him. He wasn’t the one for me nor I for him. I found my ever lasting person and I’m happier with him than I’ve been in a long time. I may have had the boy but I didn’t want him as a man. He’s happy and so am I. 💛
I met this beautiful girl when we were very young we spent some beautiful times together. 35 years has passed and we are reunited. It's like a dream came true. It's our 1st song
I saw my HS swearheart right after this song came out. Introduced her to my wife. That night she dedicated this song to me on the radio in our little old home town.
My “boy” was amazing. We grew apart and he moved a couple hours away. He ended up passing away right before we made things “something” again. This song haunts me as much as it heals me.
Lyrics :) tnx me later :P I saw your picture in a paper Honeymoon in Jamaica, she's a lucky girl You look so grown up in your black tux From a ball cap in a pick up, seems like another world You and me and our big dreams, falling in love We were two kids in the backseat, all fearless and young I got the first kiss and she'll get the last She's got the future, I got the past I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band I got the boy, she got the man Yeah there's an old you that I knew, Fake IDs to get into those spring break bars Back woods on a four wheel, hanging on tight I can still feel my racing heart And now you're cleaned up with a hair cut, nice tie and shoes If things were different and I had a choice, which would I choose? I got the first kiss and she'll get the last She's got the future and I got the past I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band I got the boy and she got the man I got the first kiss and she'll get the last We each got something, the other will never have I got the long hair, hot head She got the cool and steady hand I got the boy and she got the man I got the boy and she got the man
This is for my true love my first husband he died sadly when we were 36 we were together since we were 18 we had all these first together i cry every time i hear this wonderful song.
This woman is so beautiful and has an amazing voice how could anyone break her heart. Everyone complaining about the video being all about Jana but she's gorgeous and the emotion she puts into her songs is just amazing and did I mention she is gorgeous and beautiful and amazing and that's all that matters
One of the lucky few who didn't have to choose, the boy or the man. I got both. I was 16, he was 19. He's now 30 and I'm 27. ❤️ Grateful to have it all, I don't wanna share a single moment.
I heard this song on Pandora today for the first time and absolutely fell in love with it. Because it has nothing to do with jealousy or being angry or any of that, it's just the reality of growing up and how time changes us. ❤
This song makes me remember my dad. It came out right after he passed away. I remember listening to it on the way back from his memorial service. It made me cry. It still does. My mom got the boy, and my sister's mom got the man.
Even after so many lines " I got the boy and she got the man" hits different ❤️ pain bonded with sadness has it's own taste this masterpiece shows it perfectly 🌹
My Dad made me break up with my true love when I was young, and after 43 yrs , he found me on FB and he has loved me all these years too. He is Married with a beautiful family and we can only be friends now, but it's nice to know that true love does really stand the test of time.
My ex just got married. We were each others first love. Everything went bad when we lost our baby. I'll always love him and wish him the best. I am so thankful he and I were able to grow up together and have so much fun! My entire childhood was with him till I turned 20! Now I've been married for 15 years with 4 kids, to an awesome man that I love dearly. He has given me more then just our marriage and our children. Hes given me trust, love and a best friend. My ex and I have run into each other a few times since. And just like before it's like we never stopped loving each other. It's always hi and bye. (Nothing more) we're better off as friends or just memories. We are totally different people now. I wish he and his beautiful wife the best and many years of happy marriage! And a healthy, strong baby in the future.
I also still love my 1st love ,i always wish him the best things because i never feel anyone like him ,his voice always melts my heart ,i never forget him ,now i dont love anyone like him because he is olny one that i loved
I think you dropped the ball. I think people are supposed to marry their first love, or it wouldn't talk about first loves in the Bible. When one person drops the ball, or tries to leave prematurely, unless for adultery or formication, then they really let the other person down. Becoming one in flesh is hard to shake. I remember I saw something go into my eye and it was the spirit of flesh of my first love and it positioned itself somewhere in me. It hurts when she left or leaves and it's about twenty years later and it still hurts. I'm happy I didn't commit suicide.
This song was written about me and the love of my life. I fell in love with him 25 years ago but we never married. I got the boy and she got the man is so true. I still love him after all these years and would take him back in a heartbeat.
I'm completely obsessed with this song. Her and her style of music are both amazingly awesome. Something about her lyrics just resonate in my my life. I love Jana
Omg Alex Dupre is still making music!! I loved her and Haleys (Bethany) songs. Totally miss OTH. I can't see her as anyone else but Alex Lolz I guess she was that good of an actor. Same way I can't take Sopia Bush seriously on Chicago PD
+diego chialva I see she's trying to be good in the show too! Have you seen Julian ( Austin) on the walking dead playing a wose! I was so mad I almost punched my TV! He's better then that. And Chad Michael Murray in Fruitvale Station. I still love him but i hated the character he played in that movie.
Going to play this and cry one day when my first love gets married. Makes me cry just thinking about it. Wish he knew how I still felt over 10 years later. I love you ddm
Every man i meet still acts like they need to grow up . Its probably a problem with the type of men im choosing. Thats awesome. My ex husband and i still can't seem to get along well enough to co parent 2 Corgis. Let along any kind of human . I couldn't even begin to imagine it. In fact it scares me. But. It shows some men change
You got sloppy seconds. You weren’t good enough the first time. Or good enough to be the mother of his children. You’re good enough for the old, tired man.
I just heard this song this morning and almost immediately he came to mind and I swear it was like all our time together flashed before my eyes. All those years, all that work I put into helping you grow into a better man (not that you werent already near perfect in my eyes), all those moments... And then I thought of her, and how beautiful she is and how gorgeous yall are. That ring sure does look pretty on her.
Desiree Chapoy can completely relate my first love 15 just got engaged this month. listening to this song brought back all the memories we had and how I truly did get the boy and she got the man,
Rayven Hestermann i got the boy at 14, still have him now at 20, hes still the boy i fell in love with plus growing into an amazing man. i got the first kiss and the diamond ring (promise ring)
+Kaylen Graham please don't ever say someone is better then you. you happen to be in his life to mold him into a man... think of the wonderful great memories, the laughs.. ;-)
Always been a big fan and love her heart on her sleeve lyrics that relate to everyone. She's so underrated and deserves much more recognition. Absolutely beautiful songs and woman
It gives one hope that there's still actually some song-writers and artists recording real Country Music. Undeniably great song and a singer that made me believe her.
Stefanie Poll I just meant in production and thematically speaking this is "authentic" country music and the young singer was very convincing. It's a departure from the C-RAP (country + rap) so prevalent on "Country" radio today... Loved the song, the production and the singer. Most Country "artists" (sadly) do not write their own material; however, that's made Nashville a great haven for song-writers who are not necessarily great singer nor seek fame and all it's snarers. Thanks for the reply. God bless you.
This song hits different now, thinking about it from 8 years ago when I had my first real love which also happened to be my first heartbreak. We met in summer at the lawn tennis court where we met unexpectedly, as he lived in the city. At first we were fine although were in a long distance relationship. He gave me poems and there are times that he goes back to the province to see me. One day, things got rough and it was my fault to begin with- I chose the other person instead of him. We were happy but I tried to find myself. When I realized I still love him, it was the end, he already met someone else. Through the years we broke up, we still contacted each other out of the blue, plainly because of nostalgia upon missing each other. At that time, he is still overcoming the darkness in his life with her. Fast forward, I was happy upon seeing him the same girl was with him throughout the “dark phase” in his life. Maybe we were too young at that time to learn about love and sacrifice. I am happy the girl was with him when times I wasn’t there. Seeing their pictures make me remember what was “ours” in the past just like this song. Right now, I am happy that in the middle of reminiscing the past, I no longer feel the same pain as before. 😊 2:13
I couldn't be happier my high school sweet heart. His wife made him a more of amazing man. It's been years. I'm happily married myself. Memories Never Fade. Thank God for unanswered prayers. Look at us now friends for life.
Sara Jordan so funny I think about my high school sweetheart as well, and yes thank god for unanswered prayers knowing now what my young heart wouldn’t see, he was not the one for me at all. We’re still friends and he still makes me giggle but I’m better off now with my husband... BUT you can’t take away those young love memories!
The older I get the more a song like touches my heart. Been all over the world, seen the absolute best and the worst side of people. When I was young, I couldn't hear the wisdom of a song like this, had I listened perhaps ... who knows how things would have turned out. A solid friend of mine who I had served with over many years said "Bro, if it was meant to be she would be here, at your side, right now." The Truth hurts.
Same, literally had flash backs of us on the four wheeler racing our friends on top of a mountain, I was holding on to him for dear life laughing my head off and felt like I was literally flying from adrenaline
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE IS GETTING MARRIED, AND THIS SONG REMINDS ME OF US WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER💕 LETTING GO OF SOMEONE YOU HAVE LOVED SINCE YOU WERE 16 YEARS OLD AND NOW IM 40 IS UNBELIEVABLY HARD😞
I’m a guy and every time I play this song it tears me up. Every time I wish she would get the boy and make the man, like my wife did. If you have been through this don’t give up, the ONE for you is out there. He’s lost, go find him and make him yours forever! HUGE fan of Jana’s!
Jana, when I heard this song for the first time I thought you where singing about me. The video is outstanding you live every word with your eyes. You go girl!
Man...feeling old, I remember watching her sing this at her concert at the NYS fair. Feels like yesterday, man how time flys, live it up everybody, don't waste a minute, make fun outta each one!! Trust me!
Yeah me too about my 1st husband we we're basically just kids!! I love this song. Sometimes I wonder what if we would have meet later in life. Unfortunately life is full of what ifs!!
I've got a daughter now, and I'm with her mother who is an angel. The only thing I wish I could change is not hurting the girls who loved me before. If by some chance you see this as a young man do your best to be the best most loyal partner you can be because even if it doesn't work out you won't regret being a good man. But from my experience I can tell you that you'll regret being a bad man.
Man oh man the first time I ever heard this song all the memories of my first love came rushing into my head. All the wonderful memories. I got the first kiss but she'll get the last. You two are so cute together and I bet if and when you put a ring on her hand it'll be beautiful... Thank you Steve for all the beautiful and wonderful memories of us. I'm just happy that you are happy... We will always have our first!!!!!!!
I love this song but jana has a point, there's a girl somewhere out there who got the first memories, the FIRST of everything from some guy. Always makes me wish I got the first of everything from my guy. But then she's right again, I got the wedding band in the end :)
I'd rather have the last than the first😏yes I get upset when he says oh I've been there already I've done that before BUT I'd much MUCH rather be laying next to him at night then be his first... whatever!
Even as a guy this relates in such a major way. I was so immature, long hair, crazy, all hopped up on youth and a couple of beers. Then came the real world, and life moved on. I still think about the girl that got the boy, but I'm happy with the woman who got the man.
Wow, this song swells my heart and eyes. I don't think about it much. People use to say young love doesn't last, purest I ever had nothing to give but our hearts.
I think....even though I do miss him sometimes....I wouldn't trade having the boy for nothing. It was the best of my high school years. He is the father to my daughter, I think he is happy, and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
I use to hurt that I never got to stay with my first love, and that he married another woman, but now I see that I will always have a part of him that she will never have; and She got that part I never will.
I'm blessed to say I've met the love of my life and we are each others first love and will be each others forever love.. We are each others first everything.. Now we set the date and we're getting married in a few months and we couldn't be any happier.. I got the boy and the man and the best part is seeing the transition in maturity of the person you will love no matter what life throws at you.. I love you baby, forever and ever amen❤
I was 11 and he was 13 when we first fell in love, i really got the boy, he truly madly loved me but when we became 19 and 21 things Turned around and a girl who have been tempting him for years and years won his heart, i was immature and insecure and didn't know how to handle things, i fell into depression for almost three years while he has beem enjoying falling in love with that girl. I was a mess until i met my now husband and my love and the father of my kids🖤, he is so mature so i started to see life differently, (also the ex married that girl). I feel like the memories of my first love are hidden behind a door in my brain, i forget about them but once triggered by a song or a smell or a movie that remind me of the past, the door of the past opens and memories hurt me, my heat ache so bad i feel sadness for the beautiful moments and anger for the betrayal, i fear dying with these memories and never forget the past
CB Viau yes my ex of 10 years broke up with me day before my birthday in March now he is getting married next month. Feels like I was a joke and he never loves me now. He is the man I always wanted oh well nothing but happiness for them
He's the one that got away. We were engaged to be married, but he moved home across the country and I wasn't ready to leave the place I've lived my entire life. I promised to save up from late fall through spring and then join him, but by the time winter ended he stopped answering my calls and faded from my world faster than I could say "please, no." He got back together with his daughter's mother .. I saw pictures of the happy family about six weeks ago. If I drove out there now, I would be breaking up that little girl's parents for the second time .. and I can't bring myself to do that to a child. That woman gets to hold my entire world in her arms at night, while I have this useless ring and a few scattered shirts of his that I still wear on the nights I can't fall asleep. She gets to look into the eyes that I fell in love with, hold the hands that moved my world, and hear the laughter that healed my broken soul .. I just hope she appreciates everything that he is because he's the closest thing I ever had to a soulmate. Their daughter, my inability to make big decisions, and my stupid stupid communication issues are the reasons he chose to give up on us .. and that breaks my heart over and over every single day. I'm so sorry. I don't even know what to do or say. All I know is that I should have gotten on that plane with him and now it's too late.
I'm am so sorry, I know how it is to live with that regret. Hopefully sooner than later life works itself out and you will find true love. I understand your pain.
I was listening to this song 3 months ago with a man that I didn’t truly give my heart too and here I am now listening to the same song with the man who I gave my heart to when we were 15. So I got the boy and now I’ve got the man!!! I got the glass ring and now I have the diamond and the wedding band. Sometime love just wins
28 YRS I Had him at his best ..NOW SHE CAN HAVE THE REST !!!! She can never have the wonderful memories we shared and she will never have his heart like I did I don't care how you cut it our love was true love from the start no one told us how to love each other It all came natural and homeweckers NEVER REALLY WIN in the End.
I went back to my parents home country where I went to high school, I saw my high school crush after 12 years and found out he is now married! I saw him singing at the restaurant where I was at. He used to be the school singer and now he goes around singing in restaurants and events! He has released a single and is doing great! We didn't officially date but we did kiss and I felt something really special for him! Now I think I'm in love and he told someone from the restaurant that he had been so in love with me in high school!!! I never knew!!! :(
So I’m sitting here... casually watching my one tree hill when I see the name Jana Kramer come on the titles. I knew I had heard that name so I googled it and WHAT DO YA KNOW!!! She literally sang one of my favorite songs of all time!
As a married man that has a past first love, I think this song is beautiful. Anybody who has a healthy relationship and memory box will tell you it's a beautiful thing to look back on and see how far you've come, how much you've grown and the important people that helped you get there. Appreciate your significant other's past because it's why you have them as they are today
100% agree!!!
Thank u
Totally agree my brother!!! She has a beautiful voice and love to drink some beers listening to her music and can't believe she doesn't get more recognition for her music!!!
Love this song until my buddies find out and pull my patch😂
Jana needs to date Zac brown or Kenny Chesney LoL seem like outstanding guys!!
This song deserves billions of views... So underrated.. This breaks my heart thinking of all the people who had gone through this situation...
I’m going through this right now, we were together almost 4 years, broke up about 10 years ago and haven’t spoke since, I never stopped loving him and never will, he’s happy and getting married this year, breaks my heart but I try to be happy for his happiness because he deserves it, god I miss him though! I wish it could be me marrying him 😢💔
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@@justjessy2148😢 My heart breaks for you. It’s so hard loving someone who does not love you back.🥺
@@georgiabarker6852 it really is! He got married a couple of weeks ago, broke my heart all over again! Thank you for your kindness ♥️
I love this song. I'm blessed to get the boy and the man. I was 14 & he was 16 when we got together. We have been together for 21 years. This April we will celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary.
@kelli Gadlage congratulations. Hope we're both blessed with many more
this May will be 21 yrs for me and my other half, I was 19 and he was almost 21
My parents 18th wedding anniversary is in may this year but I'm so happy for you their 10yrs apart but its nit the age that matters it's the love that counts
@@johnfarrell6512 bless them
@@melissabelcher2811 thanks
I still love him more than anything else in my life...but I am happy to see him with his happiness...I just want him to be happy and live a healthy life... I wish I could send this song to him but it's not possible...so I am just leaving this comment so that whenever someone will like the comment I'll be back here to listen to this masterpiece with the all memories 🖤✨...keep loving guys and don't forget to tell your loved ones how much they meant to you 🖤🌹...
Girl, i just wanted to tell you, you are amazing person because you are happy to see other's happiness. I'm dealing with the same thing but my man wasn't the right one for me but i want him to be right for the person who genuinely love him. Take care of yourself and don't worry soon your perfect one will find you❤
@@fahmidaislam7528 thanks for your lovely comment dear ...I know you will also get someone who will be perfect for you🖤✨....
Can you tell us your story with him just a little bit? I really wonder what happened to you cause .. how this kind of things happen when they still love each other..?
I feel you, I was able to send him this song but seeing happy makes me happy. We both have our lives and the only thing that we both understand and cherish is each others family but our love will always be there.. 😢
Just a reminder
This lady has the most sweetest voice I ever heard. Love her singing!!!
I met Jana maybe 2 years ago while delivering her kids furniture and she was really cool. The guy who she's been with the past few years has been treating her how she should've been treated her whole life. He was cool as well and likes to ride motorcycles is what got us to chatting.
I cried the first time 2 days over this song. It sure does hit hard. He reached out after 12 years to see how I was doing. He's happily married and I'm just me
😔💜💜💜💜💜😘
Same for me! Be Well!!
I'm just me that's all matters I guess stay strong n happy. Love from some unknown with a similar past😊
Dont worry ur time will come❤️
Me too!!!! I looooooove jana she is my favorite singer ever. i love how she's so open with her feelings and I'm only 11 and I will relate someday hopefully no but......
Lyrics:
I saw your picture in a paper
Honeymoon in Jamaica, she's a lucky girl
You look so grown up in your black tux
From a ball cap in a pick up, seems like another world
You and me and our big dreams, falling in love
We were two kids in the backseat, all fearless and young
I got the first kiss and she'll get the last
She's got the future, I got the past
I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band
I got the boy, she got the man
Yeah there's an old you that I knew,
Fake IDs to get into those spring break bars
Back woods on a four wheel, hanging on tight
I can still feel my racing heart
And now you're cleaned up with a hair cut, nice tie and shoes
If things were different and I had a choice, which would I choose?
I got the first kiss and she'll get the last
She's got the future and I got the past
I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band
I got the boy and she got the man
I got the first kiss and she'll get the last
We each got something, the other will never have
I got the long hair, hot head
She got the cool and steady hand
I got the boy and she got the man
I got the boy and she got the man
Tysm for the lyrics!!
Thanks for the lyrics sweetie
Thanks im doof
Hannah and the store and the kids are you and you are a little left out of your room and the boys and the girls have a few minutes and I think 😂 tu is going 😄 and then I'll be there in a minute but I have to go you can come in and then get it done right now and I'd like to get it turned eyy❤
Today was the first time I heard this song and that made me remember my first love, it was like a flash back from the past, I remembered when he realized that I was feeling the same way about him, his eye were shining so bright, he had this big smile in his face and he couldn't stop staring at me, he said that I was sweet and beautiful, he seemed to be so happy, and when we kissed for the first time that was magical, I remembere our hearts beating so fast, being nervous and the butterflies in my stomach, I also remember asking him what was he thinking at, and he gave the same answer every time I asked, "you", that was so sweet, he went back to his country and wrote me the most beautiful love letter ever, but we were to young, living thousands miles away, and it wasn't supposed to last, now twenty years later I am a mature woman, I got married with a wonderful man who love me so much, and I have a beautiful daughter, I am very happy, but I guess there will always be a small place in my heart that will always belong to that little thing called first love, I hope everything turn out to be good for him and I wish him the best, he will always be my first love and my husband my soul mate !!!! 💕
❤
This song means so much to me. My "boy" passed away after being close friends for over 40 years. His lovely wife is devastated, as am i. Cherish every moment.
Awww this made me cry
😢💜🙏🏽
My ex wife called me and told me to listen to this song. Wow how true it is! I was married to my first wife for 22 years after we met in high school!A lot of up and downs but I don't regret our marriage. Have 3 wonderful children, I was just a immature boy. Now I am married again and my current wife ended up with the mature man! True song!!
If you don't mind sir . Can I know your story!!
I got the boy and my ex new wife got the man! But I am happily married to the man of my dreams!
Loving someone who you can never have is a different type of pain.
so true i still love someone ill never have
He was my husband for six and a half years. Then he started a new job. He left me and our two very young kids
Yes I think I’m not good enough so i never will
Imagine loving someone you had and they stopped loving you💔🙂
You are so right! I'v been fighting these feelings for so long. I'm worn out wish I could forget her.
This song made me feel so sad. Not for me but for my husband’s ex wife. They got married when he was just 19 years old. He was too young to be the man she wanted him to be. Today I have the loving, responsible husband she wanted. I feel bad for her. I’ve even heard her say it in her own words.
I married my first. Did I miss out? Nah. I’ve seen everything. The boy who grew into an outstanding man who serves our country. ❤️
My first love sent me this song a few years back. At a time I thought she had forgotten all about me, Made me question a lot of things. She took her life a year ago and this song always brings back all those good memories we had years ago.
Joseph Rodriguez ☹️😢
I'm so sorry ❤️
😭😭
Sorry
So very sorry.
I had the "boy" for 20 years, marriage, raised 7 kids. Alcohol, drug and cheating problems.......eventually it all ended very badly. So much struggle and hurt. Now, at the age of 47, he's cleaning himself up and moving on to a 26yo girl......I got and was stuck with the boy and she'll get the (developing) man that I always wished he would become for me. This song brings instant tears but I love it.
I'm sorry Stephanie D. My bf and I have been together for 6 yrs. I'm in ♡ with this song. He is 13 yrs older than me. And I think of how lucky I am to have him now. How much he has changed.And is an actual man now. .
also reminds me on my 1st love 16 yrs ago. :( He and his new wife are so happy. and he treats her better than he ever did me.
+Stephanie D No offense, but seven kids o-o
xCriBabyLyricsx I have had 6 kids...and adopted one..... some people like big families...together we have 11..
Cortney Swi It was just I was planning only 2 lol Your family is perfect have a great life
It's adorable to have such fond memories of being someone's first love, but there's something even more satisfying in being the one who ends up being everything they were always looking for and more. ❤❤❤
I got the boy in 7th grade, October 6th 2013. We were in love for as long as I can remember. Living close enough to walk, family friends, same church, mutual friends in school. We were high school sweethearts. He went into the military and we pulled through still. Sending letters, so sweet and old fashioned. We were on and off during these times because he kept choosing alcohol, clubs, friends, video games, and so much more over me and more importantly over God. It was very heart breaking to watch. I went to college and sometimes saw him when he came back home on vacation leave. He reached out to me while I was on a missions trip in Australia. Ready to get back together, get married and move in together. I prepared to be a military wife because I knew we could get through anything. But old habits came back in and I knew I deserved better. Now I watch him with a wonderful woman who is also in the military. She's the girl that took his virginity at a party in high school. (something he lied to me about that I am finding out now) But they have a lot in common and he's happy. That's all that matters I guess. He treats her so good. Just makes me feel like the practice girlfriend. Like he had the trial run with me so that he would know what to do in "real relationship". I know I deserve better, just wish Those 7 years weren't wasted.
yep, a lot of years can be wasted on relationships. so sorry yours were wasted :( maybe find something positive out of that one?
They weren't completely wasted were they?? Bc you've grown a little wiser out of it all, yes? Also, you now know exactly what you want & what you don't want ((won't tolerate)) out of a life partner right & even better yet--- You're Wisdom out of it all has shown you-- that you love yourself more than he ever could--((which is extremely important)) bc you knew you deserved better than his lack of love, ect...Idk about anyone else,but me personally--I'd think that id just be ever so grateful to have had love in the first place---If even for only 1 day,,,rather than being alone & not knowing what it felt like at all yanno
Those years weren’t wasted, they helped you become who you are.Sounds like if you would’ve stayed together then maybe both your lives would’ve been wasted. Think about it: we only marry the final person we dated. All of the others are preparing us for that last right one.
Its crazy that Jamie Lynn Spears wrote this song. She said she felt as if it wasn't her song to sing, but it was her story. Jana Kramer does a beautiful job bringing the song to life.
Wow thats crazy I didn't know I love this song so much
Didn’t know that Jamie Lynn Spears was one of the writers. Amazing lyrics
She didn’t write it herself
She helped but 2 other people wrote it
I love this song. My HS boyfriend is happily engaged with two little boys of his own and I know he’s happy. I’m truly happy for him. He wasn’t the one for me nor I for him. I found my ever lasting person and I’m happier with him than I’ve been in a long time. I may have had the boy but I didn’t want him as a man. He’s happy and so am I. 💛
I met this beautiful girl when we were very young we spent some beautiful times together. 35 years has passed and we are reunited. It's like a dream came true. It's our 1st song
tears rolled out,& I don't know why...damn,she's good😒
You are cate
Me too
Loving someone who you can never have back is a different type of pain.
Yup
your coment is so true im going through it now and it is a special kind of hurt
very true
True that !
Sure is
Wow! Very impressive. The lyrics are like back in the days when country was true. Thanks Jana for sharing your vibe with the world!
my heart is crying🥺
Jamie Lynn Spears was the songwriter. :)
We don’t search for old songs…
we search for old memories.
❤
I saw my HS swearheart right after this song came out. Introduced her to my wife. That night she dedicated this song to me on the radio in our little old home town.
aww
🤩
@@nezukokamado821 firhfj
Awkward...🙄
Haha that's awesome!! I married mine at 15 and 17 so I got the boy and got to watch him grow into the man he is. So lucky 👨👩👧👦💕
I absolutely love songs like this bc of the comments. I lowkey live for reading these breakup stories
😂😂
Omg lol they're entertaining 😩(they kinda are 😂)
Yesss same!! 😂
Agreed 😬😂
Same lmbo
Perfect for the old saying...
People come into our life's for a reason...
Some are a blessing and some are a lesson
Great song
I keep having goosebumps whenever I hear this song.
Me too
My “boy” was amazing. We grew apart and he moved a couple hours away. He ended up passing away right before we made things “something” again. This song haunts me as much as it heals me.
So sad
Lyrics :) tnx me later :P
I saw your picture in a paper
Honeymoon in Jamaica, she's a lucky girl
You look so grown up in your black tux
From a ball cap in a pick up, seems like another world
You and me and our big dreams, falling in love
We were two kids in the backseat, all fearless and young
I got the first kiss and she'll get the last
She's got the future, I got the past
I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band
I got the boy, she got the man
Yeah there's an old you that I knew,
Fake IDs to get into those spring break bars
Back woods on a four wheel, hanging on tight
I can still feel my racing heart
And now you're cleaned up with a hair cut, nice tie and shoes
If things were different and I had a choice, which would I choose?
I got the first kiss and she'll get the last
She's got the future and I got the past
I got the class ring, she got the diamond and wedding band
I got the boy and she got the man
I got the first kiss and she'll get the last
We each got something, the other will never have
I got the long hair, hot head
She got the cool and steady hand
I got the boy and she got the man
I got the boy and she got the man
Tyy
Thank you
This is for my true love my first husband he died sadly when we were 36 we were together since we were 18 we had all these first together i cry every time i hear this wonderful song.
May his soul keeps resting in peace
Sorry to hear that
Absolutely love Jana Kramer. Her Voice is so calming and she's absolutely stunning.
This woman is so beautiful and has an amazing voice how could anyone break her heart. Everyone complaining about the video being all about Jana but she's gorgeous and the emotion she puts into her songs is just amazing and did I mention she is gorgeous and beautiful and amazing and that's all that matters
That Voice, OH MY GOD, we need more voices like hers and her BEAUTY DOESN’T HURT ❤️
💖
One of the lucky few who didn't have to choose, the boy or the man. I got both. I was 16, he was 19. He's now 30 and I'm 27. ❤️ Grateful to have it all, I don't wanna share a single moment.
I heard this song on Pandora today for the first time and absolutely fell in love with it. Because it has nothing to do with jealousy or being angry or any of that, it's just the reality of growing up and how time changes us. ❤
amazing, heartbreaking and beautiful song, I love the sound of the dobro! let's bring it up to #1!!
Lorenzo Floris I actually agree with you. This is probably one of the best songs she's ever done.
Lorenzo Floris Totally agree! This is one of my new favorites right now.
This song makes me remember my dad. It came out right after he passed away. I remember listening to it on the way back from his memorial service. It made me cry. It still does. My mom got the boy, and my sister's mom got the man.
I can remember crying in my car to this song when it first came out. 4 years after highschool we reconnected and I got the man and the wedding band.
Even after so many lines " I got the boy and she got the man" hits different ❤️ pain bonded with sadness has it's own taste this masterpiece shows it perfectly 🌹
My Dad made me break up with my true love when I was young, and after 43 yrs , he found me on FB and he has loved me all these years too. He is Married with a beautiful family and we can only be friends now, but it's nice to know that true love does really stand the test of time.
Very mature of you both for respecting his wife and marriage by leaving it at friends between you.
Lorna Hagerman awesome story
Merry Christmas everyone with love from Toronto.
Chuck Schell ty Merry Christmas to you and your family from Toronto :)
Robin Quick I would never hurt anyone like that because I know how I would feel. Thank you for your comments :) Merry Christmas from Toronto
My ex just got married. We were each others first love. Everything went bad when we lost our baby. I'll always love him and wish him the best. I am so thankful he and I were able to grow up together and have so much fun! My entire childhood was with him till I turned 20! Now I've been married for 15 years with 4 kids, to an awesome man that I love dearly. He has given me more then just our marriage and our children. Hes given me trust, love and a best friend. My ex and I have run into each other a few times since. And just like before it's like we never stopped loving each other. It's always hi and bye. (Nothing more) we're better off as friends or just memories. We are totally different people now. I wish he and his beautiful wife the best and many years of happy marriage! And a healthy, strong baby in the future.
I like your story
@@asmaelbiar5759 me too
I also still love my 1st love ,i always wish him the best things because i never feel anyone like him ,his voice always melts my heart ,i never forget him ,now i dont love anyone like him because he is olny one that i loved
You still love him? You’d leave him for your husband if he asked?
I think you dropped the ball. I think people are supposed to marry their first love, or it wouldn't talk about first loves in the Bible. When one person drops the ball, or tries to leave prematurely, unless for adultery or formication, then they really let the other person down. Becoming one in flesh is hard to shake. I remember I saw something go into my eye and it was the spirit of flesh of my first love and it positioned itself somewhere in me. It hurts when she left or leaves and it's about twenty years later and it still hurts. I'm happy I didn't commit suicide.
This song was written about me and the love of my life. I fell in love with him 25 years ago but we never married. I got the boy and she got the man is so true. I still love him after all these years and would take him back in a heartbeat.
One of my favorite country songs - amazing vocals, and very well written! Good job Ms. Kramer!!
Jamie Lynn Spears wrote this not Jana
I'm completely obsessed with this song. Her and her style of music are both amazingly awesome. Something about her lyrics just resonate in my my life. I love Jana
you are very sexy
+LoveRoryandJess .....jamie lynn as in brittneys sister
Thanks for answering me ,, i will take a listen ,
Omg Alex Dupre is still making music!! I loved her and Haleys (Bethany) songs. Totally miss OTH. I can't see her as anyone else but Alex Lolz I guess she was that good of an actor. Same way I can't take Sopia Bush seriously on Chicago PD
same i really miss that show
+Adut Mabior My feelings wrapped in one comment.
+Adut Mabior hahaha same i can´t take sophia seriously on chicago PD
Omg same! Love the original Jana fans :)
+diego chialva I see she's trying to be good in the show too! Have you seen Julian ( Austin) on the walking dead playing a wose! I was so mad I almost punched my TV! He's better then that. And Chad Michael Murray in Fruitvale Station. I still love him but i hated the character he played in that movie.
Going to play this and cry one day when my first love gets married. Makes me cry just thinking about it. Wish he knew how I still felt over 10 years later. I love you ddm
I first heard this song on the radio when it came out and I've been searching for it since. I'm glad I finally found it lol
After 22 years I was reunited with my first love and we married!! So I got the boy and I got the man!
Shane Gibbs lucky you
Wow amazing yeah something about that first love.
Every man i meet still acts like they need to grow up . Its probably a problem with the type of men im choosing. Thats awesome. My ex husband and i still can't seem to get along well enough to co parent 2 Corgis. Let along any kind of human . I couldn't even begin to imagine it. In fact it scares me. But. It shows some men change
You got sloppy seconds. You weren’t good enough the first time. Or good enough to be the mother of his children. You’re good enough for the old, tired man.
Your so luciy, it's rare for someone to keep their first love.
I'll never forget seeing my ex's wedding announcement in our local news paper..,this song brings back bittersweet memories xo
Jana Kramer your eyes melt me at 2:40 in. You honestly look like you put real life emotion into that verse.
Needs a pin 📌
This girl can really sing and she also is a really great actress!!! Love her movies❤
I just heard this song this morning and almost immediately he came to mind and I swear it was like all our time together flashed before my eyes. All those years, all that work I put into helping you grow into a better man (not that you werent already near perfect in my eyes), all those moments... And then I thought of her, and how beautiful she is and how gorgeous yall are. That ring sure does look pretty on her.
Desiree Chapoy can completely relate my first love 15 just got engaged this month. listening to this song brought back all the memories we had and how I truly did get the boy and she got the man,
I got the boy when I was 14 he was 15 he's starting to grow in to a man now at 19 I hope I get to keep the man in him as I did the boy
+Rayven Hestermann world's *
Rayven Hestermann i got the boy at 14, still have him now at 20, hes still the boy i fell in love with plus growing into an amazing man. i got the first kiss and the diamond ring (promise ring)
+Kaylen Graham please don't ever say someone is better then you.
you happen to be in his life to mold him into a man... think of the wonderful great memories, the laughs.. ;-)
Always been a big fan and love her heart on her sleeve lyrics that relate to everyone. She's so underrated and deserves much more recognition. Absolutely beautiful songs and woman
It gives one hope that there's still actually some song-writers and artists recording real Country Music. Undeniably great song and a singer that made me believe her.
Henry-Joe Murphy she didn't write this song..
Stefanie Poll I just meant in production and thematically speaking this is "authentic" country music and the young singer was very convincing. It's a departure from the C-RAP (country + rap) so prevalent on "Country" radio today... Loved the song, the production and the singer. Most Country "artists" (sadly) do not write their own material; however, that's made Nashville a great haven for song-writers who are not necessarily great singer nor seek fame and all it's snarers. Thanks for the reply. God bless you.
Stefanie Poll Yeah, I sang "Forever and Ever" at two gigs today! (A wedding and a bar!) He's awesome! He will overcome!
Jamie Lynn spears Britney Spears little sister wrote this song lol
She isn't good ,she is great
This song hits different now, thinking about it from 8 years ago when I had my first real love which also happened to be my first heartbreak. We met in summer at the lawn tennis court where we met unexpectedly, as he lived in the city. At first we were fine although were in a long distance relationship. He gave me poems and there are times that he goes back to the province to see me. One day, things got rough and it was my fault to begin with- I chose the other person instead of him. We were happy but I tried to find myself. When I realized I still love him, it was the end, he already met someone else. Through the years we broke up, we still contacted each other out of the blue, plainly because of nostalgia upon missing each other. At that time, he is still overcoming the darkness in his life with her.
Fast forward, I was happy upon seeing him the same girl was with him throughout the “dark phase” in his life. Maybe we were too young at that time to learn about love and sacrifice. I am happy the girl was with him when times I wasn’t there. Seeing their pictures make me remember what was “ours” in the past just like this song. Right now, I am happy that in the middle of reminiscing the past, I no longer feel the same pain as before. 😊
2:13
This song breaks my heart...takes me back to another time. I almost can't even listen to it because it stirs my heart so.
I couldn't be happier my high school sweet heart. His wife made him a more of amazing man. It's been years. I'm happily married myself. Memories Never Fade. Thank God for unanswered prayers. Look at us now friends for life.
Sara Jordan my husband was married be for me n I believe he is a better man now n his ex is married n happy too
Sara Jordan my uncle
Sara Jordan so funny I think about my high school sweetheart as well, and yes thank god for unanswered prayers knowing now what my young heart wouldn’t see, he was not the one for me at all. We’re still friends and he still makes me giggle but I’m better off now with my husband... BUT you can’t take away those young love memories!
😂😂😂”thank God for unanswered prayers”
Sara Jordan Same with me I’m so glad I dated my first love and didn’t marry him.
The older I get the more a song like touches my heart. Been all over the world, seen the absolute best and the worst side of people. When I was young, I couldn't hear the wisdom of a song like this, had I listened perhaps ... who knows how things would have turned out. A solid friend of mine who I had served with over many years said "Bro, if it was meant to be she would be here, at your side, right now." The Truth hurts.
" I can still feel my racing heart "
This line hits hard!
Same, literally had flash backs of us on the four wheeler racing our friends on top of a mountain, I was holding on to him for dear life laughing my head off and felt like I was literally flying from adrenaline
@MorbidBabex I can relate
i got the boy and i was lucky enough to have him as my man...i love you Joseph!!
I love you 2!
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE IS GETTING MARRIED, AND THIS SONG REMINDS ME OF US WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER💕 LETTING GO OF SOMEONE YOU HAVE LOVED SINCE YOU WERE 16 YEARS OLD AND NOW IM 40 IS UNBELIEVABLY HARD😞
it will get easier
I’m a guy and every time I play this song it tears me up. Every time I wish she would get the boy and make the man, like my wife did. If you have been through this don’t give up, the ONE for you is out there. He’s lost, go find him and make him yours forever! HUGE fan of Jana’s!
Jana, when I heard this song for the first time I thought you where singing about me. The video is outstanding you live every word with your eyes. You go girl!
Man...feeling old, I remember watching her sing this at her concert at the NYS fair. Feels like yesterday, man how time flys, live it up everybody, don't waste a minute, make fun outta each one!! Trust me!
I got both! I married my high school sweetheart!! 34 yrs, 3 children, 4 grandchildren. Still love him more then anything!! My heart and soul!
Not everyone can be as lucky as you
Boy this song hits home for so many.
Robin Quick
Yeah me too about my 1st husband we we're basically just kids!! I love this song. Sometimes I wonder what if we would have meet later in life. Unfortunately life is full of what ifs!!
Robin Quick question
Xxx
I've got a daughter now, and I'm with her mother who is an angel. The only thing I wish I could change is not hurting the girls who loved me before. If by some chance you see this as a young man do your best to be the best most loyal partner you can be because even if it doesn't work out you won't regret being a good man. But from my experience I can tell you that you'll regret being a bad man.
Man oh man the first time I ever heard this song all the memories of my first love came rushing into my head. All the wonderful memories. I got the first kiss but she'll get the last. You two are so cute together and I bet if and when you put a ring on her hand it'll be beautiful... Thank you Steve for all the beautiful and wonderful memories of us. I'm just happy that you are happy... We will always have our first!!!!!!!
I love this song but jana has a point, there's a girl somewhere out there who got the first memories, the FIRST of everything from some guy. Always makes me wish I got the first of everything from my guy. But then she's right again, I got the wedding band in the end :)
So true. The girl who got the boy wishes she could have the last, and the girl who got the guy wishes they could’ve had the first.
Curtis whaley.
Who
I'd rather have the last than the first😏yes I get upset when he says oh I've been there already I've done that before BUT I'd much MUCH rather be laying next to him at night then be his first... whatever!
Jana: I like the contrasts you make in the song. Memories are often bittersweet, and you make the contrasts well.
edgar porras she didn't write it.
skulls16 no she didn't. Jamie Lynn Spears co wrote it 4 years ago with 2 other writers
+Harry Shriver so happy to see more of Jamie Lynn work again. she a very good writer
What a beautiful woman. Everytime I watch this . I go crazy and what a magnificent voice ! Just watching her sing is amazing!!
Even as a guy this relates in such a major way. I was so immature, long hair, crazy, all hopped up on youth and a couple of beers. Then came the real world, and life moved on. I still think about the girl that got the boy, but I'm happy with the woman who got the man.
I got 14 years of the boy with all the anger and the controlling the cheating and the bad times. U got the man with responsibilities and a good heart.
Same here but i got the older one who`s irresponsible a drinker & smoker i guess it`s time to leave
Does anybody also miss
ONE TREE HILL when she was an actor she is so AMAZING‼️‼️
creative footprint YESS !
Kiana Barrow Yes loved her as Alex Dupre,
And a good boy and girl who has a lui the you can
brooke davis (;
I love that show.
Wow, this song swells my heart and eyes. I don't think about it much. People use to say young love doesn't last, purest I ever had nothing to give but our hearts.
I think....even though I do miss him sometimes....I wouldn't trade having the boy for nothing. It was the best of my high school years. He is the father to my daughter, I think he is happy, and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
The incredible voice of a stunning woman! Could listen to her singing all day long :)
I use to hurt that I never got to stay with my first love, and that he married another woman, but now I see that I will always have a part of him that she will never have; and She got that part I never will.
Angelica Romero
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Perfectly said.
That hurts reading it but beautiful to understand
You’re pathetic.
With this song she touched the deep pain inside of many🥲... But it's okay they were bad or good memories but they are mine😌
I'm on season 8 of OTH and I heard this on the radio and I was like " this sounds like Alex. Oh shit, it is " 😂😂 she has a wonderful voice.
Great song Jana. You have a beautiful voice and the song speaks to me, God bless you for sharing your gift with everyone.
THIS IS SOO SPOBY!😭YVONNE SCREWED UP EVERYTHING!
SPOBY FOREVER!!
My ex got married few months ago and this song gives me smile... I'm so glad he found love and stability again.
Man she's STUNNING!!! 😍😍😍
Oh the feelings this song stirs up. Love this song, and Jana Kramer.
I'm blessed to say I've met the love of my life and we are each others first love and will be each others forever love.. We are each others first everything.. Now we set the date and we're getting married in a few months and we couldn't be any happier.. I got the boy and the man and the best part is seeing the transition in maturity of the person you will love no matter what life throws at you.. I love you baby, forever and ever amen❤
That's the same story as me and my girlfriend! ❤
I was 11 and he was 13 when we first fell in love, i really got the boy, he truly madly loved me but when we became 19 and 21 things Turned around and a girl who have been tempting him for years and years won his heart, i was immature and insecure and didn't know how to handle things, i fell into depression for almost three years while he has beem enjoying falling in love with that girl. I was a mess until i met my now husband and my love and the father of my kids🖤, he is so mature so i started to see life differently, (also the ex married that girl). I feel like the memories of my first love are hidden behind a door in my brain, i forget about them but once triggered by a song or a smell or a movie that remind me of the past, the door of the past opens and memories hurt me, my heat ache so bad i feel sadness for the beautiful moments and anger for the betrayal, i fear dying with these memories and never forget the past
Damn ! Which country you from im from india
Wow. These lyrics can touch base with so many people: me included.
CB Viau yes my ex of 10 years broke up with me day before my birthday in March now he is getting married next month. Feels like I was a joke and he never loves me now. He is the man I always wanted oh well nothing but happiness for them
Mine real story I went to college now I am he's past and she is his future always wish him the very best 😊😊😊😊
He's the one that got away. We were engaged to be married, but he moved home across the country and I wasn't ready to leave the place I've lived my entire life.
I promised to save up from late fall through spring and then join him, but by the time winter ended he stopped answering my calls and faded from my world faster than I could say "please, no."
He got back together with his daughter's mother .. I saw pictures of the happy family about six weeks ago. If I drove out there now, I would be breaking up that little girl's parents for the second time .. and I can't bring myself to do that to a child.
That woman gets to hold my entire world in her arms at night, while I have this useless ring and a few scattered shirts of his that I still wear on the nights I can't fall asleep. She gets to look into the eyes that I fell in love with, hold the hands that moved my world, and hear the laughter that healed my broken soul .. I just hope she appreciates everything that he is because he's the closest thing I ever had to a soulmate.
Their daughter, my inability to make big decisions, and my stupid stupid communication issues are the reasons he chose to give up on us .. and that breaks my heart over and over every single day. I'm so sorry. I don't even know what to do or say. All I know is that I should have gotten on that plane with him and now it's too late.
Kira Nicole damn this made me choke up, I’m so sorry to hear that 😔 stay strong
I'm am so sorry, I know how it is to live with that regret. Hopefully sooner than later life works itself out and you will find true love. I understand your pain.
Life does that...youll be good..."i promise"
you will be fine, you will find the man belongs to you
Kira I feel your pain
I love this song... Jana is as beautiful as her voice & the lyrics are perfect!!
I was searching for the lyrics in the comments but ended up reading a lot of love stories 😀❤️😘
I was listening to this song 3 months ago with a man that I didn’t truly give my heart too and here I am now listening to the same song with the man who I gave my heart to when we were 15. So I got the boy and now I’ve got the man!!! I got the glass ring and now I have the diamond and the wedding band. Sometime love just wins
Five years later and he shows up to my work he’s married happy and with kids now, crazy to say but I still miss him
There's reason it was not you.
I feel the same way sometimes 🙂
28 YRS I Had him at his best ..NOW SHE CAN HAVE THE REST !!!! She can never have the wonderful memories we shared and she will never have his heart like I did I don't care how you cut it our love was true love from the start no one told us how to love each other It all came natural and homeweckers NEVER REALLY WIN in the End.
This was the first song that he played on the guitar and I sang with him.
He passed away at 18 I miss him too much.
It’s been 7 years since I’ve listened to this song and I love it 🥰
I went back to my parents home country where I went to high school, I saw my high school crush after 12 years and found out he is now married! I saw him singing at the restaurant where I was at. He used to be the school singer and now he goes around singing in restaurants and events! He has released a single and is doing great! We didn't officially date but we did kiss and I felt something really special for him! Now I think I'm in love and he told someone from the restaurant that he had been so in love with me in high school!!! I never knew!!! :(
So I’m sitting here... casually watching my one tree hill when I see the name Jana Kramer come on the titles. I knew I had heard that name so I googled it and WHAT DO YA KNOW!!! She literally sang one of my favorite songs of all time!
Lyrics ! Relatability ! Goosebumps! 💓