5 Steps to Stop Buying Clothes You Don't Wear | Style Over 50

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  • @StylebySheila
    @StylebySheila  Рік тому +10

    It's spring and a great time to update your wardrobe. How is your wardrobe looking?

    • @vickibuster1927
      @vickibuster1927 Рік тому

      Trying everything on and weeding out what doesn't fit or look great.

  • @leslie5595
    @leslie5595 Рік тому +32

    Shopping alone works for me. No pressure from well meaning friend.😊

  • @adriennejones5741
    @adriennejones5741 Рік тому +19

    So great to have your videos back! Love your advice - and you look absolutely BEAUTIFUL 🌼🦋.

  • @debbieflango2180
    @debbieflango2180 Рік тому +22

    loved this video and came at the exact right time- I am retiring and going through my closet and just donated approx 75% of my work wardrobe... like you said, there are items left that I have not worn for 3 years. you have given me the courage to go and donate the rest of my work clothes. BTW you look fabulous in pink :)

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +2

      Good for you! All you'll need now are comfortable gardening clothes.

    • @Bugsybear2
      @Bugsybear2 Рік тому +2

      I'm retiring too. I want a stress free closet.

  • @cyndipetray6420
    @cyndipetray6420 Рік тому +8

    Great video. I know my style and how to buy what suits me. However, one mistake I make is buying for my “fantasy life” and not always my real life.

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +1

      Thank you. That's a great way to refer to it - love it!❤

  • @sandratroutman6544
    @sandratroutman6544 Рік тому +5

    Hi Sheila! I used to be a compulsive shopper. For years I had clothes with tags I never wore. I would get buyer's remorse but would continue the same shopping patterns.
    When some drastic changes happened to my finances, this behavior stopped. I got in the habit of only buying what I needed and made sure that I absolutely loved that item of clothing, shoes or accessories before I headed to the checkout.
    I have been shopping like this for about 5 years now and I am very happy with what my closet looks like now.
    These are great tips you gave today! As you said, you have to look at how and why you are buying these items. So true!
    You look so pretty in pink and your necklace is beautiful!

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +1

      Thank you. I"m happy to hear you're happy with your closet now.

  • @heloisachaves8414
    @heloisachaves8414 Рік тому +13

    Great advice as usual! I actually had one exception to the “I’ll use it when I’m smaller” never happening. I had my eye on a pair of gorgeous light blue suede pants ❤, when they went on sale (they were still expensive) I did not hesitate. They were a size smaller and it took me two years to fit in them! But it happened🎉.

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +4

      That's great, you met your goal and have beautiful pants. I'd never say never but in general it doesn't happen.

    • @gailwilliams5278
      @gailwilliams5278 Рік тому

      Congratulations - but did you have to replace the rest of your wardrobe too?

    • @heloisachaves8414
      @heloisachaves8414 Рік тому

      @@gailwilliams5278 I had many of my clothes taken in, and some were still ok. ❤️

  • @sharronwolfe7711
    @sharronwolfe7711 Рік тому +6

    Great advice! This is a project I’m tackling, so appreciate your step by step method.
    So good to see another video by you! You’re looking wonderful and I pray you’re getting better every day! Still praying for you! ❤️🙏🏻

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +3

      Thank you Sharon and I'm happy the video was timely.

  • @lizm4557
    @lizm4557 Рік тому +8

    Great advice. You've opened my eyes! It was tough to hear but spot on. Now I know the reason I have a closet full of clothes that I don't wear and I can avoid it in the future! Thank you so much.

  • @joanmillard1020
    @joanmillard1020 Рік тому +6

    good advice, as usual. Love your necklace!!

  • @sandylynch6676
    @sandylynch6676 Рік тому +4

    I need to do some Spring cleaning out my closet, most definitely.
    Thanks for the great steps .
    I will work on it .
    Love your multi colored pearls 💕.

  • @marinarehren7076
    @marinarehren7076 Рік тому +5

    I found it tough to listen to this video but it is very helpful. I agree: It truly is important to know why we buy clothes and then don't/cannot wear them. Because of the guilt that causes I often find it difficult to think about the reasons, but it will help me in the long run. Thank you for your advice

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +3

      Don't worry about the past - release it and start new.

  • @sharonworyn1911
    @sharonworyn1911 Рік тому +5

    Sheila, I am an Associate at an upscale retailer and many women shop in a panic for a special event, vacation clothes, or a funeral or memorial service. If you shop when you have time and plan ahead you won't have things in your closet you don't wear. Those panic purchases are often things women buy because they need them right away rather than choosing things that fit and are flattering.

  • @eileenkilworth6950
    @eileenkilworth6950 Рік тому +3

    Thanks Sheila....I find I buy on sale stuff too often & when I'm trying it on it looks good. A few weeks later I may think "oh I'll wear that too" then I think whatever possessed me to buy it! I have just recently done a big cull of my wardrobe & try & buy things that I need when I recognise I need a particular item. I have in the past purchased items that look good on someone else, I don't do that anymore. At 64 I'm buying for my petite frame.

  • @Kay-fv7cw
    @Kay-fv7cw Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this, I never questioned why I buy somethings. I've realized I buy because it's on sale or I have a coupon and it's a deal. I usually don't wear those items because I don't have a purpose for those items. Again, thank you, these questions made me realize some things about myself!!

  • @catharinacamenisch752
    @catharinacamenisch752 Рік тому +2

    It is really great you are back - congratulations and all the best to you🫶

  • @lindenj6155
    @lindenj6155 Рік тому +1

    Sheila, your tips are so helpful. My current strategy for decluttering my wardrobe of clothes I haven't worn for years is this: if it suits the occasion, I either have to wear it, or discard it. Just this weekend I've removed three dresses and two tops as I realised I really do not want to wear them any more.
    PS Your new look is fabulous. So elegant. 🌟

  • @StylishandGrateful
    @StylishandGrateful Рік тому +2

    I agree Sheila! Great tips that I have found DO work! 🌸

  • @jedwardsish
    @jedwardsish 3 місяці тому

    I love your hair. You made a great decision!

  • @bellaheblan8479
    @bellaheblan8479 Рік тому +2

    Great ideas! Thank you! You look great!

  • @ElizabethVoth-v5d
    @ElizabethVoth-v5d Рік тому +1

    Good morning Sheila! I’m from Canada 🇨🇦 it’s so good to see you back! This is a great reminder! I gained wait and I have a hard time getting rid of some of my dresses and skirts 😢

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Lovely, where in Canada? You don't have to get rid of them right away if you've gained weight recently or if it's difficult to do. Put them somewhere out of your closet and give it a few months.

  • @lauracote726
    @lauracote726 Рік тому +1

    I so needed this video. I absolutely love your new hair style and color.

  • @lynnharmon3476
    @lynnharmon3476 Рік тому

    OMG...OMG Your hair and style makes u look like u r knowledgeable about what u r talking about. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!

  • @khwamlisaspringer3181
    @khwamlisaspringer3181 Рік тому +2

    Good to see you again

  • @rebageorgiadis3861
    @rebageorgiadis3861 Рік тому +1

    Just what I needed to hear! Great necklace, looks wonderful.

  • @yvonneadrian734
    @yvonneadrian734 Рік тому +1

    I haven't watched your channel in a while and wanted to tell you your hair looks fantastic!

  • @clgrant2043
    @clgrant2043 Рік тому +1

    Hi Sheila, love the video and helpful tips. I have learned to remove items of clothing that were taking up space and I was not wearing. It is so freeing to do this. I have learned so much from your videos, thank you and you look fabulous in your pink colors. 🥰

  • @sandimahorsky2538
    @sandimahorsky2538 Рік тому

    Thank you this is encouraging. I keep wondering why I have to buy more hangers. My goal this month is to organize my closet.

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      You're right it does require more hangers and that's a tell-tale sign.

  • @marg6196
    @marg6196 Рік тому +1

    Great video. I appreciate your professional advice. It's hard to find real stylists on youtube for our age. I always learn from you❤

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Thank you, you're right. There aren't many my age left ( I know most of them) and they aren't online. I'm a style die hard, LOL

    • @marg6196
      @marg6196 Рік тому

      @@StylebySheila There are a gazillion you tubers our age throwing out personal advice masked as professional styling. YOU are the real deal.
      I didn't mean to focus my comment on age as much as true professionalism.

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      @@marg6196 That's okay Marg, I understood it the way you meant it. It's possible to become very confused because there's a lot of conflicting information. I've put a lot of work into this over the years. I love style and I love it when women are happy with what they're wearing and happy about how they look.

  • @jacquelinejefferson1876
    @jacquelinejefferson1876 Рік тому +1

    Really love the silver hair.

  • @lynnharrell9598
    @lynnharrell9598 Рік тому +1

    3 seconds into the video, and I had to pause to say how pretty your hair is. You look so lovely.

  • @pajamamama5965
    @pajamamama5965 Рік тому +1

    So helpful! I bought two Puffer vests last fall that fit correctly the colors were great and I couldn't wait to wear them when the weather turn colder. However the first time I wore one I noticed that it was making a swishing sound up near my ear that I found annoying. I tried it again another day and same thing. Needless to say never took the tags off the other one or even more them again. However when I went to take it, back it was too late. Now I see it's ridiculous that they're still hanging in my closet LOL I need to donate them ASAP and other items as well. Thank you for the wake-up call!

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +1

      The swishing sound couldn't have been anticipated - who would have ever thought. You had the fit and colour right.

    • @pajamamama5965
      @pajamamama5965 Рік тому

      @@StylebySheila exactly. It was actually really disappointing but thankfully I didn't spend a whole lot on them.

    • @Bugsybear2
      @Bugsybear2 Рік тому

      That's funny. I bought two letter vests to wear around the house. Wore the black one until the zipper broke and the stuffing was pretty worn.

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      @@Bugsybear2 You certainly made the right choice.

  • @leoniestephens7070
    @leoniestephens7070 Рік тому +1

    Hi Sheila. How right you are about buying clothes and not wearing them. My husband made me a dress during lockdown. I have gained weight since then so don’t feel good in it any more. I can’t get rid of it though, because of all his effort. You are looking great , hope you stay well. Love L🌺🌺

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Thank you! I understand, that's one of those sentimental items that you can put away and maybe you'll get to wear it soon.

  • @markettharkinson8366
    @markettharkinson8366 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video. Information given that I needed to hear! So glad you are back to help us with styling.

  • @heidimeigs5192
    @heidimeigs5192 Рік тому

    Your necklace is fabulous. I love pearls and have been known to wear mine with a casual jeans outfit. I used to buy clothes for a life I wasn’t even living. I finally came to my senses and stopped that nonsense.😁 I also stopped buying clothes that really didn’t go with anything else. The majority of my wardrobe can now be worn together. Most importantly I no longer buy things I think I “ought” to own. I do not own a LBD or heels. I don’t socialize in any type of event I would need one. I hate heels, they make my feet hurt. All of these realizations did not come to me until I was well into middle age. But better late than never.

  • @heididanas772
    @heididanas772 Рік тому

    Excellent video as always Sheila. Great to see you!

  • @SimplyKatieWalks
    @SimplyKatieWalks 7 місяців тому

    Yes it does happen! I lost 85 lbs over the past year. Now I have no clothes because i dont know my personal style anymore. Im living in tennis dresses till i somehow figure it out.

  • @lisamonsma4423
    @lisamonsma4423 Рік тому

    I haven’t watched your videos for a while. I love your new hairstyle!

  • @brendajackson294
    @brendajackson294 Рік тому

    Thanks so much for helping me to think correctly.

  • @peggydavis6418
    @peggydavis6418 Рік тому

    I love your hair. The color is absolutely beautiful. ❤️

  • @sis9622
    @sis9622 Рік тому

    Awesome

  • @maryrose7842
    @maryrose7842 Рік тому

    I don’t get the occasion to wear many of my clothes but I still love clothes.
    I love the necklace that you are wearing.

  • @loiscrowe914
    @loiscrowe914 Рік тому

    Hi, I love your videos. So helpful ! But really what I want to say is I LOVE your hair and your new look !! You look fabulous !!

  • @silviasvab7473
    @silviasvab7473 Рік тому +1

    God bless you Sheila 🙏

  • @lindamagness1167
    @lindamagness1167 10 місяців тому

    Your hair makes you look sooo much better.The black made you look old.

  • @pamelab1175
    @pamelab1175 Рік тому

    This was a great video. I have been pretty ruthless when I have been cleaning out my closet. I have a lot of denim jackets. Some I have had for years. They may have to go in the next clean out. I also have a few white button down shirts. I don’t wear them because I have three dogs. And if they jump on me they will get a white shirt dirty. And we have orange mud here. It sometimes doesn’t come out of white. I will probably keep a couple of them. But I’m sure I can get rid of at least one. I need to clean out my closet again soon. I still have some winter items in it. And I live in the south. So chances are I won’t be needing too many long sleeve shirts. I also have the closet in the guest bedroom. I need to get rid of most of the clothes in it. I do have my blazers in there. Those I will keep. But it has v dresses in it. One they probably don’t fit me anymore. And I don’t wear dresses very often.

  • @patschneider5671
    @patschneider5671 Рік тому +3

    Love this advice! I am retired since 2006 and donated a lot of work clothes that year. Then had a lot of shoes and dressy clothes and mailed this to a sweet friend in another state last year. We no longer go out as much as we did. Life changes need more appropriate clothing.
    Love the question ‘why do I have this in my closet??’
    I try not to think of what I spent. I want to concentrate on ‘other people needing it now’. Really cleared heels out this way. Ha! I now have great flat shoes now and wear mostly pants these days.
    Love your jewelry and your top! Great colors for you!!
    Hope you are feeling better daily. I enjoy your shows. I’ll be age 74 on April 29 this week. Going from wearing professional work clothing to this retired mode has been a long Journey. I’m saving more $ now by not impulse shopping.
    I still love scarves and jewelry but I am donating a lot if this also these days. Having more space is a big deal! I am downsizing our home also. Clearing out the house snd dresser drawers started me on the house project.
    Best Regards, Pat in Colorado

  • @debrabazik4248
    @debrabazik4248 Рік тому

    I have 2 very different styles that I like..minimalist and boho. How do I let myself keep both of these in my wardrobe? Do I have to choose? And this is why I have too many clothes.

  • @brentdawe5809
    @brentdawe5809 Рік тому +1

    You are looking very stylish!

  • @memaperm9553
    @memaperm9553 Рік тому +1

    I have closets full of clothes that no longer fit me because I've gained weight. It's time to get rid of them!!

  • @zorymartin3250
    @zorymartin3250 Рік тому

    Thanks

  • @LuxDivas
    @LuxDivas Рік тому

    Hope you are feeling better. ❤❤

  • @judithrobinson8344
    @judithrobinson8344 Рік тому

    I need to shop on my ownx

  • @orzellagregory9781
    @orzellagregory9781 Рік тому

    great video excellent food for thought

  • @rhillyermiles
    @rhillyermiles Рік тому

    Great tips!

  • @eviestas
    @eviestas Рік тому +2

    I recently lost weight and all of my dresses and tops are too big. I have to remove them and just by a few classic pieces in my new size. I have clothes in my closet from the 90’s in size 6 . They have returned in color and style .

    • @lisahill5744
      @lisahill5744 Рік тому

      Could some be altered to your new size? I would only do those items you truly Love.
      Congrats on the weight loss 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!

    • @cfarmer2298
      @cfarmer2298 Рік тому

      Yes. I laugh because I should have kept my clothes from the 90s. They seem to be coming back for sure. 😁

  • @annsaelens4425
    @annsaelens4425 Рік тому

    Thank you 🙏🙃

  • @carolbaratta3663
    @carolbaratta3663 Рік тому

    Your hair style is amazing. So becoming.

  • @jackielundstrom647
    @jackielundstrom647 Рік тому

    You look great! Any chance you can share your necklace brand and availability?

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Thank you Jackie. I bought that necklace a couple of years ago at a local boutique. If you search the Internet for 'multicolour, multistrand, pearl necklace' you might find something similar.

  • @alphiaaugustin9162
    @alphiaaugustin9162 Рік тому

    Relevant and useful 👌

  • @nothinglikesweett
    @nothinglikesweett Рік тому

    Hi nice video I really appreciate how we woman’s over 50 such as myself create content for women’s over 50 😊 I tend to wear clothing that fit my appearance and style 😊I don’t buy things am not going to wear. I buy items that would showcase my style and sexiness. Thanks 🙏 for sharing.

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +1

      Thanks, sounds like you know what you're doing - great to hear!

  • @furry.friends
    @furry.friends Рік тому

    You look stunning!! 💜💜💜💜

  • @idahadzic7695
    @idahadzic7695 Рік тому

    I have to say : you are looking great!

  • @raquelloera6004
    @raquelloera6004 Рік тому

    I love the rythm and pitch of her voice

  • @FrenchTwist
    @FrenchTwist Рік тому

    LOVE LOVE LOVE your naturaL HAIR COLOR

  • @nelly8592
    @nelly8592 Рік тому

    Thanks you very much for this video and the thoughts you made me get about why I have so much clothes I don't wear.
    My "problem" is that I buy too much pretty elegant clothes. They all are very stylish and fit me very well. I love everything I own because I feel pretty when I look in the mirror with them on me. BUT.... most of them I can wear only on special occasions. And I don't have much, that means my clothes are worn sometimes only a very few times. I work from my home, I don't have much social activities and when I go out with my husband in a restaurant I love to wear my elegant outfits but I have much more outfits possibilities to wear than occasions... I am sad, that I am not anymore working at a office like I did. Then I used to dress every day another nice outfit. But I can't anymore unfortunately...😔
    I still enjoy everytime I go outside to wear something I love, even if it' s just for an hour 😊 My problem is that I love too much good elegant style and everything I buy and love suits me too well 😉 and it's not casual enough for my real lifestyle.

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      I understand completely. I suppose if you look at the positives - you always look great, you always have something to wear and you'll never be stuck with a special occasion and nothing to wear, that might make having all those wonderful clothes seem better. Sometimes if you look you might find events that you wouldn't have known about. I know this is true for me, if I don't actively search for 'what's going on' I don't know about it - usually.

  • @dianejaynes3982
    @dianejaynes3982 Рік тому

    You look beautiful. Love the natural hair color.

  • @LaurelMcBrine
    @LaurelMcBrine Рік тому

    what is your lip colour! pretty!!

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Thank you! The colour is FASHION and you can find it here:muse.meritbeauty.com/sheila5

  • @christinesutherland6267
    @christinesutherland6267 Рік тому

    I am new to your channel and am learning a lot from you! I gained 20 pounds over the covid lockdown and I am now on a weight-loss regieme to get back in shape. I currently have 2 sizes in my closet (pre-covid and what I wear now). So, I definitely have some cleaning out to do! Thanks for all your advice. I love your hair. Who is your stylist?

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Hi Christine, I'm happy to hear you're learning. This is a wig, you can go back four videos to the one 'What's going on with me" to find out why it's a wig.

    • @anneavenell3691
      @anneavenell3691 Рік тому

      @ Christine Sutherland - I did the same. It’s taken me the best part of 9 months to lose the weight but this week I finally made it.
      It’s very hard and I wish you the best of luck.🙏🤗

  • @catharinacamenisch752
    @catharinacamenisch752 Рік тому

    Sound advice as always

  • @lauracote726
    @lauracote726 Рік тому

    I am a greying autumn color palate. I used to be very warm but my grey looks silvery beige. How do you change colors to suit greying hair and fading complexion?

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      I colour analysis will do that. You can check it out on my website.

    • @inglishhomeandgarden8386
      @inglishhomeandgarden8386 Рік тому

      It sounds like you already have an eye for your own colours, since you notice you are going cooler.
      Simply holding up garments in different colours to your face, and noticing how they make you look and feel, may help you decide what still looks good on you, and what hues feel too overpowering.
      Adding some tops or scarves in somewhat cooler, softer colours, can help you 'fade into' your softening palette.
      Perhaps explore some teal/turquoise for a new top?
      Coral/watermelon may also be a softer choice than some of your classic autumn choices.
      Maybe put aside your warmest mustards and golden browns.
      With a few tweaks, I'm sure you can still keep a lot of your existing warderobe, while bringing in just a few new colours/hues, for some new exciting combinations.

  • @christinekellyrose9435
    @christinekellyrose9435 Рік тому

    More great fashion advice!

  • @ThyGirlnextdoor
    @ThyGirlnextdoor Рік тому

    If you have clothes with tags on to donate(I hang my head in shame), should the tags be removed before donating? Great video, really made me think. Thank you

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +1

      It's nothing to be ashamed of it's just about learning. I'd keep the tags on.

  • @Neidytrozeski
    @Neidytrozeski Рік тому +3

    You’ve lost weight ❤, wonderful video! You look amazing ❤❤❤

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому +2

      Yes, I've lost a lot but it's slowly coming back.

    • @Neidytrozeski
      @Neidytrozeski Рік тому

      @@StylebySheila I lost about 40 pounds in December of 2021, because of Covid. I actually liked my new weight. Gained just a little bit back. Let’s see the good in everything 😂. May Jesus Christ bless you ❤️

    • @Neidytrozeski
      @Neidytrozeski Рік тому

      @@StylebySheila I pray for the total recovery of your health🙏

  • @kathydilorenzo9744
    @kathydilorenzo9744 Рік тому

    When I am at my thinnest, I shop, mostly on line. If I’m a little heavier, I don’t want anything that fits thinking I don’t want to be that size. In other words, I justify.

  • @gracedarlenemcpherson9079
    @gracedarlenemcpherson9079 Рік тому

    You look beautiful with blond hair! It really suits you.

  • @virginiahofmann1266
    @virginiahofmann1266 Рік тому

    My husband bought me a horrible sweatshirt with words on it that he thought was great. I don't like it at all
    I keep it because he bought it for me
    It's quite heavy and takes up a lot of space in my small portion of our closet 😞

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      What do you think you'll do, are you going to wear it? Or, not wear it but keep it because he gave it to you?

  • @greeneyedmimibostian3013
    @greeneyedmimibostian3013 Рік тому

    Thrift shop. Please😊

  • @cathyhartness1144
    @cathyhartness1144 Рік тому

    You look great.

  • @conniemurphyover70stillgla47

    HI SHEILA Thank you for information. new friend Connie :)

  • @inglishhomeandgarden8386
    @inglishhomeandgarden8386 Рік тому

    You look lovely in that shade of pink.
    How are you doing?

  • @elisalozano4862
    @elisalozano4862 5 місяців тому

  • @dinnykelly6763
    @dinnykelly6763 Рік тому

    I buy Clothes because I like them when I see them and then I just don’t get to wear them

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Are you buying really fancy clothes?

    • @dinnykelly6763
      @dinnykelly6763 Рік тому

      @@StylebySheila no. I’m guilty of buying some trend pieces that I end up not wearing

  • @Giannas1096
    @Giannas1096 Рік тому

    If my weight would stop fluctuating, I would buy less clothes 🙁

    • @StylebySheila
      @StylebySheila  Рік тому

      Weight fluctuation certainly creates a need for more clothes.

  • @streaming5332
    @streaming5332 Рік тому

    If you have brighter colour hair you don't need so much makeup on your face.