Steve Harvey CANT STOP PANDERING.

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  • @lakeem946
    @lakeem946 4 роки тому +5125

    I'm really tired of the "I speak for all *blank*" people

    • @norastorm99
      @norastorm99 4 роки тому +395

      Haven't heard much of ''I speak for myself"

    • @MisterCastro5
      @MisterCastro5 4 роки тому +137

      The whole we talk is lame af

    • @RizztrainingOrder
      @RizztrainingOrder 4 роки тому +137

      Excuse me, I speak for all the people who use the “I speak for all” phrase and I’m offended!

    • @austins.1102
      @austins.1102 4 роки тому +220

      Facts fam I be hearing dudes like Steve Harvey say “As men we-” WHO TF IS *”WE”* ? You speaking French?!? Nintendo Wii?!?? People gotta start speaking for themselves frfr

    • @phibie8853
      @phibie8853 4 роки тому +44

      Man them not realizing that their experiences and opinions arent universal ://

  • @bigjohnconnect
    @bigjohnconnect 4 роки тому +1969

    Steve Harvey starts all of his answers with
    “Let me SIMPlify it for you”

  • @Novous
    @Novous 4 роки тому +3200

    Steve Harvey knows how to make gullible women give him money. Straight pimpin

    • @vishnuvargas7559
      @vishnuvargas7559 4 роки тому +67

      The comment that says it all.

    • @CdrChaos
      @CdrChaos 4 роки тому +132

      He knows his audience and how to get their money.

    • @agthaog1986
      @agthaog1986 4 роки тому +47

      hes the comedian whos none comedic ....version of al Sharpton lol

    • @Lutestick
      @Lutestick 4 роки тому +55

      Exactly he isn't simping. He knows exactly what he is doing

    • @popstarprincess123
      @popstarprincess123 4 роки тому +5

      Truth so much truth
      I don’t understand what happened
      I think he needs some single guy friends that enjoy their life

  • @jaimeherrera4995
    @jaimeherrera4995 3 роки тому +2036

    Steve has been married 3 times and cheated on 2 of them. But go ahead ladies listen to him 😂

    • @Omnivoid22
      @Omnivoid22 3 роки тому +53

      to be honest. The reason why he can give advice is cuz he made those mistakes and he sees what happens. So he can give that advice to prevent others from doing what he did. Its sound. I wouldnt take advice from someone who has never been through nothing. So steve is more than qualified to give advice on this subject matter. him being married and failing 3 times is EXACTLY why he can

    • @whitestone83
      @whitestone83 3 роки тому +240

      @@Omnivoid22 In your opinion, is a man who married three times and cheated twice more qualified to give advice than somebody who is happily married over the same amount of time?

    • @Omnivoid22
      @Omnivoid22 3 роки тому +12

      @@whitestone83 in terms of seeing how his mistakes affect other, yes. You learn frim yohr mistakes. Even if it takea you 2 times or so. Failure is you learn. Hes happily married now, right. Someone who has done no wrong is not someone i wouldnt take advice to.

    • @whitestone83
      @whitestone83 3 роки тому +116

      @@Omnivoid22 An interesting thought. But couldn't a person who has done no wrong give advice on how to do no wrong? Another question? Is there an amount of divorces so high that you would not listen to a person, or does an increasing number of divorces make someone more qualified to give advice?

    • @Omnivoid22
      @Omnivoid22 3 роки тому +3

      @@whitestone83 yes they could. So that is a good way to look at it. however , thats not the case here. Steve has been through marriage 3 additional times and failed . Each time him learning and getting better. This 4th time he got it right. Hes also old enough and has the experience as well.

  • @Hanzo1
    @Hanzo1 4 роки тому +4835

    Yeah, lets all take relationship advice from someone who's been divorced like 6 times.

    • @sibs544
      @sibs544 4 роки тому +281

      Like Henry the eight except without the beheading

    • @warturtleprime4480
      @warturtleprime4480 4 роки тому +36

      King henry refrence

    • @warturtleprime4480
      @warturtleprime4480 4 роки тому +2

      King henry refrence

    • @sibs544
      @sibs544 4 роки тому +44

      @@warturtleprime4480 Yep he had 6 wives too

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 4 роки тому +42

      I’m sorry. How many times have he been divorced?

  • @Megelos
    @Megelos 4 роки тому +1432

    first and only thing he should've said "go talk to him, not me."

    • @NotAdultingToday
      @NotAdultingToday 4 роки тому +91

      Yup. I don't get the need to ask some stranger on a tv show or online what to do. Be adult. Talk to the other person. If you can't, either call it a day or get some couples counseling.

    • @hoihallo2904
      @hoihallo2904 4 роки тому +37

      True, he is assuming what kinda guy the partner is without knowing him. Only one with the answer is her partner.

    • @greatestever7623
      @greatestever7623 4 роки тому +17

      That’s just how steve makes his $$$$$$ by simping and pandering he the derek jaxn of this shit but on a massive scale

    • @thomas-stilinski8149
      @thomas-stilinski8149 4 роки тому +14

      @@bullshark3771 right like what the fuck if you talk to him maybe he'll tell you

    • @lightkira4119
      @lightkira4119 4 роки тому +18

      Do you really need advice if you are too stubborn to even consider talking with your man.
      She came to ask Steve if she should sit down and talk with him. Anyone could have told her that. She didn't even say what she brings to the relationship.

  • @Tekka579
    @Tekka579 4 роки тому +744

    Steve "I cheated on all my women and did them dirty" Harvey.

    • @donatello9482
      @donatello9482 4 роки тому +83

      His telling women what they want to hear😒 consequence of that is that he is steering young men the wrong direction. If they are unfortunate enough to watch his show

    • @cookiegirl891
      @cookiegirl891 4 роки тому +7

      Lol for real 😭😂

    • @austins.1102
      @austins.1102 4 роки тому +46

      @Jordan Decker Facts bruh’s a Chad in simp clothing. Bruh’s just selling these women a dream and telling them what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear.

    • @shooklizard9039
      @shooklizard9039 4 роки тому +9

      @@austins.1102 thats what he does to his wifes...tell them everything they want to hear so he can get away with the cheating its manipulation

    • @loopymomy2532
      @loopymomy2532 4 роки тому

      Yikes lol didn’t know that

  • @emperorziko6321
    @emperorziko6321 3 роки тому +211

    She's been ghosting for him for months, but still gets emotional thinking about the proposal? She doesn't want him. She wants a wedding.

    • @MrsDazl
      @MrsDazl 3 роки тому +11

      Fair point, but in my experience, (because this actually happened to me), I thought about the first man who proposed to me a lot even though I knew he was toxic even after I had started dating someone else. I couldn't let go of the potential "maybe it could work out" of things. But I left him alone, accepted that how i felt in that relationship made me feel lower than low and wouldn't actually change, then found someone better and married him. Still content with that decision. But not every woman is me. She could, as you stated, just want the wedding and the ring

    • @ThomasBoyce5000
      @ThomasBoyce5000 3 роки тому +17

      I'm willing to bet that if he gives up and moves on she'll lose her mind.

    • @tracyhector1711
      @tracyhector1711 3 роки тому

      CHUUUUCH

    • @theelectricprince8231
      @theelectricprince8231 3 роки тому +1

      A red flag

    • @iki12737
      @iki12737 Рік тому

      he doesn't want him man😂

  • @Meidaneh_Shush
    @Meidaneh_Shush 4 роки тому +1886

    Steve Harvey should debate Wendy Williams on relationships and moral values. An unstoppable force meeting an immovable object.

    • @ImpulsivelyBree
      @ImpulsivelyBree 4 роки тому +71

      I would to see those two go at it. It would become a shouting match so quick

    • @burdenernie6050
      @burdenernie6050 4 роки тому +87

      @@ImpulsivelyBree for a second I thought you wanted to see them have sex with each other.

    • @Tobi_10k
      @Tobi_10k 4 роки тому +26

      @@burdenernie6050 😂

    • @bloodandbonezzz
      @bloodandbonezzz 4 роки тому +56

      They will cancel themselves out like matter and antimatter would.

    • @alexdietz7362
      @alexdietz7362 4 роки тому +11

      I laughed because even though idk who you're talking about, we all know harvey is the object.

  • @ghostk-7926
    @ghostk-7926 4 роки тому +1665

    Steve Harvey should write a book called “Simpology”.

    • @haiqal5333
      @haiqal5333 4 роки тому +17

      LMAO someone should write that as a psychology book!

    • @Braylon1997
      @Braylon1997 4 роки тому +23

      He and Derrick Jaxn would make the book #1 in the country 😂😂

    • @vdotme
      @vdotme 4 роки тому +13

      *The tricks of Simpology. 😂😂😂😂

    • @KAMProductions
      @KAMProductions 4 роки тому +16

      Introduction to Simpology - Steve Harvey, Instructor

    • @greatestever7623
      @greatestever7623 4 роки тому +6

      For dummies 🤪 or some shit

  • @karo3529
    @karo3529 4 роки тому +1249

    Steve just tells these women what they want to hear. Nothing more.

    • @mrrreddy8067
      @mrrreddy8067 4 роки тому +65

      Isn’t that what most women want.

    • @swaedank1029
      @swaedank1029 4 роки тому +1

      @@jepkofficial teach me

    • @aClownBaby-
      @aClownBaby- 4 роки тому +1

      Yep. Thats his specialty

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 4 роки тому +7

      Like Derrick Jaxon

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 4 роки тому +7

      Which is an excellent marketing strategy. As much as we can hate it, "sales" is a huge part of life.

  • @FreeTans239
    @FreeTans239 4 роки тому +210

    Steve Harvey was talking about her ex fiancé like he legit knew him 🤔

    • @BigSykes
      @BigSykes 4 роки тому +16

      That will show you how much of a clown Steve really is

    • @blueshanks1
      @blueshanks1 3 роки тому +6

      Yeah. And she didn't even give much info about the guy😂🤣

    • @Amb252
      @Amb252 3 роки тому

      That's because Steve Harvey was the ex fiance plot twist

    • @moonknight4053
      @moonknight4053 3 роки тому +1

      That was super weird to see it happens too In these shows n in real life

  • @ndumisomsomi9053
    @ndumisomsomi9053 4 роки тому +1428

    "I think Steve Harvey just Uno reversed himself. This is impressive." 😂😂😂👏👏

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 роки тому +9

      @Salem The Cat because he tells them what they want to hear. In this vid Steve is making sense. He's telling her that she must have his back - long term. That's how to keep a man. This message comes from a man.

    • @augustdavis7911
      @augustdavis7911 3 роки тому +5

      With only 2 people playing uno 😂😂 right back to himself 😂

    • @danemeyer008
      @danemeyer008 3 роки тому

      Steve Harvey is a Boomer. Hes playing by the old rules, following the old daying advice and doing things the traditional way as if hes dealing with traditional women.
      Steves is literally a Dinosaur. His advice is for an age that no longer exists.

    • @michaeljonathanking3322
      @michaeljonathanking3322 3 роки тому

      Oh my god that's what I was going to say 😂

    • @cosmic8437
      @cosmic8437 3 роки тому

      The beard changed him

  • @user-ue4yl1qj8j
    @user-ue4yl1qj8j 4 роки тому +499

    “He uno reversed himself” 😂😂

  • @jimmyp9105
    @jimmyp9105 4 роки тому +1333

    If this is real, she kinda ghosting him/not talking and she came on national TV to talk about there problem = if I was him, I would consider the relationship over.

    • @leehalloway8787
      @leehalloway8787 4 роки тому +42

      It seemed like they had broken up and she was not responding to him trying to contact her again. That is not ghosting.

    • @loopymomy2532
      @loopymomy2532 4 роки тому +26

      She called off the wedding. She’s ignoring him not ghosting him. She would have been ghosting him if he actually went through the wedding and she didn’t go.

    • @Koujujutsu
      @Koujujutsu 4 роки тому +1

      👏 Absolutely. 👏

    • @KenchiOMO
      @KenchiOMO 4 роки тому +95

      @@loopymomy2532 ignoring = ghosting 🤣🤣🤣

    • @loopymomy2532
      @loopymomy2532 4 роки тому +7

      Kenchi Kosmos ignoring is not ghosting fam. Ghosting is disapparing out of someone’s life like many men do after they impregnate a woman. Ignoring is giving the man the cold shoulder and not answering his calls, or seeing him in public face to face but not stopping to chat with him and just tell him there is nothing wrong lol.

  • @haji818721
    @haji818721 3 роки тому +111

    I love him on Family Feud. He needs to stay there.

    • @Romello.a
      @Romello.a 3 роки тому +3

      Absolutely

    • @Amb252
      @Amb252 3 роки тому +3

      He needs to stay there and never take his own advice because it's clearly not working out for him

  • @mikep8953
    @mikep8953 4 роки тому +834

    “Men are only loved under the condition they provide something” -chris rock

    • @Baz_09
      @Baz_09 4 роки тому +62

      @Lina Kumar the point is a man will never receive unconditional love from his significant other

    • @Baz_09
      @Baz_09 4 роки тому +32

      @Lina KumarI hear you. I think it depends on the relationship. Not every man is gonna run off, but those are the men who love the women for who she is, not just her physical appearance.

    • @mlewisbaltimore4947
      @mlewisbaltimore4947 4 роки тому +67

      @@Baz_09 And there are plenty of women who love men unconditionally regardless of what they can “provide”. The issue isn’t love the issue is struggle love. You can’t build a house with no foundation.

    • @CiaoColeG
      @CiaoColeG 4 роки тому +46

      And Chris Rock goes for much younger, beautiful women. No beauty, no love either. He dated a gorgeous young woman for years and they broke up because his love for her wasn't deep enough to give her marriage. He also tried Rhianna and was hurt that she looked at him like an old uncle.

    • @alexpond648
      @alexpond648 4 роки тому +16

      The manority isn't looking for a provider anymore. We can and want to provide for ourself, that puts men under pressure, to be something more than just that. We had to do a lot more to be valued and to be loved. Isn't nice to be on this end, isn't it?

  • @pololangford
    @pololangford 4 роки тому +1896

    She ghosted him for 5 months and still wants a ring?? Relationships over try again

    • @infinite-sadness
      @infinite-sadness 4 роки тому +192

      @Alex Reign yea initially, but she just called it off and ghosted him after he brought it up

    • @samroxeva
      @samroxeva 4 роки тому +33

      Next victim...

    • @Kiwikick238
      @Kiwikick238 4 роки тому +65

      Idk how long they were dating but that so quick to throw it all away damn

    • @michaelpollard439
      @michaelpollard439 4 роки тому +47

      He's probably done!! His heart was broken after postponing the wedding and not hearing from her at all that alone will turn you red pill and he still loved her!! He moved on!! Maybe!!

    • @jodawa2504
      @jodawa2504 4 роки тому +57

      @Shu maker, dude was ghosted for 5 months and the woman still wanted a ring. I wish a woman would ghost me for that damn long, let alone one damn month. That's not happening. I would've been gone in less than a month. If a woman ghosts me twice, let alone flake on me twice, third time would've been a wrap. Women who do that have no respect for men, recklessly causing men to waste their time. Dudes, this applies to women who you would consider a "baddie" and the "street thots."

  • @bestbigbros1102
    @bestbigbros1102 4 роки тому +159

    Damn son.. my dude Steve gave opposite advice for the same problem and both times it sounded very convincing. Just goes to show if you say anything with confidence, people eat that shit up.

    • @heedmywarning2792
      @heedmywarning2792 4 роки тому +9

      Weak minded people with no critical thinking skills (sheepeople) will eat it up.

    • @conradkorbol
      @conradkorbol 4 роки тому +4

      @@heedmywarning2792 maybe he felt different people deserve different advice

    • @heedmywarning2792
      @heedmywarning2792 4 роки тому

      @@conradkorbol Makes sense. I would serve a Phd holder a 5 star European meal, and I would serve a mentally handicapped person a hot dog with all the fixin's.

    • @leehalloway8787
      @leehalloway8787 4 роки тому +2

      Confidence and charisma can cover up a lot of bs.

  • @comet6740
    @comet6740 4 роки тому +535

    Steve harvey has no training in relationship advice. He is just a comedian and entertainer. I don't understand why people take his advice seriously.

    • @Cbd_7ohm
      @Cbd_7ohm 3 роки тому +4

      Womn*(not an accident)

    • @bowskee
      @bowskee 3 роки тому +25

      men definitely don't take his advice

    • @gpethst24
      @gpethst24 3 роки тому +11

      Because he's on the telly...
      And everyone who's on telly is extremely trustworthy... 😶

    • @lamarledennis3220
      @lamarledennis3220 3 роки тому +1

      I mean its entertaining and funny

    • @jahkarimirza7286
      @jahkarimirza7286 3 роки тому +6

      The jokes are on the listeners.

  • @erictheguapo
    @erictheguapo 4 роки тому +590

    Steve Harvey advice is like Chinese food. Sometimes its alright, other times it messes you up.

    • @amberdelivered06
      @amberdelivered06 4 роки тому +14

      You are hilarious.! 😆😂😂

    • @felixwankel3989
      @felixwankel3989 4 роки тому +22

      He like a bat outta...china

    • @poogedys8505
      @poogedys8505 4 роки тому +3

      A little sweet n' sour....

    • @hhPrimus
      @hhPrimus 4 роки тому +3

      Felix Wankel a virus...

    • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
      @user-ub8uc8gq7r 4 роки тому +2

      Chinese food still better than Mexican food 🤷‍♂️

  • @JoshDrumClass
    @JoshDrumClass 4 роки тому +729

    4:11 preach Face!!! 😂😂😂😂

    • @Serenade2461
      @Serenade2461 4 роки тому +50

      I'm absolutely dying. I'm just doing shit around the kitchen, glance up and meet Preach's eyes staring at the camera!

    • @JoshDrumClass
      @JoshDrumClass 4 роки тому +8

      @@Serenade2461 😂😂😂😂

    • @whizkidztutors8135
      @whizkidztutors8135 4 роки тому +12

      I don’t know why I saw this comment at the moment he made the face, I’m screaming 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @angrychimpanzee8621
      @angrychimpanzee8621 4 роки тому +3

      I was reading your comment ( I did not click the number link) then I look up and saw that same look.. I was like 😲😂

    • @MsWillowbayOrelse
      @MsWillowbayOrelse 4 роки тому +6

      I started thinking I had to confess all of my sins.

  • @oliviafarrahfowler
    @oliviafarrahfowler 4 роки тому +567

    Steve needs to stop talking. His stepdaughter was dating Future! What the hell kind of advice he gave her to make her want to date a man with 7 kids and 6 baby mamas?

    • @demetriusean
      @demetriusean 4 роки тому +76

      TOXIC KING 😤😤😈😈

    • @reabetswemokale1545
      @reabetswemokale1545 4 роки тому +45

      Maybe they don’t talk😂

    • @chadachi3970
      @chadachi3970 4 роки тому +113

      They say daughters date people who resemble their father figures.
      In this case his daughter dated a man with multiple failed relationships!

    • @puremoi8449
      @puremoi8449 4 роки тому +52

      In my country there is a saying "a doctor can't operate on himself" might be the case with ol' Mr. Harvey🤣😂 can teach other women but not his daughter

    • @larrywyche4076
      @larrywyche4076 4 роки тому +27

      Can't fault him for a stepdaughter that's grown as hell lol

  • @jrjr670
    @jrjr670 3 роки тому +93

    I got married when I was 26 years old and I had only $500 in my packet. So now I’m 40 and I got my own business 🙌

    • @cloudcampos4555
      @cloudcampos4555 3 роки тому +2

      Well done!

    • @joannawinters6592
      @joannawinters6592 3 роки тому +11

      When I got with my husband I had some cash and he had non, so we make our lives together and that's pretty cool to do that, some adventure to have.

    • @mihsan660
      @mihsan660 3 роки тому +1

      woah well done you

    • @moonknight4053
      @moonknight4053 3 роки тому +5

      @@joannawinters6592 Do women like you still exist? I’ve only met one ex that came in close… but shit happened sadly. Feels like women like that are only a once in a lifetime

    • @countalucard3405
      @countalucard3405 2 роки тому

      @@moonknight4053 modern women are fucked up or just Western women honestly

  • @D9ine
    @D9ine 4 роки тому +197

    Steve Harvey is the uncle at the cookout who be giving you game till all the fine young girls get around and he start simping

    • @AudioGAWD
      @AudioGAWD 4 роки тому +40

      Switch cookout with job and I had a coworker like that. That was tragic to watch.

    • @cookiegirl891
      @cookiegirl891 4 роки тому +6

      Jesus 😩

    • @dethroned4226
      @dethroned4226 4 роки тому +2

      💀

    • @tre.jluster2574
      @tre.jluster2574 4 роки тому +4

      I’ve seen this happen WAY too many times to count

    • @emanuelortega819
      @emanuelortega819 4 роки тому +4

      It’s so bad when people act different when other people arrive

  • @y2kmadd
    @y2kmadd 4 роки тому +179

    If someone gives you an ultimatum, give them directions to the door.

    • @bbbbbbb51
      @bbbbbbb51 4 роки тому +6

      Ultimatums are the adult version of temper tantrums.

  • @michaeltatum2610
    @michaeltatum2610 4 роки тому +202

    Steve "King of Simps"
    Derrick Jackson "Prince of Simps"

    • @shannysalcedo3627
      @shannysalcedo3627 4 роки тому +8

      Michael Tatum more like king and prince of sell outs...pandering for the $$$

    • @bryangolphin3839
      @bryangolphin3839 4 роки тому +2

      @@shannysalcedo3627 Who tf are they

    • @oldsoul3609
      @oldsoul3609 4 роки тому +1

      straight FACTS! ... 💯

  • @ThyKing25
    @ThyKing25 4 роки тому +616

    A wise and happily married man with everything told me this
    “If y’all waiting to get your shit together to get married, you’ll never get married.”

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 4 роки тому +60

      Sounds unwise and unhappy.
      Why get married when you have almost nothing? You'll get cheated on quicker than quick

    • @ThyKing25
      @ThyKing25 4 роки тому +105

      @@paulcarmi8130 they built everything they have together. People using the “get my shit together” excuse, don’t and won’t ever.

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 4 роки тому +30

      @@ThyKing25 what a bad generalization. Gross.

    • @ThyKing25
      @ThyKing25 4 роки тому +16

      @@paulcarmi8130 ok. Your opinion.

    • @dewanewelch1744
      @dewanewelch1744 4 роки тому +77

      @@ThyKing25 my mentor told me the same thing. He is a arms vet with a PHD in Psychology that studied at Havard. Pretty much he said the goal post is always moving. Every time you take a step you make more steps. Next thing he knew he was 50 with no kids and no wife. He eventually got married and adopted a son at age I think 59 but those were very wise words.
      Doesnt apply to people that dont want to be married though.

  • @837301
    @837301 4 роки тому +406

    This is what they meant by “sell your soul”...

    • @cjdaniels6912
      @cjdaniels6912 4 роки тому +6

      I want you to take my soul

    • @a.j.s.8049
      @a.j.s.8049 4 роки тому +6

      Man how he did Monique!?!?!? Made me really dislike him even more.

    • @user-yv2jn7bw1d
      @user-yv2jn7bw1d 4 роки тому +9

      Monique called it. She was so disappointed in him as am i

    • @lostdapack
      @lostdapack 4 роки тому

      @@cjdaniels6912 lemme have it

    • @helium-379
      @helium-379 4 роки тому

      @@cjdaniels6912 I will offer 500 Minecoins, 2000 Robux, and 1300 Vbucks.

  • @xstonedsoberx
    @xstonedsoberx 4 роки тому +183

    Steve should fight dr phil for that SIMP crown

    • @Dbanj598
      @Dbanj598 4 роки тому +17

      Lmao
      Heard that sumbish ain’t even a real doctor

    • @Iron-Bridge
      @Iron-Bridge 4 роки тому +1

      UN gonna need a binding resolution to prevent the ensuing chaos, bruh.

    • @TheSilverPlague
      @TheSilverPlague 4 роки тому

      @@Dbanj598 he had his license in Texas, i forgot why but I think he can’t practice in Texas no more

    • @jayc342009
      @jayc342009 4 роки тому

      i cant watch dr phil, always putting blame on the men and giving the women a pedestal

    • @thecensoredmuscle563
      @thecensoredmuscle563 4 роки тому

      @@Dbanj598 more of a Dr. than Mrs. sniffy Biden. That much we know lol

  • @akidmyself4053
    @akidmyself4053 4 роки тому +258

    The audience: Clapping seals.
    Harvey: A hypocritical parrot on repeat.
    Aba and Preach: Steal trap minds of elephants.

    • @off6848
      @off6848 4 роки тому +2

      Is this a poem? It’s gud

    • @quarantineddeku7368
      @quarantineddeku7368 4 роки тому +13

      @Avalanche you know that all you are doing is giving them more views, more views=more $, chances are you watch them on repeat so UA-cam thinks they you are a loyal fan, as you said you’re subbed and subbing makes their channel show up on the recommended lost more. I definitely don’t agree with them in so many points but I agree on some too. I understand where you are coming from but if you genuinely dislike them just don’t watch it.

    • @Draco100Round
      @Draco100Round 4 роки тому +7

      @Avalanche Low tier, try again🤦‍♂️

    • @2davivadiva
      @2davivadiva 4 роки тому +5

      Why do you call yourself an Avalanche?
      ....girl cuz you full of snowflakes!
      Oooooooooooohhhhh and YO Mama fat!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @harrylitzler7086
      @harrylitzler7086 4 роки тому

      @Avalanche woman moment

  • @asmranonymousgaming901
    @asmranonymousgaming901 4 роки тому +387

    He's been divorced more than 5 times.....but will call that "experience"

    • @autisticwolf3409
      @autisticwolf3409 4 роки тому +15

      ... so... 6 times?

    • @raymondgalindo6036
      @raymondgalindo6036 4 роки тому +14

      I think that same thing people who mess up a lot or go out being hoes think they have knowledge because of their “experience” yet they don’t know anything or can’t explain why things went the way they did. They never truly learn from their experience and develop a philosophy on how to live.
      “ a smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from other peoples mistakes” -Some guy I forgot his name
      I’d like to add to that quote and say some people never learn anything.

    • @swatpea4026
      @swatpea4026 4 роки тому +5

      He’s been divorced twice. Look it up. Currently been married since 07 so he must know sumthin lol

    • @dondiego1141
      @dondiego1141 4 роки тому +4

      @Ally Wilson and you're a fan of guys like Steve Harvey or Derrick Jaxn just because they constantly pander women, blame men, and teach them to submissive to women ? 🙄🙄

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 4 роки тому +2

      @@swatpea4026 He understands what can go wrong due to experience.

  • @cutoffslim2003
    @cutoffslim2003 4 роки тому +416

    I’m watching quickly this time before you disappear.
    Don’t ever disappear.

    • @mutegoldfish1158
      @mutegoldfish1158 4 роки тому +11

      Haha right?

    • @Animated_Artist
      @Animated_Artist 4 роки тому +13

      Thanos..??

    • @rodplays3726
      @rodplays3726 4 роки тому +5

      Same

    • @thegamesters6201
      @thegamesters6201 4 роки тому +5

      If he needs the break he needs the break

    • @SlyfyGummy
      @SlyfyGummy 4 роки тому +3

      Bro throw off my whole schedule. Went straight to class without breakfast this morning without my daily dose of big brain time

  • @johnh2118
    @johnh2118 4 роки тому +101

    Aba: "Preach, your tears sustain me. Your agony is fine wine."

  • @Cagon415
    @Cagon415 4 роки тому +436

    So basically, she's talking about dreams and the guy is focusing on reality.
    Seems about right.

    • @simp9602
      @simp9602 4 роки тому +29

      Disney has been slowly fuking up society for years

    • @CallMeMs.T
      @CallMeMs.T 4 роки тому +22

      Yes!! Its mind blowing to me that ppl just jump into engagement/marriage and don't actually talk about these issues beforehand. How do they have such opposite mindsets and just think it'll work itself out 🙃?

    • @AdventurousDana
      @AdventurousDana 4 роки тому +2

      This the hottest take right here!!

    • @josephpa05
      @josephpa05 4 роки тому +1

      Fact

    • @opuil
      @opuil 4 роки тому +2

      @Pro Justice still dreams that are not set in reality your biological clock is your clock not ours

  • @larchie67
    @larchie67 4 роки тому +49

    Anytime a woman demands of me to be engaged when I know we are not ready emotionally and financially wise I'm running.

    • @dirtdiv3r
      @dirtdiv3r 4 роки тому +5

      Emotionally, yes. Financially is irrelevant.

    • @dirtdiv3r
      @dirtdiv3r 4 роки тому

      @Student HannahBeatrix Valladolid Centuries of people marrying without much to their name, centuries of people staying married, building their lives together.
      Our society has it so backwards and no wonder divorce rates are so high. "I've got to graduate, get a career, buy a home, and then in my 30's I'll hopefully find a woman that will fit into the life I've already built." This is such backwards thinking. Love doesn't require money, neither does a lifelong commitment to another person. All it requires is just that, commitment.
      But hey, with divorce so high, you're right... y'all got it all figured out.

    • @dirtdiv3r
      @dirtdiv3r 4 роки тому +5

      By the way, my experience is not every person's experience obviously, but my wife and I met in college, got married 7 months later. After she graduated, she got a $35k/yr job and I was working for $8/hr. We rented a crappy apartment and were broke as jokes. Now we have two kids and collectively make $135k/yr and we have a good laugh about how poor we used to be. And we both know that if the money went away tomorrow, we'd be okay because we've been there before and we'll lean on each other. The problem with a relationship built on financial security, is financial security isn't always there. How will you handle it when it's gone?

    • @larchie67
      @larchie67 4 роки тому +1

      @@dirtdiv3r you are lucky to find the rare breed of woman patient enough to rough it out with you through thick and thin. I still stand by my sentiments and this is what I'll tell any young 20 something year old man looking for a relationship. It is most important to build yourself up first and I mean build as in emotionally , financially, spiritually and just learn what being a responsible man is all about. Alot of women out there are not patient enough to rough it with a man as you experienced with your wife. Know of one or two couples who had similar experiences like yours but alot of men out there been used, dumped and had their manhood challenged all because of finances when the man was trying to build himself up. What work and effort you put out as a man will attract a certain type of woman hence why I believe more it's important to build first. If you find that grounded woman like you did on your journey to building yourself, hats off to you!

    • @dirtdiv3r
      @dirtdiv3r 4 роки тому +1

      @Student HannahBeatrix Valladolid ? You're just repeating what I've already said, almost word for word. I think you're just looking for a fight to be honest.

  • @zayrobbs
    @zayrobbs 4 роки тому +847

    It’s sad how bad he tries to steer Men wrong....🤦🏽‍♂️and he’s the king of taking accountability off the women’s hand, smh🤦🏽‍♂️
    Check out the channel tho would be love, just tryna spread positivity ❤️💪🏽

    • @austins.1102
      @austins.1102 4 роки тому +79

      Facts I can tell Steve’s philosophy when speaking to women is “Tell them what they want to hear not the truth” 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @theprettypaw4615
      @theprettypaw4615 4 роки тому +7

      @Jordan Decker I have a feeling I know who you’re talking about. I can’t remember their name, but if I’m right then yes, they are huge on pandering. I hate how those dudes pander to women. It just hurts men and women, only helps the awful dating coach.

    • @beet1ej3
      @beet1ej3 4 роки тому +5

      It’s honestly soo extremely pathetic😐

    • @elisejackson2854
      @elisejackson2854 4 роки тому +2

      Him and doctor Phil.

    • @chri11203
      @chri11203 4 роки тому +5

      Men don't go to Steve Harvey for advice lol

  • @agoraphobicadam1171
    @agoraphobicadam1171 4 роки тому +647

    Women: Marriage Gives Me Security.
    Men: Marriage Takes My Security Away.

    • @phinaddict4857
      @phinaddict4857 4 роки тому +135

      Exactly!!! Dudes get finessed in divorce courts everyday. Modern day marriage is one of the biggest scandals to this date. Men dont benefit from marriage, Its time to wake up.

    • @heedmywarning2792
      @heedmywarning2792 4 роки тому +42

      Actually, it's divorce that gives women security. You see, a married man can get a lower paying job and not go to jail, but if a divorced man did that he would be behind on mandatory payments and that leads to jail.

    • @lawlessx9
      @lawlessx9 4 роки тому +49

      Exactly the fucking problem with marriage. That's why women wanna rush things after finding a good guy after a year and why they use terms like "lock him down"...they know it benefits the women more when she starts to get bored

    • @EspritsFantomes
      @EspritsFantomes 4 роки тому +24

      Try to find women who make a good amount of money, as much as you or more than you.
      I make more money than my partner
      if we get married and get a divorce, I have no reasons to take his money... maybe he will take mine though (that’s a possibility)
      Anyway I don’t think anyone should be talking everything their ex partners own: it’s a bit stupid.
      And If you can’t afford to raise kids on your own don’t have them with anyone else because you never know what’s going to happen in the future

    • @disabledbabe
      @disabledbabe 4 роки тому +9

      Marriage doesn't mean commitment. If we happen to die together, the man can write a will before he dies or give me power of attorney if he is alive and cannot take care of everything himself and vice versa.
      If we break up and he has become rich while we were together, I expect him to do right by me. And if I am richer, I would do right by him and give him something. Because often times, people forget the support their partners gave them which doesn't involve monetary value.

  • @theelaveaux
    @theelaveaux 4 роки тому +24

    I actually PERSONALLY agree with the financial clock thing. As a general blanket statement I think it doesn't necessarily apply to every man. But when I got engaged to make my partner happy I could never go through with an actual wedding because I didn't feel like I could focus on being a good husband and DAMN sure not a parent, until I knew I could give my family everything I felt they deserved

  • @ZackSNetwork
    @ZackSNetwork 4 роки тому +318

    I’m not surprised why Bernie Mac didn’t like Steve Harvey.

    • @Madametrill
      @Madametrill 4 роки тому +32

      @Randy Candelario That's been a rumor for YEARS!!! Plus Steve tired to snake Bernie out of a role.

    • @bosslady0000
      @bosslady0000 4 роки тому +1

      I've always heard they were great friends

    • @lungelomaziya4899
      @lungelomaziya4899 4 роки тому +15

      @Randy Candelario that's been like the known rumor about why the kings of comedy really split, Steve got envious of Mac as the guy on the group and trike to snub him of a role that was gonna be given to him

    • @bobot.chimpanzee8612
      @bobot.chimpanzee8612 4 роки тому +14

      Quick Google search will bring up numerous results about them feuding. Use the device you're seeing this on to look into it if you don't believe it. Smh

    • @thomas-stilinski8149
      @thomas-stilinski8149 4 роки тому +2

      @Randy Candelario most people know that lol

  • @O.X.N.
    @O.X.N. 4 роки тому +190

    I felt like Preach was staring at me like I did something to him in a past life 4:15 😂😂😂

    • @blackice7408
      @blackice7408 4 роки тому +13

      He was staring into my soul😆

    • @O.X.N.
      @O.X.N. 4 роки тому +8

      @@blackice7408 Right! I felt that energy 😂

    • @dannyleonard7
      @dannyleonard7 4 роки тому +6

      I read this right at 4:15, looked up from the comment and just see 👁 👁

    • @83Mosh
      @83Mosh 4 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hilarious

    • @O.X.N.
      @O.X.N. 4 роки тому

      @@dannyleonard7 😂😂😂

  • @manuelper
    @manuelper 4 роки тому +25

    Preach stomping around mad while Aba stares at the camera with a big smile is always my fav shit here, lmao

  • @jewel9797
    @jewel9797 4 роки тому +98

    So I'm supposed to work my ass off to give my money to a woman and let her control my life horrible advice 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @ike9440
      @ike9440 4 роки тому +12

      Why do you think most married men are miserable. Biggest scam there is , keep your money , hit and quit then move onto the next and keep making money FOR YOURSELF 🤝✌🏾

    • @famouski3157
      @famouski3157 4 роки тому +7

      @@ike9440 Exactly. You aren’t entitled to give any money to a woman unless she working it off. If she’s house wife she works it off watching over your house, cleaning, cooking, and taking care of the kids. If she can’t do any of that shit she needs to pick up a job or it’s a divorce. The point in a relationship is to work together and if she can’t even do that for you she isn’t committed.

    • @tekajikuyalkrul5111
      @tekajikuyalkrul5111 3 роки тому +7

      The only woman I'm giving money to and support is the mother who raised, support, clothed, sheltered and groomed me to be the man I'm today and no one gonna tell me what to do

    • @Cjust15
      @Cjust15 3 роки тому +2

      @@tekajikuyalkrul5111 that’s actually quite beautiful

  • @theworstguys9487
    @theworstguys9487 4 роки тому +134

    Aba and Preach - The heroes we don't deserve.

    • @jacobmartin3357
      @jacobmartin3357 4 роки тому +18

      But the heroes we need

    • @LorenzoCalgaryRealtor
      @LorenzoCalgaryRealtor 4 роки тому +5

      but we need

    • @Xenoblade_Natsu
      @Xenoblade_Natsu 4 роки тому +9

      nah bro we also deserve 'em cause society keeps giving men shit these days

    •  4 роки тому +1

      Someone build a statue of them

  • @nh8147
    @nh8147 4 роки тому +45

    Steve Harvey finally connected his mustache and is suddenly a whole new person

  • @KitanaiharE
    @KitanaiharE 4 роки тому +149

    In Steve's defense, the "biological clock" for women vs the "financial clock" for men was VERY REAL though. He gave her some game with that part. Hate him or love him, Steve gave her some game with that part.

    • @bigblov3
      @bigblov3 4 роки тому +23

      Exactly he has some good points, it’s not always as bad as some make it seem

    • @bigblov3
      @bigblov3 4 роки тому +2

      @p pate facts

    • @user-ee1fn4vt8b
      @user-ee1fn4vt8b 4 роки тому +16

      That’s not the point of this video. The point is Harvey completely changed what advice he was giving when the female panel was on the show.

    • @YPM498
      @YPM498 4 роки тому +3

      Yeah I remember him saying this in his book. Men don’t settle down until their financially stable.

    • @Demsky83
      @Demsky83 4 роки тому +1

      @@YPM498 thats a lie though. All my friends including my self settled down while we were still elevating financially. He just be making shit up and people agree because it sounds good.

  • @vampfan7569
    @vampfan7569 4 роки тому +93

    "Does he have the money to give you everything you want?"
    What happened to equality? Why is it still the man's job to provide everything she wants?

    • @vampfan7569
      @vampfan7569 4 роки тому +9

      @Cloud Totally agree. Nobody would dispute that women were disadvantaged in a lot of ways, but they were privileged in others. The problem we have now is that we have eradicated the disadvantages, but still supply the privileges.

    • @thecensoredmuscle563
      @thecensoredmuscle563 4 роки тому +2

      How about love and commitment, that's like the only two key things in marriage. people forget that today.

    • @vampfan7569
      @vampfan7569 4 роки тому +5

      @@thecensoredmuscle563 My dad totally believed in "Till death do us part", That seems to have been forgotten as well in this 'Gimme, gimme' world.

    • @SimeonFarkas
      @SimeonFarkas 3 роки тому +1

      @@vampfan7569 this is definitely the comment of the year, extremely well put argument! Hats off 🎩

    • @vampfan7569
      @vampfan7569 3 роки тому +1

      @@SimeonFarkas Thank you.

  • @Braylon1997
    @Braylon1997 4 роки тому +136

    Instead of telling women what they need to hear, we have to tell them what they want to hear to keep their hopes up.

    • @norastorm99
      @norastorm99 4 роки тому +3

      Wait don't you mean the other way around?? 😂

    • @tylerspivey9639
      @tylerspivey9639 4 роки тому +7

      Don’t refer to all women.

    • @Braylon1997
      @Braylon1997 4 роки тому +3

      @@norastorm99 read it carefully 😂😂

    • @rodplays3726
      @rodplays3726 4 роки тому +2

      @@norastorm99 telling them what they need wouldnt give them hope

    • @lyricman5302
      @lyricman5302 4 роки тому +1

      @@rodplays3726 no it would give them the truth Is all, it depends on what they do it I guess

  • @luisd8818
    @luisd8818 4 роки тому +72

    This advice is true in a way: we men do have a financial clock.

    • @lilliq7209
      @lilliq7209 4 роки тому +6

      Yes, agreed.

    • @illenessOne
      @illenessOne 4 роки тому +11

      No you don’t.
      You can make a solid change in your financial status at any age from 17-60 years old . Women do have a clock NOT men.

    • @blackkyurem720
      @blackkyurem720 4 роки тому +9

      @@illenessOne Men clock is just wider, because after 60...some dreams u just aren't fit to do.

    • @lordsafro
      @lordsafro 4 роки тому +1

      @@blackkyurem720 facts

    • @illenessOne
      @illenessOne 4 роки тому

      @@blackkyurem720 depends

  • @gobzinho1
    @gobzinho1 4 роки тому +122

    "You know right away if you wanna get married.." this type of mentality is why relationships last 2 years and people are in divorce court. Guy wants to take his time and screen his potential life partner but these chicks are just pushing for a ring at all costs.

    • @SWIFTzTrigger
      @SWIFTzTrigger 4 роки тому +23

      All those on the panel were old spinsters too. Bitter at men that they didn't find Mr perfect before the eggs ran dry.

    • @gh00stie62
      @gh00stie62 4 роки тому +31

      My husband and I went thru marriage counseling 2 years ago and had mentioned we thought we got married too fast. As our counselor said, "well then either get divorced or work it out. But you're here now so let's move past that" & he was right. Luckily we moved past our shit and we're having our first kid by next summer. Just gotta be on the same team, want to bother to have the same priorities. We'll be married 7 years in December

    • @benten1453
      @benten1453 4 роки тому +12

      @@gh00stie62 ...Good for u Kelly...all the best🤗

    • @gh00stie62
      @gh00stie62 4 роки тому +7

      @@benten1453 you too Ben, in all your endeavors 😁

    • @josephatherley
      @josephatherley 4 роки тому +13

      I hate to hear this crap about men know from day one what they want

  • @itgodownon6831
    @itgodownon6831 3 роки тому +44

    The second girl gave away the milk for a year: why should the guy buy the cow? Old country saying.

    • @AnthonyJohnson-vp1gw
      @AnthonyJohnson-vp1gw 3 роки тому

      Lol true statement.. I'm from the Deep south

    • @cockoffgewgle4993
      @cockoffgewgle4993 3 роки тому +2

      Especially when the milk will stop flowing the moment a calf arrives.

    • @racera5192
      @racera5192 3 роки тому

      I dont get it, please can someone explain.

    • @michaelhowze8198
      @michaelhowze8198 3 роки тому

      @@racera5192 She was sleeping with him so why should he marry is the context

    • @CamCam-mq6ji
      @CamCam-mq6ji 7 місяців тому

      Is a guy going to marry a girl who won't sleep with him?! What man is going to do this??

  • @bloodydove5718
    @bloodydove5718 4 роки тому +300

    "At your age, you know right away if you want to marry someone"
    The heeeelllllllllllll, Who thinks that??? You need to get to know someone, period. And especially with how slanted courts are when it comes to relationships, fellas Need to be careful with who we choose. Lady, please stop lmao

    • @bloodydove5718
      @bloodydove5718 4 роки тому +3

      @Tall Allen 500% agree

    • @mangoe9523
      @mangoe9523 4 роки тому +27

      If you really are considering spending the rest of your life with someone off looks alone you are actually mental 🤧🤧🤧🤧

    • @joys8634
      @joys8634 4 роки тому +8

      @@mangoe9523 literally everyone who gets married lmao. if you wanna be with someone forever why involve the government. literal drones following tradition

    • @green_angel2222
      @green_angel2222 4 роки тому +2

      "the heeeelllll" idk why that made me laugh so hard😂😂😂

    • @millitantjohnson1701
      @millitantjohnson1701 4 роки тому +1

      Exactly!!! Flawed logic.

  • @JustinJack..
    @JustinJack.. 4 роки тому +67

    That was non-bearded Steve. It's all in the past. THIS is new Steve!

    • @Gradeius
      @Gradeius 4 роки тому +7

      Maybe all the dye he was using in his mustache was messing with his brain chemistry lol...

    • @oz_jones
      @oz_jones 4 роки тому

      Punished Steve?

  • @thescooterbrown
    @thescooterbrown 4 роки тому +221

    "I haven't been talking to him"
    "Steve, can you tell me why he's postponing our wedding"
    Pick up the goddamn phone!!!!

    • @StageInTheSkyCreations
      @StageInTheSkyCreations 4 роки тому +13

      Thought the same thing.

    • @kiaracharles746
      @kiaracharles746 4 роки тому +11

      Literally my exact same thought

    • @StageInTheSkyCreations
      @StageInTheSkyCreations 4 роки тому +2

      @No Name lol, nice. Explains why they like CW shows so much. The whole season could be ended with just one conversation, but instead, it's drawn out into 22 episodes...because Drama!

  • @midnight_yota
    @midnight_yota 4 роки тому +11

    The way Presch just stares at the camera wide eyed 😂😂😂

  • @Sizifus
    @Sizifus 4 роки тому +89

    "You want this from a man perspective?"
    "You'll get it from a simp's perspective"

    • @mohmmed1665
      @mohmmed1665 3 роки тому

      😂😂lol ima go to sleep but this was my first laugh of the day

  • @cold4882
    @cold4882 4 роки тому +143

    I think steve knows exactly what he’s doing. He’s making a living out of giving women terrible advice

    • @NotAdultingToday
      @NotAdultingToday 4 роки тому +6

      And having those women and others believing sexist stereotypes about me

    • @heedmywarning2792
      @heedmywarning2792 4 роки тому +5

      If I could make millions just by saying 2+2=5 I would consider it. I would have a *tiny* problem about ruining people's lives though.

    • @cold4882
      @cold4882 4 роки тому +9

      @@NotAdultingToday everyone has a choice to believe what they choose. You also have the choice to stay clear of those with idiotic ideologies

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path 4 роки тому

      That's his scheme just like Derrick Jaxn and Mark Hussey. Very clever businessmen indeed.

    • @suntansuperman26
      @suntansuperman26 4 роки тому

      Steve knows exactly what he’s doing, it’s just crazy that women actually believe his bs.

  • @baconmeido7037
    @baconmeido7037 4 роки тому +114

    There IS a key difference in this episode- that panel of women ain't there.

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path 4 роки тому +9

      No women = No need for SIMPING

    • @AndSoWeLaughed
      @AndSoWeLaughed 4 роки тому +6

      Also the man is not there. Maybe he stuck up for him because he wasn’t there to defend himself and the other guy was there in the audience?

    • @jsutton241
      @jsutton241 4 роки тому +1

      Great point

  • @chitownbob9714
    @chitownbob9714 4 роки тому +57

    Been reading comments on his divorces. Almost divorced myself after 32 years. I can tell you that a married man can give you advice on how to stay married...to his wife.
    A divorced man can share all his relationship screw-ups.
    Many of you are too hard on poor Steve. Once you are rich and famous (and funny and personable), women throw themselves at you. The average guy is not prepared for that kind of attention.

    • @Cbd_7ohm
      @Cbd_7ohm 3 роки тому +3

      Ok gen simp.

    • @cccycling5835
      @cccycling5835 3 роки тому +4

      Listening to fat people about how to lose weight is stupid AF
      Get that boomer logic outta here
      Happy wife happy life amirite!?

    • @johnjowari7128
      @johnjowari7128 3 роки тому +8

      Poor Steve? Nah man ... i agree with some points but Steve is the exception. The man can't even give a straight answer to ONE circumstances.

    • @cloudcampos4555
      @cloudcampos4555 3 роки тому

      @Robert Zajac I agree 100%

    • @betterbateman7171
      @betterbateman7171 2 роки тому

      I've never seen someone simp for a simp before.

  • @hackweiser4127
    @hackweiser4127 4 роки тому +84

    He's no SIMP, he's Simpimus Prime

    • @JAETOWN
      @JAETOWN 4 роки тому +5

      Very underrated comment

    • @StunningSilken
      @StunningSilken 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @yasirkhalif157
      @yasirkhalif157 4 роки тому +1

      Simpatron, when he's in the immediate presence of women.

    • @henningskondowe801
      @henningskondowe801 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @antfrancis9941
    @antfrancis9941 4 роки тому +21

    Steve's got that "yessir, I'll just go round up the horses" look in his face.

  • @ask9087
    @ask9087 4 роки тому +25

    Men do want to feel they can support a family, my husband changed so much when we got pregnant. He already talked about wanting to be enough for me, I would tell him he was and then it got even more for him adding in another human. I never told him he needed to do certain things, it was pressure he put on himself. He said we deserved it and I feel the same for him. I want to provide for him financially and in the home. I want to make him as comfortable as possible and he wants the same. I think it has to be going both ways. We couldn't wait to get married once we decided to though. I would be worried if my husband wanted to delay wedding.

    • @gauravmalviyaalumni8315
      @gauravmalviyaalumni8315 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly. If there is something called equality,then just fucking mean it.Both of u take the responsibility. Gender should only be considered for bedroom and bathroom purposes if EQUALITY exits.

  • @VLP_123
    @VLP_123 3 роки тому +17

    It's Preach's eyes, which kept getting bigger, for me, starting at 4:09 LOL

  • @corinnelewis6240
    @corinnelewis6240 4 роки тому +63

    It's not a 1 rule fits all for everyone. Men are defo not that simple.

    • @bobos245
      @bobos245 4 роки тому +12

      People in general. Not everyone has the same motives, fears, goals, insecurities, etc. Every piece of advice you get has to be taken as a grain of salt.

    • @Jawsjawsjawsrg
      @Jawsjawsjawsrg 4 роки тому

      Well not all men anyways. There are definitely some men that are.

    • @ELECTRICKEN
      @ELECTRICKEN 4 роки тому

      Very good point. I think for most men though Intimacy, Respect, Faithfulness, No Stress, Support, alil fun, money and they re happy. I feel like women need all these things but more stuff for their happiness like romance, alot more communication, alot more fun, want to feel free, want to feel safe, and a couple more things. And its hard for them to stay stress free. And if they feel like they can get a better husband especially with alot of money they will jump while us men are happy staying where we at as long as she doing everything I mention above. Sry ladies. 70% of divorces are initiated by yall so thats a bad sign.

  • @theultimatesurviv0r571
    @theultimatesurviv0r571 4 роки тому +26

    Last time I was this early, there was no one in the simp dungeon

  • @tarawalker7193
    @tarawalker7193 4 роки тому +10

    Having been married for 20 years, I think what Steve said in this clip makes since. Sometimes people want to get married, but are not READY to be married. There is nothing wrong with giving someone time to get ready, unless it just doesn't work for you and your timeline.

  • @GoldGn111
    @GoldGn111 4 роки тому +11

    I started dying when he said "from the male perspective " Dark Simpus!

  • @TheActualKingSmith
    @TheActualKingSmith 4 роки тому +101

    Notice his demographic?
    Post edit: brilliant ending

    • @derrickak17
      @derrickak17 4 роки тому +12

      Bro! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I didn't even catch that until you pointed it out

    • @ClapperDan
      @ClapperDan 4 роки тому +15

      Day time television is for "where the good men at" women

    • @mrs.potatohead8471
      @mrs.potatohead8471 4 роки тому

      @R B Are you slow? The girl in this video is Asian?

  • @Kharhaz77
    @Kharhaz77 4 роки тому +81

    Woman: "Hey I need a ring even though I have just met you"
    Any Sensible Man EVER: "Sure, I will ring you later....maybe"

    • @phinaddict4857
      @phinaddict4857 4 роки тому +4

      Tell her if you want to be with me my requirements are no marriage and no kids just me and you. If you dont want that then this wont work

    • @ryanelee
      @ryanelee 4 роки тому +4

      @@phinaddict4857 I would rather a man say that, than give me a ring when he is not ready. Cause I would know I need to move on.

    • @easylife6348
      @easylife6348 4 роки тому +3

      misslee1203 so your purpose is get married but not loving the man? So you loving the dream to get married than loving a man that’s doing everything for you?

    • @ryanelee
      @ryanelee 4 роки тому +4

      @@easylife6348 No, if I love somebody, I love them wholeheartedly, but if you know that the person you are with wants that and you don’t. Don’t try to manipulate them by giving them hope, like letting them move in with you. Be honest, I’m not ready for that, or I don’t want that. She’s honest with you when she is telling you what she wants. I can respect an honest man. My biggest pet peeve is wasting my time.

    • @ryanelee
      @ryanelee 4 роки тому

      @@easylife6348 No, if I love somebody, I love them wholeheartedly, but if you know that the person you are with wants that and you don’t. Don’t try to manipulate them by giving them hope, like letting them move in with you. Be honest, I’m not ready for that, or I don’t want that. She’s honest with you when she is telling you what she wants. I can respect an honest man. My biggest pet peeve is wasting my time. By the way, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be married.

  • @alaniglesias5661
    @alaniglesias5661 4 роки тому +5

    always here for that cold dead look in Preach's eyes as Aba just smiles and smiles and smiles

  • @sednasix6608
    @sednasix6608 4 роки тому +31

    0:34 - if Patrice was still alive and she asked him for a male perspective he’d give her a nice helping of it.

    • @jeevanv8631
      @jeevanv8631 4 роки тому +2

      Amen

    • @souldier2875
      @souldier2875 11 місяців тому

      I would have loved to see patrice tear steveca new hole

  • @treykennedy8897
    @treykennedy8897 4 роки тому +57

    I think a big difference is the age of the two couples. They’re still in their 20s, and the last couple was easily in their 40s. So the advice is fairly sound considering the age

    • @Nyamisango
      @Nyamisango 4 роки тому +4

      Yessss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @treykennedy8897
      @treykennedy8897 4 роки тому +5

      @R.T Baker I see your point. What he said to the younger woman was probably more sound advice for anyone. I guess I’m just saying I understand the contrast between the two.

  • @Vicegoodn
    @Vicegoodn 4 роки тому +30

    Steve basically saying, women don't build, they move in when you've already billed. Steve crazy

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 4 роки тому

      If they didn't build with you how can they appreciate all your sacrifices?

  • @glitch612
    @glitch612 4 роки тому +16

    Steve specializes in the tier 3 sub prospective

  • @LessFusion747
    @LessFusion747 3 роки тому +3

    2:21 that's reaction, Steve making as if 27 is 20.😂🤣😂🤣.

  • @blacksands6695
    @blacksands6695 4 роки тому +58

    Not only did Steve uno reversed himself, he pretty much slapped a draw two and draw four on his previous argument🤣🤣🤣

    • @princemaverik
      @princemaverik 4 роки тому

      And pulled the wild card for agreeing 😂

  • @TheSchism-y7p
    @TheSchism-y7p 4 роки тому +62

    No one:
    Absolutely No one at all:
    Preach: 👁️👄👁️

  • @ctessla
    @ctessla 4 роки тому +12

    I dont think it was the same situation, because that guy didnt say he wanted to marry her, yet the younger gal had a guy that made an effort to propose and get married. The Wanting to get married is definitely something you need to have in a serious relationship.

  • @ojbgamin
    @ojbgamin 3 роки тому +1

    It's preach face of " fuck everything u talking bout 4real " 4 me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mikado5792
    @mikado5792 3 роки тому +12

    Steve is perfect example for phase, "Everyone has a price, just a matter of how much$$".

  • @long_one5491
    @long_one5491 3 роки тому +7

    She wants to know what her ex is thinking. So instead of speaking to her ex, she asks Steve Harvey. Because.

  • @FirstRealities
    @FirstRealities 4 роки тому +24

    This is a theory: Steve runs a show. A show is made to entertain an audience. His show has a live audience. So the audience at home almost feels inclined to have the same reaction as the live audience. The woman in the last video had a bit of a.... different type of personality. I think Steve knew that if he doesn’t agree with what she was talking about, there would be an issue with her reaction and the audience’s reaction. I mean the guy is surrounded by women so, he read the room and went with the flow. But in this situation this woman is easier to talk to and persuade, and if he can persuade her, he persuades his audience. So that’s why he “reverse uno’d” himself. He’s a show runner who must satisfy his audience. But this all just a theory.

    • @Cybop-xd9mm
      @Cybop-xd9mm 4 роки тому +1

      Pretty good theory

    • @jordanjuarez8102
      @jordanjuarez8102 4 роки тому +4

      He did come up doing stand up comedy, so he knows the art of reading a room.

    • @FirstRealities
      @FirstRealities 4 роки тому +2

      @@jordanjuarez8102 phew 😅, I thought I was gonna be attacked.

    • @JustinDewees23
      @JustinDewees23 4 роки тому +2

      @@FirstRealities I mean it was a good theory and that’s how most live audience talk shows are ran

  • @K.Finesse242
    @K.Finesse242 4 роки тому +13

    So basically he's gotta be perfect by 27 whereas she just has to exist, but also he loves her and she should stay with him?

  • @Dave-fz6wt
    @Dave-fz6wt 3 роки тому +40

    Steve Harvey had a point about having a “financial clock” though. It resonates with me because I was that guy.

    • @Odo-so8pj
      @Odo-so8pj 3 роки тому +6

      Probably the only thing he said which was true. I've seen dudes do it.

    • @marigold3687
      @marigold3687 3 роки тому +7

      Then he should not have proposed.

    • @biggemmy
      @biggemmy 3 роки тому +1

      Seriously, I dont know what they're complaining about. The man is on point.

    • @iridescentsea3730
      @iridescentsea3730 3 роки тому +5

      @@biggemmy They were complaining that Steve gives inconsistent advice. If you agree with 1 thing he said, cool, but sometimes he be saying something completely different, and you should wonder which of the 2 he really believes.

    • @souldier2875
      @souldier2875 11 місяців тому

      Steve needs to stop talking bull. Most guys dont want to marry the woman but ohhhh no women can never be the issue. Most guys dont think about how broke they are before getting married. Most women force ultimatums.

  • @Vic-Valentine
    @Vic-Valentine 4 роки тому +6

    this is what telling people what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear looks like

  • @kasperkurpershoek1937
    @kasperkurpershoek1937 4 роки тому +33

    You know he gives good advice, it's just so thinly spread out between all the bullshit and assumptions, that it loses all its merit

    • @julianbroughton
      @julianbroughton 4 роки тому +9

      He's like a broken clock. It's right twice a day. The guys lacks integrity. How could anyone trust the opinions of someone like that.

  • @janiemoore2721
    @janiemoore2721 3 роки тому +12

    I was with a man for five years who lead me on. After going back and forth, I finally left. I met my husband a year later. He asked me to marry him on the third date. We have been married for 22 years. Last I heard, the other guy is still alone.

    • @resident_alien595
      @resident_alien595 3 роки тому

      May be he's better that way.

    • @betterbateman7171
      @betterbateman7171 2 роки тому

      So you had 5 years of fun with chad before settling for a beta who proposed on a date. Good for you.

  • @LadyCaspar
    @LadyCaspar 4 роки тому +11

    Aba KILLED me! “Yes. yes. y-yes i do.”

  • @jsmirk807
    @jsmirk807 4 роки тому +8

    Preach look like he already over the video halfway through 💀

  • @LunarKnight22
    @LunarKnight22 4 роки тому +4

    I love when Preach gets angry and often goes off into French. Makes my day. :D

  • @akassasin5768
    @akassasin5768 3 роки тому +6

    Steve harvey- "I specialize in takin yo money while telling you exactly what you want to hear... Even though it wont help you."

  • @alexc08
    @alexc08 4 роки тому +7

    Their faces when the crowd applauded had me 💀

  • @AmazonElf
    @AmazonElf 4 роки тому +6

    Most people wouldn't even be alive if someone else waited to having all their ducks in a row!

  • @cellyszn20
    @cellyszn20 4 роки тому +4

    Preach taking off his glasses was everything LOOOL

  • @diondrake9433
    @diondrake9433 3 роки тому +1

    Ghosted him for 5 months when he was trying to explain to you why he postponed but you go to a random guy on TV to support your false assumptions rather than getting the answer from him yourself.

  • @ekeneemenike4881
    @ekeneemenike4881 4 роки тому +6

    I love that Preach is here having an existential crisis because he and Steve are agreeing on something.

  • @nasirsalih8475
    @nasirsalih8475 4 роки тому +8

    This vid is perfect material for a “Steve Harvey vs Heve Starvey” video 😂

    • @shiva_689
      @shiva_689 4 роки тому +2

      Oh man yess, we need that

  • @FacelessSoldier09
    @FacelessSoldier09 4 роки тому +84

    Did this get blocked? I tried watching it thos morning and it wasnt available like 10 mins after it posted.
    Great job keeping them receipts

    • @JariahxSynn
      @JariahxSynn 4 роки тому +3

      I thought I saw it earlier too. UA-cam must've been trying to lynch this vid.

    • @EMWProductions
      @EMWProductions 4 роки тому +4

      It got removed before. I was in the middle of wacthing when it happened.

    • @laurarodrigues9370
      @laurarodrigues9370 4 роки тому

      @@EMWProductions nani

    • @AudioGAWD
      @AudioGAWD 4 роки тому

      @@EMWProductions Why though?

  • @fnyan4883
    @fnyan4883 4 роки тому +81

    She *CANCELLED* the wedding AND is currently ghosting the guy.
    She is not worth his time or money, specially people who ignore their SO

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 4 роки тому +8

      But he postponed the wedding and then couldn’t give her a CLEAR ANSWER on when he would want to get married. If you can’t give me a clear answer I’m not gonna waste my time

    • @lousosa199
      @lousosa199 4 роки тому +2

      @@PrincessZaire100 so the solution is to break up with a possibly good guy? 🙄. Hope she doesn't complain about there not being any good men around

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 4 роки тому

      @@lousosa199 just because he’s a good guy doesn’t mean he’s the one for her. He postponed the wedding and won’t even give her a clear answer on when he would like to get married, and it’s been a year. That’s not fair to her. He can be a good guy, but if he doesn’t want the same things as her, then they shouldn’t be together. Stop thinking women should just settle for not getting what they want because someone’s “a good guy.”

    • @anthonydavies8318
      @anthonydavies8318 4 роки тому

      @@PrincessZaire100 Maybe he didn't have an exact date of when, so couldn't answer. Plus she has been ignoring him so maybe he has stuff they need to talk about.

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 4 роки тому

      @@anthonydavies8318 dude, he did that when a date was already set and things were PAID FOR. I’m pretty sure if he gave her a date or a specific time frame, she wouldn’t be giving him the cold shoulder. She canceled because you can only stall for so long before you can’t get your deposits back when it comes to weddings

  • @thelastmotel
    @thelastmotel 4 роки тому +6

    Gentle music starts to play, and through the clouds, a title appears...
    "The Simps, son".