*For the people who self harm using a blade or sharp object on skin here’s some tips if you want them (A few of these worked for my friend, but I know everyone is different and everyone SHs in a different way).* *Blood:* if you need to see blood mix food colouring with a hint of water to make it look the same *Pain:* You can use ice cubes or hair ties. *Anxiety induced etc:* try thinking of a person, place or object that makes you happy. Focus completely on it/them and control your breathing. Try to think like you’re really there, have that item or the person is with you. *Mental:* If you need help with it mentally try the butterfly method; which is drawing a butterfly where you usually cut (once it’s healed as to not get ink poisoning) and name it after a loved one. If it helps draw multiple and name it after different people. Think of it like their life, if you cut all the butterflies pass. If they fade NATURALLY (no scrubbing to get rid of them) then you succeeded. Continue as necessary. I hope this helped in some way! If you want to talk or vent I’m here to help. And don’t feel like you’re bothering me, I’m used to comforting people and I want to make sure you feel safe and loved, even if it is from a stranger on the internet!
@@khaulahfauzolazim7534 ice cubes, if held on skin for a while can make pain Hair ties are more of a small pain that only lasts a couple seconds as a distraction to tie you over
Ray: "Stay here... im gonna go get some bandaids." Me: casually runs off and hides because I never do anything to take care of my cuts. THE AMOUNT OF FALSE INFORMATION THAT RAY SAID I SWEAR
*For the people who self harm using a blade or sharp object on skin here’s some tips if you want them (A few of these worked for my friend, but I know everyone is different and everyone SHs in a different way).*
*Blood:* if you need to see blood mix food colouring with a hint of water to make it look the same
*Pain:* You can use ice cubes or hair ties.
*Anxiety induced etc:* try thinking of a person, place or object that makes you happy. Focus completely on it/them and control your breathing. Try to think like you’re really there, have that item or the person is with you.
*Mental:* If you need help with it mentally try the butterfly method; which is drawing a butterfly where you usually cut (once it’s healed as to not get ink poisoning) and name it after a loved one. If it helps draw multiple and name it after different people. Think of it like their life, if you cut all the butterflies pass. If they fade NATURALLY (no scrubbing to get rid of them) then you succeeded. Continue as necessary.
I hope this helped in some way! If you want to talk or vent I’m here to help. And don’t feel like you’re bothering me, I’m used to comforting people and I want to make sure you feel safe and loved, even if it is from a stranger on the internet!
Fourth time😻
This is my 3rd time seeing this-
@@annetteeure5760 lmao
One question if for pain part how does using ice cubes and hair ties works?
@@khaulahfauzolazim7534 ice cubes, if held on skin for a while can make pain
Hair ties are more of a small pain that only lasts a couple seconds as a distraction to tie you over
Ray: Show me your arm.
* *me who was putting stupid stickers and fake tattoos on my arm* *
*sniff* ITS . . . EMBARRASSING. I CANNOT SHOW YOUS~
Don't worry ur not the only one
i do that too
the fact that I’m getting more comfort then I got from my mom
:)
Ray: "Stay here... im gonna go get some bandaids."
Me: casually runs off and hides because I never do anything to take care of my cuts.
THE AMOUNT OF FALSE INFORMATION THAT RAY SAID I SWEAR
STFU HE SAID EVERYTHING IMPORTANT. UR IMPORTANT! HE LUVS U >:(
This made me cry😭
Thank you for making this video. I know it means a lot to many people out there. :)
Thank u
How.. how are you everywhere..
ray give me more comfort than anybody they don't even care when they saw a slash in my fingers (i slash on my finger not on my pouls)
It's cause he always cared about you love. We love you💕
Aw ray I'm going to cry thank u and how did u know when I'm cutting 😭
"I could tell smth was wrong, so I needed to know if everything's ok. But please, don't do it ever again :("
~Ray
@@R.G.-VA ray I'm going to cry 😭
@@tired-killuaVA65 "awww :( don't cry darling, it's ok
@@R.G.-VA erm ray I'm going to blush and die from ur cuteness
@@R.G.-VA but seriously I'm going to die from ray telling me it's going to be alright and calling me darling no one called me darling 😭
This seems like it could help people going through this.
If anyone wants to talk I'm available to speak
Thats why i luv my fans
I'm 1 month clean
That's great! I'm so proud of u
I'm 3 weeks clean :D
I'm so proud of u!!!! :D ur doing a great job sweetie
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perfect timing!
danm you is ✨ F A S T ✨
Hi
@@R.G.-VA 😊
@@kai_thedemon319 Hi
@@deliciae._eva :)
I keep replaying this and let's just say this rlly helps rn