I hate how it all went down. Here is my take. I respect both Chanel and Lesa. I found what Lesa revealed about her upbringing to be the key to understanding why Lesa comes off as guarded and as some folks in the fandom call her “jealous and possessive”. I feel Lesa hasn’t made peace or come to terms with her father’s betrayal. She found out her dad had a whole other family. Her mom moved to Miami to work and support her family. I see Lesa’s upbringing has shaped her. You can see it in the way Lesa puts pressure on herself and expects others around her to meet that. A good example is her trying to be the best mom and be present and protect her boys. The number of alarms she needs to stay on top of mommy duties is a lot! The other instance is when she broke down and spoke with her mom about having Mina roe as a back up plan if in case Rich leaves. It was revelatory. I would love healing and releasing of trauma and expectations of self and others for Lesa. I think we will see a more free and fun Lesa. For Ayan. I see a young girl still trapped inside a grown woman’s body. Wow I am realizing now both Ayan and Lesa share similar childhood traumas. Feeling hurt and betrayal from their fathers. And both of them made a name for themselves. Wow. I need my girls back asap. Back to Ayan. She is still in survival mode. Her ego is quite fragile and her mannerisms and behavior are childlike. I feel she is frozen in time and without adequately addressing her childhood traumas, she will continue to act out, have difficulty naming what she’s feeling and not taking accountability. It’s tough. I pray they work it out and make their way back to each other. I hate to see beautiful women fall out like this. This is just my take and I could be wrong. Happy to hear what you all think.
What happened is: -Both Lesa and Ayan have spoken about how the other girls are snakes to each other but Ayan goes on to be friends with the girls they both are saying in private that they don’t trust. -The girls are trying to separate them and Ayan is falling for it so it feels like a blow to Lesa…a direct betrayal by Ayan. Ayan knows they are isolating Lesa and she’s going with it. -Lesa definitely said don’t bring up Ayan acting different when she’s not around Lesa because that will complete the girls’ mission of fully icing Lesa out if they are no longer close and Lesa has no friends on the show. -Lesa gave Ayan that dirty look when she said she wanted to talk because she knew she was about to bring up the one thing she just asked her not to bring up on camera. -Yes Lesa is very image conscious and thought she could smooth that over by basically gaslighting the situation. But I would expect my friend to respect the one thing that would completely ice me out of the group. -Lesa got mad that Ayan went ahead and said the thing she didn’t want discussed and did a tit for tat by throwing Ayan under the bus as well…but she was telling the truth. -The dissolution of the friendship wasn’t about the word “brag”. It was about how Lesa felt like Ayan didn’t protect her image the way Lesa has tried to protect Ayan’s image in the past… then wouldn’t accept the same level of transparency when the shoe was on the other foot.
SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE SLOW ONES WATCHING! Lesa peeped game and tried to put Ayan onto it BUT Ayan still fell for it and gave them heifers what they wanted!
I agree with you but i think Lesa played it wrong. Knowing the girls were trying to ice her out, she should have played it cool with Iyan. Ate her humble pie and fix her business later. Severing the friendship with Iyan was actually playing into the girls hands and allowing them a win. 🤷🏿♀️
The reason why Lesa reacts that way to ayan all of a sudden being buddy buddy with stanbury is probably because her and Ayan had conversations about stanbury in the past. Shit she probably was still having those convos with her about stanbury in this season. It’s like people are quick to say Lesa is this and Lesa is that when in all honestly Lesa been trying to protect Ayan for a while. Yes it may seem controlling but she’s Ayans friend and she has concerns and it’s valid especially with how stanbury treated her and Ayan last season. But imma sit back with Lesa to watch that whole thing go up in flames. Also when Lesa said that thing about her kids it’s def a Jamaican saying. My family says it all the time.
Lesa was still being overly possessive of Ayan when it wasn’t necessary, Ayan can be friends with whoever she wants to be friends with. If Lesa don’t like it, then she should pray on it
Stanbury apologized to Ayan more than once. If Ayan chooses to forgive Stanbury, that is her prerogative. If Lesa has an issue with it, maybe she should pray on it
I've been saying this. I rewatched season 1. Stanbury hated Ayan. Lesa actually showed loyalty and had Ayan's back to the point where she ended having issues with Stanbury. Ayan has never spoken well about Caroline so to see them being besties is weird. It gives I want to be at the cool kids table.
Ayan sways with the wind blows. The 360-degree turn from Lesa was sealed under the Cabana conversation with the ladies telling Ayan she is different when.Lesa not around.
Taleen, who we see literally throw her 10 year “friendship” with Brooks away for Stansbury who she just met tried to give Ayan advice about having her actual best friends back. Talene literally bowed at Stansbury’s feet and tried to bat for her and she literally just met her. But Ayan cannot defend Lisa? Mind you, Lisa defends Ayan as well. I need Ayan to think. This is what we’re doing? This episode actually pissed me off. 😂 10:15
Gurl, the fans are so flip floppy. They'll say Potomac is too heavy, to serious, but when it comes to Dubal, they say it's boring. All they want to do is tune in when there's a literal fight or when some really low things are said during an argument despite saying they hate the violence.
I am so disappointed that Ayan let these ladies get in her head. She is definitely a people pleaser. If she was feeling like the friendship was 1 sided she should have spoken up for herself& not mentioned what the ladies said. Let her go over there with Stanbury so she can see what “ real” friendship is. Ayan is not a victim.
Right. Stansbury constantly complained about the way Ayan, talks and carries herself. Stansbury hates the way Ayan dresses. I even remember the first season when Nina had that dinner after Stansbury didn’t invite Ayan to her party and Stansbury reprimanded Ayan for calling her Stansbury instead of Caroline when everyone exclusively calls Stansbury, Stansbury. She found any reason to be against Ayan. Stansbury doesn’t even appreciate Ayan for who she is. She’s only interested in Ayan because she’s now at odds with Lesa and Nina is gone
I agree MsMeasha,,, stanbury is only for herself..Ayan drank the coolaid, but she started the drama..always… Ayan is a people pleaser…how can she say “ Lesa tells me what to say” Ayan- shut up.
Great review!!! Thanks for breaking down the episode cuz I was a bit confused! I hate that Ayan let ridiculous taleen and broke get in her head! Anyway, excellent review!
I don’t see this Lesa doesn’t want Ayan to be friends with the other ladies but who among these ladies are actually friends. The only real friendships were Ayan And Lesa and Nina and Stansbury. And Nina is gone. If Nina were there, would Stansbury care about some Ayan?? The ladies don’t even like each other! Lesa is absolutely territorial but she also recognizes that these ladies are not genuine. They only get along when they have a common enemy and the enemy is usually Lesa or Ayan. Ayan getting friendship advice from Brooks and Tylene and Sarah and Caroline, who all are not even friends is crazy. Brooks and Taleen are no longer friends. Sarah even fell out with Saba. None of these ladies have any real relationships and constantly talk about each other behind their backs, whether it’s about their families or their businesses etc. people are calling Lisa a mean girl but Ayan literally tried to set up Sara and embarrass her in front of the entire group. And Stansbury couldnt wait to throw it in Sara and Brooks face. Lisa sharing that voice note with Ayan was absolutely trifling and look what the ladies, or “friends”, were willing to do with that information, because they’re ALL mean girls. None of them are truly friends except for Ayan and Lisa, and that is the real reason they are targeting their friendship. Ayan and Lesa together are a strong unit. The ladies are actually jealous of their friendship. They are also jealous of the confidence that Lisa and Ayan have in themselves and their popularity. They want to humble Lisa so bad because she is self-assured and doesn’t need to and refuses to suck up and try to fit in by any means necessary.
Measha girl!! This review was 100% on point! I was waiting on your thoughts about this episode. I definitely agreed with everything you said! Lesa girl watch your back! Production and your cast mates have it out for you! Ayan girl this fake back bone thing is old. You had no problem with standing up for yourself in Bali. It’s giving she feels like Stanburry can serve her better so she is throwing everyone to the waste side. Ayan doesn’t know how to be loyal! I’m still team Lesa! ❤
I think when Ayan with Lesa she talk shit about Stanbury alot so when Lesa see them buddy buddy it's giving two faced...remember now Lesa and Ayan been friends for real before this show...in season 1 because Lesa had Ayan's back why her and the other ladies were arguing...if we're friends and you talk shit with me about someone and then i see you all bestie with that person of course imma feel some type of way
Thing w Ayan is she says a lot but prob don’t mean half of what she says. Like prob says oh Stanbury is a snake… then later oh I meant in my country there’s a type of snake that has your eye color. You can’t take Ayan seriously…
I HAVE BEEN WAITING ON YOUR REVIEW AT THE DOOR. You see through the Stanbury follow train, unlike these weirdo Bravo stans. I wish you were still reviewing LAMH cause u are the only person who gave unbiased reviews
@@MsMeashaIMO i stoped watching and only listened to your reviews cause u held Martel feet to the fire unlike some of these male centered content creators and u also called Mel out on her BS too
Viewers opinions have me questioning what show they’re watching. The rose color glasses when it comes to Ayan is crazy and I love her but she’s playing this wrong. Ayan is allowing the ladies to manipulate her because she really is a people pleaser and I think she loves the attention the ladies are giving her as a result of her friendship fallout. But they are only trying to connect with her BECAUSE of the friendship fallout. Stansbury, Lesa and Ayan were in a better place before the voice note. Stansbury and Ayan got closer after Lesa and Ayan experienced their rift. And Ayan carrying information back and forth between Lesa and Stansbury is messy and contributing to the distrust Lesa is developing for her. Lesa can’t even say no I don’t want to talk and she immediately goes and tells the ladies. She wanted to have that conversation publicly so all the ladies could rally against Lesa in support of her and Ayan is not filling me and apparently not Lesa. The Ladies are jealous of Lesa and Ayan’s friendship and popularity and Ayan can’t see that because she’s too busy trying to fit in. Fit into a group that doesn’t even get along unless they all have a common enemy and right now that enemy is Lesa because she doesn’t take their bs
If I were Lesa… the moment she threw that tantrum w the tears when called out about the voice note I’d be done w her. So after you do something wrong in public that affects me I can’t call you out in public?
I think the issue for Lesa is Don't tell me nothing these women say about our friendship. Ayan is trying to be loyal to both sides for some strange reason. Lesa thought they were Frick and Fraud but actually Frick and Fraud.
Ayan isn’t the brightest crayon in the box. Lesa might be a little pushy but, I think she genuinely cared about Ayan. Ayan was being gullible following behind the other girls. My guess is it’s going to blow up in her face next season and she’s going to wish she still had her best friend. I hope they can come back from this because I used to love seeing two beautiful, Black, successful, married women gag the gworls!
That is the probably Lesa ain’t about to kiss Stanbury ass and that’s all everybody else does. Ayana gets the mess going and they putting it all on Lesa and they not fooling me. They can’t stand Lesa for existing and it’s pissing me off.
It's something about your voice and that laugh that brings people to your channel. Continue being your authentic self. You are a true gem to many people.
17:56 agreed I don’t think that Lisa has any maliciousness or Ayan has any maliciousness but like you said, Lisa definitely is making sure that she doesn’t look a fool on TV and so she wants to make sure her friend is not looking to fool either. Lesa also does not want Ayan telling her business. But Ayan wants to be accepted so bad that she’s steadily telling folks business and running back-and-forth between Lisa and Stansbury telling each other what the other has said and ruining their friendship. It’s sad but I feel like people are definitely giving Lisa way too much. Lesa is just about her business, and she refuses to let these folks run over her. Like they’re about to do to Ayan 😂 I don’t see these newfound friendships lasting unless Ayan kisses their asses
Stanbury accused Lesa of stealing designs for Mina Roe and said that Lesa was a prostitute (escort). Stanbury’s husband lied, claiming that Lesa’s business was funded by his friend. Sergio taunts Lesa about Ayan and Stanbury "friendship" at BravoCon (since her husband wasn't there). Lesa forgave Stanbury but that doesn't means she forgot or has to kiss her butt like the fans want her to. Lesa confident has these women and fans wanting to humble her cause to them Stanbury is suppose to be the Queen Bee of Dubai but Lesa won't bow down to her (kiss her hand) and Bravo fans want to put the black woman in her place. Ayan wants to be accepted so bad that its kinds sad to watch. Stanbury is latching on to Ayan star status since Ayan became the breakout star that Bravo intended Stanbury to be, but since Stanbury and Sergio came off as racist, means and nast in Season 1, Bravo took a year off for damage control like they did with Housewives of New York and now people have forgotten about Season 1 or didn't even watch it, so they are all on the Ayan /Stanbury train since production doesn't like Lesa (reminds me of Potomac shady production team)
I was so upset Leesa and Ayan gave the girls what they wanted which was for their friendship to be ruined but I feel both need to have a real talk. Ayan wanted to he accepted by them girls and Stanbury so much u threw your friend under the bus. Whew I was so mad this season ended the way it did. I knew Ayan was gon flip on Leesa though when they was tell her she act different when she is around. Ayan get it together please maam.
I love my girl too but these girls can’t handle Lesa mouth that’s why she throws the b word around. Talen trying so gate to fit in that she better her ass handed to her every time. They give they don’t want to see Lesa do well and I’m sick of it.
Measha, the way you read these women down, I sincerely and wholeheartedly wish you would recap Orange County because I just know you would have me in stitches with your commentary on Tamra and Alexis' shenanigans against Shannon.
26:00 Lisa does care about perception, but I’m going to be with her on this and her faking like she didn’t know what was wrong with Ayan lol because she knew that Ayan was about to try to talk to her and make a spectacle of their friendship based off their previous conversation. Lisa, peeped game and was like nope not today. And then What does Ayan do? exactly what Lisa thought she was going to do. And yeah, Lisa was definitely 38 hot about that party and if you notice unless they cut it out asking to pull Lisa to the side seem to be the first time they actually spoke other than when Lisa entered the venue.
At first I thought Lesa was tripping, but now I get it. She’s not upset about Ayan being friends with Caroline, it’s WHY would you want to be so close with someone who did me so dirty? She questioned her business and called her an escort, knowing they live in a conservative country and it could really affect her family and livelihood. Lesa could have addressed her hurt better and not punish Ayan in public (Sags hate that), but I can see why she was hurt. Ayan is too wrapped up in herself and insecurity to see the other side.
I literally just commented this. Caroline really dogged Lesa at that reunion and Ayan knows all of the embarrassment she faced. Being cordial is cool but then you shared our personal voice notes and now this! I would be pissed too.
@@MsMeashaIMO Caroline paid her dust last year and it was Lesa who had her back but Ayan still needed validation from Caroline. She represents a life Ayan was locked out of as a child, and to be real a lot of black people have internalized anti blackness. They’ll treasure a dime from whites vs a dollar from blacks. It’s clear Lesa was at a higher station in life, and looked out for Chanel on multiple occasions. Lesa’s bossiness only became “controlling” when Ayan no longer needed her. Folks who need to be saved or haven’t dealt with their traumas, will unconsciously become users. Ultimately Ayan will always have to perform for her supper with Caroline and be left unfulfilled. Lesa will also be left unfulfilled with a fake friendship with Brooks, and will be less trusting. Sad all around.
Idk the relationship gave friends because they are both women of color in Dubai not genuine friends in my opinion because it’s no way it’s this serious. I also hate how Ayan runs and cries.
Hey Measha ❤ I was waiting for your review. Everyone can have their opinions & teams but anyone with common sense & a brain 🧠 can see everyone is trying to target Lesa and I am team Lesa this whole season and EP. Chanel Ayan is lying and I would never be her friend again and her friendship with Caroline S will not last long watch.
New to the show (5 eps in), I undrstnd Lesa’s issue was Ayan’s betrayal period. While I see Lesa was doin a lot, I get why. U can’t trust none of these snaky heffas and she thought Ayan understood the assgnmnt. I am like Lesa in that, if u brk trust…I don’t trust u no more. And Ayan breached several times. Lesa is a lil agressive, but these haters keep trying to come for her…sis don’t be out here playin with these snitches😂.
I’m not going to lie. I’m on Lisa side when it comes to that party. I feel like as a friend I should’ve been in the loop about a party you and my “ not so close co counterpart” are throwing. Like girl if we are as close as they say they are, we should’ve had a phone call at least. Not a video ( that never made the recording). Like chile really. I would’ve look upside my besties head to like who are you?! I know she didn’t like the way she reacted, but play stupid games, win stupid prizes. And where you pitch the tent, is where we can build the circus! Now EVERYBODY know we ain’t straight
Listen, I live in Ohio and you were about to make me take a red-eye flight to your location if I didn't get a review lol. I feel like Lesa's major problem is sheer wants to be the Queen Bee of Dubai but Stanburry and Ayan are the ones becoming the faces. Brooks is trying too hard to be the villain. There is no way sister girl has a problem with every damn thing. They need to bring in at least one more girl for season 3.
They haven't shown a clip of Sara's son in distress yet. He's always smiling up in the grown folks' conversations. I'm not saying that the situation isn't serious, and I would be afraid to let my child out of my sight if I had been in her shoes. But on camera, that child appears happy.
I hope Lisa continue to stand her ground and black women don’t Allow anyone to tell you to shut it down because you’re Speak in your peace Say it like you want to say it at least they heard you loud and clear. Black women not falling for that crap anymore Speak
I think production did Lesa dirty. Ayan has said some strange things and doesn't seem to understand the culture and I think Lesa tries to help her. Ayan and Caroline Stanbury throwing a party together definitely gives storyline! The let's make Lesa jealous storyline.
New subscriber. Absolute love your content. Review is on point. I rewatched season 1, especially the reunion and I now understand why Lesa feels hurt. Lesa defended Ayan season 1 to the point where she had issues with everyone. Now Ayan flips on her and make best friends with the same ladies, mainly Caroline, who treated Ayan extremely poor in season 1. Ayan then started sharing things she talks about with Lesa to Caroline. That's not best friend behavior. Lesa also saying the other ladies don't have a business have me thinking she knows something about their businesses. She's been saying thi consistently from season 1. Could this be the reason they re trying to ice her out and maybe get rid of her. She remember she did expose Carolin or being friends with Epstein. Also in season 1 Ayan did not want Lesa to be kool with anyone she wasn't with, mainly Brooks.
Hello - your reviews are so good. I personally feel Ayan has low self esteem while trying to appear it's so high. She 'masks' herself in over the top clothing to hide how she really feels and because her esteem is so low, the other ladies were able to creep into her head and now she has conflict with Lisa. Two things can be true, Lisa can be a bossy friend and also Lisa could still be a good friend. I have a few in my life and I understand that is their personality and I know how to move accordingly. On another note, I absolutely hate how these reality women use the "b" word so loosely. I could never have a friend call me that I don't care if she's playing or not.
I’ve thought the same thing about Ayan. She might have self esteem issues. They all (except Lesa) put Stansbury on a pedestal. It’s like that popular girl in high school, people just want to be in their presence. It’s ridiculous.
The bg magic is over…they let them jealous ww and others break up something very real. It’s what “others” ppl always want to have…CB is such a disappointment to that bg magic😒
I love your hilarious reviews, thank you! My take is, Lesa is a bit and a half, she needs to back off and learn to calm down before she speaks. Everything doesn’t have to be soooo extra! Ayan on the other hand needs some backbone and should be more confident and speak up for herself. She doesn’t need a groupie to shine. Just be her true self as her sister reminded her of.
I'm usually really good at peeping game on these reality shows and this is what i think, Lesa is very sneaky and manipulative. She was SO upset with Ayan for being friends with Stansbury and what better way to get back at Ayan than to turn the fans against her. See Lesa knows how this reality thing works and Ayan isn't too sharp when it comes to reality television. She made it seem as if Ayan is this horrible friend, and her feelings are so "hurt." Lesa wanted to hurt Ayan and it worked because the fans have been attacking Ayan left and right.
Yall can’t be mad at Stansbury for playing the game. Of course she knew co-hosting that party would make Lesa mad. So yes it was purposeful, but if Lesa isn’t jealous then it shouldn’t matter, right? Lesa only had full control over Ayan when there was beef. Lesa’s blood was about to boil over at that party. She couldn’t take it. She was rude to Ayan first & then when Ayan tried to talk to her she was passive aggressive THEN gaslit the hell of Ayan talking about “no I told you I just needed a minute”. They must’ve edited that part out then. Lesa was jealous! Ayan can be friends with whom she wants & still remain besties with Lesa. Lesa didn’t want it. Period!
Love your commentary BUTTTTT I have to disagree with you regarding Lesa & Ayan. Lesa stated she is a Jealous friend. So I TRULY believe Lesa is envious of Stanbury's & Ayan growing friendship. Love Lesa too but the green (envy) was showing all throughout this episode
Well I feel like I would feel a way too when my BFF befriends a woman that called me an escort in a place like Dubai and then said that I didn't create my own business. She may be jealous. I don't disagree but I think she has good reason
Leesa has an all or nothing expectation of the people who love her and any crack in that sends her off. Maybe due to her dad’s secret family. A simple mistake communication ‘bragging’ ends your friendship? This season Leesa was louder, short tempered, insulting and not like her usual self.
She ask for what she gives. Last season Ayan was the jealous one. But also it seems that Ayan went and made friends with their mutual enemy, without telling Lesa. Especially when Lesa stood ten toes down for Ayan last season.
It wasn’t the word “bragging”, it was Ayan lying. There wouldn’t even be an issue if Ayan were not constantly going back and forth sharing information with two people who she knows doesn’t like eachother. And Ayan lying (allegedly) on top of that voice note fiasco, and constantly bringing others in on their private matters is a lot. Lesa couldn’t even decline speaking alone with Ayan without Ayan IMMEDIATELY telling everyone. Lesa expecting her friend to have common decency is all or nothing. K
I agree! Something is off with Lesa. However, I find Ayan to be gullible. Stanbury is English therefore a tactician. Brooks is the DEVIL, Sarah fake as F and Taleen doing the most for a coin. Taleen is nobody’s friend.
Lesa said “talk about what?” Bc she knew Ayan was about to bring up that producer and other girls inspired comment about how she is “different when she’s is around Lesa”. Ayan knew Lesa didn’t want to discuss that topic on camera because it’s sensitive to their friendship and Ayan went right ahead and did it. They were clearly trying to paint a certain narrative on the show about Lesa and Ayan didn’t protect their friendship the way I see Lesa trying to protect Ayan’s image. I would be pissed too.
Great recap its true. Things dont add up its more than the word bragging. Love Lesa but she went to far. Ayan girl... youre being played really hope its fake this fall out.
I think it is because now she no longer trust Ayan and plus last season Caroline called Lesa an escort and that had to be discussed between Ayan and Lesa. For her to then host this party with her and ask me to kiss this ladies hand. That is absurd.
@@MsMeashaIMO Girl you right. Sighs. I just hate that Lesa played into the ladies hands as well. They wanted to see her and Ayan fractured and for Lesa to be isolated. I just wish she kept it cool long enough to pay them dust at the reunion.
Hey Measha! Idk Lisa gives mean girl energy since season 1.. I don’t like the way she treats Ayan. I feel like she treats Ayan like a kid because Ayan is insecure about her English. Instead of going into the party with an attitude, she should have supported her friend. They should be allowed to have friends regardless of who the other doesn’t like. As for Lisa knowing and trying to play by the housewives playbook, it’s giving inauthentic. Ayan probably didn’t wanna feel fake in that moment. Great commentary, can’t wait til the reunion!
Mean girl energy with Lesa has been used a lot but never for the other ladies. What was Ayan being when she tried to set Sara up with that voice note. Stansbury and Taleen and Ayan were all excited to embarrass Sarah. And the entire cast took part in and was delighted in Lesa and Ayan’s friendship coming to an end. Taleen loved turning on and embarrassing Brooks to get Stansbury’s attention. Who on the cast is not a mean girl?
Maybe Lisa treats Ayan like a child because she acts childish. She is a little immature which may be a result of the trauma she’s been through as a child.
Look I went in to this episode as unbiased as I could. I've always been team Ayan and Lesa and I knew this episode would be that episode where we see them fall out. What did it for me was when Lesa literally was dismissive to Ayan and then tried to gaslight her about what had just happened. I was like Lesa..........girl. And then when she started swearing on her kids.......I was like ooooooo Lesa girl we don't do that over here! Girl it don't even matter no more. I'm on Ayan's side 🤣🤣🤣 Now as for Ayan betraying lesa...I just don't see it that way. We've seen lesa literally gaslight Ayan in real time and i feel that lesa did that at in Bali. Ayan said she told Lesa that she told Stanbury and that it may come up at dinner and I believe that. I think I was pissed at Lesa because lesa acted like she didn't know. Let's go back to season one when Lesa went to Stanburys party knowing that Ayan wasn't invited and it wasn't until her and Stanbury got to arguing and Stanbury told Lesa to suck Sergio's peen that Lesa and Stanbury started falling out. Lesa felt it was weird that Nina and Stanbury were friends and if I remember correctly Lesa and Nina had been the longest of friends. PS Ayan and Lesa were cool as of March 2024 I know because they took a picture with Nene, Porsha and Cynthia so.........idk.
Stanburry knew that cohosting a party with Ayan would get under Lesa' skin. She low key knew that
She has snake vibes!
She did that on purpose
Why would Lisa swear on her kids lives like that?? It's really not that deep.
As Jamaicans we do when we’re hot and being called a liar. These women are trying her
@@faith_myopinion6888 exactly! I cringed
That was too much for me!😮
Exactly
Yup ... i would never release that into the universe period ... omg my kids' lives 😮
This episode should have been called LISA LISA LISA😂😂
Exactly!
At this point, fire Sara and bring on Sergio.
Okayyy I would be down for that
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Sara does too much w the “healing” crap. She makes me want to get off my healing journey for fear of turning into her lol!
😂😂 put the man front & center
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Sarah needs to stop trying to mess with that Bootleg Micheal Ealy smh
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Not bootleg ! 😂😂😂😂
Hopefully the return policy at TEMU allows it 😒
Those girls were playing on Ayan’s top. And she fell for it. Now her and her bestie are beefing. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Exactly! She feel for the okie doke
I hate how it all went down. Here is my take. I respect both Chanel and Lesa.
I found what Lesa revealed about her upbringing to be the key to understanding why Lesa comes off as guarded and as some folks in the fandom call her “jealous and possessive”. I feel Lesa hasn’t made peace or come to terms with her father’s betrayal. She found out her dad had a whole other family. Her mom moved to Miami to work and support her family. I see Lesa’s upbringing has shaped her. You can see it in the way Lesa puts pressure on herself and expects others around her to meet that. A good example is her trying to be the best mom and be present and protect her boys. The number of alarms she needs to stay on top of mommy duties is a lot! The other instance is when she broke down and spoke with her mom about having Mina roe as a back up plan if in case Rich leaves. It was revelatory.
I would love healing and releasing of trauma and expectations of self and others for Lesa. I think we will see a more free and fun Lesa.
For Ayan. I see a young girl still trapped inside a grown woman’s body. Wow I am realizing now both Ayan and Lesa share similar childhood traumas. Feeling hurt and betrayal from their fathers. And both of them made a name for themselves. Wow. I need my girls back asap.
Back to Ayan. She is still in survival mode. Her ego is quite fragile and her mannerisms and behavior are childlike. I feel she is frozen in time and without adequately addressing her childhood traumas, she will continue to act out, have difficulty naming what she’s feeling and not taking accountability. It’s tough.
I pray they work it out and make their way back to each other. I hate to see beautiful women fall out like this. This is just my take and I could be wrong. Happy to hear what you all think.
What happened is:
-Both Lesa and Ayan have spoken about how the other girls are snakes to each other but Ayan goes on to be friends with the girls they both are saying in private that they don’t trust.
-The girls are trying to separate them and Ayan is falling for it so it feels like a blow to Lesa…a direct betrayal by Ayan. Ayan knows they are isolating Lesa and she’s going with it.
-Lesa definitely said don’t bring up Ayan acting different when she’s not around Lesa because that will complete the girls’ mission of fully icing Lesa out if they are no longer close and Lesa has no friends on the show.
-Lesa gave Ayan that dirty look when she said she wanted to talk because she knew she was about to bring up the one thing she just asked her not to bring up on camera.
-Yes Lesa is very image conscious and thought she could smooth that over by basically gaslighting the situation. But I would expect my friend to respect the one thing that would completely ice me out of the group.
-Lesa got mad that Ayan went ahead and said the thing she didn’t want discussed and did a tit for tat by throwing Ayan under the bus as well…but she was telling the truth.
-The dissolution of the friendship wasn’t about the word “brag”. It was about how Lesa felt like Ayan didn’t protect her image the way Lesa has tried to protect Ayan’s image in the past… then wouldn’t accept the same level of transparency when the shoe was on the other foot.
SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE SLOW ONES WATCHING!
Lesa peeped game and tried to put Ayan onto it BUT Ayan still fell for it and gave them heifers what they wanted!
I agree with you but i think Lesa played it wrong. Knowing the girls were trying to ice her out, she should have played it cool with Iyan. Ate her humble pie and fix her business later. Severing the friendship with Iyan was actually playing into the girls hands and allowing them a win. 🤷🏿♀️
Im upset with the way Ayan drank the kool-Aid
Same I’m like I know she is not falling for this foolishness 🤦🏽♀️
Fell for it hook line and sinker! It's sad to see
Thing is Ayan says mean things but she says it in a funny way, w an accent or starts crying right after.
Nah, she snorted the kool-aid and it went straight to her brain.
The reason why Lesa reacts that way to ayan all of a sudden being buddy buddy with stanbury is probably because her and Ayan had conversations about stanbury in the past. Shit she probably was still having those convos with her about stanbury in this season. It’s like people are quick to say Lesa is this and Lesa is that when in all honestly Lesa been trying to protect Ayan for a while. Yes it may seem controlling but she’s Ayans friend and she has concerns and it’s valid especially with how stanbury treated her and Ayan last season. But imma sit back with Lesa to watch that whole thing go up in flames. Also when Lesa said that thing about her kids it’s def a Jamaican saying. My family says it all the time.
I believe Ayan.
Lesa was still being overly possessive of Ayan when it wasn’t necessary, Ayan can be friends with whoever she wants to be friends with. If Lesa don’t like it, then she should pray on it
Stanbury apologized to Ayan more than once. If Ayan chooses to forgive Stanbury, that is her prerogative. If Lesa has an issue with it, maybe she should pray on it
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I've been saying this. I rewatched season 1. Stanbury hated Ayan. Lesa actually showed loyalty and had Ayan's back to the point where she ended having issues with Stanbury. Ayan has never spoken well about Caroline so to see them being besties is weird. It gives I want to be at the cool kids table.
Ayan sways with the wind blows. The 360-degree turn from Lesa was sealed under the Cabana conversation with the ladies telling Ayan she is different when.Lesa not around.
@@Natch40 I know she wants to make everyone happy but she will soon see who is really on her side.
Taleen, who we see literally throw her 10 year “friendship” with Brooks away for Stansbury who she just met tried to give Ayan advice about having her actual best friends back. Talene literally bowed at Stansbury’s feet and tried to bat for her and she literally just met her. But Ayan cannot defend Lisa? Mind you, Lisa defends Ayan as well. I need Ayan to think. This is what we’re doing? This episode actually pissed me off. 😂 10:15
Gurl, the fans are so flip floppy. They'll say Potomac is too heavy, to serious, but when it comes to Dubal, they say it's boring. All they want to do is tune in when there's a literal fight or when some really low things are said during an argument despite saying they hate the violence.
Dubai is on point and Potomac, ATL, etc. should take notes and lighten up! Violence is never cute! I for one don’t want to see that kind of TV.
Yep
Yes Lesa has been wrong in some moments this season but Chanel Ayan switched up like Taleen did Caroline Brooks.
And what’s crazy is Ayan didn’t even like when Taleen did that to Brooks! She was the first to point it out which I loved
@@unapologeticallyromel7096 she's a flip flopper.
I am so disappointed that Ayan let these ladies get in her head. She is definitely a people pleaser. If she was feeling like the friendship was 1 sided she should have spoken up for herself& not mentioned what the ladies said. Let her go over there with Stanbury so she can see what “ real” friendship is. Ayan is not a victim.
Right. Stansbury constantly complained about the way Ayan, talks and carries herself. Stansbury hates the way Ayan dresses. I even remember the first season when Nina had that dinner after Stansbury didn’t invite Ayan to her party and Stansbury reprimanded Ayan for calling her Stansbury instead of Caroline when everyone exclusively calls Stansbury, Stansbury. She found any reason to be against Ayan. Stansbury doesn’t even appreciate Ayan for who she is. She’s only interested in Ayan because she’s now at odds with Lesa and Nina is gone
The girls got what they wanted. The divide of Lesa and Ayan💔😢 Next season will definitely be the ladies picking sides. Lesa v Ayan.
@@Rosey1 next season is going to be a tough one with these dynamics.
Lesa sees through stanberry because Lesa was on a show before
@@c.m.9778 she knows how the game goes
@@MsMeashaIMO & does. Ayan should've listened
Ayan is a pickmesha a total pick me smh
She definitely gives pickme energy
Sara and Akin is giving Kenya and Walter….but Walter was paid more
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@iAm83raine OMG yesss!!! Yall know I love a good RHOA reference and this the one right here.
I agree MsMeasha,,, stanbury is only for herself..Ayan drank the coolaid, but she started the drama..always… Ayan is a people pleaser…how can she say “ Lesa tells me what to say” Ayan- shut up.
@@skyevenussuki Stanbury only cares about her and Sergio and that's it.
This review was so funny I listened twice and laughed out loud both times!!!
Thank youuuu💚
Great review!!! Thanks for breaking down the episode cuz I was a bit confused! I hate that Ayan let ridiculous taleen and broke get in her head! Anyway, excellent review!
@@valeriecraig4015 you are very welcome. 🤗💚
I don’t see this Lesa doesn’t want Ayan to be friends with the other ladies but who among these ladies are actually friends. The only real friendships were Ayan And Lesa and Nina and Stansbury. And Nina is gone. If Nina were there, would Stansbury care about some Ayan?? The ladies don’t even like each other! Lesa is absolutely territorial but she also recognizes that these ladies are not genuine. They only get along when they have a common enemy and the enemy is usually Lesa or Ayan. Ayan getting friendship advice from Brooks and Tylene and Sarah and Caroline, who all are not even friends is crazy. Brooks and Taleen are no longer friends. Sarah even fell out with Saba. None of these ladies have any real relationships and constantly talk about each other behind their backs, whether it’s about their families or their businesses etc.
people are calling Lisa a mean girl but Ayan literally tried to set up Sara and embarrass her in front of the entire group. And Stansbury couldnt wait to throw it in Sara and Brooks face. Lisa sharing that voice note with Ayan was absolutely trifling and look what the ladies, or “friends”, were willing to do with that information, because they’re ALL mean girls. None of them are truly friends except for Ayan and Lisa, and that is the real reason they are targeting their friendship. Ayan and Lesa together are a strong unit. The ladies are actually jealous of their friendship. They are also jealous of the confidence that Lisa and Ayan have in themselves and their popularity. They want to humble Lisa so bad because she is self-assured and doesn’t need to and refuses to suck up and try to fit in by any means necessary.
Measha girl!! This review was 100% on point! I was waiting on your thoughts about this episode. I definitely agreed with everything you said!
Lesa girl watch your back! Production and your cast mates have it out for you! Ayan girl this fake back bone thing is old. You had no problem with standing up for yourself in Bali. It’s giving she feels like Stanburry can serve her better so she is throwing everyone to the waste side. Ayan doesn’t know how to be loyal!
I’m still team Lesa! ❤
@@tresslove9998 when production showed those flashbacks I just knew they couldn't stand Lesa.
I think when Ayan with Lesa she talk shit about Stanbury alot so when Lesa see them buddy buddy it's giving two faced...remember now Lesa and Ayan been friends for real before this show...in season 1 because Lesa had Ayan's back why her and the other ladies were arguing...if we're friends and you talk shit with me about someone and then i see you all bestie with that person of course imma feel some type of way
Thing w Ayan is she says a lot but prob don’t mean half of what she says. Like prob says oh Stanbury is a snake… then later oh I meant in my country there’s a type of snake that has your eye color. You can’t take Ayan seriously…
Lesa let me tell you something 😂 I knew you were about to read Lisa about swearing on her kids
@@allin3940 I cringed
I feel like you clocked the lesa and Ayan situation
I HAVE BEEN WAITING ON YOUR REVIEW AT THE DOOR. You see through the Stanbury follow train, unlike these weirdo Bravo stans. I wish you were still reviewing LAMH cause u are the only person who gave unbiased reviews
@FretishaGates aww thank you! I had to let Huntsville go the people were toooooo invested and can't see things objectively.
@@MsMeashaIMO i stoped watching and only listened to your reviews cause u held Martel feet to the fire unlike some of these male centered content creators and u also called Mel out on her BS too
Viewers opinions have me questioning what show they’re watching. The rose color glasses when it comes to Ayan is crazy and I love her but she’s playing this wrong. Ayan is allowing the ladies to manipulate her because she really is a people pleaser and I think she loves the attention the ladies are giving her as a result of her friendship fallout. But they are only trying to connect with her BECAUSE of the friendship fallout. Stansbury, Lesa and Ayan were in a better place before the voice note. Stansbury and Ayan got closer after Lesa and Ayan experienced their rift. And Ayan carrying information back and forth between Lesa and Stansbury is messy and contributing to the distrust Lesa is developing for her. Lesa can’t even say no I don’t want to talk and she immediately goes and tells the ladies. She wanted to have that conversation publicly so all the ladies could rally against Lesa in support of her and Ayan is not filling me and apparently not Lesa. The Ladies are jealous of Lesa and Ayan’s friendship and popularity and Ayan can’t see that because she’s too busy trying to fit in. Fit into a group that doesn’t even get along unless they all have a common enemy and right now that enemy is Lesa because she doesn’t take their bs
If I were Lesa… the moment she threw that tantrum w the tears when called out about the voice note I’d be done w her. So after you do something wrong in public that affects me I can’t call you out in public?
I think the issue for Lesa is Don't tell me nothing these women say about our friendship. Ayan is trying to be loyal to both sides for some strange reason. Lesa thought they were Frick and Fraud but actually Frick and Fraud.
@@philgoode8846 I didn't think of it that way. That's a good point.
@@MsMeashaIMO they always try to be loyal to the rich white woman.
Ayan isn’t the brightest crayon in the box. Lesa might be a little pushy but, I think she genuinely cared about Ayan. Ayan was being gullible following behind the other girls. My guess is it’s going to blow up in her face next season and she’s going to wish she still had her best friend. I hope they can come back from this because I used to love seeing two beautiful, Black, successful, married women gag the gworls!
I think that’s why Lesa comes off controlling. Cuz Ayan is not bright n she has to tell her how to act or read a room.
That is the probably Lesa ain’t about to kiss Stanbury ass and that’s all everybody else does. Ayana gets the mess going and they putting it all on Lesa and they not fooling me. They can’t stand Lesa for existing and it’s pissing me off.
Preach!!!!
@@candacehouston3378 that want her to coward down. She's too confident for them
It's something about your voice and that laugh that brings people to your channel. Continue being your authentic self. You are a true gem to many people.
Thank you so much 💚
Taleen and Lesa should have stepped aside and spoke by themselves. Too many people in interjecting.
17:56 agreed I don’t think that Lisa has any maliciousness or Ayan has any maliciousness but like you said, Lisa definitely is making sure that she doesn’t look a fool on TV and so she wants to make sure her friend is not looking to fool either. Lesa also does not want Ayan telling her business. But Ayan wants to be accepted so bad that she’s steadily telling folks business and running back-and-forth between Lisa and Stansbury telling each other what the other has said and ruining their friendship. It’s sad but I feel like people are definitely giving Lisa way too much. Lesa is just about her business, and she refuses to let these folks run over her. Like they’re about to do to Ayan 😂 I don’t see these newfound friendships lasting unless Ayan kisses their asses
She's already kissing their a$$...
Stanbury accused Lesa of stealing designs for Mina Roe and said that Lesa was a prostitute (escort). Stanbury’s husband lied, claiming that Lesa’s business was funded by his friend. Sergio taunts Lesa about Ayan and Stanbury "friendship" at BravoCon (since her husband wasn't there). Lesa forgave Stanbury but that doesn't means she forgot or has to kiss her butt like the fans want her to. Lesa confident has these women and fans wanting to humble her cause to them Stanbury is suppose to be the Queen Bee of Dubai but Lesa won't bow down to her (kiss her hand) and Bravo fans want to put the black woman in her place. Ayan wants to be accepted so bad that its kinds sad to watch. Stanbury is latching on to Ayan star status since Ayan became the breakout star that Bravo intended Stanbury to be, but since Stanbury and Sergio came off as racist, means and nast in Season 1, Bravo took a year off for damage control like they did with Housewives of New York and now people have forgotten about Season 1 or didn't even watch it, so they are all on the Ayan /Stanbury train since production doesn't like Lesa (reminds me of Potomac shady production team)
How quickly people forget. I would never deal with her again either. I think some people just started watching this season.
I was so upset Leesa and Ayan gave the girls what they wanted which was for their friendship to be ruined but I feel both need to have a real talk. Ayan wanted to he accepted by them girls and Stanbury so much u threw your friend under the bus. Whew I was so mad this season ended the way it did. I knew Ayan was gon flip on Leesa though when they was tell her she act different when she is around. Ayan get it together please maam.
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Yesss I aggree.. I miss seeing pricetags pop up at the bottem… i miss when we was arguing over “Greg boRROWed $10,000sss”?!
Classic line. 😂😂😂
@@crystalaugustine5972 those were such good years.
I love my girl too but these girls can’t handle Lesa mouth that’s why she throws the b word around. Talen trying so gate to fit in that she better her ass handed to her every time. They give they don’t want to see Lesa do well and I’m sick of it.
They’re really mad because Lesa has a BACKBONE 💅🏾 The End !
This the one!
Sara, permanently leaving the show.. Get your son extensive therapy. never should’ve introduced your Lifetime Story aka Akin to your son.
Measha, the way you read these women down, I sincerely and wholeheartedly wish you would recap Orange County because I just know you would have me in stitches with your commentary on Tamra and Alexis' shenanigans against Shannon.
This was a great review, Measha! Hope you enjoyed all my soliloquies! 😂😂
AND DID 😂🤣😂
You’re on point with this as always
@graciatshala33 thank you 💚
Girl! Love the break down of this episode 🙂
Thank you so much 💚
Stanbury’s Doogie Howser comment sent me..😂
Me too😂😂😂
Team Lesa idc 🥰💯‼️
26:00 Lisa does care about perception, but I’m going to be with her on this and her faking like she didn’t know what was wrong with Ayan lol because she knew that Ayan was about to try to talk to her and make a spectacle of their friendship based off their previous conversation. Lisa, peeped game and was like nope not today. And then What does Ayan do? exactly what Lisa thought she was going to do. And yeah, Lisa was definitely 38 hot about that party and if you notice unless they cut it out asking to pull Lisa to the side seem to be the first time they actually spoke other than when Lisa entered the venue.
Hey Ms Measha, I absolutely love your reviews, the way I click on so fast after an episode, your vibe is everything!!
This review is on point! And I laughed my behind off!!
oopp. so Saba and Sara are now and forever Team Naan.
like the bread and rhe song
I believe Lisa but very shocked by Ayan’s actions.
I believe Lesa as well
At first I thought Lesa was tripping, but now I get it. She’s not upset about Ayan being friends with Caroline, it’s WHY would you want to be so close with someone who did me so dirty? She questioned her business and called her an escort, knowing they live in a conservative country and it could really affect her family and livelihood.
Lesa could have addressed her hurt better and not punish Ayan in public (Sags hate that), but I can see why she was hurt. Ayan is too wrapped up in herself and insecurity to see the other side.
I literally just commented this. Caroline really dogged Lesa at that reunion and Ayan knows all of the embarrassment she faced. Being cordial is cool but then you shared our personal voice notes and now this! I would be pissed too.
@@MsMeashaIMO
Caroline paid her dust last year and it was Lesa who had her back but Ayan still needed validation from Caroline. She represents a life Ayan was locked out of as a child, and to be real a lot of black people have internalized anti blackness. They’ll treasure a dime from whites vs a dollar from blacks.
It’s clear Lesa was at a higher station in life, and looked out for Chanel on multiple occasions. Lesa’s bossiness only became “controlling” when Ayan no longer needed her. Folks who need to be saved or haven’t dealt with their traumas, will unconsciously become users.
Ultimately Ayan will always have to perform for her supper with Caroline and be left unfulfilled. Lesa will also be left unfulfilled with a fake friendship with Brooks, and will be less trusting. Sad all around.
I missed you Measha! I’ve been waiting for my rhodubai review! We see each other! 😂
@@prtdiva hey girl heyyyy 💚
Not horse divers that sent me 😂😂😂
Idk the relationship gave friends because they are both women of color in Dubai not genuine friends in my opinion because it’s no way it’s this serious. I also hate how Ayan runs and cries.
That's guilt..
Brooks is actually really accessible lol she joins twitter spaces with my mutuals pretty often. Like 3-4 times a week at least 😭
Really??? Well I do remember her commenting on one of my reviews last season.
Hey Measha ❤ I was waiting for your review. Everyone can have their opinions & teams but anyone with common sense & a brain 🧠 can see everyone is trying to target Lesa and I am team Lesa this whole season and EP. Chanel Ayan is lying and I would never be her friend again and her friendship with Caroline S will not last long watch.
New to the show (5 eps in), I undrstnd Lesa’s issue was Ayan’s betrayal period. While I see Lesa was doin a lot, I get why. U can’t trust none of these snaky heffas and she thought Ayan understood the assgnmnt. I am like Lesa in that, if u brk trust…I don’t trust u no more. And Ayan breached several times. Lesa is a lil agressive, but these haters keep trying to come for her…sis don’t be out here playin with these snitches😂.
I’m not going to lie. I’m on Lisa side when it comes to that party. I feel like as a friend I should’ve been in the loop about a party you and my “ not so close co counterpart” are throwing. Like girl if we are as close as they say they are, we should’ve had a phone call at least. Not a video ( that never made the recording). Like chile really. I would’ve look upside my besties head to like who are you?! I know she didn’t like the way she reacted, but play stupid games, win stupid prizes. And where you pitch the tent, is where we can build the circus! Now EVERYBODY know we ain’t straight
I agree
Sarah crazy as hell!!
AND IS
Listen, I live in Ohio and you were about to make me take a red-eye flight to your location if I didn't get a review lol. I feel like Lesa's major problem is sheer wants to be the Queen Bee of Dubai but Stanburry and Ayan are the ones becoming the faces. Brooks is trying too hard to be the villain. There is no way sister girl has a problem with every damn thing. They need to bring in at least one more girl for season 3.
They haven't shown a clip of Sara's son in distress yet. He's always smiling up in the grown folks' conversations.
I'm not saying that the situation isn't serious, and I would be afraid to let my child out of my sight if I had been in her shoes. But on camera, that child appears happy.
Do we know for a fact this was a true story? To me Sara almost has a smile on when she’s discussing it
Sara has a little lying problem
and twerking every chance he gets lol
He is always just smiling, and in the grown folks business 😂🤣😂🤣
Hey Girl Heyyy! Thank you for another wonderful review with Measha in the Morning! Stay safe & enjoy your day! 🤗🧡
Brookes need therapy...
I hope Lisa continue to stand her ground and black women don’t Allow anyone to tell you to shut it down because you’re Speak in your peace Say it like you want to say it at least they heard you loud and clear. Black women not falling for that crap anymore Speak
Exactly! They want to humble us and keep us quiet.
I think production did Lesa dirty. Ayan has said some strange things and doesn't seem to understand the culture and I think Lesa tries to help her.
Ayan and Caroline Stanbury throwing a party together definitely gives storyline! The let's make Lesa jealous storyline.
I agree with you!
Gurl I just don't believe that Ayan and Lesa were real friends.
New subscriber. Absolute love your content. Review is on point. I rewatched season 1, especially the reunion and I now understand why Lesa feels hurt. Lesa defended Ayan season 1 to the point where she had issues with everyone. Now Ayan flips on her and make best friends with the same ladies, mainly Caroline, who treated Ayan extremely poor in season 1. Ayan then started sharing things she talks about with Lesa to Caroline. That's not best friend behavior. Lesa also saying the other ladies don't have a business have me thinking she knows something about their businesses. She's been saying thi consistently from season 1. Could this be the reason they re trying to ice her out and maybe get rid of her. She remember she did expose Carolin or being friends with Epstein. Also in season 1 Ayan did not want Lesa to be kool with anyone she wasn't with, mainly Brooks.
Hey girl heyyy thank you so much for giving my channel a chance and subscribing. 💚
@@MsMeashaIMO you're welcome
Hello - your reviews are so good. I personally feel Ayan has low self esteem while trying to appear it's so high. She 'masks' herself in over the top clothing to hide how she really feels and because her esteem is so low, the other ladies were able to creep into her head and now she has conflict with Lisa. Two things can be true, Lisa can be a bossy friend and also Lisa could still be a good friend. I have a few in my life and I understand that is their personality and I know how to move accordingly.
On another note, I absolutely hate how these reality women use the "b" word so loosely. I could never have a friend call me that I don't care if she's playing or not.
I’ve thought the same thing about Ayan. She might have self esteem issues.
They all (except Lesa) put Stansbury on a pedestal. It’s like that popular girl in high school, people just want to be in their presence. It’s ridiculous.
The bg magic is over…they let them jealous ww and others break up something very real. It’s what “others” ppl always want to have…CB is such a disappointment to that bg magic😒
Leeza’s image is very important to her.
I love your hilarious reviews, thank you! My take is, Lesa is a bit and a half, she needs to back off and learn to calm down before she speaks. Everything doesn’t have to be soooo extra! Ayan on the other hand needs some backbone and should be more confident and speak up for herself. She doesn’t need a groupie to shine. Just be her true self as her sister reminded her of.
I only saw the end with the fight but I'm here. Chile I can't wait for the reunion.
Exactly! I just hate Ayana feel for the foolishness🤦🏽♀️
I don't even watch this show but I watch everything you post!
Thank you so much for supporting me 💚
Bold of you MsMeasha to say you sre curious if thy will play next season as if we aren't just wait for Andy to say RHoDu is on pause for the cause!
I do NOT play about the ‘B’ word. Don’t call me out of my name.
Me either! I don't play that.
They have been coming for Lisa's neck this season but Lisa has been doing to much in the last 2 episodes.
I'm usually really good at peeping game on these reality shows and this is what i think, Lesa is very sneaky and manipulative. She was SO upset with Ayan for being friends with Stansbury and what better way to get back at Ayan than to turn the fans against her. See Lesa knows how this reality thing works and Ayan isn't too sharp when it comes to reality television. She made it seem as if Ayan is this horrible friend, and her feelings are so "hurt." Lesa wanted to hurt Ayan and it worked because the fans have been attacking Ayan left and right.
Yall can’t be mad at Stansbury for playing the game. Of course she knew co-hosting that party would make Lesa mad. So yes it was purposeful, but if Lesa isn’t jealous then it shouldn’t matter, right? Lesa only had full control over Ayan when there was beef. Lesa’s blood was about to boil over at that party. She couldn’t take it. She was rude to Ayan first & then when Ayan tried to talk to her she was passive aggressive THEN gaslit the hell of Ayan talking about “no I told you I just needed a minute”. They must’ve edited that part out then. Lesa was jealous!
Ayan can be friends with whom she wants & still remain besties with Lesa. Lesa didn’t want it. Period!
Multiple things could be true.
Lesa might want to control the narrative but now she risks being iced out...and then what?
Love your commentary BUTTTTT I have to disagree with you regarding Lesa & Ayan. Lesa stated she is a Jealous friend. So I TRULY believe Lesa is envious of Stanbury's & Ayan growing friendship. Love Lesa too but the green (envy) was showing all throughout this episode
Well I feel like I would feel a way too when my BFF befriends a woman that called me an escort in a place like Dubai and then said that I didn't create my own business. She may be jealous. I don't disagree but I think she has good reason
Leesa has an all or nothing expectation of the people who love her and any crack in that sends her off. Maybe due to her dad’s secret family. A simple mistake communication ‘bragging’ ends your friendship? This season Leesa was louder, short tempered, insulting and not like her usual self.
She ask for what she gives.
Last season Ayan was the jealous one.
But also it seems that Ayan went and made friends with their mutual enemy, without telling Lesa. Especially when Lesa stood ten toes down for Ayan last season.
It wasn’t the word “bragging”, it was Ayan lying. There wouldn’t even be an issue if Ayan were not constantly going back and forth sharing information with two people who she knows doesn’t like eachother. And Ayan lying (allegedly) on top of that voice note fiasco, and constantly bringing others in on their private matters is a lot. Lesa couldn’t even decline speaking alone with Ayan without Ayan IMMEDIATELY telling everyone. Lesa expecting her friend to have common decency is all or nothing. K
Agreed 100%..this season she was quick to go from 0 to 100 every time
She was different this season for sure but Ayan was annoying me.
I agree! Something is off with Lesa. However, I find Ayan to be gullible. Stanbury is English therefore a tactician. Brooks is the DEVIL, Sarah fake as F and Taleen doing the most for a coin. Taleen is nobody’s friend.
I love your reviews 🩵
Thank you so much 💚
Did she say there’s no food or foods coming?? At Ayan’s party
Not command strips or the good glue lmbo
Why Rich got more sense than Lesa? 🤔 like why u dismissing ur best friend gurl?
Lesa said “talk about what?” Bc she knew Ayan was about to bring up that producer and other girls inspired comment about how she is “different when she’s is around Lesa”. Ayan knew Lesa didn’t want to discuss that topic on camera because it’s sensitive to their friendship and Ayan went right ahead and did it. They were clearly trying to paint a certain narrative on the show about Lesa and Ayan didn’t protect their friendship the way I see Lesa trying to protect Ayan’s image. I would be pissed too.
That man didn't see what Lesa saw, what does that have to do with her having sense? Everybody's husband isn't as messy as Sergio's sassy a$$....😂
Im gonna stick up for Max lol I follow him on socials and he’s a fitness influencer in Dubai, he’s not rich but he got money.
Great recap its true. Things dont add up its more than the word bragging. Love Lesa but she went to far. Ayan girl... youre being played really hope its fake this fall out.
Why is the party is a betrayal? It's silly sure maybe even annoying but I wouldn't say a betrayal🤷🏿♀️ Lisa is too jelly over a friend.
I think it is because now she no longer trust Ayan and plus last season Caroline called Lesa an escort and that had to be discussed between Ayan and Lesa. For her to then host this party with her and ask me to kiss this ladies hand. That is absurd.
@@MsMeashaIMO Girl you right. Sighs. I just hate that Lesa played into the ladies hands as well. They wanted to see her and Ayan fractured and for Lesa to be isolated. I just wish she kept it cool long enough to pay them dust at the reunion.
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Hey Meash when she said there was no food I thought of you..Same here.Lisa is bullies Ayan
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Hey Measha! Idk Lisa gives mean girl energy since season 1.. I don’t like the way she treats Ayan. I feel like she treats Ayan like a kid because Ayan is insecure about her English. Instead of going into the party with an attitude, she should have supported her friend. They should be allowed to have friends regardless of who the other doesn’t like.
As for Lisa knowing and trying to play by the housewives playbook, it’s giving inauthentic. Ayan probably didn’t wanna feel fake in that moment. Great commentary, can’t wait til the reunion!
Good point!
Mean girl energy with Lesa has been used a lot but never for the other ladies. What was Ayan being when she tried to set Sara up with that voice note. Stansbury and Taleen and Ayan were all excited to embarrass Sarah. And the entire cast took part in and was delighted in Lesa and Ayan’s friendship coming to an end. Taleen loved turning on and embarrassing Brooks to get Stansbury’s attention. Who on the cast is not a mean girl?
Maybe Lisa treats Ayan like a child because she acts childish. She is a little immature which may be a result of the trauma she’s been through as a child.
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Look I went in to this episode as unbiased as I could. I've always been team Ayan and Lesa and I knew this episode would be that episode where we see them fall out. What did it for me was when Lesa literally was dismissive to Ayan and then tried to gaslight her about what had just happened. I was like Lesa..........girl. And then when she started swearing on her kids.......I was like ooooooo Lesa girl we don't do that over here! Girl it don't even matter no more. I'm on Ayan's side 🤣🤣🤣
Now as for Ayan betraying lesa...I just don't see it that way. We've seen lesa literally gaslight Ayan in real time and i feel that lesa did that at in Bali. Ayan said she told Lesa that she told Stanbury and that it may come up at dinner and I believe that. I think I was pissed at Lesa because lesa acted like she didn't know.
Let's go back to season one when Lesa went to Stanburys party knowing that Ayan wasn't invited and it wasn't until her and Stanbury got to arguing and Stanbury told Lesa to suck Sergio's peen that Lesa and Stanbury started falling out. Lesa felt it was weird that Nina and Stanbury were friends and if I remember correctly Lesa and Nina had been the longest of friends.
PS Ayan and Lesa were cool as of March 2024 I know because they took a picture with Nene, Porsha and Cynthia so.........idk.
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I'm glad Ayan finally saw Lesa for what she is.
Brooks & Lesa are the worst!