VLOG: learning to be more independent in my 20s *episode 1*

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @tiamarrow6366
    @tiamarrow6366 Рік тому +84

    This video describes so many of us….it’s so hard to be independent on our own when struggling with anxiety and mental health, because unfortunately while so many of us are open about it and try to be advocates for it….we live in a world that for the most part, just doesn’t care for mental health issues, and we’re left to fend for ourselves. Tasks like driving to get gas, going to the store, or even driving to school, etc…..they might seem super easy but to those of us who usually only do them with other people around like friends, or family members because we have anxiety….it can be super overwhelming especially when we have to start being more independent and learning to do things on our own. So thank you Sam for being so real and honest with us about that struggle.

  • @laurafasolo
    @laurafasolo Рік тому +33

    lowkey crying this is so me

  • @AmandaPulitano
    @AmandaPulitano Рік тому +61

    Love love love this

    • @quentinkurth2343
      @quentinkurth2343 Рік тому +2

      Amanda’s right 💜. Love watching your videos too Amanda 💜.

    • @samiah11
      @samiah11 Рік тому +2

      love watching you all💕

  • @alyviaguariglia
    @alyviaguariglia Рік тому +19

    I’m also on the finding independence journey!!!!! My fiancé is THE BEST but he works crazy hours in the ER so I find myself trying to grow and slowly become independent and not so dependent on him. Proud of us! ❤

  • @YasminxRivera
    @YasminxRivera Рік тому +53

    As someone who has been dealing with really bad anxiety. I needed this video!

  • @LilMissBookLuvr
    @LilMissBookLuvr Рік тому +6

    Needed someone to say this, thank you girly, you are not alone in this. Plz do more videos like these! Love your nails too 💕 Found you recently and you have the most authentic energy! 💅🏼✨

  • @shaynasorrells899
    @shaynasorrells899 Рік тому +10

    i love how real and raw this video was because we all have our own anxieties we struggle with along with mental health

  • @Katie-pd4qt
    @Katie-pd4qt Рік тому +10

    you could do a exploring nyc by my self for this series !🤍

  • @eliana.29
    @eliana.29 Рік тому +12

    i am living for these types of vids!! 🫶🏻

  • @shakoorah1
    @shakoorah1 Рік тому +10

    Feeling /being alone has it’s pros and cons. It’s a time to focus on one’s own well being and growth. Similarly to you Sam I used to find it more difficult doing things by myself yet life put me in situations where I’ve had to do things solo. Well done to you for being honest with us and yourself ❤❤❤keep going girl ☺️☺️☺️love ya !

  • @Mixkayla24
    @Mixkayla24 Рік тому +4

    I have anxiety. And I love to be alone. When I was younger, I had to be around someone. Not all the time but, more than now. Now I have a full house and never have any me time. I love me time when I am able to get it. Enjoy your time alone. Cause down the road, you probably won’t have it lol maybe!

  • @ariavargas
    @ariavargas Рік тому +6

    Love that you’re sharing your journey with us! This is something I need to work on too, as someone that struggles with anxiety regularly. I can’t wait to watch you grow on your journey of becoming more independent ❤

  • @samiah11
    @samiah11 Рік тому +6

    watching sam’s videos are so therapeutic💗

  • @saraelizabeth1788
    @saraelizabeth1788 Рік тому +2

    Didn’t even know codependency was a thing until last year. It ain’t your fault, it’s the trauma babyyyyyyy.how your working on healing yourself says so much about how mature you are and how self aware you are. You deserve inner peace. Keep on inspiring us with your journey 🤩

  • @talia1036
    @talia1036 Рік тому +6

    The way I’m always looking at your necklace!! Can’t wait to receive it ✨

  • @haleyfischer1187
    @haleyfischer1187 Рік тому +5

    Been here since the beginning!! I absolutely love your growth, strength and confidence you have gained over these last 3 years. And you have inspired so many of us to get out of our comfort zones. You have been so open and real with us through all this and to be so open with your anxiety and depression is so real and deep! We love you babe. Can’t wait to see what the future holds for “us”!

  • @Jojo-od7wh
    @Jojo-od7wh Рік тому +1

    everything you said in this video resonated with me so much as someone in their 20s also in a long-term relationship... doing every day things alone (especially with anxiety) can be so challenging but so rewarding when you actually do it! loved this video

  • @riahstarr20
    @riahstarr20 Рік тому

    i think this was lowkey my fav video of urs. love the chill vibes sm

  • @maleekakhan2316
    @maleekakhan2316 Рік тому +7

    Hun love your vibe, you inspire me always, im 21. And I have learned a lot from this vlog, your a young natural beauty my queen. So much love for you and keep smiling and stay young my friend ❤😊

  • @jessibookseries-pr9pb
    @jessibookseries-pr9pb Рік тому +5

    This was the definition of relatable 💗

  • @ArzuAtakli
    @ArzuAtakli Рік тому +1

    as you said at the beginning of this video sleeping without something sounds at the back it gives me anxiety before my sleep cause i have to deal with my thoughts and then my dreams or my sleep ends up being bad. However im so proud seeing you doing things by your own you are doing amazing sweetie and im here to support you and to fight together the anxiety that we have.

  • @tiffany8815
    @tiffany8815 Рік тому +1

    When I was little, I fell asleep with a radio & now I just use the sound of the fan. My hubby also travels a lot so I feel for you.

  • @liavargas8695
    @liavargas8695 Рік тому +1

    you are one of the source of happiness, comfort, and entertainment during my acl tear recovery. ily! 💌

  • @missblakeking
    @missblakeking Рік тому

    i was the same & someone told me when you hit that what am i supposed to do mood you can stretch & i was like um not going to do much & it calms me down so freaking much to where im not like what should i do feeling like a psychopath. love to you girly 😂❤

  • @Dolleyed11
    @Dolleyed11 Рік тому +1

    This is beautiful I’m recently turned 20 and it’s scary to be independent on your own thank you for making this video love you so much🫶🏾🥺🥺❤️

  • @leane_004
    @leane_004 Рік тому

    I love u Sam and I’m so proud of you for learning to be more independent!🫶🫶🫶🫶

  • @AnnabelleCaron-xs2jo
    @AnnabelleCaron-xs2jo Рік тому +2

    so so proud of you🫶

  • @23kls
    @23kls Рік тому

    I LOVE it when your regrowth shows ! Looks so good on you, and looks like a ombre !

  • @patrick_527
    @patrick_527 Рік тому

    Yes, it's at time best being independence.

  • @user-yx5ev3hg8e
    @user-yx5ev3hg8e Рік тому +1

    u remind me of emmy rossum ( fiona from shameless ) !! such a natural beauty

    • @hayley4059
      @hayley4059 Рік тому

      I was about to say the same thing

  • @shonikudi
    @shonikudi Рік тому

    I m dealing with overthinking n your video is making me feel relaxed and comfortable 🤍

  • @mikecoldman2837
    @mikecoldman2837 Рік тому

    you have the seat belt in the lower position, raise it up, the closer the neck it sits the safer it is, if
    you have it too low then the risk is that it slides off your shoulder during an accident, and then it
    can hurt you instead

  • @kennedyggreen
    @kennedyggreen Рік тому

    Just found your account and I'm loving your videos!! They are relaxing but still interesting without being boring. Love your editing :))

  • @CaseyCox-o8f
    @CaseyCox-o8f Рік тому

    I love how real u are!

  • @isabelramonn
    @isabelramonn Рік тому +1

    aww sam! I remember when you first started your channel :) it's been so inspiring to watch you grow💘💝💖

  • @samiah11
    @samiah11 Рік тому

    The first video I watched from you was from my old account but it was 2 yrs ago about how to customize your iPhone since thats what popped on my homepage but then afterwards, I went through your channel and kept watching you. Keep it up 💗

  • @hiimcool.12
    @hiimcool.12 Рік тому +2

    i needed this vid

  • @ryanrowe1975
    @ryanrowe1975 Рік тому +1

    Can't wait

  • @sunshine-ii9cz
    @sunshine-ii9cz Рік тому

    I neeeeded thisssssssss ufff sam ily😭

  • @emilia1799
    @emilia1799 Рік тому +2

    what coloring book do you use ? ❤

  • @ShotbyKdot
    @ShotbyKdot Рік тому +3

    With your spare time you could read, learn a new language, meditate, journal, positive affirmations, stretch, workout, food prep (I know you don't like to cook but still lol) ❤❤❤

  • @oliviajade777
    @oliviajade777 Рік тому

    the way I get anxiety about phone calls😬😬
    my therapy has a rule where if you don’t make another appointment within 30 days, you’ll be removed from their program. I was putting off making my next appointment and literally waited until I got a letter saying I had to make one or i’d be removed. it took 5 minutes and it was SO easy

  • @valval_20
    @valval_20 Рік тому

    And I will continue to believe in you! From 2020 and beyond💖💖💝🥺👏🏻

  • @DMarke
    @DMarke Рік тому

    💗Stay Positive Like Always💗

  • @Selenas_favorite
    @Selenas_favorite Рік тому

    Your bagel is literally making me drool 🤤 🧀 🥯

  • @iconic240
    @iconic240 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos sm !!❤

  • @emmareeve2312
    @emmareeve2312 Рік тому

    Need more of these 💕

  • @emilyfridman6308
    @emilyfridman6308 Рік тому

    I listen to audiobooks to fall asleep. I totally get it.

  • @jazmanamber
    @jazmanamber Рік тому

    Target has some good coloring books. I personally recommend Johanna Basford coloring books🌸💖

  • @hope2256
    @hope2256 Рік тому +1

    The teddy bears name should be brownie or snuggles!! 😍

  • @Queenjessicasimonelli00
    @Queenjessicasimonelli00 Рік тому

    i was having a bad day. Needed this Vlog!

  • @quentinkurth2343
    @quentinkurth2343 Рік тому

    I’m really love these 💜💜💜💜.

  • @iankerry6737
    @iankerry6737 Рік тому

    gentle hugs from England ❤

  • @suzan7161
    @suzan7161 Рік тому

    Love your pink robe. You can do it. Go out and have breakfast at a restaurant. I do it all the time my self. Cute bear my suggestion for his name is: Checkers. For his Checkered sweater. ❤

  • @gelparagas1802
    @gelparagas1802 Рік тому

    Nessa ❤

  • @alyssamaria7057
    @alyssamaria7057 Рік тому

    this is SO RELATEABLE! fr lol

  • @Shantelljohn09
    @Shantelljohn09 Рік тому

    I put off doctors appointments so now im struggling because of it. I now know, im hypoclemic and i need to eat sugar to not be dizzy and stuff like that.

  • @Flavia_Flav
    @Flavia_Flav Рік тому

    I freaking love you’re UA-cam videos is my favorite I love you sam we’re did you get you’re coloring book from🤍😌

  • @carlajune6320
    @carlajune6320 Рік тому

    where are your glasses from?

  • @misaujo
    @misaujo Рік тому +4

    literally love when you post because you always make my day i will watch your video over and over again because i lvoe it so much it bring me so much peace ,so much freedom idk what i am saying i am just a 16 year old who wish to live your life i love you mija 💓💓💓💓💓i hope one day i can meet you in person💗💗💗💗.

  • @samanthabissell22
    @samanthabissell22 Рік тому

    I highly recommend listening to miss independent by Kelly clarkson fabulous video

  • @Candy94001
    @Candy94001 Рік тому

    What size do you have the comfrt hoodie in?

  • @queendoll5836
    @queendoll5836 Рік тому

    U makes Ur pics and vlogs with iPhone 14 pro max??

  • @bellababiexOx
    @bellababiexOx Рік тому +5

    For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
    JOHN 3:16
    I truly felt the Lord was tugging on my heart to share that Bible verse with you. Jesus loves you and if you repent and accept him into your life as your Lord and savior you are truly never alone. He is with you always! 🤍
    Much love girlfriend 💕🤗

  • @celiaa5
    @celiaa5 Рік тому

    I adore you 💗

  • @AyandaZibane
    @AyandaZibane Рік тому +1

    Where y’all at?!!😭

  • @sissa6048
    @sissa6048 Рік тому

    i can relate to u so much

  • @Fingomo
    @Fingomo Рік тому

    You are special 😊

  • @emmapaige3358
    @emmapaige3358 Рік тому

    what car do you have

  • @raquelhazel4116
    @raquelhazel4116 Рік тому

    I’m the same hate being alone 😢

  • @liavargas8695
    @liavargas8695 Рік тому

    i love you :((((

  • @tiffany8815
    @tiffany8815 Рік тому

    Your videos convince me that I could also be a UA-camr.

  • @urvashichaudhary5749
    @urvashichaudhary5749 Рік тому

    Mis. Cuddles 😊

  • @emmanorwood3396
    @emmanorwood3396 Рік тому

    Love u Sam 🤍🤍🤍

  • @cameronstutson
    @cameronstutson Рік тому

    lmao this is so relatable

  • @much.249
    @much.249 Рік тому +2

    U should name ur teddy pablo

  • @tiffany8815
    @tiffany8815 Рік тому

    my goal is to own as many sweat sets as you

  • @alexistroxel7178
    @alexistroxel7178 Рік тому

    I mean this in the nicest way possible.. get some anxiety meds. It’s the best thing I have ever done for myself. I didn’t realize how much my social anxiety was holding me back

  • @sailormoon8855
    @sailormoon8855 Рік тому

    Girl go get coffee, Home Goods and for a walk 😂 you’ll be fine

  • @shiraleahnorman1893
    @shiraleahnorman1893 Рік тому

    why does she kind of look like gabi demartino?? omg

  • @lamahz9518
    @lamahz9518 Рік тому

    At this point you and sam have to get married

  • @saavi_slay_gurl
    @saavi_slay_gurl Рік тому

    *69 views*

  • @Motorcycle5667
    @Motorcycle5667 10 місяців тому

    Women lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂