STATE OF MIND with MAURICE BENARD: RUSSELL BUTLER AKA DANCING UPS MAN

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 9 бер 2024
  • Russell Buttler was an open book. You should never judge a book by its cover. He is an incredibly famous influencer who dances like no other. We get into everything; depression, suicide, friendship, dancing parents and more. You don't want to miss this.
    Instagram: / mauricebenard
    Twitter: / mauricebenard
    Facebook: / mauricebenard
    Instagram: / mbstateofmind
    Twitter: / mbstateofmind
    Learn more about State Of Mind at www.mbstateofmind.com.
    If you'd like to learn more about my life, I've recently released "Nothing General About It - How Love (and Lithium) Saved Me On and Off General Hospital" www.amazon.com/dp/0062973371?...
  • Розваги

КОМЕНТАРІ • 90

  • @karenjones9667
    @karenjones9667 4 місяці тому +5

    I hope men in particular can see this and know it’s not a weakness to have anxiety and depression and ASK for help. Great discussion guys

  • @Momsautumn
    @Momsautumn 4 місяці тому +18

    Omg the UPS guy 🥰love him!!!!! He is such a bright light ❤

  • @BernadetteResnik
    @BernadetteResnik 4 місяці тому +3

    My parents died 10 days apart, unrelated after 911. Even when you are grown, the sense of being totally alone can be overwhelming. When you realize you can never go home.

  • @azmarigold
    @azmarigold 4 місяці тому +4

    UPS and MB in one video 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @tabathaholder9993
    @tabathaholder9993 4 місяці тому +1

    Maurice benard. Thsnk u 4 all that you do. Your life is a testimony

  • @EbonyCoulter6723
    @EbonyCoulter6723 4 місяці тому +2

    Happy sunday Maurice and your guess and great conversation 😊😊😊 ❤♥️❤❤

  • @heiditartaglia9483
    @heiditartaglia9483 4 місяці тому +3

    Much respect for these two men and their message 👏 ❤

  • @avamm1957
    @avamm1957 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Maurice 😊

  • @nycalgal
    @nycalgal 4 місяці тому +2

    Excellent SOM. Robert, may Luke's memory be a blessing.
    Maurice, I am fighting depression now after a dx of breast cancer. I am going to have a mastectomy and am not very happy about it. Your SOM shows help keep me focused. Thank you

  • @katheleanrichardson883
    @katheleanrichardson883 4 місяці тому +3

    Mr. Butler sorry for what you've been going through! God bless you 🙏 ❤️ Hang in there pray will help so much! Do those breathing exercises they help so much ❤

  • @user-gb1it8vf8z
    @user-gb1it8vf8z 4 місяці тому +1

    Love Dancing 💃💃💃🕺🕺Great Conversations loved the Honesty n being so Open minded Maurice n Russell

  • @katheleanrichardson883
    @katheleanrichardson883 4 місяці тому +1

    Marice thank you for State of mind! You have helped a lot of people! You no what they are going through because you have been there! Keep up the good work!God bless you 🙏 ❤

  • @carolmoore9329
    @carolmoore9329 4 місяці тому +8

    Thank you for addressing depression and anxiety. My first depression hit me when I was 16. I fell apart at my job. That was 61 years ago. Years of depression. I drank to numb me inside and out. Finally, I received help 31 years ago. A professional once asked me why I was depressed. ??? Some professional. I am better. Counselling, prayer, medication, taking care of me. I no longer hear my alcoholic father's voice and do not believe what he said. Again, thank you, Maurice for sharing and for State of Mind

  • @Lisafallgirl420
    @Lisafallgirl420 20 днів тому

    I recently found him on Tik Tok. Love the dancing, especially if it's been a long day. Thanks for talking about depression.
    I'm so sorry for your loss Russell Butler. That had to be a hard one.
    My dad's been gone since 2015. His twin just died recently. My mom lives with me. She has bipolar disorder with depression. After 3 strikes she tried to end her life last year. She can't see the positive over the negativity.

  • @kelliemccormick3703
    @kelliemccormick3703 4 місяці тому +1

    Great show

  • @user-gb1it8vf8z
    @user-gb1it8vf8z 4 місяці тому +2

    I lost my parents n I can relate Great Interveiw Maurice n Russell Loved this

  • @justinjuerakhan7934
    @justinjuerakhan7934 4 місяці тому +2

    I love to dance so this interview felt good to watch!!!!

  • @graceknowles3976
    @graceknowles3976 4 місяці тому +1

    Maurice, my birthday was on the 11th of March.
    I understand all to well the state of depression depression prayer and exercise gets me thru life

  • @LindaCastelli-jj7oj
    @LindaCastelli-jj7oj 4 місяці тому +7

    Happy Belated Birthday Maurice ! Mine was last Wednesday, I just turned 60 . Lots of Love 🥰

  • @yvettescheppegrell2239
    @yvettescheppegrell2239 4 місяці тому +1

    Great episode

  • @user-br1nz9dj7f
    @user-br1nz9dj7f 4 місяці тому +1

    For the past 7 years I have been living with something called a conversion disorder. When I get anxious I fall down. I have had broken bones, several head wounds, bruises and almost bit my tongue in half. You mentioned getting out of bed but for me right now that’s the only place I feel safe. Like Tyler (rip) I have been trying to find ONE doctor to help me with everything. It’s hard dealing with the health care system in this country. Your voice is actually soothing and a distraction when I feel like I’m going down. I wouldn’t have made it this long without my daughter. Any time I want to check out I picture her. Thank you for being so open about mental health issues. EVERYONE needs to educate themselves.❤

  • @ksteban
    @ksteban 4 місяці тому +1

    What a great topic. I can relate completely. Sometimes I become so overwhelmed with stress & anxiety, I cry. I do feel better after that. Love State of Mind. Thank you.

  • @Spotsallaround
    @Spotsallaround 2 місяці тому

    Love you both ❤Great conversation! Thank you !🙏

  • @michellelang9633
    @michellelang9633 2 місяці тому

    Thank you ... 2 of my favorite men

  • @debrawitherspoon2201
    @debrawitherspoon2201 4 місяці тому +2

    There is no time limit on grieving

  • @markreyes2321
    @markreyes2321 4 місяці тому +8

    Maurice, you've made a huge difference in SO many lives worldwide and certainly you know SO many just love you. It's a wonderful life!

  • @lisareyes-winfrey8059
    @lisareyes-winfrey8059 4 місяці тому +1

    💙💙💙

  • @Kylara1972
    @Kylara1972 4 місяці тому +4

    I understand the loss of parents at such a close time to each other. My parents passed 2 days apart from each other in July 2020. It is something you never can prepare for. We lost my dad to cancer on July 27th and my mom to a broken heart on July 29th.

    • @BernadetteResnik
      @BernadetteResnik 4 місяці тому +1

      My mother had a botched surgery for a stomach hernia... While waiting for her to die, my dad unexpectedly died. Even though they were divorced, I like to think he went before her so she wouldn't be alone. True love never dies!

    • @Kylara1972
      @Kylara1972 4 місяці тому

      @@BernadetteResnikMy mom fell in love with my dad when she was 14 and he was 17. It took him a little longer to have the feels, but they were best friends then. They were married for 2 weeks shy of 53 years. I believe true love is always there and keeps you bound together.

  • @jenbo6793
    @jenbo6793 4 місяці тому +2

    Was just listening and at exacTLy 3:10 my lamp went on by itself. Today's date is 3-10-24 and it wz at the moment of losing parents back to back. So have I...so wiLD they are never far !✌💙💜💙🌌

  • @laonna300
    @laonna300 4 місяці тому +3

    Hi Maurice, first I want to say I ABSOLUTELY
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ GH, and been watching since I was in middle school, and now I'm 54. Also I wanted to say you are a PHENOMENAL actor
    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 & the cast as well.
    I also wanted to let you know that this episode of SOM really was hitting the nail on the head ( I do use this phrase a lot 😂) but in seriously I suffer with anxiety & depression since I was very young, but now being diagnosed having manic depression it slowly got worse as I got older in in my early 20's. I did not know why I was feeling emotionally sad or down all the time. In my community being a black women no one in my family or friends wasn't using the words A&D in a conversation, so I keep my emotions to myself even though my mother & sister saw that I wasn't feeling well.
    When I loss my job back in 2012 I was fired for losing a money 💵 💰 at the time I had to carry two money MBags, one for the store & the other for playing the lottery which was the one I lost. Mind you, I was working at the airport and I believed I left the MB on the moving tram on my way to my assigned store. So, long story short at this point I already knew that I was going to get fired bc the company I worked for had guidelines that if a MB was lost it was a automatic termination. I was devastated and ashamed for losing the MB & felt that all 👀 were on me, and that my co-workers were going to think I stole the 💵 I would think that working in the airport security cameras would had pick it up, but unfortunately they don't have security cameras on the tram 😒 Since the day I got fired I started to feel my anxiety getting worse which led to one of my deepest MD. I remembered it as if it was yesterday. Sadly after getting fired I never applied for employment bc for me it was a traumatic experience that I will never forget, and I really ❤ my job, met so many nice people & celebrities, didnt know that was one of the perks. The 😂thing is I really didn't want to work in the airport, but I had to take the job bc I have two kids to take care of financially by myself.
    I am so sorry for this long comment, and I recently had covid while I was going through my MD, which made it even 2x worse getting sick 🤒
    You have a 🙏🏼 day & future 🙏🏼 days. One more thing 🙏🏼 has helped me so much recently 🥰💯 take care, stay healthy, and keep doing SOM for as long as you can bc watching your podcast is truly therapeutic for me.
    ❤️💛✌🏼

  • @user-gb1it8vf8z
    @user-gb1it8vf8z 4 місяці тому +1

    Love State of Mind Maurice

  • @ginamcguinness2175
    @ginamcguinness2175 3 місяці тому

    Love him! ❤

  • @cherylmassarelli4699
    @cherylmassarelli4699 4 місяці тому

    I’ve had several panic attacks that came on after having children. I truly think their was an imbalance because nothing like that before. I agree with determination and acceptance and while there are some things I avoid, I agree with Russell on getting yourself together every day.

  • @LisaAnderson8
    @LisaAnderson8 4 місяці тому +1

    Happy birthday 🎉 🎂 Maurice

  • @user-gb1it8vf8z
    @user-gb1it8vf8z 4 місяці тому +1

    So Great Maurice❤❤❤❤😊

  • @tabathaholder9993
    @tabathaholder9993 4 місяці тому +1

    Amen. Prayer mind body n soul. He is exactly right

  • @christinamatteson9649
    @christinamatteson9649 4 місяці тому +3

    My daughter works in a domestic violence shelter. She is one of the actually she runs it. She’s a manager, and she said certain traumas when you’re young change those neuropaths

  • @laurahine2703
    @laurahine2703 4 місяці тому +2

    I tried so many medications it was unreal finally I found the right Dr. And the right medication

  • @eleanornatter2784
    @eleanornatter2784 4 місяці тому +1

    This was a good talk today 🙂

  • @TNT-tb8dh
    @TNT-tb8dh 3 місяці тому

    I can relate to all you both were talking about. Enjoyed watching you both.

  • @shirleyleon3654
    @shirleyleon3654 4 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful show thank you so much love you all ❤

  • @michelletucker1397
    @michelletucker1397 4 місяці тому +1

    Another great interview. Addressing mental health is so important and I hope you REALLY know how therapeutic it is to talk about it and listen to what different experiences every one has. Every person has a different story to tell. Sending blessings to you and your family. You are making a difference 🙌

  • @juliegibson-2020
    @juliegibson-2020 4 місяці тому +1

    I follow him on TikTok, and I've always loved to dance. This was such an insightful interview. Thank you both for using this platform to reach folks. Much love and many blessings to you both from this Texas girl! ❤

  • @debrawitherspoon2201
    @debrawitherspoon2201 4 місяці тому +1

    So sorry to hear you will see them again in heaven amen

  • @purple_bboop5392
    @purple_bboop5392 4 місяці тому +1

    This was a very interesting state of mind. Both of you going so deep again. I admire you both so much for dealing and conquering depression and anxiety. I haven’t fully yet, but Russell, your dancing is very inspiring and takes my mind to a better level. God bless you both ❤❤

  • @jodkna3580
    @jodkna3580 4 місяці тому +2

    Great interview!

  • @laurawestcrowe9909
    @laurawestcrowe9909 3 місяці тому

    He’s not bad on the eyes for sure. Makes you want to watch and listen to his videos.

  • @user-gy5li1du3g
    @user-gy5li1du3g 4 місяці тому +1

    Such a great interview….i have a handle on my bipolar but it can take me to some dark places. Congratulations to you both for shining a spotlight on depression and what works for people. # reach out

  • @christybrown5209
    @christybrown5209 4 місяці тому

    I needed this interview so badly today. Thank you Russell & Maurice!!

  • @somelikeithot444
    @somelikeithot444 4 місяці тому +1

    Very good video Maurice and Russell. U both have come along way and it is great u can tell yr stories to help another person going through the same thing ❤️ 💙 ♥️ 💗 💖

  • @valerierosenberg8747
    @valerierosenberg8747 4 місяці тому +1

    Great state of mind I Love it once again 😂❤❤❤

  • @user-sr8ht5ni9x
    @user-sr8ht5ni9x 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Gentlemen for sharing , caring and ALL your doing 💯💪🏼🙏🏼❤️

  • @laurahine2703
    @laurahine2703 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you Maurice this chat was awesome! GH is amazing ! Love ya ❤

  • @christinespurgin9822
    @christinespurgin9822 4 місяці тому +2

    I am so grateful for you!

  • @jonisanders6387
    @jonisanders6387 4 місяці тому +2

    It great to learn about different depression methods everyone goes through and how to handle it.

  • @user-fq5vi7lm5d
    @user-fq5vi7lm5d 4 місяці тому

    I love Russell and I love you. Happy that you had him on. He’s such a good person and always helping others. His IG is inspiring! Xoxo

  • @user-br1nz9dj7f
    @user-br1nz9dj7f 4 місяці тому

    I wish I could make people without mental health problems understand that you can’t just turn it on and off. Telling someone to take a deep breath during the middle of a panic attack is NOT helpful. Thank you again for putting this subject out there.

  • @robinbarber8863
    @robinbarber8863 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for SOM you’re doing a great work for those who need this information
    I pray often for you and your sweet family

  • @kathleenzawadzki265
    @kathleenzawadzki265 4 місяці тому +1

    Add couch as well as bed is quicksand

  • @nancymcdowell7482
    @nancymcdowell7482 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m so glad the weather has changed. I can get outside without fear of falling 😊

  • @debrawitherspoon2201
    @debrawitherspoon2201 4 місяці тому +1

    Yes sir Texans

  • @debrawitherspoon2201
    @debrawitherspoon2201 4 місяці тому +1

    My mom used to say that when you fall off the horse 🐴 get back up and dust yourself 9ff and keep trying again amen 🙏🙌❤️ Maurice I totally understand

  • @xeniagoddess9107
    @xeniagoddess9107 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you blessings to you both ❤️🙏🏽☕️

  • @xeniagoddess9107
    @xeniagoddess9107 4 місяці тому +2

    Good Morning Blessings ❤️🙏🏽☕️

  • @pattybrent5128
    @pattybrent5128 4 місяці тому +2

    Jason is home lovin it i love my sonny.. depression i have been crying everyday eatching but im getting it out..thank you🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @tabathaholder9993
    @tabathaholder9993 4 місяці тому +1

    Amen. Spiritual warfare. That a everyday battle
    Feeding your Spiritual. Man. Reading the Bible.
    Do whatever. It takes 2. Fight the good fight
    Go's bless u both

  • @cynthiamincher5154
    @cynthiamincher5154 4 місяці тому +1

    My parents been gone few years hard not close to them🙏

  • @laurahine2703
    @laurahine2703 4 місяці тому +2

    Good morning! ❤😊

  • @dawnrouse2868
    @dawnrouse2868 Місяць тому

    ❤😊

  • @LisaAnderson8
    @LisaAnderson8 4 місяці тому +1

    I lost my mom I 1994 she was 58 my dad died in 2016

  • @GrannieLee
    @GrannieLee 4 місяці тому +1

    Depression is anxiety's fraternal twin.

  • @laurahine2703
    @laurahine2703 4 місяці тому +1

    I have panic attacks the first one I thought I was dying now I explain it like it's a roller coaster I'm not able to get off of.....

  • @lauriealvarnaz1341
    @lauriealvarnaz1341 4 місяці тому +1

    My daughter is special needs very medically complex. She passed away February 23, 2024 and her funeral is tomorrow. We got her to 23 years old which no one thought we could do. The pain of losing her is indescribable. Every morning since she passed when my husband gets me out of bed by saying Maurice says the bed is your quicksand, you gotta get up. It's hard to get up but I do it, one morning at a time. I'm fighting hard to figure out life without her but I will not allow her legacy to include her mother killing herself. I feel the pain and I will carry it until I am meant to be with her again.

    • @rie20100
      @rie20100 4 місяці тому

      As I was reading your comment, I felt a deep sadness for you. You are so right, loosing a child is truly indescribable... there are no words for a pain such as that. My son took his life when he was eighteen. I explain the pain this way...my soul cried that day. I know you will find a way to make your daughter's life matter, and in doing so, you will find your way again. Much love to you and your husband. ❤️❤️

  • @pattybrent5128
    @pattybrent5128 4 місяці тому +1

    Today is my sons 8th anniversary just god bless

  • @mariatrifonas9228
    @mariatrifonas9228 4 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤💙💙💙🙏

  • @sherribaker9135
    @sherribaker9135 4 місяці тому +9

    I will be 58 in May and I've had depression and anxiety pretty much all of my life but it got worse about 24 years ago when the anxiety got so extreme that I would wake up at 3:00 in the morning and pace, shake and rock back and forth and scream all day long until a psychiatrist found the right combo of meds for me so I could at least function on a day to day basis. I thought I was the ONLY one on earth that had it as bad as I did until I found a few people but still often feel as if I'm the only one going through this. Maurice, thank you so much for this channel. It's been a God send for me. My parents passed away before I was even 30 years old and my only sister hardly ever speaks to me and lives on the other side of the country. Please pray that I can function. I don't know what "Normal" is even like. Luv ya very much. God bless.

  • @cynthiamincher5154
    @cynthiamincher5154 4 місяці тому +1

    Lost my parents hard not close to them🙏

  • @user-mw9uu7xu2p
    @user-mw9uu7xu2p 3 місяці тому

    I lost my husband year and half ago with cancer and now I'm living with my mom and brother and they r driving me crazy I'm in a state of depression all they do is bully me and saying no body will ever love me anymore and I was a mistake.

    • @user-mw9uu7xu2p
      @user-mw9uu7xu2p 3 місяці тому

      Some times all I do is cry. I talk to God everyday because I have no one talk. Because I can't talk to them because they start yelling at me. Sometimes I want to give up but I can't because I have 4 beautiful grandkids. I lost everything after my late husband died. Now I have to start all over. again

    • @user-mw9uu7xu2p
      @user-mw9uu7xu2p 3 місяці тому

      I love listening to Russell he helps me make it thru each day

  • @Lisafallgirl420
    @Lisafallgirl420 20 днів тому

    I can't eat white rice anymore. Jack's up my blood sugar. I do riced cauliflower

  • @pattybrent5128
    @pattybrent5128 4 місяці тому +1

    No no no planes

  • @charlesmento5968
    @charlesmento5968 4 місяці тому +1

    Help does not come. Drs have no idea how to help. Or they dont call back or take insurance. In incorrect mind it does mot feel like it is worth living

    • @veronicakennedy5269
      @veronicakennedy5269 4 місяці тому

      God bless your precious heart soul always remember what ever is going on around you what you behold in your heart is what you will become love is a key care enough to send oneself the very best hug smile laugh a little please Stay true stay safe stay healthy and always walk with our heavenly father from my heart to yours❤🙏🤗

  • @pattybrent5128
    @pattybrent5128 4 місяці тому +1

    Im a female my bullshit is all domestic so the fear is really hard and now the death and victims omggg hun theres no therapy or pill that can help wicked sorry im sharing but dudes i love yas thank you

  • @debrawitherspoon2201
    @debrawitherspoon2201 4 місяці тому

    There is no time limit on grieving