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  • @reginaalabere1329
    @reginaalabere1329 Рік тому +46

    Ladies please learn what selective empathy is. Not everyone deserves access to you. You are a queen! your energy is positive, you light up the room, you love to help people. However, you are also cognizant that there are people who will not value who you are and will take you for granted. It is a display of strength and self love to discern and create space for only people who show up for you like you show up for others.

    • @reginaalabere1329
      @reginaalabere1329 Рік тому +3

      Aunty B pinned my first post ever on this platform. Eh God! I’m blushing from my insides 😍🙏🏾 I guess it’s time to become more active when my schedule permits. Thank you Aunty B for this platform!

    • @loladedelano7481
      @loladedelano7481 Рік тому

      Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @eileenwatt8283
    @eileenwatt8283 Рік тому +16

    When a man rejects you it's God protecting you from that evil man.
    If the wife calling the cops he is the problem because she hasn't gotten her citizenship yet so he's the problem.
    Girl, be greatful you escape. Don't help him.
    Every Jamaican is a Nigerian born in Jamaica. Where does she think the slaves came from?

  • @earthsign6305
    @earthsign6305 Рік тому +9

    He's going through his Karma and she isn't letting him go through it. The Universe, doesn't like it when we get in the way of a person's Karma. Whether, good or bad.

  • @patriciaakinyombo2256
    @patriciaakinyombo2256 Рік тому +17

    She loves that man and wants him back don’t mind her and we don’t need her story until she get sense

  • @ativiejonathan3705
    @ativiejonathan3705 Рік тому +16

    Some people are still heart broken twenty years after a failed relationships , so if there is no child involved with your ex , it's better to closed the door completely no access

  • @maryonisemo4282
    @maryonisemo4282 Рік тому +1

    You are right. There is no reason to be talking to an ex. Also, helping an ex, especially those who you do not have children with.

  • @janetrodney8004
    @janetrodney8004 Рік тому +3

    We all suffered from helping ungrateful sisters and brothers. But on the other hand maybe we are not realizing that God save us from years of problems.

  • @taraokelola6600
    @taraokelola6600 4 місяці тому

    “The stone the builders refuse will always become the head corner stone”.

  • @omololaesho1210
    @omololaesho1210 Рік тому +5

    I will never give a boyfriend money, in fact, any man that begins to ask me, his girlfriend, money has lost his respect from me.

  • @amehka5416
    @amehka5416 Рік тому +10

    These men know a fool when they see one, she wants him back.

  • @chiomaodigie8456
    @chiomaodigie8456 Рік тому +6

    If she is looking for people to help because she has too much money why not donate to charity and save us the story of having good heart.

  • @obiomandubisi-igwilo4351
    @obiomandubisi-igwilo4351 Рік тому +1

    There is something called "Soul Tie" and its a terrible spiritual and emotional entanglement. It persists years after a relationship has ended.
    The person who has the soul tie and is more affected by it should be intentional about breaking it and prayerfully too. It is best to end all forms of physical and emotional contacts with the person.

  • @Akakatang
    @Akakatang Рік тому +1

    It seems like a good number of men are not just dating and focusing on one person from the start.

  • @lorettaowobamirin8053
    @lorettaowobamirin8053 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing these personal experiences. I hope women would learn. Some are just too gullible

  • @eacoincmubiru5894
    @eacoincmubiru5894 Рік тому

    The moment you mentioned the film Fix Us, I knew I had to watch it. 👍👍

  • @Akakatang
    @Akakatang Рік тому +1

    I don't think it's called a side chick anymore. it's called Polyamours (if I spelled that right). It's an entire reality show about it now where a guy is married to 2 and has a girlfriend and a woman who has 2 husbands and seeking to have a boyfriend.

  • @beyourself2444
    @beyourself2444 Рік тому +4

    As a West Indian and esp. a Jamaican, she is quite naive. I’m quite surprised, she must have grown up sheltered.

  • @comfortmarthaoginuche806
    @comfortmarthaoginuche806 Рік тому +1

    Very interesting topic, thank you

  • @celestinaekeh7772
    @celestinaekeh7772 Рік тому +2

    Real mumu love ladies open your eyes please

  • @amehka5416
    @amehka5416 Рік тому +8

    Jamaican but feel Nigerian, how does that even work?

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 Рік тому +5

      Jamaicans are Nigerians by DNA. The slaves came from Nigeria, and the Gold coast which is Ghana.
      Some Jamaicans are 100% Nigerian.
      The culture passed down and lives on in the generations.

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 Рік тому +1

      ​@@eileenwatt8283Well if that's the case why not just date a Jamaican since he's already a Nigerian?😂😂

    • @earthsign6305
      @earthsign6305 Рік тому +1

      That's because, majority of the people in Jamaica was taken from the region now called Nigeria. I once, saw a Jamaican cultural festival that is the exact thing with my mother's culture in Nigeria.

    • @WhenYOUhearmyname
      @WhenYOUhearmyname Рік тому +1

      @@amehka5416 😂😂

    • @amehka5416
      @amehka5416 Рік тому

      @@earthsign6305 I thought it was Ghana, which is it now?

  • @peggymordi7855
    @peggymordi7855 Рік тому +2

    Very interesting topic the man is just playing with her emotions that is not nice 😮

  • @titilolasiwoku5944
    @titilolasiwoku5944 Рік тому +2

    Hep darling our Naija brother is playing on your intelligence I'm sure he is still with our Naija sister that's how they do we call them player

  • @osymaynetwork9668
    @osymaynetwork9668 Рік тому

    My Ex boyfriend married and came back to me to help him write his carry over exams in UK.

  • @aolosunde9512
    @aolosunde9512 Рік тому +2

    My ex partner going out with someone else for like 16 years, ask a side chi,And the lady knows that he is married.
    But now I have divorced with because of this and also because of in-laws wahala. He later married this lady.

    • @maryah0422
      @maryah0422 Рік тому

      Wow….16 years😢. Keep your head high and be happy.

  • @romeofonjankwe3734
    @romeofonjankwe3734 Рік тому

    Very good topic so i sopot it

  • @Eedosa6825
    @Eedosa6825 Рік тому +1

    Stop talking, delete & block your ex.

  • @ndidionwuzulu1197
    @ndidionwuzulu1197 Рік тому

    If you are my ex, you are definitely my ex, I dnt have anything to do with you anymore period

  • @titilolasiwoku5944
    @titilolasiwoku5944 Рік тому

    There are good and Godly men around looking for 💕 love

  • @titilolasiwoku5944
    @titilolasiwoku5944 Рік тому +1

    Wonder why would one go back to his or her vomit. Your ex vomited you out of his or her life why do you have to go back I think it's just an act of being in denial.

  • @lindajackson2574
    @lindajackson2574 Рік тому

    I clap 4 u, cuz it happened 2 me.Every X, is a dustbin.

  • @roselynadomokhai92
    @roselynadomokhai92 Рік тому

    Whatever he is going thru is his business

  • @otonyetobipatrick7550
    @otonyetobipatrick7550 Рік тому

    She's just in denial. She'll be clear soon 😅. I'm wondering how he got access to her and how invested she is in what is going on in his life. 😅😅😅 Women! We'll be waiting to hear the tales of your second Isrealite journey when he deals with you like he's doing his wife now.

  • @giwaenochdrivingshoool5742
    @giwaenochdrivingshoool5742 Рік тому

    Dhe is annoying flocking eith ex when she is with sb

  • @inaradede5678
    @inaradede5678 Рік тому

    She's still in love with him..

  • @osikomaiyamarykehinde2115
    @osikomaiyamarykehinde2115 Рік тому

    Ododo oro niyen. Love wantiti,mummy love 😢😂😅

  • @lawrencelucia5097
    @lawrencelucia5097 Рік тому +1

    Your heading needs to be corrected"who"

  • @reitaebohon7853
    @reitaebohon7853 Рік тому

    No way oh. The bad belly go too plenty.