i disagree, more people are doing weddings at first sight, theres even many tv shows about it. also many dating apps. more traditional weddings there would be courting, or having your parents pick who youre getting married to, someone you would have most likely have known, say a family friend.
i used to work in a photo department in the great burlap era, where all wedding decor was burlap or fake burlap, and all brides wore cowboy boots. if you complimented them on the photos, they would each individually thank you and tell you everyone thought they were crazy for wearing cowboy boots. i learned very quickly that they hated hearing "really?? it's so popular though, i see everybody doing it!"
@@hanahayashi6374Non-sexual nakedness isn't a big deal. Here in Germany it used to be quite normal for many decades, especially in East Germany, to be naked at the beach (with your whole family). With increasing prudishness that has disappeared a bit though. Not wearing clothes is as sexual as you make it. They way e.g. Americans act, all Germans must be deeply traumatised because oh no they saw unclothed chests as children😱 The horror. In German saunas you're not even allowed to wear anything due to hygiene concerns. You only bring your towel to sit on. We're still alive😅
@@hanahayashi6374 Yeah, basically, norms are different, and it's good to examine them sometimes. E.g. if norms don't make sense logically, then maybe making breaking them an offence isn't good. In this case, if non-sexual nakedness doesn't harm children, there's no need to e.g. take legal action. Yeah, I'm taking a joke way too seriously, but I saw too many people (typically Americans, but not always) who seem to consider nearly anything inappropriate, grooming, or whatever.
@@solar0windIf the "American norms" are that nude pelvic thrusting in a ballroom full of exclusively children is perverse, I support the American norms. God, this is like when people on the internet were like "um actually Cuties isn't creepy in France it's just that Americans are prudes" lmao. Perspective pleaseeeeeee.
Not wearing white is a family tradition for us. My great-grandmother wore a red dress to her wedding because she was pregnant and it was "unseemly to wear white at the time. My grandmother heard her aunts talk about it in hushed tones over the years, so she wore a red dress to her wedding abs a show of support to her mother but also as a small eff you to her aunts. M6 mother and her 2 sisters wore red to their weddings. Me and my sisters wore red to our weddings. We look fantastic in red and we made our family proud!
I would legit die ( no really, I'm allergic to red dye) but that SOUNDS awesome. Probably over done, but if I bother to redo my vows I'm getting a black dress. I wore one from my closet for my "ceremony" at a park with a bunch of friends. 😂 It was blue, no regrets. Whites over rated to me.
Also as an ex-wedding caterer, the mothers are the WORST. I got anxious and mixed something up by accident (can't remember what exactly, but it was pretty innocent. I think I brought the wrong wine to a table, also I was like 14/15 and didn't know anything about wine) and the mother of the bride started shouting my ear off and reported me to my manager. The bride looked embarrassed and said it was okay.
This is the way lol. Me and my husband did this, kept our last names the same, and didn't tell anyone. We already had one child and lived with each other. It was fun trying to keep it a secret, and after 10 years we're still a very happy little family.
I used to work as a cashier and a woman came in and was buying every black party item in the store, then started chatting with me about having a dark wedding and was "you probably think I'm weird for choosing colors like this for a wedding". I was researching random wedding facts at the time so I just commented about it being neat and that all dark colored weddings were traditional in some countries. She looked so offended that my boss asked me what I said to her since he was worried she would complain about me to higher-ups. I learned that day to not reassure people that their ideas aren't weird.
It could be the fact that I'm neurodivergent but like.... I feel like being reassured that it's not weird is a good thing? Unless she wanted to be a lil ~*~quuirky~*~ then I guess I can see why it may have offended her. But still.... people are weird.
Im getting married this year in a black dress, just my preference 😂 it's definitely not unique or weird or different, so she mustn't have done her research properly :P like in some traditions it's seen as commitment till death or something ❤
My roommate got ordained, married us in our living room in the middle of COVID lockdown, and I didn't tell any of my family for 2 years until they finally noticed the rings.
I guess you hate your family? Maybe there's history there. I hope you all are OK. In s normal family, you enjoy the protection, celebration and support of family members, and crossing milestones is part of the family experience. Everyone adapts to changes in others' lives, and the whole family organism is affected. It's a beautiful thing.
If that's the weirdest thing at the wedding and they feel they've managed to express their quirky individuality that way, instead of some of the more insane things in this video, I am all for the cowboy boots.
The best response you can give is telling them that you’ve already seen that being done before and you’ve noticed it’s becoming more popular these days. I did that to my cousin enough times that she ended up zip lining into her wedding instead of a traditional march.
I worked in the wedding industry. Let’s just say, there’s a reason why most of us get married at the courthouse. Just get the paperwork out of the way fast and invite everyone over for good food and booze. That’s really all anyone cares about lol and you can use the cash saved on something worthwhile.
Having a preacher in the living room is just as easy, and he really only needs about $200 for his fee and transportation. Now, if the presiding JP is also an ordained minister... BINGO!
@@jessielynn No, the expensive part of a proper wedding includes a venue, photographers for some reason, culturally ordained outfits, and an industry designed to make money off of the belief that your wedding should be this grand event. Getting good food and booze is a pittance compared to all that
personally i hated it. currently saving up for a big wedding, dress, cake, everything. won't be the same since we're already married but i wanted a big wedding. circumstances at the time just happened to say no.
That’s cute! I think stuff like this is super personal and unique and completely fine! What the video was making fun of I think are people who try to be quirky and unique just for the attention. They want a different wedding because it makes them “not like every other boring couple”
Once i was watching one of those shows when they rate weddings, and this one bride had a super traditional ceremony and boom, after the reception turns out she was wearing a preatty revealing swimsuit underneath her dress, and they started a foam party lol the old people in the family just sitting at the table watching the party just took me out i still remember it
Kinda rude for the ‘older’ guests they invited actually… that could have been A Lot more respectful at a different time - like how about the night before then instead of the ‘traditional’ stag / bachelor parties? I’m fine with the idea but the FY behavior seems to me way out of line for the ‘reception’. There’s always a ‘time and place’ for everything…Good manners and respect never really go out of style in my opinion.
I nearly forgot it was for tv … explains it all nvm ( got caught up with your description of it - I have a hard time thinking anyone else not commercially sponsored for bad behavior would do that!😅)
And the best part is that these weddings, like baby names such as "MickKaighlyièe," are still strictly adherent to the structure and generally culturally accepted framework of weddings, just trying to smush as many variations as they reasonably can within those confines
I'm so afraid that I sound like this when I describe my goth halloween wedding 😅 But then I step back and realize that it's honestly a really traditional wedding for the most part. My dress is just black and we're walking down the aisle to The Cure and there's skulls in the flower arrangements.
@@xLiLlyx98 Thank you! And we're walking down to Pictures of You! I know it's technically a sad song, but it's my mom's, my mother-in-law's, and my favorite song by them.
@@gothgirlhours7927 honestly that song was also my first idea when you mentioned them, haha. The meaning is in what you make of it, and I think the melody and vocals themselves just sound nostalgic and ... Idk, tender? 😊 So I get it 😄
Right?? You get it, you see the vision 😜 Then our recessional going back down the aisle after the ceremony is Enjoy the Silence by Depeche Mode. They're my all-time favorite band, and my fiancé likes them so much he's taken me to see them twice. So it's very sentimental for us both!
@@gothgirlhours7927 niiice, it's amazing that you can bond so much over music. If I ever take that step, I just hope something comes so naturally to mind for us 😅 And yeah, concerts are a love language onto themselves 😀😍 wish you guys all the best!
It’s quite sad that people seem to compete over who’s the most “unique” out of everyone. Is it not a compliment that someone else agrees with your taste and would do something similar? Do what you want, because you like it! That’s the only thing that matters.
Seriously, they couldn't wrap their head around not doing a processional. "How are you gonna get into the church??" Easy, we are already inside, setting up the wedding.
I don’t even have a boyfriend and I’m very adamant about this too. I don’t want to be exchanged like an object. I want to walk down with my future groom as we walk into the next stage of life together.
I love the idea of walking down the aisle with the groom. In my culture we get married in a temple and the bride and groom enter a bright and beautiful room together. It is a much more intimate space- mostly just family and very close friends. You kneel across from each other and you see each other reflected in a mirror that goes on into the eternities.
I've always had nontraditional wedding plans (not that I even want to get married, but just in case I ever find the right person). I want to get married in my woods under my Tree Arch- two massive oak trees that curve towards each other. I want to wear a purple dress (my favorite color) and my Damascus blade sword. If possible I'd like to vanish dramatically while walking down the aisle like in Doctor Who's "The runaway bride" (though a puff of smoke will likely need to be involved, so it'll look more like Bilbo Baggins disappearing at the beginning of the FOTR book with the One Ring and an assist from Gandalf's magic). And I want a cake with buttercream frosting and mac and cheese as my wedding dinner. I have more ideas, but those are the high points. I was never trying to be unique with them, I just figured if I ever got married I wanted to have fun. 😁
@@danielladaurizio9692 the wedding planning 😅 we’re still very happily married. I was planning on having a suuuuper non traditional wedding, I just wanted everyone to have fun, but then I got into it and some pretty traditional elements ended up being a part of it.
@laurenwalker1048 Good for you for embracing the traditions that mattered to you!! I feel like too many women/ couples wanna make political/ social statements instead of making it about their union. Tradition is a way to connect with your family past and upholding the importance of it for you personally. The "patriarchy" and "oppression" shouldn't be at the forefront. I wouldn't wear a white dress because it's not the color that I like or looks flattering on me, not because "the pAtRiARchY wants to belittle my sexual liberation"🙄😒🤦🏻♀️
@@ophilianecridk man it's not always about that. Like to me I cannot look at the traditional aspects wedding (name and title changing of ONLY the woman, giving away the bride etc.) and NOT see the not even subtle but glaring sexism. It isn't just a matter of sticking it to the man to make an empty political statement, it's a matter of not wanting to feel like dolled up cattle to be bought, sold, owned by a man and bred. Really as long as you sign the legal paper with a witness, it doesn't actually matter what the hell you do leading up to it or after.
@@MarlopolyGaming thats the problem with people who are constantly trying to be offended and want to feel like they "make a real difference" when its not even relevant. You THINK you're making big statements and being revolutionary when it should be about you feeling happy for a marriage. Like, you're gladly committing to another person, especially if you marry a man, but that in itself isnt you "kowtowing to the awful patriarchy", no no no, its having your dad share a final moment where he's no longer the most important man in your life, thats the REAL toxicity, right?🤦🏻♀️🙄
dude when my MIL found out we were doing private vows & a first look she kept asking us why we were "trying to be sooo different". Like maam those two things are extremely popular now, nothing else about our wedding is "different" wym😭 the way she kept talking about it you’d think I wore a black dress and the venue was a casino and a camel was our ring bearer
I'm waiting for when a bride will come saying "I'm going to go full on traditional: very vivid colorful and something I can wear to many future events. You know, like they did 100 years ago and for centuries before that pretty much all over ther world"
My coworker is a die hard country girl - yes it's her whole personality - and made it clear she would *die* if she didn't wear cowboy boots in her hypothetical wedding
@@M0tt0rimy cousin wore cowboy boots. She wanted all her bridesmaids too and I told her I would buy brown boots but I will never ever wear cowboy boots again and I wasn’t spending the kind of money companies want for them. Period. My feet sweat in flats and my ankle swells. All I need is to get IN to the boot and then have my ankle swell so much I get stuck 😢she does wear her boots out and about though so I guess it’s not totally the same lmao
Yeah, the only time I saw that wasn't weird was a girl who works on a horse farm and her husband puts shoes on horses. The cowboy boots made sense then.
Having been an assistant wedding photographer in the south, I have taken quite a few photos of bridal cowboy boots. I never got why the shoes were such a big deal though, you never see them when the bride’s gown covers her feet anyway Separately I found one of the amusing consistencies of the weddings was always the groom’s party frantically YouTubing “how to tie a tie” like right before the ceremony, even the dads had a hard time figuring it out. One group had to figure out how to hand tie old fashioned bow ties and they were at it for what felt like hours, I don’t remember who’s idea that was but to me it’s just another classic example of a quirky idea that no one knew how to actually do If any brides out there are thinking of having their groomsmen do anything fancy with their outfits, make sure at the very least that your fiancé has practiced it a dozen times
lol exactly, my friend wore flipflops to her wedding, not to be quirky but because "why would i fork out a load of money for uncomfortable shoes no ones gonna see?"
I had a secret wedding ceremony without guests. It all happened in the evening, when the state registration authority was no longer working. This was possible because my husband's sister worked there. She performed the ceremony and registered our marriage. TELL ME I'M UNIQUE 💀
It's still uncommon enough that older family members may never have seen a non-white dress. I wore blue for my 2016 wedding, but I'd known for over a decade I wouldn't wear white.
my mum got married in red because she didn’t want to find a white dress, lol. honestly i still respect it, probably more traditional than the white dress anyway (the whole ‘best dress’ thing instead).
Yes, most people couldn't afford a special dress for the wedding. That's why you see many black dresses in old wedding photos, since like you said, they just wore their best dress, same one they'd wear to funerals too .
I think in certain eastern cultures red is the traditional wedding color. But from what I understand, white for a wedding dress didn’t become super popular in the western world until Queen Victoria wore it for her wedding. Prior to that, I think that most people in the western world wore their nicest clothes.
Idk why people are so against Traditional Weddings. I want a traditional wedding but the only thing I want different is I want it in my family cabin in Colorado. Which is right by this beautiful lake in the valley. Surrounded by complete wilderness and beautiful mountains.
Wuhoh bridey! You messed up! Not meeting the groom until the ceremony is one of the most traditional ways to get married in all of human history (at least for kings and queens)
As soon as the couple getting married say "we don't want it to be traditional" you know it'll be traditional and just like every wedding you've been too but they'll probably do some something 'crazy' like wear custom trainers for their first dance
Our friends had their wedding party on the blankets by the river, drinking canned beer and playing games. It was so chill that everybody had actual fun, and they spent like a 100 euro for everything
I think this is the result of being told throughout the majority of your life by your parents and or family members how your wedding SHOULD be, and or even your parents trying to micromanage your wedding to live vicariously through you. People try to resist traditions which isn't always inherently a bad thing, especially with that context
I don't see any problem with it. Let people get married how they want. I wore a black goth lolita type dress to get married and did a goth photoshoot in a castle. Let people have fun.
There’s not an issue with it. The video is making fun of people who try hard to do non-traditional things just because they want to seem original and quirky, usually because they want to post it on social media so they can be like “Hey look at me! I’m so original!” When in reality there’s likely been thousands of women with similar ideas. Then they get upset when you dare tell them that. It’s fine if you’re doing it because you WANT to but many are just doing it as a gimmick so they can look cool and it’s not really about what they want at their wedding. It’s more like “What will make me look interesting online”
Bush out, welding mask, cowboy boots? Icon.
Lady Gaga
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Damn. Your comment and pfp is such a 💅💅.
And all children
My mom catered wedding cakes. I've heard it all !.
Sims 4 weddings
LITERALLY🤣🤣
Lmaoo
100%
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The groom of my last sims 3 wedding wore a speedo
"First meeting, I've never met him"
sounds super traditional to me
Horseshoe theory
that's as traditional as it gets tbh
@@shadylampablei cackled at this lmaoooo
i disagree, more people are doing weddings at first sight, theres even many tv shows about it. also many dating apps. more traditional weddings there would be courting, or having your parents pick who youre getting married to, someone you would have most likely have known, say a family friend.
girl byee fr my mom didnt even know my dad until their wedding
"we hired a donkey" 😩
Actually lost it when she said that
The sheer panic sets in
I was squealing at that part 🥹
Knack 2 babyyyy
Why did it remind me of “my dog stepped on a bee 😩” 😭😭😭
i used to work in a photo department in the great burlap era, where all wedding decor was burlap or fake burlap, and all brides wore cowboy boots. if you complimented them on the photos, they would each individually thank you and tell you everyone thought they were crazy for wearing cowboy boots. i learned very quickly that they hated hearing "really?? it's so popular though, i see everybody doing it!"
The worst phase was shipping palettes. Like why?
the burlap everywhere wedding makes me itch
this is so fucking funny
@@janaekelissammmeee in a like “ew” kinda way and in a physical burlap makes me itch kinda way 😂😂😂
2013 was crazy
Nude thinking she meant a nude color dress and then she ends with BUSH OUT 😂😂
Plus "all children, no adults" 😭🚓🚨🚔
@@hanahayashi6374Non-sexual nakedness isn't a big deal. Here in Germany it used to be quite normal for many decades, especially in East Germany, to be naked at the beach (with your whole family). With increasing prudishness that has disappeared a bit though. Not wearing clothes is as sexual as you make it. They way e.g. Americans act, all Germans must be deeply traumatised because oh no they saw unclothed chests as children😱 The horror. In German saunas you're not even allowed to wear anything due to hygiene concerns. You only bring your towel to sit on.
We're still alive😅
@@solar0wind Ok? The conclusion is that norms are different in different places then?
Non-Europeans are still alive too 😅
@@hanahayashi6374 Yeah, basically, norms are different, and it's good to examine them sometimes. E.g. if norms don't make sense logically, then maybe making breaking them an offence isn't good. In this case, if non-sexual nakedness doesn't harm children, there's no need to e.g. take legal action.
Yeah, I'm taking a joke way too seriously, but I saw too many people (typically Americans, but not always) who seem to consider nearly anything inappropriate, grooming, or whatever.
@@solar0windIf the "American norms" are that nude pelvic thrusting in a ballroom full of exclusively children is perverse, I support the American norms.
God, this is like when people on the internet were like "um actually Cuties isn't creepy in France it's just that Americans are prudes" lmao. Perspective pleaseeeeeee.
"All children. No adults." Took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
All children. No adults. But also all nude. Bush out
especially if you remember she ks going to be COMPLETELY NAKED in FRONT OF THE KIDS
nude 😅
with the "nude, bush out" combo is crazy too
@@pipthewarrior3738My thoughts exactly!!
"nude, bush out" 💀
and only children attending
And, kids only! Hehe! 🚔
I choked on my coffee lol
I thought it was a beige coloured dress, in the Australian bush at first 😅
I had to replay that to make sure I heard correctly! 😂
Not wearing white is a family tradition for us. My great-grandmother wore a red dress to her wedding because she was pregnant and it was "unseemly to wear white at the time. My grandmother heard her aunts talk about it in hushed tones over the years, so she wore a red dress to her wedding abs a show of support to her mother but also as a small eff you to her aunts. M6 mother and her 2 sisters wore red to their weddings. Me and my sisters wore red to our weddings.
We look fantastic in red and we made our family proud!
that sounds legit cool
Now, this is the kind of family support I love to hear about! Well done, everyone. 🎉
Are you Chineese
I would legit die ( no really, I'm allergic to red dye) but that SOUNDS awesome. Probably over done, but if I bother to redo my vows I'm getting a black dress. I wore one from my closet for my "ceremony" at a park with a bunch of friends. 😂 It was blue, no regrets. Whites over rated to me.
Red was the traditional wedding dress colour in Europe until the Renaissance.
As an ex-wedding caterer, I will share with you one immutable truth:
When Dancing Queen comes on, it means the bridesmaids are getting tipsy
Also as an ex-wedding caterer, the mothers are the WORST. I got anxious and mixed something up by accident (can't remember what exactly, but it was pretty innocent. I think I brought the wrong wine to a table, also I was like 14/15 and didn't know anything about wine) and the mother of the bride started shouting my ear off and reported me to my manager. The bride looked embarrassed and said it was okay.
Bout to be me fr
Oh Christ yes. Dancing Queen and Grease Lightning. Hate it.
I was 17 at my father's wedding. When dancing queen came on I got trapped in a circle of drunk women singing at me.
@@licoriceveins9632 YOU 👏🏻 CAN 👏🏻 DANCE 👏🏻
“Where actually doing a first Meeting… I’ve never met him before”…. 😬😬😂😂🤣
Ahahahhahaha I didn’t even catch that!
Laughs in Pakistani
Average marriage in my country
Ironically that is more traditional 💀
We're or we are, not to be mean, just an information
The most controversial thing you could do is get married at the courthouse without spending a ton of money.
Yeah I'm planning on eloping and I think my mother will kill me.
Or not getting married
This is the way lol. Me and my husband did this, kept our last names the same, and didn't tell anyone. We already had one child and lived with each other. It was fun trying to keep it a secret, and after 10 years we're still a very happy little family.
@@catonthestreet630wow. I'm so happy for you. Sounds like a wholesome romcom😅
Seems like the simpler the better ❤
We deadass eloped today. Lmao
I used to work as a cashier and a woman came in and was buying every black party item in the store, then started chatting with me about having a dark wedding and was "you probably think I'm weird for choosing colors like this for a wedding". I was researching random wedding facts at the time so I just commented about it being neat and that all dark colored weddings were traditional in some countries.
She looked so offended that my boss asked me what I said to her since he was worried she would complain about me to higher-ups.
I learned that day to not reassure people that their ideas aren't weird.
It could be the fact that I'm neurodivergent but like.... I feel like being reassured that it's not weird is a good thing? Unless she wanted to be a lil ~*~quuirky~*~ then I guess I can see why it may have offended her. But still.... people are weird.
yeah she definitely tried to earn some quirkiness points lol@@mxmissy
She wanted "omg no it's not weird!! It's actually soo cool!! You must be soOOOoo unique & edgy??!!"😂
It really screams "not like other girls" huh 😅
Im getting married this year in a black dress, just my preference 😂 it's definitely not unique or weird or different, so she mustn't have done her research properly :P like in some traditions it's seen as commitment till death or something ❤
Full nude with welding mask and cowboy boots is actually incredible. Avant garde. Iconic. She has a VISION.
Bush OUT
I would love to see this & what the groom is in 😂
all the children will be so happy 😅 and give them loads of money
She's just back from Berlin ....
My roommate got ordained, married us in our living room in the middle of COVID lockdown, and I didn't tell any of my family for 2 years until they finally noticed the rings.
You sound……nice.
I guess you hate your family? Maybe there's history there. I hope you all are OK. In s normal family, you enjoy the protection, celebration and support of family members, and crossing milestones is part of the family experience. Everyone adapts to changes in others' lives, and the whole family organism is affected. It's a beautiful thing.
There's definitely quite a backstory there!
This is hilarious, congratulations to you both.
@@MsSimpleMoviesThey said it was during covid lockdown so maybe they just didn’t want to endanger their friends and families health and safety?
"cowboys boots" took me out 😂 The amount of brides I've had to endure that think this is quirky cannot be counted.
Truly the converse sneakers of the South.
@@doefarris2189came here to say this 🤣
Love you all sharing the same sentiment 👏👏
If that's the weirdest thing at the wedding and they feel they've managed to express their quirky individuality that way, instead of some of the more insane things in this video, I am all for the cowboy boots.
Really? Because it's extremely normal.
The best response you can give is telling them that you’ve already seen that being done before and you’ve noticed it’s becoming more popular these days.
I did that to my cousin enough times that she ended up zip lining into her wedding instead of a traditional march.
Chaotic neutral energy
Omg I hope this story is true
"we hired a donkey" is gonna be my excuse for everything as of now xD
“We have…. We hired a donkey” and that superb performance of fergalicious took me OUT. I WHEEZED. You are a delight
I worked in the wedding industry. Let’s just say, there’s a reason why most of us get married at the courthouse. Just get the paperwork out of the way fast and invite everyone over for good food and booze. That’s really all anyone cares about lol and you can use the cash saved on something worthwhile.
Having everyone over for food and booze is the expensive part though.
Having a preacher in the living room is just as easy, and he really only needs about $200 for his fee and transportation.
Now, if the presiding JP is also an ordained minister... BINGO!
Pretty smart, but don’t you feel bad making a living off of people who don’t know any better?
@@jessielynn No, the expensive part of a proper wedding includes a venue, photographers for some reason, culturally ordained outfits, and an industry designed to make money off of the belief that your wedding should be this grand event. Getting good food and booze is a pittance compared to all that
personally i hated it. currently saving up for a big wedding, dress, cake, everything. won't be the same since we're already married but i wanted a big wedding. circumstances at the time just happened to say no.
Don’t forget the converse shoes either. Everyone thinks they’re super unique for wearing those
This!
I had so many friends that did this. It's not only tacky, it's cliche.
You *will* have to bring money
The guests:👶
😂
My brother in law: I don't do weddings
My sister: it's gonna be Addams Family meets 4th of July/Thanksgiving
🤣🤣Love her
I’d pay to be a fly on that wall
I’m intrigued, what would that entail?
Girl I screamed when you said bush out
First meeting and no food, she's bringing the corporate nightmare to weddings 😭
"All children no adults"
Gave me the mental image of 'Lord of the Flies' in bow ties.
Ok but for real tho I’m not doing a first dance we’re doing a first song because we met in jazz band 😭😭😭
This is so cute 😭
Awwww
That's so stinking cute 🥺🥺🥺💖
That’s cute! I think stuff like this is super personal and unique and completely fine! What the video was making fun of I think are people who try to be quirky and unique just for the attention. They want a different wedding because it makes them “not like every other boring couple”
the *"fergalicious def-"* took me OUT 😭
I THOUGHT OF KARKALICIOUS WHEN SHE STARTED SINGING..
"My veil: SHEET OF METAL"
"we didn't have a wedding planner- we hired a donkey"
I worked in bridal for 10 years, and I have to say you nailed it!😂
Once i was watching one of those shows when they rate weddings, and this one bride had a super traditional ceremony and boom, after the reception turns out she was wearing a preatty revealing swimsuit underneath her dress, and they started a foam party lol the old people in the family just sitting at the table watching the party just took me out i still remember it
Kinda rude for the ‘older’ guests they invited actually… that could have been A Lot more respectful at a different time - like how about the night before then instead of the ‘traditional’ stag / bachelor parties? I’m fine with the idea but the FY behavior seems to me way out of line for the ‘reception’. There’s always a ‘time and place’ for everything…Good manners and respect never really go out of style in my opinion.
I nearly forgot it was for tv … explains it all nvm ( got caught up with your description of it - I have a hard time thinking anyone else not commercially sponsored for bad behavior would do that!😅)
@@eyeshalfwayopeneyeshalfway2603 what does your username mean? i love it already
What’s a foam party?
And the best part is that these weddings, like baby names such as "MickKaighlyièe," are still strictly adherent to the structure and generally culturally accepted framework of weddings, just trying to smush as many variations as they reasonably can within those confines
The silent lasso-ing had me in tears 🤣🤣
As someone that caters dozens of weddings every year - can confirm all of this and MORE.
Even bush out? Girls please 😭
My dumbass thought nude, bush out meant a nude colour dress with a really full skirt, I’m spiralling
I wore cowgirl boots… but I’m Texan so I wasn’t exactly bucking the system on that one! 😂😂
“Tell me I’m uniqueeee” 😂
I'm so afraid that I sound like this when I describe my goth halloween wedding 😅
But then I step back and realize that it's honestly a really traditional wedding for the most part. My dress is just black and we're walking down the aisle to The Cure and there's skulls in the flower arrangements.
Sounds really cute and also great choice of band. What song exactly? 😊
@@xLiLlyx98 Thank you!
And we're walking down to Pictures of You! I know it's technically a sad song, but it's my mom's, my mother-in-law's, and my favorite song by them.
@@gothgirlhours7927 honestly that song was also my first idea when you mentioned them, haha. The meaning is in what you make of it, and I think the melody and vocals themselves just sound nostalgic and ... Idk, tender? 😊 So I get it 😄
Right?? You get it, you see the vision 😜 Then our recessional going back down the aisle after the ceremony is Enjoy the Silence by Depeche Mode. They're my all-time favorite band, and my fiancé likes them so much he's taken me to see them twice. So it's very sentimental for us both!
@@gothgirlhours7927 niiice, it's amazing that you can bond so much over music. If I ever take that step, I just hope something comes so naturally to mind for us 😅
And yeah, concerts are a love language onto themselves 😀😍 wish you guys all the best!
I will forever see this lady as a German mom
Naw cause my brothers wife actually got a donkey for their wedding 😭
My niece had an outdoor wedding with horses and dogs. She's a veterinarian so it fit her.
My friend married a country boy, they got 2 baby goats as a wedding present, i was jealous
I feel called out. The way I put it to my therapist the other day was "there's a lot of untapped potential for theatrics" 💀
Lmaooo I love thee way you put it 😂😂
as a wedding photographer I have to say that this is insanely accurate
It’s quite sad that people seem to compete over who’s the most “unique” out of everyone. Is it not a compliment that someone else agrees with your taste and would do something similar?
Do what you want, because you like it! That’s the only thing that matters.
The Britney impression had me wheezing!
Extra unique and quirky idea:
Groom never shows up, the bride and all the guests wait for four hours 😍😍
Ive watched this like 10 times now and the part with the eyelids literally has me crying xD
I would too if I didn't have eyelids
I really didn’t want to walk down an aisle or be given away and this is 100% how I felt when I told people. 🤷🏻♀️🤣
Seriously, they couldn't wrap their head around not doing a processional. "How are you gonna get into the church??" Easy, we are already inside, setting up the wedding.
Aw I get this though. I guess it's pretty harmless now but it harkens back to some pretty gross traditions
I don’t even have a boyfriend and I’m very adamant about this too. I don’t want to be exchanged like an object. I want to walk down with my future groom as we walk into the next stage of life together.
What did you end up doing instead? I'm so curious!:)
I love the idea of walking down the aisle with the groom. In my culture we get married in a temple and the bride and groom enter a bright and beautiful room together. It is a much more intimate space- mostly just family and very close friends. You kneel across from each other and you see each other reflected in a mirror that goes on into the eternities.
Tell everyone its a costume party. They only find out its a wedding when they're already there
Better hope nobody comes as the Corpse Bride.
Love it 🙌
@@LiesieM at least you'd know they didn't do it on purpose to up show you
no cause someone fr did this loool, they came as bride and groom "costumes" and then the priest came out lol
I've always had nontraditional wedding plans (not that I even want to get married, but just in case I ever find the right person). I want to get married in my woods under my Tree Arch- two massive oak trees that curve towards each other. I want to wear a purple dress (my favorite color) and my Damascus blade sword. If possible I'd like to vanish dramatically while walking down the aisle like in Doctor Who's "The runaway bride" (though a puff of smoke will likely need to be involved, so it'll look more like Bilbo Baggins disappearing at the beginning of the FOTR book with the One Ring and an assist from Gandalf's magic). And I want a cake with buttercream frosting and mac and cheese as my wedding dinner. I have more ideas, but those are the high points. I was never trying to be unique with them, I just figured if I ever got married I wanted to have fun. 😁
that sounds so cute and creative! I'd totally attend if you had vegan mac haha
You're right you're never going to get married.
Thanks, that's my plan ☺️
@@LegalizeTheNuclearBombdamn could you be any more of an ass hole? With that attitude I doubt anyone would want to stay hooked up with you.
@@LegalizeTheNuclearBomblmao definitely not to your grumpy ass 😂🤡🤡🤡
This was me when I first started planning my wedding. It didn’t last. I wore a lace gown with a giant train 😂
Wait the marriage didn't last or the planning of the wedding like you changed your mind half way? Lol
@@danielladaurizio9692 the wedding planning 😅 we’re still very happily married. I was planning on having a suuuuper non traditional wedding, I just wanted everyone to have fun, but then I got into it and some pretty traditional elements ended up being a part of it.
@laurenwalker1048 Good for you for embracing the traditions that mattered to you!! I feel like too many women/ couples wanna make political/ social statements instead of making it about their union. Tradition is a way to connect with your family past and upholding the importance of it for you personally. The "patriarchy" and "oppression" shouldn't be at the forefront. I wouldn't wear a white dress because it's not the color that I like or looks flattering on me, not because "the pAtRiARchY wants to belittle my sexual liberation"🙄😒🤦🏻♀️
@@ophilianecridk man it's not always about that.
Like to me I cannot look at the traditional aspects wedding (name and title changing of ONLY the woman, giving away the bride etc.) and NOT see the not even subtle but glaring sexism.
It isn't just a matter of sticking it to the man to make an empty political statement, it's a matter of not wanting to feel like dolled up cattle to be bought, sold, owned by a man and bred.
Really as long as you sign the legal paper with a witness, it doesn't actually matter what the hell you do leading up to it or after.
@@MarlopolyGaming thats the problem with people who are constantly trying to be offended and want to feel like they "make a real difference" when its not even relevant. You THINK you're making big statements and being revolutionary when it should be about you feeling happy for a marriage. Like, you're gladly committing to another person, especially if you marry a man, but that in itself isnt you "kowtowing to the awful patriarchy", no no no, its having your dad share a final moment where he's no longer the most important man in your life, thats the REAL toxicity, right?🤦🏻♀️🙄
Tell me I’m unique 🤣
“TELL ME IM UNIQUE!!!” 💀
dude when my MIL found out we were doing private vows & a first look she kept asking us why we were "trying to be sooo different". Like maam those two things are extremely popular now, nothing else about our wedding is "different" wym😭 the way she kept talking about it you’d think I wore a black dress and the venue was a casino and a camel was our ring bearer
I like the vision. Are camels allowed there?
I’m taking your exaggerated wedding and using it for my future ome lmaooo
@@m.josena4485 lmaooo it would be liiit
I'm waiting for when a bride will come saying "I'm going to go full on traditional: very vivid colorful and something I can wear to many future events. You know, like they did 100 years ago and for centuries before that pretty much all over ther world"
I had a vivid blue for the bridesmaids, but I got a embroidered bead and lace wedding dress
I thought the purpose-made wedding dress was of recent vintage. I like what you wrote better. Nice and practical.
Queen Victoria got married in 1840, so white wedding dresses have been popular for way more than 100 years.
Planning my wedding right now and needed this laugh 😂
I misread brides as Brits and was a little confused but still clicked 🤣
It’s always cowboy boots and it’s never someone who lives on a farm or even wears them in their regular life. 😂
this is a real thing..??? 😳
My coworker is a die hard country girl - yes it's her whole personality - and made it clear she would *die* if she didn't wear cowboy boots in her hypothetical wedding
@@M0tt0rimy cousin wore cowboy boots. She wanted all her bridesmaids too and I told her I would buy brown boots but I will never ever wear cowboy boots again and I wasn’t spending the kind of money companies want for them. Period. My feet sweat in flats and my ankle swells. All I need is to get IN to the boot and then have my ankle swell so much I get stuck 😢she does wear her boots out and about though so I guess it’s not totally the same lmao
Yeah, the only time I saw that wasn't weird was a girl who works on a horse farm and her husband puts shoes on horses. The cowboy boots made sense then.
“We’re actually going to do a first meeting. I’ve never met him.”
How… unique?
“eyelids, surgically removed” is taking me OUTTTTTT 😂💀💀💀
"I'm not like the other brides" plot twist the real non tradition is to not even get into a relationship and live as a hermit 🐌
Having been an assistant wedding photographer in the south, I have taken quite a few photos of bridal cowboy boots. I never got why the shoes were such a big deal though, you never see them when the bride’s gown covers her feet anyway
Separately I found one of the amusing consistencies of the weddings was always the groom’s party frantically YouTubing “how to tie a tie” like right before the ceremony, even the dads had a hard time figuring it out. One group had to figure out how to hand tie old fashioned bow ties and they were at it for what felt like hours, I don’t remember who’s idea that was but to me it’s just another classic example of a quirky idea that no one knew how to actually do
If any brides out there are thinking of having their groomsmen do anything fancy with their outfits, make sure at the very least that your fiancé has practiced it a dozen times
lol exactly, my friend wore flipflops to her wedding, not to be quirky but because "why would i fork out a load of money for uncomfortable shoes no ones gonna see?"
I mean, as a wedding photographer, I would photograph this wedding. 😂
I had a secret wedding ceremony without guests. It all happened in the evening, when the state registration authority was no longer working. This was possible because my husband's sister worked there. She performed the ceremony and registered our marriage.
TELL ME I'M UNIQUE 💀
My grandparents did almost exactly that when my grandpa got drafted except his brother was a pastor.
"I've never met him" broke me 😂😂
You're funnier than any comedian on late night TV or any other TV for that matter😂
“I’m gonna do nude, bush out” that made me laugh so hard I think my neighbors heard me 😂
Not doing a white dress but if anyone has a speck of white in their dress it’s: YOU RUINED MY DAY, PAY ME BACK 60’000 DOLLARS CASH
I love the people who think not wearing a white dress is still so original and daring
@@Eanna97wow at that point Id prob just wear the white 😂
It's still uncommon enough that older family members may never have seen a non-white dress. I wore blue for my 2016 wedding, but I'd known for over a decade I wouldn't wear white.
@@LulaMae21in American*
Eyelids are so summer 2019 wedding.
And the attitude: “I’m just so darn cute and special!” Hilarious!
One of my friends described the theme of my upcoming wedding as "Carrie, but they're into it" so
my mum got married in red because she didn’t want to find a white dress, lol. honestly i still respect it, probably more traditional than the white dress anyway (the whole ‘best dress’ thing instead).
Yes, most people couldn't afford a special dress for the wedding. That's why you see many black dresses in old wedding photos, since like you said, they just wore their best dress, same one they'd wear to funerals too .
I think in certain eastern cultures red is the traditional wedding color. But from what I understand, white for a wedding dress didn’t become super popular in the western world until Queen Victoria wore it for her wedding. Prior to that, I think that most people in the western world wore their nicest clothes.
We are actually doing a first meeting I’ve never met him 😂😂😂
I had to rewind it 3 times like 'did ma really say nude, bush out?!?!' 😭😭
Not the Britney Spears spasms 😂
“Tell me I’m unique!” 😂😂😂💀
the contex on the "nude" after mentioning colours for the dress is crazyyyy😂
THE SILENT LASSO MOVE LMAO
Idk why people are so against Traditional Weddings. I want a traditional wedding but the only thing I want different is I want it in my family cabin in Colorado. Which is right by this beautiful lake in the valley. Surrounded by complete wilderness and beautiful mountains.
“I’ll have my eyelids surgically removed” WHAT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wuhoh bridey! You messed up! Not meeting the groom until the ceremony is one of the most traditional ways to get married in all of human history (at least for kings and queens)
I feel these over the top/ desperately trying not to be traditional are the most annoying weddings to be honest
'All nude, bush out!' has me actually deceased
She’s hilarious
I’ve never met him 😂
As soon as the couple getting married say "we don't want it to be traditional" you know it'll be traditional and just like every wedding you've been too but they'll probably do some something 'crazy' like wear custom trainers for their first dance
We´re doing a "first meeting" - I´ve never met him. I died 😂
Bush out 😭
"Get my eyelids SURgically remooved" got me 😂😂😂
It's so annoying and cliché to try this hard to be unconventional 😅
Thanks for the laugh😂😂
Bush out I'm fucking dead
I think Mike is getting kidnapped
Our friends had their wedding party on the blankets by the river, drinking canned beer and playing games. It was so chill that everybody had actual fun, and they spent like a 100 euro for everything
The insecurity required to care that other people want to do for their weddings jesus christ
People are so embarrassing about their weddings. It’s really not cute.
I think this is the result of being told throughout the majority of your life by your parents and or family members how your wedding SHOULD be, and or even your parents trying to micromanage your wedding to live vicariously through you. People try to resist traditions which isn't always inherently a bad thing, especially with that context
stop be dramatic shut up @@bobtheball5384
@@bobtheball5384They're resisting it because they're contrarian.
almost dropped my phone at ‘nude, bush out’
Attention!! No wedding. This was right before the parents did an intervention. She is now in Belleview undergoing treatment. Shes had a lot of stress.
I don't see any problem with it. Let people get married how they want. I wore a black goth lolita type dress to get married and did a goth photoshoot in a castle. Let people have fun.
Only control freaks obsess over having a non-conventional wedding like this
There’s not an issue with it. The video is making fun of people who try hard to do non-traditional things just because they want to seem original and quirky, usually because they want to post it on social media so they can be like “Hey look at me! I’m so original!” When in reality there’s likely been thousands of women with similar ideas. Then they get upset when you dare tell them that. It’s fine if you’re doing it because you WANT to but many are just doing it as a gimmick so they can look cool and it’s not really about what they want at their wedding. It’s more like “What will make me look interesting online”
Bush out baby!!!!!
You are the best ever ever ever ever amen