Realistically, I'm always in the mindset of who asks the person out, should pay. Also, I wouldn't necessarily want any of these stars to give me dating advice cause what were some of these answers? xD
"The man should pay" is just obviously inequality. Some people like to pick and choose their equality, picking the best things and forgetting the worst.
@@qu1nn130 they are (research it, then send me the link) but that has no bearing on this, it isn't a man's obligation to support today's working woman.
Okay I just have to say this…Y’all…SINCE WHEN IS WHO PAYS FOR THE FIRST DATE IN THE CONTEXT OF A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP RELEVANT TO A PERSON’S RIGHTS!?!? Equal rights refers to access to the same opportunities, equal pay for the same work, equal respect, equal bodily autonomy, the right to not be discriminated against due to gender, etc. Shocking and disheartening how those rights that are being fought for get thrown into the same group as who pays on the first date. Maybe help fix the gender wage gap and then women might be more willing to offer to split the bill or pay. Personally I’d split the bill and/or offer to pay. But that’s just me. Don’t judge someone who wants the man to pay. They have every right to. That’s a personal decision that is relevant only to them and their relationship. For many it’s as simple as women liking to feel cared for and treated to some old-fashioned courtship values. There’s nothing wrong with wanting that and still expecting to be seen as an equal. Plenty of men also still take a lot of pride in being able to pay for the first date. But honestly, regardless of why people make the decisions they do about paying for dates, why the hell do other people care so much about what other people choose to do in the context of their romantic relationships? It’s kinda weird. If you’re on a date with someone who disagrees with you in this arena and y’all can’t work it out, just don’t date them! It’s that simple. No need to make it this huge debate throughout society as a whole
Well it's not about rights in this context imo. That's a different conversation. It's just about treating each other as equals and moving past outdated gender roles/norms. Courtship values literally come from old fashioned relationships that stem from a culture guided by toxic masculinity. No one has the right to expect anything of anyone except common courtesy and respect. You better believe I'll judge someone who expects me to pay for them and then tries to diminish my personal value for believing I don't have to.
@@Picxalate where did I say anyone has the right to expect someone else to pay for them? Or that it’s okay to diminish someone’s personal value for not wanting to pay? My point is simply that this is a personal decision within each relationship. I don’t think it has anything to do with “equal rights” or “equality” as so many in this comment section seem to believe. My comment about not judging others was directed towards some comments I saw judging others with different opinions on the topic of who should pay on the first date. Seems reasonable to me you’d judge someone who diminishes your personal value for not paying. People can want the type of old-fashioned relationship where the man generally pays and still respect men who they may go on a date with and find don’t want that. And yes I know that these are outdated gender roles and norms guided by toxic masculinity. I completely agree. But it’s only toxic if it’s a societal expectation where people are shamed for doing otherwise. If an individual relationship that is healthy and thriving happens to have some of these old-fashioned roles, I don’t see why it’s such a problem.
For the first date both should share all expenses equally. Only then their future plans will workout in a cordial way. Women should not demand more. Later she can command and snatch from men
@@MarianaRodrigues-mt6ry He took a break around 2012 to go to college and then returned to acting in 2017 and has been in movies since then. Like I said, most of the movies he's in are short films and/or not well known.
It's funny how equality is a huge thing (as it should be) UNLESS not having it is in your favor. This is pretty typical in dating. Ladies you can't have your cake and eat it too. Definitely still feel like its largely expected for men to pay for expenses on the first date and to also take the lead in conversations. In my experience at least. Definitely not always the case, but still implied more times than not.
Well women still earn less money than men so it’s not really equality in 2022. Some men only want equality when it effects women negatively :( it’s like some men are like “hah! You wanted equality huh?? So that means I can hit you and don’t help you with your car and make you pay even if I earn more!” I’m not saying you have these opinions, but as a woman I would be very happy to see men fight for real equality. That women shouldn’t feel scared of going home alone at night. That women don’t get abused or murdered by their partner. Feminists aren’t evil witches that want to steal money from men. We just want to be respected and safe in society. And sometimes the ones laying down need more help than the ones standing up. So that both genders can some day walk together. And those in power have the power to change their own behavior, and do their best to inspire other men as well.
@@Moeboeh judgemental against people who steal other people's comments and use men purely for their money as if they aren't human beings, therefore defeating the whole point of feminism being equal rights and therefore hurting the movement? Absolutely. You're pathetic ❤️
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Men should always pay on the first date unless they are just looking to sleep with you. If a man is genuinely interested in you and trying to impress you the least he could do is pay for a meal. That doesn’t mean it has to be that way every time going forward, but first impressions count. I could potentially be vulnerable and relying on this man when I’m carrying his child, what does an act like this signal to the woman’s primal instincts and subconscious mind if he won’t even want to pay for a first date?? Think.
Bees are the wrong example honey, the male bees get killed by the queen after she has had sex with them sooo… I don’t know if we should necessarily follow nature..,
Who pays on the first date depends on the girl. If she is a strong and independent woman who has banged half the campus and given the monkey away for free, why should she get paid for it with a dinner?! Some dudes pay for the monkey, some don’t? Nope. She should not even be dated. Fellas, always find out a girl’s reputation before even thinking of a date. Check her instagram. She got narcissistic posed pictures looking for attention or a dating app? No date. Just sex and bye. She does not respect herself so why should you?!
An interesting cultural difference from what I can see in the comments 🤔 I'd say that the man pays always for everything, when they are together. It is a matter of honor. Would be quite humiliating for the man if it was the other way around.
Damn, I guess your culture needs some equality. I can't imagine being that whipped that a woman gets treated like a queen and the man is basically a cash slave.
Whoever asks for the date pays. My husband and I traded off paying.
Realistically, I'm always in the mindset of who asks the person out, should pay.
Also, I wouldn't necessarily want any of these stars to give me dating advice cause what were some of these answers? xD
dylan is so unhinged lol
No one! First date should be doing something free like walking. First date is just for getting to know someone before sinking any cost into it.
A video in which everyone had half assed advice 😂
The restraunt pays, we both go out the back door.
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Yo, Dylan is in something new?? Let’s goooo
Split bill for the win -sincerely, a woman
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Split ofcourse!
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"The man should pay" is just obviously inequality. Some people like to pick and choose their equality, picking the best things and forgetting the worst.
Obviously since they still because of inequality women still make .83 For every dollar a man makes for the same job
@@ddavis4730 np they don't lmao
@@qu1nn130 I'm joking about men paying, my husband and I both paid, I wasn't doing him a favor. The person who asks the other person out should pay.
@@ddavis4730 I was talking about you saying women are paid less than men
@@qu1nn130 they are (research it, then send me the link) but that has no bearing on this, it isn't a man's obligation to support today's working woman.
Just came up in time after watching it😂
Were you watching me buzzvideo?🥺
Who tf cares? Dating now is a freaking chore and no one is real anymore. I'm so fed up and done with people and I'm only 29....
i was waiting for the movie since i saw the trailer
esse filme foi um surto, mas no bom sentido 😂😂
Maybe I'm just old, but a man would never allow a lady to pay.
Men shouldn't pay unless they asked for the date. Period.
Wow, an LGBTQ film cast and all these commenters talking about who should pay in a cisgen heteronormative first date.
I like all the actors in this movie. I don't like buzzfeed tho. This video would've gotten more views being uploaded by a random account
Okay I just have to say this…Y’all…SINCE WHEN IS WHO PAYS FOR THE FIRST DATE IN THE CONTEXT OF A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP RELEVANT TO A PERSON’S RIGHTS!?!? Equal rights refers to access to the same opportunities, equal pay for the same work, equal respect, equal bodily autonomy, the right to not be discriminated against due to gender, etc. Shocking and disheartening how those rights that are being fought for get thrown into the same group as who pays on the first date. Maybe help fix the gender wage gap and then women might be more willing to offer to split the bill or pay. Personally I’d split the bill and/or offer to pay. But that’s just me. Don’t judge someone who wants the man to pay. They have every right to. That’s a personal decision that is relevant only to them and their relationship. For many it’s as simple as women liking to feel cared for and treated to some old-fashioned courtship values. There’s nothing wrong with wanting that and still expecting to be seen as an equal. Plenty of men also still take a lot of pride in being able to pay for the first date. But honestly, regardless of why people make the decisions they do about paying for dates, why the hell do other people care so much about what other people choose to do in the context of their romantic relationships? It’s kinda weird. If you’re on a date with someone who disagrees with you in this arena and y’all can’t work it out, just don’t date them! It’s that simple. No need to make it this huge debate throughout society as a whole
Well it's not about rights in this context imo. That's a different conversation. It's just about treating each other as equals and moving past outdated gender roles/norms. Courtship values literally come from old fashioned relationships that stem from a culture guided by toxic masculinity. No one has the right to expect anything of anyone except common courtesy and respect. You better believe I'll judge someone who expects me to pay for them and then tries to diminish my personal value for believing I don't have to.
@@Picxalate where did I say anyone has the right to expect someone else to pay for them? Or that it’s okay to diminish someone’s personal value for not wanting to pay? My point is simply that this is a personal decision within each relationship. I don’t think it has anything to do with “equal rights” or “equality” as so many in this comment section seem to believe. My comment about not judging others was directed towards some comments I saw judging others with different opinions on the topic of who should pay on the first date. Seems reasonable to me you’d judge someone who diminishes your personal value for not paying. People can want the type of old-fashioned relationship where the man generally pays and still respect men who they may go on a date with and find don’t want that. And yes I know that these are outdated gender roles and norms guided by toxic masculinity. I completely agree. But it’s only toxic if it’s a societal expectation where people are shamed for doing otherwise. If an individual relationship that is healthy and thriving happens to have some of these old-fashioned roles, I don’t see why it’s such a problem.
For the first date both should share all expenses equally. Only then their future plans will workout in a cordial way. Women should not demand more. Later she can command and snatch from men
Dylan is back on the acting thing? Okay...
I believe he's been acting, but only in lesser known movies and shows
Lol, didn‘t know he quit.
@@3lement2010 since when is he acting again?
@@MarianaRodrigues-mt6ry He took a break around 2012 to go to college and then returned to acting in 2017 and has been in movies since then. Like I said, most of the movies he's in are short films and/or not well known.
@@3lement2010 thank you
It's funny how equality is a huge thing (as it should be) UNLESS not having it is in your favor. This is pretty typical in dating. Ladies you can't have your cake and eat it too. Definitely still feel like its largely expected for men to pay for expenses on the first date and to also take the lead in conversations. In my experience at least. Definitely not always the case, but still implied more times than not.
Split the bill is 2022 equality
Well women still earn less money than men so it’s not really equality in 2022. Some men only want equality when it effects women negatively :( it’s like some men are like “hah! You wanted equality huh?? So that means I can hit you and don’t help you with your car and make you pay even if I earn more!” I’m not saying you have these opinions, but as a woman I would be very happy to see men fight for real equality. That women shouldn’t feel scared of going home alone at night. That women don’t get abused or murdered by their partner. Feminists aren’t evil witches that want to steal money from men. We just want to be respected and safe in society. And sometimes the ones laying down need more help than the ones standing up. So that both genders can some day walk together. And those in power have the power to change their own behavior, and do their best to inspire other men as well.
@@Hanna-ph9ei that was beautiful. But I stand by my statement.
Men pay. Get married and woman do all the work. In my experience.
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🤢🤢🤢🤢 using men as cash cows in the year of the lord 2022? Embarrassing.
@@Ohana9999 judgy much
Let them both split the bill - sincerely, equal rights
@@Moeboeh judgemental against people who steal other people's comments and use men purely for their money as if they aren't human beings, therefore defeating the whole point of feminism being equal rights and therefore hurting the movement? Absolutely. You're pathetic ❤️
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Omg, I’m actually first!
Men should always pay on the first date unless they are just looking to sleep with you. If a man is genuinely interested in you and trying to impress you the least he could do is pay for a meal. That doesn’t mean it has to be that way every time going forward, but first impressions count. I could potentially be vulnerable and relying on this man when I’m carrying his child, what does an act like this signal to the woman’s primal instincts and subconscious mind if he won’t even want to pay for a first date?? Think.
Lol
Men should pay. The bee goes to the flower. Always. Look at nature.
Never saw a bee paying…
Bees are the wrong example honey, the male bees get killed by the queen after she has had sex with them sooo… I don’t know if we should necessarily follow nature..,
"Logic"
Are you high or smt? The hell are you talking about
Who pays on the first date depends on the girl. If she is a strong and independent woman who has banged half the campus and given the monkey away for free, why should she get paid for it with a dinner?! Some dudes pay for the monkey, some don’t? Nope. She should not even be dated. Fellas, always find out a girl’s reputation before even thinking of a date. Check her instagram. She got narcissistic posed pictures looking for attention or a dating app? No date. Just sex and bye. She does not respect herself so why should you?!
An interesting cultural difference from what I can see in the comments 🤔
I'd say that the man pays always for everything, when they are together. It is a matter of honor. Would be quite humiliating for the man if it was the other way around.
Damn, I guess your culture needs some equality.
I can't imagine being that whipped that a woman gets treated like a queen and the man is basically a cash slave.
Cole is musty af now
Not cole
Uhm, it's Dylan...