LET'S TALK 'PICK ME' MENTALITY

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  • Опубліковано 26 жов 2024

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  • @Mindfencemd
    @Mindfencemd Рік тому +9

    😂😂 Timely!!!! Because I had recently put on my IG stories that I want to put a nose ring and someone told me NOT TO because “l will start looking like other girls”. The hell?!😂😂 because what is “other girls?!” EWWWWWW!!!!

  • @mukuluphoebe5364
    @mukuluphoebe5364 Рік тому +13

    Listening to Kitt gives me soo much confidence in the real world

  • @mercymboya9112
    @mercymboya9112 Рік тому +10

    Kitt, on this one I disagree abit.. everyone has a preference and an opinion, just because I like A doesn’t mean I hate B, you know,. There’s only three ways of doing things, my way, your way and God’s way (if you are a Christian) so my way and your way can differ and that’s okay

  • @heilysworld25
    @heilysworld25 Рік тому +5

    Kittt!!! This video was for me! I hear you loud and clear!! 🙌🙌

  • @fidelismaina7700
    @fidelismaina7700 Рік тому +3

    My favorite space when I need real and sober conversation. I always feel grounded. And you funny too ❤

  • @joynasaka1627
    @joynasaka1627 Рік тому +3

    Kitt. Thanks for being my big sister. Learnt a lot since i subscribed to your channel.

  • @hazelnyangaya8624
    @hazelnyangaya8624 Рік тому +2

    Absolutely loved this! hard truths tactfully articulated with just the perfect balance of candor, grace wit and your extra AF expressions that made it such a great watch☺🙌

  • @PaulineKitoto
    @PaulineKitoto Рік тому +3

    Spotify? Good job Kitt. Well done 👏👏

  • @lilianwanjiku2242
    @lilianwanjiku2242 Рік тому +1

    Listen to kitt always make me see the world in a different , beautiful view...I'm guilty of a few that she's has mentioned and I'm embarrassed for myself 😅😅😅😅..I love Love this lady❤❤

  • @faithkwamboka28
    @faithkwamboka28 Рік тому +1

    We need an episode 2 on this. I love this

  • @ichooseviolence2532
    @ichooseviolence2532 Рік тому +1

    I can never and will never be a feminist 🚮

  • @leyancuisine6426
    @leyancuisine6426 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Kitt , personal confidence is key and knowing your purpose in life.

  • @noelaadhiambo
    @noelaadhiambo Рік тому

    May God keep you and bless you so much that you keep blessing us with your wisdom.

  • @ambiancemeditationandclear3299

    'When I'm putting green eye shadow on my eyes what am I hiding kindly' got me 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому +3

      What am I actually hiding??? Such a dumb notion. Who came up with it 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @NedySueAbela
      @NedySueAbela Рік тому +1

      ​@@KittKiarieChannel when you said it,I was like yessssssssssssssssssss!

    • @edwins..kitchendiaries
      @edwins..kitchendiaries Рік тому

      😂

  • @mekales8596
    @mekales8596 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this episode. I am really looking inwards to correct myself. As you said the brain is a muscle, exercise it.

  • @everlyneoluoch2509
    @everlyneoluoch2509 Рік тому

    🤣 am still stuck at the pads being rapped like a BOM good conversations kate thanks

  • @margaretwanjiku533
    @margaretwanjiku533 Рік тому

    I feel that it's the thinking you are better than other gals and having that influence your behaviour to be picked that makes it pick me but there gals who grew up with boys which has influenced their behaviour to be the way they are but don't think they are better than other gals and actually admire how they see sisters teaching each other things like makeup and all that

  • @leyancuisine6426
    @leyancuisine6426 Рік тому

    I love Apondi so much.I have learnt a thing or two, awesome insights Kitt. I love make-up but sometimes iam just lazy to do it. I love your explanation about it.

  • @diannaachando9160
    @diannaachando9160 Рік тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    Pick me mentality is too harmful. Thank you for saying it

  • @evamutile6977
    @evamutile6977 Рік тому +1

    I love the ending. There is enough for all of us hence no need for competition.

  • @annenjane4011
    @annenjane4011 Рік тому +1

    You are all the girls 😂😂😂 Took me out

  • @stellamuthama6890
    @stellamuthama6890 Рік тому

    Aaah,I love it. We definitely need a podcast🥳🥳

  • @morriskamau4512
    @morriskamau4512 Рік тому +11

    a lot to unpack here but it's the virtue signaling for me. is it me? or your whole concept of feminism is predicated on everyone having to agree with you on what ideologies you hold and if they don't, they are shame-named? as a feminist, the first thing you should be 100% ok with are the choices of other women and what their ideas of being feminine are.

  • @abillionshadesofhappiness
    @abillionshadesofhappiness Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣
    10:33 I'd have loved to hear what phrase came after that laughter😂😂.
    It's always a pleasure 😻😻

  • @kaburawambui4963
    @kaburawambui4963 Рік тому

    Weeeh,am learning everyday thanks for this

  • @wairimumukuria466
    @wairimumukuria466 Рік тому

    There's a song called Most girls by Heilee Steinfeld..a dedication to all pick me's to dance to and get a grip

  • @linnetmbotto7212
    @linnetmbotto7212 Рік тому

    4:09 There is a documentary I watched on Netflix called Period. It’s about Mentruation in Indian Culture. You think buying a pad for it to be wrapped up is backward? In the video even making pads was a taboo, having pads in shops is outrageous. Periods are never mentioned they don’t exist in some parts of India. So it’s bad in Kenya but in some places it’s worst

  • @aokookello5564
    @aokookello5564 Рік тому +1

    I thought I've never been a pick me girl. But I have once in a while when men tell you things and you are like "gosh women do that" I'm learning

  • @liliankirwa8942
    @liliankirwa8942 Рік тому

    Unmatched wisdom. Thank you Kitt.

  • @Wendo_pm
    @Wendo_pm Рік тому +6

    Kitt am so triggered. So last year a lady carried a brown bag, and in it there was a pad (still wrapped), a very new one not used at all. Then in the same bag there was a banana.. So she came with it and forgot it at the desk, tell me why a fellow woman took a photo of that and posted it in the group saying how disgusting it is to put an unused pad and a banana in the same brown bag. Our supervisor whois a lady and has daughters and granddaughters was there, trolling the owner of that bag, calling her a witch and saying how God will bring her down for doing that.
    I was there trying to tell defend the owner, our manager came to my inbox to tell me to keep quiet because our periods are private things and we should not let everyone know what we are going through........

    • @ruthkairu6591
      @ruthkairu6591 Рік тому

      The banana and the pads were in the girl’s bag, right?

  • @Prayerpartnerinternational
    @Prayerpartnerinternational Рік тому +3

    Woke up to the realization that I am a pick me girl...help🥺

  • @jerinflora8712
    @jerinflora8712 Рік тому

    I’m really waiting for this

  • @jackiejdub
    @jackiejdub Рік тому +1

    men want housekeepers and cooks.....gurl!!!🤣

  • @NedySueAbela
    @NedySueAbela Рік тому +1

    It's the thumbnail for me ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wambuimwangi9988
    @wambuimwangi9988 Рік тому

    I find it that there is a thin line between pick me girl and someone's preference.
    Is it that if I'm not telling anyone that's my preference or the opposite might be said 🤔🤔

    • @raychonmulungi7538
      @raychonmulungi7538 Рік тому +1

      U can say it's your preference. But u don't have to compare yoself to other women.

  • @wanguwaweru3556
    @wanguwaweru3556 Рік тому

    We need too much women! Ain't that the truth!

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 Рік тому +3

    It's Kitt Kiarie for breakfast every Monday Morning. 🙌🙌🙌🙌
    Am I in therapy for growing up inside the locker room? Jeeeez Kitt on a Monday? 😂😂 Hello fellow tom boys. By the way this term Tom boys beats the purpose of a girl behaving boyish...I think....
    I remember being so overwhelmed in highschool having so many girls around me all the time. But part of growing up is adjusting and adjust we did.
    Haya if you are not a feminist what are you?

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому

      Hehehehe. On a Monday morning in fact 😂
      Being a "tom boy" is very different from being a pick me girl. Thankfully

  • @malkiawaalego2552
    @malkiawaalego2552 Рік тому

    That dog is a “pick me” dog 😂

  • @thegodlyprincess_kenya
    @thegodlyprincess_kenya Рік тому +1

    When you said Beyonce I lost it lol...

  • @muthonimaina7998
    @muthonimaina7998 Рік тому +1

    I LOVE YOU DEARLY!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mukuluphoebe5364
    @mukuluphoebe5364 Рік тому

    In 2018 I had this friend,a guy, who always said to me he wouldn't stand any lady on her periods. be it his daughter or wife,sister and yooh I was shocked

    • @LolaBugzy85
      @LolaBugzy85 Рік тому

      He must really hate women in his life.

  • @patiencewambua6571
    @patiencewambua6571 Рік тому

    for the record I find you funny😅you made my day.

  • @catherinepnyambura5999
    @catherinepnyambura5999 Рік тому

    .....you are all the girls 😂😂😂.

  • @nettyad
    @nettyad Рік тому +1

    Your face is looking great...

  • @ruo.
    @ruo. Рік тому

    Kitt is so hilarious🤣🤣🙌

  • @shizma7917
    @shizma7917 Рік тому +1

    One time I did the most for a guy na alienda tu

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Рік тому +2

      I did the same for two woman but I left them since they were toxic

  • @neemalukakha8309
    @neemalukakha8309 Рік тому

    Kiiiiiitttt 😍😍😍👏👏👏🎉

  • @kay0kello894
    @kay0kello894 Рік тому

    Here like clockwork😍

  • @christamokeira4340
    @christamokeira4340 Рік тому

    The beginning 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aseasyas4cfro643
    @aseasyas4cfro643 Рік тому

    Not a Cactus!!😅😅😅😅

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 Рік тому +2

    The dog really bothered you 😂

  • @PerpetualWorld
    @PerpetualWorld Рік тому

    Whew!! Everybody needs to hear this!

  • @mumbinganga5824
    @mumbinganga5824 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @herimaya3466
    @herimaya3466 Рік тому +2

    I agree with the content of your video Kitt..but I don't agree with Senator Doris' action...and your analysis of the other girl who called a spade a spade..there's a time and place for everything..#wisdom..be as wise as a serpant and innocent as a dove. Applicable to both men and women.

    • @KittKiarieChannel
      @KittKiarieChannel  Рік тому +12

      What Senator Doris did was not new or unique. This type of demonstration has been used all over the world to bring to light the issue of period poverty. The time and place is NOW and HERE ☺️
      That is wisdom

    • @herimaya3466
      @herimaya3466 Рік тому

      @@KittKiarieChannel you're smart..am sure one day you'll see this perspective.

    • @bug_hunteress
      @bug_hunteress Рік тому

      ​@@herimaya3466I'm

    • @LolaBugzy85
      @LolaBugzy85 Рік тому

      ​@@herimaya3466 No she won't. I thought she has already responded 😂😂

  • @Karen4real
    @Karen4real Рік тому

    This chanel is therapeutical
    Kitt you doing an amazing job

    • @LolaBugzy85
      @LolaBugzy85 Рік тому

      It's not just therapeutic but it has made me unlearn so many things as a woman.