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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • In an age where technology is allowing people to connect in more ways than ever, why is concern over loneliness on the rise? The #IHaveNoFriends declaration is common on social media and experts say trends in friendlessness have only been made worse by the coronavirus pandemic.
    Now in the US, the nation's surgeon general has issued an advisory on loneliness and why it should be considered an epidemic that poses a threat to both individual health and society at large. Studies show chronic loneliness can lead to anxiety and depression, as well as premature death and increased risks of heart disease and dementia.
    How has social media and the internet changed our perspectives on finding deeper connections with others? While some technology can be used to combat the effects of social isolation, there is greater cause for concern when online interactions are being used as a replacement for real-life friendships.
    In this episode of The Stream, we'll look at why loneliness is a growing issue and what's being done about it.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 106

  • @PuffAdder8565
    @PuffAdder8565 Рік тому +46

    Being alone has helped me realize that I don't need a lot of the things society says I do. It has made me stronger.

    • @Robrulz666icloud
      @Robrulz666icloud Рік тому +7

      Absolutely spot on my friend 👍

    • @Grace-jf3rs
      @Grace-jf3rs Рік тому +7

      Being alone doesn’t necessarily mean that one is lonely. I just prefer my own company most of the time.

    • @PuffAdder8565
      @PuffAdder8565 Рік тому +4

      @@Grace-jf3rs solace is good 😊💯

    • @Taterniac
      @Taterniac Рік тому +3

      so true, i found the same thing, we really dont need all the stuff we think we do. But also where i live, the girls only want a bad boy, no one wants mr normal. so most men are single and most women with kids end up single and struggling... crazy

    • @PuffAdder8565
      @PuffAdder8565 Рік тому +3

      @@Taterniac when you realize you don't need any of it you will become free

  • @rocio5920
    @rocio5920 Рік тому +27

    Loneliness is not the serious problem here since we all have to be by ourselves from time to time. The real issue is having no one to rely on when crisis comes. When you're sick and do not have a relative nor a friend or neighbor to ask for help. And as society becomes more and more cold and selfish, the only thing we can do is to strengthen our family bonds. Get closer to our parents, our aunts and uncles, our siblings and cousins. Family is the only way to fight this lonely feeling and, if you get to have any friends, well, don't waste time and spend quality physical experiences with them! Technology is good as long as it doesn't replace physical contact.

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo Рік тому +1

      I agree 💯 when in need and no support that’s the main issue.
      What happened to families? Classmates? Work colleagues?
      Unless this is a white people epidemic cos with other races they tend to be close to family, though this is changing

  • @mrmemo27
    @mrmemo27 Рік тому +68

    Im watching this alone

    • @tolowuor5087
      @tolowuor5087 Рік тому +2

      The physiology of isolation is a bad thing that could lead to mental health issues.
      Social media is very good for connection but don't know why some people still feel lonely.
      Something to do with ignorant.

    • @Sw1shersplitter
      @Sw1shersplitter Рік тому +4

      This is why you’re in the comment section and not a speaker.
      You don’t understand enough, tolo.

    • @americameinyourmouth9964
      @americameinyourmouth9964 Рік тому

      Its just me and this Glock 19 on my nightstand. JK.❤

    • @MEGIDIOT
      @MEGIDIOT Рік тому +3

      Who watches The Stream in a group? 😂 don’t worry

    • @dauthuc8807
      @dauthuc8807 Рік тому +1

      @@Sw1shersplitter artificial things can not replace any reality, swisher

  • @jaytee8053
    @jaytee8053 Рік тому +7

    When my husband died I would never have got through the grief without the Widows groups I joined on Facebook.

  • @davefischer2344
    @davefischer2344 Рік тому +7

    Loneliness happens a lot when you are in an area you don’t like living in

  • @shafiq_ramli
    @shafiq_ramli Рік тому +7

    I can't finish watching this because it relates to me and I'm becoming emotional.

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 5 місяців тому

      Can't you join any local church or club or sport etc and make a couple of friends.?

  • @ajay-naz6996
    @ajay-naz6996 Рік тому +13

    I love to be alone, away from toxic people, my best friend is my wife of 22 years and streaming, however I understand as to why people are suffering from loneliness, at 43 I had enough of temporary friends.

  • @MiguelDLewis
    @MiguelDLewis Рік тому +3

    "The only way to have a friend is to be a friend."
    - H.P. Baxter

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 5 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely. If you go out of your way and join other people they will open doors for you ... that is if relationships are important to you. I happen to be a lone stoic woof, so I don't sweat it that much 😂

  • @EduTech01
    @EduTech01 Рік тому +5

    This trend of loneliness calls for return to nature and return to Islam (The true voice of GOD).

  • @haroonnawaz4702
    @haroonnawaz4702 Рік тому +4

    I love having my own time

  • @eldepavas
    @eldepavas Рік тому +4

    Exchanging to belong to a community for its poor substitute, social media, have left them emotionally stunted adults, unable to relate with others.

  • @ivainyamutsamba8540
    @ivainyamutsamba8540 Рік тому +7

    Hie team, yes it is true I admit I am a part of the loneliness batch. It feels empty, its a cold space, I try to make as many friends as possible but the friendship only ends with a few chats that can last at about 3mins max and silence. There is a crisis

  • @landotter
    @landotter Рік тому +3

    people are surrounded by others that they don't know.

  • @lefootballcestmonart6086
    @lefootballcestmonart6086 Рік тому +5

    Everyone should remove for one moment their apps , turn off their phone for appreciate the huamiity and re connect with their fellows . And no Ai cannot substitue at the human being never.

  • @syedabdulwahidsohaily493
    @syedabdulwahidsohaily493 Рік тому +2

    I am also alone, with no One at all 😢at 56, now I am used to it and almost on the terms 😊 Sohail Karachi Pakistan ❤️🌹👍🏻

  • @bradleedenney
    @bradleedenney Рік тому +7

    Interesting. I have had zero friends for 20 years. I don't "feel" lonely, but I am 43 and have known that people are not interested in me. Because no one wants to be friends with someone with no friends.

    • @matlalampho4304
      @matlalampho4304 10 місяців тому

      Did they tell you that they don’t want to be your friends or you are assuming that since you don’t have friends they won’t be interested in you?

  • @jacobrocks7
    @jacobrocks7 Рік тому +3

    I’m also alone..seriously, the adoption of the social media has hurt interactions and driving issues with isolation

  • @seamus9750
    @seamus9750 Рік тому +2

    i luckily have a wife that im crazy about but i see people in my circle that aren't so fortunate.

  • @neffetSnnamremmiZ
    @neffetSnnamremmiZ Рік тому +5

    Life transforms itself even through viruses. It has good reason. And loneliness is not per se a bad thing, is important for growing and deepness..

  • @Dublinseoul53
    @Dublinseoul53 Рік тому +2

    You’re closing advice is “ Call a Friend “ ? Travelling through Madagascar now , street life , kids being kids , people talking to each other , no obesity , fresh organic food everyday. Most people here can’t afford a Smart phone 🙄The reason for being lonely is Social Media , go outside and see a friend and leave your cell behind. Time for a change people . 🙏

  • @jun_sakata856
    @jun_sakata856 Рік тому +9

    I'm doing just fine without any friends.

    • @bigbrother4ever
      @bigbrother4ever 5 місяців тому

      Me too kind of. If I wanted connections there are lots of groups in town I could join, from religious to political to sports

  • @user-zc8nb5om7f
    @user-zc8nb5om7f 7 місяців тому +1

    That’s the problem with social media and sms we’re lonely because people’s don’t like to meet again or talk theirs wants only to txt which is not the way to communicate. Before we used to meet‘talk instead of texting but now we’re more lonely than ever.

  • @Rickiepimpim
    @Rickiepimpim Рік тому +6

    More and more people are becoming lonely because we spend more time watching reel videos than engaging in meaningful conversations.

  • @fabiomorato8978
    @fabiomorato8978 Рік тому +1

    The cause of the problem is so clear that the interviewer couldn't even find people to discuss the matter face-to-face. You can't talk about loneliness pandemic without talking about smartphone addiction pandemic.

  • @Grace-bk4tq
    @Grace-bk4tq Рік тому +2

    Technology has given introverts a pseudo-sociability. The extroverts are those who suffer loneliness without a social circle. There are personalities that can be both introvert or extrovert accordingly, ambiverts who can adjust better socially.
    The 16 personality types of the Briggs Myer scheme also explain those who can deal with being alone, like the INFJ & INTJ types.
    Loneliness is not solitude. Some people enjoy solitude when they have time & quiet for clear thinking and to sort things out without distraction.
    "Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for it is better to be alone than in bad company." - usually attributed to George Washington's

  • @FBAsolutions7532
    @FBAsolutions7532 Рік тому +1

    I'm so happy I made the decision not to have meaningless friendships years ago before this crisis started.

  • @Homjos_Erhas
    @Homjos_Erhas Рік тому +1

    the internet showed us the world and we all took one long look and said 'nah, im good'

  • @abdishakuur.online
    @abdishakuur.online Рік тому +3

    If you learning how to live alone you will be stronger

  • @thewaywhatistruth5470
    @thewaywhatistruth5470 Рік тому +1

    I have shared this on the community page of my UA-cam channel, I have had practically no friends since my late teens. I have one friend since my late 20’s, but I feel more like his carer tbh, as he’s not up to much, so… I had my first ever relationship at 34 too, lasted 6 months, now at 36 I am just doing what I can in my Christian faith. I don’t know what the future holds, but I bless everyone who reads this comment.

  • @FBAsolutions7532
    @FBAsolutions7532 Рік тому +1

    It only affects your health if you care about friendships.

  • @fkzaam
    @fkzaam Рік тому +2

    I am facing the same situation

  • @ayeshakhan6613
    @ayeshakhan6613 Рік тому +1

    Living In Foreign..Away from.their families also suffer from Loneliness..😢

  • @imveryhungry112
    @imveryhungry112 Рік тому +5

    Its because all we do now is work work work theres no community anymore

  • @jamiebarry1974
    @jamiebarry1974 Рік тому +1

    Join the club, have been lonely for many many years!! From turning 18, and living on my own, these youngsters have no idea what loneliness is! I have been there for 30 years now 😂

  • @Rhade15
    @Rhade15 Рік тому +4

    Shouldn’t complain about being alone if you’re unwilling to make the effort to socialize

  • @beataplaya
    @beataplaya Рік тому +2

    Friends and followers in socmed does not necessarily mean good reliable friends. Technology has made communication accessible, easier but it's not a guarantee of a long lasting relationship. Today's lifestyle and attitude about life is also a factor.

  • @JohnnyPeacenic
    @JohnnyPeacenic Рік тому +4

    We also have a shortage of organizers. There are very few things to do once you decide to get out of the house. We had more people in the past that would organize different things for the public to attend

  • @ajay-naz6996
    @ajay-naz6996 Рік тому +4

    A piece of advice, those who choose their friends over their family will at some point in the future will face this loneliness.
    Remember most friends can help to a certain amount but family will never give up on you unless you and your family doesn’t have a heart.

  • @jorgeatkinson8747
    @jorgeatkinson8747 Рік тому +3

    Getting Wild And Losing Touch with Reality isn't Good Cause Lots of Things Can Happen To You Plus If Evil People Are Around They Might Try To Hurt You And Take Advantage Of You When Your Not In Their Right State of Mind I'm Talking By Experience.👻💯🔥✌️

  • @munnik_dnb
    @munnik_dnb Рік тому +2

    The lady said " is loneliness hype" XD XD XD XD !!! best ever

  • @drinkingoutside7584
    @drinkingoutside7584 Рік тому +1

    Get used to it

  • @warrenjacobus9620
    @warrenjacobus9620 Рік тому +3

    I am lonely and need help also...Lets chat

  • @thefuture4456
    @thefuture4456 Рік тому +1

    I grew up with very friends almost close to none. Now that I am older I am very content. I have one friend and my family are my friends. I have,also learnt that my happiness does not come from anyone. People can disappoint you. The other thing I think people try too hard to fit in thereby attracting the wrong kind of friends. As,a Christian Jesus is my friend.

  • @jorgeatkinson8747
    @jorgeatkinson8747 Рік тому +1

    I can Honesty Say This If You Do Have Friends It Might Cause Alot of Trouble When Groups Gather And Party Starts Like The Drinking And The Drugs The Girls Things Start To Happen And if Not Sober In The Mind Trouble Starts Slow Until It Gets Out of Control Then It's To Late To Change What Has Occured So Being Along You Might Feel Abanet From People But At least You Know That Where You Are At it's Safe and You Live To See Another Day Or Pick Friends That Don't Party With Alcohol or Drugs Then You Know It's A Good Time To Enjoy.👻💯🔥✌️

  • @antjetautkus5506
    @antjetautkus5506 Рік тому

    Wow 2023
    Reach out to others 🤗
    & get a dozen LOVOT'S ... robots 🤖
    Beeing alone is great too 👏
    Learning process
    Born alone ...
    dieing alone.

  • @pstar7224
    @pstar7224 Рік тому +2

    I live alone, is popular s.korean tv show , it's casts celebrities who live alone, many preferred to stay like that, stuck with phone & work , simply it's easy & peaceful...

  • @Willopo100
    @Willopo100 Рік тому

    honestly being alone is sick. I love it.

  • @noveltycrusade
    @noveltycrusade Рік тому

    Nature and tech converging at scale.

  • @mercyadur7599
    @mercyadur7599 Рік тому

    For me it's quite the opposite. I like being alone.

  • @usefph6579
    @usefph6579 Рік тому

    Much relevant subject

  • @jawahirsaid1345
    @jawahirsaid1345 Рік тому +2

    الحمد ا لله علي نعمة اسلام ❤

  • @mairepcod4063
    @mairepcod4063 Рік тому

    Thanks,

  • @brianp.6237
    @brianp.6237 Рік тому +1

    I’m lonely too

  • @doncameron5608
    @doncameron5608 Рік тому +1

    Talk to some elderly people on how to cope with lonelyness

  • @andrelombard2580
    @andrelombard2580 Рік тому +3

    Being alone is a choice.
    Loneliness is a state of being. If you feel lonely, go out and meet people!

  • @thealhayy
    @thealhayy Рік тому

    Destruction mere devastation. No Social interaction

  • @mahmudulhasananrob5704
    @mahmudulhasananrob5704 Рік тому

    loneliness is going to social disdisorder today😊💔

  • @hectorhernandez2167
    @hectorhernandez2167 Рік тому

    I just don't understand this , this is not normal

  • @Zazezoo
    @Zazezoo Рік тому

    No such thing as loneliness. You are not alone, Allah is with you.
    Seek knowledge and keep busy instead of waste time in social media comparing yourself with the rest of the world. Read, Do activities etc don’t you have families? Class mates? Work colleagues? Etc

  • @truthfuturist
    @truthfuturist Рік тому

    Plutocracy 101

  • @Aliya-gh2ec
    @Aliya-gh2ec Рік тому

    Your advice at the end of the video doesn't make sense. How will lonely people call family or a friend if they don't have any ??
    You have given lazy advice, which is unprofessional from Al Jazeera.

  • @sushilpal2289
    @sushilpal2289 Рік тому

    I don't believe

  • @warrior5847
    @warrior5847 Рік тому

    Don't forget u came to this world alone and will go alone, if you have Jesus u have everything ❤ stay solid.

  • @avroe1
    @avroe1 Рік тому +1

    This won’t be an epidemic for much longer. AI will play a role in solving loneliness

  • @laraparks7018
    @laraparks7018 Рік тому

    Some of them want to use you! Some of them want to be used by you; some of them want to abuse you; some of them want to be abused... sweet dreams are made of these...

  • @salahuddinayubi5162
    @salahuddinayubi5162 Рік тому

    Imran khan zindabad

  • @amaanullah13
    @amaanullah13 Рік тому

    Lol anyone wants to be my friend🤭?

  • @izzyfury8126
    @izzyfury8126 Рік тому +1

    Read the Bible book of Psalms

  • @peacefullifetv5065
    @peacefullifetv5065 Рік тому +1

    Selfish n self centered people will never have friends 😂

  • @rural_girl555
    @rural_girl555 Рік тому +1

    my parents literally called me to watch this with them when this played on tv. it shows that is that bad with me

  • @heisnj
    @heisnj Рік тому +2

    Im from india im also alone

  • @Sw1shersplitter
    @Sw1shersplitter Рік тому +1

    That woman Julian rubbs me wrong with her dismissive laughter and un-empathetic grin.
    She says at the beginning
    -“but on the bright side people with friends live 50% longer”
    Pretty insensitive comment 🤬

  • @Noahwillwalk
    @Noahwillwalk 10 місяців тому +1

    Maybe the FBI can be my friend. *flips a big bird*