Friendship Drama, Jealousy, & Unrealistic Expectations With Alisha Marie & Remi Cruz of Pretty Basic
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- Опубліковано 11 кві 2022
- This week we're doing a Pod Swap! Alisha Marie & Remi Cruz of Pretty Basic join in to discuss how to manage different personality types in friendship. We'll be giving you all the info to help navigate this precarious subject.
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Taryn is an amazing speaker and I feel like she steers the conversation in a deeper way while also bringing up great topics! And I love listening to the others responses because they give so much insight. Love you girls and keep doing what you’re doing 💕
We all need a friend like Taryn… she’s has such a comforting vibe. She’s the friend you cry to while they play with your hair and tell you it’s all going to be ok ❤️
This is a friend group that I am jealous of in the best way possible!
Totally agree about the part of jealousy. Brenè Brown talks about how jealous and Envy aren’t in the anger category of feelings but instead in “resentment”. So for example when we see our friends doing something such as dancing in the middle of a crowd our jealousy isn’t cause we are mad at them but instead we resent that we can’t do that.
Resentment isn’t a form of anger
It is a form of envy
So when you resent someone for doing something you have to look at yourself and say what am I envious about in this scenario
Loved this episode so happy it was my first one
Unsolicited Advice and Pretty Basic are two of my favorite podcasts for two different reasons, two different perspectives. The two of you coming together just makes my heart soooo happy
Wow I’m sobbing about the friendship talk. Didn’t know I needed to hear all that until now. Such an incredible episode 🤍
This is such a good episode! Lots of important insights about friendships! When you get older it only gets harder to maintain!
This was one of the best episodes ever. I’ve learned so much from itt. Keep them coming 💗💗
As someone like me having Down Syndrome this episode hits me in the heart personally. Like for instance I have been discouraging myself and comparing myself to other people because I don’t like what I have sometimes. There is this UA-camr I compare myself a lot to like her channel is Jacy and Kacy and I compare myself to Jacy just because she has my dream life. She is out at college and she has a car and she also has a boyfriend. Like I’m behind of everyone and I’m taking baby steps and I know that I will get there eventually. Like I took this driving evaluation and they said I wasn’t ready and that’s ok I’m still learning about myself and I will get there. I think jealousy is in that for sure but I try not to do that because that is a sin and I’m grateful for who I am. I don’t care what people say or think about me because whatever they say or think about me they are the ones that are getting in trouble and not me. I want to thank you Ashley and Taryn for this episode I really love it and your advice of being jealous and comparing yourself it’s much needed.
So many gems in this episode! It takes a lot of work to mold relationships to this point, so be proud of that! Thank you for this! 💜
It’s so weird to see Taryne and Ash on the same side but I low key love it
i love taryns braids so much
Okay so, love you all individually. I found this podcast through pretty basic which I love. I find myself connecting with this podcast so much, and changing expanding my thoughts. I love this, new follower!!
Wow loved this episode! I only recently got into listening to podcasts, and UA is definitely one of my favourites. I love your guys conversations, with the sometimes different views Ashley and Taryn have, it’s nice to be able to relate to at least 1 person in many of your convos 🤎
I watch both of y'all's podcast be able to entertaining some days. It makes me think which it is a good thing
This episode hit my soul and heart i don’t know how to describe it, I initially just threw it on while eating lunch and then it started to make me feel a certain way and I just sat hear with my coffee the whole hour and just took it all in and really took the time to absorb it, thank you for making me take a step back in my life right now.
Absolutely loved this podcast ep! 💖
This was so good and SO needed. Love you all
Taryn is such an amazing person! 😭 From texting Ash during the dancing night to being there for Alisha during her attack & all of the in between. She’s such a blessing! 🤍
Love the episode!
This was my first episode & it was amazing. 😭 Cannot wait to listen to more!
i appreciate how intellectual this podcast is and yall are!!! started watching from PB but now ima watch all of your videos....even just turned on post notifications :))))))
T is my favorite! But, love you all! Thank you for this episode! It will definitely help me with ALL my insecurities.
Remi and Alicia are the moment. I’m into it!
Watching this late but this episode was so good. I wrote down so much advice all you ladies have provided, definitely helped me see through some struggles I’m currently having at the moment ❤️
I absolutely loved this episode 💛
Aw rem is so cute she literally apologized for sneezing LOL
Yesss!!! I loooved the last episode… possibly my favourite podcast episode ever!!!!!!
I've honestly tried to watch this 3 times I don't think I can do it, hits too close, I don't have a bestie or even a really close girl friend 😔. I always think I'm OK, but looking back at friendships over the years where I think someone is a really good friend but turns out they were a friend by proximity, like we were near each other all the time, school, work, neighbors etc so hanging out was easy. As soon as that changes, I'm the one reaching out, making an effort, traveling to see them but don't get that effort back. Then thinking about it, I was always the one to have to initiate plans, if it was an hour drive for me to go somewhere to meet them it was never an issue but if it was them, plans would miraculously get canceled last minute. It his hard when you realize they were important to you but you were not as important to them (yes I always had heart to hearts so we're still friends but I'm not stressing myself trying to keep up the level of closeness we once had, call me or don't, I've come to terms now with that piece of the puzzle). I guess that's on me, I should've seen the signs sooner. Haven't had a best friend since elementary school, as I get further into my 30's I can't decide if it's getting easier to come to terms with that and I'm OK or if it's harder and I'm just getting more jaded, depends on the day I'm having I guess🤣. Now I know why people write their emails to UA. ❤💌❤
Love this🖤🖤
Came from pretty basic and I love everything about this
Im from the Philippines and I first saw Remi Ashten when I was having body issues. Soon, I checked out her podcast and met alisha marie. I soon discovered ashley Nicole and got hooked. Then I noticed alisha marie in her house! A few times. And saw Remi 😮 I was so shooked. I soon found out how big of a deal Alisha was but she has always been so humble so I never really knew!!!
I love this squad. 🥰❤🥰❤🥰❤🥰
I loved this episode I was laughing with yall the whole time 😂😂
2nd comment but I want to add my 2 cents on a diff topic lol. I feel like the name Unsolicited Advice can also be associate with hearing other people's stories and how they dealt with it. You two sharing advice and stories between eachother helps us get to know you guys better too! Love you guysss
the laughs are ridiculously contagious omg!!!
love yall beautiful girls so much
Came from PB and i agree I want just y’all to talk
Love this podcasts and episode ps stay safe everyone ❤️ love from Dundee Scotland 🏴 xx
My favorite 4
LMAO at them laughing about not prepping for their live show that their supporters PAID to see..
when rem wanted to hold hands and alisha missed it made me so sad awww
I also black out when talking in front of large crowds 😅 like I have NO clue what I said, or if it made sense. I always got docked points on public speaking bc I speak too fast and it was never as long as it needed to be. Like I'm sorry but I can't control what happens when I get up there
Hi this is funny
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Wait…what is this ring on Ashley’s special finger about?!?!?!? 👀
Wait how did it go from needing help with insecurities to maybe we’re drifting apart?!?
Insecurities over time, if you don’t address your own insecurities, you’ll see them as a competition / jealousy. Instead of being happy for your bestie that she’s thriving you’ll see them as a threat and therefore lead to drifting bc they are competition to you. I hope that makes sense haha 😅
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anyone who said taryns alishas mother is not right, she looks the same age!
I’m only 18 minutes in and am getting annoyed how they are talking over each other and it’s so hard to focus on who to listen to…
Also I think the mic needs to be tweaked.. it sounds kind of too loud and crackly when they get too high pitched.