Good women don't go cheating around and still come back to you. They stay and if they're fed up they quietly leave but they don't cheat, they respect themselves. Cheating is a very long and complicated process, mpaka ifike mwanamke anavulia mwanamume mwingine suruali aone uchi wake, kisha amuingie ndani? No, whatever you're arguments that can't be a good woman. It's only a prostitute or someone who has declared to be one who has the guts to do that, but NOT a good woman.
I judged the wife unfairly after watching the first episode but now I fully understand where she's coming from. The still care for each other, time apart may resolve their challenges
Before entering a new relationship, it is essential to prioritize healing from past experiences and addressing emotional baggage. Give yourself the space to process your feelings and recover emotionally. Jumping into a relationship too soon may hinder your ability to genuinely connect with someone new. Both you and your children need adequate time to process the loss. Grieving is a unique journey for each individual, and it's crucial not to rush this process. Reflect on whether you're seeking companionship for the right reasons. Ensure that the desire for a new partner stems from genuine feelings rather than a need to fill a void left by your spouse's passing.
The guy MUST move on or stay with his late wife's memories juu no woman can stand being compared with an Ex leave alone the dead, a ghost! If died of cancer and you're hear kumuongelea coz cancer is the devil, when my dad died of cancer, i thanked God for resting his soul juu the pain my dad had was deep!.. The guys children are also mannerless and no woman can stand such! To the lady, if it's NOT working, just walk away, no need to cheat, just go stay with that guy you're cheating with, period!
Wow! This lady has tried her best. She didn’t she see love in the guy but chose to love and protect his kids as she give him a shoulder to lean on. This man needs counseling. He has never healed.
I think when you meet one and he/she's willing to replace it's good for you to talk about it and also don't rush allow one to heal then you can move on.
Truth is that when one loose the spouse, it's not easy to forget about him/her,all in all the victim meaning that who he/she was left behind should take enough time before remarrying because if you rush to get married again soon then you will be commiting a big mistake.
Ladies when a man loses his wife it takes time to heal if you accept him and the kids you must know there is sacrifice to make. Give him time support him don’t push him to forget everything that happened to him if you try that method trust me he will move on and invest in you in
the best healing,, is to stay away from any sexual relationship, just dedicate yourself to work, health, mentally n support your kids or kid. don't rush immediately after breakup or mayb after your spouse has died
When introducing a new partner to your children, do so gradually. Allow them to build a relationship at their own pace, respecting their comfort levels and emotional readiness.
The man hasn't healed and he rushed to a marriage he wasn't ready for. I became a widower fifteen years now. I never remarried for fear of this kind of a situation.Youngest kid was 3yrs and today was his 18th birthday. I entirely depended on support from my siblings and my mother in bringing up four children. My last born did kcse last yr and headed to campus. Now my children are grown and are asking that i think of getting someone as soon i will face an empty nest syndrome. I am glad i made the right decision for the kids and sacrificed myself for them. That man hasn't moved on he needs to take time otherwise he will lose his own children.
This man should have put the pictures in kids room and albums for them to remember.girl they can’t call u mummy,the kids are grown up at least auntie,some time people expect too much
Consider family counseling to navigate the complexities of blending families after a loss. Professional guidance can provide coping strategies and facilitate open dialogue among family members.
Girl congratulations for doing that! Just walk away you are young to handle such nonsense. Let him heal and grow up bado hajakomaa. And hes not a man with voice if he cant even protect you from the children he wants you to bring up. Just go and have your family dont waste time na hii dude 😢
She can’t be like your late wife because she isn’t her.. nor is your late wife her… and there’s no woman out here who will ever b like your late wife sadly.. that’s something this man needs to know… otherwise.. he better stay single.. cause no woman will b okay with being compared even with a dead person
I was in a similar position and lemme tell you maina si rahisi🥺🥺🥺sometimes you get into something thinking that these men who are a little bit older are the prize but weuuu later you realize you were just a graduated house help who has the privilege of "sleeping with the boss" for as long as the kids are OK he's OK. I'm glad I bailed out❤️
The lady is right in her way. This man is with her physically but mentally and spiritually he is still with late wife. The kids disrespect her and he just watches on. This woman has endured a lot. This man should never marry again. Let him remain to be looked after by the spirit of his wife. This woman should have move on long ago.
This guy should finish mourning for his dead wife. Lady, move on. This guy has more than enough issues to deal with. This guy is not ready for remarriage
Kupoteza bibi mama Baba ama mtoi it's hard to accept I lost my mom april 2023 Na lemme say everything changed I even ask God why? My mom was everything to me she was my supporter My mom could not even allow me to travel abroad she could even bribe me reason I was the only kid. Now today am just alone family mambers now it's almost two years even a single call akuna juu sina kitu ya kuwapea but the time mom was there calls messages wueeeh
I understand your pain if its true the kids disrespect yu and it wasnt right for this man to remarry before fully healed,however thats not the way to deal with such issues cheating on such a person wasn't Godly at all at all
Big man stivo, huyu gathee ebu mutafute na other men wako hapa tukae chini na yeye tumwongeleshe, this man needs man to man talk ju ajamuachilia late wife which inaumiza young girl.
Walai i feel for this girl hakuna vile utakaa na mtu hajamove on yaani hadi pictures za late wife bado ziko kwa wall...babie girl run for ur life u r too young and beautiful to go through such
Enda tu baby gal they will judge you but the wont understand ungekuwa unatesa hao watoto ulipata hapo singeona uzuri wako those others things naona ni minor mngesolve na maisha isonge baby boy now its either u take care of ur kids ,u employ house gal to take care of them lakini bibi no 3 hapana unaweza ruka mkojo ukanyage mavi streets ni chafu.
This guy will never move on if he keeps comparing people with the dead and he is not accepting his shortcomings. This lady has really tried, Girl go n don't look back The guy will come to regret, cz him alone hajiamini he can raise kids alone
I understand the guy.it's not easy to move on just one day at a time.,however if the wife felt desrespected,she should just have talked to him or even leave instead of cheating.
Cheating is wrong and no reason is enough for cheating better walk away.However if the guy will not learn from his mistake,if he remarries he will recycle the pain.
Two years madam umejaribu, mm kama kuna kitu nachukia ni mtu kunicompare na wengine, like unanicompare na mtu alikuwa older kuniliko and the fact is that the person hatawai rudi, huyu atafute househelp amlele watoi , this is bullshit , mm ningekuwa nimetembea kitambo walai
This is why it's difficult to date someone with a kid, their child can disrespect you and your partner doesn't say anything or have a sit down with them, then let them be alone with their kid. Man or Woman. Talking from experience and I don't have a kid of my own.
No woman fits a space a good woman left...Mr man, God will not give you a good woman twice, learn to live with what you'll ever take home to fill an empt space in your home!!!
The man needs to remain single for long enough to reconcile the loss of his first wife. Otherwise, this girl should go be with the person she's cheating with. This is the only solution in this situation.
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The way the lady is cool listening to all the lectures coming from the husband is a clear picture that the lady is respectful, she is just tired
Respectful !!! Haven't you seen the first episode?
@@AhmedWanyama-l2mThis lady is too respectful even from the first episode she is nice
Young girl, run for your life. Let this man eat his spirits that makes him a live.
Infact kama huyu dem anasema ukweli about babies disrespect😢 I feel this lady for sure 😢😢😢😢
Hiyo ndio reason ya kucheat?
The man is going to dump her as well
@@Handloid ndoa nzuri ni ile uko peke yako
@philipjacknatunga4804 sio reason but nikama alikua amechoka na hiyo ndoa
@@Handloid hanging on marriage coz of money
The biggest mistake this guy did is to remarry when actually he had not healed from the death of his wife.
And then he went for Genz and he is GenX..atawezana??
😢true
True aki
this man needs serious counselling, he is the one with the problem
Very true
Very true aki
100%
This lady is one in a million!!!!
Girl, run and don't look back. He needs to heal on his own
I now understand why it's important to listen to both sides
Unless this man change, not many humans can stand this
A cheater is a cheater that's not enough reasons for her to cheat,
Ongea tu kama huwezi kufa ukaacha watoto wako... Selfish rat
@nicolaejunior2549 not really
This guy is mean mean mean. Lady run run🎉
This is a good woman. The man is still grieving.
Good women don't go cheating around and still come back to you. They stay and if they're fed up they quietly leave but they don't cheat, they respect themselves. Cheating is a very long and complicated process, mpaka ifike mwanamke anavulia mwanamume mwingine suruali aone uchi wake, kisha amuingie ndani? No, whatever you're arguments that can't be a good woman. It's only a prostitute or someone who has declared to be one who has the guts to do that, but NOT a good woman.
I judged the wife unfairly after watching the first episode but now I fully understand where she's coming from. The still care for each other, time apart may resolve their challenges
The lady is a good wife married to a man who is taking her just as a maid to his disrespectful children. Girl run never to turn back.
Before entering a new relationship, it is essential to prioritize healing from past experiences and addressing emotional baggage. Give yourself the space to process your feelings and recover emotionally. Jumping into a relationship too soon may hinder your ability to genuinely connect with someone new. Both you and your children need adequate time to process the loss. Grieving is a unique journey for each individual, and it's crucial not to rush this process. Reflect on whether you're seeking companionship for the right reasons. Ensure that the desire for a new partner stems from genuine feelings rather than a need to fill a void left by your spouse's passing.
Now i understand what pushed the lady to do such tabia mbaya
Indeed she was humiliated
The guy MUST move on or stay with his late wife's memories juu no woman can stand being compared with an Ex leave alone the dead, a ghost! If died of cancer and you're hear kumuongelea coz cancer is the devil, when my dad died of cancer, i thanked God for resting his soul juu the pain my dad had was deep!.. The guys children are also mannerless and no woman can stand such! To the lady, if it's NOT working, just walk away, no need to cheat, just go stay with that guy you're cheating with, period!
This guy is defending himself, madam run, kumbe n jinga hivi shenzi sana man,,
Huyu mzee still love the late wife huyu alimchukua kama wa kulea watoto.
The point is clear
Wow! This lady has tried her best. She didn’t she see love in the guy but chose to love and protect his kids as she give him a shoulder to lean on. This man needs counseling. He has never healed.
People grieve differently, the man needs more time....
Honestly leaving with a widower is a big problem its always a difficult situation
I think when you meet one and he/she's willing to replace it's good for you to talk about it and also don't rush allow one to heal then you can move on.
Let the Man remain single and let the photos of your wife and the spirit of your wife whom his heart is still attached to raise his kids.
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Huna huruma 😂
Well said and direct
Truth is that when one loose the spouse, it's not easy to forget about him/her,all in all the victim meaning that who he/she was left behind should take enough time before remarrying because if you rush to get married again soon then you will be commiting a big mistake.
Angelitafuta maid to take care of the kids na he heals ama aoe the late wife's ghost
😂😂😂😂😂i think Kenyans are funny your comment looks Okey but the end of it got me down 😅
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Mami umeamua ni violence
I think this man together with his children needs prayers and spiritual healing
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Ladies when a man loses his wife it takes time to heal if you accept him and the kids you must know there is sacrifice to make. Give him time support him don’t push him to forget everything that happened to him if you try that method trust me he will move on and invest in you in
He needs to take time and heal and stop comparing the living and the dead.. he probably should look for a widow
the best healing,, is to stay away from any sexual relationship, just dedicate yourself to work, health, mentally n support your kids or kid. don't rush immediately after breakup or mayb after your spouse has died
When introducing a new partner to your children, do so gradually. Allow them to build a relationship at their own pace, respecting their comfort levels and emotional readiness.
The man hasn't healed and he rushed to a marriage he wasn't ready for. I became a widower fifteen years now. I never remarried for fear of this kind of a situation.Youngest kid was 3yrs and today was his 18th birthday. I entirely depended on support from my siblings and my mother in bringing up four children. My last born did kcse last yr and headed to campus. Now my children are grown and are asking that i think of getting someone as soon i will face an empty nest syndrome. I am glad i made the right decision for the kids and sacrificed myself for them. That man hasn't moved on he needs to take time otherwise he will lose his own children.
Pole sana and thanks kwa kupenda watoto wako 👏👏👏👏 kuoa wakiwa wadogo wangeteseka aki wee💪💪🙏🙏
You can now marry me 😊😊
My fellow woman....run run.
@@cynthiasilvia2830 alikua msichana yet anaenda kuolewa na mtu amefiwa ama aliona gari
Sorry my sister..cheat and cheat again and again. You deserve to be happy. Hapa wachana kabisa
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This man should have put the pictures in kids room and albums for them to remember.girl they can’t call u mummy,the kids are grown up at least auntie,some time people expect too much
That lady is out, Mzee jipange wake up hii NI hatari kibia
Madam move on,toka hapo utapata mtu nzuri,rem you are beautiful huwezi kosa mtu
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Aaaaiìii this man is also wrong ukweli usemwe
Consider family counseling to navigate the complexities of blending families after a loss. Professional guidance can provide coping strategies and facilitate open dialogue among family members.
Girl congratulations for doing that! Just walk away you are young to handle such nonsense. Let him heal and grow up bado hajakomaa. And hes not a man with voice if he cant even protect you from the children he wants you to bring up. Just go and have your family dont waste time na hii dude 😢
She can’t be like your late wife because she isn’t her.. nor is your late wife her… and there’s no woman out here who will ever b like your late wife sadly.. that’s something this man needs to know… otherwise.. he better stay single.. cause no woman will b okay with being compared even with a dead person
I was in a similar position and lemme tell you maina si rahisi🥺🥺🥺sometimes you get into something thinking that these men who are a little bit older are the prize but weuuu later you realize you were just a graduated house help who has the privilege of "sleeping with the boss" for as long as the kids are OK he's OK. I'm glad I bailed out❤️
I understand you very well mama usijali God bless you
The guy needs to man up 😞
This guy hasn't healed. He made a mistake marrying without healing. I totally understand this young lady. Run for your life gal😢
And don't look behind
The lady is right in her way. This man is with her physically but mentally and spiritually he is still with late wife. The kids disrespect her and he just watches on. This woman has endured a lot. This man should never marry again. Let him remain to be looked after by the spirit of his wife. This woman should have move on long ago.
Huyu jamaa ni fala go girl you have a life to live Wacha na huyu burukenge
I understand this lady totally
This guy should finish mourning for his dead wife.
Lady, move on. This guy has more than enough issues to deal with. This guy is not ready for remarriage
This man is not looking at the issues on his side. That isn't right!
@@theinfinitymatrix. if she wanted to cheat she should have left the narriage
This man needed mother to his kids...NOT a wife
He needs to heal first..pole for this ugly situation.
Withtime they will be back and survive this
Kupoteza bibi mama Baba ama mtoi it's hard to accept
I lost my mom april 2023 Na lemme say everything changed I even ask God why?
My mom was everything to me she was my supporter
My mom could not even allow me to travel abroad she could even bribe me reason I was the only kid.
Now today am just alone family mambers now it's almost two years even a single call akuna juu sina kitu ya kuwapea but the time mom was there calls messages wueeeh
Woie sorry 😢😢😢😢
Hugs 🫂
@@damarisanekeya3354 🙏
@@joycemwangi1232 🙏
Sorry for your loss
Baby gal run 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ to ur life.hapa hakuna ndoa.ur there for them like maid.
Haiyaaaa....ati sikuli wewe Sio mamangu!
Weeeh!!! Aende kaburini Basi kwa mamake.
You can raise your kids lady jitoe this man is mean hurtless na amekulelea watoto karma is real
I wish him the best as a single dad😢
Odokea bro pekine huyu dame anatukana has watoto.wako saa ile hauko
I understand your pain if its true the kids disrespect yu and it wasnt right for this man to remarry before fully healed,however thats not the way to deal with such issues cheating on such a person wasn't Godly at all at all
Big man stivo, huyu gathee ebu mutafute na other men wako hapa tukae chini na yeye tumwongeleshe, this man needs man to man talk ju ajamuachilia late wife which inaumiza young girl.
mama run run hapo hakuna ndoa wewe ni nanny
My dear sister run for your life akuna doa hapa
The guy is the problem ..hakuna wife ataget na wake poa...you are the problem...man up and grow up....
huyu dem ashadevelop chuki kabisa towards the man just from the look of things.
She takes care of your children well, she has never disrespected you though she cheated..
Walai i feel for this girl hakuna vile utakaa na mtu hajamove on yaani hadi pictures za late wife bado ziko kwa wall...babie girl run for ur life u r too young and beautiful to go through such
Everybody in that house,kids included need therapy tukianza na huyo cate
Enda tu baby gal they will judge you but the wont understand ungekuwa unatesa hao watoto ulipata hapo singeona uzuri wako those others things naona ni minor mngesolve na maisha isonge baby boy now its either u take care of ur kids ,u employ house gal to take care of them lakini bibi no 3 hapana unaweza ruka mkojo ukanyage mavi streets ni chafu.
She got bored from the disrespect of these kids and the Dad is like ignoring everything, ata mm nayo zii. Mbele kuzuri
This guy will never move on if he keeps comparing people with the dead and he is not accepting his shortcomings.
This lady has really tried, Girl go n don't look back
The guy will come to regret, cz him alone hajiamini he can raise kids alone
Mwanaume ugeoa rika Yako Wachana na Hawa wasichana Tena heal first
This man is deeply traumatised for the loss of his first wife. He needs counselling, really.
She is just a bad fit guy is ok
I understand the guy.it's not easy to move on just one day at a time.,however if the wife felt desrespected,she should just have talked to him or even leave instead of cheating.
Cheating is wrong and no reason is enough for cheating better walk away.However if the guy will not learn from his mistake,if he remarries he will recycle the pain.
Ninamchukua tukakaa nayeye so that she can be a mother to my children
Guy mistake he didn't engage his kids about bringing a mother figure. He hasn't healed yet
She is a good woman
I don support cheating but bro ata wewe move on hakuna mwanaume utawai oa and you keep making them feel sec to your late wife na muishi na yeye
The man is the problem here.huyu dem amejaribu..the man needs professional assistance
Achana na huyo jamaa,aende akafufue bibi yake kwa kaburi.....he is notyet ready for this relationship
Two years madam umejaribu, mm kama kuna kitu nachukia ni mtu kunicompare na wengine, like unanicompare na mtu alikuwa older kuniliko and the fact is that the person hatawai rudi, huyu atafute househelp amlele watoi , this is bullshit , mm ningekuwa nimetembea kitambo walai
Huyu mwanaume mwachie watoto wake. Watoto wanafaa kufunzwa respect no matter who it is.otherwise muz3e hutalii siju za uaoni
Problem is from the Man nt this girl cz i see sense and respect from her.. very humble nvile was suffering from inside hakusema..
Sasa huyu na hizo mdomo antics. NKT
Na c aoe hiyo spirit ya the late wife ako na ujinga mm this is the reason why mama wa kambo hupiga watoto ma kuua
This man should be left alone afufue huyo bibi yake asipatie wengine stress...
But huyu jamaa ako n shida, though the lady waaaaaah 😢
Listen girl! You can't never will be their mother, You always be their step mother, period
This is why I am not remarried since my wife died 7 years ago because so many ladies are not trustful. Lemme take care of my children alone.
What u need to do,put camera n connect wth ur fon.whatever is going on in ur house,u wll b able to c everything
10 years down the line,just focusing on my future and the future of my kids,
This is a very selfish man. Eeish kwani provision is the main issue here alaaaar Yeye aishi na watoto wake waendage makaburi 😢😢
This man should know we only learn how to live with death because life has to move on despite what,
Hao Watoto ningekua NI Mimi ningewafunza adhabu,huu ujinga siesani mim.woa Huyo aliakufa
This is why it's difficult to date someone with a kid, their child can disrespect you and your partner doesn't say anything or have a sit down with them, then let them be alone with their kid. Man or Woman. Talking from experience and I don't have a kid of my own.
Huyu ni baba talisha mwingine kama naye kila saa ni kwa kaburi tu hata wakikosana kidogo,mtu kama huyu hanaga time ya mwenye ameoa
He is so unreasonable
Hiii apana huyu jamaa anafaa kuachwa......he can't heal
No woman fits a space a good woman left...Mr man, God will not give you a good woman twice, learn to live with what you'll ever take home to fill an empt space in your home!!!
The man needs to remain single for long enough to reconcile the loss of his first wife.
Otherwise, this girl should go be with the person she's cheating with. This is the only solution in this situation.
Siwaii date mwanaume bibi yake alikufa kaa bdo ni young nlidate mmoja nliona shidaa ..
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Even BMS Ameshindwa awaambie nini 😒😒
But you proved them right...these 2 should never reconcile..this woman might harm the kids or him..
20:09 she has given up! The guy needs to heal first
You can't have your late spouse's photos on the wall with a new partner in the same house!
@@theinfinitymatrix. the lady before aolewe angesema anataka nyumba yake hakusema from the start
Please remove the photos or lady move out
Exactly, that is disrespectful
exactly even him can not accept to stay in a house with full pic😢
Uyu jamaa hajaheal n pia its not gud to compare wife with other women kila saa my late wife gal move on achana na uyu anaku wastia time hapo
Weee aki hii kesi ni ngumu kabisa but uyu mzae akae tu single na watoto wake