Luke and Ryan were controlled by their dad now they're raising awareness of coercive control
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- Опубліковано 29 лис 2018
- Domestic abuse isn't just about violence.
Ryan and Luke's dad controlled almost every aspect of their lives.
He went on to kill their sister and mum.
Now Ryan and Luke want to make sure everyone knows they can get help and also understand what coercive control is.
Amazing indeed. Being a survivor myself, I wish I had understood coercive control better. Difficult when you are vulnerable.
Their mother would be extremely proud 💙
Takes two to tango.
I wish the US would seriously take this into account and enact laws to protect us
Thank you for sharing this.I escaped a marriage like this.No physical violence at all.Cold blooded coercive control applied gradually over time.
Amazing young men. God, what they went through was pure evil.
What fine young men. Your mother must have been a truly wonderful and beautiful mother.
God bless you and keep you both.
🕊️🙏💔👑
I hate the term many news outlets use: "abusive relationship".
Their relationship with their father wasn't abusive- their FATHER was abusive.
Yeah saying the relationship was abusive makes it sound like the children were responsible in some way
How articulate these men are, thank you so much for sharing your story 🙏🌺❤️
Thank you for this. It takes a village (a city and her leaders, a cult, a .org, etc. ).In my case, there is a community of covert coercive abusers acting together, as is often the case when legal abuse, stalking by proxy, surveillance, massive technological abuse (off the charts and traceable), car tracking, car and driving abuse (interference, harassment on the roads-trying to make me late to work, setting me up for road traps and molestation/cryptographics) and millions of dollars is being spent to isolate, financially devastate, parentally alienate, and keep me from the career I grew, the man of my dreams, etc. It's wild how far covert abuse can go when toxic community members, coworkers, roommates, and all flying monkeys are doing the narcissists' murderous biddings under the radar. They are as accountable as the narcissist in some cases, for pushing his ruinous, devastating, debilitating agenda, which often leads to murder, as you have well articulated.
When people do not speak out about abuse, they will also be held accountable by God.
So heartbreaking 😞
Youve helped me today. Thank you.
Me and my son are coercively controlled by sons mother since 10 years . I lost everything and can't see my family .it kills you from inside
What am I going to do when I outlive the elders in my family who seem to have the ability to recognize a controlling person that I am spending time with faster than I can?
It's difficult to tell the difference between parental responsibility & Overprotection & Coercive Controlling Behaviour
I work & earn my own cash.
I buy disco lights for my dj hobby out of my own cash. But my folks would scold berate & Interrogates me just for buying disco lights, & Accused me for being obsessed.
Anyone would think it was my folks cash i was using to buy my disco lights collection, its my cash. Is that Coercive control?
I was told not to draw black people in my disco pictures when I was a teenager in the 80's . & been told to tear it up & start over by my folks.
Also I wasn't allowed to use public transport , wasn't allowed to visit Croydon, & not the family rule was not to go to nightclubs either Is that Coercive Controlling Behaviour ?
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