Our family friends daughter married an Amritdhari Sikh, she is Amritdhari as well. Unfortunately it didn't work out and they got divorced within a year. Just shows even if you marry in the same faith it doesn't always work. More so, her parents and his are also Amritdhari GurSikh.
Dear that's what he mentioned, it's not about the outer appearance but completely based on one's way of thinking and deep understanding of gurmat. As we all know nowadays most people judge on the basis of outer appearance than inside beauty or nature.
@@tanudeepkaur2982 Whilst you may not marry a person based on the their outer appearance, you still have to feel comfortable with the way a person looks.
@@zoomzoom7444 💀yes brother shall I give you names who r amritdhari and there marriage is still going. 🤡It's not about the appearance it's about sikhi morals brother like don't you read granths 💀
Actually agreed but I have one question to this naanak naam sir as I don't know his name yet ..that a person who has Guru s mat even for sure high chancres he or she must be from sikh family ..coz as u said een within them very rare who truly vil be following this Guru mat in true sense ..this najk naam sir smartly answered he knows practically this vil not happen that sum other religion person will be in Guru mat possibly he wants us to make people follow this mat first then marry to them ...hahaha I like his smart idea
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
I am born a Non Sikh, but I rever the Sikh thought, ever since in childhood I read a book about Baba Banda Singh Bahadur. I read and read and cried and cried till I felt the Gurus teachings in me. I have always tried to live my life the way a disciple of WaheGuru would live in this age. I may never be an amritdhari but I am certainly a practicing Sikh in my heart. Gurbani is the best there is, following it will bring me Moksha I know. Sorry for longish writeup , but I felt I had to. Thank-you
What is the guarantee if both the boy and girl are Sikhs, that they follow the way of Waheguru. There are many Sikhs who are just Sikhs in name not practice. It is not just about religion but compatibility in thinking, truly believing in God whichever way it helps you to be a better person. Being born in a Sikh family doesn’t guarantee you to be favored by Waheguru over someone of another faith who is a good soul. It’s written in our scriptures God is without caste, lineage, religion. So who is the collective Sikh community to say otherwise. I’ve seen Sikh marriages ending terribly and I know quite a few. I’m Sikh married a Bengali Hindu and my husband has more “Sikhi” in him that all my family and relatives put together, because he’s a true human at heart and believes in following God but respecting others and not being a hypocrite. I’ve seen many Sikhs go to the Gurudwaras, just to socialize, feign they are Sikhs but talk shit while there, how is that Sikhi?
I completely agree, however if you don’t follow the Guru and decide to do an Anand karaj, not only are you disrespecting the Guru but you are also disrespecting your own faith and values by doing so. You are making a promise without meaning any of it. I don’t think its wrong to get married to a non Sikh as a Sikh (just do a court marriage), however as a Sikh one should prioritize if possible to marry a Sikh, mainly if you plan on remaining a life long practicing Sikh. Otherwise there will always be friction if your life long partner isn’t on the same life long path as you.
@@rebrand7802 are you specifically referring to me? There are lots of people who do Anand Karaj but don't follow the Guru and both are so called "Sikhs". Why should marrying a Sikh be a priority? As far as I'm concerned, not even for 5 minutes has there ever been an argument or disagreement in my household since I've been married and it's been 24 years. What do you mean following Guru...whether you follow Guru, Jesus Christ, or Lord Krishna, they all said the same thing at the very core. I think you have failed to understand the real message of the Guru as well....there is only One God, and one Light, there is no wrong or right way, as long as you understand the message. Guru Nanak was a Hindu himself pr he never practiced any religion himself. Again marrying a Sikh has no value if the person is not a good soul or doesn't follow Guru, that has got no guarantee and I've seen plenty of it. I wouldn't even consider any of my family or relatives Sikhs, they are all so fake. You're making the same mistake in your divisive mentality now thinking that to be a Sikh you have to only do what the Guru Granth Sahib says, at it's core every religion says the same thing, but people add in their own nonsense, and twist it to manipulate ignorant uneducated people. I hope you understand that. No marrying a Sikh should not be a priority if their values and ideology don't match yours, and that is going to cause the real friction, and I've seen it.
The Anand Karaj is not a "marriage" between two people in the traditional sense, but rather a binding spritual marriage between the couple and the Guru, where the couple is recognizing the Guru as their master, and vowing to make the Guru the center of their lives and follow it's teaching's. Those who aren't practicing Sikh's or are a part of another faith who take part in the Anand Karaj are not only doing a disservice to the Guru, but also their own faith.
@nkaur1986 all faiths do not have the same spritual message. If that was the case, the Guru would have not started Sikhi. When it comes to the Anand Karaj, it has a built on requirement of being a practicing Sikh, this is found in the Gurbani itself. We have historical records of the Guru only doing marriages for Sikh's with other Sikh's, as well as the Guru stating that Sikhs, especially Khalsa, should marry other Sikh's. This wasn't a historical issue, and these controversies are caused by the Gurdwara business model as well as people wanting to cosplay as Sikh's and have an Anand Karaj without actually committing to the lifestyle.
I grew up messianic Jewish, and currently identify that way although there was a period of time in which I was agnostic. Right now I feel connected to messianic Judaism based on the teachings of Jesus and his advocacy for love and other beautiful values. I take issue with parts of the bible which makes me question my faith. Ive been developing a relationship with a Sikh man, and everything he teaches me seems to be exactly what I've always believed in my heart. I don't have to pick and choose verses because there is so much knowledge and peace and love in the whole thing. I want to convert and he's told me that people do convert. I know how important marrying a fellow Sikh is, and Im worried he will think it's just for him. The way I see it is that God brought him to me for a reason, I feel like all of my doubts are being answered.
You do what you think is right and what makes you happy. I am agnostic myself, I would be happy marrying someone religious, even if they want to raise our kids (if we have any) their religion, I'd be happy with that too provided the kids want that. I find myself wanting to be with a sikh woman these last few years, it's such a peaceful religion and the people are so kind.
Don't worry, Sikhs are already in Yasu' di balle balle . Sikhi is eventually going to be marginalized in home state. Hinduism still maintains its adaptive immunity to viruses, whether internal or external history is evident
sikh and sanatani both are dharmic religions and wanna get mukti and attain paramatma or parabhrama methods or path might be different but goal is the same @@Fernandez.54
I don't agree with you. U mean to say that the community of sikhs have different thinking from other so tell me what happened if a sikh founds a non sikh girl who have same level of thinking? Thinking (brain) or heart is the one who don't depends on religion, castes, etc. I don't know why but your opinion about marriage ruthless. Love those who love you.😊🙏 Spread love, spread peace yehi bolte hona be on it.
The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru. An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy. Example: If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru. If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib. Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture. Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, ect. This is not opinion, this is a fact, This is not subjective, this is objective. A interfaith couple is however, allowed a court marriage and can get a blessing from the Guru. But they cannot take part in the Anand Karaj. It is only meant for Sikhs, since they follow Guru Ji
@@kavleen1 you dont understand what Lavaan you are accepting oaths to make SGGS centre of your spiritual life. A non Sikh cant accept these oaths. People need to stop using Anand Karaj as a formality.
@@rupertperiwinkle4477 true but u really think people who are born sikhs really care that much abt lavaans truth to be told majority of us don't really follow our hukam and religion because of haumai n maya. To say that just because one person is from diff faith doesn't make him/her any less than us sikhs because anyone is sikh who actually has deep faith in god n isnt bound by maya. The whole point of sikhism was to believe in univeral truth of oneness." Aval alah noor upaya kudrat ke sab bnde ek noor te sab jap upjeya kon bhale kon mande."
@@kavleen1imho, neither of them count. Sikhi is a mindset. Way of being. Mindset. Guru minded. Pumjabis are not automatically Sikhs. Takes effort. Same for someone whos not Sikh but wants to walk on Gurus path
The birth , death, marriage & the life itself is all fixed as per will or command of god ,supported by Gurbani as well as by determinism or cause and effect. Every process phenomenon particle system is contingent to the laws of nature .The intelligence that we name God or Waheguru is present everywhere in every form in every individual in every cell. It's he himself in a Sikh or non sikh ,or anyone believing in any religion or even an atheist ,hence there should be no objection in marriage of a Sikh and non sikh. Further all is god, & all is his will, so we should learn to accept his will. Whatever happens is all preset and predictable following the cause and effect. All is preordained or fixed ,and that is called God's Will. Nothing is beyond the scope of his will. This creation he created is a play, where every particle , photon, living or nonliving is playing its role , flowing with the flow or his will, all is preset , preordained. All is god & all is his will.
@HaVoC DoGe Love, marriage etc too are preordained, and part of God's will. There's no way anything could happen beyond the laws he created, or anything can violate the laws or cause and effect. Thus we all are flowing as per will through cause and effect.
A person can be of any religion and still believe in Sikhi and Gurumat. If you're compatible and have the same way of thinking and continue to keep it that way get married.
Sir u r wrong at marriage point....Coz if u r the follower of guru math and if your partner is not the follower of guru math coz she is belonging in non sikh family ...So I ask you to love someone unconditionally and dont think to much abt compatibility coz your guru math r so strong that nobody can escape if they practice with you
Mam..when we do anandkaraj ...a shabad is sang nf in tht shabad its clearly said that "he she has too follow sikhi then they will have to follow it by heart".... In my opinion...agr 1 sikh girl non sikh boy se marriage krna chahti thi.....its not wrong (as nanak ki jaat ek hai) ...but there is are some conditionss as i have researched... •the girl will not cut her hair •Child have to be sikh only •the girl will always and forever follow sikhi nd uske lia waheguru hi god hone chahiye Idk im right or not just my opinion🙂
@@caaashika mam these are RULES...about all hair nd kids ka....if they change its a force change by parents...... Agr religion change krna hi kre ....we dont force anyone....our work is just to tell them what are the rule written...rest is their choice they want to follow or not.... Nd its a debatable topic we cannot win
@@shivamkumar-tp8vw if i say about rules....if a boy nd girl r having marriage according to sikhi basics in gurudwara nd anandkaraj....both have to follow sikh religion(not forcefully but with concent)dill se follow sikhi.....its debatable thing ••If i tell u my opinions....its girl's wish she change her religion or not...no one can force her if she dont want to....but kids rules apply same here....the male guy will remain sikh only...he will follow sikhi...girl can worship any god as per wish.....but kids being born in sikh family.. has to follow sikh religion only...... Yr religion hindu ho or sikh....golden rules r same....same r rules in geeta nd same r in gurbani....
I agree with Satpal Singh Ji. Anand Karaj is a spiritual ceremony between 2 Sikhs. But like he stated, it comes down to how you define a Sikh. Being a Sikh has little to do with being born into a "Sikh" family or having the typical "outer" appearance of a Sikh, or calling yourself a Singh or a Kaur. A Sikh is a learner and applier of the ideologies within SGGSJ. An Anand Karaj between 2 individuals who appear to be Sikh on the outside but have no understanding of Gurbani and the teachings is an Anand Karaj without meaning or purpose. It's just another empty ritual, which is what the Gurus advocated against. Anand Karaj is a spiritual journey for both, and the journey can be a lot more smooth sailing if both partners have a similar way of thinking and viewing the world as it may cause less issues down the road, particularly in raising their children. The "religion" the other comes from is a superficial way of looking at this. You have to look deeper than what is on the surface. If they have learned, understood and accepted the teachings of Gurbani and strive to support you, your future children and themselves on this spiritual path, then I think that is the answer right there. These opinions are my own and are based on how I understand Guru's teachings. I ask for forgiveness for any mistakes.
Bhupinder Kaur wow this was beautiful. I’m a Sikh convert and married to an atheist. When I converted I had his full support and blessing. We are still very much in love and compatible. We are not having kids so it makes no difference to anyone else what our beliefs are. I’m very lucky to have both Waheguru Ji and the relationship with my best friend and soul mate in my life.
You video and views are highly respected. I however chose to disagree on this topic with the idea that one should only marry a person of the same religion. In today’s world if you look at the major problems and wars their due cause is religion at a greater extent. If you talk about Sikhism, it’s a beautiful religion that speaks about equality among all races, and that God lies in every living creature. We are all equal according to Sikhism. However our own community at large doesn’t understand this message which is the basic foundation of Sikhism . They use religion based on their convinience... I would strongly recommend people to understand what our Sri Guru Granth Sahib says in translations and live life based on those teachings instead of using religion based on convinience.
Anand kaaraj is submitting to the guru fully and denouncing any others and any other practices. Why would a non Sikh commit to that then carry on believing in other faiths.
@@GamingGuru1234 God lies in all faiths, Awwal Allah Noor Upaya Qudrat Keh Sub Banday Aik Noor Keh Sub Jag Upajiya Kaun Bhale Ko Mandhe. Sikhi is a treasure in itself, the only shame is we the people don't understand the true meaning held in translations.
@@pitagrocks Veer ji, From dust we came and to dust we shall become. my understanding from Shri Guru Granth sahib ji is : ਹਿੰਦੂ ਤੁਰਕ ਕੋਊ ਰਾਫਜੀ ਇਮਾਮ ਸਾਫੀ 'ਮਾਨਸ ਕੀ ਜਾਤਿ ਸਬੈ ਏਕੈ ਪਹਿਚਾਨਬੋ ॥ hindhoo thurak kooo raafajee eimaam saafee maanas kee jaath sabai eaekai pehichaanabo. Someone is Hindu and someone a Muslim, then someone is Shia, and someone a Sunni, Recognize the whole of human race as one ਦੇਹਰਾ ਮਸੀਤ ਸੋਈ ਪੂਜਾ ਔ ਨਿਵਾਜ ਓਈ ਮਾਨਸ ਸਬੈ ਏਕ ਪੈ ਅਨੇਕ ਕੋ ਭ੍ਰਮਾਉ ਹੈ ॥ dhaeharaa maseeth soee poojaa a nivaaj ouee maanas sabai eaek pai anaek ko bharamaao hai. The temple and the mosque are the same, there is no difference between a Hindu worship and Muslim prayer; all the human beings are the same, although they may appear to be different. IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE NEED TODAY IS LOVE AND ONLY LOVE, WE NEE DTO SPREAD THE LOVE. NOT BUILD WALLS
The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru. An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy. Example: If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru. If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib. Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture. Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, atheist. This is not opinion, this is a fact, This is not subjective, this is objective. A interfaith couple is however, allowed a court marriage and can get a blessing from the Guru. But they cannot take part in the Anand Karaj. It is only meant for Sikhs, since they follow Guru Ji
Marriages Between Hindus,Sikhs, Buddhists And Jains Are Common...... Ek Om Kat Jo Bole So Nihal,Sat Sri Akal Waheguru Ji Ki Khalsa,Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh Guru Nanak Ki Jay Hare Krishna🕉
Baptized Sikh thru the sat darshaan. Married my wife, a theist. We have different ideas on the path, but as SatGuru is everywhere, Truth is everywhere, we live unified.
@M L we haven't had children yet, but i would like to introduce them to our lives, yet apply no force to them, you know? Like, take em to Gurdwara and introduce them to Guru Granth and meditation, and whrn they're old enough to understand more, ask them to decide their path in life.
Bhai saheb,I totally don't agree with you, marriage only happily last long with faith, trust,love and believe, it's nothing to do with religions,even God exists in love,faith, believe,and in truth,God is in everyone and every where,he is nature,I have seen marriage broken down in gursikh families,one in my wife's family, Bhai saheb many years before I was in a grocery shop heard on Gursikh saying he couldn't find Gurdwara in Southall for his daughter,'s Anand karaj,the other person suggested him try Guru Ravidas Gurdwara saheb,and I was shocked with answer from Gursikh said na na appa Nahi karna chumara de Guruduware viah,o my God so that means Saheb Shri GURU GRANTH SAHEB JI,in Guru Ravidas Gurdwara is not Sikhs GURU, that's what few Gursikh are like sorry to say but racist,so bottom line is marriage only brings happiness in your life with believe,faith,trust and love towards eachother , Even God itself is ln love,humanity,nature, which we always ignore and try to find him in dharmik sathaans,I do apologize if my comment has hurt someone's believe or religion, God bless everyone on this earth
Gurdip Singh what you has mentioned in your comment is totally irrelevant to the video and yes Punjabis has segregated gurdawaras in Punjab by creating fuss of casteism that is stupidity of people of Punjab and elsewhere you will not find those issues moreover they are more keen to Deras now a day earlier they were loyal to guru sahib and their teachings now they are ruined by their own stupidity. For your information Here is your answer Sikhs rehatmaryada (code of conduct) allows Sikhs to marry Sikh only because of aur Anand Karaj which is blessed to us by guru Arjun Dev Ji which allows and prove our marriage in front of our living guru Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Moreover before marriage it's mandatory for sikh couple to get baptized (they have to take Amrit) and after that they can get married. So marrying a non sikh will be breach to code of conduct as per our religious beliefs. I have one more explanation for you ਸਿਖ ਸਿਖ ਕੋਈ ਦਈ ਸੁਤਾ , ਅਮੀ ਅਮੀ ਮਿਲ ਜਾਇਆ। ਦਈ ਭਾਦਨੀ ਕੋ ਸੁਤਾ , ਸਪੀ ਮੁਖ ਅਮੀ ਚੁਆਇਆ। (ਗੁਰੂ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ ਮਹਾਰਾਜ, ਰਹਿਤਨਾਮਾ ਭਾਈ ਦਯਾ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ।) Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj say - When Daughter of a Sikh marries a Sikh, it is like nectar meeting Nectar. When a Sikh gives his daughter to non-Sikh, it is like throwing drop of nectar in mouth of Snake (which is doomed to become Venom after some time) It is said Educate a daughter to educate a whole family. Same way when a daughter converts or leaves faith of her father, she is taking with her entire generations of Sikhs. Her kids would not be Sikhs, but will belong to faith of her husband. That's the reason Guru Sahib specifically mentioned in Rehatname that Daughter of a Sikh must marry a Sikh. Educate your children, keep them close to yourself, in good Sangat and always loaded with knowledge of Gurbani so that they make good choices their life. Sikhi is being Slave of your Guru. You have to meet certain conditions to be a Sikh. Those who support these bullshit things like inter-faith marriages and brag about freedom to chose a partner - Yes you are free to chose whatever you want to, but then you CEASE to be a SIKH! Sikhi doesnt come with YOUR TERMS , It is on GURU'S TERMS!! (''Non-Sikh couples'' are most welcome to Gurudwara's to seek blessings of our Guru, but there is no blessing there for someone who is giving BEDAAVA to Guru and taking generations of Sikhs with her).
Gurdip Singh Randhawa fanatics minds can not handle reason or free thought. Pretty soon they will come out with instructions on how to tie your shoelaces according to Gurmat, just wait.
@@Bluelu69 are you stupid what is free mind in this gurmat is the knowledge and path given by our guru sahibs and Guru Granth sahib ji to obey and lead a life as sikh how this is fanatic , do you even know what is this about or out of nowhere on the name of free thought you came up with this stupid reply
@@Bluelu69 Fanaticism is nurtured from our Country's top management itself. It's difficult to stop now and genuine efforts may be required and still it seems difficult to stop.
Hello i do have a simple question would anyone help i am a jatt and the girl whom i loved is a sardarni she used to have a karpan now....after she takes amrit but i would not be able to take amrit so rather because of this couldnt i be able to marry with her......😔😔😔😔please someone answer me do i have to lose my 12 years love or its not necessary that both bride and groom have to take amrit to take lavee
First brother love doesn't exist stop watching Bollywood second if you really want to marry someone then become like her whats wrong with being a khalsa you will have the gurus blessing and the great teachings of the guru you shall for ever never see lust anger ego within you
Thank you veerji for all of your thoughts. I have thoroughly enjoyed your channel since stumbling on it several months ago - I truly believe it has helped me along on my own journey towards the Guru. Admittedly when I initially heard this answer, it hurt my feelings :) I say this because my own family is quite mixed - there are Sikhs and Hindus on all sides, including my mother who came from a Hindu family and my father who came from a Sikh. Of course, this is quite common within the Punjabi diaspora and has been happening for generations. But after re-watching the video once or twice, I don't think I disagree with you; rather, I think the key to your message here is that the external "Sikh" does not matter here - the internal compatibility vis-a-vis a desire to understand and become one with God does. While I was raised learning the elements of both faiths, I gradually felt a greater connection to the Guru and Gurbani and by adulthood considered myself a Sikh. Though I am by no means a perfect adherent, I have tried to move myself along the path towards the Guru. Along those lines, for many years I had hoped to find a wife who was also a Sikh - in large part because I felt strongly that our having the same faith would help me along on my journey - but things did not happen that way for a variety of reasons. And I got older and older and the quest got harder and harder (much to the chagrin of my parents :)) Nearly two years ago, I met my now wife, who was raised as a Hindu. And though she had only a cursory knowledge of Sikhi and had gone to the gurdwara on occasion, she displayed more "oneness" than so many others I had met. In her, I saw so many of my own values - except she was much better than I. She displayed more humility, humanity, and far less ego than most women I had met (even those who were externally “Sikh”) - and I knew nearly immediately that she was who I had hoped for. When I asked her to marry me, I knew I wanted the Guru to be at the center of my life and so I asked her that we have an Anand Karaj. She happily agreed knowing how important it was for me. And since our Anand Karaj, though she continues to celebrate her faith (and learn more about mine), I feel closer and closer to the Guru as our lives carry on. Apologies for any offense, but felt compelled to share my own experience. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh.
Rishi Bagga she was never Hindu because a Hindu will itself never marry outside their religion and even if Hindu marry outside their religion they will never give up their culture so she was never Hindu and your mother was too never Hindu because there is no impact of Hinduism on you. So be happy that your wife is Sikh . don't call her Hindu now.
@@onlyvideos7564 this shows your fundametalist attitude...Being spiritual and being fundametalist is entirely different. Instead of seeing openness of thought and ready to accept anyyhing good in his mother and wife you are seeing it in your twisted way THAT SHE WAS NEVER A HINDU. Well, My wife is a sikh and she is more than Happy with me so as per your logic She is not a sikh? Man, The more you respect and truly tespect other faith , more you are loved and feel liberated. i am not a DieHard ritual following Hindu, I visit gurudwaras more than I visit temple...and that too doesnt make me less Hindu..If GOD is one then Faith is a way to feel close with God. My wife is Happy practising Sikhism and she will always be a Kaur and I am proud of it..and most Importantly I love her and feel God always around...
Chandan Singh he is a muslim who want to create rift between Hindus and sikhs.my mother is from hindu background and my sister is married in a hindu faimly
Chandan Singh I guess you didn't understand what this guy is teaching in the video. He is teaching that Sikh ceremony(anand karaj) cannot be performed between two person until they are not follow or accepts the teaching of their gurus. So if two people don't have a common thing or common concept of god then Sikh ceremony cannot be performed that why a Sikh and a non Sikh can't have a Sikh ceremony marriage. Same thing I told to this rishi bagga guy that if her mother is Hindu still he has no impact of Hinduism on his life then surely her mother was not Hindu. Same way he married to Hindu girl and believed that her wife will adjust with him having different religion and different thinking of god and the good think is that he convinced his wife about his religious thinking regarding god then surely his wife was not Hindu because she has no impact of Hindu believe and ideology.
@@harry-xo3tq well but this is apart of sikhi though. These are rules within the religion of sikhi. When the guru commands something a sikh is supposed to accept and not argue back saying "I disagree". Sikhi is about asking the guru "what should we do"?? Not about telling the guru what he should do. This is a rule in sikh religion to marry only a sikh. Then how can you just argue as a sikh with the guru???
@@harry-xo3tq how would your partner feel if you only bowed in front of the Quran while marriage and rest of your life didn't even follow what the Quran says????
"Accept all humans as your equals and let them be your only sect "... i would think if you believe this you can marry who ever you love. and that people can also believe this even if they belong to other tradition ore approche spirituality in different ways.. and sometimes way of god is not something we understand like bringing different people together in love.. of course i understand if life style is totally apart this can not work. but i dont understand if people are following similare paths that they cant be together..
@@karanlally1717 my friend its not just about marriage its mainly the anad karaj ceremony. The anand karaj is a marriage ceremony in sikh temples. This ceremony is only for sikhs thats it non sikhs can not be married through this ceremony. If you are going to marry a non sikh then do a court marriage instead there is no problem with that. But when it comes to Anand Karaj ceremony it is only for sikhs thats it. As simple as that.
@@karanlally1717 please learn some basic sikh terminology. Anand Karaj is name of a ceremony which is strictly for sikhs alone. Any other form of marriage like court marriage you can do with a non sikh.
Well this is absurd!! First of all compatibility has nothing to do with the religion. Secondly, most of the gurus were Hindus and the foundation of the Sikh dharam was mainly based on oneness and simplicity. It teaches us to respect and accept all religions: four doors of Sri Golden Temple Sahib😇. Sikhism embraces all casts and creeds and condemns the religion rigidness. Moreover, marriage is an institution of understanding, love and respect and has nothing to do with one’s religion. However, marrying in a different religion should not be a problem, it on the other hand gives both the partners a chance to explore and understand each other’s beliefs and reliance which eventually could lead us towards an understanding and united society. That’s why, rather than setting boundaries, all religions teaches us to be liberal and accept everyone with an open mind.
What do mean by the guru is hindu that bad word in sikhi hindu mean a person who has 0 understanding of God and only goes worship stones my sister think before you say
I have seen many sikhs who have married hindus and they don't unfortunately know sikhi and their kids call them selfs atheist when you try get 2 different culture to come together it won't work out because of the thinking and the belief
@@Truth_of_sikhi With due respect, Sikhism doesn't allow belittling other religions. By saying Hindus has zero knowledge of god is showing what a crude sense you have. Shame is what you bring.
Sorry if this is the case most sikhs cant be married in gurdwaras. Compatibility is just not on religious basis. We need to transcend this b.s. "Sabna jia ka ek data"
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
If you think all the differences of thoughts and life can be dealt with in a different common thinking of both the persons involved then there is no problem. Basically do not disturb each other over religion and also your child, relative, parents, etc. This is directly written in Quran, Guru Granth Sahib, Bible, etc. And these difference of thoughts over connection with God will only be a way to enjoy each other more like unity in diversity. Many may not know but Islam says no compulsion in religion and also says marry a person who follows Abrahamic texts and surprisingly I found so much similarity between Sikhism and Islam. So technically it's almost like an Abrahamic text. So Islam has no problem, neither Sikhism and I also think Hinduism also has no problem in the basic principles so why separate lovers based on external living styles. The basic lines written asks to be together. You said marry someone with whom you can be compatible but compatibility cannot be 100% and if more than 50% of compatibility is there between Sikhism and Islam or Sikhism and Hinduism or Islam and Hinduism then why not change the external cultural habits a bit and be with your love forever why find it in someone else again. I know love is just a word it's basically a support and physical need and also to keep the species alive but support can be from someone not from your religion also and the other two aspects any human being can give. What if one likes the support given by him/her the most whom you are asking to leave because of religion? Is it justified over the basic principles of Sikhism, Islam, Hinduism, Christianity, Jainism?
Sorry buddy, Hindu Sikh wedding is quite common and has been for centuries. Sadly, Sikh Muslim history is blighted by massive bloodshed so it casts a shadow even today. Apologies for the direct response
@@DM-ui1oy No apologies required I understand and know the history and that is why I am saying that we are more alike but not common and that everyone sees. But on critical analysis Sikhism and Islam are very similar and so marriages or any mixing of us will give positive results because of the similar basics I feel.
@@AdityaSingh-ku3cv The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru. An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy. Example: If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru. If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib. Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture. Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, ect.
Some people use low IQ logic thinking Guru ji would give his blessings of a believer marrying them with a person not believing in him? Lol crazy logic. Sikhi is not anarchic hippy cult where anything goes. If you want to marry a non-believer do it no one stopping you or forcing you to marry another sikh but you will not do it under an anand karaj sikh marriage ceremony and you will no longer be considered a person who obeys the Guru you will be a mannat outside the fold of sikhi unless your non-sikh partner converts and becomes a believer. A real sikh life partner helps you grow spiritually in your dharam if you have a non-believer as a partner chances are they will want you to follow their way of life thus diluting and disturbing your efforts in trying to better yourself in sikhi. Its not difficult to find a decent sikh partner a little effort and training the mind to follow guru's wisdom not your own will help you over come the dunya and materialistic maya obsessed non-sikh mindset and brainwashing people have received in life.
Magic Dragon stop being so scared brother. Sikhi is here to stay. It will grow and it will spread because it speaks of universal truth. It is the fanatics who want to keep it within their tiny little circle.
@@Bluelu69 absolutely sikhi will spread but not sikh..ajkal sikha to jada sehajdhari sikh or hindu gurdware ande ne..it means every one belive in sikh ideology but no one wanna acept sikhi saroop.
Means now religion is much more than love and respect heart relations.... If a hindu girl or boy loves a sikh girl or boy it's not accepted!? I think religions never teaches anyone that you should see there religion and love them do they!?? I really love and respect sikh culture, everything about Sikhism but after hearing such thoughts my heart broke.... I really love a sikh guy... Will they not accept me??? Just because I'm hindu??
Tht sounds so wrong. I mean thts like setting boundaries which was never drawn by our Gurus . U see other person as a human first not as hindu Muslim christian nd so on . I mean marriage is abut compatibility , understanding, respecting eachothrs opinions not stepping on each other’s foot . Our Gurus sacrificed themselves to protect othr religion if they were to set boundaries they would have saved and protected only their own kind . Our Gurus would alwys want us to see everyone equal , don’t judge anyone . If we follow tht sikh should marry sikh , we will sound like few othr groups in our country, who do the same ( u know wht i mean ) . Then how come sikhism will be different from them . Its oky to not have boundaries, its okay to have a mix and its up to u wht ethics u give ur babies. They get to know both the sides . They get to choose if they want , thts wht DIVERSITY is .
You cannot be a true sikh if you look at others with labels(caste, religion, colour, sinner).For a sikh their are no others he/she sees One in all. And Gurbani says "JIN PREM KIYO TIN HI PRABH PAYO", so if you truly love someone nothing matters whether it's religion or something else. And if a religion stop you loving another person because he /she is not from your background leave that religion. Love is the only religion.
Sorry to say ..Misleading msg sir with due respect.. probably the way u understanding Love u haven't got it ....it's nothing to leave or hold anything ...so what leaving religion it's wtong msg u r giving in society .. oneness can be practiced by anyone its internal nothing to do with outside n Leaving any religion etc Guru ji mahraj lneger suggested that too even
Doing and happening are totally two different things in spiritual word it's all about happening not doing n u r once again motivating people toward sDoijg n we don't hae to become Doers we rather have to drop it shrugg it off
indirectly he said no you cannot, but now the time has changed just look for understanding and Compatability in other person and how well you respect each other. My friend was a Hindu and his GF is Sikh , they both are married and living a happy life. baba ji k vaani ko dimag mai rakho baki apne dil ki suno. baba ji bura nahi manange.....
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
No they wasn’t because they all married with in their religion and not outside there religion He saying to the people who really say I am a Sikh then u need to show in the actions u take 🙏🏽
What if we joined the Sikh faith I wasn’t born a Sikh I’m not even Punjabi my wife is agnostic for the most part we used to be Christians but not anymore. She has very similar ideals as me thiugh I feel she is Sikh even if she doesn’t identify as one.
Brother i respect uur thoughts.....but our gurus gave us a special identity.....only those are to be called sikhs who have "" BAANI AND BAANA"" ie they do follow guru granth sahib teachings and must be in a sikh getup we dont cut our hairs nor beards as they are god gifted and we too have five kakkars.....uu must be following sikh ideas but cant we say a sikh......i am also from a non sikh background started following and practising sikhism ajd feel proud of it🙏
Conversion is never a solution. How can when you still think in the way you were thinking in past. As i know when there is one supreme being or guru , bhagwan. How can you change yourself. The thing you can change is your way of thinking. For the world , creature, animals , Human being. As in bhagvad geeta says that supreme divine is in all the creature. So get rid of greed, selfishness, and lust. You will changed.🙏🏼😊
I think most Punjabi/Sindhi Hindus are internally Sikhs. So it should be ok to marry Hindus. A lot my Hindu friends do nitnem and they mostly go to gurdwara.
@@garimamehta3425 a lot these gurdwara committees are banning interfaith marriages in gurdwara. But they must understand that just because someone doesn't have singh or kaur in their names that doesn't mean they're not Sikh. Sikh is more than just an appearance. So Hindus should be fine to marry Sikhs. We are same culture same belief. But if some Muslim or Christian wants to have an Anand karaj then they should not be allowed. Because if you're really a Muslim you can not accept the granth sahib as your guru. Same with Christians.
@Harman Singh in Sikh rehet maryada we are completely forbidden to marry Muslims. It doesn't mention anyone else. But Muslims in particular. Guru Sahib completely forbade us to marry Muslims. A person from another religion can still be acceptable but Muslims are a big "no-no". Maharaja Ranjit Singh had a Muslim wife. You might not know this but the khalsa panth punished Ranjit Singh for marrying a Muslim women.
We should be respectful of the Hindu faith as they are respectful of ours. We can not expect people to respect us without respecting them too and creating harmony. Many Hindus go to Gurdwaras and many Sikhs go to Mandhirs. Saying this every Sikh I know is very respectful of the Hindu faith and vice versa. Obviously you will get a very small minority of idiots but we must continue to ignore them. It's part of a respectful and peaceful brotherhood of man.
yes it's just that u can't say urself sikh just because u have singh or kaur as ur last name u have to become a Sikh no sikh is person is born sikh n if u want to marry a sikh guy u have to follow his religion with pure heart believe me once u r in sikhi everything is gonna change.
@@jeeztacanada1927 why not do court marriage if you both don't believe in Sikhism how can you move around a sikh scripture and marry each other , better stfu and not ruin the respect for guru maharaj
Guru is a pure Sanskrit word which proves Sikhs are Sanathana Hindu Dharma followers. 1. Guru Gobind Singh 10th Guru and the 10TH granth called the book of books which is of 1428 pages and its a 300 year old book. This book talks about Godess Chandi- the Godess of Victory. There are points of Ma Durga , Gyan Prabhosh Tales from Mahabharatha, Incarnations of Brahma Vishnu and Shiva.....u may research 2. GURU NANAK ji says Guru words is a sound wisdom of Vedas, the scriptures verymuch Emphasis of VEDAS. GURU NANAK says Guru is Vishnu Guru is Brahma Guru is Shiva and also GURU is Parvathi and Laxmi.... See most SIKHS and mainly khalistani SIKHS have forgetting their Sanathana Hindu Roots and that is why Many Sikhs are being converted to CHRISTIANITY and Islam. Muslims will wipe you out of Existence my Brother if you forget where you roots are . GURU is a Sanskrit word.
No disrespect to you but I disagree with everything you said. Sikhism believes in formless,pre existence God and same goes for most of the religions except Hinduism and etc. If a person shares a same profession, He will moreover look at the job in the same way as most of the employees will.They will share same ideology. Marriage isn't only the bond of appearance but also trust,love,faith and believe which could be gained among two people even if they belong to different religions. Our Guru Grant shaib teaches us about spiritual enery without any type of religious ceremonies, A person who is devoted to the name of God is a Sikh, A person who is ready to serve the guru and follow the truth is a Sikh. So can you say to marry a women you need to a Sikh?We believe in equality, diversity, freedom which could only be attained by independent thinking.I don't think anything you said was related to guru grant shaib. Now think about what if like 1000 Sikhs go to somen nation where there are no Sikh women,So will they have to die single?Weren't they be allowed to have kids? We believe in worshipping formless God on the name of Guru's. I believe this is the common belive of most of the religions. Why are we spreading wrong info ?Instead of telling them this,Ask them to read guru grant shaib they will get all there answers
@@vijayraj12222 Appreciate that my brother. Remember everything has it's own meaning for different people.Do not believe in what they say,Judge things according to your own experience. When you do that,God himself leads you
@@yuvrajbajwa6740 I always do things my way. I strongly believe that religion is the biggest enemy of mankind. So I don't believe in it. I always try to find the truth by my own introspection and experience. Nice to chat with a like minded person
@@vijayraj12222 No offense mate but I hardly believe religions can shape a individual personality. The problem is with the people who prefer religion for making money and there own benefits. I'm a Sikh,I start my day with positively cause I read guru grant shaib.I help people and I'm never cause by depression, anxiety and death.It all would have been impossible if I didn't follow a religion. I'm a very logical person but to learn somthinh you have to accept a teacher.The day you accept a teacher you will understand what life is.You will understand how debates are useless. Stay away from those who are trapped in Maya and call themselves religious
I'm sikh nd my girl frnd belong to Muslim family now her parents said her if u want merry a sikh first he will change his religion then u will merry now wt i do ???
Sorry I didn't understand that.. I am newly sikh ...my father is sikh now and mother still a hindu..When they married they both were hindus and after 3 to 4 years my father became a sikh..but cause my her mother and mother in law means my grandma both were hindu so she didn't coverted but follow both hindu and sikh festives and rules...but I choose to be a sikh and I asked my father he always tell me that says God is one..just he has many names..and ones I asked him that can a sikh marry a hindu cause I knew that hindus worship idols and fire and Guru Nanak denied that..we worship that One ..WAHEGURU..means God is one and His name is true..he creates and kills..so again i asked..can they marry he said..he said yes he can marry a muslim also..but need to follow some rules..just rules..and be kind...😊🙏maybe you're right but..
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
elina jewel let love guide you.., forget religion and follow spirituality. The only issue you have is that certain temples won’t allow mixed faith marriages in the temple. However if u just want to be with someone who you love, who is a good human being and you’re not too bothered about marrying in a Gudwara then it doesn’t matter. Just let love guide you always
Yvng_ Jeet You don’t understand my point. Listen to his justification for why only Sikhs can do Anand Karaj...give yourself to the guru,. That’s the reason he said it shouldn’t happen. My point is most Sikhs get married at Gudwara are just following a tradition....they ain’t giving themselves to the guru, they don’t even know what the words mean... I’m basing my arguments on his justification...
Yvng_ Jeet So how do you measure someone’s Sikhi? Who’s gna be the one who decides? What your saying is that only Amrithdhari Sikhs can marry in Gudwara? You know that’s not going to happen. When you see 2 people at Gudwara getting married it’s obvious the Gudwara have no issue with marrying people off who have Kaur and Singh in their names. Nobody can and nobody is monitoring the wedding to ensure that both people are giving themselves to the guru...
First question u should ask them why? Then sit and think about it When u marry in another Religion u will have to adopt there ways too Example: keep fast, go mandar or have ur child’s head shaved Has a Sikh does guru Ji allow his Sikhs to do this? No He says respect all but have faith in only urs ❤
The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru. An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy. Example: If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru. If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib. Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture. Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, ect.
Sikhi is a path shown to us by our Gurus so that we can meet our creator. Now either you can follow it because gurus told us so or you can mediate and try to find god and finally end on the same path of sikhi. Once you start following path of sikhi your outer physical appearance will automatically change.
Digvijay Singh Mongia I think you are right in terms of physical appearance I m non Sikh but since 1 year I m practising Sikhism I m feeling many changes in physical appearance is this because of this ? My mind has also become powerful
@@LuckySingh-te8ph If you meditate ln wahegur and love him and praise him, then you will start to not care too much outer appearance but inside your faith will become strong and you will also find inner peace.
@@LuckySingh-te8ph Waheguru is everywhere, all you need to have is read mool mantar with your all heart and with it's meaning for fee times then bow in the name of Waheguru. Watch these beautiful sabads below and always remember that Waheguru ji resides in your heart. "The Supreme Soul (Creator Himself) is present in the body in a subtle way and hence is not seen. Out of ignorance the self oriented man seeks Him elsewhere. If he follows the true guru he can understand the Creator within the body and be at peace" (SGGS 754). ua-cam.com/video/F7wDa8D1fNU/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/Zs5qq_OljyQ/v-deo.html
Ya i can understand but.... Anand Karaj is a vow for the man that he will never leave his wife even in the thougest time and samw goes for the women but it's Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji!!!!now tell me one thing how would you feel bowing before the Quran or the Bible????
Harjeet Singh - gal veer ji Sikhi baare hunde a. No caste nor religion is superior than another. This discussion is highlighting what an anand karaj is and why we should not forget our gurus words
@@rimmy1819 yar jedi tusi sikhi sikhi karde ho na ohne ta 10 saal bad dekhlena aj 2 crorr to 1 crore ho jana..reason tuhanu pata..menu il gal da javab do j sikha di kuri sikh nu hi mana kar de vyah vaste. Fer koi hindu kuri anand karaj karave ta ki oh vyah ni manaya jayega?? Duji gal eh hegi ki ajkal de sikh paisa mangde ne..me apni akha nal dekheya amrit dhari sikh kuri da vyah ek hindu nal karaya ohna ne..j ehi honda rega te fer ki karega sikh..future apne present to banada or aj da present 90% sikha ne apna khrab kita hoya h..oh twanu 20 saal de andar dikh jana ki kine ku amrit dhari da chad deo normal sikh bach honge. Gal nu thoda time leke samjho meri.
I totally agree with you Harjit Singh. This video doesn't make any sense because there are people in this world who has gurus mat but they are not. Marriage is just a piece of paper. Trust and love has nothing to do with any religion or caste. When two people want to be together they should regardless of what religion or caste they are from because at the end of the day we are all human and living on the planet that one god created. If there was in differenc then each religion would have their own planet 😂😂 Oh god people please get over this it's 2020 almost. We are all equal.
Iam white and my wife is indian sikh but i do not follow any faith but I will raise my children sikh and I accept Sikhism but people need to separate religion and culture. And arranging marriages for adults is pathetic you have eyes and ears if we are all equal then we should choose who we want to marry and maybe we can accept everyone
This man is obsessed with his religion. You know I'm ready to marry a Sikh person but the problem is that the think that the are the Sikhs and the are so good that others can't share their life with Sikh and they never accept you as a family. And that's sin. Because this whole world is a family.
@LesboiAnd you guys have so much commitment to seva, giving half of Punjab to them (weaker group) xd, and now on the edge of becoming a predominantly yasu state meanwhile jatta da munda propagate anti hindu/india from abroad full seva mod huh
I hope you don’t consider Hindus separate. Sikhs are Hindus. If you have any issue about marriage, all our seven gurus married hindi women . So, stop hate between Hindus and Sikhs We are one and will never be separated
These are the words of chaupai Sahib read it God created Shiva Yogi at proper time.time. God created Brahma as the King of Vedas.Vedas. Javan kal jogi Siv kio. Bed raj Brahma ju thio. Only a fool boasts that he knows the secrets of God.the secrets of God Whose secrets are not known even to the Vedas. The great fool thinks that God is a stone. But he does not know the difference between the two. He continues calling Shiva as the Eternal God. but he does not know the secrets of the the FomlessGod. I do not follow the religious ways, preached by various religions, believing in Ram, Mohammad, Puran or Quran. The only way I follow, is the way to worship Unique One God and no one else
@@Truth_of_sikhi You are a stupid person, Harmandir sahib had idols of lord Vishnu until 1906 If you are so smart, why don’t you remove all Hindu references from holy Granth sahib and dashm Granth? What do you think will remain? Nothing. You are nothing anymore a Khokhli quam , directionless Christian’s are converting Sikhs in masses because of stupids like you Branches (panth) which forgets their roots are burned out Khalsa path is on self destruction by hands of fools like you Again, remove all references of Hindus from our two holy books and see what’s left NOTHING WILL BE LEFT
@@rajmodi2886 read chaupai sahib God created Shiva Yogi at proper time.time. God created Brahma as the King of Vedas.Vedas. Javan kal jogi Siv kio. Bed raj Brahma ju thio. Only a fool boasts that he knows the secrets of God.the secrets of God Whose secrets are not known even to the Vedas. The great fool thinks that God is a stone. But he does not know the difference between the two. He continues calling Shiva as the Eternal God. but he does not know the secrets of the the FomlessGod. I do not follow the religious ways, preached by various religions, believing in Ram, Mohammad, Puran or Quran. The only way I follow, is the way to worship Unique One God and no one else
Means no place for atheist 😭😭😭😭. . means i cant marry sikh boy....my bf is sikh...in religious points we are north and south pole you make my heart full of pain sir today.....
LOL , you can marry him but not anand karaj , do court marriage , anand karaj is done keeping guru granth sahib as their centre of life if you don’t believe in guru how can you take laavan around guru sahib
@@gunneetsingh27 isn't there any marriage other than court marriage between interfatial relationship in which the whole family involves? And we do believe in guru just we don't follow the religion we have immense respect for guru nanak ji
@@paragjadhav4875 if you believe in guru sahib then you are a sikh and as per guru gobind Singh Ji's gurbani " Ram Rahim Puran Qoran anek kahay mut ek na maanyo " which means he doesn't believe in hindu and muslim gods and scriptures . So you cannot be sikh and be of any other religion at the same time. And when it comes to family involvement I have seen beautiful functions for court marriages also
I see a lot of commentating on Hinduism/sanatan dharma without even knowing anything about it. All they think is that hindus are polytheist, idol worshippers and believe in fictional god. I just want to clarify them that this is not true at all, there are different school of thoughts in Hinduism .
Hindus beleive in one god parbrahm All the gods and goddesses in hinduism r nothing but different powers of that ONE true God 🕉 Ekam sat viprah bahuda vadanti
@Aman-hm6cwPlease don't misinterpret Hinduism as most sikhs did for themselves and thier sikhi. Hinduism isn't confined to mere beliefs. Anyone who tries to set boundaries for Hinduism falls into the trap of Maya even those words can't escape maya
I don't think like this. If he/she follows guru mat and living his life according to it and on the other side if he/she follows another religion that maybe Hindu or Muslim and living life according to their rituals and beliefs but they are in love and they really respect each other's beliefs then there is no issue to marry. I believe there should not be any ambiguity left. So marriage works on the principles of love and respect.
The notions of a married life in Guru Nanak's path and for the rest of the world are different. The Sikh marriage works on the principles of love and respect FOR Guru Nanak's Sikhi. Therefore, both husband and wife need to have their lives centered around Sikh principles, wherein both live their lives together with the same beliefs, discipline and meditate together with the aim to become one with Vaheguru. There's no scope of what "I don't think like this" in Sikhi. Again, core Sikh principles are for Sikhs willing to lead their lives as per Guru Nanak's teachings. It is a tough, disciplined but spiritually illuminating path. Rest of the world is free to live as they wish.
@mohkamsingh Well, would you mind sharing the source where these beliefs of Guru Nanak dev ji are mentioned in the Gurbani…. I am a follower of sikhism, Yet I haven’t came across such rigid principles anywhere. As far as my knowledge he always gave priority to humanity, love and kindness. The only reason of creating a new religion i.e Sikhism was to provide people with a path of simplicity and oneness, rather than imposing boundaries and dividing people in the name of religion or caste. If you could share such writings with everyone, it will be quite enlightening for many of us😊 God is one and humanity is above all!!✌️
@@japinderkaur7467 bhenji I'm sorry if this offends you, but you are carrying too many (baseless) assumptions about Gurmat for me to answer in simple text comments. I request you to start a Sehaj Paath of Gurbani and read meanings (not english translations) from a respected Teeka alongside your Paath. With Guru Sahib's Kirpa, you'll definitely come to know about real Sikhi from Gurbani. As regards to "writings", Guru Sahib have countless times clearly instructed Sikhs in Gurbani to refrain from keeping Sangat with Manmukhs, such Sangat is referred to as "Kusangat" in Gurbani. Again, a Sehaj Paath would help you in understanding the amount of stress laid on being in the Sangat of Gurmukhs and staying away from the Sangat of Manmukhs. Kusangat of a Manmukh drives a Sikh away from Vaheguru. What greater Sangat (company) would a person have of someone other than ones spouse? If your spouse is a Manmukh, your whole lifetime becomes Kusangat in itself. Simply put - your life's chance of meeting Vaheguru will be destroyed unequivocally. Janam wasted.
@@mohkamsingh3676 it means other caste people are manmukh…well i can say ur type of people are the origin of racism and rest about mokhsh prati that u are no one to decide. the person who has humanity who is living life like mann neeva matt uchi will get mauksh …so don’t make people fool and make then like u… sarbat da bhala
@@atulmehta3073 veerji, I suggest you being non Sikh refrain from dictating anyone about Sikhi. More so, please refrain from speculation and putting words in my mouth. I didn't talk about caste, and I'm certainly not the one where who carries a caste with his name. You don't know me at all, neither do I know you. However having interacted with thousands of people on these matters over many years, I know the frustration you have, and I know the cause too. There's a big "I" in your thoughts, that was there in the original comment as well. It is not compatible with Sikhi. Please choose some other subject for coffe table chit-chat. Sikhi is for those who wish to live by it. Rest is all poison.
@P. Randhawa many sikhs girls marry with Hindus also. I m from khatri community. Khatris of sikh and Hindus marry with each other. Amitabh bachan's mother was also a sikh.
I'm hindu nd i love a girl by pure heart who's sikh ! I'm scared to told him about my feelings i feel that's not one sided cuse she's sikh that's why I'm worries her parents respect but not sacred by people of her community if her parents are agree then I would give my life for him...♥️ My heartly request to people's mostly whos sikh !! Plz give me advice to achieve her parents beleive 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Uske parents ki nazro me mujhse behtar ldka nhi tha !! That's why unhone hmare parents se bat ki thi ke Hmari sgai kr le ...but Here my parents says abhi nhi abhi toh time h abhi nhi 😣😣😩💔 Zinda las sa ehsas hua h.. Ab kis ummed se zindagi jiu smjh nhi aa raha 😞 Shi h bo !? "Jise manjile mil jae bo mohobbat hi kesi"😣💔 Dastan khatm hone wali h ! Or aap hmari akhiri mohobbat ho .. Forever yours Sim..💫😶 ~Shi..._singh💫😶
Kisi ko muft me mil gya bo sakhs..! jo hme hr kimat pr chahiye tha 😣 Yr..zehr pi lena agr zehn me ishq krne ka khyal bhi aaye toh ..! Pr kabhi kisi se ishq mt krna 🙏🏻🙏🏻mt krna 🙏🏻🥺 Bht dard hota yr🥺 banda seh nhi pata Jite ji mot ka ehsah jra deti h mohobbat
@@khushikumari_79 pta nhi yr😶 kyu esa kr liya me 8 sal se pyar krta aa raha tha usse in 8 salo me hm ne sath kyi rate bitai khi kyi din bitae pr kabhi ek sabd bat nhi ki...uski nazre sb bya krti thi pr uski sadgi se parants ki bat na tali ja ski !😣😣 abhi sgai kr li 2...3 salo bad sadi krenge bo Na jane esa mere sath krne me kya hrz tha kismat ko.. Kya meri mohabbat sachchi thi syd isliye !? Is sansar me ese sabd nhi h jo mera dukh bya kr ske zehn se sirf ek sbd nikal raha h !! Kyu Akhir kyu🥺
No religion should force on implosion, you will end up like Islam. It's about the pure soul that matters,bhagat Singh was atheist but he gave his life for our country,you should read his book 'why I am a atheist ' just wearing some religious outfit doesn't make u a idol human being.
yeah so did guru gobind singh the sikh empire maharaja ranjit and many other organizations which where in punjab that struggled for independence against the british
He is saying u both should have the same thoughts in regards of wahaguru ji To marry each other in front of guru ji If u are both not on the same path then u can have a registered marriage instead
What if I think she who is a Sikh/Hindu/Christian/Jain is also a creation of Allah just a bit on other track but it's fine it's her and God's, Guru's, Bhagwan's matter. Come on all our souls were made by same creator and we come from same place just the tracks are different. Can you defy this at point? Moreover as a muslim I cannot break someone's heart by saying I love Allah more than you because my Nabi Hazrat Muhammad(SAW) said the one who betrays someone's trust and lies is not from my Ummah. So if I do that I am already out of Islam, this is more important than marrying an Abrahamic girl. So it doesn't matter if a Sikh, Hindu or Jain girl also wants to be with me after knowing my values and thinking. I can neither betray without logic and facts nor lie and due to not being an Abrahamic will be illogical again at that point. But there are conditions if the girl or I already have a lover or are married then different conditions will apply. We both will need to tell the truth to our partners that we like each other over them now due to compatibility and more bonding and so in future it will be a problem to both society's development and our development. In that case break up or take divorce and do the further things. Because love doesn't exist ok it's rightly said by him compatibility and thoughts or likes, dislikes, intellectual levels and most important how the two person coming together will benefit each other and also society. Believe me that is why people break up or take divorce. It's natural and over these religion is not a matter at all. All the above mentioned topics of compatibility, likes, dislikes, intellectual levels, thoughts, even aims and ambitions also sometimes and how they if spend time together and remain as a couple will benefit society and themselves do not match because of religion. It's totally individualistic and how they were grown by nature.
@@crronaldo123 I believe in Allah(SWT) and until the day of judgement there will be a sect of people who will keep saying we do not believe in Allah(SWT) even if the whole community come together and try and fail to create a seed, hydrogen atom, a bird which can fly until 10000 kms without GPS, EM waves, battery, energy suppliers like in jets, super cameras called eyes, lenses in eyes from cells of muscle and flesh, cyclic systems for all these, etc. etc. etc. But my Allah(SWT) knows all the variables of the basics and fundamentals of the physical phenomena and how they come together or give rise to another and who can touch them and mix to give these for these outstanding scales of things working to which we can never reach but only guess and keep experimenting and may be find one after many years and develop a non living thing or system a bit more than previous but still remain defeated by Allah(SWT) in every fundamental thing and it's connections and combinations. And never be able to create life😊 La Ilaha Illallahu Mukhammadur Rasulullah(SAW)👍
I married white guy who is Christian I m sikh but he is very nice caring no bad heart he likes to pay people on time don't like to lie don't hurt anyone I yell at him I m mad at him he never yell at me back he never looks at other women work hard I feel I don't follow Sikhism from heart I lie sometimes but as a Christian he believe in God never hurt anyone's feelings so am I wrong here please answer its very important
Nice. I am a hindu and my wife is a sikh. We loved each other and got married. We have 2 children. We are living happily. We respect and love each other.
@@nightking8248 thank you so much for replying bless you guys stay happy I m from Canada but these kind of videos hurt me as sikh guru save Hindu religion also they respect Muslim religion too I don't think they say force someone to be sikh also if sikh is be marry only sikh then sikh should have motive to kill all religion according to this video which is very wrong as we stay together as husband wife but we deal with other people all 5 day 8 hours while working as husband and wife we spend only 5 hours out of which we eat cook and clean and 8 hour we sleep so I don't know why they r guiding wrong to people also why we go abroad where 10 percent sikh rest other religion exist
@@ManpreetKaur-xe9jh Nice ur welcome mam.where r u from in Canada??? u r right. Me and my wife Navdeep go to gurdwaras. She uses her surname kaur till now. I don't have any problem with this. We respect and love each other. Love has no religion and no boundary. Be happy .Life is very small for hating. So be happy. i wish u r happy with ur husband.
@@himanshumalik5100 understand as sikh life we are told to live in this world with people and not to be attached to anything its like a monk in the city but he spread some good words
@@himanshumalik5100 free destroy your name as that is one of the main things your attached to next destroy your self existence think as your no more then close your eyes and feel the onesiess taking control of everything
Hahhqhha.. may be u forgot what guru g said. Guru g said main rehat pyari sikh nahi..who said u sikh can marry non sikh..may be u also have relationship with non Sikh.. that's why u commenting.. people like u are disgrace for sikh community.. lakhs of Sikhs died because they don't change their religion..
Our family friends daughter married an Amritdhari Sikh, she is Amritdhari as well. Unfortunately it didn't work out and they got divorced within a year. Just shows even if you marry in the same faith it doesn't always work. More so, her parents and his are also Amritdhari GurSikh.
Dear that's what he mentioned, it's not about the outer appearance but completely based on one's way of thinking and deep understanding of gurmat. As we all know nowadays most people judge on the basis of outer appearance than inside beauty or nature.
@@tanudeepkaur2982 Whilst you may not marry a person based on the their outer appearance, you still have to feel comfortable with the way a person looks.
Its about sharing similar mindset.
That is a different issue but a Sikh should marry only a Sikh whether they originally Sikh or they convert to Sikhi
@@zoomzoom7444 💀yes brother shall I give you names who r amritdhari and there marriage is still going. 🤡It's not about the appearance it's about sikhi morals brother like don't you read granths 💀
My cousin is Hindu and his wife is Sikh. And that was very very normal. No secularism shit. Another my cousin is married to Jain.
But it’s difficult to find the another person with same thinking. How many are there true sikhs who carry Guru mat and don’t believe in caste system?
I am brother 😊😉
Actually agreed but I have one question to this naanak naam sir as I don't know his name yet ..that a person who has Guru s mat even for sure high chancres he or she must be from sikh family ..coz as u said een within them very rare who truly vil be following this Guru mat in true sense ..this najk naam sir smartly answered he knows practically this vil not happen that sum other religion person will be in Guru mat possibly he wants us to make people follow this mat first then marry to them ...hahaha I like his smart idea
Caste system is culture rather than religion.
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
I am born a Non Sikh, but I rever the Sikh thought, ever since in childhood I read a book about Baba Banda Singh Bahadur. I read and read and cried and cried till I felt the Gurus teachings in me. I have always tried to live my life the way a disciple of WaheGuru would live in this age. I may never be an amritdhari but I am certainly a practicing Sikh in my heart. Gurbani is the best there is, following it will bring me Moksha I know. Sorry for longish writeup , but I felt I had to. Thank-you
My father is Sikh and my mother is Hindu lol. They don’t interfere in each other’s religion
where are you from?
@@Aloksharma-oe1gm india
@@mra7092 get seperated
@@mra7092 nikal l.... Pehli fursat me nikal lindu
@@Noone-gz8li yep
Loved his language fluency n accent
Sir ji you are a true my inspiration you teach me that the Diffrance between guru and teacher🙏
What is the guarantee if both the boy and girl are Sikhs, that they follow the way of Waheguru. There are many Sikhs who are just Sikhs in name not practice. It is not just about religion but compatibility in thinking, truly believing in God whichever way it helps you to be a better person. Being born in a Sikh family doesn’t guarantee you to be favored by Waheguru over someone of another faith who is a good soul. It’s written in our scriptures God is without caste, lineage, religion. So who is the collective Sikh community to say otherwise. I’ve seen Sikh marriages ending terribly and I know quite a few. I’m Sikh married a Bengali Hindu and my husband has more “Sikhi” in him that all my family and relatives put together, because he’s a true human at heart and believes in following God but respecting others and not being a hypocrite. I’ve seen many Sikhs go to the Gurudwaras, just to socialize, feign they are Sikhs but talk shit while there, how is that Sikhi?
you need to find the tight one
I completely agree, however if you don’t follow the Guru and decide to do an Anand karaj, not only are you disrespecting the Guru but you are also disrespecting your own faith and values by doing so. You are making a promise without meaning any of it. I don’t think its wrong to get married to a non Sikh as a Sikh (just do a court marriage), however as a Sikh one should prioritize if possible to marry a Sikh, mainly if you plan on remaining a life long practicing Sikh. Otherwise there will always be friction if your life long partner isn’t on the same life long path as you.
@@rebrand7802 are you specifically referring to me? There are lots of people who do Anand Karaj but don't follow the Guru and both are so called "Sikhs". Why should marrying a Sikh be a priority? As far as I'm concerned, not even for 5 minutes has there ever been an argument or disagreement in my household since I've been married and it's been 24 years. What do you mean following Guru...whether you follow Guru, Jesus Christ, or Lord Krishna, they all said the same thing at the very core. I think you have failed to understand the real message of the Guru as well....there is only One God, and one Light, there is no wrong or right way, as long as you understand the message. Guru Nanak was a Hindu himself pr he never practiced any religion himself. Again marrying a Sikh has no value if the person is not a good soul or doesn't follow Guru, that has got no guarantee and I've seen plenty of it. I wouldn't even consider any of my family or relatives Sikhs, they are all so fake. You're making the same mistake in your divisive mentality now thinking that to be a Sikh you have to only do what the Guru Granth Sahib says, at it's core every religion says the same thing, but people add in their own nonsense, and twist it to manipulate ignorant uneducated people. I hope you understand that. No marrying a Sikh should not be a priority if their values and ideology don't match yours, and that is going to cause the real friction, and I've seen it.
The Anand Karaj is not a "marriage" between two people in the traditional sense, but rather a binding spritual marriage between the couple and the Guru, where the couple is recognizing the Guru as their master, and vowing to make the Guru the center of their lives and follow it's teaching's.
Those who aren't practicing Sikh's or are a part of another faith who take part in the Anand Karaj are not only doing a disservice to the Guru, but also their own faith.
The Turbanator much better answer. Akaaaal!!!!
The Turbanator beautiful answer
@M L lol indeed. Our youth are very stupid aren't they?? Always acting like they are so smart making up their own version of sikhi.
Well stated
@nkaur1986 all faiths do not have the same spritual message. If that was the case, the Guru would have not started Sikhi.
When it comes to the Anand Karaj, it has a built on requirement of being a practicing Sikh, this is found in the Gurbani itself.
We have historical records of the Guru only doing marriages for Sikh's with other Sikh's, as well as the Guru stating that Sikhs, especially Khalsa, should marry other Sikh's.
This wasn't a historical issue, and these controversies are caused by the Gurdwara business model as well as people wanting to cosplay as Sikh's and have an Anand Karaj without actually committing to the lifestyle.
YESSS 100% Mindset in alignment. Matching energies. Guru minded
I grew up messianic Jewish, and currently identify that way although there was a period of time in which I was agnostic. Right now I feel connected to messianic Judaism based on the teachings of Jesus and his advocacy for love and other beautiful values. I take issue with parts of the bible which makes me question my faith. Ive been developing a relationship with a Sikh man, and everything he teaches me seems to be exactly what I've always believed in my heart. I don't have to pick and choose verses because there is so much knowledge and peace and love in the whole thing. I want to convert and he's told me that people do convert. I know how important marrying a fellow Sikh is, and Im worried he will think it's just for him. The way I see it is that God brought him to me for a reason, I feel like all of my doubts are being answered.
You do what you think is right and what makes you happy. I am agnostic myself, I would be happy marrying someone religious, even if they want to raise our kids (if we have any) their religion, I'd be happy with that too provided the kids want that. I find myself wanting to be with a sikh woman these last few years, it's such a peaceful religion and the people are so kind.
Don't worry, Sikhs are already in Yasu' di balle balle . Sikhi is eventually going to be marginalized in home state.
Hinduism still maintains its adaptive immunity to viruses, whether internal or external
history is evident
Please marry a Jewish mam because inter religion marriage hollows both Partners religion. No match between partners of inter religion.
Hindu ❤️ shikhs we believe in both
Nope..sanatan dharma is different
sikh and sanatani both are dharmic religions and wanna get mukti and attain paramatma or parabhrama methods or path might be different but goal is the same
@@Fernandez.54
I don't agree with you. U mean to say that the community of sikhs have different thinking from other so tell me what happened if a sikh founds a non sikh girl who have same level of thinking? Thinking (brain) or heart is the one who don't depends on religion, castes, etc. I don't know why but your opinion about marriage ruthless. Love those who love you.😊🙏
Spread love, spread peace yehi bolte hona be on it.
The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru.
An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy.
Example:
If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru.
If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib.
Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture.
Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, ect.
This is not opinion, this is a fact,
This is not subjective, this is objective.
A interfaith couple is however, allowed a court marriage and can get a blessing from the Guru. But they cannot take part in the Anand Karaj. It is only meant for Sikhs, since they follow Guru Ji
The guru here is one universal god. I just dont understand if guru nanak dev ji himself said there is no hindu there is no muslim only one god.
@@kavleen1 you dont understand what Lavaan you are accepting oaths to make SGGS centre of your spiritual life. A non Sikh cant accept these oaths. People need to stop using Anand Karaj as a formality.
@@rupertperiwinkle4477 true but u really think people who are born sikhs really care that much abt lavaans truth to be told majority of us don't really follow our hukam and religion because of haumai n maya. To say that just because one person is from diff faith doesn't make him/her any less than us sikhs because anyone is sikh who actually has deep faith in god n isnt bound by maya. The whole point of sikhism was to believe in univeral truth of oneness." Aval alah noor upaya kudrat ke sab bnde ek noor te sab jap upjeya kon bhale kon mande."
@@kavleen1imho, neither of them count. Sikhi is a mindset. Way of being. Mindset. Guru minded. Pumjabis are not automatically Sikhs. Takes effort. Same for someone whos not Sikh but wants to walk on Gurus path
The birth , death, marriage & the life itself is all fixed as per will or command of god ,supported by Gurbani as well as by determinism or cause and effect. Every process phenomenon particle system is contingent to the laws of nature .The intelligence that we name God or Waheguru is present everywhere in every form in every individual in every cell. It's he himself in a Sikh or non sikh ,or anyone believing in any religion or even an atheist ,hence there should be no objection in marriage of a Sikh and non sikh.
Further all is god, & all is his will, so we should learn to accept his will. Whatever happens is all preset and predictable following the cause and effect. All is preordained or fixed ,and that is called God's Will.
Nothing is beyond the scope of his will. This creation he created is a play, where every particle , photon, living or nonliving is playing its role , flowing with the flow or his will, all is preset , preordained.
All is god & all is his will.
@HaVoC DoGe Love, marriage etc too are preordained, and part of God's will.
There's no way anything could happen beyond the laws he created, or anything can violate the laws or cause and effect.
Thus we all are flowing as per will through cause and effect.
Im Catholic and I find this very inspirational !!!! 🤝🙏
R u kashmiri
@@krishansadotra1674 no he is your father
@@krishansadotra1674 My grandfather was from Srinagar Jammu & Kashmir
@@samiullahmir whr r u live now?
@@krishansadotra1674 rip English
Hi can i married a young man age 35 and me a woman 44 years old and me divorce finish
A person can be of any religion and still believe in Sikhi and Gurumat. If you're compatible and have the same way of thinking and continue to keep it that way get married.
Sir u r wrong at marriage point....Coz if u r the follower of guru math and if your partner is not the follower of guru math coz she is belonging in non sikh family
...So I ask you to love someone unconditionally and dont think to much abt compatibility coz your guru math r so strong that nobody can escape if they practice with you
Mam..when we do anandkaraj ...a shabad is sang nf in tht shabad its clearly said that "he she has too follow sikhi then they will have to follow it by heart"....
In my opinion...agr 1 sikh girl non sikh boy se marriage krna chahti thi.....its not wrong (as nanak ki jaat ek hai) ...but there is are some conditionss as i have researched...
•the girl will not cut her hair
•Child have to be sikh only
•the girl will always and forever follow sikhi nd uske lia waheguru hi god hone chahiye
Idk im right or not just my opinion🙂
@@caaashika mam these are RULES...about all hair nd kids ka....if they change its a force change by parents......
Agr religion change krna hi kre ....we dont force anyone....our work is just to tell them what are the rule written...rest is their choice they want to follow or not....
Nd its a debatable topic we cannot win
@@sahibjotsingh4189 if in case non sikh girl wants to marrry a sikh boy .what are the condition
@@shivamkumar-tp8vw if i say about rules....if a boy nd girl r having marriage according to sikhi basics in gurudwara nd anandkaraj....both have to follow sikh religion(not forcefully but with concent)dill se follow sikhi.....its debatable thing
••If i tell u my opinions....its girl's wish she change her religion or not...no one can force her if she dont want to....but kids rules apply same here....the male guy will remain sikh only...he will follow sikhi...girl can worship any god as per wish.....but kids being born in sikh family.. has to follow sikh religion only......
Yr religion hindu ho or sikh....golden rules r same....same r rules in geeta nd same r in gurbani....
@@sahibjotsingh4189 i am saini obc uttarpradesh . can i married to a punjabi . koi intercaste issue toh create nahin hoga by the way i am girl
I agree with Satpal Singh Ji. Anand Karaj is a spiritual ceremony between 2 Sikhs. But like he stated, it comes down to how you define a Sikh. Being a Sikh has little to do with being born into a "Sikh" family or having the typical "outer" appearance of a Sikh, or calling yourself a Singh or a Kaur. A Sikh is a learner and applier of the ideologies within SGGSJ. An Anand Karaj between 2 individuals who appear to be Sikh on the outside but have no understanding of Gurbani and the teachings is an Anand Karaj without meaning or purpose. It's just another empty ritual, which is what the Gurus advocated against. Anand Karaj is a spiritual journey for both, and the journey can be a lot more smooth sailing if both partners have a similar way of thinking and viewing the world as it may cause less issues down the road, particularly in raising their children. The "religion" the other comes from is a superficial way of looking at this. You have to look deeper than what is on the surface. If they have learned, understood and accepted the teachings of Gurbani and strive to support you, your future children and themselves on this spiritual path, then I think that is the answer right there. These opinions are my own and are based on how I understand Guru's teachings. I ask for forgiveness for any mistakes.
Bhupinder Kaur wow this was beautiful. I’m a Sikh convert and married to an atheist. When I converted I had his full support and blessing. We are still very much in love and compatible. We are not having kids so it makes no difference to anyone else what our beliefs are. I’m very lucky to have both Waheguru Ji and the relationship with my best friend and soul mate in my life.
Totally agree with u sir 🙌
Thank you Sir..❤️❤️❤️
You video and views are highly respected. I however chose to disagree on this topic with the idea that one should only marry a person of the same religion. In today’s world if you look at the major problems and wars their due cause is religion at a greater extent. If you talk about Sikhism, it’s a beautiful religion that speaks about equality among all races, and that God lies in every living creature. We are all equal according to Sikhism. However our own community at large doesn’t understand this message which is the basic foundation of Sikhism . They use religion based on their convinience... I would strongly recommend people to understand what our Sri Guru Granth Sahib says in translations and live life based on those teachings instead of using religion based on convinience.
Anand kaaraj is submitting to the guru fully and denouncing any others and any other practices. Why would a non Sikh commit to that then carry on believing in other faiths.
@@GamingGuru1234 God lies in all faiths, Awwal Allah Noor Upaya Qudrat Keh Sub Banday
Aik Noor Keh Sub Jag Upajiya Kaun Bhale Ko Mandhe. Sikhi is a treasure in itself, the only shame is we the people don't understand the true meaning held in translations.
@@pitagrocks Veer ji, From dust we came and to dust we shall become. my understanding from Shri Guru Granth sahib ji is :
ਹਿੰਦੂ ਤੁਰਕ ਕੋਊ ਰਾਫਜੀ ਇਮਾਮ ਸਾਫੀ 'ਮਾਨਸ ਕੀ ਜਾਤਿ ਸਬੈ ਏਕੈ ਪਹਿਚਾਨਬੋ ॥
hindhoo thurak kooo raafajee eimaam saafee maanas kee jaath sabai eaekai pehichaanabo.
Someone is Hindu and someone a Muslim, then someone is Shia, and someone a Sunni, Recognize the whole of human race as one
ਦੇਹਰਾ ਮਸੀਤ ਸੋਈ ਪੂਜਾ ਔ ਨਿਵਾਜ ਓਈ ਮਾਨਸ ਸਬੈ ਏਕ ਪੈ ਅਨੇਕ ਕੋ ਭ੍ਰਮਾਉ ਹੈ ॥
dhaeharaa maseeth soee poojaa a nivaaj ouee maanas sabai eaek pai anaek ko bharamaao hai.
The temple and the mosque are the same, there is no difference between a Hindu worship and Muslim prayer;
all the human beings are the same, although they may appear to be different.
IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE NEED TODAY IS LOVE AND ONLY LOVE, WE NEE DTO SPREAD THE LOVE. NOT BUILD WALLS
The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru.
An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy.
Example:
If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru.
If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib.
Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture.
Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, atheist.
This is not opinion, this is a fact,
This is not subjective, this is objective.
A interfaith couple is however, allowed a court marriage and can get a blessing from the Guru. But they cannot take part in the Anand Karaj. It is only meant for Sikhs, since they follow Guru Ji
Marriages Between Hindus,Sikhs,
Buddhists And Jains Are Common......
Ek Om Kat
Jo Bole So Nihal,Sat Sri Akal
Waheguru Ji Ki Khalsa,Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh
Guru Nanak Ki Jay
Hare Krishna🕉
If u don't know pls don't say we don't say "guru nanak ki jay" first thing is pls add 'ji' means guru nanak dev ji !!!!! Edit!!!
It is not common stop spreading fake things here
No they arent
Sikh can only marry Sikh
@@quasar6559 🤣🤣ya sikh and chulam marriage are common
Inter marriages between Sikhs and Hindus is very very common in Punjab predominantly these two communities inter marry in Punjab Haryana and Himachal
Baptized Sikh thru the sat darshaan. Married my wife, a theist. We have different ideas on the path, but as SatGuru is everywhere, Truth is everywhere, we live unified.
E N L I G H T E N M E N T SinghforTruth wonderful comment. Two people who come from different religions can still love God and see God in everything.
@M L we haven't had children yet, but i would like to introduce them to our lives, yet apply no force to them, you know?
Like, take em to Gurdwara and introduce them to Guru Granth and meditation, and whrn they're old enough to understand more, ask them to decide their path in life.
I was told and taught that Sikhs don't believe in Moorti Pooja.
@@GurcharanDhillon yup
@@GurcharanDhillon what is that?
Bhai saheb,I totally don't agree with you, marriage only happily last long with faith, trust,love and believe, it's nothing to do with religions,even God exists in love,faith, believe,and in truth,God is in everyone and every where,he is nature,I have seen marriage broken down in gursikh families,one in my wife's family, Bhai saheb many years before I was in a grocery shop heard on Gursikh saying he couldn't find Gurdwara in Southall for his daughter,'s Anand karaj,the other person suggested him try Guru Ravidas Gurdwara saheb,and I was shocked with answer from Gursikh said na na appa Nahi karna chumara de Guruduware viah,o my God so that means Saheb Shri GURU GRANTH SAHEB JI,in Guru Ravidas Gurdwara is not Sikhs GURU, that's what few Gursikh are like sorry to say but racist,so bottom line is marriage only brings happiness in your life with believe,faith,trust and love towards eachother , Even God itself is ln love,humanity,nature, which we always ignore and try to find him in dharmik sathaans,I do apologize if my comment has hurt someone's believe or religion, God bless everyone on this earth
Gurdip Singh what you has mentioned in your comment is totally irrelevant to the video and yes Punjabis has segregated gurdawaras in Punjab by creating fuss of casteism that is stupidity of people of Punjab and elsewhere you will not find those issues moreover they are more keen to Deras now a day earlier they were loyal to guru sahib and their teachings now they are ruined by their own stupidity.
For your information
Here is your answer
Sikhs rehatmaryada (code of conduct) allows Sikhs to marry Sikh only because of aur Anand Karaj which is blessed to us by guru Arjun Dev Ji which allows and prove our marriage in front of our living guru Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.
Moreover before marriage it's mandatory for sikh couple to get baptized (they have to take Amrit) and after that they can get married.
So marrying a non sikh will be breach to code of conduct as per our religious beliefs.
I have one more explanation for you
ਸਿਖ ਸਿਖ ਕੋਈ ਦਈ ਸੁਤਾ , ਅਮੀ ਅਮੀ ਮਿਲ ਜਾਇਆ।
ਦਈ ਭਾਦਨੀ ਕੋ ਸੁਤਾ , ਸਪੀ ਮੁਖ ਅਮੀ ਚੁਆਇਆ।
(ਗੁਰੂ ਗੋਬਿੰਦ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ ਮਹਾਰਾਜ, ਰਹਿਤਨਾਮਾ ਭਾਈ ਦਯਾ ਸਿੰਘ ਜੀ।)
Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj say -
When Daughter of a Sikh marries a Sikh, it is like nectar meeting Nectar.
When a Sikh gives his daughter to non-Sikh, it is like throwing drop of nectar in mouth of Snake (which is doomed to become Venom after some time)
It is said Educate a daughter to educate a whole family.
Same way when a daughter converts or leaves faith of her father, she is taking with her entire generations of Sikhs. Her kids would not be Sikhs, but will belong to faith of her husband.
That's the reason Guru Sahib specifically mentioned in Rehatname that Daughter of a Sikh must marry a Sikh.
Educate your children, keep them close to yourself, in good Sangat and always loaded with knowledge of Gurbani so that they make good choices their life.
Sikhi is being Slave of your Guru. You have to meet certain conditions to be a Sikh.
Those who support these bullshit things like inter-faith marriages and brag about freedom to chose a partner - Yes you are free to chose whatever you want to, but then you CEASE to be a SIKH!
Sikhi doesnt come with YOUR TERMS , It is on GURU'S TERMS!!
(''Non-Sikh couples'' are most welcome to Gurudwara's to seek blessings of our Guru, but there is no blessing there for someone who is giving BEDAAVA to Guru and taking generations of Sikhs with her).
gursewak singh Sodhi I agree.
Gurdip Singh Randhawa fanatics minds can not handle reason or free thought. Pretty soon they will come out with instructions on how to tie your shoelaces according to Gurmat, just wait.
@@Bluelu69 are you stupid what is free mind in this gurmat is the knowledge and path given by our guru sahibs and Guru Granth sahib ji to obey and lead a life as sikh how this is fanatic , do you even know what is this about or out of nowhere on the name of free thought you came up with this stupid reply
@@Bluelu69 Fanaticism is nurtured from our Country's top management itself. It's difficult to stop now and genuine efforts may be required and still it seems difficult to stop.
Good sense, and inspirational. You make me want to learn from the Guru right now!
Hello i do have a simple question would anyone help i am a jatt and the girl whom i loved is a sardarni she used to have a karpan now....after she takes amrit but i would not be able to take amrit so rather because of this couldnt i be able to marry with her......😔😔😔😔please someone answer me do i have to lose my 12 years love or its not necessary that both bride and groom have to take amrit to take lavee
First brother love doesn't exist stop watching Bollywood second if you really want to marry someone then become like her whats wrong with being a khalsa you will have the gurus blessing and the great teachings of the guru you shall for ever never see lust anger ego within you
A very good example ....THE ARIJIT SING....no intro needed about him but i want to tell that his mother is bengali and father is a sikh..
Thank you veerji for all of your thoughts. I have thoroughly enjoyed your channel since stumbling on it several months ago - I truly believe it has helped me along on my own journey towards the Guru.
Admittedly when I initially heard this answer, it hurt my feelings :) I say this because my own family is quite mixed - there are Sikhs and Hindus on all sides, including my mother who came from a Hindu family and my father who came from a Sikh. Of course, this is quite common within the Punjabi diaspora and has been happening for generations. But after re-watching the video once or twice, I don't think I disagree with you; rather, I think the key to your message here is that the external "Sikh" does not matter here - the internal compatibility vis-a-vis a desire to understand and become one with God does.
While I was raised learning the elements of both faiths, I gradually felt a greater connection to the Guru and Gurbani and by adulthood considered myself a Sikh. Though I am by no means a perfect adherent, I have tried to move myself along the path towards the Guru. Along those lines, for many years I had hoped to find a wife who was also a Sikh - in large part because I felt strongly that our having the same faith would help me along on my journey - but things did not happen that way for a variety of reasons. And I got older and older and the quest got harder and harder (much to the chagrin of my parents :)) Nearly two years ago, I met my now wife, who was raised as a Hindu. And though she had only a cursory knowledge of Sikhi and had gone to the gurdwara on occasion, she displayed more "oneness" than so many others I had met. In her, I saw so many of my own values - except she was much better than I. She displayed more humility, humanity, and far less ego than most women I had met (even those who were externally “Sikh”) - and I knew nearly immediately that she was who I had hoped for. When I asked her to marry me, I knew I wanted the Guru to be at the center of my life and so I asked her that we have an Anand Karaj. She happily agreed knowing how important it was for me. And since our Anand Karaj, though she continues to celebrate her faith (and learn more about mine), I feel closer and closer to the Guru as our lives carry on.
Apologies for any offense, but felt compelled to share my own experience. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh.
Rishi Bagga she was never Hindu because a Hindu will itself never marry outside their religion and even if Hindu marry outside their religion they will never give up their culture so she was never Hindu and your mother was too never Hindu because there is no impact of Hinduism on you. So be happy that your wife is Sikh . don't call her Hindu now.
@@onlyvideos7564 this shows your fundametalist attitude...Being spiritual and being fundametalist is entirely different. Instead of seeing openness of thought and ready to accept anyyhing good in his mother and wife you are seeing it in your twisted way THAT SHE WAS NEVER A HINDU. Well, My wife is a sikh and she is more than Happy with me so as per your logic She is not a sikh? Man, The more you respect and truly tespect other faith , more you are loved and feel liberated. i am not a DieHard ritual following Hindu, I visit gurudwaras more than I visit temple...and that too doesnt make me less Hindu..If GOD is one then Faith is a way to feel close with God. My wife is Happy practising Sikhism and she will always be a Kaur and I am proud of it..and most Importantly I love her and feel God always around...
only videos you are a fake id muslim
Chandan Singh he is a muslim who want to create rift between Hindus and sikhs.my mother is from hindu background and my sister is married in a hindu faimly
Chandan Singh I guess you didn't understand what this guy is teaching in the video. He is teaching that Sikh ceremony(anand karaj) cannot be performed between two person until they are not follow or accepts the teaching of their gurus. So if two people don't have a common thing or common concept of god then Sikh ceremony cannot be performed that why a Sikh and a non Sikh can't have a Sikh ceremony marriage. Same thing I told to this rishi bagga guy that if her mother is Hindu still he has no impact of Hinduism on his life then surely her mother was not Hindu. Same way he married to Hindu girl and believed that her wife will adjust with him having different religion and different thinking of god and the good think is that he convinced his wife about his religious thinking regarding god then surely his wife was not Hindu because she has no impact of Hindu believe and ideology.
sikhs are beautiful people
Very true
Please answer me its important for me to know
Just made a video about anand karaj a few weeks ago! Thanks for tackling this question and answering it honestly from the gurmat perspective!
also go on basics of sikhi channel and watch video called "where are we getting our sikhi from" by bah jugraj singh ji please.
Thinking shud b match between couple whether there is diffrent religion..totaly disagree with this video. Baki apni soch
@@harry-xo3tq well but this is apart of sikhi though. These are rules within the religion of sikhi. When the guru commands something a sikh is supposed to accept and not argue back saying "I disagree". Sikhi is about asking the guru "what should we do"?? Not about telling the guru what he should do. This is a rule in sikh religion to marry only a sikh. Then how can you just argue as a sikh with the guru???
@@harry-xo3tq how would your partner feel if you only bowed in front of the Quran while marriage and rest of your life didn't even follow what the Quran says????
@@jojames6621 sorry veere😂😂😂😂
"Accept all humans as your equals and let them be your only sect "... i would think if you believe this you can marry who ever you love. and that people can also believe this even if they belong to other tradition ore approche spirituality in different ways.. and sometimes way of god is not something we understand like bringing different people together in love.. of course i understand if life style is totally apart this can not work. but i dont understand if people are following similare paths that they cant be together..
I totally agree with you
@@karanlally1717 my friend its not just about marriage its mainly the anad karaj ceremony. The anand karaj is a marriage ceremony in sikh temples. This ceremony is only for sikhs thats it non sikhs can not be married through this ceremony. If you are going to marry a non sikh then do a court marriage instead there is no problem with that. But when it comes to Anand Karaj ceremony it is only for sikhs thats it. As simple as that.
@@karanlally1717 please learn some basic sikh terminology. Anand Karaj is name of a ceremony which is strictly for sikhs alone. Any other form of marriage like court marriage you can do with a non sikh.
@@jojames6621 true. But 99% of Punjabis use Anand Karaj as a formality and dont even follow Sikhi, let alone understand what SGGS is saying
@@rupertperiwinkle4477 very hard to deal with punjabi people honestly.
People’s thinking changes over the time over the years
Lifestyle, thinking and growth and progress in life always changes over time
Waheguru ji🙏 tussi gurmukhi vich vi explain kr dya kro ji... Coz I can't understand other as u explain very well... So it's a humble request🙏
Well this is absurd!! First of all compatibility has nothing to do with the religion. Secondly, most of the gurus were Hindus and the foundation of the Sikh dharam was mainly based on oneness and simplicity. It teaches us to respect and accept all religions: four doors of Sri Golden Temple Sahib😇. Sikhism embraces all casts and creeds and condemns the religion rigidness. Moreover, marriage is an institution of understanding, love and respect and has nothing to do with one’s religion. However, marrying in a different religion should not be a problem, it on the other hand gives both the partners a chance to explore and understand each other’s beliefs and reliance which eventually could lead us towards an understanding and united society. That’s why, rather than setting boundaries, all religions teaches us to be liberal and accept everyone with an open mind.
What do mean by the guru is hindu that bad word in sikhi hindu mean a person who has 0 understanding of God and only goes worship stones my sister think before you say
If you me go back in history love never existed in reality men and women were just traded to higher cast person for a greater life
4 door are to welcome them and to teach them sikhi
I have seen many sikhs who have married hindus and they don't unfortunately know sikhi and their kids call them selfs atheist when you try get 2 different culture to come together it won't work out because of the thinking and the belief
@@Truth_of_sikhi With due respect, Sikhism doesn't allow belittling other religions. By saying Hindus has zero knowledge of god is showing what a crude sense you have. Shame is what you bring.
Sorry if this is the case most sikhs cant be married in gurdwaras. Compatibility is just not on religious basis. We need to transcend this b.s. "Sabna jia ka ek data"
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
@@vijant1395 ok brother you are the greatest spiritual being you know everything 🙏may vaheguru ji bless you with even more wisdom ahead🙏
And next line says so nain visr na jai
I have a question. Do we have permission to love people according to Guru granth sahib ji or not? Please answer me
Love everyone as humans not as a life partner
If you think all the differences of thoughts and life can be dealt with in a different common thinking of both the persons involved then there is no problem. Basically do not disturb each other over religion and also your child, relative, parents, etc. This is directly written in Quran, Guru Granth Sahib, Bible, etc. And these difference of thoughts over connection with God will only be a way to enjoy each other more like unity in diversity. Many may not know but Islam says no compulsion in religion and also says marry a person who follows Abrahamic texts and surprisingly I found so much similarity between Sikhism and Islam. So technically it's almost like an Abrahamic text. So Islam has no problem, neither Sikhism and I also think Hinduism also has no problem in the basic principles so why separate lovers based on external living styles. The basic lines written asks to be together. You said marry someone with whom you can be compatible but compatibility cannot be 100% and if more than 50% of compatibility is there between Sikhism and Islam or Sikhism and Hinduism or Islam and Hinduism then why not change the external cultural habits a bit and be with your love forever why find it in someone else again. I know love is just a word it's basically a support and physical need and also to keep the species alive but support can be from someone not from your religion also and the other two aspects any human being can give. What if one likes the support given by him/her the most whom you are asking to leave because of religion? Is it justified over the basic principles of Sikhism, Islam, Hinduism, Christianity, Jainism?
Sorry buddy, Hindu Sikh wedding is quite common and has been for centuries.
Sadly, Sikh Muslim history is blighted by massive bloodshed so it casts a shadow even today.
Apologies for the direct response
@@DM-ui1oy No apologies required I understand and know the history and that is why I am saying that we are more alike but not common and that everyone sees. But on critical analysis Sikhism and Islam are very similar and so marriages or any mixing of us will give positive results because of the similar basics I feel.
❤❤❤❤ love your analysis on this
He doesn't know what he's talking about. Never get married. Do what makes you happy and live your life
you answer every question with deep logic
Amazing
Completely agree
I have a question….what if a sikh boy marry a hindu girl and they marry with both hindu rituals and sikh rituals??
That doesnt work
Beautiful
Hello sir ! Can a Jatt Sikh marry a Majhabi Sikh ??
True. Nice thoughts
This was so important! Thank u 🌸
They are brainwashing you and nothing more than that...
THERE IS NO SPACE FOR BIGOTRY IN SIKHI😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
Harbani kaur ignore this aditya he is just trolling the comments pretending to be a sikh
@@AdityaSingh-ku3cv Fake sikh id spotted
@@AdityaSingh-ku3cv The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru.
An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy.
Example:
If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru.
If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib.
Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture.
Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, ect.
what do u mean?
Some people use low IQ logic thinking Guru ji would give his blessings of a believer marrying them with a person not believing in him? Lol crazy logic. Sikhi is not anarchic hippy cult where anything goes. If you want to marry a non-believer do it no one stopping you or forcing you to marry another sikh but you will not do it under an anand karaj sikh marriage ceremony and you will no longer be considered a person who obeys the Guru you will be a mannat outside the fold of sikhi unless your non-sikh partner converts and becomes a believer. A real sikh life partner helps you grow spiritually in your dharam if you have a non-believer as a partner chances are they will want you to follow their way of life thus diluting and disturbing your efforts in trying to better yourself in sikhi. Its not difficult to find a decent sikh partner a little effort and training the mind to follow guru's wisdom not your own will help you over come the dunya and materialistic maya obsessed non-sikh mindset and brainwashing people have received in life.
Magic Dragon stop being so scared brother. Sikhi is here to stay. It will grow and it will spread because it speaks of universal truth.
It is the fanatics who want to keep it within their tiny little circle.
@@Bluelu69 you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!
@@Bluelu69 absolutely sikhi will spread but not sikh..ajkal sikha to jada sehajdhari sikh or hindu gurdware ande ne..it means every one belive in sikh ideology but no one wanna acept sikhi saroop.
@@Bluelu69 you are a disgusting pig
M L you and your pet Jo James are stinking up the place, somebody forgot to flush 😷
Sir can a namdhari girl marry a mainstream sikh boy?? Plz answer
Yes she willl, if she believe in guru granth sahib ji, she will marry a sikh boy, bt have to believe internally not only externally
Means now religion is much more than love and respect heart relations.... If a hindu girl or boy loves a sikh girl or boy it's not accepted!? I think religions never teaches anyone that you should see there religion and love them do they!?? I really love and respect sikh culture, everything about Sikhism but after hearing such thoughts my heart broke.... I really love a sikh guy... Will they not accept me??? Just because I'm hindu??
Tht sounds so wrong.
I mean thts like setting boundaries which was never drawn by our Gurus .
U see other person as a human first not as hindu Muslim christian nd so on .
I mean marriage is abut compatibility , understanding, respecting eachothrs opinions not stepping on each other’s foot .
Our Gurus sacrificed themselves to protect othr religion if they were to set boundaries they would have saved and protected only their own kind .
Our Gurus would alwys want us to see everyone equal , don’t judge anyone .
If we follow tht sikh should marry sikh , we will sound like few othr groups in our country, who do the same ( u know wht i mean ) .
Then how come sikhism will be different from them .
Its oky to not have boundaries, its okay to have a mix and its up to u wht ethics u give ur babies.
They get to know both the sides . They get to choose if they want , thts wht DIVERSITY is .
You cannot be a true sikh if you look at others with labels(caste, religion, colour, sinner).For a sikh their are no others he/she sees One in all. And Gurbani says "JIN PREM KIYO TIN HI PRABH PAYO", so if you truly love someone nothing matters whether it's religion or something else. And if a religion stop you loving another person because he /she is not from your background leave that religion. Love is the only religion.
yaa true buddy
Sorry to say ..Misleading msg sir with due respect.. probably the way u understanding Love u haven't got it ....it's nothing to leave or hold anything ...so what leaving religion it's wtong msg u r giving in society .. oneness can be practiced by anyone its internal nothing to do with outside n Leaving any religion etc Guru ji mahraj lneger suggested that too even
Thts sehaj
Doing and happening are totally two different things in spiritual word it's all about happening not doing n u r once again motivating people toward sDoijg n we don't hae to become Doers we rather have to drop it shrugg it off
I agree with you. Unfortunately a lot of Sikh families judge you on caste, profession, family history. Especially for marriage proposals!
indirectly he said no you cannot, but now the time has changed just look for understanding and Compatability in other person and how well you respect each other. My friend was a Hindu and his GF is Sikh , they both are married and living a happy life. baba ji k vaani ko dimag mai rakho baki apne dil ki suno. baba ji bura nahi manange.....
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
Ask them that Sikhism came into existence only 500 yrs ago, what happened to people who lived before that, were they all directionless and fool.
No they wasn’t because they all married with in their religion and not outside there religion
He saying to the people who really say I am a Sikh then u need to show in the actions u take 🙏🏽
What if we joined the Sikh faith I wasn’t born a Sikh I’m not even Punjabi my wife is agnostic for the most part we used to be Christians but not anymore. She has very similar ideals as me thiugh I feel she is Sikh even if she doesn’t identify as one.
Brother i respect uur thoughts.....but our gurus gave us a special identity.....only those are to be called sikhs who have "" BAANI AND BAANA"" ie they do follow guru granth sahib teachings and must be in a sikh getup we dont cut our hairs nor beards as they are god gifted and we too have five kakkars.....uu must be following sikh ideas but cant we say a sikh......i am also from a non sikh background started following and practising sikhism ajd feel proud of it🙏
@@prathamjeetsingh5523 even i am not from a sikh background, I was a hindu, what about you :D
@@majormalfunction3757 same hindu ancestors i have
If the partner converts to Sikhism, would that be acceptable?
Conversion is never a solution.
How can when you still think in the way you were thinking in past.
As i know when there is one supreme being or guru , bhagwan.
How can you change yourself.
The thing you can change is your way of thinking. For the world , creature, animals
, Human being.
As in bhagvad geeta says that supreme divine is in all the creature.
So get rid of greed, selfishness, and lust.
You will changed.🙏🏼😊
Yes.
@@ashokchowdhury6385 no, never we r. Not muslim who convert
u can convert
Very smart way to say , don't marry outside
Please guru jee Video hindi dubbed 🙏🏼
कृपया गुरु जी वीडियो हिंदी डब 🙏🏼😊
what a religion? systemic racism and religious discrimination
I think most Punjabi/Sindhi Hindus are internally Sikhs. So it should be ok to marry Hindus. A lot my Hindu friends do nitnem and they mostly go to gurdwara.
Patriotic Singh exactly
You understand the right meaning
@@garimamehta3425 a lot these gurdwara committees are banning interfaith marriages in gurdwara. But they must understand that just because someone doesn't have singh or kaur in their names that doesn't mean they're not Sikh. Sikh is more than just an appearance. So Hindus should be fine to marry Sikhs. We are same culture same belief. But if some Muslim or Christian wants to have an Anand karaj then they should not be allowed. Because if you're really a Muslim you can not accept the granth sahib as your guru. Same with Christians.
@Harman Singh in Sikh rehet maryada we are completely forbidden to marry Muslims. It doesn't mention anyone else. But Muslims in particular. Guru Sahib completely forbade us to marry Muslims. A person from another religion can still be acceptable but Muslims are a big "no-no". Maharaja Ranjit Singh had a Muslim wife. You might not know this but the khalsa panth punished Ranjit Singh for marrying a Muslim women.
We should be respectful of the Hindu faith as they are respectful of ours. We can not expect people to respect us without respecting them too and creating harmony. Many Hindus go to Gurdwaras and many Sikhs go to Mandhirs. Saying this every Sikh I know is very respectful of the Hindu faith and vice versa. Obviously you will get a very small minority of idiots but we must continue to ignore them. It's part of a respectful and peaceful brotherhood of man.
@@VSS1 ya
It's not true that person having same religion have same ideology
Satpal veerji tusi sanu guruwale bane rahe ho
Amazing explanation veer Ji. Wahe Guru Ji Ki Khalsa. Wahe Guru Ji Ki Fateh.
yes it's just that u can't say urself sikh just because u have singh or kaur as ur last name u have to become a Sikh no sikh is person is born sikh n if u want to marry a sikh guy u have to follow his religion with pure heart believe me once u r in sikhi everything is gonna change.
Baba ji iam a indian hindu and i want a girl who is sikh is it possible and good for us , please show me path.
I'm also want to marry hindu girl
Do court marriage
A sikh girl cannot marry a Hindu boy as per maryada
@@jeeztacanada1927 why not do court marriage if you both don't believe in Sikhism how can you move around a sikh scripture and marry each other , better stfu and not ruin the respect for guru maharaj
Guru is a pure Sanskrit word which proves Sikhs are Sanathana Hindu Dharma followers.
1. Guru Gobind Singh 10th Guru and the 10TH granth called the book of books which is of 1428 pages and its a 300 year old book. This book talks about Godess Chandi- the Godess of Victory. There are points of Ma Durga , Gyan Prabhosh Tales from Mahabharatha, Incarnations of Brahma Vishnu and Shiva.....u may research
2. GURU NANAK ji says Guru words is a sound wisdom of Vedas, the scriptures verymuch Emphasis of VEDAS.
GURU NANAK says Guru is Vishnu Guru is Brahma Guru is Shiva and also GURU is Parvathi and Laxmi....
See most SIKHS and mainly khalistani SIKHS have forgetting their Sanathana Hindu Roots and that is why Many Sikhs are being converted to CHRISTIANITY and Islam. Muslims will wipe you out of Existence my Brother if you forget where you roots are .
GURU is a Sanskrit word.
True bro
No disrespect to you but I disagree with everything you said. Sikhism believes in formless,pre existence God and same goes for most of the religions except Hinduism and etc.
If a person shares a same profession, He will moreover look at the job in the same way as most of the employees will.They will share same ideology. Marriage isn't only the bond of appearance but also trust,love,faith and believe which could be gained among two people even if they belong to different religions. Our Guru Grant shaib teaches us about spiritual enery without any type of religious ceremonies, A person who is devoted to the name of God is a Sikh, A person who is ready to serve the guru and follow the truth is a Sikh.
So can you say to marry a women you need to a Sikh?We believe in equality, diversity, freedom which could only be attained by independent thinking.I don't think anything you said was related to guru grant shaib. Now think about what if like 1000 Sikhs go to somen nation where there are no Sikh women,So will they have to die single?Weren't they be allowed to have kids?
We believe in worshipping formless God on the name of Guru's. I believe this is the common belive of most of the religions.
Why are we spreading wrong info ?Instead of telling them this,Ask them to read guru grant shaib they will get all there answers
UV so beautifully said. That's the perfect way of thinking
@@vijayraj12222 Appreciate that my brother. Remember everything has it's own meaning for different people.Do not believe in what they say,Judge things according to your own experience. When you do that,God himself leads you
@@yuvrajbajwa6740 I always do things my way. I strongly believe that religion is the biggest enemy of mankind. So I don't believe in it. I always try to find the truth by my own introspection and experience. Nice to chat with a like minded person
@@vijayraj12222 No offense mate but I hardly believe religions can shape a individual personality. The problem is with the people who prefer religion for making money and there own benefits.
I'm a Sikh,I start my day with positively cause I read guru grant shaib.I help people and I'm never cause by depression, anxiety and death.It all would have been impossible if I didn't follow a religion.
I'm a very logical person but to learn somthinh you have to accept a teacher.The day you accept a teacher you will understand what life is.You will understand how debates are useless.
Stay away from those who are trapped in Maya and call themselves religious
What do you know about Hinduism?
Shri Waheguru jii
I'm sikh nd my girl frnd belong to Muslim family now her parents said her if u want merry a sikh first he will change his religion then u will merry now wt i do ???
Arey Abdul MTT bnn bhai, 😅 please
@Tic teri ke bhen chodi di ke kisi sardar ne tohi teri gand ma yo mircha lag rahi se
Interfaith marriage is prohibited in islam
The marriage is invalid
Unless,you convert
Change ur rlgn
Sikh mus..me frk hi kya h😂
Sorry I didn't understand that.. I am newly sikh ...my father is sikh now and mother still a hindu..When they married they both were hindus and after 3 to 4 years my father became a sikh..but cause my her mother and mother in law means my grandma both were hindu so she didn't coverted but follow both hindu and sikh festives and rules...but I choose to be a sikh and I asked my father he always tell me that says God is one..just he has many names..and ones I asked him that can a sikh marry a hindu cause I knew that hindus worship idols and fire and Guru Nanak denied that..we worship that One ..WAHEGURU..means God is one and His name is true..he creates and kills..so again i asked..can they marry he said..he said yes he can marry a muslim also..but need to follow some rules..just rules..and be kind...😊🙏maybe you're right but..
Thought this guy was a spiritual guy. He’s obviously not. He’s way off. He’s used an example of 2 people marrying where one believes in God and one doesn’t. He doesn’t seem to understand how real life works. Does he not think there are 2 people who are from 2 different faiths but believe in God? Also how do u measure someone’s belief in God? It’s an internal thing so no one can measure someone’s belief in God. He’s oblivious to the fact that most people who marry in a Gudwara do that just because that’s what u do if u marry as part of a Punjabi family. I doubt there are many “Sikh couples who go around the SGGSJ thinking I give myself to you Guru”. Most couples haven’t even a clue what’s being recited and never read one page of the SGGSJ. Yet these marriages will not cause any alarm bells because the 2 people are from Punjabi families. The issue of inter faith marriage objection is simply racism and social conditioning at play. It has nothing to do with our commitment to the Guru or God. Trust me 90% of “ Sikh” marriages wouldn’t happen if it was down to how much the couple give themselves to the Guru and. God.
Okay i didn't get what the was the point...You're agreeing with me or nor..Still my family has the sams thinking as I described ..
elina jewel let love guide you.., forget religion and follow spirituality. The only issue you have is that certain temples won’t allow mixed faith marriages in the temple. However if u just want to be with someone who you love, who is a good human being and you’re not too bothered about marrying in a Gudwara then it doesn’t matter. Just let love guide you always
Yvng_ Jeet You don’t understand my point. Listen to his justification for why only Sikhs can do Anand Karaj...give yourself to the guru,. That’s the reason he said it shouldn’t happen. My point is most Sikhs get married at Gudwara are just following a tradition....they ain’t giving themselves to the guru, they don’t even know what the words mean... I’m basing my arguments on his justification...
Yvng_ Jeet So how do you measure someone’s Sikhi? Who’s gna be the one who decides? What your saying is that only Amrithdhari Sikhs can marry in Gudwara? You know that’s not going to happen. When you see 2 people at Gudwara getting married it’s obvious the Gudwara have no issue with marrying people off who have Kaur and Singh in their names. Nobody can and nobody is monitoring the wedding to ensure that both people are giving themselves to the guru...
Satnam waheguru
What if your parents are not aggreeing on marrying in another religion???
then its good. just marry with sikh
harsimrat kaur did you even watch the video??
Marry whom you love. That’s all. Don’t be fooled by religions. They were made to divide us.
First question u should ask them why?
Then sit and think about it
When u marry in another
Religion u will have to adopt there ways too
Example: keep fast, go mandar or have ur child’s head shaved
Has a Sikh does guru Ji allow his Sikhs to do this? No
He says respect all but have faith in only urs ❤
The Anand Karaj is not a love marriage, it’s a spiritual union between 2 souls. You renounce anything and everything, for the Guru.
An interfaith couple cannot fo this because it’s pure hypocrisy.
Example:
If someone is a Muslim, they would be rejecting the Prophet Muhammad and renounces anything and everything for the Guru.
If he goes back to being a Muslim and is not a Sikh, it would be hypocritical and go against the scripture of The Guru Granth Sahib.
Same principle applies to a Christian. They would be rejecting Jesus and renouncing anything and everything for the Guru. Being hypocritical and going against scripture.
Same goes for a Hindu, Jain, ect.
Sikhi is a path shown to us by our Gurus so that we can meet our creator.
Now either you can follow it because gurus told us so or you can mediate and try to find god and finally end on the same path of sikhi.
Once you start following path of sikhi your outer physical appearance will automatically change.
Digvijay Singh Mongia I think you are right in terms of physical appearance I m non Sikh but since 1 year I m practising Sikhism I m feeling many changes in physical appearance is this because of this ?
My mind has also become powerful
@@LuckySingh-te8ph
If you meditate ln wahegur and love him and praise him, then you will start to not care too much outer appearance but inside your faith will become strong and you will also find inner peace.
Overlord Born thanks I am in grief and exereme depression waheguru ji give me inner strength to survive
@@LuckySingh-te8ph
Waheguru is everywhere, all you need to have is read mool mantar with your all heart and with it's meaning for fee times then bow in the name of Waheguru. Watch these beautiful sabads below and always remember that Waheguru ji resides in your heart.
"The Supreme Soul (Creator Himself) is present in the body in a subtle way and hence is not seen. Out of ignorance the self oriented man seeks Him elsewhere. If he follows the true guru he can understand the Creator within the body and be at peace" (SGGS 754).
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Overlord Born thank you so much only and only waheguru Simran will relieve my all stress
Or kyu confuse karke rakha hua yar..dharm jaat pat sikh hindu . Chain se jeene do. Jaha pyar h vaha satkar hai. Understanding shud b there..
Ya i can understand but.... Anand Karaj is a vow for the man that he will never leave his wife even in the thougest time and samw goes for the women but it's Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji!!!!now tell me one thing how would you feel bowing before the Quran or the Bible????
Understanding shad veere pehla dass how would you feel????😂😂😂😂😂
Harjeet Singh - gal veer ji Sikhi baare hunde a. No caste nor religion is superior than another. This discussion is highlighting what an anand karaj is and why we should not forget our gurus words
@@rimmy1819 yar jedi tusi sikhi sikhi karde ho na ohne ta 10 saal bad dekhlena aj 2 crorr to 1 crore ho jana..reason tuhanu pata..menu il gal da javab do j sikha di kuri sikh nu hi mana kar de vyah vaste. Fer koi hindu kuri anand karaj karave ta ki oh vyah ni manaya jayega?? Duji gal eh hegi ki ajkal de sikh paisa mangde ne..me apni akha nal dekheya amrit dhari sikh kuri da vyah ek hindu nal karaya ohna ne..j ehi honda rega te fer ki karega sikh..future apne present to banada or aj da present 90% sikha ne apna khrab kita hoya h..oh twanu 20 saal de andar dikh jana ki kine ku amrit dhari da chad deo normal sikh bach honge. Gal nu thoda time leke samjho meri.
I totally agree with you Harjit Singh.
This video doesn't make any sense because there are people in this world who has gurus mat but they are not. Marriage is just a piece of paper. Trust and love has nothing to do with any religion or caste. When two people want to be together they should regardless of what religion or caste they are from because at the end of the day we are all human and living on the planet that one god created. If there was in differenc then each religion would have their own planet 😂😂
Oh god people please get over this it's 2020 almost.
We are all equal.
Iam white and my wife is indian sikh but i do not follow any faith but I will raise my children sikh and I accept Sikhism but people need to separate religion and culture. And arranging marriages for adults is pathetic you have eyes and ears if we are all equal then we should choose who we want to marry and maybe we can accept everyone
This man is obsessed with his religion. You know I'm ready to marry a Sikh person but the problem is that the think that the are the Sikhs and the are so good that others can't share their life with Sikh and they never accept you as a family. And that's sin. Because this whole world is a family.
Lol u guys become socialists with stronger communities while despotic with weaker groups like muslims or Christians
@LesboiAnd you guys have so much commitment to seva, giving half of Punjab to them (weaker group) xd, and now on the edge of becoming a predominantly yasu state meanwhile jatta da munda propagate anti hindu/india from abroad
full seva mod huh
I hope you don’t consider Hindus separate. Sikhs are Hindus. If you have any issue about marriage, all our seven gurus married hindi women . So, stop hate between Hindus and Sikhs
We are one and will never be separated
We are different bro they married sikh women which followed the same point of views as the great gurus
Hindu mean in sikhi a person who has 0 knowledge of God and goes to temple and prays to stones
These are the words of chaupai Sahib read it
God created Shiva Yogi at proper time.time.
God created Brahma as the King of Vedas.Vedas.
Javan kal jogi Siv kio. Bed raj Brahma ju thio.
Only a fool boasts that he knows the secrets of God.the secrets of God
Whose secrets are not known even to the Vedas.
The great fool thinks that God is a stone.
But he does not know the difference between the two.
He continues calling Shiva as the Eternal God.
but he does not know the secrets of the the FomlessGod.
I do not follow the religious ways, preached by various religions, believing in Ram, Mohammad, Puran or Quran.
The only way I follow, is the way to worship Unique One God and no one else
@@Truth_of_sikhi You are a stupid person, Harmandir sahib had idols of lord Vishnu until 1906
If you are so smart, why don’t you remove all Hindu references from holy Granth sahib and dashm Granth?
What do you think will remain? Nothing. You are nothing anymore a Khokhli quam , directionless
Christian’s are converting Sikhs in masses because of stupids like you
Branches (panth) which forgets their roots are burned out
Khalsa path is on self destruction by hands of fools like you
Again, remove all references of Hindus from our two holy books and see what’s left
NOTHING WILL BE LEFT
@@rajmodi2886 read chaupai sahib
God created Shiva Yogi at proper time.time.
God created Brahma as the King of Vedas.Vedas.
Javan kal jogi Siv kio. Bed raj Brahma ju thio.
Only a fool boasts that he knows the secrets of God.the secrets of God
Whose secrets are not known even to the Vedas.
The great fool thinks that God is a stone.
But he does not know the difference between the two.
He continues calling Shiva as the Eternal God.
but he does not know the secrets of the the FomlessGod.
I do not follow the religious ways, preached by various religions, believing in Ram, Mohammad, Puran or Quran.
The only way I follow, is the way to worship Unique One God and no one else
Means no place for atheist 😭😭😭😭. . means i cant marry sikh boy....my bf is sikh...in religious points we are north and south pole you make my heart full of pain sir today.....
LOL , you can marry him but not anand karaj , do court marriage , anand karaj is done keeping guru granth sahib as their centre of life if you don’t believe in guru how can you take laavan around guru sahib
You can do court marriage
@@gunneetsingh27 isn't there any marriage other than court marriage between interfatial relationship in which the whole family involves? And we do believe in guru just we don't follow the religion we have immense respect for guru nanak ji
@@paragjadhav4875 if you believe in guru sahib then you are a sikh and as per guru gobind Singh Ji's gurbani " Ram Rahim Puran Qoran anek kahay mut ek na maanyo " which means he doesn't believe in hindu and muslim gods and scriptures . So you cannot be sikh and be of any other religion at the same time. And when it comes to family involvement I have seen beautiful functions for court marriages also
@@paragjadhav4875 you can do as per Hindu rituals if your partner agrees
Then what is the way of thinking in sikhism?
what do you mean??
Watch more videos from the channel 😇🙏
I see a lot of commentating on Hinduism/sanatan dharma without even knowing anything about it. All they think is that hindus are polytheist, idol worshippers and believe in fictional god. I just want to clarify them that this is not true at all, there are different school of thoughts in Hinduism .
Hindus beleive in one god parbrahm All the gods and goddesses in hinduism r nothing but different powers of that ONE true God 🕉
Ekam sat viprah bahuda vadanti
@Aman-hm6cwPlease don't misinterpret Hinduism as most sikhs did for themselves and thier sikhi. Hinduism isn't confined to mere beliefs. Anyone who tries to set boundaries for Hinduism falls into the trap of Maya even those words can't escape maya
I don't think like this. If he/she follows guru mat and living his life according to it and on the other side if he/she follows another religion that maybe Hindu or Muslim and living life according to their rituals and beliefs but they are in love and they really respect each other's beliefs then there is no issue to marry. I believe there should not be any ambiguity left. So marriage works on the principles of love and respect.
The notions of a married life in Guru Nanak's path and for the rest of the world are different. The Sikh marriage works on the principles of love and respect FOR Guru Nanak's Sikhi. Therefore, both husband and wife need to have their lives centered around Sikh principles, wherein both live their lives together with the same beliefs, discipline and meditate together with the aim to become one with Vaheguru.
There's no scope of what "I don't think like this" in Sikhi. Again, core Sikh principles are for Sikhs willing to lead their lives as per Guru Nanak's teachings. It is a tough, disciplined but spiritually illuminating path. Rest of the world is free to live as they wish.
@mohkamsingh Well, would you mind sharing the source where these beliefs of Guru Nanak dev ji are mentioned in the Gurbani…. I am a follower of sikhism, Yet I haven’t came across such rigid principles anywhere. As far as my knowledge he always gave priority to humanity, love and kindness. The only reason of creating a new religion i.e Sikhism was to provide people with a path of simplicity and oneness, rather than imposing boundaries and dividing people in the name of religion or caste. If you could share such writings with everyone, it will be quite enlightening for many of us😊 God is one and humanity is above all!!✌️
@@japinderkaur7467 bhenji I'm sorry if this offends you, but you are carrying too many (baseless) assumptions about Gurmat for me to answer in simple text comments. I request you to start a Sehaj Paath of Gurbani and read meanings (not english translations) from a respected Teeka alongside your Paath. With Guru Sahib's Kirpa, you'll definitely come to know about real Sikhi from Gurbani.
As regards to "writings", Guru Sahib have countless times clearly instructed Sikhs in Gurbani to refrain from keeping Sangat with Manmukhs, such Sangat is referred to as "Kusangat" in Gurbani. Again, a Sehaj Paath would help you in understanding the amount of stress laid on being in the Sangat of Gurmukhs and staying away from the Sangat of Manmukhs. Kusangat of a Manmukh drives a Sikh away from Vaheguru. What greater Sangat (company) would a person have of someone other than ones spouse? If your spouse is a Manmukh, your whole lifetime becomes Kusangat in itself. Simply put - your life's chance of meeting Vaheguru will be destroyed unequivocally. Janam wasted.
@@mohkamsingh3676 it means other caste people are manmukh…well i can say ur type of people are the origin of racism and rest about mokhsh prati that u are no one to decide. the person who has humanity who is living life like mann neeva matt uchi will get mauksh …so don’t make people fool and make then like u… sarbat da bhala
@@atulmehta3073 veerji, I suggest you being non Sikh refrain from dictating anyone about Sikhi. More so, please refrain from speculation and putting words in my mouth. I didn't talk about caste, and I'm certainly not the one where who carries a caste with his name. You don't know me at all, neither do I know you. However having interacted with thousands of people on these matters over many years, I know the frustration you have, and I know the cause too. There's a big "I" in your thoughts, that was there in the original comment as well. It is not compatible with Sikhi. Please choose some other subject for coffe table chit-chat. Sikhi is for those who wish to live by it. Rest is all poison.
100% accepted
@P. Randhawa no muslim women will ever marry non muslim ...if she believe in one true GOD
@P. Randhawa brother love has no religion and boundary. My wife is a sikh and i m a hindu. We all are humans.
@P. Randhawa many sikhs girls marry with Hindus also. I m from khatri community. Khatris of sikh and Hindus marry with each other.
Amitabh bachan's mother was also a sikh.
Correct bro
I'm hindu nd i love a girl by pure heart who's sikh ! I'm scared to told him about my feelings i feel that's not one sided cuse she's sikh that's why I'm worries her parents respect but not sacred by people of her community if her parents are agree then I would give my life for him...♥️
My heartly request to people's mostly whos sikh !!
Plz give me advice to achieve her parents beleive 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@khushikumari_79 yesterday she's got merried 💔😣😣😩
@@khushikumari_79 dukh is bat ka nhi!!?😢
Uske parents ki nazro me mujhse behtar ldka nhi tha !!
That's why unhone hmare parents se bat ki thi ke Hmari sgai kr le ...but Here my parents says abhi nhi abhi toh time h abhi nhi 😣😣😩💔
Zinda las sa ehsas hua h..
Ab kis ummed se zindagi jiu smjh nhi aa raha 😞
Shi h bo !?
"Jise manjile mil jae bo mohobbat hi kesi"😣💔
Dastan khatm hone wali h ! Or aap hmari akhiri mohobbat ho ..
Forever yours Sim..💫😶
~Shi..._singh💫😶
Kisi ko muft me mil gya bo sakhs..!
jo hme hr kimat pr chahiye tha 😣
Yr..zehr pi lena agr zehn me ishq krne ka khyal bhi aaye toh ..! Pr kabhi kisi se ishq mt krna 🙏🏻🙏🏻mt krna 🙏🏻🥺
Bht dard hota yr🥺 banda seh nhi pata
Jite ji mot ka ehsah jra deti h mohobbat
@@khushikumari_79 pta nhi yr😶 kyu esa kr liya me 8 sal se pyar krta aa raha tha usse in 8 salo me hm ne sath kyi rate bitai khi kyi din bitae pr kabhi ek sabd bat nhi ki...uski nazre sb bya krti thi pr uski sadgi se parants ki bat na tali ja ski !😣😣
abhi sgai kr li 2...3 salo bad sadi krenge bo
Na jane esa mere sath krne me kya hrz tha kismat ko..
Kya meri mohabbat sachchi thi syd isliye !?
Is sansar me ese sabd nhi h jo mera dukh bya kr ske zehn se sirf ek sbd nikal raha h !!
Kyu Akhir kyu🥺
No religion should force on implosion, you will end up like Islam. It's about the pure soul that matters,bhagat Singh was atheist but he gave his life for our country,you should read his book 'why I am a atheist ' just wearing some religious outfit doesn't make u a idol human being.
yeah so did guru gobind singh the sikh empire maharaja ranjit and many other organizations which where in punjab that struggled for independence against the british
He is saying u both should have the same thoughts in regards of wahaguru ji
To marry each other in front of guru ji
If u are both not on the same path then u can have a registered marriage instead
What if I think she who is a Sikh/Hindu/Christian/Jain is also a creation of Allah just a bit on other track but it's fine it's her and God's, Guru's, Bhagwan's matter. Come on all our souls were made by same creator and we come from same place just the tracks are different. Can you defy this at point? Moreover as a muslim I cannot break someone's heart by saying I love Allah more than you because my Nabi Hazrat Muhammad(SAW) said the one who betrays someone's trust and lies is not from my Ummah. So if I do that I am already out of Islam, this is more important than marrying an Abrahamic girl. So it doesn't matter if a Sikh, Hindu or Jain girl also wants to be with me after knowing my values and thinking. I can neither betray without logic and facts nor lie and due to not being an Abrahamic will be illogical again at that point. But there are conditions if the girl or I already have a lover or are married then different conditions will apply. We both will need to tell the truth to our partners that we like each other over them now due to compatibility and more bonding and so in future it will be a problem to both society's development and our development. In that case break up or take divorce and do the further things. Because love doesn't exist ok it's rightly said by him compatibility and thoughts or likes, dislikes, intellectual levels and most important how the two person coming together will benefit each other and also society. Believe me that is why people break up or take divorce. It's natural and over these religion is not a matter at all. All the above mentioned topics of compatibility, likes, dislikes, intellectual levels, thoughts, even aims and ambitions also sometimes and how they if spend time together and remain as a couple will benefit society and themselves do not match because of religion. It's totally individualistic and how they were grown by nature.
we don't believe in Allah
@@crronaldo123 I believe in Allah(SWT) and until the day of judgement there will be a sect of people who will keep saying we do not believe in Allah(SWT) even if the whole community come together and try and fail to create a seed, hydrogen atom, a bird which can fly until 10000 kms without GPS, EM waves, battery, energy suppliers like in jets, super cameras called eyes, lenses in eyes from cells of muscle and flesh, cyclic systems for all these, etc. etc. etc. But my Allah(SWT) knows all the variables of the basics and fundamentals of the physical phenomena and how they come together or give rise to another and who can touch them and mix to give these for these outstanding scales of things working to which we can never reach but only guess and keep experimenting and may be find one after many years and develop a non living thing or system a bit more than previous but still remain defeated by Allah(SWT) in every fundamental thing and it's connections and combinations. And never be able to create life😊 La Ilaha Illallahu Mukhammadur Rasulullah(SAW)👍
@@crronaldo123 we do allah is just another world for god like we say waheguru
@Akr we don’t convert so unless they’re happy to except as we are then I don’t see the problem
Guru nanak sahebs companion was a muslim. Your interpretation of the guru nanak saabs path is against his teachings.
His companion accept Guru Nanak as his massiha .... He became Sikh
I married white guy who is Christian I m sikh but he is very nice caring no bad heart he likes to pay people on time don't like to lie don't hurt anyone I yell at him I m mad at him he never yell at me back he never looks at other women work hard I feel I don't follow Sikhism from heart I lie sometimes but as a Christian he believe in God never hurt anyone's feelings so am I wrong here please answer its very important
Nice. I am a hindu and my wife is a sikh. We loved each other and got married. We have 2 children. We are living happily. We respect and love each other.
@@nightking8248 thank you so much for replying bless you guys stay happy I m from Canada but these kind of videos hurt me as sikh guru save Hindu religion also they respect Muslim religion too I don't think they say force someone to be sikh also if sikh is be marry only sikh then sikh should have motive to kill all religion according to this video which is very wrong as we stay together as husband wife but we deal with other people all 5 day 8 hours while working as husband and wife we spend only 5 hours out of which we eat cook and clean and 8 hour we sleep so I don't know why they r guiding wrong to people also why we go abroad where 10 percent sikh rest other religion exist
@@ManpreetKaur-xe9jh
Nice ur welcome mam.where r u from in Canada???
u r right. Me and my wife Navdeep go to gurdwaras. She uses her surname kaur till now. I don't have any problem with this. We respect and love each other. Love has no religion and no boundary. Be happy .Life is very small for hating. So be happy.
i wish u r happy with ur husband.
@@ManpreetKaur-xe9jh
U love ur husband and ur husband loves u.
U both respect each other. This is important. Don't think much about others.
shame on you
If someone is born in other religion but believe in Sikhism , then ?
Then he will convert
You have to leave the current religion as guru commands to follow Guru Granth Sahib only
This is you
Do good deeds, help others that's the religion we need
Deeds do not free you from this life circle we are all trapped in
@@Truth_of_sikhi only gods name and tyaag will give moksha, monks can depart whenever they want..,there are videos..
@@Truth_of_sikhi but if one does bad karma whole life..,he will not be freed...
@@himanshumalik5100 understand as sikh life we are told to live in this world with people and not to be attached to anything its like a monk in the city but he spread some good words
@@himanshumalik5100 free destroy your name as that is one of the main things your attached to next destroy your self existence think as your no more then close your eyes and feel the onesiess taking control of everything
Absolutely nooo ... read guru gobind singh ji 52 hukams
What about the emotionally connection
which hukam explicitly states that its okay to marry a non-sikh?
Ji
That's really great
It's all so confusing seriously....
Sikhism is not racist …. I am a Sikh girl married to a Muslim
Please don't convert to Islam sister.
@@ayushpatel1245let them
Sikhs m u s..se km nhi h
Aap punjab aake dekho
fake
Ohh it means i can't marry non sikh? But why?
god is one It’s a spiritual binding between two people and god. How is that possible with someone who doesn’t share that belief?
@@VSS1 exactly
Hahhqhha.. may be u forgot what guru g said. Guru g said main rehat pyari sikh nahi..who said u sikh can marry non sikh..may be u also have relationship with non Sikh.. that's why u commenting.. people like u are disgrace for sikh community.. lakhs of Sikhs died because they don't change their religion..
@@dildeep01 yeah bro!! Millions of sikhs chose to die but did not leave sikhi but sikhs today can't obey a simple command of the guru
@@jojames6621 right bro.. but lot of Sikhs saying they are not agree with him this video.. it's disheartening.. it's sad reality..