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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2023

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  • @mrsolodolo33
    @mrsolodolo33 10 місяців тому +445

    3 years ago, i was broke then i stumbled across Steph. Him shouting at me made grind hard and now i gotta a whip snd a steady job as a DJ🙏. Shoutout to the coldest one

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 10 місяців тому +110

    “Fellas, Don't make Someone Else’s problems, Become Your problem.” 💯💊

    • @gregbuze9143
      @gregbuze9143 10 місяців тому +9

      Fucking Right

    • @migram4190
      @migram4190 8 місяців тому +1

      This was my 2023 mistake. But damn even if its yo girl. Don't make her problems YOUR problem!

  • @targetegrat
    @targetegrat 10 місяців тому +83

    I'm 5'7" on good day. Most people can't stand to see short people winning in life. Its sad because people will try to bring you down for being short. If you have nice car you are compensating for being short, same thing with dressing well and being fit. How are you a grown adult getting mad at me because I'm confident.

    • @kushkidish
      @kushkidish 10 місяців тому +12

      I think the problem is you. Im 5'7 as well and i never really think about my height...

    • @mrclapz1488
      @mrclapz1488 10 місяців тому +12

      Damn as a tall dude this is true. I’m 6’3 but my brothers are 6’5 and 6’7 if its one thing they like to make fun about dudes who don’t got really nun to talk bad about it defaults to height weight and looks, if you a good looking shorter dude in good shape they gonna point out your height as a way to minimize you. Me being the shortest I never thought this way.

    • @naughtiousmaximus7853
      @naughtiousmaximus7853 10 місяців тому +1

      @@mrclapz1488 This is one of the reasons I always thought tall dudes are the more insecure ones than shorter dudes. Like, shorter guy didnt even register you or ask you for your opinion, why are you even attempting to judge him LMFAO. Its funny as fuck because no one secure in themselves has the urge to bring other people down. Not every tall guy is like this, but some guys are so obsessed with their height that they can't see how its becoming their insecurity.

    • @yungactivist
      @yungactivist 10 місяців тому +8

      It’s been like that since I was 21 I’m 25 nice car nice apartment. People be hating all types colors hate

    • @rocketvybe
      @rocketvybe 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@naughtiousmaximus7853I remember this tall dude telling me I'm short because he didn't have a comeback and I said I know and he was surprised, I don't care about my height.

  • @freeagent9753
    @freeagent9753 10 місяців тому +14

    Sitting in the car eating breakfast now, got a new job today paying me $26/hr
    Let’s get it fellas 🔥🔥🤟🏽

    • @sthomas730
      @sthomas730 10 місяців тому +2

      Congratulations

  • @zack7438
    @zack7438 10 місяців тому +21

    At one point, I used to feel guilty for doing well but then I realised that how other people feel about my hard earned success is none of my concern

  • @rochilesmith4156
    @rochilesmith4156 10 місяців тому +133

    "The same reason why they project hate on you is the same reason why they love and respect you." Thank you steph for always giving out wisdom.

  • @rye619
    @rye619 10 місяців тому +42

    Remember, Jealousy is love and hate at the same time. 💯

  • @Brani
    @Brani 10 місяців тому +26

    We gotta get colder

  • @jude6093
    @jude6093 10 місяців тому +76

    The game will test you never fold. Stay ten toes down. It’s not on you, it’s in you. And what’s in you, they can never take away.” - Nipsey Hussle

  • @cxrdogoteye811
    @cxrdogoteye811 10 місяців тому +13

    Man the amount of jealousy and envy and hate I be getting by my close ones is crazy 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️ I’m the only one pushing everybody to win and niggas still look at me like competition🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @robertpitts8161
      @robertpitts8161 10 місяців тому +3

      Bruh, you aint the ony one whk dealt with this trust me lol.

    • @Movieclips_101
      @Movieclips_101 10 місяців тому +3

      Same 💯

    • @Heavon1999
      @Heavon1999 2 дні тому

      Going thru the same shit, brother. Verbatim

  • @fresh2354
    @fresh2354 10 місяців тому +23

    Some will acknowledge you’re cold behind the scenes, but will never admit it to the public cause they don’t want you to shine too hard. Insecurities.

  • @OkayJayy_
    @OkayJayy_ 10 місяців тому +12

    They hate how other people love you genuinely

  • @ameliajohnson4454
    @ameliajohnson4454 10 місяців тому +33

    Facts 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 they hate you, but keep coming around you.

    • @Fontanat
      @Fontanat 10 місяців тому +5

      They’re still fans just the same

  • @NOYBZ
    @NOYBZ 10 місяців тому +60

    Tell your friends bad news and see how they behave and then you tell them good news after and watch how they react.
    ~J.Peterson

    • @TCTALKSTCFITNESS
      @TCTALKSTCFITNESS 10 місяців тому +3

      💯💯💯

    • @brandonjackson3641
      @brandonjackson3641 10 місяців тому +1

      That's wisdom right there

    • @fireprooff9922
      @fireprooff9922 10 місяців тому +4

      I used to have this homie, a long time ago. He was such a hater I used to mess with him. Whenever I told him about a W I had, he would always get upset but whenever I told him about an L I took, it used to make his day. He used to always talk down on my name and act like I had bad intentions. I never called him out but I still observed.

    • @brandonjackson3641
      @brandonjackson3641 10 місяців тому +3

      @@fireprooff9922 I hope you cut him off and never looked back dudes like that are dangerous

    • @NOYBZ
      @NOYBZ 10 місяців тому +2

      @@fireprooff9922 dudes like that you don't need in your circle bro. Drop him like bad news

  • @miroslavzigmund722
    @miroslavzigmund722 10 місяців тому +49

    Physique on point whip on point everything on point can’t even hate only an inspiration!

  • @jude6093
    @jude6093 10 місяців тому +14

    Be Humble. Be Hungry. And always be the hardest worker in the room.” - Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson

  • @thedeanogaming
    @thedeanogaming 10 місяців тому +25

    There's a saying that goes "never throw stones in a glass house" and furthermore whenever people project themselves unto you, they literally having you as a mirror so if they're saying that you're this and you're that then you should be like:"that's funny coming from you".

  • @KingLucarioxx
    @KingLucarioxx 10 місяців тому +9

    It’s even worse when it’s your own mother who projects how they feel onto you

  • @ascensiontennisacademy8213
    @ascensiontennisacademy8213 10 місяців тому +5

    Don’t tolerate their projections onto you out here fellas. It breeds nothing but more pain and suffering, we already got our own we don’t need nobody else’s…

  • @gfighter2400
    @gfighter2400 10 місяців тому +10

    Old white guy here, every damn thing you say is true! I’ve learned how to be cold and I gotta say, it’s the only way. Stay with us Steph, and help us keep the negative people out of our lives.

  • @gtrellshow7489
    @gtrellshow7489 10 місяців тому +9

    Going through that now,woman and some of these homies..move in a room full of vultures l!!

  • @smittyloans7889
    @smittyloans7889 10 місяців тому +8

    I'm going threw this shit now with my blood bro.... SMH.
    This video touch home right here

  • @antonioburton8332
    @antonioburton8332 10 місяців тому +6

    Dammnnn this shit speak to me. One of my cousins always used to say “damn, you got all the hoes” “damn, you getting to the money” and then we got into a little argument and the point I was proving him wrong, he goes “you’re a bitch”… and I ain’t looked at him the same since. Don’t even fuck with him. Made me reflect on everything and all the lowkey hating shit he said

  • @Moswaned23
    @Moswaned23 10 місяців тому +13

    “a hater is just someone that is beneath you” aint that the truth appreciate the wisdom G

  • @MrPrimetyme79
    @MrPrimetyme79 10 місяців тому +9

    My whole life women have told me I'm mysterious. And you're exactly right they are looking for weakness in me order to make them feel better about their insecurities.

  • @RegalSuprem3
    @RegalSuprem3 10 місяців тому +9

    out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks

  • @fireprooff9922
    @fireprooff9922 10 місяців тому +16

    Steph spitting straight up facts. In life I try to better my situation. I put in work in private. I try to get to where I dream of but, always, in the back off my mind, I know that I have to deal with these haters who will treat me like I'm below them. Year after year you mature but they never do. They still act like you're inferior, even if you haven't talked to them in years or ever. You gotta enjoy your life and level up but you also got to be aware of all these haters walking around. They're fake too. They're jealous of you or they are threatened by you but they don't let you see it. They laugh at you to let you know you will never get respect from them.
    In life you sometimes got to focus on what you can control. Some haters (family members) always try to bring up things that can't be controlled. They talk about problems you can't solve, things that's happening miles away, or things from the past. They do that to purposely put you in a bad mood and make you feel like you're losing.

  • @therhymerr
    @therhymerr 10 місяців тому +14

    Steph we miss the 30 min long rant videos!

  • @Raj-cl7he
    @Raj-cl7he 10 місяців тому +15

    I agree with steph when you have went through alot of turmoil you can see a hater real easy. If your naturally positive and you yourself knows whats right and you see how a person talks or acts you will quickly see them for who they are.when dealing with these type of people dont even engage with them dont play their games just simply remove yourself and move on theres no talking or helping people like that .

  • @oCaliforniaBoy
    @oCaliforniaBoy 10 місяців тому +36

    Thus was my wake up call. I been listening to you steph. It's been 5 YEARS and back when I first heard you speak about this world & how people are, I had it in the back of my mind but like you said " you tend to give these MFs the benefit of doubt and find out later"
    My progress hasn't been all linear, matter of fact I been on and off the grind. Getting peeps & glimpse of my old ways thinking that simp mindset would work, believing that most people weren't manipulative when in fact they are (really good at it when you not paying attention to yo intuition n past experiences) when you said it's lonely at the top. I felt that at the BOTTOM and I thought something was wrong with me being comfortable alone, working on myself and getting my goals done. Now that I've fell back behind listening to the "haters", believing what people say about me, letting others get the best side of me while I treat myself the worst. I realize all along, you was speaking the TRUTH. I just want to say thanking you for blessing us not only with the game, but the hidden secrets to actually becoming your best self and nobody can stop you but YOU. Much love steph ❄️⚔️

  • @thedeanogaming
    @thedeanogaming 10 місяців тому +13

    "I'll crush all in my way. EVERYONE!"-Broly

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 10 місяців тому +8

    “When you’re not readable niggas get intimidated.”

  • @idjoensjjz
    @idjoensjjz 10 місяців тому +13

    I found your channel in 2020 I was at the lowest point in my life. Looking back at the past, I realize they've always been beneath me hence their weird behaviour. Fake friends and hating hoes can really affect you when you're oblivious to your own power. I finally owned this shit, and if I told you how it went in only 3 years you would never believe me. I'm talking about presidential watches and 10/10 baddies. I'm holding all the cards so now they want to play chess... Thak you Stephon from the bottom of my heart. You may not realize it but you're the best thing to enter my life and probably the life of other users of this platform. All my blessings and I pray you keep having the most prosperous and impressive existence in this lifetime. Love from France G. We cold.

    • @tonilozic6152
      @tonilozic6152 9 місяців тому +1

      Same story here I still remember 2020 , broke , hard broked , crushed .But now when i m wining they all trying to down play it

    • @tonilozic6152
      @tonilozic6152 9 місяців тому +1

      Same story here I still remember 2020 , broke , hard broked , crushed .But now when i m wining they all trying to down play it

    • @jamiefoster6320
      @jamiefoster6320 7 місяців тому

      I agree same right now for me thank you Stephon from the bottom of my heart

  • @anupbeatz736
    @anupbeatz736 10 місяців тому +5

    Nothing but facts g. They hate you because they can't accept that you are just a regular ass nigga just living your purpose and then when you improve they gotta throw some shade. They then start talking about your past and try to insult you, but when they do you have to act according to what is true to yourself. I'm not the type to wish ill upon others. Set a boundary and if they cross it, address the issue and hold them accountable. Surround yourself with like-minded people, take the hate away from your heart, acknowledge the truth in everything and just keep climbing. We were born kings and queens from day one and no one else should tell us otherwise. Stay Cold. Amen

  • @NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK
    @NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK 10 місяців тому +8

    u absolutely right about people trying to bring u down. especially when they cant do what u do...

  • @ModernMessiah
    @ModernMessiah 10 місяців тому +13

    Not Everyone that disagrees with you is a hater. The difference between a hater and constructive criticism is whether they want you to succeed or not.
    I got alot of haters but I'm a big guy and they'll never say it to my face. It's always passive aggressive stuff
    I had to learn that different though

    • @user-hu2rj3pi4b
      @user-hu2rj3pi4b 7 місяців тому

      Have u learned with haters it’s always passive aggressive, it’s words never in face.

  • @migram4190
    @migram4190 8 місяців тому +1

    Man 2020 2021 and 2022 I gpt my shit together.. but 2023 pulled everything from me... I lost my footing and became paranoid and went to relapse.. maybe bec of pride or over confidence.. i lost respect in myself in the process.. but now I'm rediscovering it.. but daamn.. sometimes we just go to rock bottom pt.2 for one to REALLY learn. Thank you brother..

  • @frankiemiller2540
    @frankiemiller2540 10 місяців тому +1

    U speaking FFAACCTTZZ Son...I definitely needed to hear this...💯👌🏽

  • @mohamedsaid9416
    @mohamedsaid9416 10 місяців тому +1

    Our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said wish for your brother what you wish for yourself 💯

  • @DineroMunroe
    @DineroMunroe 10 місяців тому +3

    The reality of this video is CRAZY how true the points are

  • @youngkingofficial7
    @youngkingofficial7 10 місяців тому +6

    Man I was down broke and Unfit but when I came across Steph...my mindset changed alot...im in the gym training hard becoz I'm a skinny guy you know and I got a steady job. Thanks man.👑
    S.o from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @light-water
    @light-water 10 місяців тому +2

    Jealousy is just love and hate at the same time

  • @thestranger5575
    @thestranger5575 10 місяців тому +2

    The same people that hate you are the same ones that love you that was deep

  • @frankjrock
    @frankjrock 10 місяців тому +2

    As you elevate and shine bright the haters from all corners will be shown. It’s up to you whether you allow them to stay in your space and fuck up what you got going on.

  • @Teeceesosmooth
    @Teeceesosmooth 10 місяців тому +2

    Aye man he spittin that legendary shit 💯

  • @redpilldailyhighlights5284
    @redpilldailyhighlights5284 10 місяців тому +1

    they hate when you know... and when you know you become even more 10times colder

  • @zubaidspeelman88
    @zubaidspeelman88 10 місяців тому +8

    Salute to the mentor and more success to him

  • @TrevieTrev
    @TrevieTrev 10 місяців тому +5

    Feel this at work all the time. I became a manager recently and all I get is nasty looks. They want to be me but they didn’t put in the work!😅 look where I’m at and where they are.

  • @tomjsexton
    @tomjsexton 10 місяців тому +2

    so many truths hidden in 'jokes' and drunk talk

  • @mrclapz1488
    @mrclapz1488 10 місяців тому +13

    Glad Steph still out here applying knowledge. I like how his content gets more and more mature and knowledgeable as time goes on. I think most young guys need to hear this especially this generation of young dudes surrounding themselves with fake friends and social media bringing the worst out of everyone.

  • @theboydudus.4625
    @theboydudus.4625 10 місяців тому +3

    A drunk man’s actions, are a sober man’s thoughts.

  • @eugcasanova657
    @eugcasanova657 10 місяців тому +1

    This is one of the coldest I’ve watched in time where there’s no cap in it it’s all facts. where there you’re a man or not, he kept it 💯

  • @jasonwells3643
    @jasonwells3643 10 місяців тому +20

    Steph I just wanna THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart man!! I THANK GOD for u becuz your videos have changed my life 💯💯💯been watching since 2020

  • @riggs2431
    @riggs2431 10 місяців тому +5

    Damn that was cold steph 🥶

  • @JaayTradez
    @JaayTradez 10 місяців тому +1

    “The same way they hate you, is the same way they love you.” COLD FACTS💯

  • @datadata7144
    @datadata7144 10 місяців тому +4

    Im giving you your flowers, steph. Check this out. A dream killer is a person that chose victimhood over trying. Then later they see the results in others and it vexes them. You know how on the block if you bringing food for yourself, you might as well feed everybody else because the equality drowns out the guilt. You can either 1coax them in their defeat, by acting defeated. 2upset them with your apparent success, fore they arent successful and it doesnt mix. 3 keep a distance and build them. 4never see them again.

  • @landismithCOJ
    @landismithCOJ 10 місяців тому +4

    Let them keep hating. They are doing what they are supposed to do.

  • @officialjpyro84
    @officialjpyro84 10 місяців тому +1

    Everyday. But life goes on. May all who do that be blessed cuz I ain't going backwards for nobody. I wish them well. Salute.

  • @wendellkirton3694
    @wendellkirton3694 10 місяців тому +2

    Correct that Hater them don't wanna see you do better in life preach it steph

  • @BruceL33Roy
    @BruceL33Roy 10 місяців тому +2

    Had a a chic tell me I'm a Cocky Prick, when in all actuality she's the one who was use to getting all the praise from other men. When she seen just from hanging out with a me, how COLD I am and how many people love me. She was Hating Straight Up, n she still hmu the next day, left her on READ . Facts Bro 304s can be Haters too. Especially if you get more love in the streets than they do... Straight Facts 💯💯💯

  • @ryloswift
    @ryloswift 10 місяців тому +3

    THIS THE VIDEO RIGHT HERE!!!! This the one we needed!!!!

  • @rickybaez8903
    @rickybaez8903 10 місяців тому +2

    Steph single handily motivating the monster inside me everytime with his videos. Because of your videos for the past 2 years has helped my fitness, craft, mindset, and purpose. Thank you g like the big brother I never had. 💐💐💐

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 10 місяців тому +3

    Facts when they not happy with themselves and they see others are happy and confident and enjoying life they will starting hating and projecting how they feel about themselves onto you and they hate how others support you and I see right through the haters and they be mad 💯💯

  • @theone3rd
    @theone3rd 10 місяців тому +5

    Steph you made me come outta the shadows to SALUTE YOU KING 💪🏾💯🙏🏾🫅🏾 Real talk.

  • @SavoMusic
    @SavoMusic 10 місяців тому +1

    People definitely don’t even comment when you cold even though they watched the video smh it’s crazy out here salute 🫡 bro

  • @bigmoneybarron00
    @bigmoneybarron00 10 місяців тому +2

    Man videos like this let’s me know that I need to work 10 or 20x harder than I’m working right now even though I got a good paying job but there’s other things that I need to work on. 💯
    “A hating ass nigga is beneath you”
    “Don’t ever try to turn down your confidence to a mf who tries to dim your light”

  • @Kingbrayloquotes
    @Kingbrayloquotes 10 місяців тому +5

    Back 2 back Steph video 🔥🙏🏾

  • @ayeyofu8424
    @ayeyofu8424 10 місяців тому +5

    coldest video you done made in a long time bro🔥🔥

  • @iAmNorm369
    @iAmNorm369 10 місяців тому +2

    this video coming across my page at the one time i doubt my intuition. Steph You are a ace in this stack of cards i got

  • @jojodavis2856
    @jojodavis2856 10 місяців тому +1

    This video speaks volumes to my situation, I feel hate from family it used to upset me now I've learned to be quiet 🤐🤫 and just do me

  • @SevastianNandez
    @SevastianNandez 10 місяців тому +1

    You helped me through my break up so much man. I respect you bro and appreciate you 💪

  • @pretinha718
    @pretinha718 10 місяців тому +5

    Mannnn I wonder if I'm the only female that watch your stuff. A couple years ago I got into trading and became profitable at it. I put my homegirl on and she became so entitled. One day we got into an argument and she said she doesn't like hanging out with me. I asked y, she said cuz I always talk about money. Mind u she always talking about child support money, taxes, etc. From that day onward I knew she was a bona-fide hater.

  • @Halo144
    @Halo144 10 місяців тому +1

    Being from the Mil, he definitely spitting facts 🤦🏾‍♂️💪🏾

    • @TREY_CHAMBERS_95
      @TREY_CHAMBERS_95 10 місяців тому

      @Halo144 I Was with you’re Girlfriend the other day

  • @lewisa13777
    @lewisa13777 10 місяців тому +4

    Love this video straight facts 💯

  • @michaelisblessed44
    @michaelisblessed44 10 місяців тому +1

    Real gems right here , one of the realest videos I ever seen 💯

  • @VillainArch22
    @VillainArch22 10 місяців тому +3

    Man, I needed this!!!

  • @lvnn_good6700
    @lvnn_good6700 10 місяців тому +6

    Always a great day when Steph uploads

  • @Xandontlikeme
    @Xandontlikeme 10 місяців тому +3

    Life is long n beautiful, even in the worse situations smile n struggle at the same mf time so you may succeed in this long life

  • @sihlemasondo2898
    @sihlemasondo2898 10 місяців тому +2

    We need these daily shots every day

  • @sibusisosimon7327
    @sibusisosimon7327 10 місяців тому +1

    Dawg you spittin some real game

  • @delroyduffus8559
    @delroyduffus8559 10 місяців тому +1

    Nuff love&Respect Emporia 👑
    Thanks a Trillion IV doing you&being you❣️

  • @azcardinalds2360
    @azcardinalds2360 10 місяців тому +2

    You should do a video on the phycology of haters, why are they so jealous ect. I can say I’ve never been a hater

    • @TREY_CHAMBERS_95
      @TREY_CHAMBERS_95 10 місяців тому +1

      @Azcardinalds2360 it’s A Spiritual warfare that’s why

  • @Lalvallme
    @Lalvallme 10 місяців тому +1

    This video is NEEDED. this the 1 right here Steph.

  • @heizorak
    @heizorak 10 місяців тому +2

    Free gold, thank you, keeep it up !

  • @ScarfxceKeem
    @ScarfxceKeem 10 місяців тому +1

    Gen V a solid show

  • @floridababy974
    @floridababy974 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for another 💎 King 🤲🏿💯

  • @reginald_
    @reginald_ 10 місяців тому +1

    DAMN! FACTS!!! ALL FACTS 💯💯

  • @alexandre7885
    @alexandre7885 10 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for the knowledge my g!! Keep going 🫡🫡

  • @youknowlq
    @youknowlq 10 місяців тому +1

    its a cold world g

  • @anthonykelly5957
    @anthonykelly5957 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Steph you change me and continue

  • @MichaelM-gx9fq
    @MichaelM-gx9fq 10 місяців тому +2

    I thank you bro for this message! 💯

  • @nemsz6184
    @nemsz6184 9 місяців тому

    Man he say nothing but facts

  • @daiyonsteward7461
    @daiyonsteward7461 10 місяців тому +1

    This spoke volume 🫡💯

  • @takeiteasytigerny
    @takeiteasytigerny 10 місяців тому +1

    A right on time video! Steph you have been preaching in a lot of your videos recently but this one hits home. I pray this video helps men recognize their value and helps them to get colder. This was definitely one of them ones!

  • @Realjerseynative
    @Realjerseynative 10 місяців тому +1

    They hate that you know, and you know that they hate

  • @mokgothumokoena
    @mokgothumokoena 10 місяців тому +1

    PREACH BRO!

  • @breaks3085
    @breaks3085 Місяць тому

    😂😂😂 4:14 point blank period, im stealing that .the way he said it .

  • @tonilozic6152
    @tonilozic6152 9 місяців тому

    8:21 i been going thogt that right now thaks for everthing Stph . Just recely bought my car(2018 audi a3) afer 1 year of launhig my business and all this 304 trying do down play all thing that i aquare thought hard work. Thans for remainder big bro I really needed this

  • @mizukagematt1186
    @mizukagematt1186 10 місяців тому +5

    Haters are just fans deep down look at vegeta with goku 🤷🏽‍♂️💯

    • @DanielHernandez-pq5cs
      @DanielHernandez-pq5cs 10 місяців тому +1

      Vegeta doesn’t hate Goku tho. He respects him and vice versa. They push each other past their own limits.

  • @Rylanb
    @Rylanb 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Steph!