Maintaining Modesty in The Modern World | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

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  • @heatandsoul
    @heatandsoul 4 роки тому +86

    Another "wake-up call". May we all wake up. Ameen

  • @fahimaahmadi591
    @fahimaahmadi591 4 роки тому +58

    Complete haya =
    1. Modesty in speech
    2. Modesty in behaviour
    3. Modesty in clothing (i.e. hijab)
    4. Modesty in worship

  • @seynaboufall4072
    @seynaboufall4072 4 роки тому +105

    Alhamdulillah for this video. I’m sixteen and I’ve been looking for videos on UA-cam speaking of Haya and I couldn’t find very many. I was disappointed but then I came across this video and it’s simply amazing, Alhamdulillah. It’s getting more and more difficult in this day and age to find such sources I’m very thankful to have a social platform that is actually beneficial. Thank you Allah for bringing me this knowledge. These days UA-cam is my biggest source for Islamic knowledge . Jazak’Allah for this video. My new favorite sheikh 💖💖

    • @ameerahammouda4632
      @ameerahammouda4632 4 роки тому +5

      Mashallah that you are so young and searching for this! Rabana yikrimak

    • @seynaboufall4072
      @seynaboufall4072 4 роки тому +1

      Ameera Hammouda 🥰🥰

    • @ashiqulislam724
      @ashiqulislam724 4 роки тому +2

      May Allah (swt) bless you for your good nature and thrive you have

    • @tayyebashoaib9754
      @tayyebashoaib9754 4 роки тому +3

      Regarding modesty and Haya, I have really benefited from this book: "A return to modesty by wendy shalit". I recommend it.

    • @aishaseid2813
      @aishaseid2813 4 роки тому +1

      Ashiqul Islam barakallahu fi umrak

  • @nahidslife6977
    @nahidslife6977 4 роки тому +26

    Don’t know what to say. Living in such a nasty society that sometimes i feel grateful to the Almighty for the pandemic. At least some people are now staying at home instead of going to clubs, taking alcohol with girlfriends , though they are married and trying to establish their dirty habits as socialization.

  • @hayehaye5624
    @hayehaye5624 4 роки тому +15

    Haya and iman are linked, Haya is the barrier to damaging our iman.

  • @ghousiakhan5623
    @ghousiakhan5623 4 роки тому +30

    This topic is the most needed at this time

  • @Ggcxgdgdgete244
    @Ggcxgdgdgete244 4 роки тому +21

    May Allah SWT bless us with highest level of Haya.

  • @seedysaid6588
    @seedysaid6588 4 роки тому +15

    May Allah increase our haya to ihsan

  • @dr.maryamhashmi9285
    @dr.maryamhashmi9285 2 роки тому +1

    Jazak Allah khair Respected Sir

  • @jamesali2017
    @jamesali2017 4 роки тому +3

    I love Shaykh Yasir for the sake of Allah. He is truly gifted with the most beautiful knowledge in this universe.
    Jazakumullahu hayran ya Shaykh . . .

  • @Srilankan_girl
    @Srilankan_girl 4 роки тому +34

    you are amazing!!!!!❤️❤️❤️love all your speeches!! not a single one is bored!amazing lectures!👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @MonsieurToure
    @MonsieurToure 3 роки тому +1

    May Allah protect us, and our sisters, and our children… and may Allah purify our hearts.

  • @JusteNasra
    @JusteNasra 4 роки тому +16

    This is a reality for real, we live in a world where we are taught, pushed and encouraged since we arr children to not be shy at school, in society, everywhere...May Allah have mercy on us😭😭😭.
    I remember when i was at school i was sooo shy i couldn't even ask the teacher a question. But the teacher kept pushing me again and again to take away my shyness and it worked.
    But now I'm working really hard to have back my haya 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.
    May Allah forgive us and guide us to the right path ameen.

    • @nayedabasit5568
      @nayedabasit5568 4 роки тому +16

      I don't think that encouraging a child to become confident and less shy is equal to removal of hayaa.

    • @uzmaiqbal3155
      @uzmaiqbal3155 4 роки тому +17

      There is a difference between lack of confidence and haya as there is a difference between confidence and shamelessness.

    • @eeshaa8428
      @eeshaa8428 4 роки тому +6

      there is nothing so shameless in asking ur teacher a question, she is there to help, I think u have mistaken confidence for shamelessness

  • @alatishezaynabneearimiyaup9196
    @alatishezaynabneearimiyaup9196 4 роки тому +12

    May Allah bless u wth his Rahma amen.jazaakhallahum khaer Yaa Sheikh

  • @goodwords1696
    @goodwords1696 4 роки тому +19

    And He has made me blessed wherever I am | Surah Maryam 19:31]
    Insha Allah Good Words will upload remaining chapters soon. Alhamdulillah

  • @docoesmeralda7720
    @docoesmeralda7720 3 роки тому

    Alhamdullilah

  • @yasmeenkhan7890
    @yasmeenkhan7890 4 роки тому +6

    When it comes to explaining a matter of important fiqh,shaikh Yssir can be trusted with his beneficial knowledge

  • @ghousiakhan5623
    @ghousiakhan5623 4 роки тому +16

    Well said brother Yasir qadhi.

  • @hayatabdi12
    @hayatabdi12 3 роки тому

    Alhamdulillah , my mother called me hayat 🌼

  • @fatmawarda1639
    @fatmawarda1639 4 роки тому +16

    Masha Allah
    Great lecture
    Wear what make others say "Masha Allah " and not say " Astaghfirullah "

  • @rifatfarooque6390
    @rifatfarooque6390 4 роки тому +8

    Masha Allah

  • @kalamsha3044
    @kalamsha3044 3 роки тому +2

    Hayath - life of body
    Haya - life of soul
    subhanallah ❣

  • @sabahnawaz3141
    @sabahnawaz3141 3 роки тому

    this video made me compare my pre-pandemic lifestyle with my current lifestyle. and all i can say is that I'm grateful to Allah for giving me the sense and direction. pre-pandemic me is unrecognisable and embarrassing.

  • @faatimahdulymamode8476
    @faatimahdulymamode8476 3 роки тому +1

    Such a good and important khutbah!

  • @humaahmed6576
    @humaahmed6576 4 роки тому +8

    Please deliver a practical modesty mixing with friends and dinners,work etc

  • @aishaseid2813
    @aishaseid2813 4 роки тому +1

    Barakallahu Fik ya Aakhil galli

  • @learnwithumayoub3368
    @learnwithumayoub3368 4 роки тому +13

    ma shaa Allah beautiful topic

  • @muhammadhisham2798
    @muhammadhisham2798 4 роки тому +9

    Great speech. MashaAllah.

  • @nduxmaryam
    @nduxmaryam 4 роки тому +3

    JazakAllahu khairan sheikh. Thank you for this. I have learnt alot, how to guide my family as a parent and how to conduct myself in private as a muslim. May Allh guide us and forgive us for the sins we have committed in private. ...ameen.

  • @Nafshadow
    @Nafshadow 4 роки тому +6

    Al hamde li Allah. الحمد لله

  • @sana409
    @sana409 4 роки тому +3

    MashaAllah. May Allah reward you and all of us with with a home right under his Throne along with our Prophet peace be upon him.

  • @K-balance28
    @K-balance28 4 роки тому +1

    Remember Muslim Ummah in your duaa for iman ilm noor rizq barakah a blessed death place in Jannah Allahs Smile love for Prophet Muhammad SAWS & against Sihr problems issues we Are facing now & in the future incl Akhiraah. Ameen

  • @yuusufciise58
    @yuusufciise58 4 роки тому +5

    جزاك الله خيراً
    وحفظك الله من كل سوء

  • @osamarawal5887
    @osamarawal5887 4 роки тому +1

    Mashallah ❤❤❤

  • @iqrajan1496
    @iqrajan1496 4 роки тому +1

    Dr. Yasir qadhi 💞❣️💞❣️💞❣️

  • @AnasNebulous
    @AnasNebulous 4 роки тому +5

    Jazaka Allah khairan

  • @bayezidhtanu2907
    @bayezidhtanu2907 4 роки тому +5

    Alhamdulillah. Salam, Sir.
    Thank you for this good lecture.

  • @besttouchforheart2966
    @besttouchforheart2966 4 роки тому +3

    Jajakallah khairan

  • @Kamal_AL-Hinai
    @Kamal_AL-Hinai 4 роки тому +1

    Yasir Qadhi ❤️

  • @yellowsunflower6520
    @yellowsunflower6520 4 роки тому +3

    ماشاءالله برك الله ! جزاك الله !

  • @fasilatsanusi7431
    @fasilatsanusi7431 4 роки тому

    Oh Allah forgives and grant us pious spirit that does what is right.

  • @mrrobot5435
    @mrrobot5435 4 роки тому +2

    mashaAllah

  • @wasimcharity4all
    @wasimcharity4all 4 роки тому

    Indeed! another timely reminder !

  • @Stars.-_
    @Stars.-_ 4 роки тому +1

    Very balanced, full of information and complete Ma shaa Allah la quwwata illa billah. May Allah protect you Ameen

  • @abulbashar3504
    @abulbashar3504 3 роки тому

    Alhamdulillah. May Allah increase your knowledge.

  • @saadianoor3310
    @saadianoor3310 4 роки тому +1

    May Allah give you more knowledge to empower us with.Ameen

  • @marib7141
    @marib7141 4 роки тому +1

    Mashallah, a great talk 👍🏼

  • @sofiatarannum6012
    @sofiatarannum6012 3 роки тому

    Eye opener

  • @moimoimoi1339
    @moimoimoi1339 3 роки тому

    May Allah bless you. I really needed to watch this. =)

  • @caramela9198
    @caramela9198 4 роки тому +2

    I agree here but as a parent I am aware that I also have to teach my children the definition of hayaa. I always was told that having hayaa is to listen and obey the elder without listening to my own mind and standing for my own rights as a child and a women. When men speak I had to listen. When women judged I had to change. If I wanted to do something no neighbor was allowed to receive the news of it. I had to change this way of living by letting go this kind of hayaa to stand up for myself. There has to be a balans of having hayaa for people and standing up for yourself. This is what I teach to my children. I find it very complicated because people don't always appreciate it.

    • @Justme-vq8rx
      @Justme-vq8rx 4 роки тому

      Lol, people don't want you to fight for yourself because they want to abuse you. Simple. However fight for yourself doesn't mean being unfair with people, it simply means you do your best so that people respect those right God almighty gave you, and speaking your opinion is one of those rights, there so many story about that. Don't let people to walk on your feet simply because you're a woman, don't you know how the women of the time of the Prophet (pbuh) where behaving? They were modest, but they wouldn't hesitate to fight for their rights, for justice, for people, this is Islam.

    • @Justme-vq8rx
      @Justme-vq8rx 4 роки тому

      Islam is here so you can emancipate, and emancipation is not conform with the western value (like for a woman going almost naked in the street, shouting to get attention...), no, it's about you living a full life, like being respected as an individual, speaking to say what you have to in a respectful and a dignified way, the right to choose what you want for yourself as long as you're on the right path of Islam, saying no or asking question when things doesn't seem right (bc God gave you a brain, and it's not to use other's). Study Islam it's the best way not to get manipulated. And last thing if you fight your right do it intelligently, sincerely, with respect, and ask Allah to guide, and I'm saying that to you and me.

  • @mnizam84
    @mnizam84 4 роки тому +1

    Powerful reminder

  • @RB-fr1tg
    @RB-fr1tg 4 роки тому

    Masha Allah beautifully explained

  • @Goofydo
    @Goofydo 4 роки тому

    Thank You shaykh..

  • @hasiyadawud8678
    @hasiyadawud8678 4 роки тому

    Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.Masha Allah.This is a good topic to be share to all Muslims.May Allah SWT continue to Reward you with the Best in this World and the Hearafter.Allahumma amin.

  • @mohammd8125
    @mohammd8125 3 роки тому

    💖

  • @JaefarSABNW
    @JaefarSABNW 4 роки тому +1

    Or the East or even the harshest of Africa and Siberia for that matter.

  • @ramizsuljovic3434
    @ramizsuljovic3434 4 роки тому +2

    Selam

  • @biveksingh1510
    @biveksingh1510 3 роки тому

    💗💗💗💗💗

  • @aunginard8082
    @aunginard8082 7 місяців тому

    Someone give full nasheed link of starting not end

  • @CrunchyBall5
    @CrunchyBall5 4 роки тому +29

    If i have a baby and its a girl. Im naming her Haya

  • @ishikakhan4741
    @ishikakhan4741 3 роки тому

    0.19 what is the name of the nasheed?

  • @yusufmayo1537
    @yusufmayo1537 4 роки тому

    💝Alx

  • @truebeliever.2054
    @truebeliever.2054 3 роки тому

    Muslim that are telling other Muslims that haram clothes is low Iman, telling the truth are called narrow minded by the Munafiqs.

  • @adnanahmed9044
    @adnanahmed9044 4 роки тому +1

    Assalam u Alaikum...please also record the salah..:)

  • @MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams
    @MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams 4 роки тому

    Aslam WA Alaikum WA Rahmatullahi WA Barkatahu you right my brother about TV show had shifted since the 80s and 90s how much stuff I have to personally, meaning when I met with an American I’m a little bit easy when I am with an Arab or Muslim community I am the shyest person you could ever be around or Middle Eastern in stores I feel like I could crawl under the table or in restaurant my husband often comments he tells me we paid for it I think like Chameleon

  • @Muhammad_Waleed
    @Muhammad_Waleed 4 роки тому +3

    Fourth comment 😁😁😁😁😁😁

  • @truebeliever.2054
    @truebeliever.2054 3 роки тому

    Clear truth a Muslim is someone who submits his will to Allah, for those women and men that want their own type of Islam, Your not Allah, We Muslims will not let you mislead people into Your type of Islam, haram clothes is low Iman thats the truth.

  • @zubayergillarkyckling7832
    @zubayergillarkyckling7832 4 роки тому

    where can i read of manly haya??

  • @geeque4853
    @geeque4853 2 роки тому

    Brother Yasir Qadhi, Please do lecture on tabarruj and dayouth, we need it really ,if our scholars doesn't teach us about gheerah then who will?? I have seen there's alot of man and woman who don't even know what is protective jealousy is , we have family/friends gatherings and ppl talk to each other ,looking at each other ....

  • @sophiakhan1538
    @sophiakhan1538 4 роки тому +1

    Brother As Salam alikum may Allah swt bless you for your efforts. pls tell me how can I let a person knw I'm interested in marrying him while being in hayya .I'm a striving person in the path of Allah .pls reply me

    • @potgardeningu.k.81
      @potgardeningu.k.81 4 роки тому +1

      Ask Allah if he is good for me facilitate for me ..pray 2 rakah and then after tasbeeh and darud say dua of istikhara also read it's meaning ,it's beautiful and complete dua.....you are asking Allah inshallah He will guide your Heart in the right direction.

    • @mra3076
      @mra3076 4 роки тому +1

      Make Istikharah sister. Insha’Allah the Lord will answer your prayers.

    • @hayehaye5624
      @hayehaye5624 4 роки тому

      Tell them you’re not ready and they will get it

    • @kongshannice4488
      @kongshannice4488 4 роки тому +2

      Assalaamu'alaikum, sister Sophia. You may ask a person whom you know and really trust to be the middle person or a mediator for you and the brother you are interested to marry. The middle person can help to pass the message properly. May Allah subhana wa ta'ala make it easy for you to marry a good man, ameen..

    • @sophiakhan1538
      @sophiakhan1538 4 роки тому

      @@kongshannice4488 jazaak Allah khair but I dnt knw anyone in between who can convey my msg so pls pray fr me tht Allah swt put in his heart to marry me 😢😞.

  • @muktadiral-amin7437
    @muktadiral-amin7437 4 роки тому +1

    I've a question... may You'll answer it.... please I'm really frustrated about this...
    "" does Islam allow to had sex with slave without her permission?? if it is permissible to had sex with slave without her will/permission will not it be a rape?? "" (i already know the detonation of slave in islam by your video and mashallah you’ve cleared so many things but I haven’t found my answer in your video... hope that you will answer it) because this question and some thought is making distance between me and islam... I'm sorry, may Allah forgive me...i need to know the answer..
    help me please

    • @KamranSher
      @KamranSher 4 роки тому

      Brother you should listen to Professor Jonathan AC Brown leacture about slavery and Islam

    • @user-rp5ix9vk8d
      @user-rp5ix9vk8d 4 роки тому

      Rape is a form of harm and abuse. You are forbidden from abusing your wife or slave
      There's no word to accurately describe the Islamic slave, the mental picture and connotations of the word slave is not the same as what we generally know in English.

    • @_muhammadshahrukh_
      @_muhammadshahrukh_ 4 роки тому

      Asalam-o-alaikum,
      Here is the verse from Surah Nur that forbids forcing your slave into sex without their consent.
      " But let them who find not [the means for] marriage abstain [from sexual relations] until Allah enriches them from His bounty. And those who seek a contract [for eventual emancipation] from among whom your right hands possess - then make a contract with them if you know there is within them goodness and give them from the wealth of Allah which He has given you. And do not compel your slave girls to prostitution, if they desire chastity, to seek [thereby] the temporary interests of worldly life. And if someone should compel them, then indeed, Allah is [to them], after their compulsion, Forgiving and Merciful."
      - Quran, Surah Nur, Verse 33
      Here are also some useful links about these matters:
      - islamqa.info/en/answers/13737/what-is-the-ruling-on-intimacy-with-slave-women

  • @wisewords7924
    @wisewords7924 4 роки тому +1

    Please, sh Yasir try to speak softly , its bit harsh on ears.

  • @shariqahnur9628
    @shariqahnur9628 4 роки тому +2

    Parents are totally slack about monitering their kids tv and internet viewing and why would you give a cell phone for a small kid-its ridiculous. Majority of parents are doing a terrible job. Why would a kid even watch tv- typical negligence just sit kid in front of tv so you dont have to spent quality time with them. And most parents dont have islamic house holds anyway.

  • @zubayergillarkyckling7832
    @zubayergillarkyckling7832 4 роки тому

    you didnt go in depth in everyday life where you are forced to gender mix etc and how to reconsile

    • @Life-bt9yo
      @Life-bt9yo 4 роки тому +3

      If you hv haya when alone you'll naturally be bashful and careful with the opposite gender no?

    • @zubayergillarkyckling7832
      @zubayergillarkyckling7832 4 роки тому

      @@Life-bt9yo akhi you are forced to gender mix these days

    • @Life-bt9yo
      @Life-bt9yo 4 роки тому

      @@zubayergillarkyckling7832 Even if you're in a situation where you have to interract.. brother what i mean is if you have haya when alone as per the hadith because you're shy that Allah sees you crossing a line even when alone so u remain dignified then what's to say of a situation where people can see you and you're caught up interracting with the opposite gender. One should Control all that IS in one's control as best we can. Things that are not in our control we leave them to our Rabb.

    • @Life-bt9yo
      @Life-bt9yo 4 роки тому

      @@zubayergillarkyckling7832 Of course more in depth discussion on the topic would be beneficial I agree.

    • @zubayergillarkyckling7832
      @zubayergillarkyckling7832 4 роки тому

      @@Life-bt9yo True but another issue I hoped he touched upon was considering how important haya is in Islam, to what exent should my Geerah be when my wife is forced to interact with males or even casually since its so normalised. Can one be a good muslimah but in the same time mix and what should our attitiued be towards such? Problems like this

  • @magicalgold010
    @magicalgold010 4 роки тому +6

    Yes but the full hijab or burqa is not necessarily part of haya. You can cover your aura without them. Alhamdulilah

    • @lifeisatestatemporaryworld4368
      @lifeisatestatemporaryworld4368 4 роки тому +4

      But it is, the quran clearly talks about khimar which means head covering and says to extend it over the chest area.

    • @irinah6174
      @irinah6174 4 роки тому +3

      The aura is obligatory, so full hijab is necessary.

    • @danoneall4013
      @danoneall4013 4 роки тому +2

      The Qur'an clearly states you have to wear/have hijab
      Niqab is a choice

    • @fahimaahmadi591
      @fahimaahmadi591 4 роки тому

      Complete haya =
      1. Modesty in speech
      2. Modesty in behaviour
      3. Modesty in clothing (i.e. hijab)
      4. Modesty in our worship

    • @wheelfan100
      @wheelfan100 4 роки тому

      @@danoneall4013 you don't have to wear hijab wearing the headscarf is open declaration of your Islam in public its not fard to announce your Islam to the world so hijab modest clothing is fard but not clothing that gives your religion away

  • @yuusufciise58
    @yuusufciise58 4 роки тому +5

    Masha Allah

  • @sitwatfarid1802
    @sitwatfarid1802 4 роки тому +4

    Jazak Allah khair