I grew up around alcoholics and became one myself. This song put into words everything I experienced, and the experiences I put others through. Thank you so much for this song, it's beautiful.
I often feel that songs can romanticise addiction/alcoholism somewhat. This is one of the first I’ve heard that has a brutal honesty to it. My father is a violent drunk and there’s nothing romantic or poetic about it
Ugly cried when i heard a preview of this on tiktok months ago. The full version made me cry even more lol. Child of addicts/alcoholics, always worried I'm going to accidentally stumble down that same path.
As a person in recovery with 5 years clean, this hit hard from the moment I heard the preview. Especially dealing with a partner in active addiction at the time. This song was written very tactfully, and I will always adore it. It's literally my song of 2024
Words can’t describe how much this song reaches me, it’s so hard to feel this way about someone, and it’s so hard not to constantly feel guilty about feeling this way, but I know that it’s not my fault I feel this way, I just wish life didn’t get so fucked sometimes
As a current alcoholic, Baby I’m so fucking sorry that we’re so condemned to rot. Also thank you for standing firm along the rest of us that don’t deserve you
You are so goin to love living life without drinking. You can still do crazy sh!+ but you will avoid the stupid $h!t. And remember it. Celebrate your sobriety every single day by doing something that makes you happy. Sing loud in the shower, go for a swim somewhere beautiful, eat the chocolate cake! Stay strong, stay blessed and stay true. Love yourself more. I promise you won't regret it.
who ever you are, i love you. i don't care what you did, what you have seen. It's ok. life is tough but you are not bot alone. i cry my myself to sleep every night cursing myself. You are not alone. There are many people like you, still haven't gave up so be brave. it will eventually go away. so... so love your self because we love you
Amazing! Two really beautiful and unique voices that make magic when they come together together! Cool arrangements! Nice 90ies feeling… Violent Femmes / Moldy Peaches… Love it!😍
As someone who has dealt with addicts as a child, was(is, i am in recovery 13 years) an addict throughout my entire teen years til 18. I know i hurt a lot of people during that time. And still to this day having to cut ties with addicts i care about for my own mental wellbeing. The thing addicts need to understand is that the harm we cause is real, and no one needs to listen to us, forgive us, or let us back in 🤷🏻♀️ i love this song! So raw and real.
So wild how some like you started so early and are long out by 30. My addiction has been going since 24, i didn’t start early, but I’m 31 now and it’s back on, again. I’ve had sobriety up to 8 months time and time again, i envy you guys who got out so early. As someone with very bad PTSD sometimes it’s incredibly hard for me to not numb my mind, i see the same images over, and over, and over. It never leaves me, and I’m trying my best, but sometimes alcohol/drugs feel like my only escape.
@tadertot10 it sounds so strange, because as an addict, I was an IV user, every day, I was drinking and doing other substances along with everything and almost died a couple times. Terrible things were happening to me and around me. And looking back I think starting so young is what saved me...and that's weird to say because it's also what wrecked me. My growing mind and body all developing around all these substances is not what is supposed to happen, ya know. It left me with lasting damage. But I still feel grateful because I feel like had I started later in life I don't know if I would have had the strength to stop. And I say that even knowing a lot of adults who have overcome their addiction and got clean despite this. But I just feel like for myself personally, being numb all those years helped me get through a lot of traumatic stuff. So now, as an adult, I am still unpacking A LOT of trauma, but I have had the time to learn tools on how to handle it without jumping back into substances. Where as if I was sober during all that trauma and then started using as an adult and realized how these substances made it easier to cope. I feel like i wouldn't have stopped. Perhaps it goes back to how kids are resilient or whatever. Maybe that gives an added willpower to younger addicts that adults struggle with more 🤷🏻♀️ I don't want to say that as a blanket statement, though, because every addict is different, of course! Just thinking out loud is all. I wish you well and hope that you are able to find healing and recovery! It is possible and real. I hope it happens for you. I wish it for everyone suffering right now 💙 Also wanted to add that I was fortunate to have sober support. And that really helped make things stick. I also had a child about a year into my soberity i got pregnant. And after being around addicts as a child, and still dealing with some trauma from that, it really has helped me stick to my recovery. I never want my child to see me like that. Another reason i feel sort of lucky that my addiction started so young because it allowed me to be a sober parent as an adult. Again, this is only lucky for me because I was fortunate to survive. Most of my friends did not. I'm just looking for a brightside in a very dark place
omg this is brand new? This fell right out of mid 2000s indie rock, I swear you just found this in the center console of my beat up 90s Corolla between a Fountains of Wayne album and a dead Nokia phone.
Saw yall before Boy With Uke last night and y’all killed it 🙌🏻❤️😎 I’m 42 years old, had my stepson there for his first concert, and I just subscribed to your channel. Keep pouring your hearts out, make yourselves artistically vulnerable in the way 99.9% will never try, and the sky’s the limit. You are genuinely talented, put the work in.
I work with Teenager of drug taking parents from all over the world. They really like this Song! German, Afghan, Syrian, African, Roma… Music is the Universal Language as we can see.
You’re in my head!❤ I heard this song (the other video) the first time a week ago, maybe. For days now, you’ve been playing in my head: duck that shut that mouth you’re always talking talking… it’s sososososo soooooooooo good. So good 🥰❤️
I'm glad this is out. I recently had to end an 8-year friendship because her alcoholism just got too much. And by staying I was enabling her And if I truly loved her and wanted her to get better, I can't continue to enable her. I miss her so much. We were girls together.
Brilliant lyrics and coordination and exchange of your voices. In this song you used all of that so wonderfully, I am so looking forward to more music from you in future :D
I’ve been watching you guys grow and loving your music since the beginning. this song feels like you wrote it for my current situation. I love and appreciate you guys, and would worship you even if you never dropped another song ugh live laugh love hey nothing
Hey guys, hopefully ya see this but I love yalls tunes. Listening to them I feel younger again, and God how I congratulate and thank you for allowing that even if for 3 minutes. Thank you fellers, shits absolutely grand.
So glad I discovered you guys. Your music is refreshing to hear in this day and age of AI, auto tune, and more. Guitar, drums, great voices, harmonies and meaningful, relatable lyrics. This is music.
whatever you do don’t stop pushing for whatever you want out of this thing because your putting real shit out its catchy full of substance and best part is you look like us your not bieber or swift your everybody else and why do I wanna listen to what the golden ticket has to say ?they don’t have a fucking clue you guys do. awesome stuff
I love this song so so much!! It’s so relatable to a point in my life right now and it’s just the vibe I needed to continue my healing process. I LOVE YOU GUYS!! Please keep making music it truly deserves the attention! 🫶🫶
Hey I just saw you guys open at the Boywithuke concert last night and asked you for your autographs on my phone! I think your music was definitely one of my favorite parts about the concert!
Hey nothing 🫶 you are playing my heart strings & rattling my bones. The film cliip - reading your story/window gazing/hearing you sing the feelings... "Don't need a ladder to know the truth"... Felt that. Thank you. l will not be the same...F*cking love it... 💗
I may not relate as much since I didn’t grow up around addicts, but I have dealt with and still deal with verbal abuse, and these lyrics hit home for me. My favorite line in particular is the “Look me in the eyes and say I’m wrong - well, I’m not wrong.” Reminds me of how I internally feel after being guilt tripped and gaslit. Also, keep up this amazing work! Been following you guys for at least a year and been hooked on you ever since! Harlow and Tyler, you both genuinely mean the world to me :)
Also, I’m having one of the most stressful and overwhelming weeks of my life, so this is helping me cope a bit with the anger and bottled up emotions I have. Thanks for this beautiful masterpiece
I grew up around alcoholics and became one myself. This song put into words everything I experienced, and the experiences I put others through. Thank you so much for this song, it's beautiful.
I hope you're doing better!
Ur profile picture is top teir
Yeah it definitely sings a good message for the people that have taken on too much from the unhealed :/ I love it
same :( never grown upw alcohoics but i am wone (drunk rn acfjaly) i hope one day i canrevicer i hate thaey i put people they this
@@All-ze9clI’m glad you asked. We need to look out for one another
“Don’t bother putting me in one of your twelve steps” is a great line.
I often feel that songs can romanticise addiction/alcoholism somewhat. This is one of the first I’ve heard that has a brutal honesty to it. My father is a violent drunk and there’s nothing romantic or poetic about it
Ugly cried when i heard a preview of this on tiktok months ago. The full version made me cry even more lol. Child of addicts/alcoholics, always worried I'm going to accidentally stumble down that same path.
hell this resonates with me, and I'm the child of narcicists
Finally a song that speaks to us, with the details that we know about
Our anthem ❤
The part where your both singing different lyrics is sooo amazing and your voices go together so well!
A lot of people have no idea how hard that is lol
It is beautifully magical! ✨ Thank you for bringing it up ❤
I needed this song in 2004. Glad it’s here in 2024 for me to play 100k times overandoverandover.
😍😎😍
im literally so fucking happy this song is out and will proceed to ugly cry listening to it all night.
Brother same this is like the 8th time tonight i played it
As a person in recovery with 5 years clean, this hit hard from the moment I heard the preview. Especially dealing with a partner in active addiction at the time. This song was written very tactfully, and I will always adore it. It's literally my song of 2024
Everyone out there knowing exactly what this is about and how it feels, I hope we all find some peace ❤
Thankful. I hope the same for you as well.
Words can’t describe how much this song reaches me, it’s so hard to feel this way about someone, and it’s so hard not to constantly feel guilty about feeling this way, but I know that it’s not my fault I feel this way, I just wish life didn’t get so fucked sometimes
As a current alcoholic,
Baby I’m so fucking sorry that we’re so condemned to rot.
Also thank you for standing firm along the rest of us that don’t deserve you
I'm going to stop binge drinking tonight because of your song. Thank you.
I'm rooting for you ❤
Praying for you tonight, stranger... If you're not religious, just think of it positive thoughts that put money in the bank.
You are so goin to love living life without drinking. You can still do crazy sh!+ but you will avoid the stupid $h!t. And remember it. Celebrate your sobriety every single day by doing something that makes you happy. Sing loud in the shower, go for a swim somewhere beautiful, eat the chocolate cake! Stay strong, stay blessed and stay true. Love yourself more. I promise you won't regret it.
I listen to alot of music. @2:03 - @2:30 is one of the best things I've ever heard in my life.
From Japan, awesome sound, tune, lyrics and flow!!!😊
who ever you are, i love you. i don't care what you did, what you have seen. It's ok. life is tough but you are not bot alone. i cry my myself to sleep every night cursing myself. You are not alone. There are many people like you, still haven't gave up so be brave. it will eventually go away. so... so love your self because we love you
love you too
Love you to 😢
Whoever you are, there needs to be more people like you ❤
Thank you!!!
Your not alone
Amazing! Two really beautiful and unique voices that make magic when they come together together! Cool arrangements! Nice 90ies feeling… Violent Femmes / Moldy Peaches… Love it!😍
Such a good vibe that hasn’t been hit so perfectly since the 90s. It’s gorgeous! I can’t get enough of this song right now ❤
i cant stop listening to this song! its great
As someone who has dealt with addicts as a child, was(is, i am in recovery 13 years) an addict throughout my entire teen years til 18. I know i hurt a lot of people during that time. And still to this day having to cut ties with addicts i care about for my own mental wellbeing. The thing addicts need to understand is that the harm we cause is real, and no one needs to listen to us, forgive us, or let us back in 🤷🏻♀️ i love this song! So raw and real.
So wild how some like you started so early and are long out by 30. My addiction has been going since 24, i didn’t start early, but I’m 31 now and it’s back on, again. I’ve had sobriety up to 8 months time and time again, i envy you guys who got out so early. As someone with very bad PTSD sometimes it’s incredibly hard for me to not numb my mind, i see the same images over, and over, and over. It never leaves me, and I’m trying my best, but sometimes alcohol/drugs feel like my only escape.
@tadertot10 it sounds so strange, because as an addict, I was an IV user, every day, I was drinking and doing other substances along with everything and almost died a couple times. Terrible things were happening to me and around me. And looking back I think starting so young is what saved me...and that's weird to say because it's also what wrecked me. My growing mind and body all developing around all these substances is not what is supposed to happen, ya know. It left me with lasting damage. But I still feel grateful because I feel like had I started later in life I don't know if I would have had the strength to stop. And I say that even knowing a lot of adults who have overcome their addiction and got clean despite this. But I just feel like for myself personally, being numb all those years helped me get through a lot of traumatic stuff. So now, as an adult, I am still unpacking A LOT of trauma, but I have had the time to learn tools on how to handle it without jumping back into substances. Where as if I was sober during all that trauma and then started using as an adult and realized how these substances made it easier to cope. I feel like i wouldn't have stopped. Perhaps it goes back to how kids are resilient or whatever. Maybe that gives an added willpower to younger addicts that adults struggle with more 🤷🏻♀️ I don't want to say that as a blanket statement, though, because every addict is different, of course! Just thinking out loud is all.
I wish you well and hope that you are able to find healing and recovery! It is possible and real. I hope it happens for you. I wish it for everyone suffering right now 💙
Also wanted to add that I was fortunate to have sober support. And that really helped make things stick. I also had a child about a year into my soberity i got pregnant. And after being around addicts as a child, and still dealing with some trauma from that, it really has helped me stick to my recovery. I never want my child to see me like that. Another reason i feel sort of lucky that my addiction started so young because it allowed me to be a sober parent as an adult. Again, this is only lucky for me because I was fortunate to survive. Most of my friends did not. I'm just looking for a brightside in a very dark place
It's so great to see you guys achieving your dreams and feed our souls while you're at it
omg this is brand new? This fell right out of mid 2000s indie rock, I swear you just found this in the center console of my beat up 90s Corolla between a Fountains of Wayne album and a dead Nokia phone.
Now I know you’re fibbing…A dead Nokia? Impossible
Saw yall before Boy With Uke last night and y’all killed it 🙌🏻❤️😎
I’m 42 years old, had my stepson there for his first concert, and I just subscribed to your channel. Keep pouring your hearts out, make yourselves artistically vulnerable in the way 99.9% will never try, and the sky’s the limit. You are genuinely talented, put the work in.
I work with Teenager of drug taking parents from all over the world. They really like this Song! German, Afghan, Syrian, African, Roma… Music is the Universal Language as we can see.
"how many times you're gonna hear that song?"
Me: yes
Wish i could like this 10 times. So damn good
You’re in my head!❤ I heard this song (the other video) the first time a week ago, maybe. For days now, you’ve been playing in my head: duck that shut that mouth you’re always talking talking… it’s sososososo soooooooooo good. So good 🥰❤️
I’ve been counting down the days for this song to be released. And lemme tell ya, it was worth it 👏❤️
Saw you guys on tiktok and shared with all my friends. You guys are just our type of music. I love the midwest emo 2010s sound.
Why does it feel like I've known this song my whole life?
I think I've listened to this song (this and the live version) maybe 50 times so far this week.
Mainer here with two addict parents, thank you for making this
You guys are awesome! Found a new favorite band!
I wish I could formulate the words to what this means to me. When you go famous, all us OGs need Tshirts ❤
I'm glad this is out. I recently had to end an 8-year friendship because her alcoholism just got too much. And by staying I was enabling her And if I truly loved her and wanted her to get better, I can't continue to enable her. I miss her so much. We were girls together.
I'm addicted to this song❤️🔥
Brilliant lyrics and coordination and exchange of your voices.
In this song you used all of that so wonderfully, I am so looking forward to more music from you in future :D
On loop! ❤On point!❤️
What An absolute amazing song ❤❤❤❤❤😊
I’ve been watching you guys grow and loving your music since the beginning. this song feels like you wrote it for my current situation. I love and appreciate you guys, and would worship you even if you never dropped another song ugh live laugh love hey nothing
Have a sibling who struggles with drug addiction and also has BPD. This song is so relatable.
the acoustic version is my favorite, i think it fits this song way more. Glad i discovered you either way!
This is the most amazing song I’ve heard in a long time
Hey guys, hopefully ya see this but I love yalls tunes. Listening to them I feel younger again, and God how I congratulate and thank you for allowing that even if for 3 minutes. Thank you fellers, shits absolutely grand.
I honestly can't remember subscribing but I'm so glad I did because this is such a bop
Love it. Reminds me of jamming with my buddy in college. We even played a few shows.
Ohhh, almost tipping!! But wait! Still floating! Alright!!
I love this song so much, but a full raw and acoustic version would be so amazing lovely beautiful
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I want to dedicate this song to myself
I saw a slower version on IG. Both tempo's are sweet.
I love this so much. I was an alcoholic up until 4 years ago.
❤
Literally can feel ur music in my soul homie keep it up y’all are absolutely amazing!!!
Recently discovered you two…in awe at your talents…this song and “Maine” are both beautiful beyond words ❤️
Much love from up in Canada ❤️
actually one of the greatest songs
I like this a lot!!!
So glad I discovered you guys. Your music is refreshing to hear in this day and age of AI, auto tune, and more. Guitar, drums, great voices, harmonies and meaningful, relatable lyrics. This is music.
Love this song sooo much!! 🥰
Just realized has brand new vibes ❤
Awesome, just awesome.
Bravo. This is music with real heart.
whatever you do don’t stop pushing for whatever you want out of this thing because your putting real shit out its catchy full of substance and best part is you look like us your not bieber or swift your everybody else and why do I wanna listen to what the golden ticket has to say ?they don’t have a fucking clue you guys do. awesome stuff
This song reminds me of something I’d listen to in like 2014 in the best way possible
Really brings me back even though it's brand new lol
@@SailorJenny seriously lol it reminds me of like Manchester orchestra mixed with like Connor oberest or something. their hooks are also soo good.
Your best song yet. The mixture between your voices is perfectly balanced and is effing magical
Wow, didn't expect such mature lyrics from such 2 young talents. Incredible work!
new favorite band, holy shit youre amazing
You boys are gonna do great things!!
So glad I stumbled upon you on insta, I've been listening to this song on repeat for the last couple of days. Keep at it ✌️
Greetings from austria 🇦🇹
The acoustic version is pretty radical, would recommend checking it out if you like this
this is straight out fantastic! thank you
I've listened to this song at minimum once a day since it came out. 😅
Second day in a row one is these songs popped up, and they were both great! 😊
I love this song so so much!! It’s so relatable to a point in my life right now and it’s just the vibe I needed to continue my healing process. I LOVE YOU GUYS!! Please keep making music it truly deserves the attention! 🫶🫶
Hey I just saw you guys open at the Boywithuke concert last night and asked you for your autographs on my phone! I think your music was definitely one of my favorite parts about the concert!
🤘absolutely killer
IM KEEPING MY HANDS CLEAN !!!!!!!!! 🗣️🗣️
From artist to artist Thankyou for this, I’ve been going through this situation and literally came across this song couldn’t say it better 🤘
That hit harder than I would have liked.. thanks for the 2:30am cry.
Always amazing to get a new song from you guys :) Love the tone in this one
The resurgence of expressive, honest heartcentric music! Props fam! 🙏
One like from France 👍
Such a beautiful song. thank you for making this masterpiece
This is a Masterpiece. Thank you guys
OBSESSED
I just found you!! 🤘 Keep on rockin' in the (somewhat) FREE WORLD! 💜
I’m so disappointed I missed their Atlanta show 😢
Been listening to this non stop all week. The lead Reminds me a little of the Gravity Falls theme song. I love it! 🤠💙
Killin it. Come to Denver. I’ll come out. ❤
i freaking loove this song
This was so amazing! I’ve been following you guys for a while, and you guys are getting so good
really dope, im loving how youtube is pushing up and coming artist!
Takes a real soul too understand ✅✍️🔥
incredible work
I love this so much. New music FTW
this is gravity falls meets lo-fi. keep killing it.
I will be blaring this while driving through the hills of Solon ME!
This kinda music helps me so much 💙💙💙
Hey nothing 🫶 you are playing my heart strings & rattling my bones. The film cliip - reading your story/window gazing/hearing you sing the feelings... "Don't need a ladder to know the truth"... Felt that. Thank you. l will not be the same...F*cking love it... 💗
Where can I go to see you play live? I really, REALLY, would LOVE to see you all play live.
Saludos desde España 🇪🇦🤘🏻
I may not relate as much since I didn’t grow up around addicts, but I have dealt with and still deal with verbal abuse, and these lyrics hit home for me. My favorite line in particular is the “Look me in the eyes and say I’m wrong - well, I’m not wrong.” Reminds me of how I internally feel after being guilt tripped and gaslit.
Also, keep up this amazing work! Been following you guys for at least a year and been hooked on you ever since! Harlow and Tyler, you both genuinely mean the world to me :)
Also, I’m having one of the most stressful and overwhelming weeks of my life, so this is helping me cope a bit with the anger and bottled up emotions I have. Thanks for this beautiful masterpiece
I watch this video every time I need motivation to work out. Makes me wanna get fit AND fight my ex lmao
Boom! Nice guys!
I love this. I lost my mother to an addiction of all sorts of pills. I wish I had the nerve to call her out on all of the lies.
Just found you guys, love all your work.
This song is fantastic