Saying Goodbye to my Dad
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
- This video hurts to make. Please hear my Father's story, and learn how to comfort someone who is grieving, and if you are grieving then please accept these tips on how to navigate your way through it.
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what kind of cruel people would dislike a video about a man's heartfelt speech about his father? the things that some of the people in the world do absolutely disgust me sometimes.
They just didn’t like it i guess that’s what the like and dislike button are there for some people just don’t see the good that a video like this actually shows
The dislike count rarely has much to do with what people like. Some people just enjoy being 'mean.' They feel powerful because they clicked a thumb on the internet.
But the truth is that these people are usually suffering and unhappy, too.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your Community will always be here for you.
However you feel right now know that we're here for you man
We are here for you Franco!
We are all here for you! Condolences and greetings from switzerland.
Hey it’s Max. Brother, I’m incredibly sorry for your loss. Words can’t really express it..what I will say is that this is the bravest, most honest, heartfelt video I’ve ever seen. I’m here.
All 27 thousand of us are here for you man
Hi, Franco. I'm Sergio, the guy who got an ACL rupture who watches your streams. I don't know if you remember me.
I lost my dad in October 12th of 2020. He got hit by a car while working. It was a sudden death. I feel you. Maybe not the same scenario. But I feel you, I couldn't say I love you like you did. I said "I love you" while he was laying on the ground and I didn't know if he was still alive, I don't think so, but I like to think he was.
I'm here for you. One of your viewers. I'm not just a digit on UA-cam, I'm a human being, I'm here. Take care.
Also... He saved the life of a young man who was in the accident too. He pushed him out of the car's way. My dad was the only life lost in this accident. I miss him. I miss him so much.
Thank you for reading and sharing.
As someone who has attempted suicide I can say no one knew anything when I attempted to take my own life and I'm glad I also failed because it does get better it's always there as mental health is a serious illness and I still have bad days now but I cope better with it ! i am so sorry for the loss and pain you are feeling right now 😥 RIP to your Dad 💙
Hey, something else - for the viewers, not Fracno. If you can't donate, there is another option: share the video on social media. If only half of his 27,000 subscribers share it, and even 2% of those shares resulted in a $10 donation, he'd hit his goal.
Saying something is good. Doing something is better.
R.I.P a good man, may his soul rest in peace
From how you've described, he seems like he was a great man
I want you to know I’m here for you if you want to make an entire video on your best memories of your father.
How can you dislike this
My mother suddenly committed suicide in 07. Completely out of the blue (she had bipolar & schizophrenia). Also no signs of suicide.
There are no words, "I'm sorry" doesn't convey my empathy towards your situation-as you mentioned in the video, it just empty. These are some good practices that others will hopefully emulate.
Fracno, man. I'm so fucking sorry dude.
Just know Jesus love u, and if u need someone to talk to I’m always here for u man.
4 min in and I've already had to step away twice. nothing you could've done brother. stay strong and I love you buddy :sadge:
I absolutely love how supportive his fans are fr. May his father rest in peace. 😢😢😢😢😢
I lost my dad when i was little im 17 now and my best advice is dont think about them being gone think about the happy times they gave you
This video genuinely hurt to watch in the best way possible. Thank you for telling this story. Your story will be in the back of all of our minds. Respect.
My father died of cancer and that was painful enough, but in that case we knew it was going to happen, but to have it happen suddenly one day must have been really hard on you
Like I'm seriously amazed how beautifully you did this.. stay strong and keep your head up.
Im sorry for your loss I know how hard it is. Im only 18 and I lose my dad a year ago. He never made it to my 18th birthday or my graduation. I think about him everyday
Heya, so I lost my mother when I was 12. I went to therapy for a better part of my teen-hood. It really changed my perspective on life and introduced a lot of insecurities that I still can't really shake 15 years later. I've found peace in writing my intrusive thoughts and asking my family members for memories like you've mentioned. Nothing is out of the ordinary when coping. If it makes you feel better than do so and hold on to it.
The only way to remember him, is to talk about him. Grow strong bud.
I know what it's like, I send I my deepest condolences. Lost my dad to suicide some 14 years again, when I was 12, and to this day, it still affects me. That never ending thought of "what if" lingers. I know the pain will never go away, in time it will hurt less. If you ever need some to talk to about this, don't hesitate to ask me. I'll try to help as best I can.
You Dad was one of my best friends. I'm really sorry for your loss. A big hug!!!
Damn well I hope you can recover losing someone is terrible I recently lost some but you can definitely make it through all though I feel sorry deeply and I know losing someone can hurt it probably hurts more losing someone to suicide
Your father is proud of you brother just remember that man
We are all proud of you
So sorry, man. I lost my brother, my only sibling, to suicide, and I went through all the communication issues you are now facing. The “he’s in a better place now” ones were especially unwelcome, seeing as I’m not religious nor have I ever eluded to believing in an afterlife. But like you said, no words can really help, you just have to be around people you love and give yourself time to process the pain, find an outlet for it, and sob your eyes out. After my brother died, I would drive my car out somewhere and literally scream.
You’ll never be the same, and that’s OKAY. It means that that person had a profound effect on your life. It means that they meant something to you, and they will be remembered - which is what so many of us ultimately want. I still tear up when I think about my brother for more than a brief moment, even 8 years later. I wouldn’t want that to change. But with each day it does get easier. Promise.
Your a great dude fracno I recently lost my dad just a few days back on Mother’s Day and he was 56 as well he had battled luekemia
I know how you feel man. My dad committed suicide 2 years ago. It was very sudden and unexpected. I was also extremely close to him. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about it
so sorry for your loss. hope your okay now 🖤
That's just awful, I'm so sorry about your dad. May his memory be eternal . My father in-law was such a good friend to me, he was amazing, and showed me how to be a good dad, in 2019 he developed a blood clot and collapsed at home. I tried giving him CPR and it just didn't work. My wife and I both tried CPR but it just wasn't meant to be. Just remember that it's not your fault, he was suffering in ways that we just cannot know. I'm so sorry again.
Sending my love brother
I’m so sorry for your loss; I lost my dad in 2019 (he died from the flu) and it was one of the worst things for me. He had depression and sometimes I wonder if he had given up, but I’ll never know.
My husband struggles with depression and actually I noticed signs once when he had a plan. He’s told me just me being there helps and listening to him, as well as just trying to help distract during a time when he’s really low. Talking to people and being a friend are really important. Depression is awful and I wish mental health was taken more seriously and prioritized. Thinking of you.
Well said. For someone wanting to say something to comfort the survivors, if you knew the deceased, you can share a story/memory you have of the person who passed. I found it comforting to hear stories from people who knew them and it may be your only chance to hear them.
Missed the stream, but very appreciative that you shared your story. He seems like such a great man from the way you speak about him. I'm sending you good energy as you continue to navigate through it.
eh em... "you call that a knife?" "this is a knife"...
Hey man hope your feeling better.
Saying I'm sorry isn't enough. I hope you can take solace in the help your giving people by raising awareness.
I have not lost either of my parent's, but I have lost all of my grandparents whom I was close to; I can understand how empty you feel and loss of direction you feel. There are no perfect words during a loss to make magically feel better. But we want to support you and be someone to just listen to you letting out the hurt. I hope the count of full views shows that we care for you, your well-being, your mental health through this and later on. Stay strong, and continue to dump those feelings on those you can trust.
I can't even imagine the pain you are going through... I have had suicidal thoughts many time before, and this hit home for me. If there is anything I can do to help, I would love to. I am once more so sorry for your loss and I hope you find your way again.
Sorry Fracno. Take your time and heal. We’re never alone even though part of the human condition is we feel that way sometimes. Condolences.
I’m sorry for your loss brother I lost my grandpa early this year and it was tough man but thank you for your service and your dad will be in my prayers and many others love you Franco🙏🏼🕊
Siento mucho tu perdida. Mi mas sentido pesame a la familia.
You are a wonderful human being and your not alone
Fuck man, I know I’m new here but you will get through this. You will make it bro, it gets better after a bit. I promise man, we are all here for you. Stay strong
Im deeply saddened for your loss... I’m so sorry...
I am truly sorry for your loss man.. He is in a better place now.
I am sorry for your loss. I lost my mother suddenly in her sleep. She was an undiagnosed diabetic and we never knew, she had a diabetic ketoacidtosis in her sleep. I feel everything you feel my friend, we're here for you and I appreciate everything you've done. I'll never stop thinking of her and missing her. You're not alone.
I am so sorry for your loss. The courage you have to make this video is admirable. My deepest condolences
im very sorry for your loss but we are with you bro
Im so sorry for you loss brother.
R.I.P
I was 19 when my dad died and at that time it was the first lost I’d ever had and for awhile I was very angry, at the world at him for us having unfinished business at god for taking him from me but the years went on and I realized that my dad was in my whole childhood and I’m blessed for that and I’m the man I am today because of him and he made me a man and since then I have lost a son among other family members and I can tell u now that it doesn’t get easier but u start to think more abt the happy memories instead of the bad ones and u realize that they will always have a special place in ur heart and I dk if this helps u at all but if it does then I’ve done my job for the day because all the lost I’ve had in my life made me promise myself that I would b a better man tomorrow then I was today so I hope u can take something from this and if u need to talk reach out bud
What people say to someone who has suffered a tragedy doesn't matter. It's the fact that they said it that mattered.
That's me saying something, by the way. You're doing it right.
May you find peace.
Thank you for making this and being open and sharing your life with us. I love you so much man and I am sincerely so sorry for you and your families loss. I am always here for you if you need anything.
Sorry for your loss bro, Apr 23 one of my Marines LCpl Joey Manrique did the same thing. Shit sucks brother but you’re not alone, same thing with my Marine he had stuff going on but when talked to about it he had seemed as he always did. He didn’t show any signs either that any of us could find. Sometimes their decision to do this is weeks, even months in advanced. Try not to put any blame on yourself about it Franco
I am sorry for your loss.
You are an incredibly strong person for being able to present this to us so efficiently, and I’m terribly sorry for your loss, it breaks my heart to see you like this. Keep your head up, king. 💙
RIP
Sending you so much love man. I'm so sorry for your loss. I struggle with some really serious mental health issues after my time in the service. Thanks for sharing your dad's story with us. We all need to be OK talking about these issues. There's no magic fix of course, but people who don't suffer from serious mental health issues or know anyone that does in their immediate circle just don't understand. Thanks for spreading awareness with what I know is an amazingly difficult and painful experience.
We are here for you.
So so sorry for you're loss man 😥💙🎮💚🤝🏻 here for you
Sorry for your loss bro *hugs
My condolences go to you and your family I am so sorry you have to go through this
Rest in peace.
So so sorry for your loss man
It hurts for me to know about the news. I am sorry for your loss. I too lost my dad due to a heart attack when I was 16 and I wish I could tell you how I wish our dads could live longer but what has happened, happened. I wish for you to really not touch any things that could mess up your conscience or mental health because we really need to be strong right now for the upcoming phase. I am sorry if I could not be any softer with my words but truth is we need to move on even though the memory hurts so much right now. What is grief, if not love persevering ? By the way, you have gained quite some weight ; keep your stress level or depression level in check, my dude. I know you can get through this !
My condolences, I hope you get through these rough times. This hit hard.
so sorry for your loss❤
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story and opening so so many eyes. Rest in peace to a great man, and I wish you and your family a lot of strength
Thank you for making this video. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss, ❤️
May his soul rest in peace
I'm sorry for your loss
All of my condolences go out to you man. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. Stay strong!
im so sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss. :(
Im so sorry for your loss 😢
My condolences for your loss.
Rest in Peace :( I wish you the best!
stay strong brother much love 💚
My condolences.
Sorry 💔 for your loss rest in peace
I am so sorry for your loss man. Your dad seemed like an amazing and loving person. Thank you for sharing. You are so brave and I know this video will help others who need it.
sorry for your loss brother. losing a parent is one of the hardest things that can happen to a person, I hope you can get through this. R.I.P papa tuto.
You are so strong for doing this.. just know that we are all here for you. Keep your head up buddy
My condolences 🙏
A beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing a little bit of Tuto with the world
So sorry for your loss. Your community is here for you. Sending you love the love and good vibes I can muster.
Love you Franco
Rest in Peace. im crying my eyes out that was beautiful (I don't know if that's the right word for it)
Sorry for your loss. Tough topic. Very helpful advice on how to deal with someone who has lost someone close. You are a very good person.
No stone left unturned, this video said a lot and got my thinking of my own relationship with my dad.
Even though I only knew you for a short time during AIT, this really hit me hard. I'm sorry for your loss and wish nothing but the best for you and your family through this tough time.
Hopefully u feel better buddy . Love you . Stay strong
Condolences
Love you homie. Powerful video
Love you guys 💜 this video was beautiful
I'm sorry for your loss.
I suffer from depression as well, and I wish for the best for you and your family.
RIP Tuto 🙏 you have my prayers fracno