5 Tricks to STOP Being a "NICE GUY"

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  • @howtobeast
    @howtobeast  5 років тому +437

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    • @Adrian-zu6tm
      @Adrian-zu6tm 5 років тому +12

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    • @rivi9576
      @rivi9576 5 років тому +2

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    • @Dave-xe6zu
      @Dave-xe6zu 5 років тому +2

      Hey David!!! I met a girl while going out and we exchanged numbers so I texted her and she replied and said shes down to hang out but she said she warns .e that shes always busy so its hard for her to plans dates. She only gets fridays and saturdays every now and then. Ima go out of town this weekemnd so Im hoping the folliqing we can go out. My question is. Should I text her in between so she doesnt lose interest? Or what should I do?

    • @flyguyry1
      @flyguyry1 5 років тому +1

      What happens when you have done so many videos how do you come up with new ideas?

    • @wavyk8062
      @wavyk8062 5 років тому +4

      David Cruz No don’t text back, it builds her attraction towards you. Wait about a week and let her text back or something. With you not texting back, it shows that you’re busy as well and shows that you’re not putting her on a pedestal and making her a priority. Work on you’re purpose and she will find you attractive

  • @MrNAMASTE1968
    @MrNAMASTE1968 5 років тому +2192

    At 50, I've been a nice guy most of my life. And it ain't gotten me shit but lost opportunities. Great vid brother.

    • @frederickdon2920
      @frederickdon2920 5 років тому +137

      Bro I respect you but u should know that being nice isn't being a pushover

    • @jellygorilla-3200
      @jellygorilla-3200 5 років тому +72

      Thanks for sharing, it's kind of hard for me not to be the nice guy to the fine ass girls at school but I came to the realization that they don't give a fuck about me they just want things from me, I see them asking my friend to do things for them and he does just what they ask I tell him "Don't do it" and he kind of ignores me and does it anyway. I guess it's thinking if he does things for them they will give him something in return down the road, if you know what I mean😁

    • @overlordborn6131
      @overlordborn6131 5 років тому +22

      Bro get a book "no more nice guy" this would help you.

    • @MrNAMASTE1968
      @MrNAMASTE1968 5 років тому +1

      @Elli been there, done that. Lol

    • @blueskilla6
      @blueskilla6 5 років тому +3

      U motivated me bruhq

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 років тому +3060

    *The most important trick is to prioritize yourself in all situations, no matter what. You are the #1 person in your life.*

    • @knock-knockwhosthere9933
      @knock-knockwhosthere9933 5 років тому +88

      Basically just being selfish 😂

    • @mybestfriendlober
      @mybestfriendlober 5 років тому +14

      Or in Adesanya's words: I am Player one

    • @ZakEames
      @ZakEames 5 років тому +27

      Being super selfish ?

    • @JamesTaylor-yu2ze
      @JamesTaylor-yu2ze 5 років тому +9

      This is what I struggle with.

    • @osse1n
      @osse1n 5 років тому +79

      @@ZakEames When the oxygen masks drop down in an airplane, you are supposed to put on yours first, then help the next person.
      *Enlightened self-interest*

  • @Seabee156
    @Seabee156 4 роки тому +1138

    1. Stop Asking. Start Suggesting
    2. Draw the Line
    3. Confront ‘Em Now
    4. More Stories (enthusiastic but short)
    5. Always keep it “One Hundid” (Go for it)

  • @chrissmi
    @chrissmi 4 роки тому +367

    "Stop asking, start suggesting"
    2 seconds later
    "Let me ask you a question man"

    • @scorpionwins6378
      @scorpionwins6378 4 роки тому +37

      "Let me ask you a question" is vastly different than "Can I ask you a question?"

    • @Shaggy-intothewild
      @Shaggy-intothewild 4 роки тому +1

      Mistah, let me is asking......break it down “let” is to allow or permit. Just because it is “bro” slang doesn’t change the definition.

    • @aedanguitar330
      @aedanguitar330 4 роки тому +7

      Shaggy L, Let me is a suggestion or command not a question. Let me borrow a pencil. Is different from Can I borrow a pencil?

    • @chrissmi
      @chrissmi 4 роки тому

      Thats not the point guys. The guy said stop asking and then told us that he wanted to ask us a question. U know what i mean?

    • @ashleystroebel6804
      @ashleystroebel6804 4 роки тому

      Let me SUGGEST a question to you my man...LOL

  • @davidherrera2305
    @davidherrera2305 5 років тому +2822

    I was gonna sub but then remembered that subbing is a nice guy move...

  • @achinjames
    @achinjames 5 років тому +1541

    Summary:
    1. Suggest more,ask less.
    2. Draw the line ( Have some boundaries and be honest on what you want )
    3. Don't be afraid to confront people,but do it calmly.
    4. Tell more stories. Keep them short but sweet.
    5. Keep it 💯. Have the balls to go for what you want in life.
    Bonus Tips (From me, take it as you will):
    1. People are gonna tell you what they want you to do,what you should do,what they feel is best for you, what they would do if they were you. However, at the end of the day, they are NOT you! they don't really know who you really are,what you really want to do or what you are actually capable of. If you have a dream, go for it,stop being so 'nice'. ( This doesn't mean you shouldn't listen to advice. Be smart about it ! )
    2. 'Nice' guys aren't really nice. They're only nice because they want something in return AND/OR have an agenda. Don't be that person. It's even worse than being an asshole. At least people know straight up if you're an asshole.
    3. Just be honest with yourself. Most people will know when they're not ready. If you're struggling to get girls for example, deep down you actually know that you have to improve on yourself, you just aren't willing to put in the work and be patient for the results. Hit the gym, Look up on videos about style, Learn how to start a business to make more money, Figure out how you can give back to other people. The pieces will slowly,yet surely, fall into place. Worst comes to worst, ASK FOR IT!
    4. Ask yourself, will I regret not talking to this girl/starting my business right now/not ever knowing what it's like to have a six pack/not donating money to save lives in the future? It's a Yes or a No. Decide and model your actions based on the answer.

    • @Timo-eh6hd
      @Timo-eh6hd 5 років тому +30

      Nice bonus tips mate!

    • @TtvPotensAo
      @TtvPotensAo 5 років тому +22

      Thx bud saved me 10 mins

    • @christinnnna
      @christinnnna 5 років тому +4

      Loved it, although I am not a dude😂 Thank you for helping me to understand you better👍

    • @skrrrtcobain9570
      @skrrrtcobain9570 5 років тому +3

      Very sound advice man👍🏼

    • @bikem1476
      @bikem1476 5 років тому +1

      This is legit. Thanks for advice mate :)

  • @thecorvus100
    @thecorvus100 4 роки тому +499

    I hope women appreciate the fact that men try to learn NOT to be a nice guy to attract them.
    Do they realize the crazy we have to deal with? 😄

    • @elibradford7328
      @elibradford7328 4 роки тому +15

      thecorvus100 what I’m fucking saying

    • @edwardm.6132
      @edwardm.6132 4 роки тому +27

      That's how fucked up women are. It's crazy we have to do that to attract women.

    • @nointernet0secondsago275
      @nointernet0secondsago275 4 роки тому +18

      @@edwardm.6132 Im a girl dont think this will work on all girls just try to treat her like a human if she likes you she'll like you for who you are don't need to change.

    • @edwardm.6132
      @edwardm.6132 4 роки тому +32

      @@nointernet0secondsago275 my ex-wife had an affair for 2 years and left me for a guy she openly admitted wasn't nearly as nice to her, or romantic. He's not caring or mushy. He's a hardcore republican construction worker who apparently likes to take control. My nice guy persona became tiresome apparently.

    • @ShadowCatGambit
      @ShadowCatGambit 4 роки тому +12

      @@nointernet0secondsago275 Girls don't like guys for who they are, they like certain characteristics that the guy must have before she wants him, and even if she does, she mostly likely wouldn't let him know, and if he approaches her wrong, he will be seen as creepy, so we do need to improve ourselves and learn from our mistakes before girls really want us. Most of us, anyway.

  • @jenkygoat
    @jenkygoat 4 роки тому +194

    how to be a boss : *driving an electric bike down the street*
    BOSS 100

    • @bobjohnson1096
      @bobjohnson1096 4 роки тому +8

      I was thinking to myself why the fuck am I listening to a guy on an electric bike?

    • @Alan_Wigz
      @Alan_Wigz 4 роки тому +13

      @@bobjohnson1096 Because he doesnt give a fuck what you think

    • @chancedaman9634
      @chancedaman9634 4 роки тому +2

      bob johnson why judge someone based on what they drive tho

    • @Gr0Mk
      @Gr0Mk 4 роки тому +2

      Because, when you don't need to show how boss you are, because you know your'e pretty boss, and don't give a damn about what other people are going to think, because you have your own strong oppinion, you wanna drive a fcking electric scooter? Do it, and now youre boss, but if you have doubs, and you start thinking, hmmm what others are going to say? Thats when you start carying about others more, than about yourself

    • @djyanko3332
      @djyanko3332 3 роки тому

      Electric bikes go fast and have no air poisoning

  • @bratcoa932
    @bratcoa932 5 років тому +527

    Confidence is the key.

    • @Nick-bw4mc
      @Nick-bw4mc 5 років тому +4

      Yes

    • @zaki25shaikh
      @zaki25shaikh 5 років тому +9

      And eye contact too

    • @alexl.4362
      @alexl.4362 5 років тому +2

      Yes Bro

    • @bruh-fn5dh
      @bruh-fn5dh 5 років тому

      you are blue pilled

    • @lel6607
      @lel6607 4 роки тому +2

      @@bruh-fn5dh what does the red pilled guys say?

  • @seculargovernment
    @seculargovernment 5 років тому +781

    I find it an insult when someone say “you are nice guy” !!!

    • @user-we9pt4xg4j
      @user-we9pt4xg4j 5 років тому +49

      When I'm told that(which has been twice) I get the urge to be a douche

    • @bw2247
      @bw2247 4 роки тому +2

      🚫🧢🥶🥶‼️🤦

    • @gajendra365
      @gajendra365 4 роки тому +9

      nothing wrong to be nice, one must be nice to everyone till then time they are and kick that ass who crosses your line

    • @Tedi_youtubara
      @Tedi_youtubara 4 роки тому

      Hesham M Sameeeee

    • @dominicmerzib2096
      @dominicmerzib2096 4 роки тому +5

      Imagine how keanu revves feels rn

  • @localbum11020
    @localbum11020 5 років тому +252

    This is spot on advice. There is a difference between a NICE guy and a GOOD guy
    . Don't be the nice guy.

    • @thehealthylife5715
      @thehealthylife5715 3 роки тому

      I'm a nice guy naturally but also can be very violent if I need to be

    • @nooralif5882
      @nooralif5882 3 роки тому +2

      @@thehealthylife5715 bigot

    • @kevinethan5751
      @kevinethan5751 2 роки тому

      @@thehealthylife5715 same lol

  • @CensoBeats
    @CensoBeats 4 роки тому +547

    Step 1: Refuse when your mom sends you to the store to buy bread
    Step 2: Rest in pieces
    Step 3: Tell god why you’re a badass

  • @JackDenmo
    @JackDenmo 5 років тому +740

    Love this mans production and in-betweens

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  5 років тому +40

      thanks for the love brother!

    • @nagm1745
      @nagm1745 5 років тому +1

      Oh damn you are here

    • @ykGibzei
      @ykGibzei 5 років тому +3

      Jack Denmo is my dad

    • @nagm1745
      @nagm1745 5 років тому +1

      @@ykGibzei same

    • @saturoskicks9397
      @saturoskicks9397 5 років тому

      Heyyyy it's jackkkkk

  • @freeheeldude
    @freeheeldude 4 роки тому +194

    As a 43 year old man I can confirm that this advice is absolutely 100% accurate

    • @7bsii
      @7bsii 4 роки тому

      Wow

    • @gundogatisbest5039
      @gundogatisbest5039 3 роки тому

      I bet u don’t got a wife loser

    • @nay7885
      @nay7885 3 роки тому +3

      @@gundogatisbest5039 how is he loser for not having wife 😂😂

    • @gundogatisbest5039
      @gundogatisbest5039 3 роки тому +1

      @@nay7885 he’s lonely for life for being mean he’s the weird old guy across the street always cussing over stupid shit

    • @gundogatisbest5039
      @gundogatisbest5039 3 роки тому

      @@nay7885 yah keep telling your self that

  • @sammysam2615
    @sammysam2615 3 роки тому +13

    "We suffer more in our imagination than in reality"
    Seneca
    Your ego knows it doesn't want to be rejected. That's the hardest part honestly, checking your ego while learning to accept and take Ls. Practice Practice Practice.

  • @jinxed_rx8554
    @jinxed_rx8554 5 років тому +44

    Just be confident but be kind. Dress to impress and keep hydrated and clean.

  • @PilotsCorner
    @PilotsCorner 4 роки тому +4

    I am a female and you give a lot of advice for guys but I take a lot of your advice on myself and it had done magic for me. I’m not very feminine so a lot of your tips work for me anyway. 🙌🙌🙌

  • @lg1618
    @lg1618 4 роки тому +97

    I Love this best thing about this guy that whenever he's teaching us something important he gives a really good examples along with it and that makes it really really easy to understand. Thank you brother, lots of love.

  • @harrykim9914
    @harrykim9914 4 роки тому +45

    So basically..introverts must force themselves to be extroverts

    • @wellplayed8921
      @wellplayed8921 4 роки тому +16

      The exact moment you put a tag like that on yourself you´re giving yourself an excuse to avoid the hard work that comes with changing it. You aren´t an introvert and you aren´t an extrovert you are what you´ve gotten most used to being and you can be whatever you want to be if you believe it and work on yourself. That applies to everything within your human brain´s capabilities which is nothing to be underestimated and by chosing to believe such things you´re showing that you´re underestimating it. If I were to force you to do anything it would be to believe that :)

    • @harrykim9914
      @harrykim9914 4 роки тому +4

      @@wellplayed8921I'm not saying that introverts are bad. I'm proud of who I am.. I'm just saying there are other ways to meet women..as introverts. Not everyone is the same and no methods work for every single men. Just putting it out there.

    • @wellplayed8921
      @wellplayed8921 4 роки тому +1

      @@harrykim9914 I'm not saying they're bad either, I just felt from your comment some displeasement about the fact that you think you are and surely there are other different methods noone claimed the opposite not even the person in the video. It's just a video showing one way to do it. It's not bad if you're okay with it and happy but it certainly is limiting and you can't deny that. Why chose to believe that's what makes you who you are? Wouldn't it be more liberating to chose to believe that with enough work on yourself you can toss aside all those limitations and be someone better? Don't you think you'd be happier if you stopped putting a tag on yourself? Cus if you think about it it's a deadend for your personality. As soon as you do that it will go no further than that. Just putting it out there too

    • @harrykim9914
      @harrykim9914 4 роки тому +1

      @@wellplayed8921 lol..what makes you think I'm unhappy? Sorry, I'm not even gonna try..

    • @wellplayed8921
      @wellplayed8921 4 роки тому +2

      @@harrykim9914 I never said you're unhappy bro, this isn't even about you in particular just felt like opening up a discussion on the whole introvert extrovert subject

  • @harnooraujla6191
    @harnooraujla6191 5 років тому +51

    1 I love your bike
    2 that gym incident was 100 percent relatable lol
    3 your video editing is pro , like literally the best I’ve seen so far amongst many youtubers

    • @abutahabibi3061
      @abutahabibi3061 5 років тому

      www.radpowerbikes.com/products/radmini-electric-folding-fat-bike

    • @leonischengo9307
      @leonischengo9307 5 років тому

      Sam Kolder still better.

  • @hodeneofficial
    @hodeneofficial 5 років тому +172

    Stop asking Start suggesting.

    • @SmallsGang_773
      @SmallsGang_773 5 років тому +13

      I never ask...
      Can I have fries ?
      Give me fries with that please.

    • @kingMalcolm23
      @kingMalcolm23 5 років тому +1

      Facts

    • @chadstone9561
      @chadstone9561 5 років тому

      It all comes down to dominance

  • @filipsmezulis1834
    @filipsmezulis1834 5 років тому +60

    This is actually some legit advice

    • @imnotsus7914
      @imnotsus7914 3 роки тому

      Fr bro before watching this video I was still a virgin but after watching I slept with 3 hot chicks in 1 month

  • @MCGaar
    @MCGaar 4 роки тому +7

    It’s not that you should stop being nice or stop being a good person. Women like that and so do most normal people. It’s that you shouldn’t be a doormat and that you should have confidence in who you are

  • @cookiemoncook
    @cookiemoncook 5 років тому +3

    Bro, I swear your the best...u give the most honest advice and most useful out of all the men’s fashion and health channels

  • @doorey2
    @doorey2 5 років тому +6

    The production value and quality of this is insane! Unbelievable job man unbelievably well shot and put together

  • @thydoodle9324
    @thydoodle9324 4 роки тому +75

    I just listened to a this guy call me out and verbally assault me for 11 minutes and 47 seconds.

  • @mafainroyce4215
    @mafainroyce4215 4 місяці тому

    It’s been over 5 years now and I can’t have enough of this video
    💎

  • @FEarth037
    @FEarth037 5 років тому +5

    1)stop asking and start suggesting
    2)you got to draw the line
    3)confront them now
    4)always tell stories and get attention
    5)always keep it 100%, ask what you want do not hold back

  • @pikaghosts3436
    @pikaghosts3436 5 років тому +288

    Phone was on 1% but i kept it a 💯 and continued watchin

  • @nub4eva
    @nub4eva 4 роки тому +2

    Not only is the advice solid but your intro music is always 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @andrija4789
    @andrija4789 4 роки тому +30

    Teasing the girl is so powerful, before when i was the beta, i didnt even get kisses on the cheek

    • @zachpipe6537
      @zachpipe6537 3 роки тому +4

      And you’re still a beta.

    • @andrija4789
      @andrija4789 3 роки тому +3

      @@zachpipe6537 Internet made you way too comfortable with disrespecting others and not getting punched in the face for it

    • @sylvester3018
      @sylvester3018 3 роки тому +2

      @@andrija4789 yea there’s been a surge of keyboard warriors. Classic gen z style

  • @TheQL1M4X
    @TheQL1M4X 5 років тому +308

    As soon as Tiége Hanley came up i knew this guy has been watching Alpha M

    • @benjaminbayless5787
      @benjaminbayless5787 5 років тому +3

      Alpha Alpha Alpha Alpha M!

    • @jakeoswald8017
      @jakeoswald8017 5 років тому +6

      Or the video was just sponsored by tiége hanley and they reached out to him ahahha

    • @WillS.TheSuperReds.
      @WillS.TheSuperReds. 5 років тому +14

      Who doesn't watch Alpha M ?
      i mean come on the guy's so cool and awsome , just like this guy

    • @7860092
      @7860092 5 років тому +1

      Moment i saw it i was like oh god no not again oh fk

  • @Rien--
    @Rien-- 5 років тому +341

    step1: get 99 strength on runescape

    • @alexchuprin8786
      @alexchuprin8786 5 років тому +7

      Bro, 99 strength is the only 99 I got on Runescape. I quit that shit now but I wonder why that's the only thing I wanted XD. Giving me deep thoughts here, lmao

    • @Rien--
      @Rien-- 5 років тому +1

      @@alexchuprin8786 haha good stuff. good old days

    • @peteigni2487
      @peteigni2487 5 років тому +1

      99 magic was the only 99 i got

    • @doctorradish8650
      @doctorradish8650 5 років тому +3

      Made me genuinely laugh out loud.

    • @JeffZuccMusk
      @JeffZuccMusk 5 років тому +6

      Oh that's why I'm a virgin wizard. I only got 99 mage.

  • @IndianDrivingSchool
    @IndianDrivingSchool 5 років тому +37

    thumbs up deserved

  • @goodboi1232
    @goodboi1232 4 роки тому

    That story telling tip was actually useful. Met a new group of peopld at college and did exactly what he said. Everyone seemed to liked my stories and was asked to hangout with them more.

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  • @masterdeepzie5851
    @masterdeepzie5851 5 років тому +695

    65% money
    44% look
    1% heart

  • @hiddenmusicofficial
    @hiddenmusicofficial 5 років тому +270

    Just here to tell you that you have an amazing taste in music!

  • @ryanl6037
    @ryanl6037 4 роки тому

    the visual examples are amazing and help drive the point so well

  • @randyranderson3521
    @randyranderson3521 5 років тому +14

    came here from alpha m with his tiege hanley now we got this guy

  • @williammtau3336
    @williammtau3336 5 років тому +304

    I will never be a nice guy again..

    • @user-je5hn4rm5l
      @user-je5hn4rm5l 5 років тому +2

      same my dude

    • @JF-xm6tu
      @JF-xm6tu 5 років тому +23

      You are the priority never anyone else. If someone talks down to you fuck them off and treat them like they are insignificant give those verbal ques that they are insignificant and their words don't matter. What ever makes someone else's opinion better then yours? Because it doesn't. It's all in your head. No one should ever matter more then you ever, ever. Never put anyonr on a pedastal.

    • @DarkPeter
      @DarkPeter 5 років тому +1

      William M Tau how did it go brother?

    • @yourlandladysson6395
      @yourlandladysson6395 5 років тому

      Lol

    • @Eerie_feelingz
      @Eerie_feelingz 5 років тому +5

      Be more like Vegeta he gets all the chicks haha

  • @joshuabettell5212
    @joshuabettell5212 5 років тому +48

    That first thing was definitely me, I always ask what do you want to do.. probably need to stop that lol. And bro Alpha is finding his way all over UA-cam with tiege 😂 that’s great y’all support each other.

    • @TheAspiringFitnessGuru
      @TheAspiringFitnessGuru 5 років тому

      Same! Im not good with deciding on things to do lol

    • @fightnight14
      @fightnight14 5 років тому

      Nobody told me that I was being #1 but I noticed it as time goes by. I ain't a leader type but I should still lead and show some confidence on my work. I learned from myself because people around me were too nice to confront me lol

    • @wovenwar8528
      @wovenwar8528 5 років тому

      Joshua Bettell same!!! Gotta start trying!

  • @gerryleblac5926
    @gerryleblac5926 4 роки тому

    beast man most respect to you....you speak truth and wisdom which is hard to find on youtube...always supporting you my brother...

  • @subisfree5390
    @subisfree5390 4 роки тому +89

    Me : dont ask
    Me: kiss her
    Her: punch me
    Me:

    • @mahadrox
      @mahadrox 4 роки тому +4

      Donkey punch her

  • @JKweez
    @JKweez 5 років тому +4

    Respect for what you're doing man! It's cool to see the hard work you've been putting into your production. I've noticed the continuous improvement. Keep winning bro!

  • @TC-vo4wg
    @TC-vo4wg 5 років тому +7

    FINALLY someone who makes examples on how to do the things that they said in the video

  • @DynomitePunch
    @DynomitePunch 4 роки тому +1

    this is the only relationship advice video I've ever seen where they bring in the concept of looks into the equation, a lot of people like to think it's not that important, but people are animals, people tend to gravitate towards people who make them feel safe and who can take charge of situations, no this doesn't mean you gotta be the hulk and be in charge of every situation at all times, all it means, you need to look fit, and you need to be able to take charge, when the time comes, it's really simple honestly, and sometimes, some girls, are just too introverted, or their too wrapped up in someone or something else, or they think their's no point, if you can't bring them out of their introvertness, or if you can't convince them of their own worth, and ladies this is for you too cuz their are a lot of guys like this as well, then you might just need to drop'em, if you've tried, several times, to get someone to hang out with you or go out with you, then either their not interested, or their not aware of their own self worth and therefore their worth to you, and no amount of better body is gonna change it, so sometimes, yeah, lookin good and having style works, but for the most part, it's not nearly enough it's only fifty, maybe seventy percent of attraction AT MOST and that's only if your her/his type, you might look great, you might be in phenomenal shape, but she might want a big bear of a country man with a shaggy beard and trucker cap, might be her thing, if that's the case, then you need to not worry about it, make yourself BETTER, but don't EVER change yourself to suit another person, theirs nothing wrong with self improvement, but don't start self alteration for the sake of another, that'll just leave you upset with yourself, but this guys advice is pretty solid, if you like a girl don't ask say "hey gonna go watch that movie this week, if you wanna come lemme know, it's either gonna be this day or that day, lemme know when your free" leave it THEIR, don't add anymore, don't change nothin, she'll get back to you, and the drawing the line works too, nine times out of ten if she is interested in you then she'll agree to this, remember, always keep eye contact, always be emotive etc, but yeah, pretty solid video honestly

  • @babygurlbella4781
    @babygurlbella4781 5 років тому +11

    I used to be so nice and hide my feelings and agree to everything everyone said and now no I say whatever I think and what’s on my mind idc I’ll do what I want whenever I want soooo thx for the advice

  • @jimcampbell632
    @jimcampbell632 5 років тому +6

    In the gym, DON"T walk away from equipment and expect it's yours to return to. That said, you handled it well with the "work in." Win-win.

  • @SeanLunny
    @SeanLunny 5 років тому +56

    Keep it 💯 - improve yourself 1st and then you can improve everything else

  • @lucksxl2
    @lucksxl2 4 роки тому +78

    I used to wave to people but after this video I flip people off.

  • @camerongray7767
    @camerongray7767 3 роки тому +3

    “Draw the fucking line”
    I just wrote that down. That hit me hard. I am always a pushover. Not any more. Thankyou David

  • @PhelipeNascimentoo
    @PhelipeNascimentoo 5 років тому +86

    5:46 come on!!! Isn't anyone talking about it??

    • @krystal2515
      @krystal2515 5 років тому +10

      Lol I was thinking the same thing. He looked like a total douche bag. Was pretty funny I’m fairly positive he put that in the video as a joke. .

    • @CiscoBerrones
      @CiscoBerrones 5 років тому +3

      Yeah the slide was maybe supposed to be cool, but the landing stance made it funny af. Good observation btw

    • @jerryzumba
      @jerryzumba 5 років тому

      He can't even control his own bike :v

    • @idontcarestfu
      @idontcarestfu 5 років тому

      dude lost grace points just now

    • @obsidiananime1737
      @obsidiananime1737 5 років тому

      XD

  • @Honeybatger
    @Honeybatger 4 роки тому +21

    That's me there bro , trying to pls everyone while forgetting yourself

  • @xBLUMONKEY
    @xBLUMONKEY 3 роки тому +1

    "Stop asking, start suggesting. So let me ask you something." 🤣 classic 👌👌

  • @MindsAwakened94
    @MindsAwakened94 4 роки тому +6

    Man this is the BEST youtube suggestion ever!!
    Thanks alot

  • @stayhmblego
    @stayhmblego 5 років тому +4

    You've inspired me to create a lifestyle channel as well. Appreciate all your hard work, lets get it!

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  5 років тому

      Keep beasting

    • @stayhmblego
      @stayhmblego 5 років тому

      @Elli thanks man! first video is live!

  • @pareshlad7684
    @pareshlad7684 5 років тому +3

    I was following your channel since last year . And I want to tell you how you changed my thinking and practical tips for gaining confidence!!! That was just perfect man !! Thanks 🙏 for the video bro ..

  • @samc7336
    @samc7336 4 роки тому +10

    So here is where it gets tricky. I am nice meaning that I enjoy and believe that helping others is the right way to live but those who have a different view will see it as weakness and be passive aggressive and try and give me shit so I always gotta find that balance between doing what makes me happy without letting others think they can take advantage of me. I do sometimes end up disappointed for giving some ppl chances they never deserved but as long as I do what I feel is right and try my best to keep healthy boundaries by putting my main interests first it’s a loss I’m willing to take. Am I wrong?

    • @MrMegaSuperBoy
      @MrMegaSuperBoy 4 роки тому

      nope cuz you do what you want!

    • @outtheboxkenya9227
      @outtheboxkenya9227 2 роки тому +1

      i think as long as you become an expert judge of character being nice can be ok, learn to read people...don't take it personally when people let you down coz they will.

  • @FrostedVisionHD
    @FrostedVisionHD 4 роки тому +2

    Watched the recent version of this video and I'm glad you're committed to the same points. Don't mind the repeat/similar videos. They affirm your views and get the message across to a deeper extent.

  • @astronautcowboy2142
    @astronautcowboy2142 5 років тому +3

    Hey man, just wanted to say I am going through some issues myself with some of the things you talk about. I really like your videos. Subbed! Keep it up man.

  • @Alex-bq3kp
    @Alex-bq3kp 5 років тому +4

    The last point hit me hard, I always seem to get girls but I always need assurance which leads me to overthink and girls just end up moving on because they hate waiting.

  • @waliulislam2336
    @waliulislam2336 4 роки тому +1

    Visual representation helped a lot to understand deeply. Thanks 🖤

  • @tommckivett5033
    @tommckivett5033 4 роки тому

    dude your actually a sick guy, **** the haters and please keep up this kind of content need more beast's like you 100%

  • @syafiqridzuan6331
    @syafiqridzuan6331 5 років тому +3

    Hey man, this is actually GREAT stuff. I used to not like you, but i see you improve and this vid is hard man 💯 informative, inspiring and full of energy and kept me engaged. Keep up the good work man!

  • @karlangeloarcenas7626
    @karlangeloarcenas7626 5 років тому +8

    Don't be nice guy but be the good man they are different

  • @alvinjenson3320
    @alvinjenson3320 4 роки тому

    It seems like this bro gives real advice. He doesn't have time for trash and dumb little techniques that don't matter. But he gives the truth straight at you and show mentality habits to help you out. True brother.

  • @deepanshumishra4568
    @deepanshumishra4568 4 роки тому +16

    Who else here know alpha😁, i got him in to my mind when he started his tiege hanley promo

  • @fogozo3431
    @fogozo3431 5 років тому +17

    Thank you so much man, these videos have helped me alot. Ive always been a very socially awkward guy and these videos have helped me to accept myself an love myself for who i am and to be selfconfedint.

  • @relaxingmusics4726
    @relaxingmusics4726 5 років тому

    At first I THOUGHT u also going to tell a fucking unwanted stories but I DIDN'T EXPECT THIS TYPE OF PRACTICE OR LOGICAL SUGGESTIONS .YOY ARE A BOSS, DO MORE ,WE SUPPORT YOU 😍

  • @NightOrchids
    @NightOrchids 2 роки тому

    Thanks man... Your videos always straight to the point and inspiring 👍

  • @MikeHersnt
    @MikeHersnt 5 років тому +14

    Learn to prioritize your thoughts and yourself. Develop a good self-image and never doubt yourself.
    Great video editing bro, sick music as well!
    Great thoughts bro, keep it up!🙏

  • @hodeneofficial
    @hodeneofficial 5 років тому +39

    Confront em now. Someone takes my machine. Say immediately hey bro i had a couple of sets left to do.

    • @somethingappropriate
      @somethingappropriate 5 років тому

      Румен Бонев Don't go to the water fountain and keep pumpin

    • @electrokinesis_9729
      @electrokinesis_9729 5 років тому

      @@somethingappropriate I have anger issues...
      Choke hold, drag from machin, slam on ground using my 120kg bodyweight, then jump on the machine....
      Fyi, my family has problems with law enforcement, we all have anget issues.
      It's freaking genetic.
      Haha

    • @dutchvanderlin5556
      @dutchvanderlin5556 5 років тому

      Electrokinesis_97 you’re such a wanna be tough guy, you probably never get laid! Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

    • @electrokinesis_9729
      @electrokinesis_9729 5 років тому

      @@dutchvanderlin5556 Never? I am 21, I don't feel the need to rush it. Also, I hate talking with or being talked to, so what? And I would react as violently as I stated, I am not a man of words, If you don't f off when I ask the first time, I'll make you.

    • @niggaretardd2292
      @niggaretardd2292 5 років тому

      @@electrokinesis_9729 bro wtf go outside for more than 5 minutes and stop having imaginary fights in your head

  • @PoliciaShtetit129
    @PoliciaShtetit129 4 роки тому +7

    “How to stop being a nice guy”
    The answer.-“Stop being a nice guy”

  • @rolandojuarez7991
    @rolandojuarez7991 4 роки тому

    Man i´m so introverted and your vidios make me feel more confortable with my self thanks so much.

  • @vitals668
    @vitals668 5 років тому +27

    No one :
    Absolutely nobody :
    Him : slaps lotion on his face, that feels good

  • @emrebilgi
    @emrebilgi 5 років тому +57

    Believe inside that you're cool. Or, if you act, there is the risk of ending up jerky nice which is worse than simply nice.

    • @flyguyry1
      @flyguyry1 5 років тому +3

      Jerky nice is much better than nice ;)

    • @overlordborn6131
      @overlordborn6131 5 років тому +1

      I would say use ur common sense everytime when talking to people e. G here nice guy if a girl says no to him or offend him, then still he will talk to her or says sorry. But if you use common sense then you won't have to even reply to her cuz she has offended you and you can walk away without having any guilt feelings

  • @LAG5499
    @LAG5499 4 роки тому +1

    Tiege Hanley!!! Alpha M.!!! huge fan. Good videos beast!

  • @dylanalphonso5034
    @dylanalphonso5034 4 роки тому

    The quality of your videos is absolutely unparalleled. Absolutely Amazing.

  • @mrdenikub7461
    @mrdenikub7461 5 років тому +6

    "You need to stop asking questions, man!"
    literally 1 second later:
    "Let me ask you a question"

  • @pure5018
    @pure5018 5 років тому +7

    man start editing videos , your editing is insane and enjoyable to watch

  • @thefather757
    @thefather757 4 роки тому

    Thanks dude, I’m watching video after video and you are like becoming my older brother who knows everything better. You mentioned good points here and I really need start to change

  • @macroman4887
    @macroman4887 4 роки тому

    Great video, not just a bunch of clichés but some honest and practical advice without being unrealistic

  • @leakingfaucet
    @leakingfaucet 5 років тому +3

    Great video! Thanks for providing real world examples too, those are really helpful!

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  5 років тому +1

      You’re welcome bro!!

  • @sherazahmad413
    @sherazahmad413 5 років тому +42

    You should make more videos on relationship.

  • @ROHAN-ur3jy
    @ROHAN-ur3jy 4 роки тому

    Video is made so greatly camera angles and shooting style is f#@kin awesome.

  • @carlosrodriguez4180
    @carlosrodriguez4180 4 роки тому

    Beast mode brotha all day! Elevate your self and the flock will follow! Leader status never follow!

  • @basicoptimalmouse
    @basicoptimalmouse 5 років тому +133

    "You need to stop asking and start suggesting".
    "Let me ask you a question".
    You broke your own rule in a matter of seconds, keh-moh sah-bee.

    • @lel6607
      @lel6607 4 роки тому

      What he should have said instead ?

    • @cuphrome3549
      @cuphrome3549 4 роки тому +3

      Bradley S "let me ask you a question" is like saying "You WILL allow me to ask this question" Translation: I suggest you hear me out.

    • @saiko4499
      @saiko4499 4 роки тому

      @@cuphrome3549 😂😂

    • @voke9778
      @voke9778 4 роки тому

      Its different than saying "Can I ask you a question?"

    • @mrpuppeteer2834
      @mrpuppeteer2834 4 роки тому

      He said "let me ask you a question" and not "can I ask you a question?"🙄

  • @prajwalgraphy8430
    @prajwalgraphy8430 5 років тому +36

    I just love those cinematic shots

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  5 років тому +3

      Thanks brother

    • @prajwalgraphy8430
      @prajwalgraphy8430 5 років тому +1

      OMG is it really you I can't believe thank you so much for replying

    • @steveg2277
      @steveg2277 5 років тому

      How to Beast your style is really coming along brother!

  • @aitvabingdonindependent9949
    @aitvabingdonindependent9949 4 роки тому

    Mate this all shit I know but you say it much better. Not being assertive definitely comes from not being who you are and not doing what you want to be doing. Its a confidence thing. Having the attributes and manner to achieve is essential. Cool vid man.

  • @lincolnfromct34
    @lincolnfromct34 4 роки тому

    I cannot believe how cool this fellow is. So wise for such a young man.

  • @Combatkings100
    @Combatkings100 5 років тому +4

    Great video by the way. I know you've pretty much said these in previous videos, but it's nice when you can come back with a more refined answer and giving examples. I can tell you worked hard on this video, because it's fucking awesome.

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  5 років тому

      Thanks man! I feel that some points are so important that they need repeating as well

  • @unleashingthealpha7460
    @unleashingthealpha7460 5 років тому +2

    I love your confidence bro! Because of you I did so many comfort zone challenges in public and that changed my life! ;)

  • @marcopepoli6038
    @marcopepoli6038 2 роки тому

    "Week and manipulated" not "week and manipulative", beside that I agree 100% on the key concepts.

  • @averageenjoyer7346
    @averageenjoyer7346 3 роки тому

    3:42
    the way he says "DRAW. THE FUCKING. LINE. is so satisfying imo

  • @NikolaB93
    @NikolaB93 5 років тому +19

    "STOP ASKING AND START SUGGESTING", 5 seconds after "Let me ASK you a question"
    Ain't you supposed to SUGGEST a question? 😂

    • @shoot4777
      @shoot4777 4 роки тому

      Grammar

    • @seispul
      @seispul 4 роки тому

      Nikola Harmonikas at least he should’ve said “I’ll ask you a question” such a betta lol jk

    • @deepanshumishra4568
      @deepanshumishra4568 4 роки тому

      😂

  • @IamKayneISO
    @IamKayneISO 5 років тому +4

    I laughed everytime he showed tiege 😂. Nice vid btw and funny short clips

  • @johnniefihaki2627
    @johnniefihaki2627 4 роки тому

    Dude im addicted to your channel ... I click like before the video even plays... always know I’m guaranteed value content. YESSSSSIR

  • @necroeasy593
    @necroeasy593 4 роки тому

    This man has great advice, very intelligent for a young man. Should be a psychologist if he's not already. A person can learn a lot from him,,,thumbs up to the cool guy.

  • @VRBHZY
    @VRBHZY 4 роки тому +4

    I just watched only 2 videos of yours, I can already feel change.