I have been rejected. My flesh cries out for true friends and fellowship. But I know that the word says that Christ was rejected and we also will be and be hated by the world.
Just remember that Christ went through that so we wouldn't have to! So that we could be truly free from all that even tho we've all experienced some of that and it sucks. Some social skills conversational training will help with getting on better + learn comedy to see the right side in it and it will help you make some friends
your a girl any girl can find some guy always- you dont know what true emotional pain real and constant rejection is- maybe if you and all women werent so stuck up towards guys that afent ricpo suave and give guys you all consider creepy a bit of a chance you wouldnt whine about shit you dont truly understand!
Joseph had one thing going for him, and that was his father thought highly of him. If even one person thinks we are a real human being equivalent to them, it can make a big difference.
When the rejection of my mother became so unbearable at a certain point in my life, this is what God/Abba/Jesus Christ gave me in His word; “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you!" Isaiah 49:15 I believe He wanted me to share that for someone hurting deeply from the same sort of rejection here. It's just as much for you as it is for me. HE IS OUR FATHER AND OUR MOTHER. He is our all in all!
" we are not worthwhile in someone they rather spend time with rather else but not with us..I'm not worth it and unable to that position." Feel this right now
God Bless you for this message. The feeling of being rejected for so long is like a knife shredding my soul right now. So finding this information is really helpful. Thank you!
I hated myself so much that I wanted to end it all but couldn’t do it because of family. I started to travel to escape the lonely that I suffer from due to rejected by people mostly women in my life and seeing people I grew up with finding love and Settling down while I am still lonely
im in the same place. its especially hard seeing people getting married or having friends and i always remain lonely no matter how good i am to people. stay strong though
This video found me literally in my sleep, this video helped me understand so many things that years of counseling could not do. Thank you for this message.
This video is perfect explanation of my emotions. The Dr.’s explanation and voice is so accurate and kind. Lord Jesus I’m hurting yet believing I am healed. I am not my emotions.
Today I am alone,not invited to Easter dinner with grand children as my two daughters-in-law reject and shame me.Thank you for this lovely video,as after near death heart surgery,sadness surrounds me like an old shroud.i used to be so happy,and now I just want to sleep.The lord I know will help me.
You helped MY heart today. About every detail shared applies to Me. Especially subsequent bouts with depression and anxiety. Im a decent person I dont understand why no one loves Me. I'm getting old and afraid it will always be this way. Im a naturally optimistic sagittarian but society and circumstances have been indescribibly harsh to My feelings. And it did begin with some family matters. Ive been resilient I dont care as much anymore for trying but I hope it gets greater for others who share in similar experiences. Thank you for the soothing understanding tone.
my only dtr age 26 threw me away 2 months after i paid and did her whole wedding in tennessee from chicago..i have rheumatoid arthritis im disabeld.i was a nurse..she was sick i took care of her i worked double shifts for vacations i treated her like gold...everyone sayd i was a wonderful mother..now im a burden ive never asked her for anything!sitting here crying....let me tell you something..i helped everyone in my life patients family neighbors etc now when i need help i sit alone in pain crying....dont expect anyone to ever help you because it wont happen!people are selfish!
Hope you will be able to move on and find peace. Learning about narcissism might help. A person doesn't have to have a diagnosable personality disorder to have narcissistic traits and to be narcissistic. Your daughter sounds narcissistic to me. Your story is one of the reasons I chose not to have kids. I couldn't imagine loving someone so much only to know for sure they would leave one day to start their own life, even if our relationship was loving and we stayed in touch. When men leave, it's not like you always KNEW they would some day. God bless you and hope you will be able to move on from this pain 🙏💙
I'm sorry to hear about your story and the pain you're feeling. You sound like a very caring and beautiful soul. I hope your daughter comes to realize how special you are. Too often people are taken for granted when they have a compassionate heart. I took care of my elderly mother and handicapped brother until my mother passed, and my family took a years pay for caregiving and expenses from my mother's inheritance, and then rejected me. I won't reject them but will hurt from the rejection the rest of my life. I don't want to be resentful or bitter but it's so hard. I'm learning that God truly is the one Friend who will never leave me or stop loving me. He is becoming my true source of security. Maybe I wouldn't have learned to put my hope in Him without this pain. God knows how to help us. Jesus promises to heal the broken-hearted who come to Him in faith for forgiveness and relationship with Him. He is our faithful Friend who sticks closer than any family or friend. He can give us comfort, guidance, peace and even joy when we trust in Him. You can get to know Him by reading the book of John in the Bible. Ask God to help you and He will. You don't need to be a Christian or go to church to get help from a Christian counselor or pastor. They will be happy to help you. Blessings to you 💝
I have been rejected by my two daughters. They want their own lives without me in it. They have ignored me for the last ten months. I love them more than life itself. I miss them so much. I forgive them. I have turned this situation over to god. Please pray for me. My heart is so heavy.
Please pray for my daughters. They are being influenced by someone very evil. This lady has done this throughout her life and is very good at destroying families and the children's lives. My children had a happy home. Their own business and a retirement waiting on them. Because of this evil lady they have nothing and will end up alone on the streets pregnant. Please! Please! Pray this demonic hold she has over them will leave before it is too late.
(I know this is easier said than done but...). Stop hating yourself. If you keep hating yourself, you will keep attracting people that justify this narrative. Change your thought patterns that tell you "I'm not good enough" or "I hate myself." You deserve a good person in your life. If you don't realize that you're good enough, strong enough, people will reflect that onto you.
I'm muslim and I'm watching this video and feeling impressed how much both of christianity and islam are smilar , cause both of them are based in faith , with my love to all christians :*
All my life I was rejected from mother many relatives and stepfather. Those who I felt I belonged to passed on. 1 died yesterday. Please Lord build me with the Opposite of this and Heal this 💖
I love you. You are a marvelous woman. I have a marriage where both of us have rejection issues. This has been very comforting and help me to be more compassionate with my mate.
I think when I feel rejected the most it's when I see someone with someone I used to date or I have to be in the same place with them it hurts so bad and that's when I just crumble because it's visually in front of me
I'm so sorry you're going throught that! It's very painful!! Try to protect yourself from them by not being around that guy while he's alone or with his new girlfriend. You need time to heal from your breakup. It also helps to get together with friend and do something fun. If you're around people who love you and go out and distract yourself, it really helps to lift your spirits. I promise that in time, it will get easier. Your heart is telling you you need more time to heal!! Love, Judith
I feel alone too.. I am just happy I have a job I can go to .. to be with other people, I was rejected by my whole family.. and can never even pick up the phone to talk to them.. I know of 3 people who would rather I was dead... all because of a comment I made.. and nothing more.. I feel alone too.. but I pray for holy Spirit to be with me during those times... love and hugs...
Loneliness it's the worst form of poverty, right next to rejecting ourselves, it becomes a self loathsome life, it becomes so insidious, so negative when a person who thinks they deserve to be rejected, that's a cause of a wounded spirit, that maybe started as a child and follows you in your life, where as you never feel good enough to attract others, but all these things are based on feelings not fact, for we know first and foremost God loves us, He is the author and finisher of our faith. We must look to Jesus even when we want to turn inward, these are the times to reach out to The Lord and to other believers, because it's truly the only way to get ourselves out of this uncomfortable comfort zone where the pain becomes what we embrace its called self pity and it does nothing to better the circumstances so please reach out today to God and to other believers youll be thankful you did, because I am reaching out to you it takes my focus off of me, because my biggest problem in life isn't the people in this world but truly resides within the battle of my mind and spirit, when you do good for others in one way or another it helps you too understand that others need encouragement and by doing that we lift ourselves up, I hope that helps and remember For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind
I have been rejected since I was born. I am now Christian and have been for 3 years now: even Fellow Christians reject me, over and above my family. Our families reject us when we choose Christianity (Psalm 27) speaks about it. It hurts! I even pray and say to God: "Lord, am I pushing people away? If I am, please show me my heart and change me: prune my flesh!" However, God says "Forgive Them!" Yet I am still in so much pain! I am struggling with so much resentment. Moreso because the rejection still happens. I keep saying to God: "Lord, I am gonna be honest to You even when You know my heart and see everything!" I have gone past the stage of worrying what comments and people say to me on social media prayers and platforms. However, I don't need negativity, or being judged. I just need anyone reading this to please pray with and for me! I pray too but I am still hurting a lot. I don't want to hurt anymore. I need the peace and love of Salvation. I am yearning for it so badly 😢😢😢 I just want to love and be happy as I know love starts with me. Some days are better than others. I even suffer silently now but my suffering has brought and taken me to the Feet of Jesus: however, I sometimes feel like God does not hear me, even though I am aware it is the devil who wants me to believe that, the pain still cuts deep. Please pray for me 🙏 I am praying for everyone too because I know what it's like to be in pain. I pray God heals us all ❤️❤️❤️
i just prayed for you! that feeling of rejection is soo incredibly painful. i try to forgive them but the pain is still there so i understand how you feel. being rejected over again takes a toll on you forsure. i pray God will help us both with this
have been rejected since i was a kids.. and till now ...my family rejected me, ,got no friends and boyfriend, every one wants me dead... i feel alone everyday it try to live and make the best of it.. God has rejected me and whole world. I feel like dying. My life hell. I dont even have anyone to talk and only to talk to myself, am a rejected witness. is really bad..the rejected daughter..
Take the pain of rejection to tears in prayer.you will feel light and grace will be in your heart.load Jesus will the burden its not yours.you are worth every breath and to live life in its fullness.LETS NOT measure our worth by how pple treat us.you give them power over you .some rejection is a way pple want can control us.I know the feeling I honestly feel the pain of rejection.i prayed and I have accepted or rather view the rejection as an advantage.what is God removing me from???now I dnt know but one day it will make sense.i will thank him.am in it now but veiw it differently its impact of rejection.its Get out
Diana Ashrams Addison I feel the same way my father abandoned me when I was 5 and never saw him since. my oldest sister was murderer in front of me when I turned 12. I'm always getting rejected when it comes to dating so I started feeling depressed every day, I hate my life
@@marcusshelby216 im so sorry youve been through all those hardships. you dont deserve that at all. i get rejected all the time since i was a kid. its hard:(
. I was rejected by teachers and other students. I attended 16 elementary schools. We were poor. As an adult my family has rejected me. Strangers reject me. I find I don't like socializing at work. I find myself hiding or avoiding co workers. I don't wanna be around people anymore. How does a person live like this? I've been married for 30 years. Sometimes I want to run away from everything and everyone. I feel like my husband is rejecting me. Not necessarily cheating but rejecting me
Lord knows I've run those questions through my mind more times than I care to remember. How many times can you be screwed over and/or abused by people in your life before you start to internalize that nonsense and think the fault lies with you? People's knee-jerk reaction to reject others without getting to know them is such a disgusting and poisonous trait of humanity. God would never lower himself to this. If a fraction of 1 percent of humanity adopted the selflessness and open-mindedness that defines God's love, this world and everyone in it would be better off for it. Instead, this world runs amok with swine wallowing in the mud, and it's all so pathetic.
I feel rejected from a some social group that was so very nice to me they treat like I’m second banana or least favorite they rejected me on their email chats he says email us at any time right after we met it started then now I chat on Facebook instead I feel like they put their anger on me then sometimes depression i feel like I’m dealing with hatred and worthless it’s upsetting me everyday
Lorrie Kelly keep praying the rosary every single day. Look up Sr Clare Crockett, and put your faith in Jesus...google a live holy hour and sit and talk to Him. Please believe God loves each one of us. 💝🌈☘️ 🐶🐶 and best companion is a dog. Boxers are best, friend
Ok but what happens when its not in the past? My family has always used rejection as a manipulation tool. For so long I kept all the hurt from it in the past. But since my invalid mother has come to live with me, it's all right there again and now I'm trapped -- I can't get away from it. What can be done? Sometimes the only answer is God's grace alone.
Don't deny your feelings, but don't allow them to overrun you. Don't blame yourself. Pray continually for God's comfort and peace to cover your wounds. Reach out to others who may have experienced the same. Don't go it alone; isolation is definitely NOT good. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you. 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾
is it possible to watch a video on self - help and improvement without Jesus being involved ? Not everyone believes in Jesus, and some people have already found that Christianity has already given them no help or answers
I've been an outcast my whole life in my family, throughout my school years, never had 1 true friend. Boy it's a lonely road, but, if it wasn't for God, I don't know where I'd be!!
I was seeking bible guidance on this and made a video to help people including myself because I was looking for friendship in the wrong places and not being wise about what to look for as signs of good friendship. Looking at this video over & over got me seeing that a good friend is sent from God and to be treasured. I hope we can be friends x Hope this makes you feel a bit better and brighter as you sound a bit low today... remember tomorrow is a new day studio.ua-cam.com/users/videoE6bs2Mhe9Yg/edit
Me too sweetie. I have been an outcast for my whole 55 years. We are not alone though. There are many people who go through the same thing. Let us all connect so we can have some friends. (Cinny66@yahoo.com).
Been on same road childhood abused by mother then father of my kids nó real decent friends so broken today how does forgiving change the damage of what's happened to u if your left with nothing
@@abcd0193 it's so painful trying to come to terms with been abused rejected I lost everything in my life due to mothers abuse my x partners abuse brainwashed my kids to see me as wrong parent and to hate me today I can just about manage to stand up and walk I fought for my own family for years since thry were young I was terrifed what was happening daily thru there fathers negative influence on them to think everything I was advising them was wrong I don't know how to move on after what thry did
I feel so rejected by my mom and have been longing for a loving mother at age 38 now. She hasnt been talking to me for the past 3 months.. i did all my best to serve her. Would appreciate if you can include me in your prayer... thank you
Have been rejected my whole life, my sweet smile faded, I started looking at men but they too rejected me, I find it hard to open up or even find someone to tell everything I feel. Its so hard some times I think being dead is better than having this pain and no one to share it with , without being judged... Its really hard now I fear falling in love cause I dont wanna feel that pain of being left without a word
I feel great sympathy for you. Friend, I feel like I'm just reaching out x Firstly gotta love yourself first and then it will show up on the outside eventually. God bless you for your honesty.
@@georginajovanovic we get judged and told we are not praying enough at church. That's why we end up dreading even going to church. Yet, church is a hospital for the broken soul, and some are more hurt than others. But people would rather act Righteously and Condemn us. It is not right. Church is a hospital for us all and each of us are broken in some way. We need to love and support each other.
I’m really glad I found this video, it brought me to tears at certain parts but I’m gaining a better understanding of things❤️Thank you for posting this video.
I have literally done this, I went away from someone I loved very much. A whole year away from him helped but within months he went back to his own self again. Some people never change and never will.
I feel horrible, I feel rejected. I ask what have I done, I have said if I did something I apologize but they say no you haven't done nothing. I connot sleep at nite., I cry so much. The one that is killing me is my twin granddaughters., they don't call me before they were born I was with my son & their mom. Making sure I could help them I APRECIATE that my ex-daughter in LAW ALWAYS been a great person. They just turned 10 years old & I haven't seen them for a month 1/2 no call or nothing I am so HEART broken but I been praying to the LORD MY CHEST HURTS I AM SO DEPRESSED., BUT I GÙESS I HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT THEY ARE BIG I CALL THEM BUT THEY SHOW NO EMOTION LIKE THEY USED TO. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME. I ASK YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST., I HAVE ANOTHER SET OF TWIN THEY ARE 14BYEARS OLD THEY ARE SPECIAL NEEDS AND I HAVE A 3 YEARS OLD GRANDAUGHTER SO I GUESS I CAN MANAGE. I THANK THE LORD FOR EVERYTHING FOR THE GOOD THINGS, FOR THE TRIALS., WE HAVE TO THANK HIM . IS JUST THAT I DON'T FEEL HEALTHY BECAUSE OF THE STRESS, THE DEPRESSION & I CONNOT SLEEP. I BEEN BY MY SELF FORVMORE THAN 6 YEARS NO BOYFRIEND OR NOTHING & IM NOT INTERESTED WANT TO FOLLOW THE LORD AND THATS ALL. GOD BLESS YOU SISTER.
I am over 50. I had a bad experience of late where I really got that I wasn't wanted or valued in a certain group. It hit me very hard. This was probably the best video that helped me. Thank You.
Ok! You have just said Christ went through rejection so we as humans wouldn’t have to go through rejection. Then why am I and many others going through rejection? Sounds almost like an oxymoron,
Interesting that this came up in my feed since I am an agnostic, but I found it interesting. Just wondering if your "God" rejects little humans of other religions? What about LGBT people? What about Hindu people? What color is this God? Is it male or female?
This is not true. You can not forgive unless you go through grieving and rage and if the pain was deep especially in childhood it can take a lifetime. I dont like this
I was rejected by two different men, one cheated and ran off with a girl from his work, I met a great guy then the cheater came back and I had to give up the great guy. Afterward, I tried to make things right with him for possible friendship, he rejected me over and over again. 13 years later we tried again me thinking nobody would stand in our way this time and instead he was a serial cheater and a drinker because the toxic wife helped ruin his life. I can only try to heal myself and what part of me wants this toxic narc because of the small breadcrumbs of love he gives me now and then.
I thought this was because we are God's chosen so I just deal with it by preparing for different seasons in my life and making an impact of gods love peace and presence that's in me every chance I get around people they smell god when I'm around. SOMETIMES BEING PRESENT IS JUDGEMENTAL.we gotta suffer our treasure is in heaven our mission here on earth is to be Christ's disciples and do our job as a disciple everyday some days will be good and some days will be testy.eat some fruits and chill enjoy and pray for your daily activities.breath!
Hi Can I have the permission to add an Arabic subtitle to this video and post it on our page TCAWministry? I will be greatful to have soon feedback, many thanks for this video it helped me personally, I was standing at the forgiveness step and I couldn't move forward, I know realized that my expectations was the withdrawal meet :)
The God I believe in tells me in His Word, the Bible, that every person knows God exists. God's beauty and creativity and power is displayed in nature everywhere. Our sense of morality and love comes from our holy God and makes us distinct from animals. God has given us His Word to help us know Him. God says all people instinctively know He exists, that it's written in every person's heart, and that people suppress the truth and reject Him because they are unwilling to put Him first, and rather choose to depend on themselves or other people or things to provide them with ultimate happiness or purpose or life. God offers His love and forgiveness to anyone who puts their trust in Him, and in Jesus' payment for their sins. God gives every person the choice to accept His love or reject it. He gives us enough reason to believe. And He gives us enough room to doubt as well. God loves you, too, and wants you to be part of His family. He created you for love and with specific plans for your life to give you a purpose for living bigger than yourself, to bring you joy and give Him honor in this life and for eternity. Here's some websites that can answer your questions: GodandScience.org Ray Comfort videos CARM.org Blessings to you 💝
I wish I could get beyond rejection-- Nothing works out for me, nothing. I can't even find a place to live before someone says you have to move, I have tried to move and rejection finds me where i work, who i try to get to know, where I live-- always. I just try to keep trying to fake my way through with hope that is false..
Please do not pretend to be someone you are not. I am struggling with acceptance and loving who God says I am. Hold on and know it will get better. God loves you so much. God will help through anything, you are experiencing right now.
Start affirming God loves me, God wants to restore me. I deserve love, i deserve to be made to feel special. Trust in God to bring u loving people. Put him first. Im a black sheep if my family, rejected by my mothers family, my sisters out of jealousy, grown up in chaos n warzone n abuse. I never gad a proper longterm loving relationship n im 45 cause if shame. Suffered depression n psychosis due to stress. I was rejected by a man i chased for 6 years n i ended up in hospital. Just stay put n in peace n ask God to guide you, for a fresh start.
I have been rejected. My flesh cries out for true friends and fellowship. But I know that the word says that Christ was rejected and we also will be and be hated by the world.
Nbhhhh h y
My flesh also cries.
Just remember that Christ went through that so we wouldn't have to! So that we could be truly free from all that even tho we've all experienced some of that and it sucks. Some social skills conversational training will help with getting on better + learn comedy to see the right side in it and it will help you make some friends
your a girl any girl can find some guy always- you dont know what true emotional pain real and constant rejection is- maybe if you and all women werent so stuck up towards guys that afent ricpo suave and give guys you all consider creepy a bit of a chance you wouldnt whine about shit you dont truly understand!
mike moore 😔 that’s harsh, friend. Kindness and peace to your heart.🙏🏼
"Belong" = accepted and appreciated
Joseph had one thing going for him, and that was his father thought highly of him. If even one person thinks we are a real human being equivalent to them, it can make a big difference.
This is true.
When the rejection of my mother became so unbearable at a certain point in my life, this is what God/Abba/Jesus Christ gave me in His word;
“Can a mother forget the baby at her breast
and have no compassion on the child she has borne?
Though she may forget,
I will not forget you!"
Isaiah 49:15
I believe He wanted me to share that for someone hurting deeply from the same sort of rejection here. It's just as much for you as it is for me. HE IS OUR FATHER AND OUR MOTHER. He is our all in all!
" we are not worthwhile in someone they rather spend time with rather else but not with us..I'm not worth it and unable to that position." Feel this right now
God Bless you for this message. The feeling of being rejected for so long is like a knife shredding my soul right now. So finding this information is really helpful. Thank you!
Kevin Jones I pray that this other teaching blesses you and helps set you free, in JESUS' mighty name.
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This is so true. Rejection sucks! Loneliness is even worse. My faith is constant and will carry me.
Thank you. I’m not a religious person but I still connected to this message.
I hated myself so much that I wanted to end it all but couldn’t do it because of family. I started to travel to escape the lonely that I suffer from due to rejected by people mostly women in my life and seeing people I grew up with finding love and Settling down while I am still lonely
im in the same place. its especially hard seeing people getting married or having friends and i always remain lonely no matter how good i am to people. stay strong though
Rejection fucking hurts and I hate the constant feeling of it, but somehow I'll get stronger than all these feelings of weakness
This video found me literally in my sleep, this video helped me understand so many things that years of counseling could not do. Thank you for this message.
This video is perfect explanation of my emotions. The Dr.’s explanation and voice is so accurate and kind. Lord Jesus I’m hurting yet believing I am healed. I am not my emotions.
What's her name? The Dr
I'm not religious but I have to say you are right on the money !
Today I am alone,not invited to Easter dinner with grand children as my two daughters-in-law reject and shame me.Thank you for this lovely video,as after near death heart surgery,sadness surrounds me like an old shroud.i used to be so happy,and now I just want to sleep.The lord I know will help me.
BLUE WATER PINES Pray the Rosary. Trust God. My children reject me too. You are loved. 🌹🌹🌹
You helped MY heart today. About every detail shared applies to Me. Especially subsequent bouts with depression and anxiety. Im a decent person I dont understand why no one loves Me. I'm getting old and afraid it will always be this way. Im a naturally optimistic sagittarian but society and circumstances have been indescribibly harsh to My feelings. And it did begin with some family matters. Ive been resilient I dont care as much anymore for trying but I hope it gets greater for others who share in similar experiences. Thank you for the soothing understanding tone.
my only dtr age 26 threw me away 2 months after i paid and did her whole wedding in tennessee from chicago..i have rheumatoid arthritis im disabeld.i was a nurse..she was sick i took care of her i worked double shifts for vacations i treated her like gold...everyone sayd i was a wonderful mother..now im a burden ive never asked her for anything!sitting here crying....let me tell you something..i helped everyone in my life patients family neighbors etc now when i need help i sit alone in pain crying....dont expect anyone to ever help you because it wont happen!people are selfish!
2 yrs now i did nothing to her..i feel suicidal i cant take the pain physically or emotionally.....its coming
@@crazyworld4761 yep
Hope you will be able to move on and find peace. Learning about narcissism might help. A person doesn't have to have a diagnosable personality disorder to have narcissistic traits and to be narcissistic. Your daughter sounds narcissistic to me. Your story is one of the reasons I chose not to have kids. I couldn't imagine loving someone so much only to know for sure they would leave one day to start their own life, even if our relationship was loving and we stayed in touch. When men leave, it's not like you always KNEW they would some day. God bless you and hope you will be able to move on from this pain 🙏💙
I wish you were my mother.
I'm sorry to hear about your story and the pain you're feeling. You sound like a very caring and beautiful soul. I hope your daughter comes to realize how special you are.
Too often people are taken for granted when they have a compassionate heart. I took care of my elderly mother and handicapped brother until my mother passed, and my family took a years pay for caregiving and expenses from my mother's inheritance, and then rejected me. I won't reject them but will hurt from the rejection the rest of my life. I don't want to be resentful or bitter but it's so hard.
I'm learning that God truly is the one Friend who will never leave me or stop loving me. He is becoming my true source of security.
Maybe I wouldn't have learned to put my hope in Him without this pain.
God knows how to help us.
Jesus promises to heal the broken-hearted who come to Him in faith for forgiveness and relationship with Him.
He is our faithful Friend who sticks closer than any family or friend. He can give us comfort, guidance, peace and even joy when we trust in Him. You can get to know Him by reading the book of John in the Bible. Ask God to help you and He will.
You don't need to be a Christian or go to church to get help from a Christian counselor or pastor. They will be happy to help you.
Blessings to you 💝
Your father and mother may leave you but I will never leave you- Jesus
I have been rejected by my two daughters. They want their own lives without me in it. They have ignored me for the last ten months. I love them more than life itself. I miss them so much. I forgive them. I have turned this situation over to god. Please pray for me. My heart is so heavy.
Please pray for my daughters. They are being influenced by someone very evil. This lady has done this throughout her life and is very good at destroying families and the children's lives. My children had a happy home. Their own business and a retirement waiting on them. Because of this evil lady they have nothing and will end up alone on the streets pregnant. Please! Please! Pray this demonic hold she has over them will leave before it is too late.
To have people in my life that cared more than acquaintances. A real family that would have each others back.
patricia reeves ... Praying 🙏🏾
Thank You
Thank you.
I've always been rejected by women. And I hate myself for it. I will always be alone.
(I know this is easier said than done but...). Stop hating yourself. If you keep hating yourself, you will keep attracting people that justify this narrative. Change your thought patterns that tell you "I'm not good enough" or "I hate myself."
You deserve a good person in your life. If you don't realize that you're good enough, strong enough, people will reflect that onto you.
You are good enough.
And I have always been rejected by men.
@@Feber2001 No I am not. If I was good enough, I would've seen clear evidence of it. If I cannot find evidence, then I'm not good enough.
@@abcd0193 I guarentee you that it's not as bad as I have had it.
I'm muslim and I'm watching this video and feeling impressed how much both of christianity and islam are smilar , cause both of them are based in faith , with my love to all christians :*
omg I'm muslim too
You have helped me so much through your words. I see now there can be light at the end of my hopelessness.
Jesus is Answer!
All my life I was rejected from mother many relatives and stepfather. Those who I felt I belonged to passed on. 1 died yesterday. Please Lord build me with the Opposite of this and Heal this 💖
I love you. You are a marvelous woman. I have a marriage where both of us have rejection issues. This has been very comforting and help me to be more compassionate with my mate.
thank you so much.tears flowing while listening to this whole vedio.
I think when I feel rejected the most it's when I see someone with someone I used to date or I have to be in the same place with them it hurts so bad and that's when I just crumble because it's visually in front of me
I'm so sorry you're going throught that! It's very painful!! Try to protect yourself from them by not being around that guy while he's alone or with his new girlfriend. You need time to heal from your breakup. It also helps to get together with friend and do something fun. If you're around people who love you and go out and distract yourself, it really helps to lift your spirits. I promise that in time, it will get easier. Your heart is telling you you need more time to heal!! Love, Judith
I feel so alone :'(
You are not alone. He will never leave you or forsake you.
I feel alone too.. I am just happy I have a job I can go to .. to be with other people, I was rejected by my whole family.. and can never even pick up the phone to talk to them.. I know of 3 people who would rather I was dead... all because of a comment I made.. and nothing more.. I feel alone too.. but I pray for holy Spirit to be with me during those times... love and hugs...
Lisa Hill can we talk lisa your pretty
+Lorraine god loves you seek a support group or some kind of counseling
Loneliness it's the worst form of poverty, right next to rejecting ourselves, it becomes a self loathsome life, it becomes so insidious, so negative when a person who thinks they deserve to be rejected, that's a cause of a wounded spirit, that maybe started as a child and follows you in your life, where as you never feel good enough to attract others, but all these things are based on feelings not fact, for we know first and foremost God loves us, He is the author and finisher of our faith. We must look to Jesus even when we want to turn inward, these are the times to reach out to The Lord and to other believers, because it's truly the only way to get ourselves out of this uncomfortable comfort zone where the pain becomes what we embrace its called self pity and it does nothing to better the circumstances so please reach out today to God and to other believers youll be thankful you did, because I am reaching out to you it takes my focus off of me, because my biggest problem in life isn't the people in this world but truly resides within the battle of my mind and spirit, when you do good for others in one way or another it helps you too understand that others need encouragement and by doing that we lift ourselves up, I hope that helps and remember For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind
I have been rejected since I was born. I am now Christian and have been for 3 years now: even Fellow Christians reject me, over and above my family. Our families reject us when we choose Christianity (Psalm 27) speaks about it. It hurts! I even pray and say to God: "Lord, am I pushing people away? If I am, please show me my heart and change me: prune my flesh!" However, God says "Forgive Them!" Yet I am still in so much pain! I am struggling with so much resentment. Moreso because the rejection still happens.
I keep saying to God: "Lord, I am gonna be honest to You even when You know my heart and see everything!" I have gone past the stage of worrying what comments and people say to me on social media prayers and platforms. However, I don't need negativity, or being judged. I just need anyone reading this to please pray with and for me! I pray too but I am still hurting a lot. I don't want to hurt anymore. I need the peace and love of Salvation. I am yearning for it so badly 😢😢😢 I just want to love and be happy as I know love starts with me. Some days are better than others. I even suffer silently now but my suffering has brought and taken me to the Feet of Jesus: however, I sometimes feel like God does not hear me, even though I am aware it is the devil who wants me to believe that, the pain still cuts deep. Please pray for me 🙏 I am praying for everyone too because I know what it's like to be in pain. I pray God heals us all ❤️❤️❤️
i just prayed for you! that feeling of rejection is soo incredibly painful. i try to forgive them but the pain is still there so i understand how you feel. being rejected over again takes a toll on you forsure. i pray God will help us both with this
have been rejected since i was a kids.. and till now ...my family rejected me, ,got no friends and boyfriend, every one wants me dead... i feel alone everyday it try to live and make the best of it.. God has rejected me and whole world. I feel like dying. My life hell. I dont even have anyone to talk and only to talk to myself, am a rejected witness. is really bad..the rejected daughter..
Take the pain of rejection to tears in prayer.you will feel light and grace will be in your heart.load Jesus will the burden its not yours.you are worth every breath and to live life in its fullness.LETS NOT measure our worth by how pple treat us.you give them power over you .some rejection is a way pple want can control us.I know the feeling I honestly feel the pain of rejection.i prayed and I have accepted or rather view the rejection as an advantage.what is God removing me from???now I dnt know but one day it will make sense.i will thank him.am in it now but veiw it differently its impact of rejection.its Get out
Diana Ashrams Addison I feel the same way my father abandoned me when I was 5 and never saw him since. my oldest sister was murderer in front of me when I turned 12. I'm always getting rejected when it comes to dating so I started feeling depressed every day, I hate my life
Bless your heart you sweet lovely daughter of God. Loneliness is a sad thing. I would love to have a friend like you.
@@marcusshelby216 im so sorry youve been through all those hardships. you dont deserve that at all. i get rejected all the time since i was a kid. its hard:(
Your voice is so calm. Yes being rejected is hard.
help. my. mind. heal. my. heart
What a powerful message. Life changing message
I feel so alone also
What a beautiful video!
. I was rejected by teachers and other students. I attended 16 elementary schools. We were poor. As an adult my family has rejected me. Strangers reject me. I find I don't like socializing at work. I find myself hiding or avoiding co workers. I don't wanna be around people anymore. How does a person live like this? I've been married for 30 years. Sometimes I want to run away from everything and everyone. I feel like my husband is rejecting me. Not necessarily cheating but rejecting me
I am not Christian but God definitely can be a friend ..whoever you conceive him or her to be
God bless you for this message. I really love it
Lord knows I've run those questions through my mind more times than I care to remember. How many times can you be screwed over and/or abused by people in your life before you start to internalize that nonsense and think the fault lies with you? People's knee-jerk reaction to reject others without getting to know them is such a disgusting and poisonous trait of humanity. God would never lower himself to this. If a fraction of 1 percent of humanity adopted the selflessness and open-mindedness that defines God's love, this world and everyone in it would be better off for it. Instead, this world runs amok with swine wallowing in the mud, and it's all so pathetic.
I feel rejected from a some social group that was so very nice to me they treat like I’m second banana or least favorite they rejected me on their email chats he says email us at any time right after we met it started then now I chat on Facebook instead I feel like they put their anger on me then sometimes depression i feel like I’m dealing with hatred and worthless it’s upsetting me everyday
That is me, people pleasing.
please. god. show. me. what. to. do please. heal. me
Lorrie Kelly keep praying the rosary every single day. Look up Sr Clare Crockett, and put your faith in Jesus...google a live holy hour and sit and talk to Him. Please believe God loves each one of us. 💝🌈☘️ 🐶🐶 and best companion is a dog. Boxers are best, friend
I feel important not rejected
Ok but what happens when its not in the past? My family has always used rejection as a manipulation tool. For so long I kept all the hurt from it in the past. But since my invalid mother has come to live with me, it's all right there again and now I'm trapped -- I can't get away from it. What can be done? Sometimes the only answer is God's grace alone.
...being rejected for 10 years...
...by i trust God...yes...i trust God...
I have been rejected for almost 55 years.
all of the above 😢
This is Beautiful.
Remove the shame and guilt.
Video is too long. Can someone tell me how to cope with rejection?
Don't deny your feelings, but don't allow them to overrun you. Don't blame yourself. Pray continually for God's comfort and peace to cover your wounds. Reach out to others who may have experienced the same. Don't go it alone; isolation is definitely NOT good. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you. 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾
Connect with other people that feel rejected so you know that you are not alone.
On the path of rejection
Please explain how to forgive. Many stories where God did "not" forgive and punished with death.
i hate this feeling sometimes i wonder im better off dead
Mindy Akhtar hi mindy your pretty can we talk im so lonely
Mindy Akhtar your right same as me I rather to choose inject me with dextrose at least the pain so easy. But rejection it kills me without wounded
Mindy Akhtar I pray that this other teaching blesses you and helps you to be free, in JESUS' mighty name.
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Me too
Thank you so much
Thank you.
I saw the thumbail and almost thought this was Carrie fisher lmao
I forgive but I can’t see, yo forget and the thoughts keep playing like an old album that’s scratched and repeating the same old verses
Theresa Marchiano refocus and pray the rosary. 🌺
Prayer of rejection
who is this woman???? she is great
Ani Karyan - her name is Karen Billman I saw it on another video.
+Becca Laughlin thanks so much ))
Ani Karyan she is with the ministry page called Hope for the Heart with June Hunt who is also great.
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If God allows events why change them?
yep
Who is this lady?
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Getting passed is what happens when you do 25 on the freeway. IT'S PAST
past?
I feel like God is rejecting me
Look at Jesus. God accepts you through Jesus. Jesus accepts u fully and completely. Trust in Jesus
you. get. tired. of. people. it's. hard. to. trust
this is how i feel. i feel like i cant trust anyone. im soo tired of people
why
Over simplified. This assumes that there are appropriate people to reach out to.
Yeah a bible verse isn’t gonna cure my depression
is it possible to watch a video on self - help and improvement without Jesus being involved ? Not everyone believes in Jesus, and some people have already found that Christianity has already given them no help or answers
What's not to like? Try the real Jesus, not religion.
@@vernonscott7999 Lord Jesus is the only Answer :)
so the only way to get over rejection is to believe in something that was made up 1000s of years ago.
Jesus was rejected !
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I've been an outcast my whole life in my family, throughout my school years, never had 1 true friend. Boy it's a lonely road, but, if it wasn't for God, I don't know where I'd be!!
Kay Anne keep god first always
I was seeking bible guidance on this and made a video to help people including myself because I was looking for friendship in the wrong places and not being wise about what to look for as signs of good friendship. Looking at this video over & over got me seeing that a good friend is sent from God and to be treasured. I hope we can be friends x Hope this makes you feel a bit better and brighter as you sound a bit low today... remember tomorrow is a new day
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Me too sweetie. I have been an outcast for my whole 55 years. We are not alone though. There are many people who go through the same thing. Let us all connect so we can have some friends. (Cinny66@yahoo.com).
Been on same road childhood abused by mother then father of my kids nó real decent friends so broken today how does forgiving change the damage of what's happened to u if your left with nothing
@@abcd0193 it's so painful trying to come to terms with been abused rejected I lost everything in my life due to mothers abuse my x partners abuse brainwashed my kids to see me as wrong parent and to hate me today I can just about manage to stand up and walk I fought for my own family for years since thry were young I was terrifed what was happening daily thru there fathers negative influence on them to think everything I was advising them was wrong I don't know how to move on after what thry did
I feel so rejected by my mom and have been longing for a loving mother at age 38 now. She hasnt been talking to me for the past 3 months.. i did all my best to serve her. Would appreciate if you can include me in your prayer... thank you
CAN understand ur hurt...I m 55 and my daughter has not spoken to me fr last 1.5 yrs...not only that she hate me...pls pray fr me too
Have been rejected my whole life, my sweet smile faded, I started looking at men but they too rejected me, I find it hard to open up or even find someone to tell everything I feel. Its so hard some times I think being dead is better than having this pain and no one to share it with , without being judged... Its really hard now I fear falling in love cause I dont wanna feel that pain of being left without a word
I feel great sympathy for you. Friend, I feel like I'm just reaching out x Firstly gotta love yourself first and then it will show up on the outside eventually. God bless you for your honesty.
I am wondering why no one admits this kind of thing at church.
@@georginajovanovic we get judged and told we are not praying enough at church. That's why we end up dreading even going to church. Yet, church is a hospital for the broken soul, and some are more hurt than others. But people would rather act Righteously and Condemn us. It is not right. Church is a hospital for us all and each of us are broken in some way. We need to love and support each other.
ive been rejected my whole life also. guys reject me too and only want me for one thing. i need prayers. ill pray for you also
Constantly rejected. Im used to it
I’m really glad I found this video, it brought me to tears at certain parts but I’m gaining a better understanding of things❤️Thank you for posting this video.
I have literally done this, I went away from someone I loved very much. A whole year away from him helped but within months he went back to his own self again. Some people never change and never will.
I feel horrible, I feel rejected. I ask what have I done, I have said if I did something I apologize but they say no you haven't done nothing. I connot sleep at nite., I cry so much. The one that is killing me is my twin granddaughters., they don't call me before they were born I was with my son & their mom. Making sure I could help them I APRECIATE that my ex-daughter in LAW ALWAYS been a great person. They just turned 10 years old & I haven't seen them for a month 1/2 no call or nothing I am so HEART broken but I been praying to the LORD MY CHEST HURTS I AM SO DEPRESSED., BUT I GÙESS I HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT THEY ARE BIG I CALL THEM BUT THEY SHOW NO EMOTION LIKE THEY USED TO. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME. I ASK YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST., I HAVE ANOTHER SET OF TWIN THEY ARE 14BYEARS OLD THEY ARE SPECIAL NEEDS AND I HAVE A 3 YEARS OLD GRANDAUGHTER SO I GUESS I CAN MANAGE. I THANK THE LORD FOR EVERYTHING FOR THE GOOD THINGS, FOR THE TRIALS., WE HAVE TO THANK HIM . IS JUST THAT I DON'T FEEL HEALTHY BECAUSE OF THE STRESS, THE DEPRESSION & I CONNOT SLEEP. I BEEN BY MY SELF FORVMORE THAN 6 YEARS NO BOYFRIEND OR NOTHING & IM NOT INTERESTED WANT TO FOLLOW THE LORD AND THATS ALL. GOD BLESS YOU SISTER.
I am over 50. I had a bad experience of late where I really got that I wasn't wanted or valued in a certain group. It hit me very hard. This was probably the best video that helped me. Thank You.
Ok! You have just said Christ went through rejection so we as humans wouldn’t have to go through rejection. Then why am I and many others going through rejection? Sounds almost like an oxymoron,
i agree with you. im still trying to understand that myself but i keep getting rejected no matter what i do.
It’s hard to overcome rejection
Yes it is.
this video speaks volume like dang
Interesting that this came up in my feed since I am an agnostic, but I found it interesting. Just wondering if your "God" rejects little humans of other religions? What about LGBT people? What about Hindu people? What color is this God? Is it male or female?
This is not true. You can not forgive unless you go through grieving and rage and if the pain was deep especially in childhood it can take a lifetime. I dont like this
Women have learned the most important thing in their life. That’s how to reject men in the most vicious ways ever.
What a sweet lady! Thank you for this video, God bless 🙏
I was rejected by two different men, one cheated and ran off with a girl from his work, I met a great guy then the cheater came back and I had to give up the great guy. Afterward, I tried to make things right with him for possible friendship, he rejected me over and over again. 13 years later we tried again me thinking nobody would stand in our way this time and instead he was a serial cheater and a drinker because the toxic wife helped ruin his life. I can only try to heal myself and what part of me wants this toxic narc because of the small breadcrumbs of love he gives me now and then.
This is excellent
I thought this was because we are God's chosen so I just deal with it by preparing for different seasons in my life and making an impact of gods love peace and presence that's in me every chance I get around people they smell god when I'm around. SOMETIMES BEING PRESENT IS JUDGEMENTAL.we gotta suffer our treasure is in heaven our mission here on earth is to be Christ's disciples and do our job as a disciple everyday some days will be good and some days will be testy.eat some fruits and chill enjoy and pray for your daily activities.breath!
Hi Can I have the permission to add an Arabic subtitle to this video and post it on our page TCAWministry? I will be greatful to have soon feedback, many thanks for this video it helped me personally, I was standing at the forgiveness step and I couldn't move forward, I know realized that my expectations was the withdrawal meet :)
I'm related this toooo much. To the man I love😞😞😢😢
yes. lord. help. me. for. l. have. been. there. feeling. like. that
This is awesome. Thank you so much for this video. ❤❤
Thank you.
What get's me about this is you say God as if there is one God and you know who they are.
The God I believe in tells me in His Word, the Bible, that every person knows God exists. God's beauty and creativity and power is displayed in nature everywhere. Our sense of morality and love comes from our holy God and makes us distinct from animals.
God has given us His Word to help us know Him.
God says all people instinctively know He exists, that it's written in every person's heart, and that people suppress the truth and reject Him because they are unwilling to put Him first, and rather choose to depend on themselves or other people or things to provide them with ultimate happiness or purpose or life.
God offers His love and forgiveness to anyone who puts their trust in Him, and in Jesus' payment for their sins.
God gives every person the choice to accept His love or reject it. He gives us enough reason to believe. And He gives us enough room to doubt as well.
God loves you, too, and wants you to be part of His family. He created you for love and with specific plans for your life to give you a purpose for living bigger than yourself, to bring you joy and give Him honor in this life and for eternity.
Here's some websites that can answer your questions:
GodandScience.org
Ray Comfort videos
CARM.org
Blessings to you 💝
Thank you!
I wish I could get beyond rejection-- Nothing works out for me, nothing. I can't even find a place to live before someone says you have to move, I have tried to move and rejection finds me where i work, who i try to get to know, where I live-- always. I just try to keep trying to fake my way through with hope that is false..
Please do not pretend to be someone you are not. I am struggling with acceptance and loving who God says I am. Hold on and know it will get better. God loves you so much. God will help through anything, you are experiencing right now.
things are better now-- I moved into a safer place-- so tired of all of this drama.
Start affirming God loves me, God wants to restore me. I deserve love, i deserve to be made to feel special. Trust in God to bring u loving people. Put him first. Im a black sheep if my family, rejected by my mothers family, my sisters out of jealousy, grown up in chaos n warzone n abuse. I never gad a proper longterm loving relationship n im 45 cause if shame. Suffered depression n psychosis due to stress. I was rejected by a man i chased for 6 years n i ended up in hospital. Just stay put n in peace n ask God to guide you, for a fresh start.
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Abortion is the ultimate rejection. This is a beautiful teaching
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