The “faking mental disorders trend” has spread to real life. Had an ex friend suddenly develop Tourette’s, autism, and a stutter within a single week. Never would listen to go to a doctor or anything because she knew she was faking
Also have an ex friend that decided she was autistic last year after developing a TikTok addiction during lockdown. Started having major tics/twitches overnight and once sat on my floor rocking back and forth yelling "OH NO, MELTDOWN! MELTDOWN! MELTDOWN!"
Oh it's always been an IRL thing, what also gets me are the people who inflict harm to incur physical disabilities (despite being perfectly healthy) because they felt like they should have been born that way. Like the woman who blinded herself.
I don't understand why anyone would do that. People do that on the internet to get money so I can understand why they do that... but IRL? What do they even get from this?
As someone genuinely diagnosed with Tourrettes Syndrome by a neurologist I'm SOOOO sick of people claiming they have it! So incredibly offensive. And I don't get offended easily. Makes it just that much harder for us who really deal with the horrible neurological disorder!
As a trans masc, I shower once every 1-2 days and what oompa said, (not looking down) is actually helpful. It helps me, and I think that elphaba should try as well
Also, thank you for what you said about what you struggle with in terms of your aspergers. My 22 year old son has been dealing with tons of fear as he enters his senior year of college and if he is getting the right degree, following the right path and I showed him that part of your video and it was a relief for him to see someone else that deals with the same issues.
Never seen Tara, but I'm really enjoying the editing. If she does it all on her own, absolutely well done to her it all adds something to the video, no cringe.
As someone that works in mental health services it’s quite common for people transitioning to struggle with their personal hygiene. I think that’s one thing she isn’t lying about to be fair.
I don’t know if I believe that someone who’s misgendering a transgender person works in mental health services. But then again, when I came out as transgender my therapist told me I had DID.
As a trans person myself, it makes me SO tired to hear other trans people (and especially trans influencers) INSTANTLY jump to the "you're just transphobic" excuse when they get criticized. It makes them and everyone else in the same situation look like a bunch of fools.
XX=XX …..XY=XY being trans is just living in a delusional fantasy world that you force society to capitulate to so you can live in your own psychosis …. Grow up
I'm diagnosed ADHD. And it's amazing to me how often people self diagnose themselves with it. Not realizing that it's extremely more debilitating of a mental disorder then "woopsy I got distracted" or "I just can't sit still, I'm so adhd" lol. I got in an argument with someone about it one day, and told my brother in tears that sometimes I wish it was ASD instead. Because at least people would be more empathetic about my symptoms. Most don't realize that they share similar traits. Then my brain did an instant 180 and I felt bad for saying that and I drifted off into 3 other topics.
@@AnotherQueer No I realize that, at the time I just thought that people tend to pass ADHD off as a simple character trait, and not an actual disorder that might be an obstacle. But realized after that it was insensitive for me to say that in the way that I did. I don't know the experiences that are faced with having autism so it be rude for me to assume anything about it.
@@teetrea2688I think it's because of the pure lack of education and respect in general. It's a spectrum of "abnormalness," not just autistic or not. I'm on the spectrum myself, but I personally know people way worse off than I am. And I say worse off, because they are. They communicate even less than I do, and learning new concepts is genuinely a struggle. This reminds me of being in high-school with my gf at the time. SHe wasn't exactly the smartest in school. She had a learning disability and was also dyslexic. And yet for some reason, my first response for a long time was to make fun of her. It was cruel and unwarranted. I wish I could find her again and attempt to make things right. But I also wish things would be made right for the way myself was treated. We need more understanding, and less division.
I wanna say, I hate the TikTok trend of being "I'm mentally ill, look at me, I'm so quirky!" I don't have autism (I have schizoaffective disorder), but it offends me all the same, to use a real thing myself and others suffer from as a crutch to uphold their vapid personality.
@@Banjo1756 I was about to say the same. The desperate need for attention, lying for personal gain despite how it negatively affects others, that’s most def some mental instability just not the kind they’re trying to claim. It makes me sad.
There’s a huge difference between bringing awareness to a disorder you have eg: “look at me”, and fully faking a disorder for attention. The people who fake are still ill, just not with why they claim
@@RyeDun I'm perfectly ok with people highlighting their disability for the benefit of others with disabilities. That's admirable. I'm only referring to people, whether they have it or not, using a disability as a crutch or to promote themselves, or malingerers. In everyday life I don't even mention a condition I have, it was difficult to even admit to myself I had a disability for years after I'd been diagnosed. So to see it become a trend is also disheartening.
as some who is autistic, i agree with you. bringing awareness to things is one thing, and i’m glad there are spaces online where others can feel seen and express experiences that individuals may think they’re going through alone. however, people using disabilities, and mental illness for clout or to excuse horrible actions just increases the negative stereotypes around those things for people who may not know much about the issue. sadly though, people love to give said people attention whether positive or negative, which is what boosts this content and then opens doors for people to make judgements on communities based on a handful of peoples’ actions.
Oompa is such a nice guy- I enjoy that he tries his hardest to respect everyones identity and even tries to help these people, even after roasting tf out of them
@@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 that also doesn't mean he's a bad guy. He seems genuine, which is why people like him. We don't know him personally, but even if he makes money from this content he just could be himself.
Thank you for making the munchausens distinction. I get incredibly frustrated when people just sling that term out. Personal experience leads me to know how severe and brutal that illness is.
I've had a period in my life where I've struggled caring for myself due to a mix of poor mental health and severe body dysmorphia. I can 100% understand not showering for weeks to avoid having to interact with a body you absolutely hate having. That being said, while I still do struggle with body dysmorphia, the discomfort I feel interacting with my body is a small price to pay for the amazing feeling of being clean after a nice hot shower. Self-care is extremely important, regardless of circumstance. "Just don't look down" isn't really the best advice, but it's so very true that you will feel so much better if you actually take care of yourself and the space you occupy where and when you can.
Can never tell if your joking or being serious but if you are going through some bad stuff I wish you the best, I appreciate your videos and all the work you and your team put in.
As someone who most likely has tourettes (going to the neurologist soon), I hate it when people fake tourettes/tics in general. It is so hard to deal with not having control of your body. On days with bad tics I cannot finish a sentence without being interrupted by a vocal tic, and I hit myself in the face all the time. It is not fun or cool, and I wish I didn't have to deal with it
To be fair my daughter had a ridiculously bad case of head lice and although I braided her hair that morning, I didn't notice until the school called. When I got to the school to pick her up it was beyond clear she was INFESTED. It took 2 days and 20 hours to get it all out. I'm actually surprised this tik tok person even had lice because usually they prefer clean hair because their eggs won't stick to oily hair.
@@MaxHasPerished Also there is A LOT to do with household items. That also took days to take care of and multiple hours. You miss one single lice and it becomes a problem all over again
People like this make it hard for me to talk about my issues. Like it's not fun to have these problems, I want so badly to be "normal" and seeing anyone faking disorders just makes me spiral and start accusing myself of faking if "these are how these people act I must be faking too" Even tho I have a therapist and doctors feeding me medications for my issues. :\
Honestly Tara is the best editor ive ever seen, i dont laugh a lot while watching yt, the vids i watch are just new content slopt for the feed, But Oompa’s vids with Tara editing them, or being in them, are hunks of diamonds in the cole mine, they make me and my wife laugh constantly, and we constantly reference there jokes or editing, like the “material girl filter”. Funniest women alive.
Awesome video! I've just seen this video and I'm going on my soap box. As someone who is also legitimately diagnosed with Autism, I get so sick and tired of attention seekers using Autism as an excuse for their bad behavior. It makes the rest of us who are legitimate look bad.
I have a tic disorder (and other issues) and it's so cringey seeing people faking tics... I get so stressed/self conscious because of my tics that it makes me cry sometimes, it's embarrassing/disruptive and I don't understand why someone would want to have disorders or mental illnesses for attention. It's not funny, it's not cute and it doesn't make you special.
Super popular TikToker who goes by they/them and claims to have mental issues for more EBegging for money. Then successfully deflects any criticism of any kind on transphobia. What a wild and completely unheard of phenomenon.
Would like to note theres also other ways to help improve if struggling with body image. Like Wearing a swimsuit or covering up mirrors/reflective surfaces help even closing your eyes and have pump versions of bodywash/shampoo lined up. Or 3 in ones to limit the stress of it.
As I watch his videos you can constantly see him nodding to how he was scammed. Makes his pain more real to me. I came back to his channel when I saw he’d been scammed and haven’t missed a video since.
oompa, just in case, you speaking out about your autism actually helped me come to terms with mine I think. I was really doubtful for a while even with a professional diagnosis but things like you describing how your categorization of thoughts affects you really helps me figure out mine.
I cant stand how ppl like her undermine the ND experience like that😭 I have aspergers and add and people have literally accused me of faking my disorders just to be "quirky🤪" like they're not debilitating🥲
Why do people act as if being trans excuses all their horrible traits and character flaws? Who cares what you feel like you are in regards to your genetics? If you’re a creep and generally terrible person, their transition has nothing to do with society’s hatred for that person, it’s their behavior that society finds disgusting. Sexuality means nothing, all that matters is a person true character.
Trans people ALWAYS do this. Dylan Mulvaney did the same thing, he just says all the criticism is tRaNsPhObiA and never actually listens to the hundreds of thousands of women telling him he is using offensive stereotypes about women that really hurt us and to stop talking about periods and being creepy with kids.
I had a roommate that was a compulsive liar, he would steal, he couldn't keep a job and never brushed his teeth. The stuff he would steal would randomly show back up again after a while too.
Hey oompaville, can you do a story on Plainview Tx. Recently this 6 year old girl was forced to perform oral by 3 students. The board of directors are trying to throw it under the rug and they never told the parents. Its been on the news but Ik you can get the word out there better. Look into it so you can get the full story, Thankyou.
15:44 me too! I haven’t cleaned my room, because 1. I’m lazy 2. My ADHD makes me loose things easily! My mom keeps telling me to clean, but I’m genuinely scared that im gonna loose or misplace something I own because I don’t know where it is. Anyone else feel like this? (On my moms acc, I’m getting my own acc when my birthday comes around, in about 1/2 months)
as a trans girl myself im so annoyed that people think all trans people are like this and just are awful people and instantlly go to "YoURe tRaNsPHoBiC AhHhhH"
@@HasanPikerIsADoucheyou realize some people struggle with hygiene right that includez me az for some reazon i hate having to bruzh my teeth even though i know i have to
This is fantastic video! I'm really impressed with how you spoke about taking care of one's self and you're absolutely right. I think a lot of people needed to hear that.
as a trans man i also get dysphoria while i shower, but my trick is to just close my eyes (except for like putting soap and hair stuff) under the water. its also like an experience to do that so thats also nice
My symptoms of autism are social anxiety, emotional dysregulation, black and white thinking, dyscalcula, gastrointestinal issues, depression, trouble with translating thoughts to words, heavy sense of justice, paranoia, sensory issues, ARFID. And guess what? Completely self diagnosed. The difference between me and this girl is she had not done research or even spoken to therapists about it. I feel sorry for her because she obviously is struggling but at the same time she is struggling with something that isn’t what she says it is
As someone with Autism, ADHD and several mental health issues, I really hate when people fake them. It's not quirky or some personality trait, it's definitely not a fun time. Plus I'm even more disappointed if their LGBT, we already get enough hate; we dont need to give them another reason too.
as a mentally disabled tik toker that was open abt it from the jump (actually made my acct to be an educational thing) this sorta thing makes me sick, and it discredits all the other people that want to show their lives as mentally ill/disabled people (like myself) also. im sure im not the only one but her name comes from the muscial wicked, a wizard of oz prequel. elphaba (elle-phuh-buh) is the main character, the wicked witch after dorothy in the original musical
It’s so interesting watching your older videos while you were in the midst of getting scammed and the little hints you let out before you went public with it.
tbh the shower thing is understandable, sometimes looking at your own body makes you feel so disgusting and wrong and upset it leads to extreme reactions (Self harm, attempting suicide, plus more) and for a lot of people it's easier to simply not shower - i'm not blaming her there, plus the dysphoria can lead to depression where its hard to keep up general hygiene whatsoever, so tbh that part is understandable and I think she needs to have proper help with her gender issues and compulsive lying
I came here to say something similar. The hygiene thing is not something to make fun of. Many people with mental health struggle with hygiene, myself included…
I had an ex friend who faked having DID her story about it changed almost every week. And most of her “identities” were MHA characters. She was a grown a** adult
That being said there is a larger majority of TikTok streamers that have a talent and cultivate an audience organically and more than deserve any money they get from it.
I have professionally recognized OSDD (a sort of form of DID, basically) and the amount of people faking it is genuinely so sad and also really irritating. This isn't a fun thing to have. I wouldn't wish this upon my worst enemy. Edit: I have other diagnosed disorders too, some of which she has said she has. Its very suspicious, yes.
My son has Asperger's and it's so fascinating to see how his mind works. I had to send him to school because he severely lacks social skills so I felt it was necessary to expose him to his peers as early as possible so he's able to learn coping mechanisms.
As somebody whos dealt with severe depression + trauma that caused me to not take care of myself properly, and a trans man(ftm): Personally, I felt ashamed (and still do) that I couldn't do self hygiene (and I still struggle with it). I hope that she can learn to live with her body, but the way she was talking about it came off as more bragging. Not saying she was ofc, but yk. Also, I get not liking things bc of dysphoria! I hate my chest, and I'd prefer if it was smaller, but yea. As long as your atleast wiping your pits/using deodorant and changing your clothes at least every other couple days, you shouldn't smell too bad. No shame if you can't bathe for personal reasons! But with everything else she's done/said, it seems more like smth she randomly said for clout... i hope she's able to transition both physically, and mentally to a better place. I hope she sees what she did wrong and she can become a better person!!! Also: Tara is hilarious and badass!!! Everybody loves her :3
Once again for everyone who thinks autism is fun. It's not I have high functioning Autism in the form of Aspergers it's on a spectrum the most autistic thing about me is I get a panic attack and break down crying when I have to talk to strangers or anyone I genuinely don't know out of fear through verbal communication 😂
i just KNOW tara giggles to herself when she’s editing
Definitely 😂
I have a feeling she's just stone faced
@@saintofgayfrogs she probably does that “laugh” where you just exhale through your nose
i would too tho
@@SuzanneIYN nah she goes “Ha. Ha. Ha. “
The “faking mental disorders trend” has spread to real life. Had an ex friend suddenly develop Tourette’s, autism, and a stutter within a single week. Never would listen to go to a doctor or anything because she knew she was faking
Also have an ex friend that decided she was autistic last year after developing a TikTok addiction during lockdown. Started having major tics/twitches overnight and once sat on my floor rocking back and forth yelling "OH NO, MELTDOWN! MELTDOWN! MELTDOWN!"
@Fal Just begging for attention honestly, it's kinda sad you lost your friend to his own lies 😢
Oh it's always been an IRL thing, what also gets me are the people who inflict harm to incur physical disabilities (despite being perfectly healthy) because they felt like they should have been born that way. Like the woman who blinded herself.
I don't understand why anyone would do that. People do that on the internet to get money so I can understand why they do that... but IRL? What do they even get from this?
@Colten_Mag. honestly, could be hypochondriac or could be developing into munchausen lol it's sad
Tara is my favourite editor her funniness just comes through in her editing it’s like you can feel her presence😂
Are u wearing shades indoors by chance
@Don't Read My Profile Picture okay I won’t
I just want her to show me memes and marry me or something
@Don't Read My Profile Picture you are a op to the system
@Don't Read My Profile Picture I read your Name and I can feel the Metamorphosis starting to Begin.
As someone genuinely diagnosed with Tourrettes Syndrome by a neurologist I'm SOOOO sick of people claiming they have it! So incredibly offensive. And I don't get offended easily. Makes it just that much harder for us who really deal with the horrible neurological disorder!
Diagnosed ADHD btw, like pretty much everyone else in my family (it's insane)
Exactly
i love that every person oompa criticizes he genuinely wants to help and gives them meaningful advice near the end
I won’t
I don't think that's how the video works
@@yourenotthatguy7051 How do you think it works?
yea but I don't think their going to take it though its unfortunate
@Don't Read My Profile Picture i did
As a trans masc, I shower once every 1-2 days and what oompa said, (not looking down) is actually helpful. It helps me, and I think that elphaba should try as well
Same! Can confirm, not looking down really helps. ❤
Also, thank you for what you said about what you struggle with in terms of your aspergers. My 22 year old son has been dealing with tons of fear as he enters his senior year of college and if he is getting the right degree, following the right path and I showed him that part of your video and it was a relief for him to see someone else that deals with the same issues.
Aww, wishing the best for you and him❤
You can feel Tara's humor in the way she edits it's really cool, plus she has the most beautiful smile tbh
Real
Never seen Tara, but I'm really enjoying the editing. If she does it all on her own, absolutely well done to her it all adds something to the video, no cringe.
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WHAT TIKTOKERS LIE?!?!? first time I've ever heard of that 😢
So true fr 😢😢
I had NO CLUE that people on social media LIE! my heart has been broken and my day has been ruined
This is so sad
Same 😭😭😭
@@frankay334 I know it's scary
As someone that works in mental health services it’s quite common for people transitioning to struggle with their personal hygiene. I think that’s one thing she isn’t lying about to be fair.
I don’t know if I believe that someone who’s misgendering a transgender person works in mental health services. But then again, when I came out as transgender my therapist told me I had DID.
As a trans person myself, it makes me SO tired to hear other trans people (and especially trans influencers) INSTANTLY jump to the "you're just transphobic" excuse when they get criticized. It makes them and everyone else in the same situation look like a bunch of fools.
Amen
XX=XX …..XY=XY being trans is just living in a delusional fantasy world that you force society to capitulate to so you can live in your own psychosis …. Grow up
@@Darkey320 go outside touch some grass man, so obsessed n for what
@@budani1473 oh shut up
@@budani1473bro you’re in every trans person’s replies😭 you’re so obsessed lol it seems like you’re the one that need mental help💀
I'm diagnosed ADHD. And it's amazing to me how often people self diagnose themselves with it. Not realizing that it's extremely more debilitating of a mental disorder then "woopsy I got distracted" or "I just can't sit still, I'm so adhd" lol. I got in an argument with someone about it one day, and told my brother in tears that sometimes I wish it was ASD instead. Because at least people would be more empathetic about my symptoms. Most don't realize that they share similar traits. Then my brain did an instant 180 and I felt bad for saying that and I drifted off into 3 other topics.
Hi diagnosed ADHA, I'm Aasta!
I'm autistic and it's not a given that autism is treated more empathetically.
As someone who has both, I can tell you two things, you certainly don’t wish that, and you’ll get it a lot with autism as well.
@@AnotherQueer No I realize that, at the time I just thought that people tend to pass ADHD off as a simple character trait, and not an actual disorder that might be an obstacle. But realized after that it was insensitive for me to say that in the way that I did. I don't know the experiences that are faced with having autism so it be rude for me to assume anything about it.
@@teetrea2688I think it's because of the pure lack of education and respect in general. It's a spectrum of "abnormalness," not just autistic or not. I'm on the spectrum myself, but I personally know people way worse off than I am. And I say worse off, because they are. They communicate even less than I do, and learning new concepts is genuinely a struggle.
This reminds me of being in high-school with my gf at the time. SHe wasn't exactly the smartest in school. She had a learning disability and was also dyslexic. And yet for some reason, my first response for a long time was to make fun of her. It was cruel and unwarranted. I wish I could find her again and attempt to make things right. But I also wish things would be made right for the way myself was treated. We need more understanding, and less division.
I wanna say, I hate the TikTok trend of being "I'm mentally ill, look at me, I'm so quirky!" I don't have autism (I have schizoaffective disorder), but it offends me all the same, to use a real thing myself and others suffer from as a crutch to uphold their vapid personality.
tbh the def have mental dissorders just not the ones they claim
@@Banjo1756 I was about to say the same. The desperate need for attention, lying for personal gain despite how it negatively affects others, that’s most def some mental instability just not the kind they’re trying to claim.
It makes me sad.
There’s a huge difference between bringing awareness to a disorder you have eg: “look at me”, and fully faking a disorder for attention. The people who fake are still ill, just not with why they claim
@@RyeDun I'm perfectly ok with people highlighting their disability for the benefit of others with disabilities. That's admirable. I'm only referring to people, whether they have it or not, using a disability as a crutch or to promote themselves, or malingerers. In everyday life I don't even mention a condition I have, it was difficult to even admit to myself I had a disability for years after I'd been diagnosed. So to see it become a trend is also disheartening.
as some who is autistic, i agree with you. bringing awareness to things is one thing, and i’m glad there are spaces online where others can feel seen and express experiences that individuals may think they’re going through alone. however, people using disabilities, and mental illness for clout or to excuse horrible actions just increases the negative stereotypes around those things for people who may not know much about the issue. sadly though, people love to give said people attention whether positive or negative, which is what boosts this content and then opens doors for people to make judgements on communities based on a handful of peoples’ actions.
Oompa is such a nice guy- I enjoy that he tries his hardest to respect everyones identity and even tries to help these people, even after roasting tf out of them
Yeah because if he didn’t he would be crucified. He literally does this for money, he ain’t some saint
@@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 that also doesn't mean he's a bad guy. He seems genuine, which is why people like him. We don't know him personally, but even if he makes money from this content he just could be himself.
Cuz yall would dog pile him if he didnt
@@noe4354or yk, not everyones a bad person like u r ?..
We love you Tara you deserve a lot of respect. (Love ya too Oompa)
He asked for all your money, give it up
@@HankChillin ?
He asked for all your money, give it up.
Raise his credit score
Thank you for making the munchausens distinction. I get incredibly frustrated when people just sling that term out. Personal experience leads me to know how severe and brutal that illness is.
I've had a period in my life where I've struggled caring for myself due to a mix of poor mental health and severe body dysmorphia. I can 100% understand not showering for weeks to avoid having to interact with a body you absolutely hate having. That being said, while I still do struggle with body dysmorphia, the discomfort I feel interacting with my body is a small price to pay for the amazing feeling of being clean after a nice hot shower.
Self-care is extremely important, regardless of circumstance. "Just don't look down" isn't really the best advice, but it's so very true that you will feel so much better if you actually take care of yourself and the space you occupy where and when you can.
Thank you for saying this.
same, I didn't like oompas advice about it. plus shaming her for having poor hygiene won't help with her problem either
There's two trans people in this comment section saying that's what they do and that it helps them, with hundreds of likes 🤷🏻♀️
Can never tell if your joking or being serious but if you are going through some bad stuff I wish you the best, I appreciate your videos and all the work you and your team put in.
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As someone who most likely has tourettes (going to the neurologist soon), I hate it when people fake tourettes/tics in general. It is so hard to deal with not having control of your body. On days with bad tics I cannot finish a sentence without being interrupted by a vocal tic, and I hit myself in the face all the time. It is not fun or cool, and I wish I didn't have to deal with it
😂
as a trans person, and I hate my body I STILL CLEAN MY SELF. Nothing is more important than personal hygiene
His editor talking through the video is hilarious 😂😂😂😂
To be fair my daughter had a ridiculously bad case of head lice and although I braided her hair that morning, I didn't notice until the school called. When I got to the school to pick her up it was beyond clear she was INFESTED. It took 2 days and 20 hours to get it all out. I'm actually surprised this tik tok person even had lice because usually they prefer clean hair because their eggs won't stick to oily hair.
How did it take you 2 days to get a license INFESTATION out? I had head lice from age 1 to age 10 and a half. I wish it was that easy for me 😔
@@MaxHasPerished Also there is A LOT to do with household items. That also took days to take care of and multiple hours. You miss one single lice and it becomes a problem all over again
@thelandofhotwaifus69420 Well one solution is shaving all the hair off.
People like this make it hard for me to talk about my issues. Like it's not fun to have these problems, I want so badly to be "normal" and seeing anyone faking disorders just makes me spiral and start accusing myself of faking if "these are how these people act I must be faking too"
Even tho I have a therapist and doctors feeding me medications for my issues. :\
Honestly Tara is the best editor ive ever seen, i dont laugh a lot while watching yt, the vids i watch are just new content slopt for the feed, But Oompa’s vids with Tara editing them, or being in them, are hunks of diamonds in the cole mine, they make me and my wife laugh constantly, and we constantly reference there jokes or editing, like the “material girl filter”. Funniest women alive.
Imagine being more toxic then Chernobyl disaster, and clinically insane.
I have autism as well and I literally nervous to ask what someone is cooking even tho I have never been yelled at by anyone
Awesome video! I've just seen this video and I'm going on my soap box. As someone who is also legitimately diagnosed with Autism, I get so sick and tired of attention seekers using Autism as an excuse for their bad behavior. It makes the rest of us who are legitimate look bad.
I have a tic disorder (and other issues) and it's so cringey seeing people faking tics... I get so stressed/self conscious because of my tics that it makes me cry sometimes, it's embarrassing/disruptive and I don't understand why someone would want to have disorders or mental illnesses for attention. It's not funny, it's not cute and it doesn't make you special.
Now although I murdered an entire family, I feel it's necessary to include the fact that I do in fact have the autism.
Super popular TikToker who goes by they/them and claims to have mental issues for more EBegging for money. Then successfully deflects any criticism of any kind on transphobia.
What a wild and completely unheard of phenomenon.
Would like to note theres also other ways to help improve if struggling with body image. Like Wearing a swimsuit or covering up mirrors/reflective surfaces help even closing your eyes and have pump versions of bodywash/shampoo lined up. Or 3 in ones to limit the stress of it.
As I watch his videos you can constantly see him nodding to how he was scammed. Makes his pain more real to me. I came back to his channel when I saw he’d been scammed and haven’t missed a video since.
Oh hey, same here! Seeing how he handled it and reacted to everything turned me into a follower. ❤
Oompa deserves more subscribers he works so hard to make content everyday instead of just reacting to TikTok’s like everybody else
Who's gonna tell them ?
I feel like Caleb has genuinely gotten funnier over the past 3 or so years I’ve been watching him
I think it’s because he’s been doing more stuff that he actually likes making and so is more comfortable and therefore more happy and funny
Fr, Caleb is such a cool dude
The line "These Creatures are Cronically online" 😂😂😂😂😂
oompa, just in case, you speaking out about your autism actually helped me come to terms with mine I think. I was really doubtful for a while even with a professional diagnosis but things like you describing how your categorization of thoughts affects you really helps me figure out mine.
its so annoying for people who actually have these disorders
I cant stand how ppl like her undermine the ND experience like that😭 I have aspergers and add and people have literally accused me of faking my disorders just to be "quirky🤪" like they're not debilitating🥲
Tiktokers actually make me wonder how tf we’re not alr extinct sometimes
I think the same thing with youtube shorts users
As a theatre nerd, It p a i n s me to see how oompa pronounces Elphaba
El Fábá
Been looking for this comment
i didnt even know thats what he was saying until this comment :( lol
Right??
How’s it pronounced? Is it Elf ah bah or elf uh buh?
Bro I forgot headlice were even a critter that existed, haven't heard of those things in like 10 years
Little critters in the brain.
Why do people act as if being trans excuses all their horrible traits and character flaws? Who cares what you feel like you are in regards to your genetics? If you’re a creep and generally terrible person, their transition has nothing to do with society’s hatred for that person, it’s their behavior that society finds disgusting. Sexuality means nothing, all that matters is a person true character.
Trans people ALWAYS do this. Dylan Mulvaney did the same thing, he just says all the criticism is tRaNsPhObiA and never actually listens to the hundreds of thousands of women telling him he is using offensive stereotypes about women that really hurt us and to stop talking about periods and being creepy with kids.
@@gypsylee333”alwyas” what
ignore the “alyways” i cant type it, itz the same with alchcohcicl
@@c0zmozys they always accuse people of being transphobic when they do something bad and people are angry at their behavior.
@@gypsylee333 az someone who iz technically tranz
…..no T_T
4:00 There was a perfect cut to a commercial singing “This is how legends are made” 😂😂
I had a roommate that was a compulsive liar, he would steal, he couldn't keep a job and never brushed his teeth. The stuff he would steal would randomly show back up again after a while too.
I think my favorite part of the video is Caleb constantly mispronouncing the name Elphaba 😂
How is it pronounced?
@@tcf_iceland elf uh buh ? maybe ?
Alf-ah-buh.
Like the wicked witch in Wicked. Lol
Everytime he said it wrong it made me laugh.
"elPHARHBARH" I LAUHED EVERY TIME
imagine being so disgusted with yaself you transition to being one of them and you still are even more disgusted........
Tiktok created a whole new species
3:44 the way her voice is like: "I'm nut like thaaaaa-, I'm not like thaaaaaa---"
Hey oompaville, can you do a story on Plainview Tx. Recently this 6 year old girl was forced to perform oral by 3 students. The board of directors are trying to throw it under the rug and they never told the parents. Its been on the news but Ik you can get the word out there better. Look into it so you can get the full story, Thankyou.
15:44 me too! I haven’t cleaned my room, because 1. I’m lazy 2. My ADHD makes me loose things easily! My mom keeps telling me to clean, but I’m genuinely scared that im gonna loose or misplace something I own because I don’t know where it is. Anyone else feel like this?
(On my moms acc, I’m getting my own acc when my birthday comes around, in about 1/2 months)
Realllll that's why I keep everything around my bed
as a trans girl myself im so annoyed that people think all trans people are like this and just are awful people and instantlly go to "YoURe tRaNsPHoBiC AhHhhH"
Too much of us just don’t have sense
Literally 😭😭
You’re a dude stop living a lie
I've dated a trans girl she was a wonderful person to be around
@@sarcashd3991 🤮
As a British man, I’m embarrassed that there are so many strange people from my country
Hi Tara thanks for keeping oompa sane.
My old best friend had autism and he struggled a lot with it. Faking it seems just so disrespectful.
Here's a compliment Tara: You shower markedly more than I do!
That's nasty
@@HasanPikerIsADoucheyou realize some people struggle with hygiene right
that includez me az for some reazon i hate having to bruzh my teeth even though i know i have to
This is fantastic video! I'm really impressed with how you spoke about taking care of one's self and you're absolutely right. I think a lot of people needed to hear that.
We love you Oompa!!
I dont
I am mentally ill 😍
Tara your editing is amazing and it’s obvious you understand his humor. You are awesome!
These intros are why I have the urge to scream and go berserk in the middle of a normal conversATION
3:09 “WHY do we care about this.. perthon🤓…..what specifically did day doo?🤔”
That made my whole experience of the video way better
Ompas hair is more beautiful than any celebrity’s hair change my mind
I wanna eat papa oompas hair
They should just be honest about their disorders. Internet/Social Media Addiction and Histrionic Personality along with Narcistic PD too.
Tara is super awesome and is one of the best editors around.
She is pretty, smart, and talented
We love Tara!
💙💙💙
hope your doing well , sending love!
as a trans man i also get dysphoria while i shower, but my trick is to just close my eyes (except for like putting soap and hair stuff) under the water. its also like an experience to do that so thats also nice
when i don't get my night time milk warmed up in the microwave: 0:01
My symptoms of autism are social anxiety, emotional dysregulation, black and white thinking, dyscalcula, gastrointestinal issues, depression, trouble with translating thoughts to words, heavy sense of justice, paranoia, sensory issues, ARFID.
And guess what?
Completely self diagnosed.
The difference between me and this girl is she had not done research or even spoken to therapists about it. I feel sorry for her because she obviously is struggling but at the same time she is struggling with something that isn’t what she says it is
Caleb does what I can't do: watch idiots be idiots.
As someone with Autism, ADHD and several mental health issues, I really hate when people fake them. It's not quirky or some personality trait, it's definitely not a fun time. Plus I'm even more disappointed if their LGBT, we already get enough hate; we dont need to give them another reason too.
Tara means the world to every viewer. Her editing is amazing and probably the best on the platform ❤❤❤
as a mentally disabled tik toker that was open abt it from the jump (actually made my acct to be an educational thing) this sorta thing makes me sick, and it discredits all the other people that want to show their lives as mentally ill/disabled people (like myself)
also. im sure im not the only one but her name comes from the muscial wicked, a wizard of oz prequel. elphaba (elle-phuh-buh) is the main character, the wicked witch after dorothy in the original musical
As soon as she started blaming transphophic people...i immediately was waiting for the "autism" excuse. Seem to be rising in people these days
i always find it nice to see oompa talk about aspergers and be open about it even if it is just for a little bit. thanks oompa.
Advise for her:
1. Invest in shampoo and a hairbrush
2. Stop buying useless stuff with money you don’t have
3. Get a job
4. Get off of social media
It’s so interesting watching your older videos while you were in the midst of getting scammed and the little hints you let out before you went public with it.
17:29 she can get a job at Tesco coz she’s used to saying “thank you for shopping at Tesco” 😭
Almost have to wonder what these other tiktokers are gonna do if that one state here in the us banned it.
tbh the shower thing is understandable, sometimes looking at your own body makes you feel so disgusting and wrong and upset it leads to extreme reactions (Self harm, attempting suicide, plus more) and for a lot of people it's easier to simply not shower - i'm not blaming her there, plus the dysphoria can lead to depression where its hard to keep up general hygiene whatsoever, so tbh that part is understandable and I think she needs to have proper help with her gender issues and compulsive lying
Fr. Risking all those awful thoughts and feelings just doesn’t feel worth it some days. People don’t realize how bad dysphoria can be
Thank you for saying this, i was hoping someone would comment something like this
But she could wash her hair and face though
@@cutmehtwice you clearly do not understand how severe gender dysphoria and depression are
I came here to say something similar. The hygiene thing is not something to make fun of. Many people with mental health struggle with hygiene, myself included…
I had an ex friend who faked having DID her story about it changed almost every week. And most of her “identities” were MHA characters. She was a grown a** adult
Compared to the people on tiktok the ATF seems completely sane
I’ve never heard of this person until today, thank you oompa.
It’s pretty normal for TikTok streamers to beg for gifts. Now the sending it back part is funny.
That being said there is a larger majority of TikTok streamers that have a talent and cultivate an audience organically and more than deserve any money they get from it.
Me as a transwoman I don't care about my bits I wanna be clean
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10:37-10:55 Oompa is out here speaking truth! I know exactly the feeling
9:20
“Victim is chic” - Marylin Manson, Perfume.
I have professionally recognized OSDD (a sort of form of DID, basically) and the amount of people faking it is genuinely so sad and also really irritating. This isn't a fun thing to have. I wouldn't wish this upon my worst enemy.
Edit: I have other diagnosed disorders too, some of which she has said she has. Its very suspicious, yes.
My son has Asperger's and it's so fascinating to see how his mind works. I had to send him to school because he severely lacks social skills so I felt it was necessary to expose him to his peers as early as possible so he's able to learn coping mechanisms.
As a dermatologist I can confirm oompa has an excellent scalp, thats a stud right there💪🏽💯
I love the Aphex twin in the background sometimes
I wonder if editing comes naturally to Tara? She’s one of the goofiest editors I’ve seen and I think it’s awesome 😂
Every time I see the name all I can think of is wicked. Iykyk, but like all I can hear is defying gravity.
Why tf did "I have a low credit score" make me guffaw out loud
As somebody whos dealt with severe depression + trauma that caused me to not take care of myself properly, and a trans man(ftm):
Personally, I felt ashamed (and still do) that I couldn't do self hygiene (and I still struggle with it). I hope that she can learn to live with her body, but the way she was talking about it came off as more bragging. Not saying she was ofc, but yk. Also, I get not liking things bc of dysphoria! I hate my chest, and I'd prefer if it was smaller, but yea. As long as your atleast wiping your pits/using deodorant and changing your clothes at least every other couple days, you shouldn't smell too bad. No shame if you can't bathe for personal reasons! But with everything else she's done/said, it seems more like smth she randomly said for clout... i hope she's able to transition both physically, and mentally to a better place. I hope she sees what she did wrong and she can become a better person!!!
Also: Tara is hilarious and badass!!! Everybody loves her :3
Once again for everyone who thinks autism is fun. It's not I have high functioning Autism in the form of Aspergers it's on a spectrum the most autistic thing about me is I get a panic attack and break down crying when I have to talk to strangers or anyone I genuinely don't know out of fear through verbal communication 😂
AUTISM UNITE YEAHHHHHHHHHHH🔥‼️
@@sarcashd3991 *GIR SCREECH* YEAH!
For anyone who wanted to know the music at 3:55 - 4:08 is Alberto balsam by Aphex twin.
7:22 also has it
Tara deserves a raise. Make it happen OoMps. 🤨
I’m embarrassed this comes from the UK. Soon as begtok is shut down the better. Absolutely disgusting.
Tara is the funniest editor on UA-cam I swear, she itches the right spot in my brain
The internet made people solidify that they can do and say what ever without getting punched in the chest. Js.
Kudos to Tara for the awesome editing! And Oompa, you're awesome as well! Humor and reacts on every video you upload.
As someone who’s had tics, I can tell you that they are NOT fun. I despise it when people fake it, because they are not something people enjoy having.