It's a double standard, and joking about it actually makes it worse. Because joke or not, she believes it's OK. What she's actually doing is making her wants a priority over yours. You can do what you like, it's your life, and it certainly won't affect me, but if you don't put an end to this kind of shit sooner rather than later, one day down the line you'll discover all the things you enjoyed doing will have become things you used to enjoy doing. Something to remember, that you're probably too young to understand - in 20 years time, you can start new hobbies, you can restart old hobbies, you can potentially restart relationships with old friends, but what you will never be able to do is get back the 20 years of life and experiences you had to sacrifice because pandering to your wife's insecurities is what was required of you. Time is the only thing you have that is beyond price, don't waste it.
I don't mind if your bored I just don't want you enjoying anything but me....I'm not needy though I didn't realize it but my wife did this shit for over 20 years and it wasn't until recently I realized I had stopped most of my enjoyable hobbies. Now I have free time and money in my life again and she's mad because I'm back to doing things I love. She criticizes everything I do pointing out any flaws instead of supporting my ideas and creations and saying it's cheaper to buy it. "she doesn't work" I make furniture in my down time its relaxing and do home improvement projects. Fix this shit now and good luck.
@@TshepoKotelo ……perhaps not a new wife, but most definitely a new conversation with her about what bothers her so much and why she has become so bitchy.
@@davidj.leavitt7176 What if she lies to you when you're trying to do this? It's better to walk away from your wife if she is behaving like this because no amount of communication will change things
When I put on my PS5 my wife comes in the room within 10 minutes, kisses me and always says: “Do you wanna play with me or with yourself?” The PS5 turns off ten seconds later. I’m a lucky man.
If you enjoy being manipulated, then yes I guess you're lucky. If you're just using the xbox to get more sex, then you're manipulating her, I hope she'll feel like a lucky woman when she finds out. Either way manipulation should not be a tool in the toolbox of a happy marriage.
She doesn't want you to addict on other things than her. Don't let her ruin your fun and personal time. What happens if she leaves you. Keep space in between everything. Then she wants you more.
Aaaw.... what a sweet couple. Cell phone, and especially the toxic facebook apps are much more detrimental to friendsships and relationships than xbox....
Now what he has to do is whenever HE wants to cuddle when she's "busy" to simple turn on the x-box to summon her then boom, he wins. And if she doesn't show up he could just start gaming.
Tell me your wife's a control freak without telling me your wife's a control freak, with massive/clinical mental issues since birth and no amount if modern doctors and medicine could ever fix it.
What kind of women are you guys meeting? If I want to go do something by myself, my wife will just say "all right, text me when you're done, bye." This is video here is more like in the first few months of living together. Trust me, after a few years of marriage and life together, especially with kids, and both parents will be cherishing their alone time.
Okay so what wpuld happen if you turn it on, and then off beflre she comes in. She comes in and sees you doing something she approves of. Then she leaves and you turn it on and she comes back and you repeat? How long can you keep it up? Another fun thing- you could use it to summon her when you want something. She comes in and you ask her for a favor or something. "How do you always know when I want something?"
She was mindlessly scrolling for an hour, and then the moment you turn the game on, THEN she wants to do something? Don’t tolerate that; tell her she has an hour to reach out to you, and she prioritized her phone instead.
Another possibility is that she thinks she will lose your attention for a good chunk of time so she wants what she can get from you while she can get it.
This is where women have an unfair advantage over men. How can you say 'no' to such pure sweet honey in the way she asks you to come cuddle with her?! 😂🙃😃❤
Nope it's not about the video game, son. It's about the complete disregard for someone else's hobbies and alone time. Plus the double standard at the end with the phone that's 2 red flags. Meaning she cannot enjoy the movies and cuddles without scrolling on her phone and he cannot do the same. Since women own 90 percent of the homes that we buy and equip and decorate after THEIR own tastes with OUR hard earned money I say this : Every man should have a room (a study) for his own, decorated the way he wants with all his stuff and she isn't allowed in. Nor is she allowed to bother him once he is in. No knocking, no I feel alone. No honey open the Jar. You are only allowed to disturb me if someone is breaking in or the house is on fire. If she doesn't like it or doesn't want to allow it. She can go kick rocks. Always put down the rules and boundaries and don't compromise. If the threat is to end up alone and do whatever the hell we want. Then it's not a threat. They need us more than we need them. And if they truly respect and love us. Then they will respect our stuff and they won't blackmail or oppress us.
Utube did you even watch this video!? If you don’t think he ought to quit the game and play , lol then you missed it and jumped me for no reason! You need to lighten up! Getting crazy with your comments to discipline!😊
If this happens On a regular basis it’s actually quite irritating
I agree
That was for video bro ..relax
most likely a skit
@@ksrathore2006 Well, hopefully lmao. I'd divorce her if that was on a daily basis
Nah it's actually dope if you don't take it in a bad way.
It's a double standard, and joking about it actually makes it worse. Because joke or not, she believes it's OK. What she's actually doing is making her wants a priority over yours.
You can do what you like, it's your life, and it certainly won't affect me, but if you don't put an end to this kind of shit sooner rather than later, one day down the line you'll discover all the things you enjoyed doing will have become things you used to enjoy doing.
Something to remember, that you're probably too young to understand - in 20 years time, you can start new hobbies, you can restart old hobbies, you can potentially restart relationships with old friends, but what you will never be able to do is get back the 20 years of life and experiences you had to sacrifice because pandering to your wife's insecurities is what was required of you. Time is the only thing you have that is beyond price, don't waste it.
This! If my girlfriend would be like this it would be over. I need time for my hobbys too.
Well said.
tdl
I’m glad that you don’t mind. But I wouldn’t put up with that. No way would I let double standards like that fly 😂
Its a joke relax buddy 😂
Same lol. I would have argued a lot
I don't mind if your bored I just don't want you enjoying anything but me....I'm not needy though
I didn't realize it but my wife did this shit for over 20 years and it wasn't until recently I realized I had stopped most of my enjoyable hobbies. Now I have free time and money in my life again and she's mad because I'm back to doing things I love. She criticizes everything I do pointing out any flaws instead of supporting my ideas and creations and saying it's cheaper to buy it. "she doesn't work" I make furniture in my down time its relaxing and do home improvement projects.
Fix this shit now and good luck.
Sounds like you need a new wife
@@TshepoKotelo ……perhaps not a new wife, but most definitely a new conversation with her about what bothers her so much and why she has become so bitchy.
@@davidj.leavitt7176nah man 20 years is a long time. He definitely needs a new wife
@@davidj.leavitt7176 What if she lies to you when you're trying to do this? It's better to walk away from your wife if she is behaving like this because no amount of communication will change things
🤣...
Forces traces of evolution..... hard stuff...
Best wishes❤
Sounds like a double standard to me 😂
I agree.
No ,mate.That's the way how woman's brain working!😂😂😂
@@hristohristov6488It gives off “heads I win, tails you lose” kind of vibes
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When I put on my PS5 my wife comes in the room within 10 minutes, kisses me and always says: “Do you wanna play with me or with yourself?” The PS5 turns off ten seconds later.
I’m a lucky man.
When she puts it like that, she presents a good argument.
oh i thought you got yourself a ps5 coop buddy for a sec. :/
Sounds more like she doesn't want you to enjoy your me time
If you enjoy being manipulated, then yes I guess you're lucky. If you're just using the xbox to get more sex, then you're manipulating her, I hope she'll feel like a lucky woman when she finds out.
Either way manipulation should not be a tool in the toolbox of a happy marriage.
@@petrgazo5184 too innocent and pure for this evil, bad world
The xbox is the mist powerful thing in a relationship and heres why:
She doesn't want you to addict on other things than her. Don't let her ruin your fun and personal time. What happens if she leaves you. Keep space in between everything. Then she wants you more.
Absence make the heart goes fonder... yeah... it works many times😊
Yeah, once she hears the sign of you trying to enjoy your life on your own, she feels obligated to intervene, to protect her interests.
"when I'm done scrolling you're done scrolling" Is cute as a joke, and only as a joke.
The way she stands there is so adorable
she opened the door to destroy you like autonomic reflex as she listened to X box sound. 🤣
Her: wunna cuddle?
Me: No, go away.
Friend: you need a hug?
Me: WTF is a hug?
she doesn't wanna cuddle with you. She wants to conquer you and know that she's more important than whatever game you're playing.
If I were me, I'd say "I'll join in! Give me the controller!!" 😂
Nah, however tempting the wife or gf's offer might stand, what i love to do is also important, no matter how idiotic it sounds to others. 😊
And lots of women just can't figure out why they're single and staying that way
Aaaw.... what a sweet couple.
Cell phone, and especially the toxic facebook apps are much more detrimental to friendsships and relationships than xbox....
Now what he has to do is whenever HE wants to cuddle when she's "busy" to simple turn on the x-box to summon her then boom, he wins. And if she doesn't show up he could just start gaming.
Tell me your wife's a control freak without telling me your wife's a control freak, with massive/clinical mental issues since birth and no amount if modern doctors and medicine could ever fix it.
This would be funny if it didn’t hit so close to home. Every time a man wants to do something for himself she hast to interrupt and stop him.
That's terrible.
What kind of women are you guys meeting? If I want to go do something by myself, my wife will just say "all right, text me when you're done, bye." This is video here is more like in the first few months of living together. Trust me, after a few years of marriage and life together, especially with kids, and both parents will be cherishing their alone time.
Run. Far away. Now
I never get irritated. When you truly love someone you want them sharing your life in every way.
Okay so what wpuld happen if you turn it on, and then off beflre she comes in. She comes in and sees you doing something she approves of. Then she leaves and you turn it on and she comes back and you repeat? How long can you keep it up?
Another fun thing- you could use it to summon her when you want something. She comes in and you ask her for a favor or something. "How do you always know when I want something?"
And this why I'm a Volcel. Nothing beats freedom, plus I do want to be the main character of my life instead of a side kick in someone else's.
I mean it's possible to have a relationship with a lot of freedom too. Im happy my gf isn't controlling and clingy, i would be out in no damn time.
Yeah this is staged, but it's disturbing that some chicks can't stand the idea of a guy having fun without them.
It should always be a two way street in a relationship no matter what you are supposed to be equals
Ngl this would really piss me off
More like a controlling relationship plus there's a thing called lock your door
Ha, ha, ha, ha. Yeah, hide her phone, turn on the X Box and see what happens.
I'm with Alex on this one lol
Fck all double standards. "We're married" is not an excuse for unacceptable behavior
You've got a keeper my dude
Only if she allows it.
I swear it they are the most sweetest couples I've seen wish you both the best of your lifes
Yeah, that's called a double standard.
Double standard all day everyday bruh clearly that is 🤣🤣🤣
This is deeply annoying..if I have to do an urgent task or have a tight deadline to work towards..very irritating
Courtney has a girlish charm.
She is kinda nuts.
She was mindlessly scrolling for an hour, and then the moment you turn the game on, THEN she wants to do something? Don’t tolerate that; tell her she has an hour to reach out to you, and she prioritized her phone instead.
Forget the X-Box, I'd opt for the cuddle.
Dont need a wife like this xd
If you’re starting the Xbox to get her attention and she wants to cuddle to stop you.., only cuddle naked.
That's what I'm saying bro lol
She for the streets!
Wow, she is so mean.
After 13 years of marriage… please play your game lol. I want to read 😂
Ohh. Noo. You better shut that crap down right now dude.
Another possibility is that she thinks she will lose your attention for a good chunk of time so she wants what she can get from you while she can get it.
all videos I watched so far were cute, but this one is actually a red flag
by making joke you are normalizing this....clear double standard turned into mockery...
I m silent just cuz she is beautiful 😂
No no, you’ve got to get on the game AS SOON as she gets into scrolling.
I just love the way she holds her hands it's so cute❤
This relationship won't last longer.
Alex found a cheat code.
This is cute, made me smile
Double standards like that is what got me single again.
This is a nope for me. This cant be happening on a regular basis. It can be irritating af
My wife does the same, but to either play with me or watch me play
It's actually possible to marry a Golden Retriever
This is so confusing, can you hide her phone in the dishwasher? 😅
So I just need an Xbox. 😅
This is deeply irritating it may seem nice at first but it is contolling and annoying
She should be lucky he had an Xbox, else a PS5 would have forced her to cuddle instantly😂😂😂
She's so cute
This isn't as charming or funny as he may think it is.
This guy combs his rats nest with a pack of firecrackers
What?
Videogames FIRST
That would annoy me so much ngl
my wife would be happy so she gets to have alone time
Funny how the other literally holds a camera and they never realise that this is a ploy for a short, either that or its all scripted
Narcissistic much?
Sure, if by "cuddle" you mean...
Wait till Mmorpg gets going
Love the bare feet!!!
I was looking for this comment!
Sempre funciona😂
Now lets see her test you with a Thermostat
How do you say no to that face, lol
Soo annoying
go away!!!!
Why not teach ur gf how to play games and play games with ur gf...ez
Come on Courtney
shes so cuteeeee bro
This is where women have an unfair advantage over men. How can you say 'no' to such pure sweet honey in the way she asks you to come cuddle with her?! 😂🙃😃❤
She's sick
Its so irritating and double standard
Shit test status: failed
모르겠고 존나 이쁘다
Faked
I swear that is not at all cute
It is damn irritating 😂
Sounds like some kind of bullshit
This is not cute...
Toxicity
❤❤❤
I'm 27 but from what I've learned is don't let video games get in the way cause end of the day she's more fun than a video game..
That does depend
Nope it's not about the video game, son. It's about the complete disregard for someone else's hobbies and alone time. Plus the double standard at the end with the phone that's 2 red flags. Meaning she cannot enjoy the movies and cuddles without scrolling on her phone and he cannot do the same.
Since women own 90 percent of the homes that we buy and equip and decorate after THEIR own tastes with OUR hard earned money I say this :
Every man should have a room (a study) for his own, decorated the way he wants with all his stuff and she isn't allowed in. Nor is she allowed to bother him once he is in. No knocking, no I feel alone. No honey open the Jar. You are only allowed to disturb me if someone is breaking in or the house is on fire.
If she doesn't like it or doesn't want to allow it. She can go kick rocks. Always put down the rules and boundaries and don't compromise. If the threat is to end up alone and do whatever the hell we want. Then it's not a threat. They need us more than we need them. And if they truly respect and love us. Then they will respect our stuff and they won't blackmail or oppress us.
that depends on one thing though.
Oh, you sweet summer child... You have so much more to learn
If there any woman Q Ter?
Happy wife, happy life.
Loser
Bro my girl would be visiting the her ma that day.
Utube did you even watch this video!? If you don’t think he ought to quit the game and play , lol then you missed it and jumped me for no reason! You need to lighten up! Getting crazy with your comments to discipline!😊