Huge thanks to DT for opening up about his experiences with grief, and for sharing the important message that there is a huge difference between banter and abuse online.
This podcast is amazing for humanising people who otherwise just get slaughtered online. Very brave of DT to speak about this, well done you two for letting people like DT have a platform to just talk.
@@weww982 I don’t know why that’s your first thought. I’ll never understand why the general public always think anyone who puts themselves on the internet has ill intentions.
@@valentino695 M8, spot on. These disgusting faceless people only come out during incidents like this. If his brother was well, alive and kicking and bantering alongside DT - you think this moron would ever well-up and post with this sort of sudden civility?? Lmao. People are sick and twised in the head; but you know the typical response they give you: ''ThE HElL YOu TalKInG ABoUT??''
I don’t think that’s quite how it works, just because you can still respect someone who has done bad things, and I think that’s the case with DT clearly anyone who is human is gonna feel sympathy and empathy for this guy
@Gregg Hall You just don’t get it do you. He’s a “prick”... because he thinks someone is a better athlete than someone else. The world does not revolve around football. You have never met DT in person, but he’s a “prick” because he thinks player A is better than player B. 🤦♂️
@@jomaddaford1101 Have you been under your rock son!? He often sent abuse to Claude on twitter, drove him to his death, then when I sent to abuse me he goes hiding. Wannbe hardman, bullies Claude, but meets his match in me, hides away like the coward he is
Respect to DT, he has faced some dreadful experiences. I’m not his biggest fan but his past definitely explains where a lot of his pent up aggression comes from. You can tell deep down he’s a good guy with a lot of past trauma. However whether you like him or not, there’s no excuse for online abuse
Weird flex to bring up a comment from months ago.. However given that I see you are a subscriber to Molly Mae’s UA-cam channel (mate seriously.. 😂😭) probably suggests you’re not the best judge of character fella
I love DT for the banter. I have lost 3 brothers in life including my twin who like DT and his bro, died in my arms from SADS. Big Respect to you DT and thank you for that insight into the real you 🙏 an Irish Blessing for you 🙏 💚🤍🧡
Honestly I have 1000% more respect for DT now it makes sense he is the way he is and he’s absolutely aware of that and that’s really refreshing to know
I've always laughed with DT and AFTV not at them, they are just passionate football fans there is no reason to actually hate or belittle these guys. Even TY.
Really have seen DT in a different light between the two clips I’ve seen. Guy seems genuinely spot on and down to earth. Fair play to him! From a Celtic fan!
Mr DT, Claude and Robbie are the ones who I admire the most from Aftv ,of who they are and what they do in their lives. RIP Claude and I hate to see Mr DT, Robbie getting all the hate that they have because they don't deserve it. They are just passionate people who want to do something to make them feel better from their personal problems. Big up with DT for openly explained the death of his brother.
I can relate so much with DT, July 3rd last year my mum collapsed at work and went into hospital with a bleed on the brain, she was in there for a week and we were told on the Wednesday that she was recovering, but by Friday the bleed had came back and she sadly passed, we had her funeral later that month on the 27th and in the night/morning after the funeral my step dad passed away from a heart attack, I find peace with speaking about it because they are what I’m truly passionate about, massive respect to DT for being so open and forward, big love from one arsenal fan to another🤟🏼 Ps. Keep up the great work, as always Jack💛
Big up DT. I went through that experience with my father in 2019. He died in my arms on a respirator. Traumatic experience. Scenes that will never fade…
Whats even more heart breaking is that his in jail for three years for kidnapping and stalking his ex girlfriend he’s wasted his whole life away for nothing…
This podcast was absolute class! I had my preconception of DT as i think many of us have from the clips of AFTV floating around the web, but after listening to him on the pod i've found a whole new level of respect for the guy! Massive respect for DT for opening up like this as well, took a lot of courage.
I'm a United fan and follow DT on twitter, the hate he gets is unreal man, but as you can see from this interview he's a good lad, a lad who's been through a hell of a lot, and came out on top.
I play for DT, he’s one of the most passionate and caring people you’ll meet. Thick skin but a heart of gold and will do anything for anyone. Big love DT. Learn something new about you every day..
Massive respect to DT. I went through a similar experience with my sibling and there will truly be no other pain like losing a brother or sister too young. Seriously, if you have ever lost a sibling, you will know what this man and myself are talking about. Losing a sibling is quite literally living THE nightmare. There will never and I mean NEVER be a true escape to the mental torture and anguish of losing a sibling, let alone right in front of you as we both experienced. I hope DT sees this, I hope someone grieving sees this and I hope everyone who has been spared such grief sees this too. We are all in this together. If anyone is struggling with grief and needs someone to talk to then please message me.
I know in a way how this felt, when I was in college back in 2010, my aunt was in hospital and I'd planned on going to see her once I'd finished in the afternoon. My Dad got the call that she'd died before I even headed off to college. That hurt. A lot. DT, what you and your family have been through, I pray that there will be no more for you.
This is so sad man. Seems like an absolutely lovely bloke on this podcast. Feel so bad for what's happened to him. Genuine Respect from a fellow Gunner.
I had pneumonia when I was 2 and I luckly managed to survive so I deeply understand what DT was going thru with his brother. RIP to ur brother and the ppl that attacks his brother and family r paigons
So much respect for DT. I’m going through a similar situation at the moment after being told my nan passed away 2 hours ago. My nan was someone who meant the world to me due to rarely seeing her due to living in Australia and her living in the uk. I couldn’t say goodbye the way I would have liked due to COVID restrictions in Australia and trying to get to England. The only thing I could do was say goodbye to my nan through an iPad screen.
This is the real DT and I wish we saw more of this version. Not the fake persona we see on AFTV for the cameras. I'm not taking any digs at him I think he's a true inspiration.
Dt has a character no one can replace on Aftv in my i actually watch Aftv because of Dt don't like people who are always looking for faults remember we all humans...bless DT my Mann 👍
It certainly puts into perspective why he gets into the rages that he does, that pain has to manifest itself somehow. I hope he speaks to someone when he’s ready. Some don’t face that level of grief in a lifetime
honestly, feel so bad when this guy recieves hate for reactions or things he says on aftv, he is so strong and has dealt with so much throughout his life and i have the upmost respect for him
Mad respect to DT for being able to open up the way he did, I got a phone call 2 years ago that my cousin passed away and the person he was with panicked and ran away it took me roughly 2 years to accept what happened but one thing I wish I did was accept help a long time ago because trust me it helps you way more than you think
This goes to show when everyone abuses dt online, you don’t know what he’s gone through and I hope people that troll and abuse him on Twitter and UA-cam the phone better feel bad fair play dt
A side to DT we’ve never seen before, untold amounts of respect for coming on there and sharing what’s he’s been through. Sending nothing but love to him and his whole family.
I know he can be a bit over the top at times and I get why he might annoy people sometimes with some of his comments but I have always been a big fan of DT. As a fellow Arsenal fan, I truly feel he speaks a lot of hard truths about the club and how it is run and how far we have fallen. He is a passionate guy who loves his club at the end of the day! I really enjoyed listening to the whole podcast on Spotify and I feel like he came across really well in it and it showed there is a lot more to him than just “angry football fan” and I have so much respect for him after he spoke about all this and how he dealt with such hard trauma! I have lost a few family members in recent years to some horrible diseases so I know how hard it can be and the way it can really change a person.
I just lost my mam and brother within 3 month last year both in uk during covid and I was i Canada I flew home both times and was at his wedding earlier in the year. The stress and grief is unreal. Both sudden both not covid related but more could be done if focus on covid
Love the podcast guys... Dt my guy.. We must remember everyone is living real lifes. People should stop trolling and picking on people.. Have a heart for people no matter what
Happy hour is great/ Jack , you’re doing such a great job - you should be considered BBC presenter surely, great questions and most importantly you actually allow the guests to be Centre stage - respect- Jon Ross take note
Huge thanks to DT for opening up about his experiences with grief, and for sharing the important message that there is a huge difference between banter and abuse online.
Respect to DT
Good job for removing the sound in the intro transition
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italy are in the euro final
DT just needs to be himself and not act up. He actually has a really good sense of humour etc
“Happy” hour podcast🥶
Hard to not feel sorry for the man, had to deal with unbelievably sad events. Respect
What do we think of Tottenham?
@@xxtatevideos3386 classy individual, you are
@@jakebrownless557 don’t even bother responding. It’s not worth it
@@xxtatevideos3386 sad life u live man
@@xxtatevideos3386 shit
This podcast is amazing for humanising people who otherwise just get slaughtered online. Very brave of DT to speak about this, well done you two for letting people like DT have a platform to just talk.
Is it really appropriate to make a clip about it and benefit from all the views.
@@weww982 I mean it's probably quite ratty if they've monetised this video for their own gain
@@weww982 I don’t know why that’s your first thought. I’ll never understand why the general public always think anyone who puts themselves on the internet has ill intentions.
@@weww982 DT wanted to go on, if he didn't want a topic put out there he'd have said
@@JasonSmith-zp1gv it’s usually a look into the psyche of the person making the comment. The guy is a youtuber, it’s his bread and butter
Respect DT massively for this, shows why you should never make it personal online.
I remember one of ur comments where u was abusing him... fake dude u are
@@valentino695 I would never abuse someone personally, any evidence pal?
@@valentino695 M8, spot on. These disgusting faceless people only come out during incidents like this.
If his brother was well, alive and kicking and bantering alongside DT - you think this moron would ever well-up and post with this sort of sudden civility?? Lmao. People are sick and twised in the head; but you know the typical response they give you: ''ThE HElL YOu TalKInG ABoUT??''
@@valentino695 you can see on his profile that his last comment previously was on a thogden episode so you're talking out your ass
@@valentino695 a lot of these kids in the comments r fake so don't bother.
The internet is so two faced lmao, every saying ‘respect to him’ are the same people who slate him and others into depression
Fax fake people
Think once people learn about his backstory they start to realise what they say actually affects people especially ones with quite tragic past
Exactly and I see them in the comments and just laugh of how fake they r
@@YFB72 should u really need to know about people's backstorys before you personally slander them tho? I really hope people aren't that braindead
I don’t think that’s quite how it works, just because you can still respect someone who has done bad things, and I think that’s the case with DT clearly anyone who is human is gonna feel sympathy and empathy for this guy
Mad to see this side of him
I'm looking at Dt in a whole new light now, massive respect for him.
LOOOOL
Got nothing but respect for the bloke , mad how much sh*** he’s been through and still achieved so much 👏
Big up DT, gets a lot of undeserved hate
Take a second and think about it. People say the most vial things... because of a football opinion🤦♂️. It’s so silly.
@Gregg Hall shut up ur the embaressment
@Gregg Hall I would have agreed with you a couple of years ago. But I think he's calmed down a bit now and as such is more bearable.
@Gregg Hall You just don’t get it do you. He’s a “prick”... because he thinks someone is a better athlete than someone else. The world does not revolve around football. You have never met DT in person, but he’s a “prick” because he thinks player A is better than player B. 🤦♂️
@@JasonSmith-zp1gv have you met him and interacted with him face to face?
damn i never really rated dt that much but this is shown me how tough he is and how much he’s been through, respect
People need to realise they don’t know what someone’s else has been through
So take it out on Claude??????????????????? He wouldnt dream of doing it to me, oh he would get his son to beat me up lol
@@matthewdoyle3877 what you talking about
@@calzonie5763 About what he did to Claude, and he would get his son to FIGHT me instead your knobhead
@@matthewdoyle3877 exactly what did he do to Claude???????
@@jomaddaford1101 Have you been under your rock son!? He often sent abuse to Claude on twitter, drove him to his death, then when I sent to abuse me he goes hiding. Wannbe hardman, bullies Claude, but meets his match in me, hides away like the coward he is
Respect to DT, he has faced some dreadful experiences. I’m not his biggest fan but his past definitely explains where a lot of his pent up aggression comes from.
You can tell deep down he’s a good guy with a lot of past trauma. However whether you like him or not, there’s no excuse for online abuse
Agreed.
Yh, that probably explains the reason for his built up anger from the past, but deep down I know he is a good guy.
such a great guy 🤡
Weird flex to bring up a comment from months ago.. However given that I see you are a subscriber to Molly Mae’s UA-cam channel (mate seriously.. 😂😭) probably suggests you’re not the best judge of character fella
@@Tom-tm6lr nice to know ur stalking me like DT did to his ex, maybe that’s why you could resonate with him 🤷🏻♂️
the piece of stadium in the coffin was very powerful, respect DT
Bro wearing a hat that says behave is so ironic 😭
it's iconic now.
I love DT for the banter. I have lost 3 brothers in life including my twin who like DT and his bro, died in my arms from SADS. Big Respect to you DT and thank you for that insight into the real you 🙏 an Irish Blessing for you 🙏 💚🤍🧡
Honestly I have 1000% more respect for DT now it makes sense he is the way he is and he’s absolutely aware of that and that’s really refreshing to know
🤡🤡🤡
I've always laughed with DT and AFTV not at them, they are just passionate football fans there is no reason to actually hate or belittle these guys. Even TY.
Bro you're insulting TY by saying that 😂
@@clarkejuliette I mean Ty is a couple sandwiches short of a picnic 😂😂
Lol the kids in the chat still do it
Nah let be real we laughed at DT multiple but this video shows a different light when he can talk non football related
DT is such a sound guy, feel for him man ❤
For abusing Claude??????
@@matthewdoyle3877 when??????????????
this aged well 😂
Very brave of DT well done to DT for opening up on such a serious subject
I lost my wife to cancer.I held her hand when she died.6 years later my son hanged himself.I tried CPR but I was too late.Anne 43 Alex 21.I miss them.
How are you now Aston? X
I hope you're doing okay. Please don't give up.
Really have seen DT in a different light between the two clips I’ve seen. Guy seems genuinely spot on and down to earth. Fair play to him! From a Celtic fan!
Mr DT, Claude and Robbie are the ones who I admire the most from Aftv ,of who they are and what they do in their lives. RIP Claude and I hate to see Mr DT, Robbie getting all the hate that they have because they don't deserve it. They are just passionate people who want to do something to make them feel better from their personal problems. Big up with DT for openly explained the death of his brother.
I can relate so much with DT, July 3rd last year my mum collapsed at work and went into hospital with a bleed on the brain, she was in there for a week and we were told on the Wednesday that she was recovering, but by Friday the bleed had came back and she sadly passed, we had her funeral later that month on the 27th and in the night/morning after the funeral my step dad passed away from a heart attack, I find peace with speaking about it because they are what I’m truly passionate about, massive respect to DT for being so open and forward, big love from one arsenal fan to another🤟🏼
Ps. Keep up the great work, as always Jack💛
Respect man, best of luck to you!
sorry to hear this
Big up DT for doing this. Real eye opener for everyone
Big up DT. I went through that experience with my father in 2019. He died in my arms on a respirator. Traumatic experience. Scenes that will never fade…
No clue who this guy is but that's a fucking heartbreaking story, heart goes out to this guy and his family
Everyone knows this guy from aftv
@@Kibblekicks i doubt this guy’s from uk, cos every1 from uk knows AFTV
Muhammad Saeed your be surprised bro I know loads of people who don’t know aftv but I think it’s because there not into football
@@Kibblekicks you aren't everyone my friend. very easy to not know of aftv if you don't follow football.
Whats even more heart breaking is that his in jail for three years for kidnapping and stalking his ex girlfriend he’s wasted his whole life away for nothing…
Everyone has some mad experiences in life! Need to remember that before we slate people
This podcast was absolute class! I had my preconception of DT as i think many of us have from the clips of AFTV floating around the web, but after listening to him on the pod i've found a whole new level of respect for the guy! Massive respect for DT for opening up like this as well, took a lot of courage.
I'm a United fan and follow DT on twitter, the hate he gets is unreal man, but as you can see from this interview he's a good lad, a lad who's been through a hell of a lot, and came out on top.
Yeah I'm a United fan as well I just have batter with him but yeah I hope he gets though this
The amount of people these boys have made me actually like is insane. This podcast brings people together. Respect
I lost my dad 2 and a half years ago and DT explaining everything in detail just made me relate so much
The fact that dt been through all of this and he still able to stay strong and make his family proud legend 🙏🏽🙏🏽
R.I.P from an expat Chels dude! Cheers mate! May he sleep in power and may you remember him with love forever!
I play for DT, he’s one of the most passionate and caring people you’ll meet. Thick skin but a heart of gold and will do anything for anyone. Big love DT. Learn something new about you every day..
You really just don’t play for him
It ain't easy to open up about this situation.
Hopefully DT is doing better now.
Hopefully not
Respect to DT. We must understand everyone goes through life's tough side , stop the online abuse and harsh personal level attitude .
Um. I’ll leave it at that
Huge respect to DT for opening up, it's definitely shown a different side to him and changed how I see him.
Massive respect to DT. I went through a similar experience with my sibling and there will truly be no other pain like losing a brother or sister too young. Seriously, if you have ever lost a sibling, you will know what this man and myself are talking about. Losing a sibling is quite literally living THE nightmare. There will never and I mean NEVER be a true escape to the mental torture and anguish of losing a sibling, let alone right in front of you as we both experienced.
I hope DT sees this, I hope someone grieving sees this and I hope everyone who has been spared such grief sees this too. We are all in this together.
If anyone is struggling with grief and needs someone to talk to then please message me.
watch how no one says shit about him anymore. big up DT
give it a week
Fake ass ppl on the internet
Yeah definitely big up DT
I know in a way how this felt, when I was in college back in 2010, my aunt was in hospital and I'd planned on going to see her once I'd finished in the afternoon. My Dad got the call that she'd died before I even headed off to college.
That hurt. A lot.
DT, what you and your family have been through, I pray that there will be no more for you.
This is so sad man. Seems like an absolutely lovely bloke on this podcast. Feel so bad for what's happened to him. Genuine Respect from a fellow Gunner.
DT may not be the most likeable person, but it takes a lot to talk about stuff like this and I respect him for that.
I had pneumonia when I was 2 and I luckly managed to survive so I deeply understand what DT was going thru with his brother. RIP to ur brother and the ppl that attacks his brother and family r paigons
D.T, Much respect to you. No one knows what you have been through in life. Keep your head up bro. Things will get better (from a Tottenham fan)...
So much respect for DT. I’m going through a similar situation at the moment after being told my nan passed away 2 hours ago. My nan was someone who meant the world to me due to rarely seeing her due to living in Australia and her living in the uk. I couldn’t say goodbye the way I would have liked due to COVID restrictions in Australia and trying to get to England. The only thing I could do was say goodbye to my nan through an iPad screen.
You’re not alone Sam, stay strong. Your nan loves you and it’ll get easier ❤️
This is the real DT and I wish we saw more of this version. Not the fake persona we see on AFTV for the cameras. I'm not taking any digs at him I think he's a true inspiration.
Dt has a character no one can replace on Aftv in my i actually watch Aftv because of Dt don't like people who are always looking for faults remember we all humans...bless DT my Mann 👍
It certainly puts into perspective why he gets into the rages that he does, that pain has to manifest itself somehow. I hope he speaks to someone when he’s ready. Some don’t face that level of grief in a lifetime
Sepsis is no joke i also lost my brother to it. Prayers for DT 🙏🏿
From a united fan uve been threw some hard times mate there always be watching over you
Much respect DT. From USA
teardrops came out listening to this big ups dt
I had no idea DT lost his brother, We really don`t know people lives, I thank him for sharing his story and my sympathies to him...
We all should stand with DT , my respect for him has gone up massively how he has dealt with all that is beyond me
my condolences broth , God bless you & the family
honestly, feel so bad when this guy recieves hate for reactions or things he says on aftv, he is so strong and has dealt with so much throughout his life and i have the upmost respect for him
Bless DT, Peace From London. 🙏🙏
The amount of the respect I’ve gained from this video is unbelievable. Thank you DT for sharing the story, stay strong brother
This is so sad😞
I'm not a massive fan of DT but I do feel bad for him he has been through some proper crap I respect DT so much more now I feel so bad for him
Also lost my uncle to coronavirus last year feel your pain DT
As a Man Utd fan , I am really sorry for your lost DT. I can’t even imagine 🥺😢😞 This breaks me. Bless you, your family and his wife and kids
Respect to DT.i've been following him since day 1 but was unaware of some of the incidents he's been through.
I was really hoping that the happy hour song wasn’t gonna start popping off after the intro…
Feel so sorry for DT , his brother and Claude 🌎 ❤️
big respect to DT for speaking about something like this. It's not easy to talk about. Hopefully he's feeling a lot happier
Imagine hating this guy. He’s human like you and me with feelings and emotions, and he’s gone through so much. I respect the guy.
I don’t know if you’re trolling or being serious with that “human” comment. No offense, if you’re being sincere
Nah not trolling at all man. I’ve probably worded it horribly but not trolling the guy at all.
Rough, from seeing him on AFTV all the time, to seeing his real side. Sorry for the loss. YNWA.
Great insight and bravery to talk about this. Must have been and still be difficult. Respect to you DT 👊
I have banter with DT but I feel really sorry for him man 😕😕🥲 hope you're doing allright mate honesty and I hope to see you on DT Daily again soon
Whole new found respect for DT. Jeez.
I like the very subtle detail of removing the intro music in this cutout, shows massive respect
Mad respect to DT for being able to open up the way he did, I got a phone call 2 years ago that my cousin passed away and the person he was with panicked and ran away it took me roughly 2 years to accept what happened but one thing I wish I did was accept help a long time ago because trust me it helps you way more than you think
🤣😭
@@LightningAsh this aged well didn't it🤦♂️🤣🤣
At the end of the day football doesn't take us away from our real life experience hope DT keeps strong 🙏🏾
We've all seen and experienced things we wished we could forget...
This goes to show when everyone abuses dt online, you don’t know what he’s gone through and I hope people that troll and abuse him on Twitter and UA-cam the phone better feel bad fair play dt
I actually like and respect DT
Standup guy in my eyes 👏🏿
If you mock his brothers death you really need to look at yourself.
Agreed , People talk shit until it happens to them unfortunately.
@@SK-jy4em So its ok for him to drive Claude to his death?????????????????????????????????????????
@@matthewdoyle3877 just stop it you dont know either one of them and it wasnt like claude wasnt shouting in almost every arsenal interview
@@Josh-ry4lm lmao
A side to DT we’ve never seen before, untold amounts of respect for coming on there and sharing what’s he’s been through. Sending nothing but love to him and his whole family.
This is meant to be happy hour I feel really bad for DT. man's a legend for coping through all of this.
I know he can be a bit over the top at times and I get why he might annoy people sometimes with some of his comments but I have always been a big fan of DT. As a fellow Arsenal fan, I truly feel he speaks a lot of hard truths about the club and how it is run and how far we have fallen. He is a passionate guy who loves his club at the end of the day! I really enjoyed listening to the whole podcast on Spotify and I feel like he came across really well in it and it showed there is a lot more to him than just “angry football fan” and I have so much respect for him after he spoke about all this and how he dealt with such hard trauma! I have lost a few family members in recent years to some horrible diseases so I know how hard it can be and the way it can really change a person.
Bloody hell, that's a crazy tragic story.
Mea culpa for me. This helped me see DT in a different way. Spoke well with great insight.
Respect DT mate you’ve been through a lot and your still going keep smiling and keep going forward and try to enjoy your life mate.
Its a horrible situation losing loved ones speaking from experience.
What happened man? Condolences either way.
@@unscripted1012 lost my mother to covid after losing my father 4 years prior
@@Maj1794 sorry to hear that man
@@Maj1794 very sorry to hear that man
@@Maj1794 take care
I respected you DT before I new your story and now I know what you have been through i love ya even more, big up 🏴❤️🤍COYG
This interview makes you meet the behind the scenes DT and the true person who seems like a genuine bloke
WOW... massive respect for dt for me ..... I'm a united fan and I love this man now! 💯
Aw DT! Loved this dude before the video! Love him more now! So much respect for him! ❤️🥰
How can people judge someone based on their personality on a Football chat forum. Respect to the man and he entertains 100,000s of people
I just lost my mam and brother within 3 month last year both in uk during covid and I was i Canada I flew home both times and was at his wedding earlier in the year. The stress and grief is unreal. Both sudden both not covid related but more could be done if focus on covid
Always liked this guy but man this guy is something else all I can say is respect ✊🏽
Love the podcast guys... Dt my guy.. We must remember everyone is living real lifes. People should stop trolling and picking on people.. Have a heart for people no matter what
Respect for not playing the intro music at the start
Gotta admit this got me when listening to the episode
isn't nice for anyone to experience what DT, has been through. Respect to him for opening up about his personal life
His poor sister in law. That's absolutely tragic.
Happy hour is great/ Jack , you’re doing such a great job - you should be considered BBC presenter surely, great questions and most importantly you actually allow the guests to be Centre stage - respect- Jon Ross take note
DT, keep going lad you’re doing great.
R.I.P to his brother thoughts and prayers to his family and friends R.I.P