Domestic Issues: Murume wangu anobatwa neSTI vhiki rega rega.
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Tilder Moyo-Karizamimba is a Zimbabwean radio personality who is well known for tackling sensitive social issues. She made a name for herself at Zimbabwe Broadcasting Corporation (ZBC)'s Radio Zimbabwe where she hosted a no-holds barred Sunday morning talk show which touched on various social issues. Some of the controversial issues that the programme has dealt with include those of satanists, child prostitutes, victims of rape and business people who use juju to enrich themselves. It was a phone-in programme and many a times perpetrators and victims called in airing their views and experiences making it worthwhile for the audiences to tune in. She also presenter of the Popular Tv Music Programme Ezomgido/Mvenge-mvenge on ZBCTV Before she left zbc for greener Pasture
Tilder left Radio Zimbabwe in September 2013
Tete tilder nasekuru Choga would you advice your own daughters to help a man build a house kumusha kwakwe iye asina kuroora. Chii chinofanira kutanga roora or building?? Aiwa you were off side henyu apa. Musape vanhu advice you dont give to your own daughters imi.
clever woman .. until that man commits keep your finances separate
Vatadza apa
Mukadzi weshop ari right nekut 5 yrs pasina chaenda shop yatengwa last yr ko before shop aidii kunoroora murume uyo itsotsi anoda kushandisa mwana wevanhu iye aaingadi kuroora pakupedzisira mukadzi wake ozodzoka achit pamba pangu ende murume akadai haamiri newe haiwa ramba wakadzvanya ronga life yevana vako muchichaya mapoto
Tete nadoctor pakuti mai veshop vaise murume mumaplans avo iye murume asati aroora hazviite zvachose.ko murume akafuma aramba girlfriend yake iyi or kana akafa zvozodiii
At.40.she can still.find another one. The only mistake she made.was to move in with the guy.
Tete na doc matadza basa pamukadzi we shop
Mainini veshop muri right Abel ngaende anoroora 1st. 😊 ana tete tilder matadza basa apo
No mukadzi uyu akangwarisa. Haasati aziva zvaanoda mu upenyu
Ari kuita nhaka yevana vake. She is right. Anovakira murume imba obva aroora umwe
Ava vanhu havana order Tilda na Choga wake. Vanoda mukadzi a investe asina kana kubvisirwa tsvakirai kuno. I don't know kuti which principles do they apply pama marriages because there is no constancy in their advice. Munhu akauya achit i invested asina kuroorwa they laugh now she is not investing because hapana kana tsvakirai kuno its a problem again. I don't understand kuti book ravakarengeka re marriage counseling rakanzii because its not adding up.
Haaa panyaya yemukadzi weshop apo i think you didn't advice zvakanaka. Ure busy empowering vamwe vakadzi uyu akuzvi empower makuti abvise mari avake nemunhu asina kumuroora. Zvinoitawo here izvozvo
Nhai hako iwe.... bad advice they gave to that woman. Kuda kuti aite muranda all in the name of roora. They did not even tell the guy kuti paakaona all that why ddnt he leave her .. kana kumuudza kuti roora comes first before building together
Vari kuchaya mapoto avo mukadzi hapana kuroorana apo
Saka munoda mainini ve shop kuti vabatsire murume asina kumuroora kuvaka musha 🤣🤣🤣
Taurai henyu varikupa mainini mhosva but vari right mainini ava ko mukavaka mose okuramba unodiii apa une vana ngavasadaro
@@neliarubacha4056 anovaka achiti ndiye ani
Imagine nhai ...... murume uyo is bringing silly excuses and they supported him. Tete tilder vandityisa nhasi considering she is a woman
Vatadza basa apa
Nhai hazviite
16years ufela igama lokhuti ushadhile a shame lomama uzofa ashiye abantwana bakhe ,ubhinya ,utubayi loyo
@Tete na Dr pane advice yemukadzi weshop mairasa.A woman needs security and assurance in love.Bamnini vaifanira kuita mamoves of securing her wife and loyalty will breed on her side.Mukadzi habvisire munhu Brugwa waasingade kuita future naye willingly,fact that she is still there after 5years should be enough for the man to pay lobola..Women reacts they don't have power to plan or execute things.They want the man to plan and execute then she will automatically react positively.
Tete am very disappointed with the advice you gave mai veShop haa what's that .... let's talk about lobola if he doesn't want tell him to leave her...how can she respect munhu asingadi kubvisa mari stop it....then tomorrow baba vachabuda and has to get shares from hee investments
Am I the only one who disagrees with this advice yemkadzi weshop. In prior broadcasts you were discouraging women from investing kumusha kwemrume asina kuroora. I wonder why you are referring you to this man as "murume wake". These people are coexisting atamba yake atamba yake. This woman is empowering herself what's wrong with that? Double standard yamaita haisi right
Vatadza apa.
Taura hako they discouraged that now jiki jiki
Advice pfocho. At times zvonzi tanga waroorwa b4 u invest then next invest so u can get married. Never spoke to the man kuti ko sei musiri kunobvisa.
Apa vatadza advice for real, toti mainini vovaka kumusha kwemurume mangwana vonzi bude uyende, handina kana cent randakabvisa kumba kwenyu vanoita sei. Ana tete naDoc apa vakurudzira zvisina basa. Mainini vari rite tangai maroorwa mozotanga kurongerana pamwe. Handiti the 1st wife akatosiya 2 roomed iyo😢 😢😢😢😢
True why build kumusha kwemurume asina kundiroora
Guys varume ava hamusi kuvaziva. Haungatangi kuvalakumba kwemurume isina kana kurooriwa , unorara vadzingwa mari yavakaisa ipapo inozobva kupi. , apa mukutadza kutonga bamnn awo vatorineproblem , vana twooo haunakana kumbobvisirawo yoooweeee
That cohabiting guy will never marry her nomatter what she does because he is already getting what he wants from her. The only effective solution is to break up with him over it. Telling him I love you but I want marriage and you are making excuses so I must move on. If he really cares he will marry. If he doesn’t care if she leaves or stays he won’t marry and was never going to marry. As you hear he is full of excuses as to why not , those excuses won’t magically disappear. The error was living together then try to negotiate what you want after. To correct the error you reverse the situation by exiting the marriage and negotiating from outside of it.
Dzimwe advice dzaDr naTete dzirimudondo. One time zvonzi roorwa usati wainvesta kumusha kwemurume next time hanzi rinonyenga rinohwarara tanga waita zvinoda murume kuti akubvisire
Choga anozviedza muziva zvese kani,achiudza vanhu kupusa
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Akawaka ozorambiwa futi kana kudzingiwa nevana we murume.
Imagine apa vatadza kupa advice munhu ngaarorwe first ko akavaka achiisa mari yake ozorasiswa orora mumwe mukadzi
So they are telling us kuti to be married i mean for lobola go be paid i should surrender myself and my pay and invest in a relationship to get the bride price paid, give me a break. This is ridiculous!
Vana tete manyanyira mainin awa. Bamnin awa varikuda kuroorera mukadzi Mari yake here or what.
Bamnin ngavaroore vasiyane nemari ye mukadzi. Vakadzi wazhinji warikuwakiswa dzimba vorambiwa futi panofa murume imba yacho inotorwa nevana.
Mkadzi uyu gandioni chaakatadza nokuti she is empowering her children without asking from this man
😭😭😭😭😭 can we do a go funding mai avo ve 16yrs marriage tivabetsereke this is sad am even crying
Let's teach our children not to tolerate abuse in intimate relationships. Let your child know they can come home and be fully accepted back without question if they're escaping abuse. Thank you for telking that woman that enough is enough
Mukadzi we shop is single ari kuriritira vana vake. Murume ngaaroore kana achida involvement mufinance yemukadzi
Pamukadzi we shop matadza big time haaa ndabatikana. Ukaona vanhu voita mazvake mazvake pane pazvakatangira. Ndanzwa mukadzi achiti kunhamo anoenda ega haaa apa matadza.
Haa matadzira mainini veshop as experts matadza do not encourage mwanasikana kuvaka kumusha kwaasina kuroorwa achitadza kusiira vana vake something
Amainini vemwana1 we24yrs, ndonamata Tete mumupewo start azvishande iye, achizvitengesera mabhero ake, azviitirewo.
Guys vemu comment section inini ndichamboti pfeeee kwemwedzi wese. I am going overseas to Izrael mufunge. For the whole month ndisingatauri rurimi rwamai. Ndokudai mose sarai muchita basa mu comment section..
Fambai zvakanaka
Aiwa mainini havasi romantic murume arikutamba nemi, doc kuziva benzi huswera naro imi mangonzwa mainini 5 minutes babamunini sorry henyu muri right, mainini muchazviruza itayi munhu akaita mushe❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I don't think i will watch this program again getting fadeup with these so cold clueless marriage counselors.
Amai vekuabusewa avo umnnn. Caution is needed. Kusiya munhu akadaro kunoda safety plan. Munhu anogona kukuvadzwa asati abuda.
Umm mai veku abuswa avo ndarwadziwa shame😢
Tete,uyo weSTI every week ngaamuke. Ngabude mumba imomo atsvage basa because achafa nechirwere.there’s still lyf after death
Ah Choga na Tilder varasika. Murume uyu is looking for excuses why he’s not marrying her. If he saw her character before they started living together why did he move forward with the relationship?
And you’ve advised women to not invest usina kubvisirwa why is this case any different??? Nxa I hope she doesn’t listen
I boy friend iyi doctor I can't tell my boyfriend every hapana commitment yemarriage apa why you want them to act as if they are married ivo vasina
Aaah tete munoudza munhu kuti abatsire murume kuvaka asina kuroora
bhuru re Uzumba
Dr Choga vandisetsa hanzi Maam
Tete Murisei. Mudzimai uyo atura kuti ane vana 5 nemurume ano mushungurudza. Mukadzi uyu ngaaende kuPolice this bully man cruel must be arrested
True
Enda unoroora first benzi iwe!
😢😢😢😢 tete dai mayenda kumba kwamai ava patoita action right now vabatsirwe zvichiri padhuze
She needs help this lady she will be killed with he's husband
Well done to you
Vakadzi please chimbomirai zvekutizira mazuvano varume ava vaakunetsa
Avo mai vemari vane chinya chegurwe voti ngatigovane mari vopedza voida futi mari yacho
ini kana usina kundibvisira handiite kuinvester kumusha kwako cz murume anokuda anonokubvisira
Munopedza data redu nevanhu vasinganzwike zvavarikutaura
Mai ve 16 yrs in marriage ne mhondi iyo dai vatobviswa pamba apo nhasi chaiyo because Satan wavanoti murume will kill her if she tries to leave.
Is the husband not rapping children too? Since he hangs out na rapist tsano and went to pay a lawyer for him? Nyaya iyi yandityisa
True this lady needs a place of safety she's in danger she will end up killed with this abuser, he can rape too if he hangs up with a rapist what's their intentions they know their deals
Eish I felt for mainini avo ve16 years in marriage 😢😢kurarama muhunhapwa chaimo
These marriages are something else....kuchiti mahure nevekumusha kwako nevekumusha kwemyrume vachi shinha...haa apa uri nherera..zvakaoma
Woman should empower themselves especially on child bearing. Itai vana vashoma especially where there are red flags like this. I feel sorry for her.
What does "dikwanirai" mean Dr Choga. Is the same as " ngusukela lapha' ...🙏
Yes. Its the same
Saka marriage yaaneconditions because mari seems to be at the center of everything, munhu anenjere dzakakwana angaita mwedzi nemwana wevanhu asina kubvisa tsvakirai kuno. These people are so bad sometimes advice yacho is so poor.
Hapana advice apa
Avo mainin vevana hobhooo vakazvitsvakira ma problems. Vana hobhoo kudaro in a shakey marriage she set herself on fire.
Kubvisirwa yaa end up product i quote this. Will see how the rest of the cases transpire.
Izvo zvivindi zvekugara nevanhu vamusingazive kumusha kwavo munozviwanepi? Ko akamuka akafa unodii
Mainn vekuabuser avo ne16 yrs mumarriage siyanai naye ini ndakasiya ndava ne18 yrs ndirimo kurambana nemunhu hakusi kurambwa nesadza munofa nestress
Good advice panyaya yaAmai veshop.Zvose izvo zvinogadziriswa nekuisa Mari yamawana paTafura moronga mese.
But mainini avo vanorohwa nemurume nekutukwa, seriously mainini makagarireyi nasatan wemurume akadaro. 16 years shuwa munhu uchishungurudzwa kudai wakagarireyi kuda imba here nhai madzimai.
Hmmm hanzi aspect of respect...ko akaremekedza mukadzi wake nekuroora nhymi
Ko mozvarireyi vana vese avo imi musina mufaro mumba nhai😮
Very wrong advice on that women wekuvaka shop, hapana kana tsvagirai kuno yakabiswa and you want her to build kumusha kweboyfriend, who does that?
Yhaa vanhukadzi garai maudza varume kuti bvisa shoma yauinayo iyoyo first kunyange ikava shoma then mochitangira ipapo
Aah tete venyika nadoctor Choga don't confuse women empowering yamunogara muchitaura kuti mukadzi uyu auye nenyaya yake anga achizvitemba kuti tete naDoc vanowanzogara vachiti varume bvisirai vakadzi venyu mari then you start to work together
Umm shame first caller siya murume😢 unofa
Vanomboverenga maComments here ava kupedza nguva
First caller bdi guard wemanyepo uya
Vanhu vanouya pamaprograms atete needs to be honest, why pretending kuti havana kana hama.
Yooo ucc lowu phila kabuhlungu aa lobhud is evill plus cruel tete help this lady
This guy is after exploiting this woman.He wants to reap where he did not sow!Murume is clueless!
Amai ve16yrs of marriage avo vanoda rubatsiro zvakanyanya munyengero mweya wakabata pane munin'ina wavo wekufa achipondwa unoda futi kutonga pavari.
Some men are very cruel
Tete the lady with the 2year old how can I help
Tibvirei saka munhu ovaka asina kuroorwa imi ka itai mushe
Men are overrated and you think men have more rights than women.Varume always try to find excuses.Iye murume should take the lead.Mukadzi mari ichiri yake until aroorwa!Usaitiswa!
1:37:50 ndopainoperera. I couldn’t finish listening to that rubbish. Chinotanga kuroora. Mozovaka nemadanha amwe ese aya. Otherwise no-one in their right sense angavaka kumusha kwemurume kwaasingaziikanwe!
Munhu anotanga kuroora asati atomboziva zvizhinji ,iko kugarara naye achimuita mukadzi ndozvinoroorwa izvozvo not kushanda kana mari. Kana pasina direction hapana chekumbofira apa . Ko iye murume kana ari serious ngaarore kaa aone mukadzi anovawo nekuzvivimba kuti ndawanikwa. The advice is not clear.
Morning
Haasi murume anongori murume nechisikwa 😂😂😂😂😂😂nhengo chete ndo ino identifier kuti Mwari vakamusika Ari mukomana otherwise hapana hapana😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
1st here
Havana kwavo vanhu rume ava aah
Varume ava murikumbovawanepi
I think if we try to apply one rule to all cases hazvishandi. Wakagara mumba you are not certain of the love from the man yet you think an investment will make him love you, hazvishandi. Get loved first before commitment. You are loved and the guy is ready to commit but you are still involved with others yet you expect his roora to go, what motivates him if he is not sure you are in for the marriage and not kutamba. Tamba yako nditambe yangu roora hariendi.
Akagara naye sei iye aiona hunhu wemukadzi ndidzo type dzinouya mulife mako kuzokuvhiringa mararamiro
Shame, baba veku abuser mukadzi avo vanonyadzisa ndaita kunyara
Finish lamuhla amadoda amanye so
Some of the advice is terribly misleading.Its not like submission means you have to be a slave.Keep it up sister invest in your future and put some money together but this guy is complaining tóo much and be careful you don't get thrown under the bus!
Zvisunungurei mainini murume wenyu ari abusive ndiDevil chaiye
He must go to jail
He must go to jail
Doctor chogah you are too hash on this 24 year old girl hamungazvinzwisise musiri mazviri hunherera hwakaoma especially wane mwana .kana hama dzkatqdza kukuchengeta wafirwa kokuzoti mwana musadaro imi
This woman of hubby who raped enjoys victim mentality l feel so mad at her chiiko chinombonzi marriage if you tolerate such qbuse she enables her abuser she must stop it qnd go to work for her kidw
Marwadzo mudzimba umu ndazobatikana newe kufirwa uyu nemkadzi srry hake
Imali yoob
Wrong advice panamai veshop apo hapana chamabatsira ipapo
Vana vedu vechidiki vanoda kuchengetwa learn to work
Vamwe varume so rubbish 😂😂😂
Ko mozvarireyi vana vese avo imi musina mufaro mumba nhai😮