If they look at you it may be that they see what a beautiful couple you are... We can hope! People like to look at couples who are in love as they give off a glowing aura. This happened to me and my husband when we were in that crazy love stage, for about 5 yrs, and we are now an old couple in love who like to see glowing couples like you.
I love to go on farm holidays as I have an allotment and want to learn more. 2 years ago I booked on Wwoofitalia (willing workers on organic farms). I chose Tuscany and made up to16 applications before I got any response. I did finally find a pleasant little farm to stay but it wasn't easy. I won't let it out me off and will learn from all my past experiences.
I have to say I laughed all the way thru this video, people are just ridiculous and need to get a life. Time will not change this behavior, only a spiritual heart transplant will.
hlw Lempes...how did you manage...i am saying this because i had several dates with a German guy ...very unfortunuately it nvr worked out...but i was so damn inlove with him...he would cook n sing for me...of which in my culture never expierienced it before ...
Yes, it has positive and negative sides.. sometimes is difficult to get close to people. Privacy is at on other level especially from an African prospective.
I cannot believe there's still racism, even across the world!! I pray and hope that Dr. KING'S Dream will one day be reality...it is more so today even ever before but it's still not good enough! I love your interracial, multicultural relationship...its AMAZING! You guys inspire me!!
The only time that I experienced it was during a trip to The USA. We are proud Canadians and have travelled the world and have lived all over the world with no issues....until we visited the United States of Aholes. And it came from black people towards my husband who is whiter than a polar bear. I had strangers there asking me why I hate black men. Me? A black woman! Being with person of a different race does not mean that you hate your own race. We met and the rest happened naturally. We are both Canadians so there is no cultural difference. Had I marry a man from another country then yes there would be cultural difference...I once dated a black man from Trinidad and we could not merge our two cultures. Color and culture are two very different things that people often times lump together incorrectly. Here is a little trick that we use whenever people ask stupid questions. Pretend to be absolutely outraged that your husband forgot to inform you that he's white or that you are black. Be outraged " OMG you're white! You have been deceiving me! How the hell did I not know that you're white." Have a mock heated argument infront of them about the racial difference that you both lied about because obviously you're blind and so could not see etc etc. Then carry with your business without missing a stride. It will make people realize how absolutely ignorant they are and you will see the embarrassment on their faces. Works in every situation when people dare to cross the line. My husband calls me Oli Quick-draw 😁
@@Lempies Try it. It will make your day with a great laugh at the look on their faces 😂😂. Another trick that we use when people ask us impertinent questions is to answer with a more inappropriate question. For instance, we were having dinner with 3 other couples and a friend asked "so when are you planning on having kids?" Without missing a step, I looked at her dead on and asked "did you give (insert husband's name) a blow job before yoh came here"? Some people choked and gasped, some were "outraged" at my "inappropriate" question. Only 1 other person (besides my husband) got it and explained to the rest how inappropriate the questions regarding having children was and that if others did not want me asking them outrageous inappropriate questions then maybe they shoukd think before they ask me theirs. My husband was o no help because he was too busy laughing 😂
@@oliwoodnorth2371 sometimes you have to them taste of their own medicine 😂😂. I think it is fair that way. We are already get asked if we are worried about how kids are going to treated.... We don't even know if we want to have kids🤷🏿♀️
What a great dialogue for ignorant, prejudice individuals. Who you fall in love with is not based on matters of race but matters of the heart! I love your comment ! ❤️
Married to someone from a different culture was concerning to my family only because they didn’t want for us to be hurt by others who are prejudiced that’s all. It was loving for them to worry. It turned out okay but they were just concerned. Another view point, they were protecting us. 🙂
I just thought falling you guys on September 18th 2019 so far I have enjoyed every bit I saw the video what you guys getting married that was my first on my second video was when you went to Namibia and my second video is when you went to see him in Italy keep loving keep praying keep smiling 🙏❤️
I was born in CT , South Africa and married to an Austrian for 34 years . My husband my partner and best friend. I just don't care anymore what people think or say . Impossible to educate people who are bias . One significant incident happened about 15 years ago. We were shopping in a supermarket , a woman approached my husband and asked if he could not find an Austrian wife ? What an audacity to be out of line and not respect the decision of individuals . I was annoyed at that time but today just think to myself what an ignorant and close minded person she is . Today I would refrain from communicating with such individuals and just say mind your own business and go about my business.
Amen 🙌🏿 just mind your business and associate with those who make you happy. For example we frequently asked if our families had problems with our relationship 🤷🏿♀️. Neither of the family members asked ever brought up our race differences 🤷🏿♀️.
I was in an internal partnership. My husband dies almost 20 years ago. I have two beautiful children. My kids choose who they are or want to be. They choose their identity. All you can do is share their culture. People told us that our children's race will be uncommon. Not true. There were more mixed race children than straight race children
The love of my life is from Sardinia I lived there for a year 2017-18. I must say he was asked a few weird questions regarding food I could eat, my hair, the fact that I tanned in summer oh it was eye opening.
Amazing Video... I am a S African living in Germany for the past19yrs! I let people ASK their annoying (ignorant)questions, answer to the best of my ability and keep it moving😊 Definately know the Airport experience because i seem to be the chosen one🤔 without fail! Wishing you and your Channel only the best!💞
Oh MY!!!! What a cute and sweet couple you are, guys! just looooove your answers to the questions you are discussing! My dream was to live in Italy but instead, I flew to the US from Armenia, LOL!!!!! I wouldn't imagine me dating a non-Armenian guy but recently, I've met a guy who was a mix of a Latino, Jewish and African-American... Can you imagine??? I didn't even notice ANY differences between my and his ideas while dancing with him. All I could remember was the pleasant time that I had had talking and dancing with him. So, I totally agree with everything you share in this video. AND... I've just subbed... hoping to meet you one day and spend a couple of hours at a coffee or dinner table. If I wasn't divorced... I would have offered to become the Godmother of your first child... but I'm not rich enough to handle the gift-giving that comes in MY CULTURE, when becoming a Godmother or Godfather LOL!!!! Wait! Till I get married or become rich LOL!!!
Hahaha, thank you so much Victoria for the nice comment! We wish you all the best with your new partner, love is love and life is to short to hold back or be scared! About the coffee, we will let you Know if we are passing by the States, 😙😋😘
Your children will learn both cultures and they will teach you so much more. You are making a good contribution toward healing our humanity. I don't feel like some others, that we will never change. We are changing all the time, we've come so far already and we will continue to evolve in the most beautiful ways. Peace and Love to you both.
Regarding the issue of language, it's best that we teach our children our native languages. Very important. it's not a matter of kids whether they want to learn the mother or fathers' culture as Lempie said, but you are supposed to know who you are, how you do things and stuff and then the environment where the kid is gonna grow will shape him or her too. But kids needs need to learn their languages. Otherwise you are not proud of who you are.
Hello there beautiful couple. I've lived in Namibia, Nigeria, Canada and have travelled to many other countries. I feel your pain. I will also get harassed by officers when travelling. They go out of their way to stop me and single me out from the other crowd. Please don't take it too personally. Stay happy okay? Yes, Namibia is still racist. When I worked there, other people got special treatment over us. I remember one day, I tried to change 100 Namibian to 100 rand at the cashiers in a Shoprite. A white lady standing behind me was telling the cashiers in Afrikaans that she should be careful of people like me that we carry fake money. I lived in Namibia 15 years and have visited South Africa multiple times so I understand the language very well. On a better note, you are very beautiful and I love Oshiwambo culture )
Thank you. I didn't know racism until I moved to the capital (Windhoek),. One day I wanted to buy outdoor shoes for hiking and the owner of the stopped me at the entrance to inform me that all items in the shop were above 500 NAD🤔. I grew up at the village... There people are very loving and accepting
@@Lempies not good. I don't know why they will use six sense on you to detect that you don't have 500, which is 30 euros or less. Plus there is alot of money now in Namibia now unlike the 90s. So many good paying jobs.
I just adore u guys ❤️ you love and support one another is so wonderful and beautiful families that love and are there for you all stay strong and keep loving each other love conquers all such a beautiful wedding.Blessing Annette
You two are such a beautiful couple so please don’t focus on what others say, because many are unhappy and they don’t want you to be. Keep focusing on loving each and putting God first and you will be successful 🌺🌷😍❤️🌹💐🌸🌼💕
Hi, guys ignorance it's universal, it's part of life on every form & shape. ( for example; people ignorance if, you fat, if, you skinny, if, you tall, if, you short, if, you from another country, they think like you do things so different but even people from the same race do things differently...When you fall in love it's something about that person that interests you in an a special way it's not where you come from or the color of your skin that you mind but, people are curious in nature & at the same time it's amazing to them to see out of the norm type of love... Meaning, two different cultures meeting & falling in love...I guess one can say the ignorance of the perception of love... Interesting vlog..Many blessings to you both live your life to the fullest & don't let the ignorances of people bring confusion to your relationship...
thanks, that's exactly what I was trying to communicate. Racism is not much different from any other kind of discriminations that unfortunately still around!
Based on personal experience racial difference means squat in a relationship, it's only a part of the outside world who seems to like obsessing over it. Cultural differences can admittedly be challenging in everyday life, common sense however, more than love is a good antidote against said challenges, As for the kids, they'll just be richer in experience, worldlier, more sophisticated and true citizens of the world. Again while confine and limit them, clinging to a passport, a flag, a nationality or even a color? Auguri ragazzi!
DON'T LISTEN TO ANY OF THE IGNORANT ASS QUESTONS!!, YOU GUYS, LOOK SOOOO GOOD TOGETHER, IT'S SUCH A NICE CHANGE TO SEE SOME LOVE ON UA-cam FOR A CHANGE!!!!. THERE'S WAY TOO MUCH HATE AND IGNORANCE AND NEGATIVITY GOING ON IN THE WORLD ALREADY!. YOU TWO DO NOT NEED TO FEEL OBLIGATED TO JUSTIFY YOUR LOVE FOR EACH OTHER BY ANSWERING TO THESE IGNORANT ASS PEOPLE!!! CONTINUE TO SPREAD THE LOVE YOU TWO. YOUR SUCH A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE, BESIDES AT THE END OF THE DAY, IMHO..I THINK PEOPLE ARE JUST DAM RIGHT F*@#KING JEALOUS!!!!! SPREAD THE LOVE!!!
Hahaha.....seriously at the beginning we would only eat pasta made from traditional ingredients imported from Italy... After living in Germany für 5 years.....things have shifted 😀 pasta is now prepared with ingredients from the nearby supermarket
Aah! I get it. Interesting how flours for pasta has evolved. Do you make your own pasta from scratch? When in Namibia did you try to make pasta with local flours like millet? These days more people being health conscious or gluten or egg intolerant are finding interesting flavourful options like chestnut flour, or egg free pasta. 🌽
Love pasta? Lempies please check out pasta grannies. As a grandmother I know ...believe me children love pasta so you have something to look forward to. 👌🏽
Hey Meriam. We stayed in Aus.... It was very cold and windy for camping. It is beautiful I live the horses and enjoyed the sea food. Are u still based in Lüderitz??
@@Lempies Hei dear. Yes I'm currently in Luderitz. It's my home town but I was away in Windhoek with studies for 5 years now I'm back home currently work here. And Aus can really be freezing cold. Nice talking to you can we be friends. I'm a big fan.
And I like how he glows when he is talking young lady keep quiet and allow him to express himself you should observe that about your husband-to-be well I'm new to this site so he's already a husband let him have the platform
Hi, I am white of Canadian/American Italian heritage, and my husband is African American. We always get that question "are you two together". Hihi!!! I don't mind, like you said it's not racism as much as it is curiosity, or did you say ignorance!! I live in a very mixed cultural neighborhood, but the percent of blacks is extremely low, maybe one percent. I imagine its the same in Germany. Do you speak German? I enjoy watching your videos, thank you, Grazie, and Ciao for now.
Hi Tina, Berlin is really multicultural, a huge percentage of Turkish and people from the middle east, as well as from central Africa, also a lot of Italians and Spanish. we do speak German!
I genuinely love how open and positively you look at things but there are realities you cannot run away from that come with being in an interracial relationship and this is not meant in a negative way. Every type of relationship in it's own uniqueness has some s*** to deal with and so do interracial relationships. You obviously deal with these issues and overcome them as they come along if you're in it for the long haul. I'll point out a few things you seemed to brush off like intercultural clashes, let's not live in a bubble and pretend love solves everything, you're bound to even agree to disagree on some things. Another is kids being picked on. Yes, bullying can happen to anyone but bullies always find the easiest target, the one out of the usual and guess what mixed kids are an easy target because usually they will stand out just like say the bigger kid or the shortest kid. All in all i think a lot like the hubby here in the sense that if someone doesn't mean to offend but asks or assumes things out of ignorance it will not offend me even if it's not a very nice thing. I am more than glad to eduacte. Ps. I have been in an interracial relationship with an Italian for 10 years, married for 6 with 2 young children. Blessings to you guys. Love wins❤
Thanks for sharing and educating us. For sure every relationship has its own issues but interracial relationships tend to be over Analysed.... I think the society looks at them as they are too different how can they make it work 🤗.
hehe I hear you.Well, they are different in their own way. And anything that stands out is going to attract more attention. Just like say an age gap relationship or any other differences. X
I like what your husband your boyfriend said leave it alone because from your African culture there's such deep hurt within that a lot of black African cannot deal with the idea of mixed culture because it hurts it hurts the struggle that they have to fight for so they cannot face it's not about it's about the pain within themselves that they cannot face the new change now there are people that really really hate interracial I'm also the black woman with feel the pressure of that hate but you have to rise above be yourself show the world. Love can overcome pain and self-doubt of new changes
Yes, the most important thing is LOVE!!!!! The world certainly needs more of it. We are all Homo sapiens: why do so many (intentionally or not) forget this fact?
hahahaha yes, lucky you! can we came visit? you live in paradise! ps. we are freezing our A** out here in Germany! anyway thank you so much for following our videos
cwlov 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 hi, a Jamaican from the UK here 😘 our region is so beautiful and diverse, Antigua and Barbuda also happens to be one of my fave places 😉🙏🏾
@@Lempies haha... its truly is paradise.. u can come anytime. . Anigua is a tiny island locate in the northernmost caribbean islands, only 108sq miles. We have 365 beaches, one for everyday of the year. We also have our annual Carnival festivities in August. Barbuda is only 62sq miles with its pink sandy beaches. We were affected by Hurricanes Irma and Maria 2 years ago and we've recovered nicely from them. Come to the Caribbean.. its not just Jamaica, Trinidad or Barbados. Come, ull enjoy it..
You right your children will be multicultural and make sure they speaks 3 or language s. My daughter she's have French and she speaks. French. Somali. English.italian. and she's learning Arabic and Japanese. And she's multicultural. Why limited our children after all we living global
Who cares what others think, live your lives. Be happy!
🙌🏿 Amen.
Dont worry be HAPPY
Amen I'm African-American and my boyfriend is Irish Italian thank you for sharing this I love you guys.
thanks for your topic all we learn more from your video.
Oooh how important to mention love conquers all you are an inspiration to us.
Thank you for your answer and positive attitude . Happy New Year .🎉🙋
Difference is such a very beautiful thing, thank you for this video guys, blessings and love to you both 🌷❤️🙏
thank you. these differences work well when people embrace them !
@@Lempies Absolutely 🙏
If we were all the same...🛌😴
If they look at you it may be that they see what a beautiful couple you are... We can hope! People like to look at couples who are in love as they give off a glowing aura. This happened to me and my husband when we were in that crazy love stage, for about 5 yrs, and we are now an old couple in love who like to see glowing couples like you.
thank you. We are also old couple...we have been together for 7 years now :)
I love your husband's attitude
I love to go on farm holidays as I have an allotment and want to learn more. 2 years ago I booked on Wwoofitalia (willing workers on organic farms). I chose Tuscany and made up to16 applications before I got any response. I did finally find a pleasant little farm to stay but it wasn't easy. I won't let it out me off and will learn from all my past experiences.
Cute couple. You really enjoy each other and I like watching you - plenty to talk about - lots of laughs, etc.
Thank you 👏🏻👏🏿. Happy to make you happy 🤗
I love you both!!
thank you!
I ❤d way u guys tell about life n relationship is no boundaries with wisdom n wiser thankq so much n i❤💕u guy more💋
I have to say I laughed all the way thru this video, people are just ridiculous and need to get a life. Time will not change this behavior, only a spiritual heart transplant will.
It is fun how people ask you things like "are we worried about our kids" I am like we haven't even thought of having kids yet.
be happy lempies
hlw Lempes...how did you manage...i am saying this because i had several dates with a German guy ...very unfortunuately it nvr worked out...but i was so damn inlove with him...he would cook n sing for me...of which in my culture never expierienced it before ...
When you guys finish each others sentences😍😍😍😍😍
Hello...I just discovered your vlog. So far I find you adorable the way you express yourselves.
Thanks
Germans really mind their business. I love love living here.
Yes, it has positive and negative sides.. sometimes is difficult to get close to people. Privacy is at on other level especially from an African prospective.
You two are gorgeous. God bless you and your marriage. Love to you both.
thanks a mill!
I cannot believe there's still racism, even across the world!! I pray and hope that Dr. KING'S Dream will one day be reality...it is more so today even ever before but it's still not good enough! I love your interracial, multicultural relationship...its AMAZING! You guys inspire me!!
I found this video so funny. You too are so cute and your response just diffuse all the negativity. Great job.
Thanks 👏🏿
I love that session very informative.
I LOVE all of your videos!!!!!! You two are soooo cute together!!!!!!
Beautiful couple god blessed...
The only time that I experienced it was during a trip to The USA. We are proud Canadians and have travelled the world and have lived all over the world with no issues....until we visited the United States of Aholes. And it came from black people towards my husband who is whiter than a polar bear. I had strangers there asking me why I hate black men. Me? A black woman! Being with person of a different race does not mean that you hate your own race. We met and the rest happened naturally. We are both Canadians so there is no cultural difference. Had I marry a man from another country then yes there would be cultural difference...I once dated a black man from Trinidad and we could not merge our two cultures. Color and culture are two very different things that people often times lump together incorrectly.
Here is a little trick that we use whenever people ask stupid questions. Pretend to be absolutely outraged that your husband forgot to inform you that he's white or that you are black. Be outraged " OMG you're white! You have been deceiving me! How the hell did I not know that you're white." Have a mock heated argument infront of them about the racial difference that you both lied about because obviously you're blind and so could not see etc etc. Then carry with your business without missing a stride. It will make people realize how absolutely ignorant they are and you will see the embarrassment on their faces. Works in every situation when people dare to cross the line. My husband calls me Oli Quick-draw 😁
That's the nicest comment up to now! we still laughing! we are definitely going to use that technique! thanks
@@Lempies Try it. It will make your day with a great laugh at the look on their faces 😂😂. Another trick that we use when people ask us impertinent questions is to answer with a more inappropriate question. For instance, we were having dinner with 3 other couples and a friend asked "so when are you planning on having kids?" Without missing a step, I looked at her dead on and asked "did you give (insert husband's name) a blow job before yoh came here"? Some people choked and gasped, some were "outraged" at my "inappropriate" question. Only 1 other person (besides my husband) got it and explained to the rest how inappropriate the questions regarding having children was and that if others did not want me asking them outrageous inappropriate questions then maybe they shoukd think before they ask me theirs. My husband was o no help because he was too busy laughing 😂
@@oliwoodnorth2371 sometimes you have to them taste of their own medicine 😂😂. I think it is fair that way. We are already get asked if we are worried about how kids are going to treated.... We don't even know if we want to have kids🤷🏿♀️
Racist comments In the USA, I can believe it! P.S. I am an American.
What a great dialogue for ignorant, prejudice individuals. Who you fall in love with is not based on matters of race but matters of the heart! I love your comment ! ❤️
Casal lindos e iluminados💖
Married to someone from a different culture was concerning to my family only because they didn’t want for us to be hurt by others who are prejudiced that’s all. It was loving for them to worry. It turned out okay but they were just concerned. Another view point, they were protecting us. 🙂
“Nicer pasta? My pasta 🍝 is still nice” 🥰🥰🥰😭😭 you guys are killing me 💜💜
😂 😂
Are you sure you are together?? 🤣🤣🤣 I can’t with people. Love yall
So true love is love
Beautiful and soo loving and genuine.
You both are so cute💕💕💕I just subscribed sis.
I just thought falling you guys on September 18th 2019 so far I have enjoyed every bit I saw the video what you guys getting married that was my first on my second video was when you went to Namibia and my second video is when you went to see him in Italy keep loving keep praying keep smiling 🙏❤️
thank you so much for supporting us!
I was born in CT , South Africa and married to an Austrian for 34 years . My husband my partner and best friend. I just don't care anymore what people think or say . Impossible to educate people who are bias . One significant incident happened about 15 years ago. We were shopping in a supermarket , a woman approached my husband and asked if he could not find an Austrian wife ? What an audacity to be out of line and not respect the decision of individuals . I was annoyed at that time but today just think to myself what an ignorant and close minded person she is . Today I would refrain from communicating with such individuals and just say mind your own business and go about my business.
Amen 🙌🏿 just mind your business and associate with those who make you happy. For example we frequently asked if our families had problems with our relationship 🤷🏿♀️. Neither of the family members asked ever brought up our race differences 🤷🏿♀️.
I was in an internal partnership. My husband dies almost 20 years ago. I have two beautiful children. My kids choose who they are or want to be. They choose their identity. All you can do is share their culture. People told us that our children's race will be uncommon. Not true. There were more mixed race children than straight race children
Cute couple!
Thanks
You guys are really cute together! God bless.
Thank you👏🏻👏🏿
How can you two afford to look so beautiful: she looks naturally radiant and, you look patently handsome?
Wow 👏🏿👏🏻. The secret is " be yourself"
@@Lempies
That is my compliment in a nutshell - you are a lovely-looking pair.
Germany is such a pleasure for mixed couples....in South Africa we get that a lot though!
👏🏿👏🏻
The love of my life is from Sardinia I lived there for a year 2017-18. I must say he was asked a few weird questions regarding food I could eat, my hair, the fact that I tanned in summer oh it was eye opening.
Amazing Video...
I am a S African living in Germany for the past19yrs! I let people ASK their annoying (ignorant)questions, answer to the best of my ability and keep it moving😊
Definately know the Airport experience because i seem to be the chosen one🤔 without fail!
Wishing you and your Channel only the best!💞
thanks! airport is the worst!
Oh MY!!!! What a cute and sweet couple you are, guys! just looooove your answers to the questions you are discussing! My dream was to live in Italy but instead, I flew to the US from Armenia, LOL!!!!! I wouldn't imagine me dating a non-Armenian guy but recently, I've met a guy who was a mix of a Latino, Jewish and African-American... Can you imagine??? I didn't even notice ANY differences between my and his ideas while dancing with him. All I could remember was the pleasant time that I had had talking and dancing with him. So, I totally agree with everything you share in this video. AND... I've just subbed... hoping to meet you one day and spend a couple of hours at a coffee or dinner table. If I wasn't divorced... I would have offered to become the Godmother of your first child... but I'm not rich enough to handle the gift-giving that comes in MY CULTURE, when becoming a Godmother or Godfather LOL!!!! Wait! Till I get married or become rich LOL!!!
Hahaha, thank you so much Victoria for the nice comment! We wish you all the best with your new partner, love is love and life is to short to hold back or be scared! About the coffee, we will let you Know if we are passing by the States, 😙😋😘
You are a beautiful couple. 🙂
Let love lead.. you guys are beautiful together.. Inspirational 😍
Thank you for the compliment 👏🏿😍
Oh I love that one
Your children will learn both cultures and they will teach you so much more. You are making a good contribution toward healing our humanity. I don't feel like some others, that we will never change. We are changing all the time, we've come so far already and we will continue to evolve in the most beautiful ways. Peace and Love to you both.
thanks for these beautiful and positive words!
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@@ayodeler39 Those babies are wise and strong!
He was raised well
Enjoy your self to the fullest dont mind people its everywhere
Ondimu hole amuhe. I love you all May God bless you alot
You right . Don't worry we love your video
Have liked your video guys , please keep posting more
Thanks. We will try to post Atleast once a week.
Ale...that shirt of yours,I'll come steal it😂😂😂lempie you must be on a lookout for me,because I'll steal your bae's shirt
Anyways I love you guys💖
Regarding the issue of language, it's best that we teach our children our native languages. Very important. it's not a matter of kids whether they want to learn the mother or fathers' culture as Lempie said, but you are supposed to know who you are, how you do things and stuff and then the environment where the kid is gonna grow will shape him or her too. But kids needs need to learn their languages. Otherwise you are not proud of who you are.
Get it 🙌🏿. I will send them to kuku every holiday to ensure that they learn oshikwaluudhi
HI. I M ALSO FROM NAMIBIA, MY HUSBAND FROM DRESEDEN, BULLYING IS NORMALLY TO HAPPEN
A beautiful couple .
Hello there beautiful couple.
I've lived in Namibia, Nigeria, Canada and have travelled to many other countries.
I feel your pain. I will also get harassed by officers when travelling. They go out of their way to stop me and single me out from the other crowd. Please don't take it too personally. Stay happy okay?
Yes, Namibia is still racist. When I worked there, other people got special treatment over us. I remember one day, I tried to change 100 Namibian to 100 rand at the cashiers in a Shoprite. A white lady standing behind me was telling the cashiers in Afrikaans that she should be careful of people like me that we carry fake money. I lived in Namibia 15 years and have visited South Africa multiple times so I understand the language very well.
On a better note, you are very beautiful and I love Oshiwambo culture )
Thank you. I didn't know racism until I moved to the capital (Windhoek),. One day I wanted to buy outdoor shoes for hiking and the owner of the stopped me at the entrance to inform me that all items in the shop were above 500 NAD🤔. I grew up at the village... There people are very loving and accepting
@@Lempies not good. I don't know why they will use six sense on you to detect that you don't have 500, which is 30 euros or less. Plus there is alot of money now in Namibia now unlike the 90s. So many good paying jobs.
Very cute
Thanks for sharing guys
you are welcome dear...have a nice weekend!
@@Lempies Thank you. You and yours as well
I just adore u guys ❤️ you love and support one another is so wonderful and beautiful families that love and are there for you all stay strong and keep loving each other love conquers all such a beautiful wedding.Blessing Annette
You two are such a beautiful couple so please don’t focus on what others say, because many are unhappy and they don’t want you to be. Keep focusing on loving each and putting God first and you will be successful 🌺🌷😍❤️🌹💐🌸🌼💕
Thank you Janice 🙌🏿👏🏿
💜this video thanks for sharing
Pleasure
Hi, guys ignorance it's universal, it's part of life on every form & shape. ( for example; people ignorance if, you fat, if, you skinny, if, you tall, if, you short, if, you from another country, they think like you do things so different but even people from the same race do things differently...When you fall in love it's something about that person that interests you in an a special way it's not where you come from or the color of your skin that you mind but, people are curious in nature & at the same time it's amazing to them to see out of the norm type of love... Meaning, two different cultures meeting & falling in love...I guess one can say the ignorance of the perception of love... Interesting vlog..Many blessings to you both live your life to the fullest & don't let the ignorances of people bring confusion to your relationship...
thanks, that's exactly what I was trying to communicate. Racism is not much different from any other kind of discriminations that unfortunately still around!
Based on personal experience racial difference means squat in a relationship, it's only a part of the outside world who seems to like obsessing over it. Cultural differences can admittedly be challenging in everyday life, common sense however, more than love is a good antidote against said challenges, As for the kids, they'll just be richer in experience, worldlier, more sophisticated and true citizens of the world. Again while confine and limit them, clinging to a passport, a flag, a nationality or even a color? Auguri ragazzi!
Grazie Fabrizio!
you two are so cute together!!
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Most all of us simply want to love and be loved and have a long happy life.
Amen...it is all about love!
Are you sure you are together? I can't help but laugh loud.
Oh my God!
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DON'T LISTEN TO ANY OF THE IGNORANT ASS QUESTONS!!, YOU GUYS, LOOK SOOOO GOOD TOGETHER, IT'S SUCH A NICE CHANGE TO SEE SOME LOVE ON UA-cam FOR A CHANGE!!!!. THERE'S WAY TOO MUCH HATE AND IGNORANCE AND NEGATIVITY GOING ON IN THE WORLD ALREADY!. YOU TWO DO NOT NEED TO FEEL OBLIGATED TO JUSTIFY YOUR LOVE FOR EACH OTHER BY ANSWERING TO THESE IGNORANT ASS PEOPLE!!! CONTINUE TO SPREAD THE LOVE YOU TWO. YOUR SUCH A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE, BESIDES AT THE END OF THE DAY, IMHO..I THINK PEOPLE ARE JUST DAM RIGHT F*@#KING JEALOUS!!!!! SPREAD THE LOVE!!!
Great comment! Thanks for all your positive energy! 😙😍😘
Molto adorabili insieme.
Grazie
Frau Lempies CIAO Bella 😘😘😘 wo seid ihr denn un hier in Deutschland?
Hallöchen, wir wohnen in Berlin!
I love you guys!
Tangi meme Hamukwaya 🙌🏿🙌🏿
Ha ha nicer pasta? were you served ‘novelty’ pasta in the beginning? 🧐Don’t look back to 7 years ago. Enjoy today’s pasta 🥂
Hahaha.....seriously at the beginning we would only eat pasta made from traditional ingredients imported from Italy... After living in Germany für 5 years.....things have shifted 😀 pasta is now prepared with ingredients from the nearby supermarket
Aah! I get it. Interesting how flours for pasta has evolved. Do you make your own pasta from scratch? When in Namibia did you try to make pasta with local flours like millet? These days more people being health conscious or gluten or egg intolerant are finding interesting flavourful options like chestnut flour, or egg free pasta. 🌽
Heyyyyy...... look what is new in town 🤣
Love pasta? Lempies please check out pasta grannies. As a grandmother I know ...believe me children love pasta so you have something to look forward to. 👌🏽
lovely couple
Luderitz. How did you two love the stay at my home town.
Hey Meriam. We stayed in Aus.... It was very cold and windy for camping. It is beautiful I live the horses and enjoyed the sea food. Are u still based in Lüderitz??
@@Lempies Hei dear. Yes I'm currently in Luderitz. It's my home town but I was away in Windhoek with studies for 5 years now I'm back home currently work here. And Aus can really be freezing cold. Nice talking to you can we be friends. I'm a big fan.
@@miriammamsymhata9853 good to hear that you are back in Lüderitz. Would love to come during the cray fish festival.. So you can show me around
@@Lempies I will mos def do that for you. Will be an honor
Wow! You cut your hair! Great video!
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Hola soy de chile y cuando los bebés los admiro mucho
😂😂😂😂😂 your hubby is so hilarious..
In Canada no one going to question you.
Some people's look is out of curiosity as it may be new in theirs eyes to see you.
And I like how he glows when he is talking young lady keep quiet and allow him to express himself you should observe that about your husband-to-be well I'm new to this site so he's already a husband let him have the platform
Hi, I am white of Canadian/American Italian heritage, and my husband is African American.
We always get that question "are you two together". Hihi!!!
I don't mind, like you said it's not racism as much as it is curiosity, or did you say ignorance!! I live in a very mixed cultural neighborhood, but the percent of blacks is extremely low, maybe one percent. I imagine its the same in Germany. Do you speak German?
I enjoy watching your videos, thank you, Grazie, and Ciao for now.
Hi Tina, Berlin is really multicultural, a huge percentage of Turkish and people from the middle east, as well as from central Africa, also a lot of Italians and Spanish. we do speak German!
I genuinely love how open and positively you look at things but there are realities you cannot run away from that come with being in an interracial relationship and this is not meant in a negative way. Every type of relationship in it's own uniqueness has some s*** to deal with and so do interracial relationships. You obviously deal with these issues and overcome them as they come along if you're in it for the long haul. I'll point out a few things you seemed to brush off like intercultural clashes, let's not live in a bubble and pretend love solves everything, you're bound to even agree to disagree on some things. Another is kids being picked on. Yes, bullying can happen to anyone but bullies always find the easiest target, the one out of the usual and guess what mixed kids are an easy target because usually they will stand out just like say the bigger kid or the shortest kid.
All in all i think a lot like the hubby here in the sense that if someone doesn't mean to offend but asks or assumes things out of ignorance it will not offend me even if it's not a very nice thing. I am more than glad to eduacte.
Ps. I have been in an interracial relationship with an Italian for 10 years, married for 6 with 2 young children.
Blessings to you guys. Love wins❤
Thanks for sharing and educating us. For sure every relationship has its own issues but interracial relationships tend to be over Analysed.... I think the society looks at them as they are too different how can they make it work 🤗.
hehe I hear you.Well, they are different in their own way. And anything that stands out is going to attract more attention. Just like say an age gap relationship or any other differences. X
I like what your husband your boyfriend said leave it alone because from your African culture there's such deep hurt within that a lot of black African cannot deal with the idea of mixed culture because it hurts it hurts the struggle that they have to fight for so they cannot face it's not about it's about the pain within themselves that they cannot face the new change now there are people that really really hate interracial I'm also the black woman with feel the pressure of that hate but you have to rise above be yourself show the world. Love can overcome pain and self-doubt of new changes
thanks for your words, I do agree on everything you said.
Aww am the second one 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦
yeess
Do more outdoor challenges
Maybe in spring. Now it is winter there is barely any natural light during the day.
Yes, the most important thing is LOVE!!!!! The world certainly needs more of it. We are all Homo sapiens: why do so many (intentionally or not) forget this fact?
Amen 🙌🏿🙌🏿
Hi guys... im alllll the way from the Caribbean in Antigua and Barbuda.. do u know where this small country is. anyways, love ure vlogs
hahahaha yes, lucky you! can we came visit? you live in paradise! ps. we are freezing our A** out here in Germany! anyway thank you so much for following our videos
cwlov 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 hi, a Jamaican from the UK here 😘 our region is so beautiful and diverse, Antigua and Barbuda also happens to be one of my fave places 😉🙏🏾
@@Lempies haha... its truly is paradise.. u can come anytime. . Anigua is a tiny island locate in the northernmost caribbean islands, only 108sq miles. We have 365 beaches, one for everyday of the year. We also have our annual Carnival festivities in August. Barbuda is only 62sq miles with its pink sandy beaches. We were affected by Hurricanes Irma and Maria 2 years ago and we've recovered nicely from them. Come to the Caribbean.. its not just Jamaica, Trinidad or Barbados. Come, ull enjoy it..
@@Nairah912 awww.. nice.
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You right your children will be multicultural and make sure they speaks 3 or language s. My daughter she's have French and she speaks. French. Somali. English.italian. and she's learning Arabic and Japanese. And she's multicultural. Why limited our children after all we living global
Thank you for your contribution. We haven't not yet thought of that but we appreciate this tip alot. Definitely have to note it down 👏🏿🙌🏿.
I get that question too everyone said the same to me... that I only date white smh 🤦♀️ or I talk white
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my answer would be “it’s non of your business”
tell the racists to spin on your fingers, let them live in ignorance. True love is hard to find as it is. When you find it hold onto it.💕💕
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Would You Make A Cooking Videos Please.Thanks
Que lindos! Abraços brasileiros 🇧🇷♥️😍
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Adoro vcs 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷