In the mom’s pursuit of protecting her daughter from body shaming from the outside world, she became the number one source of body shaming in her daughters life. The growth in this segment was so heartwarming and educational for me to see
The daughter said good or bad she didn’t want to have the conversation with her mother . As a mother wouldn’t you tell your child out of concern I want you to make better choices and be healthier. You have to loos some weight or your not going to have the life you deserve. Stop trying to sugar coat the truth .
@@oliviaclark7871 I’m sure if the mother worded it with as much care as you implied, her daughter wouldn’t be as upset. And at the end of the day it’s up to the daughter to be her best self or not
@@MollyWiseViola I can agree with that . In my experience and most others no mater how someone says it. If it’s something your not ready to receive it’s always going to sound negative. But I can agree with you to a extent.
Just cuz you big don't mean you're unhealthy but watching what you eat is very important for your health. Just cuz you skinny don't mean you're healthy. It's what you eat
my mom is like this and it’s why i moved across the country and we barely speak. she hid her own insecurities about the world under the guise of “protecting” or “looking out for” us. eventually it grew into fear mongering, emotional manipulation, and control tactics. i love my mom but i had to dip.
Are you my sister?! 😂 I feel you girl. I call my mom around once a month but I don’t tell her nothin about my personal life. And she’s calmed down a bit with that. But I know as soon as I move back, it’ll be the same. 😏
Me too 😂 she lives across the country, closest family member lives 2 hours away and I’ve never been more happy. It’s not protection, it’s projecting your own insecurities and it’s very very annoying when you have your things together and none of them do. I have my own place, car, nice job and pay my own bills. I ended up surrounding myself with very healthy relationships with friends over the years who are in similar situations and we are unbreakable. Only other responsible one is my oldest sister. The rest of them, including my own mother have almost nothing together and it’s really sad.
I think the mom has very good intentions but she is not expressing herself in a way that they can receive. I think what she is really expressing is her fear of her daughters facing certain situations and getting hurt or setbacks. The daughter with the weight problem can be as body positive as she wants but she is morbidly obese and she is cutting her life short. The first step to a successful weight loss is loving yourself but loving yourself enough to be at the best weight to live a long and healthy life not just accepting being huge as your fate. If her daughter gets larger or God forbid gets an illness due to her weight the first thing people are going to say is why didn't you talk to her about her weight. Also if she can not care for herself who do you think is going to be there to care for her??? Her Mom. Her mom shouldn't nag or make fun but she should be encouraging a healthy diet and exercise. With the other daughter just keep out of the relationship and just listen when she tells you something is going wrong. Let her bump her own head and figure it out. If she likes it you love it unless it is life threatening.
Very presumptuous of you to assume that the middle daughter is not making improvements with her weight. She even said she in a better place and is asking that her mom step back regarding making comments about her body. Just because she wants space to take care of herself doesn't mean she will not ask for help when needed.
It really hard to balance parenting especially your when your little adorables becomes adults. clearly you are right, if I was the mom I'd be real too but we live in a world where everyone is allowed to assume to have their own ideology and truths. It looks great but wrong sometimes.
This mom truly loves her daughters. I’m just as protective of both my adult daughters ages 28 and 22. We as mothers just can’t help loving our adult children so much ❤
She's definitely not a bad mother. She just love and want to protect her young adult daughters. Plenty of parents go through this, she just have to learn to be a mother of adult children. Her daughters need to be patient during this time. She expressed multiple times her genuine concern about her daughter's weight. There's no need to mention it again. She have to allow her daughter manage her weight and health on her own. I hope the mother start focusing on things that make her happy. She did a great job raising them.
The momma is really not that bad, she needs to let go cause they’re going to mess up regardless…all she can do is continue to be there when they come crying!
@@vilnap3002hat's an interesting take. But I'd say the survivors are even worse off. She needs to be there for the tough conversations and intervene when needed. My mom passed when I was 15. But the mistakes I made could have been avoided if there had been a rescue available. At least in my experience the witnesses are having happy thriving lives. My trainwreck left me salvaging out of the wreckage. I think I agree with you. But on one hand all the meddling is going to drive them away.
Well some ppl speak their minds.. and as individuals you have freedom of speech just like they have the freedom to be “different” how about comprehending that parents don’t always sugar coated or walk on no egg shells. Bottom line they’re grown so mama needs to step back and let them feel/see how challenging life can be! It’s like begging someone not to run into a burning house yet they do it then want you to be there to coddle them. Do u mama💯
This is like my mom. That’s why I keep our conversations very superficial. “Wow it is so hot today.” “I went to the grocery store and then took a shower.” Stuff like that
@@acd1168 Me either. I learned my lesson. As soon as something does not go right, it's thrown in my face. Now, she makes up things because I don't give her any information.
And when she’s gone, you’ll wish you could of had a deeper conversation with her to really get to know her. By then, it will be too late. In reality you are only hurting yourself unless you just have a mean evil mother.
I am not going to lie their mom looks good, and young !!!! Parents do not have to approve of your lifestyle but they do need to respect you. The mom isn’t a bad mom ❤
This mom isn't too bad, sure there are things she could do better, as most of us could, but sometimes us parents do need to be reminded that our kids are grown up, and don't need the constant parenting, as well as the criticism, but also grown-up children don't realize that we never stop wanting the best for our kids, and will continue to be concerned with all things important in our kids life. It's just important to continue being understanding, patient, and kind to one another.❤
First of all these Beautiful women are GROWN and Very CONFIDENT and are very HAPPY with their lives. Mom please let them live there lives. They’re OK. 🙏🏽💙
I think mom is projecting her past experiences onto her daughters, and she wants to protect them from the hurt that she may have experienced when she was growing up.
I dont think the mom is doing anything wrong. If your mother cant respectfully tell you the truth then who can? These women need to be accountable for their own emotions and insecurities. No child wants to be told they can do better by their parents but its very necessary. You may not understand right now but you will one day.
Keyword is "respectfully", if they do not like her delivery they do not have to tolerate it. Parents do not have agency to talk to their adult children anyway they want, even if they think it comes from a good place.
@@julez0909 as Ive already said they have work to do on themselves because its all about how they perceive their mother’s personality. If people dont like whats being said then there first thing to go to as a way to deflect is “i feel disrespected “ and honestly if a person isnt yelling or name calling then its not disrespect its just a different opinion. Each person is different so if you want to be accepted you have to learn to accept things about other people. Its not fair to expect someone who is loud to be soft spoken so ya feelings dont get hurt. The world is teaching people to be too soft in my opinion. The only changes one can make in actuality comes from within. Meaning, you dont like something thats happening outside of you then change something inside of you.
@@keepnit100You sound like a person who would say "forgive them because they're your family". True everyone has a right to he who they really are but I don't have to accept it. It's called compromising. Shaming and demeaning your child isn't respectful. The children we have are only borrowed to us because they are from a gift from God. They will be their own person one day so you too need to accept that.
I am a mother of 5 and I clearly understand what she will always worry.But also know you have to let them go to let them grow.Our job as a parent is to be there to catch them when they fall.She loves her daughters.
They are sensitive, and the mother is kept it real with love. The mother doesn't look angry mad or have an attitude. They also need to allow the mother to speak. To see her character. Them two girls are right they need to make their own decision and feel comfortable.
The mother knows no boundaries……she feels like she knows everything like girl Shet up and listen to your children if they say they got it they got it step back…..:
All I see is a loving mother who’s trying to protect her children. There’s nothing wrong with her wanting the best for her children especially health wise. As a mother, I would let them live their life and leave them be until they need her.
Your mother is always going to be your mother even if you are 80yrs old. I hope these ladies don't find out too late that their mother loves them and means well. Instead of thinking your mother is body shaming you, look at it like she is trying to prevent you from getting on my 600lbs life TV show
True. She is saying that shes healthy but you can literally see she's morbidly obese. It's not about body shaming her, its about the objective fact that her weight is unhealthy and puts her at a higher risk for health complications. Mama is not wrong for being concerned for her health even if sometimes she may be focusing too much on what other people think
To be honest, she's a good mum. l won't hesitate to tell my child to be healthy if she/he looks unhealthy. This is out of love and not body shaming coz i don't want to lose them if they continue going down that path,,,call a spade a spade and not a big spoon! Girls your mum loves you,,,i would rather have a mum who tells me the truth about me than a mum who says nothing!❤,,Girls don't take me wrong, i don't mean you're unhealthy,, you're all beautiful but mum is just trying to help❤
Honestly? The daughters do look unhealthy and I agree that the mother should've told them these things. However, the mother and daughters should continue to grow into self-love and care
I can agree with that sentiment! Sometimes we just don’t know how the other person receives it or what they’re doing to “look healthy”. i.e Losing weight isn’t always directly correlated to healthy behaviors! So we just have to be careful not to make “weight loss” the goal or the main sign of good health. There are other ways to show support and I think we just gotta make sure we ask and stay involved with them vs. “spectate” 😊
@@noemihernandez3918 I agree with that but seeing someone that size is obviously not healthy. Someone skinny isn’t necessarily healthy, but someone obese is necessarily not healthy. I don’t know if you get what I’m saying. That being said, she knows she’s big. Do she needs to hear it everyday ? Comments on her body ? No ! She’s fully aware of her weight journey
@@NakyaMamiI understand completely! People are only health experts when it comes to fat people. Literally anyone can have health issues despite physical appearance. Kevin Samuels died of a heart attack and he “looked” fit as a fiddle.
you kids are lucky you have a mother who worry about your health and you are here complaining.i wish my mother gave me just the least attention i won't have been like this. Who wants to see her child suffer?no mother wants to see the child in pain.
I’ll be honest, with the “pink sauce” episode, I wasn’t gonna watch you anymore. But I’m glad I gave you another chance for real. 🖤🖤🖤 We all learn and grow! Even talk show hosts! 🖤
I can't relate. As a parentless child (both died before I turned 35), I can only see the blessing in the mother's behavior, unfortunately. They'll miss it when she's gone....
So the mom thinks people are going to fat shame and talk about her in public but for some odd reason she thinks people aren't saying the same thing about her at some point?🤔🥴
Mom is so pretty. And even if Mom is a little heavy as people have pointed out, that doesn't mean she wants her daughter to be. She knows the health ramifications and the dangers of being overweight (and it seems the daughter does not FULLY know.)and is trying to help her daughter w/ it. The daughter should practice more humility and just listen to moms weight concerns and change for her own good. That is NOthing to debate w/ mom over. It IS unhealthy. Period!!! I think she is embarrassed truly and maybe overwhelmed by it, yet continues to act unbothered. Moms weight concerns ARE justified.. It is common knowledge what obesity often leads to EVENTUALLY. There is nothing wrong w/ a bit of overprotective parenting. A loving, overprotective and overly concerned mom is better imo than one who isn't protective or concerned at all. Does there need to be a middle ground mom should adapt to? The daughters believe so. IF its that troubling than mom should TRY ( it's difficult) for their sakes. As for the other daughter who is a mom. That is another scary situation for mom I am sure. When ur daughters become sexual- that's overwhelming enough. That's one thing. However, when they become mothers BEFORE they OBVIOUSLY should be, that's just tooo much to handle in ALL aspects. You will worry. U will worry about the future choices she will make for her self as a (still) young lady, for her child and of course w/ future relationships. Mom has EVERY right to be concerned for these two with their current states of being. It's obvious mom cares and the daughters need to stop fighting her imo. They should consider themselves to be very blessed they have a present mom who cares about them/ their lives. Its becoming rare these days. She may be pushy and may not always understand that, but she is a MOM and that happens when you both love your children and fear for them, especially in todays ( crime-ridden) climate. As a mom w/ a very similar parenting style to a 36 year old daughter/ only child, I am 100% team mom here. Blessings to them all.
My parents grew up really really poor and disadvantaged and managed to get all of their 5 kids through university. They worked so so hard and gave us kids the best. The absolute best. When I tell you the best...they gave it. However, their parenting was always from a place of fear and they would discipline extra hard and give overly negative feedback, out of fear that one of us would make a mistake and get back to poverty. And I understand it, but boy was it hard being their kid. I'm relating to these girls so much. So much.
She isn’t and there isn’t anything wrong with her wanting what’s best for her child. It’s obvious that her daughter is morbidly obese. Also, we don’t know if the mother is focusing on her health either.
I know this mother wants to cry... Good mother's catches 22 all the time from their kids. There are children who wish to have a mother that supports them and giving them advice. My mother was teaching me to the time she died, and I appreciate it. Good mother paved the way so our children so they don't have to experience bad things and health. Because she is young and she feels she likes her weight, she could have something deadly going on in her body. Kids don't understand wisdom and are put on a mother's heart to help and save our children.
I dont like the heavy set girls attitude and if mom wasn't being proud or acting as a, mother bear, then Lil LuLu, would still have a problem. Parents can't get no satisfaction
The mom didn’t fat shame. She commended her daughter for losing weight and she defended her when someone was talking about her. With the other daughter, she doesn’t want her to end up alone like she did so she thought she was helping but she wasn’t. Mistakes. That’s all
Guess I’m weird because I would love her as a mom. My mom would never defend me or let me speak how I feel to her. Especially on national tv she is not having it.
Hey Mom I get you. Your old school and you're protective. We know you love them!! But you got to let them girls go and cut the strings loose. Let them be grown and fall down all by themselves. Let them live and learn. Put focus into yourself and do things that you like now. For your own life and your own happiness. ❤
They momma didn’t deserve this. She said nothing wrong just trying to help guide y’all. You would be smart to listen to her cause she is telling you from experience what to look out for
Just stop kids, don't take your mother on this show for this she loves Y'all To sensitive, I would be proud to have a mother like this. Just stop! Doing the most
I agree with the advice for mom but I felt it was necessary to tell the girls to stop dumping on their mother. You don’t have to run and tell her everything if you want to be an independent adult. They need to also respect her boundaries as she cannot handle all their dumb decisions and if they want to be free to make their decisions then she shouldn’t be a trash can either. They need therapists and friends to tell everything too and not mom carrying all their sorrows. It goes both ways…
This is a family that wants to love and understand each other. They have turned a way to over talk over another while listening to the other person. They know the love is toxic and they're on the path to positive love; and that's how villages are built and generational curses are broken ❤
I think it's so important to understand that what you see on the show most likely isn't what happens at home. It's one thing to be fearful etc but to criticise and demean and shame someone is a whole other thing. That's coming from a place of wanting to control and that itself comes from fears. But not my fears, yours. I have the same situation with my own family and I find that everyone seems to have to offer me advice, opinions and ideas I did not ask for and this really gets on my nerves. I have no problem accepting advice but if I didn't ask don't give it otherwise its just going to annoy me. I don't offer anybody anything until asked for. I don't tell people how to and when they should love their lives. I think especially in our culture it's deemed okay to speak to our younger people like little kids but we all know when we had to do those adult tasks we weren't little then but apparently now we're growing up we're just little and they see us as little. For me it's to control. The mother seems lovely and concerned but she does need to tone it down otherwise it'll just cause a rift. Other than that they seem to be a lovely family.
I’m sorry, No! You can’t shut your Mom down and then call her when you have problems. Stop calling her then. Be grown when you’re in trouble. Appreciate that she’s supporting you. Mom will do better with not being overprotective and demeaning, I’m sure. ❤❤❤
The mother is right about the overweight daughter needing to loose weight. In the event that her health fails because she is unhealthy, her mother will be the one that steps up & takes care of her. Hospital bills & trips are not worth it. Any good mother will tell their child to take care of their health. You only have one body & if it fails, you don't have a spare one. Mother understands this
On what planet is telling someone they need to be healthy, hurtful? People are too intuned with feelings rather that reality. News flash... People that love themselves take care of themselves. Including their health.
Can somebody help me understand why the daughter is saying she loves herself but yet when her mother said something about her bathing suit she crumbles ? I don’t get it if she loves herself and have confidence she wouldn’t have that problem to me she’s not honest with herself and until you’re honest with yourself you can’t confront anybody else …
because her mother is ridiculing her about how she looked in her bathing suit. yes she's confident but nobody wanna be put down or judged all the time. it still hurts.
She seems to be a decent Mom, and the big one is weird for being mad at her mom for complementing her weight loss success. Girl hush things could be a lot worse.
Just focus on being a supportive parent....they are grown..and nice smart young ladies...yes as moms we may not agree or understand everything our children do ..so try to understand them...do t condemn them...love them...remain a safe space for them..tell them you love them and be a good person to have in their lives.
You know you can be big and be healthy and you can be skinny and be unhealthy. Weight is not always a indicator of health. Sometimes extremely small people have unknown diseases. Halle Berry is a diabetic and she is not overweight.
I see exactly what the daughters are saying. As soon as mom dont like where the conversation is going, shes in defense mode. The nerve of her for talking about health and relationship when she doesn't have control of her own😪😪 I also understand mom but she gotta chill❤
I absolutely love this show BUT I was disappointed that time how Karamo allowed the daughters to say everything they wanted to say but when mom came out she didn’t get that same respect. That was bias and unfair 👀👀
I understand mom she love them but mom let them fly love them from a distance I have 2 daughters 22 and 15 I just became a grandmother and I put my daughter out but today we have the best relationship
The mother is correct. The daughter in pink just doesn’t want to hear that she is morbidly obese. There’s no way she’s healthy at that weight. Her deliver might have been wrong but the message is correct. Maybe she thought she was giving her tough love and it’s STILL going in one ear and out the other. 🤷🏼♀️
People always forget that the biggest person can be more healthy than the skinniest person,I’m a plus size female and I’m healthy in every way possible. A person does not have to be skinny to be healthy,People who think that is just ignorant and comments like that is one of the reasons why plus size people feel insecure and suicidal.
@@ytsinner1033 Yes, I was coming here to make this same comment. No one wants to hear someone constantly speaking on their weight. She will lose that weight when she's ready to lose it.
Mama, where are you small at? Set an example instead of speaking out of fear. She's young so, she has probably been plus-size all of her life. Why didn't she put her in sports or dance when she was a child? Or family and individual therapy or eating disorder doctor. They're all beautiful regardless but none of them are small on that stage, so, to me the weight concerns started from the mom.
In the mom’s pursuit of protecting her daughter from body shaming from the outside world, she became the number one source of body shaming in her daughters life. The growth in this segment was so heartwarming and educational for me to see
I hate when people body shame other people Because You should respect them not judge them
The daughter said good or bad she didn’t want to have the conversation with her mother . As a mother wouldn’t you tell your child out of concern I want you to make better choices and be healthier. You have to loos some weight or your not going to have the life you deserve. Stop trying to sugar coat the truth .
@@oliviaclark7871 I’m sure if the mother worded it with as much care as you implied, her daughter wouldn’t be as upset. And at the end of the day it’s up to the daughter to be her best self or not
@@MollyWiseViola I can agree with that . In my experience and most others no mater how someone says it. If it’s something your not ready to receive it’s always going to sound negative. But I can agree with you to a extent.
Just cuz you big don't mean you're unhealthy but watching what you eat is very important for your health. Just cuz you skinny don't mean you're healthy. It's what you eat
It’s always nice to see strong women discuss and grow! No one disrespected anyone. Bring back family meetings and watch the village heal!
Love this ❤
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my mom is like this and it’s why i moved across the country and we barely speak. she hid her own insecurities about the world under the guise of “protecting” or “looking out for” us. eventually it grew into fear mongering, emotional manipulation, and control tactics. i love my mom but i had to dip.
Are you my sister?! 😂 I feel you girl. I call my mom around once a month but I don’t tell her nothin about my personal life. And she’s calmed down a bit with that. But I know as soon as I move back, it’ll be the same. 😏
lol just might be 😂 we talk about once a month about the weather and how everyone’s doing back home. that’s about it.
my mom tried that and i also moved 6 states away .. baby you wont get me 😂
Me too 😂 she lives across the country, closest family member lives 2 hours away and I’ve never been more happy. It’s not protection, it’s projecting your own insecurities and it’s very very annoying when you have your things together and none of them do. I have my own place, car, nice job and pay my own bills. I ended up surrounding myself with very healthy relationships with friends over the years who are in similar situations and we are unbreakable. Only other responsible one is my oldest sister. The rest of them, including my own mother have almost nothing together and it’s really sad.
I don't know if the mom is as horrible as yours. Didn't seem like it!
I think the mom has very good intentions but she is not expressing herself in a way that they can receive. I think what she is really expressing is her fear of her daughters facing certain situations and getting hurt or setbacks. The daughter with the weight problem can be as body positive as she wants but she is morbidly obese and she is cutting her life short. The first step to a successful weight loss is loving yourself but loving yourself enough to be at the best weight to live a long and healthy life not just accepting being huge as your fate. If her daughter gets larger or God forbid gets an illness due to her weight the first thing people are going to say is why didn't you talk to her about her weight. Also if she can not care for herself who do you think is going to be there to care for her??? Her Mom. Her mom shouldn't nag or make fun but she should be encouraging a healthy diet and exercise. With the other daughter just keep out of the relationship and just listen when she tells you something is going wrong. Let her bump her own head and figure it out. If she likes it you love it unless it is life threatening.
Yes!!!
Very presumptuous of you to assume that the middle daughter is not making improvements with her weight. She even said she in a better place and is asking that her mom step back regarding making comments about her body. Just because she wants space to take care of herself doesn't mean she will not ask for help when needed.
It really hard to balance parenting especially your when your little adorables becomes adults.
clearly you are right, if I was the mom I'd be real too but we live in a world where everyone is allowed to assume to have their own ideology and truths. It looks great but wrong sometimes.
She’s not a bad mom she’s just needs to let them be them now .
This mom truly loves her daughters. I’m just as protective of both my adult daughters ages 28 and 22. We as mothers just can’t help loving our adult children so much ❤
She's definitely not a bad mother. She just love and want to protect her young adult daughters. Plenty of parents go through this, she just have to learn to be a mother of adult children. Her daughters need to be patient during this time. She expressed multiple times her genuine concern about her daughter's weight. There's no need to mention it again. She have to allow her daughter manage her weight and health on her own. I hope the mother start focusing on things that make her happy. She did a great job raising them.
The momma is really not that bad, she needs to let go cause they’re going to mess up regardless…all she can do is continue to be there when they come crying!
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Yes
That part!
Nope. Ever watch a train wreck. Whose worse of the dead or the witnesses 🤷🏾♀️
@@vilnap3002hat's an interesting take. But I'd say the survivors are even worse off. She needs to be there for the tough conversations and intervene when needed. My mom passed when I was 15. But the mistakes I made could have been avoided if there had been a rescue available. At least in my experience the witnesses are having happy thriving lives. My trainwreck left me salvaging out of the wreckage. I think I agree with you. But on one hand all the meddling is going to drive them away.
Sometimes even when our children become adults it's hard to stop being overprotective, especially when you have experienced the hard knocks of life.
Omg I'm so over protective with my 21 and 16 year old 😢
Yes especially in todays world it’s so dangerous
Well some ppl speak their minds.. and as individuals you have freedom of speech just like they have the freedom to be “different” how about comprehending that parents don’t always sugar coated or walk on no egg shells. Bottom line they’re grown so mama needs to step back and let them feel/see how challenging life can be! It’s like begging someone not to run into a burning house yet they do it then want you to be there to coddle them. Do u mama💯
Well said
Their mother loves them. They didn’t need to be on a show to prove that.
Agree 💯!
They are tryna set boundaries but mama not hearing it. And its not gonna end well if she keeps pushing
This is like my mom. That’s why I keep our conversations very superficial. “Wow it is so hot today.” “I went to the grocery store and then took a shower.” Stuff like that
Me too. I keep the conversation very superficial.
@@questionresearch8721 No details!!!!! Ever
@@acd1168 Me either. I learned my lesson. As soon as something does not go right, it's thrown in my face. Now, she makes up things because I don't give her any information.
I was like that too, then I started to get to really know her and it changed💜
And when she’s gone, you’ll wish you could of had a deeper conversation with her to really get to know her. By then, it will be too late. In reality you are only hurting yourself unless you just have a mean evil mother.
I am not going to lie their mom looks good, and young !!!! Parents do not have to approve of your lifestyle but they do need to respect you. The mom isn’t a bad mom ❤
This mom isn't too bad, sure there are things she could do better, as most of us could, but sometimes us parents do need to be reminded that our kids are grown up, and don't need the constant parenting, as well as the criticism, but also grown-up children don't realize that we never stop wanting the best for our kids, and will continue to be concerned with all things important in our kids life. It's just important to continue being understanding, patient, and kind to one another.❤
Mama is beautiful. She loves those girls...there just needs to be boundaries put in place, that's all. All love there.
That's a Good Mother❤❤
"Hey Family" I love this man so much just why I can't stop binging 😂❤
First of all these Beautiful women are GROWN and Very CONFIDENT and are very HAPPY with their lives. Mom please let them live there lives. They’re OK. 🙏🏽💙
I think mom is projecting her past experiences onto her daughters, and she wants to protect them from the hurt that she may have experienced when she was growing up.
She is a super over protective mother not a bad mama. She loves her girls
I wish my mom could be all in my business with advice. My mom has been gone since August 2017. I miss her like crazy. 4-1-1951
13:50 Its GREAT that they believe in thier mom!!!!!!!! Good JOB AGAIN UNCLE KAROMO!!!!
She isn’t jealous she just need to learn boundaries
Boundaries indeed ❤🎉❤🎉❤No more Weight comment ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤
I agree. The mom does not know how to be either. She has been doing this for so long.
I dont think the mom is doing anything wrong. If your mother cant respectfully tell you the truth then who can? These women need to be accountable for their own emotions and insecurities. No child wants to be told they can do better by their parents but its very necessary. You may not understand right now but you will one day.
Keyword is "respectfully", if they do not like her delivery they do not have to tolerate it. Parents do not have agency to talk to their adult children anyway they want, even if they think it comes from a good place.
@@julez0909 as Ive already said they have work to do on themselves because its all about how they perceive their mother’s personality. If people dont like whats being said then there first thing to go to as a way to deflect is “i feel disrespected “ and honestly if a person isnt yelling or name calling then its not disrespect its just a different opinion. Each person is different so if you want to be accepted you have to learn to accept things about other people. Its not fair to expect someone who is loud to be soft spoken so ya feelings dont get hurt. The world is teaching people to be too soft in my opinion.
The only changes one can make in actuality comes from within. Meaning, you dont like something thats happening outside of you then change something inside of you.
Exactly
it’s not about telling the truth it’s about their boundaries..did you not watch the video💀
@@keepnit100You sound like a person who would say "forgive them because they're your family". True everyone has a right to he who they really are but I don't have to accept it. It's called compromising. Shaming and demeaning your child isn't respectful. The children we have are only borrowed to us because they are from a gift from God. They will be their own person one day so you too need to accept that.
“If I don't have the invitation I'm not going” lit. saved me from conversations of unnecessary baggage.
She a good mama and she’s beautiful 💗
Great episode!!! Beautiful ladies just finding new grounds to grow.
I am a mother of 5 and I clearly understand what she will always worry.But also know you have to let them go to let them grow.Our job as a parent is to be there to catch them when they fall.She loves her daughters.
They are sensitive, and the mother is kept it real with love. The mother doesn't look angry mad or have an attitude. They also need to allow the mother to speak. To see her character. Them two girls are right they need to make their own decision and feel comfortable.
The mother knows no boundaries……she feels like she knows everything like girl Shet up and listen to your children if they say they got it they got it step back…..:
All I see is a loving mother who’s trying to protect her children. There’s nothing wrong with her wanting the best for her children especially health wise. As a mother, I would let them live their life and leave them be until they need her.
Your mother is always going to be your mother even if you are 80yrs old. I hope these ladies don't find out too late that their mother loves them and means well. Instead of thinking your mother is body shaming you, look at it like she is trying to prevent you from getting on my 600lbs life TV show
Or dying in your sleep from complications
True. She is saying that shes healthy but you can literally see she's morbidly obese. It's not about body shaming her, its about the objective fact that her weight is unhealthy and puts her at a higher risk for health complications. Mama is not wrong for being concerned for her health even if sometimes she may be focusing too much on what other people think
To be honest, she's a good mum. l won't hesitate to tell my child to be healthy if she/he looks unhealthy. This is out of love and not body shaming coz i don't want to lose them if they continue going down that path,,,call a spade a spade and not a big spoon! Girls your mum loves you,,,i would rather have a mum who tells me the truth about me than a mum who says nothing!❤,,Girls don't take me wrong, i don't mean you're unhealthy,, you're all beautiful but mum is just trying to help❤
Honestly? The daughters do look unhealthy and I agree that the mother should've told them these things. However, the mother and daughters should continue to grow into self-love and care
The truth hurts, but its still the truth. Trust I know. I'm heavyset myself.
I think daughters need checking too
The mama is bitter if they don't get away from her before they end up bitter
Everyone in my life knows Don't come to me ranting or venting because that's my invitation to kick the door down.
Right don’t come to me if you don’t want input or advice ! Cause i don’t wanna hear complaining without action behind it
I don't see anything wrong when someone tells you to stay healthy,
I can agree with that sentiment! Sometimes we just don’t know how the other person receives it or what they’re doing to “look healthy”. i.e Losing weight isn’t always directly correlated to healthy behaviors! So we just have to be careful not to make “weight loss” the goal or the main sign of good health. There are other ways to show support and I think we just gotta make sure we ask and stay involved with them vs. “spectate” 😊
Okay 😂
@@noemihernandez3918 I agree with that but seeing someone that size is obviously not healthy. Someone skinny isn’t necessarily healthy, but someone obese is necessarily not healthy. I don’t know if you get what I’m saying. That being said, she knows she’s big. Do she needs to hear it everyday ? Comments on her body ? No ! She’s fully aware of her weight journey
It sounds like the daughter has been taking great strides toward her health, so what’s left over is plain old fatphobia lol
@@NakyaMamiI understand completely! People are only health experts when it comes to fat people. Literally anyone can have health issues despite physical appearance. Kevin Samuels died of a heart attack and he “looked” fit as a fiddle.
you kids are lucky you have a mother who worry about your health and you are here complaining.i wish my mother gave me just the least attention i won't have been like this.
Who wants to see her child suffer?no mother wants to see the child in pain.
I’ll be honest, with the “pink sauce” episode, I wasn’t gonna watch you anymore.
But I’m glad I gave you another chance for real. 🖤🖤🖤
We all learn and grow! Even talk show hosts! 🖤
I can't relate. As a parentless child (both died before I turned 35), I can only see the blessing in the mother's behavior, unfortunately. They'll miss it when she's gone....
So the mom thinks people are going to fat shame and talk about her in public but for some odd reason she thinks people aren't saying the same thing about her at some point?🤔🥴
Exactly!
Exactly
The mother can't get a word in
Cuz of her mouth thats why nobody wants to here bitterness don't care who it is male or female
Mom is so pretty. And even if Mom is a little heavy as people have pointed out, that doesn't mean she wants her daughter to be. She knows the health ramifications and the dangers of being overweight (and it seems the daughter does not FULLY know.)and is trying to help her daughter w/ it. The daughter should practice more humility and just listen to moms weight concerns and change for her own good. That is NOthing to debate w/ mom over. It IS unhealthy. Period!!! I think she is embarrassed truly and maybe overwhelmed by it, yet continues to act unbothered. Moms weight concerns ARE justified.. It is common knowledge what obesity often leads to EVENTUALLY. There is nothing wrong w/ a bit of overprotective parenting. A loving, overprotective and overly concerned mom is better imo than one who isn't protective or concerned at all. Does there need to be a middle ground mom should adapt to? The daughters believe so. IF its that troubling than mom should TRY ( it's difficult) for their sakes. As for the other daughter who is a mom. That is another scary situation for mom I am sure. When ur daughters become sexual- that's overwhelming enough. That's one thing. However, when they become mothers BEFORE they OBVIOUSLY should be, that's just tooo much to handle in ALL aspects. You will worry. U will worry about the future choices she will make for her self as a (still) young lady, for her child and of course w/ future relationships. Mom has EVERY right to be concerned for these two with their current states of being. It's obvious mom cares and the daughters need to stop fighting her imo. They should consider themselves to be very blessed they have a present mom who cares about them/ their lives. Its becoming rare these days. She may be pushy and may not always understand that, but she is a MOM and that happens when you both love your children and fear for them, especially in todays ( crime-ridden) climate. As a mom w/ a very similar parenting style to a 36 year old daughter/ only child, I am 100% team mom here. Blessings to them all.
They look like they are their mother's mother. The mom is so beautiful and everything shr is doing is out of love
It’s difficult for moms to stop protecting our babies. I am in the same boat. I try & not give opinions. It’s a struggle
I need Karamo to upload an hour series on here.
Who lol
@@lexielexie8819”Karakoram” got me crackin tf up 🤣🤣🤣
@@bossibunz8143 dead ☠️
My parents grew up really really poor and disadvantaged and managed to get all of their 5 kids through university. They worked so so hard and gave us kids the best. The absolute best. When I tell you the best...they gave it. However, their parenting was always from a place of fear and they would discipline extra hard and give overly negative feedback, out of fear that one of us would make a mistake and get back to poverty. And I understand it, but boy was it hard being their kid. I'm relating to these girls so much. So much.
They really are a great family
The daughter is big call a spade a spade. The mom looks great and means well.
Her daughters are great and she did a good job, she needs to trust in that she raised them right and mistakes gone happen!!
The mom ain’t to skinny her self….🤣
Thats always the case i swear😂
She isn’t and there isn’t anything wrong with her wanting what’s best for her child. It’s obvious that her daughter is morbidly obese. Also, we don’t know if the mother is focusing on her health either.
You are apart of the problem
@@BeUr_Best but if someone isn’t in the best shape themselves obviously , they don’t have no room to be speaking down on someone else.
@@EMPRESSPEACH888 girl bye
Awww Karamo seems like such ah sweet person ✨
I know this mother wants to cry... Good mother's catches 22 all the time from their kids. There are children who wish to have a mother that supports them and giving them advice. My mother was teaching me to the time she died, and I appreciate it. Good mother paved the way so our children so they don't have to experience bad things and health. Because she is young and she feels she likes her weight, she could have something deadly going on in her body. Kids don't understand wisdom and are put on a mother's heart to help and save our children.
I dont like the heavy set girls attitude and if mom wasn't being proud or acting as a, mother bear, then Lil LuLu, would still have a problem. Parents can't get no satisfaction
Parents who are black women don't understand and of story
Mom looks like another sister!
The mom didn’t fat shame. She commended her daughter for losing weight and she defended her when someone was talking about her. With the other daughter, she doesn’t want her to end up alone like she did so she thought she was helping but she wasn’t. Mistakes. That’s all
Wow this two girls make their mom like she is bad she is a good mother.
Guess I’m weird because I would love her as a mom. My mom would never defend me or let me speak how I feel to her. Especially on national tv she is not having it.
Yea cause that’s normal lmao
Best family I’ve ever seen on tv😂hashing it out😂i really enjoyed this healthy shit❤
We As Mothers Will Always Give Advice, Good Or Bad, As Grown Women, They Need To Move On, And Still Make Their Own Decisions!
Hey Mom I get you. Your old school and you're protective. We know you love them!! But you got to let them girls go and cut the strings loose. Let them be grown and fall down all by themselves. Let them live and learn. Put focus into yourself and do things that you like now. For your own life and your own happiness. ❤
They momma didn’t deserve this. She said nothing wrong just trying to help guide y’all. You would be smart to listen to her cause she is telling you from experience what to look out for
Just stop kids, don't take your mother on this show for this she loves Y'all
To sensitive, I would be proud to have a mother like this. Just stop! Doing the most
I agree with the advice for mom but I felt it was necessary to tell the girls to stop dumping on their mother. You don’t have to run and tell her everything if you want to be an independent adult. They need to also respect her boundaries as she cannot handle all their dumb decisions and if they want to be free to make their decisions then she shouldn’t be a trash can either. They need therapists and friends to tell everything too and not mom carrying all their sorrows. It goes both ways…
True, but you learn boundaries (or lack thereof) from mom. I know I had to go to therapists and friends to learn it for myself. Hope they do too.
Let them be. When they come crying, show that tough love.
This is a family that wants to love and understand each other. They have turned a way to over talk over another while listening to the other person. They know the love is toxic and they're on the path to positive love; and that's how villages are built and generational curses are broken ❤
So basically her kids are complaining because their mom is really concerned about them and tries to support them.
I think it's so important to understand that what you see on the show most likely isn't what happens at home.
It's one thing to be fearful etc but to criticise and demean and shame someone is a whole other thing. That's coming from a place of wanting to control and that itself comes from fears. But not my fears, yours.
I have the same situation with my own family and I find that everyone seems to have to offer me advice, opinions and ideas I did not ask for and this really gets on my nerves. I have no problem accepting advice but if I didn't ask don't give it otherwise its just going to annoy me.
I don't offer anybody anything until asked for. I don't tell people how to and when they should love their lives. I think especially in our culture it's deemed okay to speak to our younger people like little kids but we all know when we had to do those adult tasks we weren't little then but apparently now we're growing up we're just little and they see us as little.
For me it's to control. The mother seems lovely and concerned but she does need to tone it down otherwise it'll just cause a rift. Other than that they seem to be a lovely family.
My mom passed when I was around their age. I wish she had been around to protect and advise me.
That is one pretty mama
A lot of times it’s your delivery..
I’m sorry, No! You can’t shut your Mom down and then call her when you have problems. Stop calling her then. Be grown when you’re in trouble. Appreciate that she’s supporting you.
Mom will do better with not being overprotective and demeaning, I’m sure.
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The mother is right about the overweight daughter needing to loose weight. In the event that her health fails because she is unhealthy, her mother will be the one that steps up & takes care of her. Hospital bills & trips are not worth it. Any good mother will tell their child to take care of their health. You only have one body & if it fails, you don't have a spare one. Mother understands this
On what planet is telling someone they need to be healthy, hurtful? People are too intuned with feelings rather that reality. News flash... People that love themselves take care of themselves. Including their health.
I wish i had her as a mother chile.
Great family for real love that they were not disrespectful to each other’s wish them all the best
Can somebody help me understand why the daughter is saying she loves herself but yet when her mother said something about her bathing suit she crumbles ? I don’t get it if she loves herself and have confidence she wouldn’t have that problem to me she’s not honest with herself and until you’re honest with yourself you can’t confront anybody else …
because her mother is ridiculing her about how she looked in her bathing suit. yes she's confident but nobody wanna be put down or judged all the time. it still hurts.
@@iamjesse9398 ahh thanks !
She seems to be a decent Mom, and the big one is weird for being mad at her mom for complementing her weight loss success. Girl hush things could be a lot worse.
I just learned so much from this.(I need to zip it) Thank you Karamo
Keep doing you & stay positive always ❤❤❤❤
Just focus on being a supportive parent....they are grown..and nice smart young ladies...yes as moms we may not agree or understand everything our children do ..so try to understand them...do t condemn them...love them...remain a safe space for them..tell them you love them and be a good person to have in their lives.
At the end of the day ... She is still their mum ... They just need their independency to push ❤ thoughts
You know you can be big and be healthy and you can be skinny and be unhealthy. Weight is not always a indicator of health. Sometimes extremely small people have unknown diseases. Halle Berry is a diabetic and she is not overweight.
I see exactly what the daughters are saying. As soon as mom dont like where the conversation is going, shes in defense mode. The nerve of her for talking about health and relationship when she doesn't have control of her own😪😪 I also understand mom but she gotta chill❤
She so lucky her mama ain’t Caribbean cus those insults is Mid to me 😂
Right lmaooo or a AFRICAN mama...
How is telling a person that has a double neck to "be healthier" damaging 🤔
Sound like they're spoiled. Mama isn't that bad at all.
The mom can't talk herself because she has double chins. They both need to drop the weight.
Young ladies have very confident prospective.
I am big boned and being overweight is not healthy. It’s a hard truth but still true.
I would be worried about her weight vas well because she just wants her to live long.
The mom not bad tho fr she just protecting her babies fr
Their mom kind of looks like Jill Scott
She's a good mom.
They definitely seem sensitive
It pains her to see them hurt. 😢
I absolutely love this show BUT I was disappointed that time how Karamo allowed the daughters to say everything they wanted to say but when mom came out she didn’t get that same respect. That was bias and unfair 👀👀
Lol kids these days are different lol.
I understand mom she love them but mom let them fly love them from a distance I have 2 daughters 22 and 15 I just became a grandmother and I put my daughter out but today we have the best relationship
Mom looks far better and younger than her daughters. Thats sad on the daughters behalf.
The losing weight thing. I go through the same thing. Yes ofc I am watching and managing my health but not all bigger is unhealthy.
The mother is correct. The daughter in pink just doesn’t want to hear that she is morbidly obese. There’s no way she’s healthy at that weight. Her deliver might have been wrong but the message is correct. Maybe she thought she was giving her tough love and it’s STILL going in one ear and out the other. 🤷🏼♀️
It's still a boundary, if you don't your mother commenting on your weight. You have the right to set that boundary.
People always forget that the biggest person can be more healthy than the skinniest person,I’m a plus size female and I’m healthy in every way possible. A person does not have to be skinny to be healthy,People who think that is just ignorant and comments like that is one of the reasons why plus size people feel insecure and suicidal.
@@ytsinner1033 Yes, I was coming here to make this same comment. No one wants to hear someone constantly speaking on their weight. She will lose that weight when she's ready to lose it.
Dagg, I needed to hear that cause I'm guilty of injecting my 2 cent opinion/advice in my son's stuff! It is out of love tho, but imma stop 🥴
Mama, where are you small at? Set an example instead of speaking out of fear. She's young so, she has probably been plus-size all of her life. Why didn't she put her in sports or dance when she was a child? Or family and individual therapy or eating disorder doctor. They're all beautiful regardless but none of them are small on that stage, so, to me the weight concerns started from the mom.