Kendra was speaking facts. Women will break up with a guy for cheating but still sleep with him knowing he’s sleeping with other women. He’s not losing when you’re still giving him the box.
@heyyneish it's not about if he's winning or not. Why yall keep competing against men. She made her choice. It had nothing to do with making him lose. They both loss.
She really shouldn’t. She’s giving her life lessons that she should have gotten from her mother. Because what kinda man is going to look at her with reverence when she is actively sleeping with her ex. It’s not a flex when u are looking for someone new. Is it supposed to turn someone on, Its crazy is more like it
I want --------- 1) Someone who goes to church 2) Accept my kids 3) Good person 4) Stable pockets 5) Etc What's he gets ----------------- 1) Somebody glazed the yams last night 2) A bad deal 🙄
@jjayphilly342 what parents. These women come from baby mama factories and it's a culture now. So she can have both parents and have a baby mama mindset.
She's trifling and her logic is flawed on the reason why she's sleeping with her ex-. In Houston, he could be sleeping with other people and potentially bring her back something 🤦🏿
@@LIONSUNRISING she really think she has the upper hand in this situation, the “I got what I wanted and left” gave it away. Hopefully she will learn, but she is already in her 30’s, these are 20’s, no kids type games. She needs to do better and fast.
Ladies y'all complain to the heavens the dating pool is terrible but steady participating in the foolery. Y'all need to confess and come clean that y'all been covering up for all your friends all these years lol
They do confess. You don't see in the comment section of so many videos that they stay complaining about WN "Telling too much of their business"? Or saying those WN shouldn't have revealed "X,Y,Z"? They stay wanting WN to deceive and hide things from MN. But these are the same 1s who want MN to be transparent with them.
yea ur right, multiple baby daddies, having all this casual sex and wonder why they dont attract quality men, you got to be a quality person first and for most,
Soul ties are real and dangerous! Any woman you're dating, ask about her past sexual history, including pregnancies. Ask how many men have ejaculated inside of her because a man's sperm cells can and do become embedded in a woman's brain and affects her behavior, thought process, mind-set and etc.
Gotta commend Kendra for giving excellent, insightful advice to women who think they can "entangle" with their ex while seeking the perfect next gentleman. Ladies we're smarter than you think. We know wife ready women vs high mileage women. Kendra is putting y'all on game right here.
Unless women collectively say what you just said, then dating/relationship are done forever......Women need to march across the country with signs in their hands "I need a man" or else men are just going to continue to give up......The single most damaging thing that happen to women is the "I don't need no man" BS......It has destroyed relationship forever
I’m not going to fault her because I just recently got out of this way of thinking, but women are not really taught or encouraged to know why we have the desire and need for a man. And we don’t think like men. It’s really difficult for us to wrap our heads around needing a man. We see need as obligation and not a true and genuine romantic connection. Wanting a man feels more genuine to us.
@@nameunknown1519 Nah.. most of y'all have no idea what a man wants or desires in a relationship. That's why y'all can't "wrap" your head around needing a man.
@@6time686 I agree that most women have no clue what a man wants in a relationship. But I’m confused as to why that has anything to do with what a woman needs 🤔 both can be true 🤷🏾♀️
@@nameunknown1519 Has nothing to do with what a woman needs. There are more women on this show than men. 99% of them are seeking financial help and not a mate because they have no clue of a man's wants and needs and aren't even interested in learning the one lesson that could turn them into wives before mothers. But cart before the horse right? Women need men and if or until most BW figure it out that 25% marriage rate will stay right where it is.
I will never understand why people answer the intimacy question. Kendra literally says "you dont have to answer". 😅 I'm a private person and just dont like people in my business. Especially thousands of people. Best of luck to her.
Yes its cringe. When she stalled on it I knew it was going to be something. One woman had the guy still at her place from the night before walking around. What baffles me is the 3 flaws question. The 1st flaw is having trouble keeping my legs closed.
I was born in the 60’s. IMO in the 70’s women were happier and more satisfied with themselves. Hardly anyone was a single mother. Even if a woman struck out with her first BD, they always ended up with a husband while they were still attractive. A huge part of this was that we weren’t as thirsty; Men had to earn a place in our lives’. The only way to build a meaningful relationship is to abstain unless in a serious relationship.
The culture was more traditional back then, which contributed to higher marriage rates. I’m sure lack of technology plays a role too. Things are a mess now.
Born in the 70's. Alternative lifestyles were not accepted back then. Homosexuality and the single parent lifestyle was frowned upon. black family was separated because of the Vietnam War. Black men who would have been doctors, lawyers, engineers, entrepreneurs, etc were sent into the military and they came back as junkies.
@@insidioustrader3924 yes , exactly. She is no longer with the father of her child just to be part of a rotation of her "crazy ex" reading is fundamental
@@NexusFantismo yes reading is fundamental. Maybe you should try that before jumping into other's conversations with the need to be right. At first RemIsNice said "She dumped the father of her child to be a part of his rotation" That means Rem thought the woman was a part of her baby daddy's rotation. 'His' is referring to the 'baby daddy' used earlier in the same sentence. Then you wrote, "she is no longer with her baby daddy to be a part of her crazy ex's rotation" . Now you recognize that her baby daddy and crazy ex isn't the same person because you REPLACED 'his' with 'crazy ex'. Rem didn't say what you said. The fact that you can't comprehend that says lot about why you are here with a need to argue with females. #GoodDay ✌🏾
Here is one statement when you have 2 baby daddies you are limited to be specific in what you want. You need to be with someone that wants you. She is a whole mess. Good luck to the person who sign up for this
She wants a man to make her happy. What does that mean ma'am? No one is responsible to Make You Happy. Only You can do that. Becoming Happy is your responsibility ma'am. This is the problem, looking externally and not internally. If another individual is responsible to make you happy, what will you provide for this individual?
@@ToriUptown thats exactly the point i was making. She is maybe 20 to 25 lbs overweight,even after 2 kids. Thats not bad at all. And she is a little topheavy which for me is definently a positive thing so it all works all reasonably well.
the black women haven't worked since the great grandmothers' generation... y'all can stop pretending otherwise... us black men and the social welfare check has been putting the food on your plates for decades now...
Not Never. They Baby Sat Cleaned Houses. Sold Plates out the kitchen. Had candy stores out the garage sold Avon Tupperware I could go on and on. Just ridiculous
@@YouMaddYepYouMaddexactly. The stay at home happy homemaker fantasy has NEVER been applicable to the black family. Even in the 50's, 60's black women worked and still came home to handle the housework and child care. My grandmother worked her entire life and she was married with 11 children.
How many of these videos have to air before the majority of women stop gaslighting men into believing their ex's are not a factor? And this is just the women who openly admit they still sleeping with their ex's months or years after they've broken up.
But that is just confirmation bias. I would ask what type of black women do they have in their real world lives…if they are also surrounded by these women, that speaks to who they are as well.
@missvalisha Agreed. We have to be cautious about confirmation bias. I wouldn't all sistasc with this broad brush, but among black single moms who never got married and never had coaching from older women, this lack of self awareness has to stop.
Negative experiences, negative observations and negative real life online content. At some point we have to accept this is the norm. No one in their right mind think all of them are like this, but the majority? That's a safe bet. They are coming with kids, attitude, highly emotional, disloyal and a huge bundle of sticks they've had. Hard for a man who wants love to accept.
She really thinks she got one over on him cause she didn't sleep over after giving him some..like girl that's the ideal situations for men! He gets some than he doesn't have to share the bed with you or deal with you in the morning
Once I break up with someone all communication is dead, it’s not that hard especially if moving on was YOUR DECISION! I think her ex didn’t want to be in relationship with her and she’s taking what she can get and thinking she has some leverage ex. He’ll always love me, he’ll always answer my call type bs
She said a man waits for her at her house until she gets home from a long day at work and asks her what she's cooking for dinner. Her options sound deplorable 😅
Kendra gives pure honesty this is true you have to learn to be alone and celibate. And yall leading each other on crazy. Then you leaving the option open for him to bring you something back because he single and you don’t know if he responsible while you thinking he your safe heaven and he not
Kendra was speaking facts throughout the entire video!!! Stop sleeping with men you’re not in a relationship with AND stop saying you don’t need a man. I NEED my husband and no one will ever get me to say otherwise.
Kendra, i don't even know why you continue to ask these women with multiple kids if they're by the same man....😂😂😂 Of course it's more than one man, these women just busting it wide open for every pookie they meet and then use the excuse , "we were young"
One of the last few ladies had 3 kids by her high school sweetheart.! So it’s still possible for some of these BANQUEESHAS out here to have multiple children by one man.! 😅😅
Men listen to women Women do not listen to men A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family A women will sacrifice her family for her happiness We are NOT the same
Yea most black women....128% increase of STD since 2016 ONLY black women......It goes to show you that 90% of women are sleeping with a small percentage of men
Everything went in one ear and out the other. Men dating today somehow know that somehow I gotta understand how to attract a woman. You women today gotta get schooled by a stranger about how to carry yourself in the dating world. And ya’ll have kids already. Just wow!
These ngas ain’t going to Africa.. they claim they built the pyramids and then turn around and say they native Americans 😂😂😂 a flight to Africa cost more than their rent
I disagree with this whole “I need a man” theory. It’s okay to not NEED a man romantically. No one NEEDS a romantic partner to survive. Not everyone will be partnered up. It’s a desire. We desire partnership and romantic relationships. I really don’t like the idea of saying you “need” someone because it almost puts them on a pedestal. You are whole all by yourself. Always.
KENDRA!!! KENDRA!! KENDRA!! The LESSONS you're giving... and SO IMPORTANT. A lot of women don't understand that you're giving them GOLD!!! She stayed quiet because she just wanted to talk... and NOT learn. SMH
Unpopular opinion: If all the women were honest, they're all sleeping with someone. At least she was honest. She's not doing anything differently than the other women.
Lmbo KG BE SO PASSIONATE ABOUT THIS AND THEY ARE NEVER TRYING TO HEAR IT 😅😅😅😅😅😅 smh KG hates this situation and she HATES when single moms say ...he doesn't have to help with my kids blah blah blah lol
@missjoy6685 Look it up....Most black women have the STD increase in Houston......Which tells you that 80-20 rule is real.....80% of women are sleeping with a small 20% of men......Black women in Houston by far have the biggest increase look it up
2 kids from 2 different men. Having sex with an ex, so it can turn into 3 kids or a disease.. And she asks for a “good man” that goes to church🤣😂🤣. Maybe I just been gone from church for to long. It has to be a New Testament that was released recently.
Kendra: I’m going to ask, but you don’t have to answer, when was the last time you’ve been intimate with someone? Guest: last night. Houston newscaster: we are still dealing with an epidemic with sexually transmitted diseases in Houston, back to you in the studio Bob.
I kind of wish KG didn't tell these women to change their language...I appreciate when I hear women who speak boldly with "I don't need no man" type of terms so it's easy to skip those women and not waste or time.
It was her child I heard them say “Mama” in shame when she got out of the car for the Kendra Cam and semi twerked for the camera most likely it was her 15 year old holding the phone. Just Horrible.
The title tells us the caliber of women these are... I think Kendra is secretly warning men to stay away by posting her biggest red flag as the title. 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she don’t even wanna cook. No wonder why she had to 2 kids one at 18 by two different men. Idk what to tell her. She has to over perform some where.
No, the boys are mad that you putting them on game. But tbh, you can put them on game til your blue in the face...cause most wont even listen or take heed. Sad but true Kendra. Thats why the players are the guys out here winning...and us good decent men, a lot of us are single AF. Until things flip and we are the ones sought after and valued and women start vetting good, things unfortunately wont change much. It is what it is.
Kendra was speaking facts. Women will break up with a guy for cheating but still sleep with him knowing he’s sleeping with other women. He’s not losing when you’re still giving him the box.
Child and the box don't be worth a chicken 😅
@heyyneish it's not about if he's winning or not. Why yall keep competing against men. She made her choice. It had nothing to do with making him lose. They both loss.
That's how confused women are
@@JustBree716we know yours ain’t worth a 10 piece from Mickey D’s with the discount code 😅
EXACTLY!!!
People are not serious at all. You want serious relationship but actively sleeping with your ex. Come now….KG shouldn’t have to analyze this for you.
It really is sad
With exception, all y'all do it
@@khrisstake2210 no we do not lmao and you're talking to the wrong gender.. men will sleep with other women while still in a relationship with us
She really shouldn’t. She’s giving her life lessons that she should have gotten from her mother. Because what kinda man is going to look at her with reverence when she is actively sleeping with her ex. It’s not a flex when u are looking for someone new. Is it supposed to turn someone on, Its crazy is more like it
@@khrisstake2210Now you know good and well that’s a lie.
5:38 "I slept with him last night..... but he crazy" 😳😳😳 We folks are cooked!
She is exactly the type of woman to go over Pookie house immediately after you have taken her out to dinner. NO FREE MEALS.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
who is we? I aint French
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@@LOSTGPS 😂😂😂😂
Kendra taught yall what your momma should of taught yall as teenagers.
Her mama was too young to know too
Foolishness.
Exactly 😎 1👍🏿💯
Exactly
Well my mom died when I was 11 sssoooo 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Two powerful words: sexual discipline.
I want
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1) Someone who goes to church
2) Accept my kids
3) Good person
4) Stable pockets
5) Etc
What's he gets
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1) Somebody glazed the yams last night
2) A bad deal 🙄
5:38 Link to getting glazed last night. 🙄
Glazed the yams😅 made me cackle😅
Exactly 💯
😆😆 its sad but the glazed yams made it funny
3) no edges
It’s ok to be ALONE. If you’re DONE then be DONE all the way!
Quick to say her ex is crazy. But yet she still sleep with him. She might be the crazy one.
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Might after hearing all this you still say might nah you might be crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i
@@Teacheroflyceum1And you might be retardant typing this. 😅
These people have NO PROBLEM embarrassing their parents and family.
Disgusting honestly.
The family concept is eroded in America…so take a guess how eroded in Black America.
@jjayphilly342 what parents. These women come from baby mama factories and it's a culture now. So she can have both parents and have a baby mama mindset.
There names mean nothing to them.
Parents and Family?😂😂😂😂.
Apparently they weren't raised with any shame. Unfortunately I think their parents are the same way and are not shamed.
Two kids by two different men, slept with a man the night before and is looking for a relationship. Yes, a good man wants a woman this chaotic.🙄
Can't make this ish up
With a double chin, and and gonna tell you cook your own dinner...lol, what a prize to get what???
She's trifling and her logic is flawed on the reason why she's sleeping with her ex-. In Houston, he could be sleeping with other people and potentially bring her back something 🤦🏿
Exactly.. She says it with so much surety. If he ain't wearing a condom with her then she's sleeping with multiple people anyway
She's sleeping with everyone he's sleeping with
😂irritating how slow Houston women are!!!
@@grmo7912 Pretty much 🥴🥴🥴
Exactly! That's what I thought Kendra was going to mention.
Kendra dropped good knowledge; I appreciate her insight here.
That was insight to you? 😂 y’all slow af
She is not trying to hear what Kendra is telling her!!!!
Face all twisted up😅
Exactly! She is looking like, mind your business Kendra 😂
Blk women can’t even Check Blk women. Game Over.
Trying lol she is deaf to any thing called common sense lol she think she got the key and every one else is hating so why would she listen 😂
@@LIONSUNRISING she really think she has the upper hand in this situation, the “I got what I wanted and left” gave it away. Hopefully she will learn, but she is already in her 30’s, these are 20’s, no kids type games. She needs to do better and fast.
Ladies y'all complain to the heavens the dating pool is terrible but steady participating in the foolery. Y'all need to confess and come clean that y'all been covering up for all your friends all these years lol
They will never confess
@@edwardmr5852EVER
They do confess. You don't see in the comment section of so many videos that they stay complaining about WN "Telling too much of their business"? Or saying those WN shouldn't have revealed "X,Y,Z"? They stay wanting WN to deceive and hide things from MN. But these are the same 1s who want MN to be transparent with them.
yea ur right, multiple baby daddies, having all this casual sex and wonder why they dont attract quality men, you got to be a quality person first and for most,
still sleeping with her ex, hard pass
You know you don't have to have sex...you will live to fight another day lol
Wild part is, she’s saying it out loud. Ladies really moving like this looking for a “good man”.
The next guy has to cook, accept her kids, and give her a relationship, but her ex can clap the cheeks without doing any of that. Typical
2 kids, 2 different men, and still sleep with her ex, and he's getting raw meat. This is just messy.
Children with different men look at their face there's no shame. This is normal to them and these are educated women not Pookesha on the block.
Messy is good
She doesn't even do house hold chores, not willing to cook for her man...she brings nothing to the table
Can't take her seriously. Smdh!
ikr, do people not listen to what they say, no man of value will take her seriously, lady you still sleeping with your ex
The STD rate in Houston is out of control. Buyer better beware.
FACTS 📜‼️ .... She Nasty Work 🤢
N women like her are a part of the reason.
Kendra at least tried to talk some sense to her. Sista doesn’t get it
She doesn't want to. She'd have to change something
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Most women lie about going 50 50 in expenses after marriage but in reality it only goes to her child a...plus
Dumb as a box of ROCKS
Nah, she already knows it all. So basically she's admitting she's just a pure rebel. RUN 🏃♂🏃🏃♂
She’s cute but her ex owns her soul. Next.
She not cute.
@@jasonthibeaux1049 that’s a matter of an opinion
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Y’all call anybody cute
Soul ties are real and dangerous! Any woman you're dating, ask about her past sexual history, including pregnancies. Ask how many men have ejaculated inside of her because a man's sperm cells can and do become embedded in a woman's brain and affects her behavior, thought process, mind-set and etc.
Gotta commend Kendra for giving excellent, insightful advice to women who think they can "entangle" with their ex while seeking the perfect next gentleman. Ladies we're smarter than you think. We know wife ready women vs high mileage women. Kendra is putting y'all on game right here.
She said he's the crazy one, I'd love to hear his side
I saw this foolery shortly after seeing the movie twisters 🌪️ . I like your idea. That should be one of Kendra's goals. Get both sides of the story
She crazy also that’s why they get along
Why does she feel like she has to sleep with anyone anyway.
No self control! No discipline!😫
THIS!! 😢
Because “I have needs” is on default.
Folks have no sexual discipline and it is so sad
Kendra is really out here dropping gems. Sexual discipline is really important. God will bless you with what you’re actively working towards❤️
Do people not realize this is going to be on the internet forever? 😭… ma’am be serious…
Future potential employers will really get an eyeful.
@@dr.andmrs.phibes7454 yes and future spouses 😭
She wasn’t even listening to Kendra she checked out …
“ I don’t need a man “ I hate it! I need and want everything men have to offer a woman! I love the balance they bring. We need men ladies we DO!
Well said!
Unless women collectively say what you just said, then dating/relationship are done forever......Women need to march across the country with signs in their hands "I need a man" or else men are just going to continue to give up......The single most damaging thing that happen to women is the "I don't need no man" BS......It has destroyed relationship forever
@@cyes1156 I absolutely agree with you!
We need GOOD men. Healthy masculine men .
@@QueenAmour8888my love is unconditional. I may not agree with certain behaviors or lifestyles but black men are needed and wanted!
This is so embarrassing. No man is going to downgrade for this situation. She should stay with the ex.
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big facts, not dating someone still sleeping with their ex, delusion at its finest
Correct. This is a BAD INVESTMENT
When they say they don't need anything from a man, but on a dating show looking for a man.
I’m not going to fault her because I just recently got out of this way of thinking, but women are not really taught or encouraged to know why we have the desire and need for a man. And we don’t think like men. It’s really difficult for us to wrap our heads around needing a man. We see need as obligation and not a true and genuine romantic connection. Wanting a man feels more genuine to us.
ikr, lol
@@nameunknown1519 Nah.. most of y'all have no idea what a man wants or desires in a relationship. That's why y'all can't "wrap" your head around needing a man.
@@6time686 I agree that most women have no clue what a man wants in a relationship. But I’m confused as to why that has anything to do with what a woman needs 🤔 both can be true 🤷🏾♀️
@@nameunknown1519 Has nothing to do with what a woman needs. There are more women on this show than men. 99% of them are seeking financial help and not a mate because they have no clue of a man's wants and needs and aren't even interested in learning the one lesson that could turn them into wives before mothers. But cart before the horse right? Women need men and if or until most BW figure it out that 25% marriage rate will stay right where it is.
I will never understand why people answer the intimacy question. Kendra literally says "you dont have to answer". 😅 I'm a private person and just dont like people in my business. Especially thousands of people. Best of luck to her.
Agreed, but when people answer it adds to the entertainment factor of this show!😂😂😂
Because when people don’t answer we know they have slept with hundreds .
Yes its cringe. When she stalled on it I knew it was going to be something. One woman had the guy still at her place from the night before walking around.
What baffles me is the 3 flaws question. The 1st flaw is having trouble keeping my legs closed.
I was born in the 60’s. IMO in the 70’s women were happier and more satisfied with themselves. Hardly anyone was a single mother. Even if a woman struck out with her first BD, they always ended up with a husband while they were still attractive. A huge part of this was that we weren’t as thirsty; Men had to earn a place in our lives’. The only way to build a meaningful relationship is to abstain unless in a serious relationship.
The culture was more traditional back then, which contributed to higher marriage rates. I’m sure lack of technology plays a role too. Things are a mess now.
Feminism, atheism... It's a wrap.
Born in the 70's. Alternative lifestyles were not accepted back then. Homosexuality and the single parent lifestyle was frowned upon.
black family was separated because of the Vietnam War. Black men who would have been doctors, lawyers, engineers, entrepreneurs, etc were sent into the military and they came back as junkies.
@@orvillemcpherson6417 lol fantasy. The welfare state and the victim mindset that came with it, destroyed the communitah.
*women had to earn their place in a man’s life.
Another bum
That’s why? She single
So...She dumped the father of her child to become a part of his rotation? I wonder if KG realizes how often she's having the same conversation?
She's not with her kids father
@@insidioustrader3924 Right, she just let him smash last night. She's a part of his rotation.
@@insidioustrader3924 yes , exactly. She is no longer with the father of her child just to be part of a rotation of her "crazy ex" reading is fundamental
@@NexusFantismo yes reading is fundamental. Maybe you should try that before jumping into other's conversations with the need to be right.
At first RemIsNice said "She dumped the father of her child to be a part of his rotation" That means Rem thought the woman was a part of her baby daddy's rotation. 'His' is referring to the 'baby daddy' used earlier in the same sentence.
Then you wrote, "she is no longer with her baby daddy to be a part of her crazy ex's rotation" . Now you recognize that her baby daddy and crazy ex isn't the same person because you REPLACED 'his' with 'crazy ex'.
Rem didn't say what you said. The fact that you can't comprehend that says lot about why you are here with a need to argue with females. #GoodDay ✌🏾
@@insidioustrader3924 not reading all of that. Congratulations...or sorry for your loss.
Here is one statement when you have 2 baby daddies you are limited to be specific in what you want. You need to be with someone that wants you. She is a whole mess. Good luck to the person who sign up for this
Any MN who signs up for this doesn't deserve good luck.
@@kevinlee9929I stopped empathizing with foolish MN.
Two kids by two men and all over the place mentally. Game over before it even began.
She wants a man to make her happy. What does that mean ma'am? No one is responsible to Make You Happy. Only You can do that. Becoming Happy is your responsibility ma'am. This is the problem, looking externally and not internally. If another individual is responsible to make you happy, what will you provide for this individual?
That is low key selfish,immature thinking and a recipe for failure and disappointment.
@@jonthomson9262 what the commenter said is selfish or the lady in the video? 🤔
Exactly. I don’t understand how so many of them want someone to make them happy but won’t be willing to do the same.
@@Dawgyjoe the woman in the video.
@@Dawgyjoe most women dont care about a mans happiness,only their own.
Trying to get her ex jealous
And her ex ain't thinking about her 😂
@@corasbloomUntil he wants some more buns with no commitment
@@RetiredDealerBayArearight
@@RetiredDealerBayAreanow I see why dudes have babies with random chicks, you get unlimited cheeks for every purchase
I concur King.
The title should have been Denial. Cuz she ain’t going nowhere😂😂😂
What was she in denial about?
@@beedubbya2278 Being over her ex
@@khrisstake2210Facts
Facts
I feel like everything Kendra said went over her head.
She needs to work on her self-esteem.
If she lost weight it would improve
@@riosworld700her weight isnt even that much of a problem. She is more topheavy and somewhat big boned.
@@jonthomson9262big-boned doesn’t impact the fat on your body. i have larger bones and i can still lose fat. i’ll always look “bigger” but im not fat.
@@ToriUptown thats exactly the point i was making. She is maybe 20 to 25 lbs overweight,even after 2 kids. Thats not bad at all. And she is a little topheavy which for me is definently a positive thing so it all works all reasonably well.
@@jonthomson9262bro you like fat women, go save her
When have Black women not worked? This is stupid.
Say it again please, this fantasy reality needs to be stopped.
the black women haven't worked since the great grandmothers' generation... y'all can stop pretending otherwise... us black men and the social welfare check has been putting the food on your plates for decades now...
they think black women were living like the mom in Leave It To Beaver just dusting off vases all day 😂
Not Never. They Baby Sat Cleaned Houses. Sold Plates out the kitchen. Had candy stores out the garage sold Avon Tupperware I could go on and on. Just ridiculous
@@YouMaddYepYouMaddexactly. The stay at home happy homemaker fantasy has NEVER been applicable to the black family. Even in the 50's, 60's black women worked and still came home to handle the housework and child care. My grandmother worked her entire life and she was married with 11 children.
These women are unreal I don't know what else can be said
Your intimate business is your business, period. What happened to discretion? She needs to work on boundaries.
Right I would never come on an internationally streamed show and say I just slept with someone last night. Have some decorum about yourself.
This is solid advice from Kendra.
How many of these videos have to air before the majority of women stop gaslighting men into believing their ex's are not a factor?
And this is just the women who openly admit they still sleeping with their ex's months or years after they've broken up.
I'm sure someone said it...why are you still sleeping with an "ex" 😒 and he's "crazy." Weak flesh and immature. Girl good luck.
Anyone who watches this show can't help but have the negative views they have about BW reinforced. It's sad to say.
But that is just confirmation bias. I would ask what type of black women do they have in their real world lives…if they are also surrounded by these women, that speaks to who they are as well.
@missvalisha Agreed. We have to be cautious about confirmation bias. I wouldn't all sistasc with this broad brush, but among black single moms who never got married and never had coaching from older women, this lack of self awareness has to stop.
You must skip over the BM on here.
@@missvalisha keep deflecting . That mentality is why the "community" ( which is anything but) is where it is at
Negative experiences, negative observations and negative real life online content. At some point we have to accept this is the norm. No one in their right mind think all of them are like this, but the majority? That's a safe bet. They are coming with kids, attitude, highly emotional, disloyal and a huge bundle of sticks they've had. Hard for a man who wants love to accept.
"I am going to just tell people that you only have one kid (even though you really have two)" 🤣
He was ashamed to tell his African friends that she have kids by 2 men and by herself he asking himself why did those men leave her with babies
Cuz African men know it’s shameful to have multiple BDs
She don't know she in rotation
I know Jesus ain't die for this!!!!
I believe her children are in the car, which makes this conversation even more tragic!
I hope not I don’t like when kids can hear things like this
@@Nitanotawho cares
@@candorsspot2775 idk lol you don’t care about the kids ?
@@Nitanota F Dem kids lol.
@@candorsspot2775 man I can’t say that & im team f it all lol but protect the kids they the future or whatever Michael Jackson said
She really thinks she got one over on him cause she didn't sleep over after giving him some..like girl that's the ideal situations for men! He gets some than he doesn't have to share the bed with you or deal with you in the morning
Men love to get it and the woman leave she clueless
Once I break up with someone all communication is dead, it’s not that hard especially if moving on was YOUR DECISION! I think her ex didn’t want to be in relationship with her and she’s taking what she can get and thinking she has some leverage ex. He’ll always love me, he’ll always answer my call type bs
She said a man waits for her at her house until she gets home from a long day at work and asks her what she's cooking for dinner. Her options sound deplorable 😅
That's a lazy parasitic man. Pathetic.
@@otrebla8944That's more than she deserves to be honest.
Chile… 😂🤣
Yes I caught that I hope she worded that wrong
Relationships are balance. She’s so masculine she seeks femininity from a man. One takes from the other.
These women have no respect for their children. What a mess
The name of the show should be Kendra Klause Make a Wish Foundation.
Kendra gives pure honesty this is true you have to learn to be alone and celibate. And yall leading each other on crazy. Then you leaving the option open for him to bring you something back because he single and you don’t know if he responsible while you thinking he your safe heaven and he not
Kendra was speaking facts throughout the entire video!!! Stop sleeping with men you’re not in a relationship with AND stop saying you don’t need a man. I NEED my husband and no one will ever get me to say otherwise.
She had a kid at 18. Damn 2 kids, 2 baby daddies and currently sleeping with the ex… any takers?
You get with her, you get 6 ppl.
Don't forget the ex is -- Crazy 😳🤣
@@rogers5622 word 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Might as well make it interesting 😭😭😭
Kendra, i don't even know why you continue to ask these women with multiple kids if they're by the same man....😂😂😂 Of course it's more than one man, these women just busting it wide open for every pookie they meet and then use the excuse , "we were young"
One of the last few ladies had 3 kids by her high school sweetheart.! So it’s still possible for some of these BANQUEESHAS out here to have multiple children by one man.! 😅😅
Lol as soon as I hear "my oldest is 17 and my youngest is 5" I already know we're dealing with more than one baby daddy 😂
Men use the same excuse
Oh STFU, these women choose the weakest male race as fathers. 95% of these women have children by sorry as BM.
Men have the same excuse. A few had ghetto Irish twins.
Happiness is an internal , temporary feeling and many women love making relationship decisions based on that.
This is the comment
Men listen to women
Women do not listen to men
A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family
A women will sacrifice her family for her happiness
We are NOT the same
You know, i literally just saw a news report about an STD epidemic in Houston. Makes sense.
Thats fake
Yep herpes hiv gonorrhea, and syphilis
HIV is rampant in Houston
@@tim62103it was not fake
Yea most black women....128% increase of STD since 2016 ONLY black women......It goes to show you that 90% of women are sleeping with a small percentage of men
Kendra had time that day!! Even if she wasn’t listening other women watching were!❤❤🙌🏽
Everything went in one ear and out the other. Men dating today somehow know that somehow I gotta understand how to attract a woman. You women today gotta get schooled by a stranger about how to carry yourself in the dating world. And ya’ll have kids already. Just wow!
Get your passport, gentleman... you'll have better luck in Africa
(Ethiopia, South Africa, or Tanzania)
Most are radiating femininity
These ngas ain’t going to Africa.. they claim they built the pyramids and then turn around and say they native Americans 😂😂😂 a flight to Africa cost more than their rent
They cooking all your meals, and treating you like royalty 🫅🏾😂
@@leataylor9277 spend your money in another country like your government does with your taxes
Shittin me Africa even worse!!
you should include Lesotho right inside South Africa and Botswana
She even look like she funky
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I disagree with this whole “I need a man” theory. It’s okay to not NEED a man romantically. No one NEEDS a romantic partner to survive. Not everyone will be partnered up. It’s a desire. We desire partnership and romantic relationships. I really don’t like the idea of saying you “need” someone because it almost puts them on a pedestal. You are whole all by yourself. Always.
KENDRA!!! KENDRA!! KENDRA!!
The LESSONS you're giving... and SO IMPORTANT. A lot of women don't understand that you're giving them GOLD!!!
She stayed quiet because she just wanted to talk... and NOT learn. SMH
I STOPPED when she said, "Houston" because there's no need to continue.
Only read a few comments and it's everything I've been saying about these Houston women for years.
Her energy changed after Kendra tried to put her on game!! She seemed embarrassed!
Unpopular opinion: If all the women were honest, they're all sleeping with someone. At least she was honest. She's not doing anything differently than the other women.
Lmbo KG BE SO PASSIONATE ABOUT THIS AND THEY ARE NEVER TRYING TO HEAR IT 😅😅😅😅😅😅 smh KG hates this situation and she HATES when single moms say ...he doesn't have to help with my kids blah blah blah lol
Yall better pick up what Kendra putting down!!! If we break up you’ll never see this 🐱 again!! No ma’am, no ham, no turkey, no gravy!!
She lives in Houston where they recently had 42,000 NEW STD cases in one week. She is being safe.
Being stupid. He can give her std.
Is this sarcasm? 😅
@@missjoy6685 Google it.
no way you're serious 🤣🤣🤣
@missjoy6685
Look it up....Most black women have the STD increase in Houston......Which tells you that 80-20 rule is real.....80% of women are sleeping with a small 20% of men......Black women in Houston by far have the biggest increase look it up
2 kids from 2 different men. Having sex with an ex, so it can turn into 3 kids or a disease.. And she asks for a “good man” that goes to church🤣😂🤣. Maybe I just been gone from church for to long. It has to be a New Testament that was released recently.
Kendra: I’m going to ask, but you don’t have to answer, when was the last time you’ve been intimate with someone?
Guest: last night.
Houston newscaster: we are still dealing with an epidemic with sexually transmitted diseases in Houston, back to you in the studio Bob.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Kendra is correct.
I kind of wish KG didn't tell these women to change their language...I appreciate when I hear women who speak boldly with "I don't need no man" type of terms so it's easy to skip those women and not waste or time.
Okkk i gotta say I love how Kendra broke down the reasoning about needing a man! That was beautiful! She’s right we need each other❤
Y'all need us.. Besides making babies, men don't need women.
My mother use to say, if u don’t have anything good to say don’t say anything at all!
Preach Kendra! She needed that. I hope she received it tho.
These people are either unserious, remedial or both.
I like episodes like this where Kendra talks sense into our women , instead of applauding their bad behavior
I would’ve kept that to myself 😏🤦🏽♀️🥴
What man in their right mind would accept two kids that aren't his
There are some men out there that would but circumstances must be right, given all other things
@@ejay2075 the man that’s coming home asking her to cook at midnight! 😂 she has the options she qualifies for!
She told someone in the car to shut up. Please tell me that was not one of her kids in the car during this interview?? 😳😳. Smdh.
It was her child I heard them say “Mama” in shame when she got out of the car for the Kendra Cam and semi twerked for the camera most likely it was her 15 year old holding the phone. Just Horrible.
The title tells us the caliber of women these are... I think Kendra is secretly warning men to stay away by posting her biggest red flag as the title. 😂😂😂
If she didn't put that as the title and men still thought she would make a good partner idk what to tell you. 😂
This is exactly why men have to compete with other men.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she don’t even wanna cook. No wonder why she had to 2 kids one at 18 by two different men. Idk what to tell her. She has to over perform some where.
@@ajoyner614 she is a single mom.........
@@tyquauni dont want a woman that doesnt consistently cook. At least 3-4 times a week.
Masters of Science in Diabolical Tendencies with a minor in Questionable Decision Making.
You PREACHING today KENDRA!!!... LOVE IT.....yes👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Just came from Arlette Amuli's proposal catchup to this nonsense smh
Lol im headed there next
That’s crazy I just came here from that video!! 😄
Same
Me too.... I couldn't believe that
Hey! 🙋🏽♀️ Me, too!
The guy would not commit, she act like she had power
Next man need to except her kids and ex
These ladies are lost it’s comical 😂
No sexual discipline at all. Nasty!!!
@@mablem.9094NONE! 🤦🏾♀️
She was not trying to hear anything Kendra was saying after she admitted that she was still sleeping with her ex .
No, the boys are mad that you putting them on game.
But tbh, you can put them on game til your blue in the face...cause most wont even listen or take heed. Sad but true Kendra. Thats why the players are the guys out here winning...and us good decent men, a lot of us are single AF. Until things flip and we are the ones sought after and valued and women start vetting good, things unfortunately wont change much. It is what it is.
I hope Kendra's message is received by someone who needs to hear this. The bobblehead at the botton of the screen didn’t hear 💩
Yall are not smart 😢😢
I like when these girls expose themselves. It’s helpful for men and it’s entertaining for me
It is so sad though!
It's hard to believe before UA-cam that all this nonsense used to stay in people's heads
It's hard to believe that, before UA-cam, these women pretended like they weren't up to this foolishness
Was with him last night?! Full stop come on