We uncovered the real story of Rihanna’s experience during and after the incident, not the one portrayed by the media, where she shows us why she is the strong, compassionate, graceful woman the world fell in love within the first place. What do you think about Rihanna’s experience?
It can happen to anyone. It's happened and is still happening to me. My maternal grandmother's third husband ended up killing her when I was ten. I swore it would never happen to me. I understand Rhianna so well. She deserves all the love and happiness in the world. People making jokes about your violent situation is horrendous. I'm hoping that I'll be strong enough to break ties with my abuser
As someone who’s been through this, abuse is no joke. The effect it has on your brain, your mental, physical, emotional IS NO JOKE. People should never make the joke or laugh at somebody who has been through it or currently dealing with it. One thing I learned: run the first time. Red flags? Leave. If he or she hits you once, THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN. One day, it’ll be a last hit. Whether it’s you going 6ft in from the abuse, or from you gathering that willpower and leaving for your safety and sanity.
The nightmares u get that first year after leaving ur partner....always checking where u are...is ur partner (the abuser )next to y??is the door locked???😣😣☹️
dont agree with you......people can change!!its the vibe they become in..maybe was rihanna also not only a victim but a cause...remember..you wasnt there..so you can not judge!!all these celebraties look like they are free from sin..but they are not!!!ps my man slapt me 4times.....but the reason behind that we lived a ruff live..until jezus came in my live we are free.think about that...these celebraties all gave give not there soul but entregaties2the devil...our soul belongs 2 jezus...judgements day will come!!!,peace
@@Angel19285 i wasnt judging anyone or any situatuon i was just talking about the after effects that abuse has on a person. I also believe ppl.do change i personally know of someone who was in jail for a horrible thing.hes a changed man today .
I have been in an abusive relationship. The times that they are nice to you seem to far outweigh those bad times. I feel like there is a protective mechanism that made me suppress how scared I was when he would beat me, lock me away for days, and threaten to kill me. I thought I could control the situation if I was just good. It's tough I am happy I am out and she is too!
Yes, you can. If a woman is still around to be abused by the same guy twice, she's the problem because she has no self-respect and won't even take care of herself.
@@righttorecord3538 I agree with you. The whole world was watching at that point, its not like she HAD to go back to him! Like some woman who are married to their abuser with kids and share a home etc and use that as their excuse for forgiving their abuser over and over. She was/is a a famous pop star. She could have had all the security and protection she wanted and would never have had to have him near her again! But she CHOSE to go back. More than once. Sorry but that’s just fcking stupid. Have some self respect. He tried to bite her damn ear off knowing Damn well the whole world would know about it because of who she is ffs! That’s a psycho.
@@Poetess2323 Nope. It's a factual statement. A woman gets with a man. The man commits a minor act of violence against the woman. The woman stays with the man. The man commits a greater act of violence against the woman. The woman stays with the man. The man continues to increase the level of violence against the woman. The woman stays with the man. The man is beating the woman, the neighbors call the cops because they can hear her screaming, the cops arrive, they can see the woman has been beaten, the woman insists the man did nothing, the cops arrest the man because the law says they have to when there is evidence of abuse, the woman goes to the jail, bails the man out, and they continue with the man abusing the woman and the woman staying with the man, except now she begins to claim that the man is threatening to kill her if she tries to leave. The fools should have gotten away from the man the FIRST time he abused her. I have known these women myself, and NOTHING I or anyone else could say to them could get them to do anything to stop their abuser. I also know a woman who married a man who had never abused her, he slapped her on their wedding night, and she put him in jail, got the marriage annulled, she told the man she would shoot him if she ever saw him again, and I'm sure she meant it. She would have gladly taken her case to a jury.
Please, believe me: If your Partner hits, pushes or abuses you in another way one time, they will do it again. You can't heal them. Please, for God's sake: LEAVE! immediately! It's not your fault, you don't deserve that! You are not alone❤️
I had already talked to a divorce lawyer. I knew my marriage was over, but still dragging my feet. June 22 2004 at 10 p.m. he hit me. The very next morning, at 9:05 I called my lawyer "I'm ready to file now."
This is what a real abuse victim acts like. Notice she gets quite when remembering the actions and she did remember. She wasnt talking about the carpet or dog stepping on a bee. Bless rhianna.
I remember being 18 in 2018 leaving an abusive relationship. I could not take it any more. It was either me or him. I chose myself. It's horrible feeling.
I never understood what Rihanna saw in Chris Brown! As I held Rihanna to a much higher standard. I’m glad that she came to the realisation that she couldn’t fix him with her love. I wish her all the best & health x
Victim blaming is never okay. Abusers are predators & scam artist who are amazing at what they do, don’t judge unless you’ve experienced this soul shattering agony. Ignorance is a BLISS, hope you or any of your loved ones never experience this.
This is exactly what I was thinking people blame rhianna more him straight up. Everything you read in the comment section is that chris is justifying his behaviour. And then when you watch videos like this were it's on very obvious traits of her acting like an abused woman like it wasent his fault, he needs my help. People arent even seeing the pattern
I love Rihanna and have such a different kind of respect for her she went through something that so many us women go through and are so scared to talk about it and always blame ourselves what could I have done different and try to protect the one that hurt us because we was bond by love but she showed us it's ok to speak out truth and know our worth and stand up for what we believe in. Rihanna is a beautiful person inside and out and showed us no matter what we go through we can have happiness and come out on top better then ever.. live ur life queens we deserve better
For someone who has been through these things, it's hard to explain the entire story. Some go so far as to kill the person because if they can't have them no one else can. It's hard to know how far someone will go. Making fun of these things are no joke. I hate to hear people make fun of, or think someone is responsible for this to happen. Those things are not funny, those things are serious. I have seen things go bad, especially when things end in tragedy. So to see Rhianna go through this, it's hard to judge, I'm glad she got past this, because being strong and getting out is important. So many people don't change
People SIMPLY have NO CLUE! There is an actual addiction to chemicals in the body that abuse causes. That makes it hard to leave. Additionally, abusers are EXPERT at mental manipulations. The victim is often convinced they have some blame, they feel they are in love, they want the Fake person to come back that attracted them into the relationship, has disappeared, but keeps promising to come back.
DV Is NOT a joke at all, their is soo soo much that goes on when u especially love someone with your heart & soul & they have a hold on you mentally, emotionally, most other woman their is also the financial hold..so that you get stuck! Am shocked that this video doesn't have more views ..this is a very important subject.
I went back... I lost friends. I finally left I month later. He has seen out and he would not leave me alone. If I go out I make sure it's out of his way.
I went back as well and I'm still healing. I hated myself at a time too now I am finally loving myself and healing! Thank everyone for sharing! It took me 23yrs to finally realize they never change and I have to love myself before anyone and anything else!
And thank you for putting the real statistics out there people really need to educate themselves on the facts behind domestic violence and trauma bonds!
Unfortunately, domestic violence against women is never taken seriously. Not until she is dead. Victim blaming and jokes at your expense, defending the abuser are common. It is not a good experience.
It doesn't matter what Rihanna said or did, there is absolutely no excuse for that pus-- to put his hands on her. Even if he is from a home where there was DV, it doesn't matter! He should know better, especially if he saw it happen to his mother. I was in an abusive marriage so I know how it feels. I understand about going back to the abuser, it takes time to realize that they probably won't change, especially without counseling, or intervention.
Ppl.stay coz they believe the person can change.but truth is sometimes love is not enough..Sometimes u need to do whats best for u (and the kids if u have)
The one lesson we all need to learn is that we cannot control another persons behavior. You can’t force coerce manipulate humiliate or threaten anyone into telling the truth. We have to accept who we choose to spend time with. If you can’t trust someone walk away or simply accept that the person is not capable of giving you what you want and allow them to be who they are.
I was so happy to hear Rihanna had finally opened her eyes, although I know how painful it must have been at first before it dawns on you that you are enough and too pretty for anyone to use your body to their liking. (Men/women that hit men/women are usually very selfish people, cowards, bullies with childhood deep-rooted problems and skeletons in their closet, usually a momma's boy/daddy's girl. Usually these abusers are transgender in private but in public, "act" their own gender; dark spirited/minded, split personality traits, bi-polar or schizophrenic, consciousless, big egos and narcissistic traits. Based on personal experiences and opinions.)
You do realize that she is the one that agonizes and puts her hand on him first. It doesn't give him a reason to react he should walk away. But you can't excuse her for her actions.
I am bipolar and I don’t beat my husband, or anyone else. Also, do you have any facts to say that they’re transgender, and whatever else that you spit out? The bottom line is that they are abusive, and they won’t stop, so walk away from them.
It’s disgusting that you even think she is wrong! Chris has a violent pattern not her. Nice try tho! He didn’t have mark on him while she was black and blue!
@@foolyxscorp because it was in the actual police report and she said it herself, wtfkk is not connecting sir? He didn’t dispute shittt till years later and another girl got a restraining order from the courts. Do you know what Rihanna response was to documentary? Only him and I know what really happened lol Hail Mary for his patheticc career
But you also need to have some self respect. Why would a man respect any woman who allows him to abuse her? And forgives him over and over again? Not saying for one SECOND that makes it okay! Obviously! Just saying get tf out after the first time and never EVER allow a man to treat you that way. A monster abuser is never going to respect a woman that doesn’t respect herself. Because that’s how their minds work, as horrible and awful as that is. Love shouldn’t come into it. You put on big girl pants and walk away. Because an abuser sure as hell doesn’t love you if he’s abusing you.
Then there are those of us who stay because we have no choice. Our parents lives are threatened our childrens lives are threatened and the home we are held prisoner in is full of guns and his fists. How is it that people don't see an otherwise perfectly healthy women is in and out of hospitals having surgery after surgery to repair injury
@@ashleighmackenzie8670 you clearly have no idea what it's like to be held prisoner or have a monster try to kill you and your children and then your own father. My ex was a master manipulator who was finally diagnosed as a manipulative criminally insane potentially lethal sociopath. He had no soul and his parents and brother were the same. His brother was a is a class 3 profile the worst kind to little girls and I had a daughter. It's a wonder and a miracle we survived at all. You can say what you want but believing what you are saying makes it hard for me to believe you have any soul either
What I dont understand though, how can you love someone that beats the shit out of you? Thats what my mom did. Her ex husband beat the shit out of her daily. She had 2 black eyes when giving birth to my beother. And she still went back. Like i dont get it. How can you love someone that treats you like shit? And keep going back to him? Like the people that are pysically held hostage I get, but the people that leave, and go back over and over again i dont get it.
“The more I love we became the more dangerous we became for each other, equally as dangerous.” In this statement she literally admits to being abusive to him too.
perhaps or it could be reactive. a lot of abuse victims blame themselves for the abuser's reaction to literally nothing or justified concerns like infidelity. the fights in these type of relationships can be volitile. she's trying to take some of the blame off Chris here for the inexcusable.
People who are comparing Jhonny depp- AH with Chris-Rihanna are delusional. You can actually see the swelling and blood on her face what a single punch from Chris did to her. While AH kep on describing how Jhonny repeatedly punched her, but when asked about no bruises, she said it wasn't that bad.
My ex got in contact with me about 4 years ago and said iv been listening to Chris brown thinking about you, and my reply was I don’t know why you are doing that 😂 because I stopped listening to him, after he beat riri, exs are best kept in your past 💯 my ex included 💯
That's another problem dear friends and people will make excuses for what they did instead of holding them accountable if they're true friends they would hold him accountable make him face what he did and admit that it was wrong and help him to never do it again and yes she still loved him because you don't just stop loving someone you try to figure out what caused it how to make it so what won't happen again but the saying she must have done something or he must have done something that's not helping either one of them
Some of yall make me sick! Yall really gonna sit here and say leave this man alone and don't turn him into monster??? He is a monster and there is absolutely no excuse for abuse, fuck what yall talking about.
I also wish women would take control and responsibility over their own actions. You don’t smack or punch a man who’s been physically abused all his childhood. You’re asking for an unfiltered reaction. You’re feeding the toxic instinctual response - fight or flight. When you can’t flee, you fucking fight. If I had been abused and neglected by my parent, and then my SO hits me one day mid argument - my childhood and self protectiveness and rage would explode that how the fuck could a fucking adult be hitting me right now? What the fuck did I do to deserve this? I think trauma comes in many forms, and I think some relationships are just toxic. So many broken families create broken people, without proper therapy and rehabilitation of senses, self control, awareness of one’s emotional state, you can’t have a normal relationship with someone who’s going to smack you or hit you randomly, playfully or not. It’s insult to injury. And that often materializes in punching back. Idk. Idk what to think. She literally says she thought people misunderstood him. The only way they would have misunderstood him is if she wasn’t telling the whole truth by admitting she would also hit him too. Because the narrative she created was out of nowhere he started beating the shit out of her. We know now that wasn’t the case. She was hitting him, while he was driving. He tried to get her out of the car. She wouldn’t leave. So it’s not as though she was just being nice and happy and he punched her out of nowhere. She was haranguing him about his texts, got a bit psycho about his ex, hit him when he “wouldn’t fess up to the truth” as if he’s gunna tell you the truth after you hit him. After he hits her back he leaves her in the car. It just shows what lengths she took to stay in the car and stay in the fight. My ass would be unbuckling and running down the road. I wouldn’t be taking the keys out of the ignition and hiding them from my abusive bf so that were both stuck in the car together. But she did.
FFS leave that man alone, it’s been more than a decade now, Chris is but just a human, he is trying and learning everyday, let’s help him and not turn him into a monster.
That’s probably what they said abt his past mistakes and mistakes after that then the cycle goes on ppl only truly change when they are held accountable he was never cus a normal person would be in jail not having a big fanbase
They said all that just to flaunt Rihanna and ASAP Rocky, which just proves they don’t really care about domestic violence. This is about, look Chris, look lol Really pathetic
🙄 it’s called having some self respect. Why would an abuser have any respect for someone who allows someone to physically abuse them? And then forgive them until they do it all over again. And then forgive them again. Sorry, but I Have been in that situation, and packed up and never looked back the first time he was even REMOTELY physical with me. Cause I refuse to be a doormat that stays and takes it, and forgives them over and over and over. That’s on you (not you personally) if you’re gonna allow someone to abuse you like that and then go back like so many do. That’s when many people start losing sympathy. Cause these animals rely on weak women to just stay and take the beatings over and over, until something REALLY terrible happens. Even worse when they put their children through it, who have no choice in the matter. How anyone could stay with a violent person when they have kids is utterly beyond me. I don’t care how scared you are, you put your kids first and get tf out. There’s always always help if you look for it.
@@ashleighmackenzie8670 So easy to assume from personal standings. What you state is exactly what you would do or done. The thing that has me at a stand still is the amount of people who are that small minded to think "i did it" so you can too is alarming!!! If you don't understand or comprehend another's mental state while in the storm, DONT COMMENT!!! Using your actions as clarification that people can do it is delusional.
Still talking about this in 2022 don't care he should have never punch her in the eye I bite isn't nun but the fact he punch her and bussed her lip 🙄ouuu
In my opinion he need help , and she need help as well , but not by each other but by professionals .. they don’t belong together until they both fix those wrong learned as a kid models / they may not even like each other after that even / , the figure that trached them that is love when it’s not .. in my opinion that is why they seem really happy together , because they had similar background , and the same unresolved trauma but in my opinion it’s not her who need to “help him” he need to be able to help himself , he should have worked out about his anger issues in the first place .. I really think her thinking she can help him is just an illusion of hers , and this not healthy figure she learned it from , if he don’t want to change she can’t do nothing .. so in my opinion it isn’t worth it trying infinite times , if he can’t get that by himself .. and it’s possible I have had similar experiences , and when you start working on them , is like you have 2 people inside you of which one tells instinctively “I want that” (idk why but I want it , and it makes me feel good when in the long run it reflect the same trauma you had as a kid that is why is attracting you it’s familiar ) , and another voice in my head that tells me if I listen to my instinct it may not turn very well .. For the reason I described above .. so travaglie what she wants and what it feels normal without trying to change people , since that is disfunzionale as well , is the key , to re parent and at least try to erase that traumatic period and don’t make it repeat infinite times , and teach it incongruously to your kids as well..
NO MATTER wht my better 1/2 say or do, I would NEVER strike her, NEVER hurt her!! Ppl just NEED 2 "GROW the fck UP" & "STOP act'n like CHILDREN"!!! DON'T just say u a man or a woman, BE a damn MAN, BE a damn WOMAN, NOT a damn child!! I won't B 23 til nxt month & MY ASS B A MAN, NOT a child!!
I was a victim…But I’m happy I wasn’t one of those girls that was like oh he’s loves me cause trust me it starts with the moms if you disrespect your mom he gonna disrespect you and talking to other girls… I’m the one if you touch me imma beat u up so I left that simple…. When you leave things alone you think about that you wasted your time when you could have been treated way better cuz you can tell the difference between a man and a bum
Domestic abuse is complicated. While the perpetrators that do it are awful people, it's also difficult sometimes to help the victims. I just learned this weekend that a woman I work with was getting the brakes beaten off of her by her husband. I've known this woman for 2 years and she is a trainwreck filled with poor decision making and drama that unfortunately drags other people into it. Well-meaning people trying to help, but not knowing yet that this moron can't be helped. The best thing to do is stay away from them. She gets punched in the face pretty regularly, but defends the abuser and compromises other people that try to help. My stance with this individual is to stay away and caution others to stay away for their own well-being.
Very naive bit ignorance is bliss right. Educate yourself on trauma bonding. Understand that trauma is a brain injury. It's complex. It's deep. And you just single handedly outed yourself as a close minded individual. Thats okay though, can't expect you to grasp the concept as touve never had to.
@@rojepa92 No just that your problems aren't everyone else's and most people don't want to get sucked into their bullshit. You sound like this type of person who just can't figure out why their life is fucked but also have no agency to at least try to fix it.
CB is wrong 100% and Rihanna 100% right and Innocent 😂😂😂😂 Give me a freaking Break. CB atleast owned Up to his mistakes , and he Took full blame. But she was the instigator. It takes sooo Long the truth to come out. But Every one see only one side . So bad
I'm not judging because it's two side two every story. I'm a woman and have seen other woman escalate a situation and than when a man reacts they turn around a play the victim 😒
I think too much was made of this. Chris is a good kid. He didn't deserve the tear down. They were kids living very entitled and rich and Hollywood showed us all how they make you and brake you.
How can ppl see this as ok that he abuse her? Wow no matter what abused either way is sooooo wrong mentality, physically in every single way... this world is so f-cked up
It's easy to go back you love them they have you convinced that it's your fault but that things can get better so you love them enough so you want it to get better so you go back and it will be better for a while but then it happens again and it's worse the next time and then you break up for a while but they will treat you like gold tell you they'll get help and actually maybe get some help but it doesn't help and then it happens again only this time it's so bad that you know it's time to leave if you're capable of it if it's not too late but it happens with men too because there are men out there that are being abused extremely bad and the women is saying no one will believe you you have to stay here you have no place to go and they use kids to make you stay they do anything and everything to make you stay I think men stay longer than women do but either they have to break away after a while if they still alive too
Such a tragedy!! This ruined Chris Browns career. He was literally going to be the next Michael Jackson, an absolute generational talent. What Brown did was wrong completely however it seems to me that assault is always gender biased. Like both didn’t fuqq each other up in the Lamborghini. the whole relationship was Toxic 🥴🤧
I agree. Cuz wouldn’t of just slapped her for looking at him. They were arguing. She was hitting him just as much as he was. She only had the marks to prove it tryna act like a victim, you ain’t a victim fivehead. Lol I think had they had a normal discussion none of this would’ve happened
4:18 Starting a fight and 'provoking an attack' are two very different things. How is it 'victim blaming' when she started the fight? How was she any more of a victim than he was? 🤨
But shit really no one cares what she did he was scratched the fuck up like a Jaguar attacked him. But men should never hit a girl with a closed fist or open
What he did was totally out of character, however you as a woman can’t go around hitting or putting you fingers all up in men face etc. I can related to some of this as my son girlfriend when they have a disagreement she would throw stuff at him and he kept warning her don’t put your hands on me and she kept doing it so we as the family had to step in to avoid he retaliating . She had a part to play with the situation too.
DO CHRIS LIKE PRINCESS DID RAY J. SHE HAVE A NEW MAN AND VERY HAPPY. RAY J SAY HE IS GOING TO COMMIT SUICIDE CAUSE PRINCESS IS GONE. RI😢RI PLEASE LEAVE BOTH OF THEM AND START A NEW LIFE. HE JUST HAD DIAMOND ON THE TOUR WITH HIM.
She attacked and scratched first scratched his face all up and then him knowing he has a show to go to pissed him off and she didn't stop so he went crazy. But they were young but should never put hands on anyone.
We uncovered the real story of Rihanna’s experience during and after the incident, not the one portrayed by the media, where she shows us why she is the strong, compassionate, graceful woman the world fell in love within the first place.
What do you think about Rihanna’s experience?
Makes her stronger and wiser
It can happen to anyone. It's happened and is still happening to me.
My maternal grandmother's third husband ended up killing her when I was ten.
I swore it would never happen to me. I understand Rhianna so well. She deserves all the love and happiness in the world.
People making jokes about your violent situation is horrendous. I'm hoping that I'll be strong enough to break ties with my abuser
It's heartbreaking 😔
As someone who’s been through this, abuse is no joke. The effect it has on your brain, your mental, physical, emotional IS NO JOKE. People should never make the joke or laugh at somebody who has been through it or currently dealing with it. One thing I learned: run the first time. Red flags? Leave. If he or she hits you once, THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN. One day, it’ll be a last hit. Whether it’s you going 6ft in from the abuse, or from you gathering that willpower and leaving for your safety and sanity.
Enough women and society laugh at men being abused by women so why is there always sympathy when women are abused its all one sided
The nightmares u get that first year after leaving ur partner....always checking where u are...is ur partner (the abuser )next to y??is the door locked???😣😣☹️
dont agree with you......people can change!!its the vibe they become in..maybe was rihanna also not only a victim but a cause...remember..you wasnt there..so you can not judge!!all these celebraties look like they are free from sin..but they are not!!!ps my man slapt me 4times.....but the reason behind that we lived a ruff live..until jezus came in my live we are free.think about that...these celebraties all gave give not there soul but entregaties2the devil...our soul belongs 2 jezus...judgements day will come!!!,peace
@@Angel19285 i wasnt judging anyone or any situatuon i was just talking about the after effects that abuse has on a person. I also believe ppl.do change i personally know of someone who was in jail for a horrible thing.hes a changed man today .
I have been in an abusive relationship. The times that they are nice to you seem to far outweigh those bad times. I feel like there is a protective mechanism that made me suppress how scared I was when he would beat me, lock me away for days, and threaten to kill me. I thought I could control the situation if I was just good. It's tough I am happy I am out and she is too!
Until you've been there, you cannot judge.
💯💜🙏
Yes, you can. If a woman is still around to be abused by the same guy twice, she's the problem because she has no self-respect and won't even take care of herself.
@@righttorecord3538 I agree with you. The whole world was watching at that point, its not like she HAD to go back to him! Like some woman who are married to their abuser with kids and share a home etc and use that as their excuse for forgiving their abuser over and over. She was/is a a famous pop star. She could have had all the security and protection she wanted and would never have had to have him near her again! But she CHOSE to go back. More than once. Sorry but that’s just fcking stupid. Have some self respect. He tried to bite her damn ear off knowing Damn well the whole world would know about it because of who she is ffs! That’s a psycho.
@@righttorecord3538 that's an incredibly ignorant statement.
@@Poetess2323 Nope. It's a factual statement. A woman gets with a man. The man commits a minor act of violence against the woman. The woman stays with the man. The man commits a greater act of violence against the woman. The woman stays with the man. The man continues to increase the level of violence against the woman. The woman stays with the man. The man is beating the woman, the neighbors call the cops because they can hear her screaming, the cops arrive, they can see the woman has been beaten, the woman insists the man did nothing, the cops arrest the man because the law says they have to when there is evidence of abuse, the woman goes to the jail, bails the man out, and they continue with the man abusing the woman and the woman staying with the man, except now she begins to claim that the man is threatening to kill her if she tries to leave. The fools should have gotten away from the man the FIRST time he abused her. I have known these women myself, and NOTHING I or anyone else could say to them could get them to do anything to stop their abuser. I also know a woman who married a man who had never abused her, he slapped her on their wedding night, and she put him in jail, got the marriage annulled, she told the man she would shoot him if she ever saw him again, and I'm sure she meant it. She would have gladly taken her case to a jury.
Please, believe me: If your Partner hits, pushes or abuses you in another way one time, they will do it again. You can't heal them. Please, for God's sake: LEAVE! immediately!
It's not your fault, you don't deserve that! You are not alone❤️
I had already talked to a divorce lawyer. I knew my marriage was over, but still dragging my feet. June 22 2004 at 10 p.m. he hit me.
The very next morning, at 9:05 I called my lawyer "I'm ready to file now."
Sorry you went thru that
Yup
So Sorry Hoping That Your New Life Will Bring You Happiness, and a Sense of Peace.
@@helenhamilton9561 Thanks. Everyone deserves a happy peaceful life.
This is what a real abuse victim acts like. Notice she gets quite when remembering the actions and she did remember. She wasnt talking about the carpet or dog stepping on a bee. Bless rhianna.
I remember being 18 in 2018 leaving an abusive relationship. I could not take it any more. It was either me or him. I chose myself. It's horrible feeling.
I never understood what Rihanna saw in Chris Brown! As I held Rihanna to a much higher standard. I’m glad that she came to the realisation that she couldn’t fix him with her love. I wish her all the best & health x
Victim blaming is never okay. Abusers are predators & scam artist who are amazing at what they do, don’t judge unless you’ve experienced this soul shattering agony. Ignorance is a BLISS, hope you or any of your loved ones never experience this.
I like how everybody ignored Chris's side of the story ..
Like seriously...it's like it doesn't even exist to them.
it’s fucking crazy…like actually crazy no one talks about how abusive she was towards him
Coz they matter more...I bet you if he never retaliated they would have called him a bitch and praised Rihanna as a Queen..
and i like how everybody ignored Amber's side of the story....
The taste of your own medicine is bitter, ain't it?
I'm so glad that Rihanna has moved on with her life and is finally happy in her life 🙏😊😃
Yup
With a baby included
This is exactly what I was thinking people blame rhianna more him straight up. Everything you read in the comment section is that chris is justifying his behaviour. And then when you watch videos like this were it's on very obvious traits of her acting like an abused woman like it wasent his fault, he needs my help. People arent even seeing the pattern
My thoughts! Exspectuelly women! 😢
I love Rihanna and have such a different kind of respect for her she went through something that so many us women go through and are so scared to talk about it and always blame ourselves what could I have done different and try to protect the one that hurt us because we was bond by love but she showed us it's ok to speak out truth and know our worth and stand up for what we believe in. Rihanna is a beautiful person inside and out and showed us no matter what we go through we can have happiness and come out on top better then ever.. live ur life queens we deserve better
It’s incredible how this society nowadays backlashes more women and how women bring other women down…
Instead of us supporting each other’s..
For someone who has been through these things, it's hard to explain the entire story. Some go so far as to kill the person because if they can't have them no one else can. It's hard to know how far someone will go. Making fun of these things are no joke. I hate to hear people make fun of, or think someone is responsible for this to happen. Those things are not funny, those things are serious. I have seen things go bad, especially when things end in tragedy. So to see Rhianna go through this, it's hard to judge, I'm glad she got past this, because being strong and getting out is important. So many people don't change
People SIMPLY have NO CLUE! There is an actual addiction to chemicals in the body that abuse causes. That makes it hard to leave. Additionally, abusers are EXPERT at mental manipulations. The victim is often convinced they have some blame, they feel they are in love, they want the Fake person to come back that attracted them into the relationship, has disappeared, but keeps promising to come back.
DV Is NOT a joke at all, their is soo soo much that goes on when u especially love someone with your heart & soul & they have a hold on you mentally, emotionally, most other woman their is also the financial hold..so that you get stuck! Am shocked that this video doesn't have more views ..this is a very important subject.
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I went back... I lost friends. I finally left I month later. He has seen out and he would not leave me alone. If I go out I make sure it's out of his way.
I’ve hated myself for going back to my abuser for years. Do not shame her… on average it takes 7 times to get away from domestic violence
I went back as well and I'm still healing. I hated myself at a time too now I am finally loving myself and healing! Thank everyone for sharing! It took me 23yrs to finally realize they never change and I have to love myself before anyone and anything else!
And thank you for putting the real statistics out there people really need to educate themselves on the facts behind domestic violence and trauma bonds!
Sis calculated the average 😂😂😂
There is a s NOTHING ANYONE can possibly do that would make them deserve abuse.
Unfortunately, domestic violence against women is never taken seriously. Not until she is dead. Victim blaming and jokes at your expense, defending the abuser are common. It is not a good experience.
It doesn't matter what Rihanna said or did, there is absolutely no excuse for that pus-- to put his hands on her. Even if he is from a home where there was DV, it doesn't matter! He should know better, especially if he saw it happen to his mother.
I was in an abusive marriage so I know how it feels. I understand about going back to the abuser, it takes time to realize that they probably won't change, especially without counseling, or intervention.
My mom was abused and I then ended up with an abusive relationship. Was true hell, I was 17 .. I also thought I could save him 😞
Ppl.stay coz they believe the person can change.but truth is sometimes love is not enough..Sometimes u need to do whats best for u (and the kids if u have)
💔💜💯This makes me extremely sad because I can relate 100 percent.
The one lesson we all need to learn is that we cannot control another persons behavior. You can’t force coerce manipulate humiliate or threaten anyone into telling the truth. We have to accept who we choose to spend time with. If you can’t trust someone walk away or simply accept that the person is not capable of giving you what you want and allow them to be who they are.
What gets me is Rhianna recognized the victim as many survivors have in Johnny, Spears did as well - both were abused by AStans!
I was so happy to hear Rihanna had finally opened her eyes, although I know how painful it must have been at first before it dawns on you that you are enough and too pretty for anyone to use your body to their liking. (Men/women that hit men/women are usually very selfish people, cowards, bullies with childhood deep-rooted problems and skeletons in their closet, usually a momma's boy/daddy's girl. Usually these abusers are transgender in private but in public, "act" their own gender; dark spirited/minded, split personality traits, bi-polar or schizophrenic, consciousless, big egos and narcissistic traits. Based on personal experiences and opinions.)
You do realize that she is the one that agonizes and puts her hand on him first. It doesn't give him a reason to react he should walk away. But you can't excuse her for her actions.
I am bipolar and I don’t beat my husband, or anyone else. Also, do you have any facts to say that they’re transgender, and whatever else that you spit out? The bottom line is that they are abusive, and they won’t stop, so walk away from them.
I feel like both parties are responsible. I find it kind of crazy that ppl overlook what she did like it was okay.
That's what I said so I agree....she is not as innocent as the world wants her to be
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It’s disgusting that you even think she is wrong! Chris has a violent pattern not her. Nice try tho! He didn’t have mark on him while she was black and blue!
I think abuse doesn’t come out of nowhere usually. Small physical fights snowball into bigger and bigger things.
U right.it starts small and gets bigger with every fight.
@@V.A247 she admitted to hitting him before.
@@musiclover-cn7tb no she didn’t! Not that night! Stop the bs! There are witnesses that witnessed him being violent twice before the big incident.
@@southside-hornbaby5325 how tf do you know??
@@foolyxscorp because it was in the actual police report and she said it herself, wtfkk is not connecting sir? He didn’t dispute shittt till years later and another girl got a restraining order from the courts. Do you know what Rihanna response was to documentary? Only him and I know what really happened lol Hail Mary for his patheticc career
I needed to hear this
8 year i'm on that situation and thats truly effect my whole life till now.
Please!!! MISOGYNY again. They blame Jada for Will Smith, Meghan for Harry, Amber for Johnny...now Rhianna for Chris.....ENOUGH.
Most of us stay because we love the guy !!! I've been there so I know . ☹😥♥️
But you also need to have some self respect. Why would a man respect any woman who allows him to abuse her? And forgives him over and over again? Not saying for one SECOND that makes it okay! Obviously! Just saying get tf out after the first time and never EVER allow a man to treat you that way. A monster abuser is never going to respect a woman that doesn’t respect herself. Because that’s how their minds work, as horrible and awful as that is.
Love shouldn’t come into it. You put on big girl pants and walk away. Because an abuser sure as hell doesn’t love you if he’s abusing you.
Then there are those of us who stay because we have no choice. Our parents lives are threatened our childrens lives are threatened and the home we are held prisoner in is full of guns and his fists. How is it that people don't see an otherwise perfectly healthy women is in and out of hospitals having surgery after surgery to repair injury
@@ashleighmackenzie8670 you clearly have no idea what it's like to be held prisoner or have a monster try to kill you and your children and then your own father. My ex was a master manipulator who was finally diagnosed as a manipulative criminally insane potentially lethal sociopath. He had no soul and his parents and brother were the same. His brother was a is a class 3 profile the worst kind to little girls and I had a daughter. It's a wonder and a miracle we survived at all. You can say what you want but believing what you are saying makes it hard for me to believe you have any soul either
Ashleigh Mack you are so right and I ended it to because I know I was worth more then the peace of shit's .
What I dont understand though, how can you love someone that beats the shit out of you? Thats what my mom did. Her ex husband beat the shit out of her daily. She had 2 black eyes when giving birth to my beother. And she still went back. Like i dont get it. How can you love someone that treats you like shit? And keep going back to him? Like the people that are pysically held hostage I get, but the people that leave, and go back over and over again i dont get it.
This is how you shut down Brown's sick fans:
There's no police report detailing his supposed injuries.
“The more I love we became the more dangerous we became for each other, equally as dangerous.”
In this statement she literally admits to being abusive to him too.
perhaps or it could be reactive. a lot of abuse victims blame themselves for the abuser's reaction to literally nothing or justified concerns like infidelity. the fights in these type of relationships can be volitile. she's trying to take some of the blame off Chris here for the inexcusable.
People who are comparing Jhonny depp- AH with Chris-Rihanna are delusional. You can actually see the swelling and blood on her face what a single punch from Chris did to her. While AH kep on describing how Jhonny repeatedly punched her, but when asked about no bruises, she said it wasn't that bad.
My ex got in contact with me about 4 years ago and said iv been listening to Chris brown thinking about you, and my reply was I don’t know why you are doing that 😂 because I stopped listening to him, after he beat riri, exs are best kept in your past 💯 my ex included 💯
Rihanna is a Queen ❤ such a strong women for me she is an ICON ❤
That's another problem dear friends and people will make excuses for what they did instead of holding them accountable if they're true friends they would hold him accountable make him face what he did and admit that it was wrong and help him to never do it again and yes she still loved him because you don't just stop loving someone you try to figure out what caused it how to make it so what won't happen again but the saying she must have done something or he must have done something that's not helping either one of them
Some of yall make me sick! Yall really gonna sit here and say leave this man alone and don't turn him into monster??? He is a monster and there is absolutely no excuse for abuse, fuck what yall talking about.
Same the Samething for Rihanna who beat on him don’t be a hypocrite
So bad 😢😢
I also wish women would take control and responsibility over their own actions. You don’t smack or punch a man who’s been physically abused all his childhood. You’re asking for an unfiltered reaction. You’re feeding the toxic instinctual response - fight or flight. When you can’t flee, you fucking fight. If I had been abused and neglected by my parent, and then my SO hits me one day mid argument - my childhood and self protectiveness and rage would explode that how the fuck could a fucking adult be hitting me right now? What the fuck did I do to deserve this? I think trauma comes in many forms, and I think some relationships are just toxic. So many broken families create broken people, without proper therapy and rehabilitation of senses, self control, awareness of one’s emotional state, you can’t have a normal relationship with someone who’s going to smack you or hit you randomly, playfully or not. It’s insult to injury. And that often materializes in punching back. Idk. Idk what to think.
She literally says she thought people misunderstood him. The only way they would have misunderstood him is if she wasn’t telling the whole truth by admitting she would also hit him too. Because the narrative she created was out of nowhere he started beating the shit out of her. We know now that wasn’t the case. She was hitting him, while he was driving. He tried to get her out of the car. She wouldn’t leave. So it’s not as though she was just being nice and happy and he punched her out of nowhere. She was haranguing him about his texts, got a bit psycho about his ex, hit him when he “wouldn’t fess up to the truth” as if he’s gunna tell you the truth after you hit him. After he hits her back he leaves her in the car. It just shows what lengths she took to stay in the car and stay in the fight. My ass would be unbuckling and running down the road. I wouldn’t be taking the keys out of the ignition and hiding them from my abusive bf so that were both stuck in the car together. But she did.
FFS leave that man alone, it’s been more than a decade now, Chris is but just a human, he is trying and learning everyday, let’s help him and not turn him into a monster.
Exactly
I agree with u 100%.if he really has changed y are ppl.still hammering on and old subject 🙄
That’s probably what they said abt his past mistakes and mistakes after that then the cycle goes on ppl only truly change when they are held accountable he was never cus a normal person would be in jail not having a big fanbase
Yah still making videos about this situation it’s 2022 and they both have moved on lol. 💯
bruh fr. mustve been a slow day at the office
Finna be a mother in a good relationship with the love of her life
They said all that just to flaunt Rihanna and ASAP Rocky, which just proves they don’t really care about domestic violence. This is about, look Chris, look lol
Really pathetic
Please stop asking women why they stay.
If you haven't been in it, you don't KNOW it.
🙄 it’s called having some self respect. Why would an abuser have any respect for someone who allows someone to physically abuse them? And then forgive them until they do it all over again. And then forgive them again. Sorry, but I Have been in that situation, and packed up and never looked back the first time he was even REMOTELY physical with me. Cause I refuse to be a doormat that stays and takes it, and forgives them over and over and over. That’s on you (not you personally) if you’re gonna allow someone to abuse you like that and then go back like so many do. That’s when many people start losing sympathy. Cause these animals rely on weak women to just stay and take the beatings over and over, until something REALLY terrible happens. Even worse when they put their children through it, who have no choice in the matter. How anyone could stay with a violent person when they have kids is utterly beyond me. I don’t care how scared you are, you put your kids first and get tf out. There’s always always help if you look for it.
@@ashleighmackenzie8670 So easy to assume from personal standings. What you state is exactly what you would do or done. The thing that has me at a stand still is the amount of people who are that small minded to think "i did it" so you can too is alarming!!! If you don't understand or comprehend another's mental state while in the storm, DONT COMMENT!!! Using your actions as clarification that people can do it is delusional.
Still talking about this in 2022 don't care he should have never punch her in the eye I bite isn't nun but the fact he punch her and bussed her lip 🙄ouuu
Qué raro esto.¿Será que AH aprendió de Riana?
In my opinion he need help , and she need help as well , but not by each other but by professionals .. they don’t belong together until they both fix those wrong learned as a kid models / they may not even like each other after that even / , the figure that trached them that is love when it’s not .. in my opinion that is why they seem really happy together , because they had similar background , and the same unresolved trauma but in my opinion it’s not her who need to “help him” he need to be able to help himself , he should have worked out about his anger issues in the first place .. I really think her thinking she can help him is just an illusion of hers , and this not healthy figure she learned it from , if he don’t want to change she can’t do nothing .. so in my opinion it isn’t worth it trying infinite times , if he can’t get that by himself .. and it’s possible I have had similar experiences , and when you start working on them , is like you have 2 people inside you of which one tells instinctively “I want that” (idk why but I want it , and it makes me feel good when in the long run it reflect the same trauma you had as a kid that is why is attracting you it’s familiar ) , and another voice in my head that tells me if I listen to my instinct it may not turn very well .. For the reason I described above .. so travaglie what she wants and what it feels normal without trying to change people , since that is disfunzionale as well , is the key , to re parent and at least try to erase that traumatic period and don’t make it repeat infinite times , and teach it incongruously to your kids as well..
NO MATTER wht my better 1/2 say or do, I would NEVER strike her, NEVER hurt her!! Ppl just NEED 2 "GROW the fck UP" & "STOP act'n like CHILDREN"!!! DON'T just say u a man or a woman, BE a damn MAN, BE a damn WOMAN, NOT a damn child!! I won't B 23 til nxt month & MY ASS B A MAN, NOT a child!!
I was a victim…But I’m happy I wasn’t one of those girls that was like oh he’s loves me cause trust me it starts with the moms if you disrespect your mom he gonna disrespect you and talking to other girls… I’m the one if you touch me imma beat u up so I left that simple…. When you leave things alone you think about that you wasted your time when you could have been treated way better cuz you can tell the difference between a man and a bum
Domestic abuse is complicated. While the perpetrators that do it are awful people, it's also difficult sometimes to help the victims. I just learned this weekend that a woman I work with was getting the brakes beaten off of her by her husband. I've known this woman for 2 years and she is a trainwreck filled with poor decision making and drama that unfortunately drags other people into it. Well-meaning people trying to help, but not knowing yet that this moron can't be helped. The best thing to do is stay away from them. She gets punched in the face pretty regularly, but defends the abuser and compromises other people that try to help. My stance with this individual is to stay away and caution others to stay away for their own well-being.
Very naive bit ignorance is bliss right. Educate yourself on trauma bonding. Understand that trauma is a brain injury. It's complex. It's deep. And you just single handedly outed yourself as a close minded individual. Thats okay though, can't expect you to grasp the concept as touve never had to.
@@rojepa92 No just that your problems aren't everyone else's and most people don't want to get sucked into their bullshit. You sound like this type of person who just can't figure out why their life is fucked but also have no agency to at least try to fix it.
CB is wrong 100% and Rihanna 100% right and Innocent
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Give me a freaking Break. CB atleast owned Up to his mistakes , and he Took full blame. But she was the instigator. It takes sooo Long the truth to come out. But Every one see only one side . So bad
Both of them were toxic.
finally someone says it
now say the same about Amber and Johnny
Both people can't put they're hands on each other wrong is wrong
I'm not judging because it's two side two every story. I'm a woman and have seen other woman escalate a situation and than when a man reacts they turn around a play the victim 😒
Look what you made me do!
Its no excuse but rihanna was actually the
more toxic person and started the fight
I do not know what she was thinking by going back to him
Leave this man aloneeeeee broooooooo !!!!
Once an abuser always an abuser
I think too much was made of this. Chris is a good kid. He didn't deserve the tear down. They were kids living very entitled and rich and Hollywood showed us all how they make you and brake you.
How can ppl see this as ok that he abuse her? Wow no matter what abused either way is sooooo wrong mentality, physically in every single way... this world is so f-cked up
there two sides to a story idc
She happy now and married not stuffing Chris got damn
rumors say that rihanna said that she had feelings with a$ap Rocky and chris got mad.
It's easy to go back you love them they have you convinced that it's your fault but that things can get better so you love them enough so you want it to get better so you go back and it will be better for a while but then it happens again and it's worse the next time and then you break up for a while but they will treat you like gold tell you they'll get help and actually maybe get some help but it doesn't help and then it happens again only this time it's so bad that you know it's time to leave if you're capable of it if it's not too late but it happens with men too because there are men out there that are being abused extremely bad and the women is saying no one will believe you you have to stay here you have no place to go and they use kids to make you stay they do anything and everything to make you stay I think men stay longer than women do but either they have to break away after a while if they still alive too
What about Madonna & Sean Penn?
Stop acting like Rihanna isn't abusive as well.
That's been like a decaded girl so I get over it
I'm so proud of rihanna for walking away from crisbrown😏
meanwhile it was her who started it lmao classic
Such a tragedy!! This ruined Chris Browns career. He was literally going to be the next Michael Jackson, an absolute generational talent. What Brown did was wrong completely however it seems to me that assault is always gender biased. Like both didn’t fuqq each other up in the Lamborghini. the whole relationship was Toxic 🥴🤧
It didn't ruin his career. He's one of the most recognized singers in the world.
I know it's difficult but try not to generalize. It diminishes you and the issue as a whole.
@@Poetess2323 noted. Honesty it doesn’t doesn’t diminish me… but quick question what part of my opinion was a generalisation?
I agree. Cuz wouldn’t of just slapped her for looking at him. They were arguing. She was hitting him just as much as he was. She only had the marks to prove it tryna act like a victim, you ain’t a victim fivehead. Lol I think had they had a normal discussion none of this would’ve happened
This relationship was toxic.Both were violent .
4:18 Starting a fight and 'provoking an attack' are two very different things. How is it 'victim blaming' when she started the fight? How was she any more of a victim than he was? 🤨
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Nah Rihanna deserved a lot more and it was never her fault
After Kim's exposure from rayjay. .makes me think this was a stunt too. Who knows what is true in Hollywood
Do not judge.
yeah, like that ass whooping just FELL from the sky hmm.
On Opra I liked her coment " Fu__ love" When a man hits you it only gets worse each time until the worst can happen .
She had a trauma bond.
There is a reason why this happened
She love's him but he didn't. He was in a competition with her.
Me myself being a victim of dv can't take her serious.1 she went directly back to him and would have stayed if he wasn't still Messing with karreuche.
But shit really no one cares what she did he was scratched the fuck up like a Jaguar attacked him. But men should never hit a girl with a closed fist or open
..so sory riha i love ya lady he is bleeeeee.....
What he did was totally out of character, however you as a woman can’t go around hitting or putting you fingers all up in men face etc. I can related to some of this as my son girlfriend when they have a disagreement she would throw stuff at him and he kept warning her don’t put your hands on me and she kept doing it so we as the family had to step in to avoid he retaliating . She had a part to play with the situation too.
DO CHRIS LIKE PRINCESS DID RAY J. SHE HAVE A NEW MAN AND VERY HAPPY. RAY J SAY HE IS GOING TO COMMIT SUICIDE CAUSE PRINCESS IS GONE. RI😢RI PLEASE LEAVE BOTH OF THEM AND START A NEW LIFE. HE JUST HAD DIAMOND ON THE TOUR WITH HIM.
Cris brown ain't no best friend material🤣🤣🤣
Are you all seriously acting like this woman is not abusive!? Gtfoh
Women love deep.
Kanye can be a right drama Queen at times
The verbal to
But y bring this up now while she's hāpu (pregnant) and in love? Seems a bit fcuked up don't ya think???
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How it happend is also a lie. Chris caught riri on a lie. She was sleeping with jay-z…
She attacked and scratched first scratched his face all up and then him knowing he has a show to go to pissed him off and she didn't stop so he went crazy. But they were young but should never put hands on anyone.
They did not mention that in this documentary. Is that what happened? She hit him first
Whee he show no scratches
She also grabbed his balls.
She hit first 🤷♂️
Asap no she can do better
An he became his step father no excuse