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  • @nuhameneyuale9366
    @nuhameneyuale9366 6 днів тому +19

    "I don't talk about him a lot because this isn't about him." The way my face lit up, you are truly iconic and inspiring

  • @kasturii111
    @kasturii111 20 днів тому +378

    It's impossible to describe how much this woman inspires me

  • @Not-really-Naisha
    @Not-really-Naisha 19 днів тому +167

    Kinda unrelated but you have AMAZING time management skills. I mean, a weekly quality content youtube channel, this cozy vlog channel, your podcast, newsletter, journal AND a book!? I'm literally so proud of you ✨♥ you know.. maybe you should make a video on this too if you haven't already? 😉

  • @Aneelaf1
    @Aneelaf1 20 днів тому +125

    I live your answer ❤
    "Its not about him, it's about me... he is not the only thing that fulfills me in my life...
    I have 2 kids and while I love being with them when I am. They aren't the only factors in my life that fulfill.
    I have so many passions, new experiences etc that I give to myself, simply for myself and that is very important.
    Thank you Tam for being you.
    I was doing much needed self pampering whilst watching this video.

  • @TheLifeExperiencee
    @TheLifeExperiencee 17 днів тому +24

    I love how tam doesn't make her relationship, her everything in a sense where it's like her brand but is still able to provide value from it as well as many other different things.

  • @jeshthaac
    @jeshthaac 20 днів тому +109

    14:50 yes yes yess! Please keep this channel going. It's just so comfy and cozy and at the same time so motivating. Love all of this! 🌸

  • @sparks1921
    @sparks1921 18 днів тому +40

    "Choose somebody who wants to show up as your boyfriend, and not just have a girlfriend"
    You worded this so well Tam. I wish past me could've heard this.
    Thank you so much, you inspire me and I love your content 💗💗

  • @yumikoyuzuru
    @yumikoyuzuru 20 днів тому +58

    the room with sunlight pouring in is so pretty
    i always thought i loved her main channel more, but i love the intimacy of the vlogs. keep it up tam!

  • @itsselinbilgin
    @itsselinbilgin 20 днів тому +19

    Girl thank you for normalizing everything you said about friendships. That felt like medicine for me 🕊️

  • @seindawpalae
    @seindawpalae 19 днів тому +28

    As a 13 years old girl, you inspire me so so much. You are like a big sis I never had and I'm very happy listening to your podcasts and videos. People would always say I'm too mature for my age and all. But that means something. I've been through so much. I've been through some things a kid shouldn't experience. With family problems, country wars and school, I'm a still a girl who wants to achieve my goals and make my dreams come true. I'm someone who is about to go to another country for better education and future because my country has no future for me. You made me realise to embrace life even during the hardest times and keep going. ☺️❤️

  • @ShreyaDubey-f2h
    @ShreyaDubey-f2h 20 днів тому +44

    Im so proud she's in nyc and managing it all

    • @Mariamthewizard
      @Mariamthewizard 20 днів тому +1

      She's in London

    • @ShreyaDubey-f2h
      @ShreyaDubey-f2h 20 днів тому +4

      @Mariamthewizard yes she's now but she must have planned the videos before in order to leave and still provide us with the content

    • @Mariamthewizard
      @Mariamthewizard 20 днів тому +1

      @@ShreyaDubey-f2h oh ok i didn't knew dat, thankyou for informing ❤️‍🩹

  • @alonasingh05
    @alonasingh05 13 днів тому +3

    23:00 these words just opened a door to such a healthy mindset for today's generation
    thank you!!

  • @ShrutiAgarwal574
    @ShrutiAgarwal574 20 днів тому +26

    I don't have a lot of friends, majority of my friendships are long distance and thus not much in touch with them, but when I see your vlogs or videos I really feel like I have you as a friend that not only feels relatable but also inspires me to continue on my journey and that I will be able to make it happen.💌💫

  • @np.ninapredojevic
    @np.ninapredojevic 14 днів тому +2

    Thank you for being YOU. That's why we are here, for you, for your mindset, thoughts, goals, growth and endless inspiration. Keep on going!

  • @ArunimaMandal15
    @ArunimaMandal15 17 днів тому +2

    21:14 finally someone said it, I cannot prioritize friendships as much as social media portrays them and I would rather spend my time with myself.

  • @JagdeepSinhh-of3vi
    @JagdeepSinhh-of3vi 20 днів тому +40

    WAKE UP!! OUR QUEEN TAM POSTED!!! ✨💅
    (I bet the next vlog is going to be NYC vlog 🤍🤌)

  • @Soniyasaiyed
    @Soniyasaiyed 20 днів тому +23

    Hey tam I have some video recommendations
    Can we plz hv a video on Grief , a step by step guide to plan for the next year and financial guide for teenagers also how to stop living on survival mode
    Also may we hv vlogs of ur new year planning

  • @ritwikaaaa
    @ritwikaaaa 18 днів тому +3

    Tam, you're literally one of the biggest reasons I am a successful and self-loving as I am now, thank you so so so much!! I love you! 🩷

  • @dariaadamczyk3175
    @dariaadamczyk3175 20 днів тому +5

    the male friendship thing is so real

  • @twimmy1581
    @twimmy1581 20 днів тому +5

    your literally such an inspiration you've changed my life fundamentally and I'm so happy to being going on my self-improvement journey largely due to your motivation/inspiration!

  • @la_petite_carotte
    @la_petite_carotte 18 днів тому +2

    I love how you prioritize your authenticity. This is so healthy and inspiring. Thanks!❤

  • @byemibeautiq
    @byemibeautiq 4 дні тому

    Tam!!! Thank you soo much just being you. You cannot imagine how much you inspire me ma'am. Yours videos are always a continous reminder that one can level up wherever stages they may be.❤

  • @mugdhagavankar8365
    @mugdhagavankar8365 17 днів тому +1

    Saw 11.11 while you said 2024 learnings. It instantly made me so calmer. Its amazing to hear you speak these positivity into a camera but that being received also.

  • @sumanxmandal
    @sumanxmandal 20 днів тому +19

    Everytime i get a notification from you i just click it n ik it's gonna just cheer me up. Love you Tam!!!!!

  • @paulimerino8992
    @paulimerino8992 17 днів тому +1

    "anything u want u can have" love u, thank you so much

  • @charlottemlld
    @charlottemlld 15 днів тому +1

    Your main channel has so much value but your vlog channel is the real gem!! I love it so so much 🤎

  • @Coffee_Gal
    @Coffee_Gal 20 днів тому +5

    Honestly Tam, I think this was one of my favorite vlogs ❤ If there's 1 thing in 2024, I've been truly inspired by it's YOU! 🌹Love your content especially because it's a time in my life where I really feel a new chapter is coming and everything you say is especially relatable ✨️

  • @amykaur8537
    @amykaur8537 12 днів тому

    Tam I just wanted to say, this year for me personally was very hard but watching you completely chamged my life. It changed how I view life and myself and I've grown to love every chapter of my life :) I also really resonated with the lesson you talked about and how anything you think of will probably be a reality. I just wanna say thank you so much for having such a huge impact on my life.

  • @ElroeTilahun
    @ElroeTilahun 20 днів тому +4

    I've never commented before but i have to tell u that u inspire me sooo much and i love all ur content. My fav part was definitely when u said balance isn't 50-50, that was stg new and probably stg i would think abt, thank u for everything tam💓

  • @catherineosullivan6208
    @catherineosullivan6208 19 днів тому +1

    Have a new challenge coming up , a promotion at work with a lot of change and responsibility. I (used ☺️) to get so nervous of how other people will perceive me that I hold myself back. I am currently using your message and mindset that you share to level up through this. Including your amazingly thorough approach to not taking things personally. And something you said before which stuck with me - something like - there’s no sense in being scared about something you’ve never done before. You have no information to confirm that you can’t do it because it hasn’t happened yet. So the fear is invalid and just do it… so thank you

  • @nadiahussain3269
    @nadiahussain3269 20 днів тому +3

    Tam, I adore you so much on your vlog channel. I'm one year younger than you but I look up to you so much. you are such a inspiration. Please keep doing what you're doing

  • @Tiarra16
    @Tiarra16 19 днів тому

    I love when you speak about productivity, i had a hectic uni year where everything was go go go, so i really enjoy how you prioritise time for yourself and rest! I was lowkey disappointed in myself for not getting a job this holidays and feeling bad that i took a break - so very grateful for videos like that - your sunday reset is my fav videos! :)

  • @evee85
    @evee85 20 днів тому +3

    Hii girllyy, because of the last question I‘d actually love a video about all the lessons you learned this year and how you prepare for the next. I remember you made a similar video last year but I‘d love another one. Especially because I‘m in the process of wrapping up 2024 and preparing to make 2025 my best year yet!
    I wish you and everyone here merry christmas 💋

  • @itsshayene
    @itsshayene 19 днів тому

    I love how you said that this channel and this journey is about YOU! Reflecting on my own growth and self love journey over the years, I’ve come across people who have said to me that my whole identity is just my boyfriend. Honestly, I genuinely feel for them. Our partners are a part of our support systems and a part of our life, not our whole life! Everyone deserves to feel like what it’s like to have a healthy support system and that’s what I wish for people who put others down for putting themselves first. Loved this chat so much ❤

  • @priyanshi6524
    @priyanshi6524 20 днів тому +1

    23:00 , that line is just so slayy girl

  • @unwana-o1x
    @unwana-o1x 9 днів тому

    tam your litterally such a vibe🥀💮

  • @daniellerola6637
    @daniellerola6637 20 днів тому

    Loved this video! You handled the boyfriend questions so well. Honestly I love that he's not constantly on camera because I watch your content for you. I also really liked your comments about friends and long distance. I am totally the same way and people always seem to get so upset about it.

  • @victoriac8845
    @victoriac8845 20 днів тому +7

    What a great video to watch in the morning!❤️🍵🥰

  • @harshitaa_s
    @harshitaa_s 20 днів тому +4

    I love this woman so much!🤍

  • @adelaide.atkins
    @adelaide.atkins 18 днів тому

    I love you tam! You are so inspiring and motivating, you are doing so much good in the world + helping so many ppl. You should be proud!

  • @renitha269
    @renitha269 20 днів тому +5

    Best way to end my week!!!

  • @japleenkaurbhinder2007
    @japleenkaurbhinder2007 20 днів тому +2

    You giving advice to your 17 year self made me think what would advice would my 24 year self give me (ps. I’m 17 right now, so yeah so excited to hear what my older self has to say about me right now)
    also you look soooooo cute like literally, inshahalla 🧿

  • @KhushiGirhe
    @KhushiGirhe 18 днів тому +1

    Hey Sis !!! I found your channel just a few months ago and you're really such an inspiring woman🫂. Every time I think that something that I'm about to do is not gonna work, I remember you: your words, your attitude towards life and the positivity you give off. Every time you post, a new kind of hope arises in all of us. Thank you so much for this.❤
    I hope you continue to grow in life and be strong as ever.
    Wishing you and community a merry Christmas and a happy new year 🎊❤

  • @avvie.meadows_10
    @avvie.meadows_10 19 днів тому

    Im 17 and your 17 year old advice made me so genuinely happy. Thank you and love you!

  • @NikitaJ78
    @NikitaJ78 13 днів тому

    My essential for a self care day!! Love you so much Tam you inspire me to become the best version of myself and most importantly love myself ❤❤❤

  • @RiyaJebin
    @RiyaJebin 20 днів тому

    tam, wht u said about struggling to maintain long dis frndships..soo relatable. i used to think i'm the only one and feel so guilty about it too. i genuinely tries to make it work, but it nvr does. it always used to make me feel like a bad person.

  • @sumanxmandal
    @sumanxmandal 20 днів тому

    You just give me so much hope, just listening to tam makes me feel that anything is possible

  • @IshaVineeth111
    @IshaVineeth111 18 днів тому +2

    Tam i love u so so much , your content , your mindset, everything 🥰💕 Keep making such lovely videos , and ofc your book and journal so excited to buy them both .... Love you TAM !!!❤❤❤

  • @いちご-i5h8e
    @いちご-i5h8e 16 днів тому

    Girl the way you respond to haters has inspired me to respond the same way thxxxx so much queen❤

  • @aradhine
    @aradhine 20 днів тому +3

    absolutely love this chatty videos! your book is so informative and helpful btw! ❤

  • @hahanotsofunnyy
    @hahanotsofunnyy 18 днів тому

    Tam, i would love it if you made a video on how we can believe in ourselves more-, from a career pov. stuff like- the abundance mindset, believing that we're good enough to achieve our goals, being happy for others even though we havent achieved our goals yet, TRULY believing that anything we put our minds to-we can achieve, that nothing is ever unrealistic. i just have been struggling a lot career wise, i dont wanna drop this course even though its super challenging, but i just have a really hard time believing that its something i can do because ive already failed my exams twice now and its so difficult for me to not be mad at God or the universe (even though i know its probably for the greater good).

  • @bts_kookv_txt
    @bts_kookv_txt 17 днів тому

    I love your vibe and I love your energy 😻 also it's so cool too keep your relationship private and off the camera >>

  • @sydneypadgett4606
    @sydneypadgett4606 20 днів тому

    Honestly I think one of my healthiest habits I made this year was watching your videos and listening to your podcast and consistently learning new things from you ❤every time I turn on one of your videos, I know I am closer to my best self! I love you so much Tam and Thank you!!!! 💕💕💕💋

  • @Malaya-x8g
    @Malaya-x8g 20 днів тому

    I love how you said that it was your channel and your mission I feel like that’s such a completely in control of your mindset comment! I love your work so much manifesting for the best year of my life next year!

  • @lightnesshagai403
    @lightnesshagai403 19 днів тому +2

    Exactly this ain't about boyf but everything about the inspiration you pour out here and I really appreciate the work u do😃keep going💃

  • @Raginikhadse
    @Raginikhadse 20 днів тому +1

    Tam your vibe is so positive😍

  • @Sophia.MoonXo
    @Sophia.MoonXo 18 днів тому +4

    Amazing video Tam, as usual! I honestly think your responses to your relationship questions are perfect. It’s very healthy for your relationship to be more private, and the way you go about doing so is very considerate to him. You two deserve to have privacy and your own parts of life that’s not online, especially as someone who’s always documenting/sharing their life! And like you said; the focus was never about a man, this is about Tam🩶🤍

  • @SnehaSingh17_03
    @SnehaSingh17_03 20 днів тому +4

    Now it feels like Sunday❤

  • @CinnamonSlaysx
    @CinnamonSlaysx 18 днів тому +1

    I got your book for my 17th b-day and I'm going to start taking myself out on solo dates. Thank you for all your inspiring content, Tam! 💗💗

  • @IshaVineeth111
    @IshaVineeth111 15 днів тому

    This year I am gonna try to be my dream self each day 🥰. Me personally I always wanted to do become my dream self but didnt know how to or like where to start etc.. but TAM you , you made it seem so simple giving me all those practical steps and those motivations , I'm so greatful to you Tam 💜, By the way one more help please ?? Can you make a video about "how to set bounderies with parents specialy when you are in a brown house hold , How to ask them to give us privacy and treat us just like another induvidual respecting our opinions ? " I like your contents so much😘 keep creating such videos and help many people as possible🙃. Love you Tam 💕

  • @sammmmmss
    @sammmmmss 20 днів тому +3

    GIRLL YAYY , i just got your book!! SO EXCITED TO READ IT ILYYY

  • @whoisveda
    @whoisveda 12 днів тому

    I loved this Lil chat smmm!!!!🎀
    Would love to see more of it💓

  • @katrina4398
    @katrina4398 11 днів тому

    Tam I love you so much ❤😍 bumping into ur videos this year is one of the best things that have happened to me.........looovveee ur energy. Blessed new year 💫

  • @jayakarani3550
    @jayakarani3550 20 днів тому +3

    Lesss goooo!!!!!! I've been waiting whole day!!!!!!

  • @OptimaskusBuddies-k9k
    @OptimaskusBuddies-k9k 17 днів тому

    I love this girl tam you are so amazing you really helped me a lot i am 16 and turning 17 on 30th this month i had grown so much watching you thank you so much for being the big sis i knew i needed 💖✨💖

  • @nomieonly
    @nomieonly 20 днів тому +2

    thank you so much Tam for your vlogs . you really inspire me to be the best version of myself . I just love your content . I look up to you , ggirll.🤭

  • @anna_bahnannah
    @anna_bahnannah 20 днів тому

    THIS 👏👏👏 My husband is amazing and my biggest supporter but if I spent all my time just talking about my relationship I would not be successful the way I am today. Love your mindset Tam, you’re truly that girl. ❤

  • @DaliaHassan-kb4hi
    @DaliaHassan-kb4hi 19 днів тому +1

    I LOVE THESE VIDEOS!! I want more

  • @IrmaRidjali
    @IrmaRidjali 20 днів тому +4

    Tam posted tam you inspire me soooo much love you tam ❤❤❤

  • @BeneleMazibuko
    @BeneleMazibuko 20 днів тому +3

    I rlly love her content thank you for the advice

  • @ameliakizer1454
    @ameliakizer1454 10 днів тому

    I love getting ready while listening to these videos ❤❤

  • @margaretwaganda987
    @margaretwaganda987 20 днів тому +4

    I have been waiting for you girl 🙂♥️

  • @Yhudiejames
    @Yhudiejames 18 днів тому +1

    Thank you for being a great inspiration to me this year ❤

  • @definingmyessence
    @definingmyessence 18 днів тому

    I’m a small content creator and hearing about all you have done is so inspiring. I’ve been wanting to write a mental health journal for a while but because of grief and family stuff. I took a big break from posting and I’m making an official comeback for the New Year. I also had to take a break from watching your content because I can see myself in you and it was hard when I wasn’t creating. But I’m glad I’m back to creating and watching you again 💗

  • @saramariemutch5818
    @saramariemutch5818 20 днів тому +2

    I just wanted to say I have pre-ordered your journal I feel like I manifested it because I have been looking for a new journal before I knew you was coming out with one 😊 it was meant to be!!! Such an inspiration to all amazing woman out there 🤍🤍 Love you Tam❤️❤️

  • @kasturii111
    @kasturii111 20 днів тому +2

    AAH MOTHER POSTED DAY HAS BEEN MADE

  • @Bbhumi.x
    @Bbhumi.x 20 днів тому

    Just always inspiring and sparks my life with your voice

  • @tanishka.purohit
    @tanishka.purohit 20 днів тому +1

    I absolutely LOVED this one!!!!! 😍❤

  • @yuean1999
    @yuean1999 20 днів тому

    always love watching your videos :) its so calming and always brings me back on track

  • @arezo7166
    @arezo7166 20 днів тому

    We are sooo happy to have you Tam

  • @kulokolakevin
    @kulokolakevin 18 днів тому +2

    Thank you Tam

  • @uellebarangan9576
    @uellebarangan9576 20 днів тому +2

    AAH IM SO EARLY COZ IVE BEEN BINGE WATCHING YOU ALL DAY!

  • @tanyashere8949
    @tanyashere8949 20 днів тому

    Always the perfect Sunday with a Tam vlog ❤

  • @garima_vermaa
    @garima_vermaa 20 днів тому +2

    Waiting for a new year planning/vision board video❤ Love from Vancouver ❤️✨

  • @iresineherbstiii
    @iresineherbstiii 20 днів тому

    Thanks for all the advice you’ve given us this year ! Have a great Sunday 😊

  • @hibabellafkh5326
    @hibabellafkh5326 20 днів тому

    Taaammm i loove uuu girl u r literally the big sis we neeed

  • @JayaKumari-t9g
    @JayaKumari-t9g 20 днів тому

    I think there's a connection
    whenever I feel alone or I need someone to be my side you're always there
    A notification pops up on my screen regarding your youtube channel or snap or IG
    I'm not doing well these days but I know I can achieve everything I want 💓 lots of love tam 💋
    Go ahead the sky is waiting for you dear ❤

  • @aarushisaraswat9726
    @aarushisaraswat9726 20 днів тому

    So excited for your journal. You are the best person you are like a big sister to me I look up to you every day. Love you truly ❤😘

  • @bookworm102
    @bookworm102 19 днів тому +1

    I would be thinking "Wow they think I am so amazing"(the haters) 🥰🤣🤣🤣🤣 I always love your content.🥰

  • @Kanak-me4fs
    @Kanak-me4fs 20 днів тому

    Tam we needed a vlog today.

  • @AnneJolievDijken
    @AnneJolievDijken 20 днів тому +1

    Hello queen, thank you for always making us happy with the videos! Love you and happy holidays! 🎉❤

  • @xyzzzz188
    @xyzzzz188 20 днів тому +2

    Sending so much luv to yaa tam lysm ❤❤❤

  • @riddhisharma6652
    @riddhisharma6652 19 днів тому

    I love being a part of your community tam💗

  • @adriennb
    @adriennb 20 днів тому

    so i know you have been mentioning hair/body products in vlogs, but if you could do a full video about advice on selfcare products/rituals i would love that xx

  • @SharkWitchMeruna
    @SharkWitchMeruna 20 днів тому +1

    As someone who just had a guy friend breakup bc he started liking me, I needed this advice. Will be keeping them at a distance from now on. 😅

  • @hannahk.5500
    @hannahk.5500 20 днів тому

    You might want to look into how the author Cory Doctorow does his almost-daily newsletter-it’s totally different topics than what you talk about, but he has some posts on process that I think you could adopt to level-up even more! (Also, excited for the journal! Thinking about listening to your book again before the end of 2024 for inspiration)

  • @leonitalugaric8811
    @leonitalugaric8811 20 днів тому

    I always love watching your videos. Your videos have been helping me and i really love ur advices

  • @prekshareddy2323
    @prekshareddy2323 20 днів тому

    I DEF NEEDED THIS

  • @Soumyachandel27
    @Soumyachandel27 20 днів тому

    I WAIT FOR SUNDAY ALL WEEK AND I WAIT FOR YOU TO POST ALL SUNDAY AAAAAA

  • @iamdariawolf
    @iamdariawolf 20 днів тому

    Tam, I just love you. Please, stay yourself. 🥰