i honestly would focus on this instead of "letting go"

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  • @upgradetolife
    @upgradetolife  10 місяців тому +4

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  • @tabbietalks8141
    @tabbietalks8141 10 місяців тому +15

    This was so unbelievably helpful. Listening to this and seeing the visual of the “rope” helped me immediately shift into the state that “it’s all done!” How frickin exciting!!

  • @dagobaho
    @dagobaho 10 місяців тому +7

    Hi niclas. Yes i agree with what you said. When i was new to manifesting, i had been forcing to let go. But over time, and much prayer and so much faith and persistence, i have learned that not feeding the hunger is only building up the want. We need to fulfill it.

  • @RominaLamberti
    @RominaLamberti 10 місяців тому +29

    In order to let go you have to love yourself more. The attachment to the external reality is because you are using it as a substitute for love. You have to work more with your emotions. Logic doesn't work in these cases. You have to go to the pain of not having this thing and give that pain love.

    • @strawberryloli
      @strawberryloli 10 місяців тому +2

      Beautifully put!

    • @cannedcondensedmilk
      @cannedcondensedmilk 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@louiseboyce532 to each their own, and imo you're right but he also has a point with the love thing. when your self-concept is high and we give yourself unconditional love, you don't feel that something outside of you is what will complete you. it's not that you can't have it, after all we are limitless and everything is available to us. but in order for us to feel into that belief, we must be whole and complete within ourselves outside of just the desire.

    • @RominaLamberti
      @RominaLamberti 10 місяців тому

      @@louiseboyce532 I think you do need to feel it though. When i reached high states through inner work and meditation, the feelings of bliss and love were there and that's when I felt most able to let go attachment to this reality and manifest at will. The ego is like a child. If you were to tell the child who is hurting, oh you're wrong, you are already at the end state, just identify with it and walk away, that would do nothing for the child. But if you were to give that child empathy, reassurance and nurturing along with the knowledge, then the child will flourish. Thus there are two aspects that need to be in balance, the masculine logical way of thinking and the feminine emotional way of feeling. And many of these videos talk about mental techniques, leaving out the emotional techniques.

  • @DarkToast121
    @DarkToast121 10 місяців тому +71

    Letting go is wanting without needing.

    • @timbo1844
      @timbo1844 10 місяців тому +9

      @@dilan4111 When you want it, you just want it, you feel an attraction, you just like something. If you need something, you depend on it, you have to have it to be happy and not feel bad.

    • @amarielove27
      @amarielove27 10 місяців тому +2

      @@dilan4111 detachment

    • @jackroberts416
      @jackroberts416 10 місяців тому +2

      ​​@@dilan4111
      I would say letting go means being happy and satisfied whether you get it or not. It doesn't mean the desire isn't still there and that you wouldn't prefer it. And attachment is when you feel you need it to be happy and satisfied which of course makes you suffer because you are unhappy that you don't have it.
      You can still visualize and want something without feeling that you HAVE to have it. If you feel you have to have something they say it causes resistance and you more likely won't end up getting it. That is why they say when visualizing to feel as if you already have it.

    • @user-xu4xj2cd2j
      @user-xu4xj2cd2j 10 місяців тому +4

      ​@@jackroberts416this is why it's contradictory, some say you have to let go so no ressientence then ones say you have to persist, just seems like an excuse to blame people for the stuff not working

    • @user-xu4xj2cd2j
      @user-xu4xj2cd2j 10 місяців тому +2

      @@louiseboyce532 it's all bs lol you either get lucky or you don't this shit don't work

  • @Fatima.ameen3
    @Fatima.ameen3 10 місяців тому +7

    Nicolas please write a book!
    I’ve never had such an epiphany and I would love to grab your book and remind myself the inevitable reality of such ideas.

    • @keepgoing5475
      @keepgoing5475 10 місяців тому +1

      Just save the video and watch it over and over again

  • @annechen2229
    @annechen2229 10 місяців тому +6

    So grateful for this. This was made for me!

    • @Adrienne333
      @Adrienne333 9 місяців тому +1

      You can’t lie to yourself when you need something and pretend you don’t

  • @RuffRyda777
    @RuffRyda777 10 місяців тому +4

    Can’t thank you enough for your informative videos ✨

  • @mayoufhadil8653
    @mayoufhadil8653 9 місяців тому +2

    You’re the best❤ I just discovered you and you helped me so much 😊

  • @teddybeartinablair3566
    @teddybeartinablair3566 7 місяців тому +2

    Indoor Olympics 🎉😂😂

  • @Legooofan
    @Legooofan 9 місяців тому

    Spot 👏🏻 on 👏🏻 There seems to be a misunderstanding with the letting go thing in the community, and boy did I misunderstood it for almost a decade!

  • @Martyn2160
    @Martyn2160 10 місяців тому +4

    Hi Nicolas! I’m new to your channel and would like to thank you for your insights into the finer details of manifesting. I completely resonated with you and have been working on my desires which I have accepted as being fulfilled. I have experienced a shift that was one of the most amazing experiences of my life. I recently experienced loss and know that was necessary to make space for the new self. I have witnessed many encouraging synchronicities with angel numbers appearing one after the other in quick succession. I am grateful for the encouragement from the universe for the confirmation that the universe is working on manifesting my desires. But I have been nervous of tripping myself up on the last leg. I feel your interpretation is correct and it came to me at the perfect time. So thank you for this information it’s really helpful to me as I inhabit my new manifested self. Thank you!😊❤

  • @italiangomato
    @italiangomato 10 місяців тому

    I love this video! Thank you.

  • @dhrupadhsooraj9377
    @dhrupadhsooraj9377 10 місяців тому

    Thank u so much the present gojo is here

  • @danielbhagwandas5470
    @danielbhagwandas5470 10 місяців тому +24

    Detachment is being aware that’s it is there but it doesn’t affect you

  • @rosalynjoseph1253
    @rosalynjoseph1253 10 місяців тому

    Very helpful video and it makes perfect sense

  • @user-lynn
    @user-lynn 10 місяців тому

    I love this video so much thank you

  • @Lll-nz6yl
    @Lll-nz6yl 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Niclas

  • @DMillerFlorida
    @DMillerFlorida 10 місяців тому +3

    Imagine you're going for an interview. You're nervous and anxious. You really want the job.
    You got the job..and you're in training in the beginning for the process of how the company runs.
    Fast forward.. you love your job and you're comfortable.. you're having fun every day you come in.. people share stories and treats and lunch to get through the day and work is easy to do because you know it so well! You can talk to your coworkers while doing your job.
    That feeling... That's the feelings you're going through. Does that make sense?

    • @DMillerFlorida
      @DMillerFlorida 10 місяців тому +2

      Small example of something..
      I was once thinking for a while I wanted my mailbox in front of my house instead of across the street..
      Thought about it for a few weeks..
      One day, I told my husband and he said, No. It's fine. It was either that night or the next night, a lady crashed into it and I got my new mailbox in front of my house. The lady was ok. I think she was drunk and nobody else was hurt.
      Another example... I was thinking for a few months how I do badly wanted to go to the desert. I was looking at pictures and admiring the thoughts. My mother and sister live out west and I have not talked to them in quite a few years.
      Well.. I told my husband, I want to go out west.
      I made it a direct command like my mailbox command and sure enough.. my long forgotten sister called me the next day because our mom had surgery and needed after care.
      I was on a plane and headed out west.
      The funny thing is...
      It still wasn't the desert and my mom was on a mission to sell her house. She wanted to be in the trees and not open fields in a neighborhood.
      I never said anything about the desert.
      I went back home to the East Coast and shortly after, my mother sold her house and the agent couldn't find her a home in the trees. He found her one in the desert!!!!!!
      She took it and I went to visit her three times so far. It was everything I hoped it would be!

  • @drvikasthakkarofficial
    @drvikasthakkarofficial 6 місяців тому

    You're the best ❤

  • @emeraldgoddess5694
    @emeraldgoddess5694 10 місяців тому +6

    Lol 😂😂 indoor olympics you are funny as heck!!!😂😂

    • @lifeasjess4804
      @lifeasjess4804 10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂I thought I misheard him

  • @nickbachur8475
    @nickbachur8475 10 місяців тому +1

    Interesting concept well presented.

  • @Ballslife23
    @Ballslife23 10 місяців тому +9

    So simple yet so difficult. Appreciate your dedication posting everyday.

    • @nontologicalbeing
      @nontologicalbeing 10 місяців тому +1

      It's only as difficult as you think it is 🙂

  • @rc-lt4yj
    @rc-lt4yj 10 місяців тому +2

    Lmao the Olympics reference

  • @ilondboi
    @ilondboi 4 місяці тому

    There is no such thing as letting go. Humans always need something to run on either good bad or indifferent. Let go of your old self and move forward wich is the end state.

  • @marianataliaperalta327
    @marianataliaperalta327 10 місяців тому +1

  • @andruskapp8666
    @andruskapp8666 10 місяців тому +1

    super 🤠

  • @user-bl5om2hs1f
    @user-bl5om2hs1f 10 місяців тому +4

    Oh okay this is best explained video on letting go great work

  • @justintime1078
    @justintime1078 10 місяців тому +2

    I let go of old limmited low vibe desires and ideas and beliefs

  • @lu-themadpillow2985
    @lu-themadpillow2985 10 місяців тому

    If a person feels happy and complete, will it be harder for her to passionately fall in love? Will it be less exciting? :(

  • @Aii1
    @Aii1 10 місяців тому

    this helped me alot thank you so much, i always struggled to grasp the concept of changing states but you explained it perfectly.

  • @sd-sb9uz
    @sd-sb9uz 9 місяців тому

    How do I detach by convincing my wish is already fulfilled (my ex back with me) when we are facing the fact that she is moving out of our appartment in the next month? Like how do I go to the end state while she is moving out at the same time?

    • @MC-cg2rr
      @MC-cg2rr 5 місяців тому

      Let her go (though you probably have...) and then focus on yourself and only yourself.

  • @ravempowers
    @ravempowers 10 місяців тому +16

    Guys.... letting go doesn't mean shunning your desires and saying you don't want it anymore. It's all about finding other priorities in life and enjoying the process. And when you think of your desire, just tell yourself "WHAT I WANT IS MINE!!!" And the things that you have to truly let go of is self-doubt and old limiting stories from the past. Wishing you all the success in manifesting your dream life ASAP!
    Btw, great video brother, glad to see you're finally getting the views that you deserve in your channel. 😄

  • @MR-fl6ul
    @MR-fl6ul 10 місяців тому +3

    i do live from the end, sometimes i really do decide to distract myself from it and not think about it though so i don’t spiral, noticing it’s not there in the 3d.

  • @dominikregec6769
    @dominikregec6769 10 місяців тому

    Great video, AGAIN :D With this video I just made sure I am on right path. With our conscious mind and with our senses we can perceive just a small fraction what is really happening in a background. Faith and persistence are needed to start perceiving it in our current life. As within so without :)

  • @9gje9
    @9gje9 10 місяців тому +3

    Niclas, much gratitude for this inspiring and informative message. Vielen dank :o)

  • @TheAwakeningDreamer
    @TheAwakeningDreamer 10 місяців тому +11

    I haven't been commenting on your videos a lot lately, but I just want you to know they're absolutely golden. Phenomenal. They're helping me tremendously. The comparison with the physical act is on point: You can't desire something you already have! If you have already received, if you are already in possession, you feel RELIEF. It is done! You sigh and you relax, you bathe into this feeling. I'm getting more and more there, and that's to great extent thanks to your videos. I'm starting to understand there's no straining in this. There's only to relax and bathe into the feeling of the wish fulfilled.
    I also like this idea of "the desire granted" or "guaranteed". It's awesome! I feel so damn grateful for what you do. You and Neville have seriously kept me alive for the past year or so. Through so many ups and downs, dealing with severe chronic pain, being lost and in love. From nothing, from scratch, I started to create a new life. And that's undoubtedly thanks to Neville's teachings and your explanations. I'm wishing you the best dude, keep it up, I'll keep on watching.

  • @justintime1078
    @justintime1078 10 місяців тому +1

    Yes. Detach from the old by attaching to new perspectives, realities limitless possibilities

  • @sungbeats
    @sungbeats 9 місяців тому

    Watched like a dozen videos on this subject and still not able to fully grasp how you can attain wish fulfilled state if reality shows otherwise. I get it, you can use tools like visualization and feel the wish fulfilled temporarily but as soon as you go back to reality, the wish is not present. The top of the Mountain analogy doesn’t really make sense. The proper analogy would be- you are at the bottom of Mount Everest and your wish is to be at the top. You climb but delude yourself to believe you are already at the top, but your are still physically climbing it…so how cold u really believe the wish is fulfilled if the reality is that you are still climbing the mountain? It sounds like the wish fulfilled is no different than trust and faith. You don’t currently have ur wish, but believe with hard work it will come with time? But faith is different from “knowing”

  • @Ash.Afnan912
    @Ash.Afnan912 10 місяців тому +5

    Im manifesting my sp since few days and i hope im doing it well.....at first i was always worrying about the result but currently i feel so free, calm and peaceful and i know he's already mine.... there's nothing to get stressed over something thats already mine. Im working on myself and treating me like a queen.
    Is this the correct way?
    It happened automatically.

  • @BodyandMindfulness
    @BodyandMindfulness 10 місяців тому +3

    How do I use my imagination without fantasising?

    • @ravempowers
      @ravempowers 10 місяців тому +3

      While fantasizing, you don't have much control, it's like your mind is wondering around. But in imagination you direct the vision of the life that you want as much as you can :)

    • @keepgoing5475
      @keepgoing5475 10 місяців тому

      By gaining understanding of the law and your imagination.

  • @autumnfairy11
    @autumnfairy11 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you 🩷 great explanation ✨

  • @yourebuggin3673
    @yourebuggin3673 10 місяців тому +1

    i love this channel, you explain everything so well and these videos put me in a great mood.

  • @KarmaCazi09
    @KarmaCazi09 10 місяців тому +1

    I was in a super toxic relationship where the attachment to eachother was like a drug.. long story short when we broke up.. sure i was gutted but instead of focusing on the "emptiness".. i chose to see that as me killing my old self and beliefs and transcending into another form. Suddenly, that void became an open space for new opportunities to flow in.. i can finally do all that i am is what i was feeling. Then, that song came on the radio.. "everything is gonna be alright, rockaby rockaby" & then i knew, i had to have faith in the present process. Still here baby, still loving, living and learning 👌

  • @itismypleasure7202
    @itismypleasure7202 10 місяців тому +2

    we must stop desiring and wanting

  • @MaryMargaretteWhite-ek5tn
    @MaryMargaretteWhite-ek5tn 10 місяців тому +2

    Yeah….letting go doesn’t work for me.

  • @MJ-wz6jo
    @MJ-wz6jo 10 місяців тому +1

    Using Neville Goddard technique I learned to use my brain more effectively. To get what I want.

  • @carlamachado6674
    @carlamachado6674 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this explanation. Very important to understand

  • @jeffmoxham4467
    @jeffmoxham4467 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for all the teachings Nicholas, I am loving it.

  • @brushstroke3733
    @brushstroke3733 10 місяців тому +2

    It's so easy - you just have to make yourself believe what you don't believe. Got it? 😄

  • @daltonhenry2365
    @daltonhenry2365 10 місяців тому +3

    its letting go of old state previous manifestations not desiring having and not just having having it "normal"