I see many people bringing up the topic of rape, I too hate how common it is in the BL community. Rape shouldn't be romanticised. There's a series called "The Effect" and although it has a sad ending and is pretty tragic, it starts off as a BL but the second one of the characters(P'Keng) raped our focus character(Shin) the series takes a turn because they don’t end up together no matter how much Keng tried to beg for forgiveness and justify it. I like this series because it definitely sheds a light on a reoccurring topic in BL's that pisses me off.
This is the only part of this series that seriously pissed me off. Rape is rape. No matter how you sugar coat it or spin it. It doesn't matter if they are not biological brothers. He raped him while he was so drunk he couldn't fight back with no regard for his emotional, mental, spiritual or physical state in the aftermath. Only his selfish, narcissistic personal pleasure and obsession Then he and his mother hid it from the father; justifying it and rationalizing it. In real life, this would of destroyed the family. The younger brother would of also gone to jail for raping his older brother. Please stop romanticizing rape as an acceptable way to further a story. There is NOTHING romantic about rape. Before you make comments, keep in mind that there are just as many men raped as women. They are too ashamed, belittled, humiliated and afraid to report it because the justice system and support systems is geared to women the majourity of the time. How do I know? I have FAR too many of my men friends, past partners and colleagues that have been rape by both men and women or have suffered horrific sexual abuse as children.
@@RafaelMartins-lf5qk Unfortunately, my statement is actually true. I'm a recovering addict and for each and every woman at a recovery meeting that has been rape or sexually abused in some way, shape or form; there is as many men that have been raped, sexually abused. No to mention the amount of men that never ever go to the police because how they saw how other men were treated. Least, that is the way it is in Canada and the US. Over my 38 years of recovery I have met hundreds of male victims. It is quite heart breaking. So many of them have taken their rape and sexual abuse to the grave. Some have committed suicide over it. A lot have seriously unhealthy behaviours to punish themselves because they don't know how to talk about it, deal with and stop blaming themselves. It is getting better for men that have suffered from rape and sexual abuse to find support, to get the help they need and to be treated with kindness, respect and dignity. Without fear of ridicule from the very systems that bend over backwards to assist women that have gone through the same thing.
Also, for those going gaga over this scene and justifying it. Pay attention to his reaction in the morning. It tells you all you need to know about how wrong it was. He was horrified and ashamed and appalled. That's not what someone feels when they like what happened.
Doesn't matter. Rape is rape. How disgusted would you have been if it was his actual biological brother?? Would you still find it romantic, sexy, cute, loving or whatever other words can be used to make this acceptable?
Rape is rape, it was so wrong even love is the reason. Unfortunately, Xing Si finally love the raper. I ever watched straight series, a man rape a woman, he wasn't loving her, but later, he felt in love and big regret, he ask for apologize many times many try, until she forgive him, and then love him, they end up together and married. So, when I watched this series, I don't like his rape way, totally wrong, but it was kinda possible that Xing Si finally accept him.
I haven’t see the series, but it seems that No one was bewitched by you. It’s a hard situation but for someone in a situation like this (stepbrothers?) to go out and say this anyway, he must really love you.
yonjie is his step brother. This guy is not a good guy, if you watch the whole show you see he's basically a devil child even though he becomes a good person later. nothing excuses his actions. He first was spying on his brother and was jealous of his brothers friends. He then stalked one of his brothers friends and beat him up in a alley, he had full intentions to hospitalize the poor man, but was stopped by another person interrupting the assault. He even fully admits his bad actions to his parents and later his brother when he found out, he had no remorse and didn't apologize for what he did and doesn't care about his brothers feelings. Later This scene we are watching, he gets his brother drunk and drugged and he date rapes him. He is a bad bad person
@@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITAsi básicamente la historia nos cuenta que no es malo per se. Que tiene algun tipo de trastorno mental que hace que no sepa relacionarse con la gente y no sienta afecto en general
Except that this is Chinese, id think this was written by Mame. She always has an assault to love arc. Which is disturbing. Also, the one in blue is beyond drunk, not the older, and they're step not blood. Doesn't make the rape better, but the clip title is beyond wrong. Also, just because it wasn't violent, Doesn't diminish what's actually going on in this scene. Thumbs down for title lie and misleading nature.
Supongo que esa opinión loca es por qué miras la situación como normal. Es algo definitivo aberrante violación más incesto asqueado de ver cómo gente anormal quiere normalizar lo aberrante
Na vdd o irmão mais novo pegou o mais velho. Eles não são irmãos de vdd, na Ásia têm essa maluquice de quando os pais com filhos se casam, os filhos deles viram irmãos, mas nosso bebê foi até conseguir o que queria e foi lindo.
De acuerdo 👍 Esto es Una violación aquí y en la china 🇨🇳 que pena que la gente tienda a Románticas 💖 una escena tan deplorable y rechazable , como esa Solo por qué son la pareja 🌈👬💘 Protagonista pero Si el chico estaba drogado Y no era consiente de lo que estaba pasando en ese momento" Que feo todo 🤮🤮🚽
Actually, like most viewers, I didn't know there was a rape scene in this series when I watched it. It's a shock and the older brother deciding to be a couple with the younger one doesn't add well. It's the fear, confusion, pity and self hate that made him reciprocate. By the way, I love Bad buddy, one of the best.
He was given a date rape drug along with getting him so drunk he was in a black out state. He had no way to say no. His love for his step brother was just that. A brotherly love. Imagine yourself in that kind of situation. How would you call it if was done to you?
I see many people bringing up the topic of rape, I too hate how common it is in the BL community. Rape shouldn't be romanticised. There's a series called "The Effect" and although it has a sad ending and is pretty tragic, it starts off as a BL but the second one of the characters(P'Keng) raped our focus character(Shin) the series takes a turn because they don’t end up together no matter how much Keng tried to beg for forgiveness and justify it.
I like this series because it definitely sheds a light on a reoccurring topic in BL's that pisses me off.
Is that the bl at the end where they see each other across the road and then u hear tyre's screeching? I always wondered what happened there....
@@VanessaR747 yeah, it's implied they died...
That's tragic
I hate how consent is very much over looked.
This is the only part of this series that seriously pissed me off. Rape is rape. No matter how you sugar coat it or spin it. It doesn't matter if they are not biological brothers. He raped him while he was so drunk he couldn't fight back with no regard for his emotional, mental, spiritual or physical state in the aftermath. Only his selfish, narcissistic personal pleasure and obsession Then he and his mother hid it from the father; justifying it and rationalizing it. In real life, this would of destroyed the family. The younger brother would of also gone to jail for raping his older brother. Please stop romanticizing rape as an acceptable way to further a story. There is NOTHING romantic about rape. Before you make comments, keep in mind that there are just as many men raped as women. They are too ashamed, belittled, humiliated and afraid to report it because the justice system and support systems is geared to women the majourity of the time. How do I know? I have FAR too many of my men friends, past partners and colleagues that have been rape by both men and women or have suffered horrific sexual abuse as children.
Just as many? No. But yeah it's still a very serious topic that should'nt romanticized in that way
@@RafaelMartins-lf5qk Unfortunately, my statement is actually true. I'm a recovering addict and for each and every woman at a recovery meeting that has been rape or sexually abused in some way, shape or form; there is as many men that have been raped, sexually abused. No to mention the amount of men that never ever go to the police because how they saw how other men were treated. Least, that is the way it is in Canada and the US. Over my 38 years of recovery I have met hundreds of male victims. It is quite heart breaking. So many of them have taken their rape and sexual abuse to the grave. Some have committed suicide over it. A lot have seriously unhealthy behaviours to punish themselves because they don't know how to talk about it, deal with and stop blaming themselves. It is getting better for men that have suffered from rape and sexual abuse to find support, to get the help they need and to be treated with kindness, respect and dignity. Without fear of ridicule from the very systems that bend over backwards to assist women that have gone through the same thing.
can you chill no one ask you to watch
its disgusting yes we know that don't you have anything better to do than yelling
tenngteng knows how he feels cause of president!!
Also, for those going gaga over this scene and justifying it. Pay attention to his reaction in the morning. It tells you all you need to know about how wrong it was. He was horrified and ashamed and appalled. That's not what someone feels when they like what happened.
The title of this is fkn Crazy!!
9:27the tissue box is unique and cute
TITLE IS WILD!! 💀💀
The title 💀☠️☠️☠️☠️💀💀
these captions are always wild
history 4 close to you
Which episode
His guy friends are the best for comforting and supporting him
What programme is this?
Tittle please
Qual o nome dessa série?
im just curious what is the meaning of 0 & 1 in their conversation?
It means top and bottom. 1 is top, 0 is bottom
Brother is crazy but good movie tho👍
drama name?
HIStory 4: Close To You
They are not actually brothers!!! Two single parents wed - not blood relation.
Doesn't matter. Rape is rape. How disgusted would you have been if it was his actual biological brother?? Would you still find it romantic, sexy, cute, loving or whatever other words can be used to make this acceptable?
@@shyphirenflowerchild4631wym? is bl series, wym rape? is normal on bl community, ig you’re not a bl fan 😂😂😂✌️✌️
I love this drama
You so good with words, that title come on seriously
history 4 close to you
i like second couple bestfriends and xingsi tenteng understands ruffy how he feels cause of president
What is the name of the series?
History 4
taking i love my brother to next lvl 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 maybe gotta add i love my brother as a brother to be in brotherzone 😩😩😩😩
When you no longer want to wait to open your birthday present✨
forbibben present watch the whole show, he raped him this isn't a good scene
Series name plz
History 4: Close To You
Rape is rape, it was so wrong even love is the reason. Unfortunately, Xing Si finally love the raper. I ever watched straight series, a man rape a woman, he wasn't loving her, but later, he felt in love and big regret, he ask for apologize many times many try, until she forgive him, and then love him, they end up together and married. So, when I watched this series, I don't like his rape way, totally wrong, but it was kinda possible that Xing Si finally accept him.
i liked the best friends. couple
@@Tanlawless me too.
What series is this
History 4: close to you
What is the name of this series
😂😂😂 little devil 😂😂
我喜欢你 0:18
I haven’t see the series, but it seems that No one was bewitched by you. It’s a hard situation but for someone in a situation like this (stepbrothers?) to go out and say this anyway, he must really love you.
yonjie is his step brother. This guy is not a good guy, if you watch the whole show you see he's basically a devil child even though he becomes a good person later. nothing excuses his actions. He first was spying on his brother and was jealous of his brothers friends. He then stalked one of his brothers friends and beat him up in a alley, he had full intentions to hospitalize the poor man, but was stopped by another person interrupting the assault. He even fully admits his bad actions to his parents and later his brother when he found out, he had no remorse and didn't apologize for what he did and doesn't care about his brothers feelings. Later This scene we are watching, he gets his brother drunk and drugged and he date rapes him. He is a bad bad person
@@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITA wow. Ok thanks that changes everything. He must really be a bad person. Should I still watch the series?
i like second couple much much better but i like xing si the older brother i thought he was handsome
@@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITAsi básicamente la historia nos cuenta que no es malo per se. Que tiene algun tipo de trastorno mental que hace que no sepa relacionarse con la gente y no sienta afecto en general
@@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITAtitle please?
Titulor
Except that this is Chinese, id think this was written by Mame. She always has an assault to love arc. Which is disturbing. Also, the one in blue is beyond drunk, not the older, and they're step not blood. Doesn't make the rape better, but the clip title is beyond wrong. Also, just because it wasn't violent, Doesn't diminish what's actually going on in this scene.
Thumbs down for title lie and misleading nature.
Jeez, the heading is the weirdest ever
Still grateful for his friends. This is the equivalent of drugging someone.
看过
Maravilhoso este BL, super recomendo
Это кадры из лакорна "Его история 4" . Эти "братья" влюблены друг в друга . Они останутся вместе на всегда .🎉
Supongo que esa opinión loca es por qué miras la situación como normal.
Es algo definitivo aberrante violación más incesto asqueado de ver cómo gente anormal quiere normalizar lo aberrante
Girl these titles 😭
Na vdd o irmão mais novo pegou o mais velho. Eles não são irmãos de vdd, na Ásia têm essa maluquice de quando os pais com filhos se casam, os filhos deles viram irmãos, mas nosso bebê foi até conseguir o que queria e foi lindo.
Necesito nombre del bl 😭
History 4 close to you
Sorry about this but No. Just NO!!!!
De acuerdo 👍 Esto es Una violación aquí y en la china 🇨🇳 que pena que la gente tienda a Románticas 💖 una escena tan deplorable y rechazable , como esa Solo por qué son la pareja 🌈👬💘 Protagonista pero Si el chico estaba drogado Y no era consiente de lo que estaba pasando en ese momento" Que feo todo 🤮🤮🚽
We accept rape is rape but if you are too serious..stop watching these kinds of series ..no one forced u ..go watch bad buddy 🙄🙄
What does Bad Buddy has to do with this series jeeezzzzzzz! take it easy no need to be serious over nothing 🤦♀️😂
At least it's a softie😌😎
Actually, like most viewers, I didn't know there was a rape scene in this series when I watched it. It's a shock and the older brother deciding to be a couple with the younger one doesn't add well. It's the fear, confusion, pity and self hate that made him reciprocate.
By the way, I love Bad buddy, one of the best.
@skztiktok_bcfhljsh of course dia 😂
@@pavanwborracho el admite que ama al hermano. De antes de la violacion lo amaba.
Esta mal obvio pero es ficción calmesen dos tercios
Udaya👋👋👍👍🙋🙋
Not good for me.
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عـاع مـو ولـد فـلـك مآل الـلـه 😅
Eyy yowww this feels illegal to watch 😢
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Fj
how can it be rape when he said he loves him to and responds to him
He was drunk 😮
He was given a date rape drug along with getting him so drunk he was in a black out state. He had no way to say no. His love for his step brother was just that. A brotherly love. Imagine yourself in that kind of situation. How would you call it if was done to you?
@shyphirenflowerchild4631 blah blah blah suck it up princess and move on it's just a show
Because he DIDN'T CONSENT AND HE WAS KNOCK OUT Drunk. It's rape
@kyliealvey7878 go and get a life it's only a movie
The name of this series please