GIRL TALK 🩷 : THE TRUTH ABOUT YOUR 20s ( living alone , finances , figuring it out , health )

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024

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  • @allatrice0022
    @allatrice0022 3 місяці тому +54

    Being in your 20s is like “if I can just get through this week I’ll be ok” but it’s every freaking week 😩

  • @allatrice0022
    @allatrice0022 3 місяці тому +37

    You have to learn to kick it by yourself, motivate yourself, and ride your own wave 🤍

  • @AchaiaW
    @AchaiaW 3 місяці тому +10

    It truly warms my heart when I see fellow 20 yr olds who believe in God/ Jesus Christ! He shines through us in such a beautiful and gracious way and that U ARE. Something I learned in my 20s: like u said, that u NEED a guiding light because otherwise, you’ll be lost, reckless and just wondering why ur life is miserable! EVERYONE has issues, but when u believe in God, u know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and u just need to have faith in His process and truly believe that everything will be alright. Many blessings to u and anyone reading this ❤!

  • @TherealRachelRay
    @TherealRachelRay 3 місяці тому +21

    Hey Jayda girl, for me once I turned 30 I had an epiphany where I realized how blessed I was and how yes everyone is not going to like you and you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone and yes it’s okay to “not be where you should be” at whatever age you thought. I feel like we are where we should be in our lives at this moment because if God wanted us to be somewhere else then we would be there. You’re so right, everyday we’re learning how to live this life until we’re gone. You’re much younger than me but I must say you are wise my girl, you have a strong mind on your shoulders at a young age. Just keep going, putting Jesus 1st, standing up for what you believe in, and you’ll be fine my love💝

    • @Jaydajonet
      @Jaydajonet  3 місяці тому

      You’re so right about everything !! It will all be ok & make sense when it’s supposed to !! Thank you sm 💞💞

  • @aliciatucker4643
    @aliciatucker4643 3 місяці тому +5

    I felt it when DMX said we’re just kids that act grown. Loved the talk ❤️

  • @Soufsidefreakytae
    @Soufsidefreakytae 3 місяці тому +7

    lol heavyyyy on the never say never cause bayBEEEEE i just be shutting tf up now cause you literallyy never kno

    • @Jaydajonet
      @Jaydajonet  3 місяці тому +2

      Literallyyyyy like I had to zip it 😭😭

  • @Moneymadekid
    @Moneymadekid Місяць тому +1

    This is the realest most relatable girl talk I’ve come across as a 22 year old navigating life everything you spoke on hit home! Loved it 💞

  • @TierraReid-ThatTierraNicole
    @TierraReid-ThatTierraNicole 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m 22 going on 23. Every thing you said is right on point 😩💕! We got this tho, by the Grace of God!

  • @Theashleib
    @Theashleib 3 місяці тому +3

    thank you jayda for posting this video , the 20s have definitely been 20ing and you spoke right through me!💐🤍🙏🏾!!!

  • @EriannaBrielle
    @EriannaBrielle 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes girl! I’m 24, everything you said in this video was on point. Your 20s can definitely be challenging, but as long as you keep God first and move at your own pace everything will come to fruition in due time. 💗🙏🏾

  • @vvsniyah9892
    @vvsniyah9892 2 місяці тому

    This is why I love Jayda 🫶🏽I’ve learned so much over the years just watching you!! Thank you ❤

  • @trenaeshantez
    @trenaeshantez 3 місяці тому +1

    I just turned 30 in January and I feel so lost 😭 I agree with the statement of doing things at your own pace and not comparing yourself to anyone else. Everyday I’m learning more and how to cope with day to day struggles. My anxiety is so high sometimes trying to rush certain areas of my life, but I’m learning now to try to follow the plan god has for me. I’ve been single for a while and not talking to anyone either and it does get lonely and sometimes hard but I’m trying to be patient. Love these girl talks Jayda. 💕

  • @prettynatalie4876
    @prettynatalie4876 3 місяці тому +2

    I rushed my life and went to college and I didn’t like it I saw everyone going I cried everyday ❤️

    • @Jaydajonet
      @Jaydajonet  3 місяці тому +1

      Girl same. I went back home so fast. Definitely wasn’t the path for me!! Especially in the way I did it. I just saw everybody leaving & thought that’s what needed to do !!

    • @prettynatalie4876
      @prettynatalie4876 3 місяці тому

      @@Jaydajonet exactly!!!

  • @ArrianaZhane
    @ArrianaZhane 3 місяці тому +4

    I loveee these talks 🤍🤍

  • @25jaelen
    @25jaelen 3 місяці тому +4

    Heyyy fren! You are very wise for your age! When i was 23-24 i was a hothead and running wild. At the end of my 30’s now i learned a lot, and As i got older life showed me and taught me to slow down and think before you act 😭😭. Keep goin fren this girl talk was on point! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾💞💞

    • @Jaydajonet
      @Jaydajonet  3 місяці тому +1

      So true !! Abt thinking before you act !! It’s easy to move off impulse , I was the same!! But you do wake up and smell the coffee , Thanks my girl 💞💞

  • @vvsniyah9892
    @vvsniyah9892 2 місяці тому

    That’s how I feel rn , feels like I’m running outta time 😩it’s so stressful

  • @legacieyyy
    @legacieyyy 3 місяці тому +3

    Yesss I love hearing your talk vidsss🥹🩷

  • @benedictabonsu3349
    @benedictabonsu3349 3 місяці тому

    I'm so proud of your girl talks Jayda. 💕You are deftinely recognizing the life lessons that will mold you into being better and seeking what's derservng to be apart of your journey. Im 28 going on 29 in a couple of months and can attest to these truths that are necessary to embrace and navigate in life. So much awaits you luv. Keep growing! 💕 . The girl talks are everything 👌💝.They are priceless gems.
    💎🤍🔑

  • @KhilaJay
    @KhilaJay 3 місяці тому +1

    I appreciate this Jayda ! I’m 19 now but I needed this you said a mouth full 💕

  • @jasminefena7772
    @jasminefena7772 2 місяці тому +1

    Keep Going ✨

  • @MissAlex816
    @MissAlex816 3 місяці тому +1

    1:26 I was literally going to ask where the champagne flutes were from! Thanks for sharing! Cheers 🥂

  • @gigisexperience
    @gigisexperience 3 місяці тому

    Needed this talk more than you know.. 20s got me like🫠
    thank you jayda 💕

  • @jatonblackmon1224
    @jatonblackmon1224 3 місяці тому +1

    Really appreciate these sit downs ❤❤

  • @MissJazzy_
    @MissJazzy_ 3 місяці тому

    As a 38 year old I can say that you are wise beyond your years. Great advice!

  • @Ciaj1220
    @Ciaj1220 3 місяці тому

    As a 22 year old turning 23 your girl talks help a lot🩷

  • @tionnahwillis8505
    @tionnahwillis8505 3 місяці тому

    We Appreciate You So Much. Thank youu for sharing your experiences and what you’ve learned.

  • @allatrice0022
    @allatrice0022 3 місяці тому +1

    Some people be at war with themselves, it has nothing to do with you

  • @CompletelyMzE
    @CompletelyMzE 3 місяці тому +1

    Girlllll you're talking like you are 33 or 43!!! Keep dropping the gems 💎 because your generation don't want to hear it from us- the "old heads"!

  • @allatrice0022
    @allatrice0022 3 місяці тому

    After awhile you realize “This is not what I want to keep going through” then you just stop 🙌🏽

  • @jasminedavis4602
    @jasminedavis4602 3 місяці тому

    Love love loveee this babes💕

  • @theebougieprincess3509
    @theebougieprincess3509 3 місяці тому +1

    Imagine being in your 20’s and having a child and doing EVERYTHING on your own😭😭

    • @Jaydajonet
      @Jaydajonet  3 місяці тому +1

      I’d cry so bad 😭 . S/o to everyone doing it though! Definitely not a death sentence , but def makes things tougher !! S/o to the mommies though 🫶🏽

  • @cherryhobbs
    @cherryhobbs 3 місяці тому

    I love this video yess yess ❤

  • @c.nicholle8250
    @c.nicholle8250 3 місяці тому

    This video couldn’t have come at a better time! Honestly, thank you Jayda 💓

    • @Jaydajonet
      @Jaydajonet  3 місяці тому +1

      You're so welcome!💞

  • @arianascott6067
    @arianascott6067 3 місяці тому

    Appreciate ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mondagod
    @mondagod 3 місяці тому

    GO !

  • @kenyam26
    @kenyam26 3 місяці тому

    🥳😍GODBLESSINGS ✌🏽

  • @CompletelyMzE
    @CompletelyMzE 3 місяці тому

    WIL in my 20s! Don't invest in a man that is not investing in you! Thats financial or with your time! AND although Ashanti and Nelly are looking real cute... I've also learned to NEVER spin the block ✌🏿

  • @Robifitness__
    @Robifitness__ 3 місяці тому

    Heyyyy

  • @Lifewithtweetyy
    @Lifewithtweetyy 3 місяці тому

    💕💕💕💕💕🤍🤍

  • @jasmajefferson3903
    @jasmajefferson3903 3 місяці тому

    "It's more rewarding to keep going than it is to stop" 🙌🏾🙌🏾🩷