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Boy moms will definitely know how you feel! It gets better with age, I promise.
For kami everytime she fights with Leo maybe take away something she likes to play with. Everyone disciples there child differently you need to see what works for you.
My son is one day older than Leo and trust me he is the exact same way. I've had moments where I need to be alone cause it's too much sometimes. Hang in there
It’s real life girly. I feel your frustration. That’s how I have been feeling I have a 5, 2 & 8 month old and it’s so hard my time revolves around theirs I’ve been trying so hard to Vlog and grow my channel but it’s not easy. Keep posting us moms know kids screaming & telling is NORMAL 😘😘
I’m actually very happy you uploaded this! I became a mom in 2018 and I had such a rough time with my son. I always wanted to vlog and start my channel. I never understood why I couldn’t do it when other moms could. It made me so sad and depressed thinking that I was doing something wrong. Honestly till this day I’m still struggling with depression and now anxiety especially because I’m teleworking as well as looking after my boys. I had another boy in 2021 🥴 I honestly think it’s a boy thing because I have 6 nieces and non acted like my son and they weren’t so much of a handful. I was the lucky one to get the boy from the fam 😵💫 My son is now 3 1/2 and he’s calmed down but not to much. I can say I probably won’t be able to start a vlog channel anytime soon because they literally won’t let me and it just stresses me out. But you’re doing a great job! Stay strong mama 🥰
Your a great mother, and sometime being around the children all the time or for long periods can be emotionally and physically demanding, just know what what your feeling is something a lot of people experience and struggle with but your doing a great job.
Thank you for posting!! God bless 🙏🏻❤️
I love hearing both languages. Your family is precious. Thanks for sharing with us
I'm happy your here. I hope it's good news love you all
You hang in there! It does get better raising a boy. Make sure you make time for yourself 😊
I hope this will be good news for your family. I’m looking forward to it. Keep this up
I'm a boy mom and going to be again with my 3rd one and girl ! I get what you mean. I wouldn't mind watching a raw video here and there . Life isn't perfect so don't let small things affect you ✨️
I feel you so much , I have two that are almost the same age and oh my goodness sometimes I feel my mind goes literally foggy and I can’t even think - which is literally when I am having a break down - and end up screaming my head off… I also have a teenager which does add up to the nonesense
Can I just say that this is one of your most real vlogs and it just resonates so well. This is what mom life is. It's ups and downs and months after months of self doubts. Kids are super adorable and yes, they can be a handful too.
So true.
I feel you mama! I have a 3 year old boy and 4 year old girl and my son is very wild and it is tough! Definitely more harder than my daughter and they do fight a lot! It gets stressful! I’ve cried bc of how stressful it gets but I love my kids and I’m sure it gets better as they get older so just hang in there ❤️❤️
It does get better. Hang in there mama.
pandemic boy mom here! you are not alone!!! you’re doing a great job!!🥰
With my son I used to get so frustrated with the amount of complaints from daycare and other people and I would feel like such a bad mom because I felt like I was doing a bad job. I would sit and cry a lot. Now he is 5 and he is everything I knew he would be and more. ❤️
I completely understand you .I have a 14, 11,4 and 5month old and its tuff trying to juggle everything and get into a daily routine .I was so adapted to a routine with my other 3kids so afterwards when i had my baby boy it became a struggle for me to adjust im still trying although I have my days where i want to cry from frustration because cleaning is a never ending thing .But i definitely don’t regret being a mother at all .My babies are my life .
“Our lives are changing” but I can’t tell you anything about it in this video 🤦♀️ these UA-camrs have to stop with the clickbait.
So happy to see a video! I was beginning to worry about you and your family! Take care and God bless! 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Hi Abby I'm so glad your back
My son the same he gets into everything when I tell him no he throws his self and starts crying and screaming it is frustrating honestly. My daughter son fight and they both cry cause they hurt each other but I completely understand where your at and I feel you on feeling stressed out. Hang in there Abby! ❤️❤️
Sending love and prayers your way mama 🙏 ❤
SOO HAPPY YOU POSTED RIGHT NOW MUCH NEEDED!!!! 😍😍
Leo is literally my daughter!!! shes 18months & girl i be cryingg too & im prego with #2 😫
@@nyleahreyes7157 I cried too when I found out I was pregnant with #2 😭 but my second is literally my blessing! Hes sooo different from his brother. I hope this baby isn’t as difficult for you as your first 🙏🏽
😂 felt this 100%! I’m a mom of 3 boys!
Awee... Boys are definitely hard, i have two boys and I feel so overwhelmed most of the time... after coming back from the park they literally come home to run and be wild then they get hurrt all while trying to cook.. awee Abi I feel you but time flies and then they're off to school
In my experience I have 6 boys and 1 girl. My daughter is definitely a lot more than my boys. She has an attitude she always is picky about the clothes she wants to wear and she’s only 7 going on 19 it feels like. My boys have always been so laid back and easy going with everything since they were babies.
Glad your back love you and ur family Leo is adorable and Kammy almost 4 wow
You are a amazing mommy. God give you grace and courage lots of wisdom and patience. Yes us moms know exactly how you feel, I only have one myself but we spend 24/7 together since she still doesn't go to pre k yet and, its tough. Sending lots of love and prayers ❤️ and no we don't complain, this is motherhood. It's insane and full of so much love and awesome moments.
Thank you for always keeping it real! Tu casa esta hermosaaaa :)
My 2nd daughter was like this she was the wild and dramatic one. You got this. Just breathe and it's okay to step away in another room. I have to do this as well and it is hard but you're doing a great job.
You son is about my 4th daughters age and she acts the same way he does. Climbs onto everything, scream crys... which is so different then what any of my other 3 did. She is very strong willed but so sweer.
I have 2 that are 2 years apart but are older now soon to be 10 and 8. Then we will be having 3 under 3... total of 5 in June. Yay me 😅, it is draning as a mom and even my husband gets stressed... we do look at each other on days like this and take deep breaths lol. We have learned to take turns and helping each other out. As a SAHM I have my days but when my husband gets home and sees I've done a lot he lets me go and get some fresh air.
Time goes by so fast and it is to cherish the little moments. Stay strong because they are only that age once 😢! God gives you in life what you can handle❤!
So my son is also a covid baby and he keeps me on my toes lol soo I totally get it 💙
Girl I feel you I have a 31/2 and 1 year old they are hard
I have two nephews and let me tell you it’s not only your boy! Girls could def be the same I know some that are a handful, but you’re doing great ❤️❤️
I have 3 sons all under the age of 3 years old. So girl I definitely understand but not to the point where I cry, but I do have some days where I just need to step back for just 5 min and gain my confidence and strength back. Thankfully they aren't too bad where they get into things their not supposed to get into. But I do have a 1 year old and man is he a climber!! But he has good stance but I still keep an close watch on him lol. But they'll grow sooner than you think trust me! Also, it's none of my business , but if it's too much you should look into getting a nanny.
You remind me of myself 1 year ago. I ended up prioritizing myself first (happy mom=happy kids) so scheduling time alone while my husband watches the kids. And getting myself into therapy to learn my triggers so that i can have more patience with my children. I also read Raising Your Spirited Child and I joined the online fb group where there are tons of parents with the same struggles. Very supportive. You’re doing a great job! Being a mom isn’t easy 💝
Thank you for being so real and relatable! All of us boy moms are crying together😆❤️
Our kids are the same age. My 2 girls are 6 and 3 and my son is 1. They are literally DIFFERENT! My son is more cuddly but definitely more wild. My mom guilt comes from fast food cus I literally have no time my hands are full ! I feel you you’re not alone.❤️❤️
I am a mum of two boys, and boys just need founr things. 1)food, 2) Play (lots of it) 3) sleep and 4) boundaries. They will test you just to see if you would enforce those boundaries. Dont be defeated, dont show that u got to him, just Look him in the eye when he is misbehaving and just say no firmly but kindly. And if he doesnt listen then discipline, and make sure you stick with that discipline. Boys can take it, and they will not get upset with you. In fact you will earn their respect and love when u are strong. Boys respond to authority and strong firm hand that makes them feel safe and helps them to calm down. They have a lot of energy and needs help to deal with that. But a few weeks of strong discipline and prayer, He will calm
Down and listen and obey. One of the best advices from a boy mom i have got is “do not put up with nonsense or misbehaviour, nip it the moment they test you and they will immediately calm down and listen”. I swear by this. I also pray alot over my boys and ask God to give help me and give them grace ti calm them selves. Sometimes a little one on one time with him will do wonders.
But little boys are the sweetest. They are so kind, very loving and gentle towards their mummies, and they are so innocent. Their world revolves around mummy’s hugs, daddys rough and tough play and their toys. They are so silly, funny and the best huggers. Hang in there, dont be afraid to be firm and discipline, Leo needs it to feel safe and calm. God will help you, call on Him and He will give you grace!
I just read my comment and saw the million typos. I am so sorry! I am pregnant with my third (baby girl this time :)) and she is giving major pregnancy brains and no sleep at night. Apologies, but i hope you understood despite my typos. God bless your gorgeous family. God is all you need to get through, He gave you these babies and He will also give you grace and equip you to raise them and love them. Trust in Him!
Your kids are beautiful, yes I know the feeling of how they fight because mine are also the same. Don’t worry about Leo most his age especially boys have that personality which will grow out of him eventually his still very young because my son was also the same but now his 3 years old and I can see him way better than before. Your an amazing mom keep that in mind 😊
we miss you your videos are great but children come first and we adults need to step away sometime and be who we are all the best.
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I have two boys girl!! And they drive me crazy 2. Sometimes I really cry and start to panic. I get so frustrated. Being a full time mom is a really hard work and a full time worker. I totally understand.
I m writing from Italy and I fully understand how you feel! My first son is 5 and the second is 19 months and he is crazy!! He always climbs somewhere, always run, always falls, he make a lot of mess, try to grab everything! And I m pregnant now and I really hope that this third baby will not be as the second or I will loose my mind
That's ok crying is ok he will learn
Your kids remind me of mine , I have two girls and one boy . My son is 3 and my middle child is 6 and my oldest is 10 . The two younger ones are always going at it . They love each other and then they get on each others nerves and start fighting . Soooooo stressful! And my son is crazy , he’s not scared of anything! He’s always getting hurt 😔! Boys are definitely built differently! I feel like I’m watching myself when I watch your videos! Hang in there mama and glad to see you back !
I know exactly how you feel! I'm not a mum but I have seen other mums get really upset with their kids not listening and behaving well!
Your videos are so fun and amazing
Girl totally get you I have 3 boys and 1 girl and yes boys are ALOT lol but you got this may god give you patience and strength ❤️
Oh I feel you so hard on this one😫 my 17 month old son is exactly like Leo! It’s definitely so hard but just praying that with time it gets better! Some days can be so emotionally EXHAUSTING especially as a stay at home mom😓 just hoping for better days🧡
I have a girl she is 18 months i cant stand sometimes what she is doing I prefer to take her for walk for like 5h so she dont just seat home and make a mess but then im so tired is unbelievable hard.Me and my partner we arguing a lot i think as he is at work all day and i have to deal with kids every single day by my self when he comas back home he is tired and not really helping its such a hard time.I cry so many times as i dont know what else to do 🙁 but at list the last chapter on ur video makes me smile 😊.The hardest time is to go through this and wait for better time to come sending hugs im with u😂
Been missing your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Girl I am hardly surviving over here with a 1.5 year old and a 3 year old. I don’t blame you and completely understand why it’s hard to pick up the camera. Life won’t always be this way, we’ll get through it haha You look absolutely gorgeous!
I see what ur going through my moms has 3 little ones and me and my brother are the oldest and she is always tired and yea u will get through this its just their age
Mama i totally understand where your coming from im a mom of a 4 yearold boy a 2 yearold girl and a 9 month old got and my older kids have been absolutely hard to mange along with going to school to become a teacher my 9 month on the other hand has been easy so far so i totally understand where your coming from on life changes..
I have 4 little ones under the age of 4 and it’s very hard and it’s ok to cry it out but just hang on there cause your not the only one ☺️
Hi Abegail!Watching from Philippines💕
Amelie looks so much older! Time flies by so fast!
my son is almost 18 months and he's the same exact way! I get very frustrated and overwhelmed a lot, especially with his terrible twos kicking in early. it's definitely a roller-coaster and very stressful at times, just know you're not doing it alone. mines definitely a handful but I wouldn't trade it for the world, just hang in there mama! 💕💕
So so true!!!!
I missed your videos, Welcome back . Love your channel. Coz of mommy vloggers like you , I also started a mommy vlogging channel 🌹
Can so relate lol my son is 1 and a half. He can be a lot to handle at times. Hoping he grows out of it. 😅❣️ Leo is so cute. Sometimes moms need a break. ♥️
Trust me , I totally understand I have a 6 year old son and 1 year old daughter. Life is always busy and overwhelming . Plus I work full time too. It’s hard but, some of the best times .
Also really really try to take care of yourself mentally and emotionally. I started doing that this year and I’m slowly but surely finding myself again🤍 Your kids need the BEST version of their mama!
I agree and that’s why it’s essential for me to go to the gym lol that’s how I keep my sanity! It helps me to decompress and have a little bit of time away from the kids. ❤️
@@LifeasaMommy My gym is in my garage so I feel like I’m trapped! Lol. But I just started going physically to work on Thursdays and Fridays and even that helps me a lot. We need some time away from the kids. So I def feel you girl.
Hugs mama everythings gonna be ok , boys are a handful they are so active than girls,can we have leo's vlog because I'm laughing his so funny 😂😂
You are such a good vlogger that you don’t have to worry about the kids making noise in the background. Your subscribers don’t mind. We know you are a great mommy. Life is frustrating with kids at times but they grow up so fast and you don’t even remember the rough times. Hang in there. You will get through all of it.
Oh my gosh your husband at the end !!! 😂😂😂😂 I love it !!! I am a mom of 6 and I will say this to all young moms …raising kids is a roller coaster, it has its ups and downs and it can happen within minutes. Hang on for the ride ! Every stage has its good and bad but you will get through it!! I know you’re a Christian so lots of prayers to God helps and he will give you the strength and wisdom you need ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Mom of two boys. They are for sure built different! I feel harder then girls
First to comment and watch.
I've missed your adorable family
My baby is 7 months and omg he has been my hardest!!! I think it’s because it’s my first boy or idk but he is way more needy than my daughters
Your kids are so cute 🥰
I feel you Abe😊I have also 2 boys,7&9 years old..Its crazy sometimes but Im happy with them around..Keep it up❤️Lol❤️
Amelia is growing fast
Yes,
I know it's hard but sometimes you gotta let them fall so they learn from it 😔.
I'm a single mom with no help (my sons "dad" isn't involved). It gets so hard and you get so overwhelmed but remember there is going to come a time with they won't be so little anymore 💛
Kids are a lot for sure love them but they are a lot hang in there mama
Hey queen!!!!😭😭
It's hard with three young kids always try to keep them entertained maybe put a video on for them. Do you have a water table maybe take them outside to play in the water table. Glad you are back🌺
Abby please make more videos
I've been watching your videos since 2018
Kami the miss little Sunshine is way too matured then her elder Sister . Go go Kami ❤ my nieces and nephews just adores kami . Keep Growing little Kami .
Hey Abby good afternoon and everyone reading this comment
omgg I haven't watched u in 2 years Amelia growed up 😢
Seems like you might have postpartum depression. I feel badly for all the moms that struggle with that.
Prayers for you 🙏
Mine is opposite. My son is the sweetest chillest baby and now big kid. My daughter is two and DRIVES ME CRAZY! I’m like girl do you have an off button 😂😂
I Love you guys So Much you Have 3 Kids 2 Girls and one boy We Love So beautiful Your Family Sis 😘😘😘😘
Not all boys are like that. Of course when they are little they can be like that but for the most part my boy was always mostly chill. He’s now 9. But you got this. They won’t be small for long. 💗💗
Leo has to learn too
I have a 2 year old boy and 6 year old girl and yes they are exactly like leo and kami. I am always saying no.no.no lol. Boys are no doubt different
Also amelie looks soo big noww 💕
Love from Meghalaya 💖 India
I feel you cause i have a 5 and half years old boy and twin girls aged 2, i'm getting like crazy gorilla sometimes. Like today for exp they opened the fridge and broke all of the eggs 🥚yee so my god help us to raise them well and give us patience
, sending love from Algeria
I haven’t watched you in a while and I can’t get over how grown up Amelie is! She’s talking and acting so maturely it blows my mind
I have two boys and two girls. Honestly it's just a boy thing. I think boys are harder when they're younger and easier when they're older and girls are easier when they're younger and harder when they're older.
I had commented before
But girl my boy is about Leo’s age
He is 20 months
And let me tell you he does all those things
My husband works crazy hours I am in duty 24/7 with him
I stopped taking my 4 year old to the library, I stopped planning long drives alone
I just try to keep it as simple as possible because with him it is very very hard!
Boys are wild
I am so drained
I am taking him to moms morning our next fall for few hours in the morning
So he can socialize and liberate some energy
I am also signing him up for soccer in fall
Cause he needs everything
My mom's car was in a really bad wreck in 2018
Hey girl so I’m pregnant with a baby girl and I was wondering if you can send me a list of the best baby girl items thanks girl you can write back anytime
I'd much rather the raw real vlogs. I'm sure all us mummies know exactly what it's like. And sometimes it's good to know other mums are going through the same thing. Xx
Pls be careful when leaving ur purse in the cart. Cuz the second u turn to get something someone can take it
🌼Hi Abigail! Glad you are doing well! Yes! You definitely have your hands full. Your kids are great smart kids! 👍You are a great mom and you must believe that! Stay strong and empowered because as you feel overwhelmed the children sense it and then you have troubles! I am not an expert but I believe in discipline and NO must be meant and explained. Children are smart they know! They test…and see where they can push so that you feel overwhelmed or weakened as the parent. Leo is very competitive for your attention with the girls! He will be fine…careful when you discipline that you don’t coddle and give double messages. He may get confused and think it’s okay to do naughty things. Not an expert and fortunate to have one precious child! Not perfect either! Much easier than three!
I think it’s great that you are finding time for yourself to workout and have free moments!
YOU GOT THIS! The LORD never gives you more than you can handle! HE IS WITH YOU!
Thank you for your video…I am sure it was much work to get it done!
🌼Bless you with GRACE!🕊
YOU Look fabulous too!👍
Lol. I have a 5, 2 and soon to be 1 yrd old. I'm going back to school. No babysitter... no 2nd ride. Bf working 8 to 5 . I'm stressed!!!!!!!!!! 1
I know you prob won't do this but maybe u will and trust me when I say it helps. Maybe 3 times a week while the girls r at school just put him in a daycare for that time. It will refresh you like you never imagined and that time alone makes u a better mom trust me. Quality time not quantity time.
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