I don't like my nose job anymore (wanting a revision rhinoplasty)
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- sorry if this is a little repetitive! i do feel like i need to apologize for not really liking my face/nose anymore and if you've had any surgery (especially nose job) before i would be really interested to know if you've felt this way as well. it's definitely harder with social media and seeing so many perfect people with perfect results so maybe i'm not the only one?? idk i'm just screaming into the void here
(also my camera is a bit fuzzy and i can't figure out why so if there are any canon experts here....help me please)
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Obviously there's no way for me to judge, but from what you're saying it really doesn't sound like getting a revision will fix your insecurities! In your original nose job video, you mentioned that people had been making fun of your nose a lot and how much that hurt you, and I think that must have been quite traumatic to go through?? So it's only natural that you're still always very aware of what your nose looks like - and like with everything else, if you think about/look at something too much, it's bound to start appearing weird to you. I think your relationship with your nose might have turned into something similar to how people with body dysmorphia feel about their body. It's very obvious that your nose is NOT big or weird-looking in any way!! Of course you can do whatever you want, but to me it very much seems like the problem is not in how your nose looks, but rather in how you've learned to look at your nose, which would mean that getting another surgery done would not fix anything.
This was perfectly said!
EXACTLY! Well said.
You’re diagnosing her now? Are you a psychologist/psychiatric that sat with her?
I’ve had 2 nose jobs and I’m still deeply unhappy with mine & sometimes tempted to get a 3rd one, even though people tell me it looks good. It’s a body dysmorphia problem, not a physical problem trust me. I’m not gonna tell you what to do with your life but therapy has helped rebuild my self esteem 10x more than either surgery ever did. It might be something worth looking into! I personally think your money would be MUCH better spent there than on another surgery. I’m sure my opinion doesn’t mean much but I genuinely think you have a great result from your rhinoplasty. It’s perfect for your face, like you’re seriously so beautiful!
100% agree!
You really dont need a revision! Your nose looks so good on you and fits your face. Maybe just get a revision septoplasty for the breathing but please don’t change the shape. I got mine done twice and now I regret it so so so much. Lots of love from Italy babe xoxo
why? im getting a revision, mine was supossed to be only a septoplasty but my dr decided to change my shape bc my tip was bulbous and my dorso was so thin,,. now i have a mega dorso with a tiny tip… im so depressed :(
She can do whatever she wants. Your regret does not apply to everyone.
Im so proud of you for talking about this. I had no idea you felt this way
I thought the same thing!!
I got my nose done last year and before that I was so insecure of my angles and everyone kept telling me it’s fine, but those ppl don’t get to deal with the emotions that we go through. So do whatever that makes you happy❤️
Omg thank you. I sometimes force myself into these self conscious loops in which I beat myself down into a desperate state, and lose the total concept of how I actually look.
But for what it’s worth, your nose looks awesome on you. You look genuinely beautiful.
If you're in a spiral of self hatred, a nose job isn't going to fix you. You need to see a therapist.
Therapists aren't plastic surgeons. Your therapist can't change an area of the body you want fixed.
I had a rhino/septoplasty done around the same time as you, and I feel like most people who go through this procedure also go through a whole rollercoaster of emotions about it. You're totally not alone in this. The healing process is not only physical but also mental! The eurocentric button nose ideal has social media by the THROAT and it's so so hard to not let that cloud your self perception if the results aren't 100% what you see on other "perfect" people. It's your decision whether or not you pursue a revision, but as other commenters have said I would recommend looking into therapy to help you work through your trauma from the bullying. This decision should be for your own happiness and peace, not to temporarily silence insecurities. Anyway I'm glad that you're still keeping us updated on how you're doing
Hey girl! I am going through the same thing as you are. What you are feeling and saying is exactly what I have felt with insecurity, regret, and guilt after surgery. I got plastic surgery and completely regretted it! (later realizing I have body dysmorphia which is something I wish I knew before I got surgery). It's tough because even if people say you are beautiful it doesn't change the way you think if yourself. One thing I wish someone would have told me is that your worth is not based on your appearance. That your identity is not in a physical feature. You are worth so much more. Stay strong! I'll be praying for you!
You should read psycho-cybernetics it’s the science on self image and why plastic surgery or weight loss sometimes won’t change a persons actual perception about themselves … great self help book on awareness it blew my mind. Great business book too
ooh i will take a look at it, thank you for the recommendation!! :)
Thank u for being so honest! We need more people like u on social media. U really don't need to apalogize for it. We change over time and see ourself different ever time we grow in life, and it doesn't mean that if u liked it then, u should like it now. U should do what feels best for u!
Hey Girl , I have gone through nose job too .. one thing we need to keep in our mind is that we need to be realistic and no nose is perfect and even a perfect nose can't give us a perfect face.. what matters the most is it should blend with other facial features... u looks great honestly.. like a barbie ... and u know what we can't make all happy ..n that's ok..what matters the most is self love n love of ur loved ones since its eternal n pure... GO GIRl:)
Girl your nose looks good!! Plastic surgery is meant for improvement not perfection. Compare your old nose to your current nose, don't even look at girls with small noses because we all know comparison is the thief of joy. We all have imperfections, please do not take your imperfect traits and compare it with someone else's prefect traits. This is a recipe for unhappiness. Someone with a perfect nose might not have your beautiful eyes!! Perfection cannot be achieved by 99.9% of human beings. You are already very pretty. Do not ruin your confidence because of the nose.
I really like your nose 💗 I genuinely think its beautiful and really fits your face. I hate that society has brainwashed society. Small tiny noses are not the only beautiful noses.
dont get a revision... you say you cant breathe as well now. Dont you realize youll breathe even worse if you get your nose made EVEN SMALLER? your nose looks fine. its not big at all. I had a nose job when i was 17 and it made my already shitty breathing even worse. I had to get a second one bc i couldnt BREATHE. the second one didnt do what it needed to so now a need a third for my breathing. and geuss what? my third surgeon said that in order to open my airway, he will have to make my nose MORE PROJECTED from the side. a smaller nose is not a realistic goal for you. please dont push your luck.
Ugh I wish you could see from our POV how beautiful you are! I actually think your nose is soooo cute!
omg girl, you are so beautiful and courageous for being honest abt something as vulnerable as this, thank you and I hope you see the beauty of your face one day like i and how others do (even the haters bc theyre just envious smh)
Your nose looks fantastic. I’m in my 5th month and I hate it right now.
You are genuinely soooo beautiful, the nose is perfect in my opinion
Aaah it makes me so sad to hear you say all this stuff. You’re so gorgeous and your nose suits you perfectly. I feel like your insecurities won’t go away just bc of a revision it’s something way deeper than that. I know my opinion is literally irrelevant and at the end of the day you obviously will do whatever you want, but just my two cents 🤷🏽♀️ you’re stunning and you don’t need anything done. When you turned to the side I was actually surprised at how good your nose looks. No matter what you get done you will always get horrible negative people commenting rn they’ll say your nose is too big but they’ll be the same ones commenting after your revision that your nose is too small.
You’re BEAUTIFUL. You’re so pretty, girl. Your nose is gorgeous omg. Anyone who would ever say or think such a thing is definitely jealous of you fr.
I just did a nose job like 5 days ago, and after my doc visit today. I found myself in youtube writing "not satisfied after a nose job" in the search box. And I know well you can't judge a nose job after just days it takes almost a year for swelling to recover completzly. You are not alone girl. I wish I have the ability to love myself back then, now and anytime. Idk what is making it hard for me to just be happy. Be content. I hope for the next months to bring me more self love. Praying for you too! Whatever your decision is, know you're beautiful and loved no matter what you look like.
been following you since the initial nose job video and girl i am so proud of u for speaking ur mind. do what makes u feel best, that’s what most important ❤️
I know it doesn't matter how many times different people tell you that you don't need another nose job, and I don't mean to add onto that, but I genuinely believe your nose is more than perfect! You mentioned your nostrils and all these tiny things that bother you but I think that's what makes it look "natural." You mentioned wanting to fit in with everyone else and I think you do! You have a very beautiful nose/face and it makes me sad to hear you think otherwise.
I don't usually comment on videos and kinda just lurk around. If you find this comment intrusive/offensive please let me know I'll delete it. Sending much love to you!
no it's not intrusive at all! i really appreciate all of these comments and i'm reading them all (even if i don't reply to everything i am always watching hehe) it's nice to see what people think about the subject and how some people are sharing their own stories too. my hope really is that if anyone else ever feels this way, these comments will kind of transfer over/resonate with them as well, so even when you are addressing me i like to see it as addressing really anyone who is struggling and stumbles upon this. it's an open forum here :)
@@NicoleSauls you're absolutely lovely
I think because of this global pandemic, worsened mental health, anxiety, and insecurities are at an all time high for most people. I don't know if you can relate but I know I'm sure feeling it. You're stunning and I think your nose looks perfect. (:
How pretty do you want to be????? None of us are perfect and you’re absolutely gorgeous idk what more it’s going to take to please you smh
Sending you support just know that I am painfully insecure about my body. To me it feels like id have a nose a million times bigger than urs to have ur body. Know that ur not alone in feeling insecure. Good luck in getting ur surgery 💓
As a fellow person with a big nose , my tip to every woman who feels self conscious about her nose being too big is, 1. Think about your family and your ancestors. Think about how this is not just a nose, this is a relic of the past and of your ancestors. Think of your family and how you carry their legacy in your face-features. 2. This particular girl in the video , from where I stand she has perfectly simetrical face. See how big her eyes are and how this nose looks absolutely in harmony with the proportions of the face. If you put a tiny nose on a face that doesn't automatically make the face beautiful. The human eye likes symmetry
3. Remind yourself of the beautiful women with unique noses/features. Remind your brain how beauty is more than your nose, eyes or whatever else. It's how you present yourself , how you treat others around and how you communicate with the world. A kind person who is easy to get along with and presentable on the outside will always be better at life than simply one with a stereotypically "perfect for the era" face
This is actually one of the best nose jobs I’ve ever seen. Looks stunning from the front and the side profile. 🤗
I’ve always wanted a rhinoplasty I just fear the price and bad surgeons but yeah if u feel like getting a revision is going to bring back ur confidence go do it! Love ur side profile btw 😊 I can’t stand my side profile
i'm so surprised to hear this bc i follow you on insta and was literally just admiring your nose!! its so interesting how different self perception vs the perception of others can differ
gurl your nose look soo pretty you dont need nose jobb
@@NicoleSauls and this is exactly how we are qdmiring ur features too. What an unfair world isnt it XD everyone sees us as normal and pretty exept ourselves
I think we have almost identical stories. Throughout middle school and high school I was severely bullied for my nose. I got a nose job at 16, I’m 21 now. After I got it done I wasn’t completely happy with it, but at least I was able to blend in better (you said it perfectly). I wasn’t happy with how my nose looked slightly pinched and the columnela (idk how to spell it lol) was too low. Also, I can’t breathe out of my left nostril as well as I used to. It’s like 30% / 70% for me. I also got a fat transfer to my chin at the same time I got my rhinoplasty (it looks like your chin is fine though).
I considered getting a revision rhinoplasty early on, but after 2-3 years it finally settled to something I liked and now I never think about my nose. Sitting in class before my rhinoplasty, I used to feel so insecure about people looking at me from the side. It was all I ever thought about 24/7. I also examined everyone’s nose around me, thinking to myself “I would literally trade my nose with any one of these people”.
I just wanted to share my story with you because I’ve been subscribed to you since you posted your rhinoplasty video, and I was just always surprised by the similarities in our stories. You also mentioned having a phase where you wanted to look like ariana grande and I literally tried to look like her for a good year or two in high school lol.
If you want to get a revision rhinoplasty to feel more comfortable with yourself, I completely support that. However I would do a lot of research because I read that you may develop too much scar tissue after a second time and your nose could look worse (not trying to convince you not to get it, it’s just good to know!) but there are some great revision surgeons who know what they’re doing. When I was considering a revision I also thought maybe I just have body dysmorphia but with my nose.
Thank you so much for sharing your story, it comforts me to know that there’s someone out there like me who not only got bullied for their nose but got a rhinoplasty at a very young age. I’ve always loved your videos and would be so happy to see you post more :)
this is such a beautiful comment thank you so much for sharing this! it's really comforting to know that i'm not the only person that has ever felt this way and interesting to see how the standards changed from wanting to blend in to picking apart much smaller things
also just realized! maybe it's just me but i think part of the reason i wanted to mimic ariana grande so much is because during that time period (for me it was like 2012-2014ish) she was known for being cutesy and petite, which were both things that i really wanted to be, and felt like my nose was too big and overpowering so i tried to counteract that. i felt that if people associated me with her they would forget the things that stood out about me!
i agree that there could be some form of dysmorphia and my skin scars soooo bad (as i realized after i got my nose done) so a revision would definitely be a decision i need to think a lot more about, especially since i know the cost would be crazy for me (and maybe that's good because it means i can't make a rush decision lol) and i do NOT have like $15k lying around
but again thank you so much for your comment, it means so much to me that you took the time to write that! :) and also thank you for your continued support during my on and off video posting periods lol
hi, i don’t normally read comments (especially long ones lol) but i feel so comforting when people have similar stories to you and this comment helped me a lot in some way. thank you.
Girl… I’m brutally honest , you nose fits your so well! Don’t de a revision wtf… you gonna end up with some small piggy nose if you do. When you mess with you nose, you mess with other features ! You are literally gorgeous ! Lmao i love you nose .. as an Asian person we want noses like yours !
Nah sis ur right, I’m Asian and would kill for her nose
i relate to what u said abt being insecure abt ur face but believe me and other ppl who are telling u that u are so fucking beautiful and it’s not abt ur nose it’s abt ur confidence
Your nose is perfectly fine and refined. Surgery isn’t a quick fix that you can rely on to fix you’re insecurities. You’re still so young and good looking, there’s no reason why you need another elective surgery that may possibly go bad. What if you have another surgery and you’re still not satisfied? Plenty of people feel ugly everyday. It’s not surgery’s job to make you secure; that’s a journey you need to have with yourself.
You are sooooo pretty...i dont even think you know how gorgeous you look and I really wish you could see that...i dont even see an issue in your nose and I really hope you manage to get through this girl...i hate seeing such a beautiful girl think less of herself😔
I saw your side profile and it’s literally perfect. You can get all the plastic surgery in the world but if you have issues with yourself mentally, you will never be better until you address the problem. There are people with no limbs that are happy with life. Its because they have healthy mindset and they are grateful for everything. Look at images of people that are actually deformed. Not only are you not deformed, but you’re genuinely gorgeous. I used to have awful self esteem and I unhealthily obsessed over Instagram models. I unfollowed them and I got so much better. It’s the comparison that is the root of all evil. People look at the blessings that God has given other people and they become ungrateful toward the blessings that God has given them
Your current nose is beautiful 🥺
your nose still looks amazing on you! I’ve always loved it! again, usually ppl say not to get a nose job twice or at least a full one…I think you can fix the breathing/ nostril problem for sure if you’d like but overall your nose looks fine just like years ago (: !! wish u the best Nicole xx
You don’t need surgery. You are beautiful! You need intense therapy.
I’m in a similar boat girl. My nose is huge and I hate it so much but can’t really afford a nose job. I never want to leave the house either :(. But your nose looks so pretty and it hasn’t grown back?? Like to me your nose doesn’t look big at all! We’re so much harder on ourselves tbh. If you want a revision nose job that’s fine but maybe you have body dismorphia. And should talk to a therapist because I’ve been told to get one bc of how insecure I am over my face.
girl your nose looks so good on you it’s literally perfect
I literally understand you since I have the same insecurity but girl in my opinion you're such an angel, you're beautiful and you're worth :(
Don't change for the world, the stereotypes and the standards, if you want to change do it for yourself.
I'm excat same situation, same nostrils, these videos help, as all I see on insta is "perfect" nose jobs!! And it's frustrating, I totally relate to the insecurities around it, and no one will understand unless they have gone through this!!! 🙏
Girl do whatever makes you feel good! Its not wrong to feel like a revision of any plastic surgery is needed bc it happens actually a lot. Surgeons arent magicians and sometimes a little more work is needed. Take your time to look for the right dr and see everything that bothers you. Everything will be fine💖
hey! i just wanted to say i really relate to this video. i got a nose job when i was 20. so a little older than when you did, but i started to become unhappy with the results. i realized my nose looked somewhat better than before but it was still not what i wanted. so april 2019 was when i got my surgery and in april 2022 3 years later i decided im getting a revision (like it's scheduleed for april). it sucks because i am paying over double what i payed for my first one now but i feel like i spend so much time just disliking my nose and wishing i had one that people complimented. thats the thing not once have i ever had someone tell me they like my nose :( i can definitely notice a positive difference from certain angles, but like you said there are angles with mine that i think still just are not where i want it to be. and my surgeon also noticed my breathing is off too!! so i'm also getting that fixed. im here for you because i really do understand every word youre saying of this. people are telling me not to get a second one but i just wanna actually look in the mirror and see my nose and like it. im using 2/3 of my savings to get it but im hoping in the end i am happy and it's worth it
Hey! how did turn out your revision rhinoplasty? hope you are happy now 💌💫
As a fellow person with a nose job, it just sounds like you struggle with self-hatred and body dysmorphia. Been there. Getting another rhinoplasty won't fix whatever you actually hate about yourself. Comparing yourself to people with naturally small noses will only negatively impact you.
You are most likely suffering from body dysmorphia. You look absolutely stunning. I had a nose job 7 months ago, I look way better but I’m still struggling with body issues and sometimes I feel like I still have my old nose. I also sometimes feel like people think I’m weird for changing my appearance and I’m being stared at or judged. You do not need a revision. You’re beautiful. Consider seeing a therapist or getting CBT.
I don’t think u need a nose job at all girl. U are beautiful and ur nose fits ur face so well. I truly don’t think u have a big nose, but when did having a “big nose” become a bad thing?? Everyone is different and unique in their own way and that is beautiful. Of course ppl have their own insecurities and only u can decide on what to do about it. But plllllllllleaase really think about this before u do it. I just hope and pray u can see how beautiful u are as u are now..
Girl you're beautiful, don't change anything . Your nose really fits your face. Maybe you can go to someone to help you with your mental health and self confidence ❤️love you and remember your beautiful
Umm hi can I just say YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! I do this all the time, looking at my side profile, and beating my self up. I look at your side profile and I’m jealous!!! It’s so “normal” and that’s all I ever wished for just like you. From someone who isn’t yourself, your nose is so perfect looking it makes me sick 🤣. Please don’t change the looks of it, learn to love yourself more. Of course for medical reasons is okay but I’m telling you, you look gorgeous as is I see nothing “abnormal” about you.
Xoxo,
a relatable 20 year old in California
Wow it’s crazy the timing you put this out because I’m in the same boat. I just had a rhinoplasty 2 weeks ago and I hated my old nose so much i would get comments like “your cute but your nose is too big” or “are you Jewish” and “you’d be prettier if it wasn’t for your nose” I hated going to movie theaters because I had to look straight ahead and the thought of someone looking at my side profile just traumatized me I hated going out I would always try to look at people straight ahead so they wouldn’t see my side profile. It was so draining and mentally exhausting and would spend HOURS just looking at perfect button noses and thinking I wish i had that nose. Now that I got a rhinoplasty I thought it would make me look and feel so good and all my insecurities would go away I was in for a rude awakening Don’t get me wrong I’m not as in secure on my side profile but now I just keep looking at my mirror and recording myself and picking out all the little things I now hate about my new nose and it makes me so sad to think that I probably will never be happy about my nose (or how I look) I don’t know what to do I want to possibly get a revision done but my worst fear is not liking it again 😔
I don’t think you’re asking for our opinions necessarily but girl another nose job is NOT going to help with this at all. The first nose job helped temporarily, and that’s exactly what a second nose job is going to do. This is literally how plastic surgery addiction starts and it’s really scary
I am going through the exact same thing. I want to get a revision done because of how insecure I am of my nose. Other people see our noses differently than we do! I notice every detail of my nose and I hate certain parts! I look at myself and I don’t feel as confident as I felt when my nose was still healing two years. My nose definitely looked better then! I’m so sorry you experience this too! It’s heartbreaking to dislike a part of ourselves but this is our life! It’s hard to be confident when there’s something we just don’t like or can’t seem to like about ourselves! You’re beautiful just the way you are but as someone who’s going through the same thing, I understand you! You look at more details of your nose more than we do. You know yourself and what you want your nose to look like! So ultimately it is your choice! I support you in whatever you decide to do! I’m glad you seem to be doing research about revision specialists in case you make that choice to get a revision! I wish you the best of luck and a great future ahead of you! I’m hoping everything will work out for you!
Oh nooo sweetie, please please dont be mad at yourself for feeling what youre feeling!! I think youre a beautiful person and your nose really fits you!! However, noone can truly understand one of they are not in their shoes. Do whatever makes you happy and confident!!
No one is ever gonna zoom so closely on your nose to see the flaws you see. Your nose looks good on you and you really don't need to change anything about it
Hey nicole merve here :) i remember watching u as a little girl and thinking ur the most beautiful girl ever, 4 years later I still do. From your nose to your eyes to your voice everything is jaw dropping. But sadly in this world we cant see ourselves how others see us and these words will be useless. I have been going trough the same thing with bullying and wanting to get surgery. Gonna get my forehead and jaw done this may, cuz i feel too insecure to post on ig yt or stream on twitch, but I know deep down its not these two things on my face that are wrong but its severe bodydysmorphia ingrained from the moment that people started bullying me, you went thru the same and i think both of us can relate to after that just bullying ourself and being consious about the part we dont like 24/7. Its kinda the same situation as overweight people that lose weight and still feel like 'that fat person'. Ur not the plastic surgery girl and ur also not the nose girl, you are just yourself and wathever decisions you make dont take away from your value. And im not the one to judge but I feel like problem was never with your nose but it has been just very deeply rooted after all the bullying trauma. I always feel rude reccomendjng things like this but maybe theraphy will do wonders for you. Sometimrs you dont need to change your appearance but really take the problem deep at the root and try to see the possibilities from there. You have probably googled stuff and heard something similar many times. Just me saying this wont change your mind but with 100% no cap I find your nose small and even think it could be a bit bigger. The person who made that shitty comment is just doing anything to advocate against plastic surgery, ya nose did not get 'bigger' at all your face just matured into looking like an adult rather than a 16 yo girl.
All I can say is if you really think this will help u pls go for it but wether u do it or not dont forget to take care of the problem from the root. May you find peace with yourself and one day see yourself how 14 yo me saw u back then, the most stunning
Role model in the world :))
ALSO WHAT THE HECK I WAS REPLAYING THE PART I MISSED AND BAKSSJDNSJS UR SIDE PROFILE BESTIE HOLYSHITTTT, IM LEGIT GETTING SURGERY W THE GOAL OF HAVING A SIDE PROFILE THAT GORGEOUS.
me absolutely crying because i remember you so well and how i always had trouble remembering how to pronounce your name and how you supported me so much and this means soooo much to me 🥺 thank you so much i really really hope you are doing so great :)
I wish I could show you my boyfriends nose. He was born with a cleft lip and pallet, he’s had 2 nose jobs but his nose is still very uneven. He’s had to deal with people telling him he looks like he was punched in the face, or just flat out telling him he’s ugly! He’s still so very handsome to me and other women. Nobody is analyzing your nose outside of UA-cam, or judging you like you think they are. Confidence is sexy and just accepting yourself for what you look like now is key. Everyone is walking around with insecurities and most you don’t notice. You don’t have to look perfect to be confident
You're beautiful ! Don't listen to people's hurtful comments.
OMG noooo your nose is so beautiful ❤ You’re perfect ❤
Hi Nicole! I really appreciate your transparency with all of this! I know it’s different when you’re looking at your face/nose vs when someone else is, but this is the first video i’m seeing of yours and you are so beautiful! Noses are so tough in general and I think yours looks amazing!!!! I think it suits your face so well!
If you are considering a revision for cosmetic reasons, I would try nose filler first at the top of your bridge to “take away” some of the projection (I think I heard that’s what you don’t love…and adding filler to the top part of your nose could help that)? It will also give you some time to see what a newer nose would look like while still being able to reverse it!
keep us posted!
I think your nose looks good. Genuinely. I had a revision rhinoplasty to correct pollybeak deformity and now I have it even worse. I am devastated and can not afford a third procedure.
You are beautiful. Your nose fits your face and it looks so natural. I think your nose job was a good decision.
Like many people said already you dont need a second nosejob!! Your nose looks very natural and its well shaped,please dont change it,I had a nosejob 5 years ago and Im not completely happy with it beacuse its too small compared with my old nose ,I hope it would grow a bit!!!! But Im not gonna go for a second one ,its fun beacuse many people at work told me I have a very pretty nose😂dont get obsessed with it it looks lovely!
i relate to you so much…😭😭i remember first watching your rhinoplasty video when i was 14 as i also hated my nose so much… i was bullied for my nose as it was very bulbous and just didn’t suit my face. i think i inherited my dad’s nose as my mum’s is so beautiful and perfect, which is what i wanted mine to look like. i have been wanting a rhinoplasty for years (i am now 18, 19 in december). i literally don’t leave the house and everyone is off to university making friends, while i took a gap year just for a rhinoplasty.
4 weeks ago today i finally got my rhinoplasty. i am still unsure why but my cast was kept on for 3 weeks (maybe because i have thick skin?) so i was so anxious waiting for it to come off so i could see. i got the cast removed last week and… i hate it.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭at first when it was swollen i thought that it was okay (which is strange because usually people hate the way it looks swollen) but as the swelling has went down, it looks nothing like i imagined it to be. it doesn’t look like my mum’s nose and the tip is still odd looking. i am sure if it’s because i have lost loads of weight (due to the surgery and just generally being depressed) and so my nose appears bigger because my face is sunken in, but i just hate it. it does look different but not different enough for me to be happy with it. as i am the one looking at it every day, i needed the change to be noticeable to me but it just doesn’t look like it’s changed enough. i appreciate that my surgeon made it natural looking but i just don’t think it suits me still. i cannot stop crying, staring at myself all day long, it’s ridiculous. it’s literally taking over my life. i am already looking at revision surgery ONE WEEK after cast removal. what is wrong with me? i feel so stupid and just don’t know what to do. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
the timing of your video is so weird as i have been searching for others’ experiences and you posted this around the time when i got the surgery. so sorry you also feel the way i do, i hope we figure this out and can finally be happy.💕💕
im so sorry to hear this, how are you feeling now?
Hope you are happy now
@@akshita950 hope you’re well. still the same but a lot better, i am still obsessing over it but i have learned that i am obsessing over a lot of things about myself x
@@chunis thanks so much, hope you’re well. i am trying my best at accepting myself, i am going to wait until it’s been a year since my surgery and see how i feel x
@@jesss4234 how are you now ?Iam feeling like you did Iam 2weeks off cast removal and can’t look at my self so mad at my self for doing the surgery please need update does it get better?? Help
U literally inspired me to get a nose job at 16 ...i hate it now
stop looking at yourself so much in the mirror. we tend to pick at ourselves when we’ do that. your nose is fine. if you do it again it’ll look like khloe kardashians nose, she’s gotten one too many. the nose always ends up looks wonky. leave it alone.
Your nose is excellent and actually very beautiful. Don’t get the revision! It’s all in your head
im sorry but your nose is divine
You’re a beautiful young lady. I totally understand wanting a revision. It’s your body and your life. If you get a revision go to someone really good…double board certified (as an ENT and a Plastic surgeon). Your breathing issues sound legitimate to need surgery. I myself had rhinoplasty and a chin implant. I kind of preferred my old chin to the one I have now. The smaller chin is more youthful and feminine. Anyway, definitely do your research if you proceed and possibly discuss with a therapist any issues with body dysmorphia. I struggle with it too some days. It’ll be 2 years since my surgery in October and I finally have adjusted to the changes I’ve made.
I think you need to make peace with your nose. Revision or not. Because the concern is that even if you get a revision..if your looking at your nose from a place of hate or distaste you will not ever see a good nose no matter what. I have limpedema and this has resulted in not "normal legs"..there is not much I can do about it. I had to make peace with my legs..I still don't wear shorts and dresses and skirts only with tights. But I learned to be make peace that no matter what my legs will not look "normal". Inner peace is most important.
Did you take the COVID-19 vaccine for yourself?
As a person on the outside, your nose doesn’t stand out when I look at your face. I notice your beautiful eyes, cute face and lips, and pretty hair. And when I examine your current nose, it’s also cute, complements your face, tip doesn’t droop, it’s a wonderful shape looking at your profile.
Don’t let these jealous people on here mess with your insecurities.
your side profile is so pretty
Women have different types of looks, some are innocent and pixie like, some are strong and sexy like Wonder Woman and that’s your look! No your nose isn’t small but it is not over sized at all. It’s very strong and beautiful. The shape is wonderful. It’s very natural. I’m not sugar coating it or trying to say something nice to make you feel better. I’m wanting to tell you something realistic. I wish I had your whole face, nose included.
I know that even tho many people can tell you your beautiful and perfect the way you are that might not change your mind...but please don't be sad ...ill say a prayer for you God made you beautiful please don't compare yourself to anyone your a original beauty of your own...God be with you and bless you. 🙏
I'm so sorry you're going through this! Self image is a bitch, and when you go through the trauma of being bullied for your physical appearance, it becomes really hard not to base your entire self-image on your physical appearance.
If you were bullied for so long because your nose was big, you're always going to associate a big nose with all of that trauma, so there's no need to feel ashamed or apologize for how you feel. Bullying can leave lasting wounds.
Of course you can and SHOULD do whatever you want with your body. But I think that healing those internal wounds will go a long way. Cause surgery can't heal those wounds.
But It can be a great way to make a change that YOU want if it will make you happy! So whatever you decide we support you and your happiness 🤗🤗🤗.
Girl you look amazing and your nose perfect!🥺
Im considered to have a relatively small nose since my childhood, anyways I was talking to a friend of mine a month ago and she somehow made me think otherwise lol!!!
I started observing my nose ever since but then stopped coz I remembered she’s very self conscious about hers so I shouldn’t really consider anything she says.
i just saw this when i’m thinking abt getting a nose job at 16 and now this 😭 idk i feel like this a sign because i watched ur video like 2 years ago as well
You look beautifull in this nose
Its suites on ur face
There is no gurante of revision.
Healing process is long.
It can get worst look
Hi Nicole, you look pretty. Some are sensitive on the inside and easily feel hurt, that is not something that you can cure that with surgery.
-Talk back if they are opinionated - this is very important. You are allowed to, in fact it is your responsibility to defend yourself. Or give it a rest and let things subside if it was you yourself who was being aggressive and consequently suffered backlash.
These two makes a big difference.
/Advice from a fellow oyster, hard on the outside but soft on the inside.
going through the EXACT same thing, i totally feel you. I’m definitely getting a chin implant in the near future - have you decided if you want to do that with your revision?
1:16 this sound psychological. If this is the basis for you considering a revision it won't fix anything.
Your nose is fine!
You look really cute, no revision needed
This is what happens when you don't work on loving yourself before deciding to get surgery. People think that surgery will immediately fix everything both physical and mental but it's just not the case.
I see a nose that’s very cute and fits your face very well. Your a beautiful girl. Don’t compare yourself to these girls with tiny little noses that wouldn’t look right on your face. You have big beautiful eyes with full lips that even make your nose look even smaller. Your nose fits perfectly!! I don’t think you need revision at all.
Hi love this is coming in so late after you posted, but I wanted to send you a hug. I’ve been where you are in terms of how I perceive my nose. It’s exhausting keeping up with the angles and always being aware of it. But I wanted to ask whether you had looked into bdd at all? And maybe tried seeing a psychologist about this? The way you spoke about it was heartbreaking. I’ve seen a lot of ppl go through multiple surgeries but they will never be satisfied because the problem stems from a dismorphic mindset. Especially since it’s affecting your daily life and causing you so much stress and not wanting to go outside. It wouldn’t hurt to get some support on that and that way you can go into any future decisions or surgeries knowing that you are fully informed and are well taken care of mental health wise too 💖
You are such a beautiful girl, Nicole - even before and after your rhinoplasty. I truly mean that. Your nose has nothing to do with your beauty - you seem so sweet, and you have amazing skin, eyes, lips and hair. There is nothing wrong with your nose or your face, and when I write this I want you to know I am writing this out of love: please do not do a revision. I know from experience that surgery is not a quick fix. Please consult a therapist and work through these insecurities of yours instead, your future you will thank you. After both a failed rhinoplasty and revision I can truly say that my nose was never the problem, my mind and people around me was. Please reconsider, and do not forget how lovely you are. Much love
I never had the money to get a nose job which basically forced me to stay with the nose I hated. At first it was torture but during the lockdown I spent a year away from people and their judgement. I got to look more into why I hate my nose and it uncovered more issues under the surface that I wasnt even aware of, mainly the fact that every opinion i had of myself was formed by another person. A year alone meant a new take on myself with no judgement, and yes there are things I want to change (like fitness) but now my appearance is made for me instead of other people. My life would'nt have changed with rhinoplasty.
Please don't do it again!!!
You look beautiful. I like your nose. It is beautiful. Those little details you see it alone. Nobody sees what you see. You are a very beautiful girl you don't need ANYTHING trust me
I think your nose looks good!!
Shhh shush!!! Look at you!!! You look perfect, you are so beautiful. It's noones business to give you advice, and tell you what to do or not, you'll do whatever that feels right. 🥰🥰
Maybe try therapy. Because it seems like it’s you over thinking and even if it because of what people think why should you care about people think like you’re a real pretty girl. I am sorry if this is an unwanted opinion and I can delete it
Your profile is perfect I carnt belive they said to get a chin implant, theu obviously don't know about feminine features, your nose isn't big and from what I can tell the simatry is amazing, I think it would be damaging to your appearance to have anything done, if I was a girl I would want to look like you, you give off buffy the vampire slayer vibes
I'm in the same boat! 13 months post op and HATE my nose because my nose is still big. So excited for my revision next year.
your nose is soo pretty and I love your side profile soo much plz dont operate dont listen to these ugly trolls the troll dont even have profil pic,people will always tell you hurtful things no matter what even if you get another surgery. On instagram I see these ppl bullying other mostly these ppl dont even post a picture about themselves bcz in reality they are the ones with big insecurities or just ugly not clean not taking care about themselves wasting their time on bullying bcz they are miserable taking 10 min of their life commenting things that will lead them one step closer to hell . social media is fake pictures are photoshop and filtered what is pretty to someone might not be pretty to somebody else, just like when you like someone the other person might tell you what do see in that person. Beauty is subjectif ppl will always judge no matter what ppl are jealous of you maybe because of your boyfriend, who knows. dont take their words into your heart. I know how you feel I know that feeling so well. thats why I tell you unfollow ppl that make you feel insecure about yourself. and block those trolls . also the camera of phone take the nose too closely .
“Do not let their words sadden you.” (Quran 10:65)
You are inspiring to put yourself out there like this. Thank you.
It is your nose and if you want to get a revision, you do you.
Rude comments are from bullies. Consider the source.
Can I just say, I had my original rhinoplasty at age 15 and I was sooooooo happy about it!! Until some people along the way said it was still big. I’m 35 and I just had a revision rhinoplasty a little over 2 weeks ago and I completely regret it. Think about why you want to do it. If it’s for you, do it! But if it’s cause some people said it’s this or that, please don’t.
Look at Hailey Bieber’s nose. If she can have the life she leads with her nose, I think it’s so inspiring
Girl you are gorgeous and your nose looks proportional to your face. If you go for one more nose job you gonna look like Michael Jackson. Don't do it! If you have breathing problems you can do the surgery inside of your nose that fixes the issue. It is not cosmetic btw