I was sometimes ashamed of my ralstionship, but now I am so comfortable with my new man, 5 years younger than myself, he supported me throughout my post divorce trauma, I love n respect him a lot.
Its funny because back in 2018 I met my Girlfriend whom we currently dating , she is 39 this year and 25 and we are happily together nonethe less I've experienced a lot ey we have each other's back and she has changed me a lot with everything and I look at life differently ever since
I'm in love with my husband I'm 28 years old and he's 37years old si happy njani nganeyakwethu nd we planing to have children because I don't have he has 1 on his own
I've dated an older guy, he was my mom's age. He was giving me problems, he wanted to own me and I couldn't take it so I decided to leave him. I found another one now, I just hope he will be able to understand that I'm younger than him and I have a life. Ngikhathele ontanga bandla bayakhathaza!!!
I married a man 13yrs older than me but he behaved like a 16 year old.he never saw me as a partner but as a child and he referred to me as such" lo mtana".
I am not married but he's 13 yrs older, He behave like a 15 yrs boy and akaboniseki he is so stubborn..... Akakwazi ngisho kuXolisa me wrong @@noncebasokupha8716
I like this conversation...bcz it teach izinto besingekho aware ngazo...tx guyz...i would like to knw if your partner ikushiya only nge 2yrs for examples u girl huye oshiywa yindoda nge 2yrs...indoda 1982 u girl 1984...bengicela u Dokotela angichazisele lapho..i would like to know abt this gaps ages & whts going on in that couple ages plz
Ngibuya emendweni ( divorced ) there is no way I will bring my emotional baggage to a young guy. No ways. He has to experience life naye. No ways. Anything younger than me or has never been married, andizi.
Uyaphoswa mntase, I am so comfortable with my new man, 5 years younger than myself, he supported me throughout my post divorce trauma, I love n respect him a lot. 😅
@@nodumolupalule5208 enjoy doll😍😍😍 Different strokes for different folks. As I said " I will not " I was not implying everyone should do the same. Kanti he was even your therapist!!! Unhealthy attachment 🤣🤣🤣 Hier kom kaak.
I am in love with a person who is 17 years older than me. I feel like old men go out just to explore and have fun out of their marriage. He goes missing n come back again. I feel tired n used.
Siyafana just it's mine he's seeking attention and affection of which he no more gets from his mate. Nami giving him what he's never got has landed me in polygamy with twins for him.
What's different from old man dating you girl, love is love akulzwamwa amandla la kuyathandwanwa😂 what's different from old man dating young girl, love is love,akuzwanwa amandla la kuyathandwanwa😂
I'm 39 and he's 29 but siryt nje but kubakhona lokho okubuye kungibangele amahloni if ngizovakasha kubo ngoba ay bayajajana shem,inkinga yam manje angisenalo ugqozu lokuya ocansini
Akushiwo-ke ukuthi jola nezingane ezincane let's say you are 30 and the child is 15. Cha, they are not condoning pedophilic relationships especially with underage children. Just a note nje. We know you men and young girls.
Mina Ngingaydedela i Mamas encane ingene e Club mina ngi sale ne red wine emotweni kuma parking. But ungapheli u two hours engezanga ukuzongbheka acoshe u One aphindele uko Bhenga whole night if she cares that march about partying . We can go together watch stand up comedy together. U One no Two sesombona endlini. In a decent way ❤️🙋👍
I am in a 5 months marriage and my husband is 9 years older than me, there is no romance, no good communication or future, I feel bored aways and loosing mysef
Sister M, how did you end up marrying the guy if you saw red flags while you were still dating him?? We tend to ignore red flags thinking that they will get better or we will change them. You cannot change a person. I feel you're in a toxic marriage and he possess toxic masculinity. It's one of the reasons you feel bored and suppressed. You walk on eggshells and playing it safe not to make him sad or cause sadness for yourself so you keep a lot to yourself as he will twist things not the way you meant them.
@@mariankuna1428 where did she state ukuthi she saw the red flags whilst they were dating?? And where did she say she's in a toxic marriage??yeyi nasi isangoma /psychologist bo! She has not indicated anything toxic about her marriage, only communication break down and the lack of romance probably due to the age gap
@@gugublake911 I get you sister Gugu. I get your point of view. I don't think one can marry a person they just met. There is a dating/relationship phase where you get to see a lot about your partner. In most cases, red flags are ignored and toxic masculinity also includes a guy who is not good when it comes to communicating. The person denies you the platform to express how you feel simply becuase he is able to respond to how he is, not how things are.
Why do you insist on calling her umama when uAlex says uSisi, your insisting has an underlying message. LoSisi okukhulunywa ngaye, ungumawakho yini Dokotela? I think subtly, that is the reason older women feel the way they do at times because society boxes them. Ungadinwa, ng'yakuthanda Dokotela.
Xoxani ngokuthi y engaluthandi bcs um engalwenzi nawe, ulwenza nobani? Maybe wahlukunyezwa ebuncaneni bakhe etc. Endabeni yeconsike, nakhona mbuze ukuthi kusuke sekwenzenjan uma wenza u 1 no 2, bcs uma wenza kanje akungiphathi kahle
Ayi lumnandi shame loluhlelo mina ngina 52 years u guy uuna 41 but ngiyamthanda too much and ngiya m feeler and ngiym enjoyer when make sex my problem is I so asham of my age and when comes to go around or I t when it's his friend are coming
I was sometimes ashamed of my ralstionship, but now I am so comfortable with my new man, 5 years younger than myself, he supported me throughout my post divorce trauma, I love n respect him a lot.
Its funny because back in 2018 I met my Girlfriend whom we currently dating , she is 39 this year and 25 and we are happily together nonethe less I've experienced a lot ey we have each other's back and she has changed me a lot with everything and I look at life differently ever since
🙄😂🤯🤣
@@nomthimalunga7880 I just love them older and most importantly must be "+size!"
Plug me bro
Ayi ndoda selishonile ilanga kusisi funa umuntu ozokuzalela abantwana
Ure wasting you time
Need to watch this with my partner as we have an age gap. This is informative and helps confront questions we have been shying from. Thank you.
Mina ngeke ngimu advise umuntu omncane wesfazane ukuthi athande umuntu omdala kakhulu kunaye, uyazi ukuthi ugcina nawe usuze waziyekelela ngoba uthi ufuna ukuba mdala njengaye, and nokuguga kwakhe nje kumele uchaze yonkinto uyakhohlwa
Kumnanfi uku jola no bby yhoo.hayi mna Obama undiphakamnandi.kungathi ndiyaqala...worse ipipi yakhe ingena zonke ikona.ndishiyana naye nge 7 years hayi yhoo amakhehle sorry abayendzi into yabo.
Hayi istyle uyazazi yhoo ubby sikwelana zendingathi kukho lightining
I'm in love with my husband I'm 28 years old and he's 37years old si happy njani nganeyakwethu nd we planing to have children because I don't have he has 1 on his own
Akukho ubudala okukhulunywa ngobudala obunjengokwakho lapha kushiwo maybe 20 no 45. If wena una 28 yena una 37 akamdala lowo muntu kunawe
that's normal mase ebheke ku 50 nizobe senbukeka nilingana
I love your'lls chemistry...keep up the great work guys
Thank you
I've dated an older guy, he was my mom's age. He was giving me problems, he wanted to own me and I couldn't take it so I decided to leave him. I found another one now, I just hope he will be able to understand that I'm younger than him and I have a life. Ngikhathele ontanga bandla bayakhathaza!!!
I married a man 13yrs older than me but he behaved like a 16 year old.he never saw me as a partner but as a child and he referred to me as such" lo mtana".
@@noncebasokupha8716 same to me dear am really tired now I want to move out now
I am not married but he's 13 yrs older, He behave like a 15 yrs boy and akaboniseki he is so stubborn..... Akakwazi ngisho kuXolisa me wrong @@noncebasokupha8716
My wife is 8 years older than me I'm 34 she's 42 we've a bouncing baby boy he's now 1yr7months
Sanibonani laykhaya...
Ngingowesifazane oneminyaka engu 26 mnj n umuntu wami uneminyaka engu 36 ungishiya ngo 10yrs inkingak yakhe uyaluthanda ucansi n waze wangitshela esebona ukuthi angisathandi mnj indaba yokuthi silala usuku no suku n mina ngiyanela ngo 1 round futhi ngiyasutha nj kahle lapho yena usuke esafuna n mina kusuke sekube ngathi ngyaziphoqa mnj angisa enjoy 😢kodwa ngyamthanda kakhulu futhi angaz ngingenza kanjan lapho
Mina am 40 but my boyfriend is 29 but we enjoy life .we love each other ...I don't treat him other wise
I like this conversation...bcz it teach izinto besingekho aware ngazo...tx guyz...i would like to knw if your partner ikushiya only nge 2yrs for examples u girl huye oshiywa yindoda nge 2yrs...indoda 1982 u girl 1984...bengicela u Dokotela angichazisele lapho..i would like to know abt this gaps ages & whts going on in that couple ages plz
You are basically peers
In fact, what the Bible says with this generation is fulfilled not only in a relationship where a woman is older than a man or boy.
True am in it,and the young feels secure with older ages to them due to stability,maturity and balance in sex activities and companionship
I'm 59 he's 36 we've been together for 15yrs nd very happy xm he treats me lyk a queen I giv him he's space with he's frnds
Really that's nice dear
I love you guyz great show
I am currentlyin a relationship with an older man I am so happy and I want him forever
someone I know she's 47 the guy is 30 woow they are rocking really love them
Yhoooooooo
Do they have kids together?
Good for them
Ngibuya emendweni ( divorced ) there is no way I will bring my emotional baggage to a young guy. No ways. He has to experience life naye. No ways. Anything younger than me or has never been married, andizi.
Uyaphoswa mntase, I am so comfortable with my new man, 5 years younger than myself, he supported me throughout my post divorce trauma, I love n respect him a lot. 😅
@@nodumolupalule5208 enjoy doll😍😍😍 Different strokes for different folks. As I said " I will not " I was not implying everyone should do the same. Kanti he was even your therapist!!! Unhealthy attachment 🤣🤣🤣 Hier kom kaak.
Hi lam 61 years old my boyfriend he is 55 I enjoy to be with him we respect each other
I am in love with a person who is 17 years older than me. I feel like old men go out just to explore and have fun out of their marriage. He goes missing n come back again. I feel tired n used.
Siyafana just it's mine he's seeking attention and affection of which he no more gets from his mate. Nami giving him what he's never got has landed me in polygamy with twins for him.
Good evening Tata uAlex no Sister Dokotela. Naze nabahle
Mina nginenkinga umama wasendlinini meke kwaphela isonto singabhebhani mengabe sesibhebhana uvele athi ibuhlungu into yakhe ngabe kudalwa yini?
And iyangilambisa leyonto
Am 25 years yena una 40 years ubhutiza ndiyamthanda kodwa cz ukhulile♥️
Sina 3years now sithandana
Sjabulile no Lv wami bandla una33 Mina ngina21 and sesize sinengane soo kumnandi
Hayibo....phela ihlazo leli, usuke uqalekisiwewe
Awe ma when you said Lucky eMtuba😂😂 my heart stopped. My husband's name is Lucky and he was born in Mtuba
Mr Mthiyane &Dr ,I have a problem with my partner siryt syathandana kakhulu fut,kodwa inkinga ukut masenza ucansi we are not feeling each other.
i know that sometimes ulala naye engekho manz ngoba nisuke ningasa connectile
Mina nomuntwami sishiyana ngo13 years and akangithembi futh akekho open nami ngezinto ezithize futhi zinokulwa njalo (everyday)
Kumnañdi ukuba nosisi abakhulile abahluphi mangimhlonipha ,ngamhluphi ngimnike indawo yakhe ngimthandazele kahle
Good wazi thina impela ke wena😊
Enjoying uhlelo lwenu Ku....moja Love syabonga siyafunda Dr ngizokufonela
Dokotela k wenziwa yini ukuthi angabi nama felling endlini but ngake ngaphuma ngaba ryt
Ngyakunibingelela Dr&msakazi ngyabathanda osisi abadala ngina,,,,28 inkinga angiqondani nje nabo😃
I'm 28 and she's 39....we're doing just fine
Yes wena guy nesgogwana sakho 😂🤣
@@Vv-fl2rm Same with my husband. we have been married for 3 years.
@@busisiwemaphanga2507 WE HAVE 9 YEARS IN THE GAME
11 years age gap? 😂😂😂 bro that's your mom
@@Vv-fl2rm 😂😂😂😂
Mina ndiyathandwa but now my baby is always trying to check me out where I’m I , our age deference is 12 his older than me .
Iam in relationship with someone and we have a big gap first i was ashamed with my relationship because that guy is too young
Mina no lv si happy u young we enjoy each other so much ❤
LOL why does it seem like guys are now getting comfortable with dating older women i like what i'm hearing
What's different from old man dating you girl, love is love akulzwamwa amandla la kuyathandwanwa😂 what's different from old man dating young girl, love is love,akuzwanwa amandla la kuyathandwanwa😂
Ey uthando anilazi Kahle khona engbaziyo the Guy is 29 and the lady is 34 and unengane girl but uthando lwabo luvutha🔥 heeeee!
52 no 30 year old 😣 hayi noko baphi osisi aba 38-46?
Kwentekani makunje cz Nami ngikuyo lendaba yegape years
Ayyi mina ngiyaniJaja🥺nifunani kubantu abadala kunani sikhona thina singamaJongo siFit siHealthy sineStamina esishiphisa istufuza🔥🥵
abanithandi ontanga anibajabulisi ninedrama lol
I'm 39 and he's 29 but siryt nje but kubakhona lokho okubuye kungibangele amahloni if ngizovakasha kubo ngoba ay bayajajana shem,inkinga yam manje angisenalo ugqozu lokuya ocansini
Love the show
Great show .....thanks😘
Mina I am in relationship nomuntu omdala kunami but i am very happy.
Do you have kids together?
What is the right age gap between a woman and a man
Ngithandanw nomfana kamnandi but ekugchineni wahamba eya kontanga bakhe ngoba ebese sebenza
Niyayishaya into yenu😙
Awngeke u baby mama wami bemdala kunami ngo 12years beka abusive controling ngamshiya okunye ngangibukeka ngimdala kunontanga wayengmunca igazi
Hi this is cindy frm kwamakhutha I lv you show guys keep it up lv you
Wow yeah kumnandi ukuthandana lomuntu omdala lawe ma lizwisisana mina ngiphila lomuntu omdala kimi nge2 years ngiyajabula akukho okubi
Dokotela akagcini nje ngokuyishumayeza lento uyayenza 😉 nali "hickie".
Lovely one guy topic.
Akushiwo-ke ukuthi jola nezingane ezincane let's say you are 30 and the child is 15. Cha, they are not condoning pedophilic relationships especially with underage children. Just a note nje. We know you men and young girls.
Yeah neh😄
Next time please feature uDokotela when you come to Island Bar 😆😆
Will do 😊
Mina ngthandana noGirl ona39 mina ngina30 hay akekho mnandi kwamele sisebenzise iLubricant 😢 ngoba uhlezi awomile
Mina Ngingaydedela i Mamas encane ingene e Club mina ngi sale ne red wine emotweni kuma parking. But ungapheli u two hours engezanga ukuzongbheka acoshe u One aphindele uko Bhenga whole night if she cares that march about partying . We can go together watch stand up comedy together. U One no Two sesombona endlini. In a decent way ❤️🙋👍
❤❤❤
Sabaweli nkosyam nom ngingawahambik ama club kodwa njr
Smile sika Dr or facial expression eyasekamelweni ngampela😜😜🙈
Hi mina umuntu wam wesilisa ungishiya nga 16 yrs ushehe akhiphe sengaze ngathi akayeke Nd vele unoshukela mina ngoba 53 yena una 71 manje
Ngiyabonga kuthola imfundiso ngifunde okuningi kakhulu ebengingakwazi lengikwaziyo ngiyabonga inhle imfundiso yenu
Mina owami ngimshiya ngo18 years ngibuye ngiyisole ukuthi mhlawumbe uzobuye angihluphe ma sengimdala
I love you guys ❤️
Ntombi zodwa , yini leyo?
hi dr ...i m in jhb which number should i use to call you??
Mmmh aiy bandla old man banemphatho sheim abanye nenhlonipho banayo
I am in a 5 months marriage and my husband is 9 years older than me, there is no romance, no good communication or future, I feel bored aways and loosing mysef
maybe he wasn't ready for marriage not to say it in a bad way, he doesn't know what he wants, he should speak up to you and be open.
Phephisa sisi ewu!
Sister M, how did you end up marrying the guy if you saw red flags while you were still dating him?? We tend to ignore red flags thinking that they will get better or we will change them. You cannot change a person. I feel you're in a toxic marriage and he possess toxic masculinity. It's one of the reasons you feel bored and suppressed. You walk on eggshells and playing it safe not to make him sad or cause sadness for yourself so you keep a lot to yourself as he will twist things not the way you meant them.
@@mariankuna1428 where did she state ukuthi she saw the red flags whilst they were dating?? And where did she say she's in a toxic marriage??yeyi nasi isangoma /psychologist bo! She has not indicated anything toxic about her marriage, only communication break down and the lack of romance probably due to the age gap
@@gugublake911 I get you sister Gugu. I get your point of view. I don't think one can marry a person they just met. There is a dating/relationship phase where you get to see a lot about your partner. In most cases, red flags are ignored and toxic masculinity also includes a guy who is not good when it comes to communicating. The person denies you the platform to express how you feel simply becuase he is able to respond to how he is, not how things are.
Syabonga ukufundiswa mft
Ei amahlo ka doctor bafeth😭
Why do you insist on calling her umama when uAlex says uSisi, your insisting has an underlying message. LoSisi okukhulunywa ngaye, ungumawakho yini Dokotela? I think subtly, that is the reason older women feel the way they do at times because society boxes them. Ungadinwa, ng'yakuthanda Dokotela.
What's wrong with calling her mama?
I agree with you and even referring to ubhuti as "boy". It's really condescending. It encourages abantu judging women for having younger partners.
Hai
😊😊
20:04
Ai..! Impela izalukazi azime kancane ngingavele ngi be tern off uma ngibona ama thanga ashwabene phela i sex ihambelana no mqondo
Mina ngifuna ukubhebha umuntu ona 21 years mina ngina 38 years
owam una 30 mina 38 ...futhi kumnandi nje ....
Ikhehla mfana!!!
Owami umuntu syathandana inkinga yakhe akaluthandi ucansi. And uneconsi.
Xoxani ngokuthi y engaluthandi bcs um engalwenzi nawe, ulwenza nobani? Maybe wahlukunyezwa ebuncaneni bakhe etc. Endabeni yeconsike, nakhona mbuze ukuthi kusuke sekwenzenjan uma wenza u 1 no 2, bcs uma wenza kanje akungiphathi kahle
shaya indlwabu phamb kwakhe umnunusele
Lo bhuti akanambulelo kuThixo uphiwe 4 children umdala kodwa ufuna uyothatha isithembu into abanazo bazisebenze nalo umdala no matter ebengasebenzi kodwa ubenaye yibanentloni bhuti uthenga naphandle yhooo uyingxaki
Hhay ziyathumana lezi ezindala nkosiyam😂
True laph
hahaha thumeka wee bayafana nabancane nje ayiii
Awuhlali phansi😢😅😅😅😅😅
🤣 🤣 Umama kodwa yin dokotela kbuza u alex
Imnandi kodwa leye age gap kubanalayonto ebambanayo ugcine usufuna ukukholwa ontanga yenu 😂
Enjoy a 52 yr old body, unless you Tina Turner 🤣
Umntu wam una 42 mna ndina 25yrs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Umuntu wesifazane omdala kunzima ukumbuka ngamehlo abukhali
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umama not umama u sisi😅😅😅
Khona ebasenzelayo khona engabasebenzeli
Ayi lumnandi shame loluhlelo mina ngina 52 years u guy uuna 41 but ngiyamthanda too much and ngiya m feeler and ngiym enjoyer when make sex my problem is I so asham of my age and when comes to go around or I t when it's his friend are coming
Kobasathiwani ngoba bamnandi omama abadala
Hhhawu
@@bongekilekhanyile1523 bayashisa omama abadala, bayahlopha, abanamsindo bayayazi yonke into abayenzayo
halala komama iheeee ayii kwashuba
bayaphindeka😊
Love u giuys❤
🤣 We Babo ngikhumule idlozi🙈🚮
Lol doc no Alex
Ok
Enkosi
Ay abant abadala sorry
Leyi ye52 vs 30 🤔
Im also shocked
He is 52 I’m 30 👩❤️💋👨
Unamahloni umama🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣24:50
Eyezinyama ezilengayo😅😅😅😅😅😅😅