In 1970, I was a teenager. I dreamed very clearly that I was in a church, marrying someone in the Air Force. I only knew 1 guy in the Air Force, and it wasn't him; I met someone else and got married. It was awful. In 1980, after my husband left us, I dreamed about the same guy, in the AF. I felt SO glad to see him, I cried. He hugged me, laughed, and said he had 8 years to go until he could retire; I remarried, a friend, but an alcoholic. Another bad marriage. In 1990, a coworker introduced me to her dad, who had retired from...you guessed it...the AIR FORCE, in 1988!! We've been married for 29 great years! I'm so dumb, I didn't recognize who he was until his dad gave me a portrait of him at 18 in the AF, and IT WAS HIM! The guy from both dreams! He's been a great step-dad, and now a wonderful grandpa. He's the best. For some reason, it wasn't God's time for us until 1990. I just wish now I had waited and spared myself 2 bad marriages before God brought us together.
The Lord told me that someone was my husband when I was 19. We dated on and off and went on with our lives separately. Fast forward we married 15 yrs later. It was right but the wrong season. Be still live ur llife. If it is God it WILL happen with and without your help. His word does not return void!!!
Dee Driver, let me get this right. "God" talks to you in your head? This same "God" supposedly directs your life. You have a brain but do not use it, wait for "God" to tell you what to do.
Gary Williams Let me get this right is that the interpretation you got from my spiritual experience? (Being facetious). Listen I never asked for anyone to understand. I simply stated a factual event that took place in my life and HE told me would take and it DID years later. It has nothing to do with Him thinking for me but I used my brain which allows me to choose free will to listen or not to listen and fortunately for me, the story went well. So yes hopefully you got it "straight". I dont mind sharing. I do mind being insulted but again we have free will to choose what we do with it. IF you're not married I suggest you trust Him to send you the right one. It will help u avoid much heartache but dont take my word Take HIS
Estel Villz He spoke it to me. I was walking on campus YEARS AGO. He was coming up a hill with black shorts on and a white cut off t shirt and the Lord said "and thats your husband" as if we were in conversation. I didn't know his name. I'd never seen him before but heard the Lord clearly. Mind you I grew up 7day adventist but was not saved at that time but believed in God. Dont let people talk you out of your experience. They believe with their head not their heart and surely not by their spirit. Be led. Theres nothing wrong with that. If you want to hear Him just pray and ask and request how you want to hear Him and trust me you will AVOID a lot if unnecessary unwanted events if u do.👍👍
And if God indeed told you that this man is your husband.... then sit back and trust God that he will bring it to pass no matter what the circumstances look like. We walk by faith and not by sight. God bless you
@@teenherofilms Your taking her comment out of context and reading into it things she did not say. There are some people who choose to leave the mate selection process to God. It's their choice to ask Him that. And He can tell people who He knows is best for them. There are others who choose to date and seek His will through that process. It's not that people don't have free will, it's that they want to walk in line with God's will because that's what THEY want to do.
@@valerielinares2068 Except there is NO GOD. Human beings came about through Evolution. God is imaginary. God does not have a will because he does not exist
@@teenherofilms If you believe there is no God, then I wonder why you bother to comment on a video like this. Granted, you're allowed to comment on whatever you like. However, I don't see the point of commenting a comment like this on a video like this, unless your goal is to stir up strife. In which case, I don't bite. If you choose to believe in evolution, that's your choice. Just as it is my choice to believe in God, and I'm sure the same could be said for this Cynthia person. I highly recommend you move on with your life and stop seeking to stir up strife with those who believe differently than you.
Ladies, it is NEVER the woman's place to tell a man he's your husband. It's out of order. The Bible says that he that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. It is the man's responsibility to find you AND to pursue you. Usually, God works on both sides, and the MAN and the WOMAN will receive confirmation from God about each other. If God shows you who your mate is, sister, keep it in your heart and put it to prayer until the man approaches you and gets things off the ground. Blessings.😊
@@issasecretsecret7814 In this climate men have been far too damaged to consider ever dealing with any woman. No religion or social programming will change that.
Aven Norfleet not necessarily true. i believe its who you surround yourself among. the men i know and are friends with arent in that category but yes ive ran into guys like that - arent my cup of tea lol
The book "30 Days to a Better Dating Experience" by Logan Tindell is an interesting approach using mindfulness and meditation. Dating can suck...if the person's perspective is off. Mindfulness helps.
But marriage does sanctify one and reduced alot of temptaions involving sexual immorality which is a serious sin since the bible says. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. NIV: Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body -1 Corinthians 6:18
sad how you think about this, actually it is a very important thing said in the first book of the Bible, it is not good for people to be alone, not a minor theme
I heard a story about God revealing this woman's husband to her in a dream. She knew he was going to be her husband for about 4 years before the guy realized she was the one God called him to. 4 YEARS! Just because God may have revealed your husband to you does not mean he has revealed you to your future husband yet. "Be still and know that I am God"
That sounds VERY similar to my story. I had a vision while awake, about 15 months ago, of my future wife. I saw what she looked like, I got her first name, some info about her personality and our future together, and how old we'd each be when we marry. The age which I was told I'd be when we marry is about 4 years in the future from now. I haven't met this woman yet and I don't even know her last name but God gave me probably close to a dozen signs out in the real world, out in every day life to prove to me that it was real and not my imagination or the devil causing the vision. God also told me she would search for me, and I wouldn't have to chase her. I'm standing on that, and prepping myself the best I can in every area of my life in the meantime while focusing on what God has called me to do work/business wise.
I've wrote about my ideal type of guy on my notebook and after that I pray to God to give me a hints about how my future husband would look like . Surprisingly after a week, I got a dream where I was holding this man's hand . He looks so handsome and it was literally fits with the ideal type I wrote on my note . That man never mention anything about we were getting married or whatever but I already knew it in my heart that he is my husband . I never felt so happy in my life when I was in that dream with him . Weirdly enough, I told this to my friend and she also had a dream where she saw a couple holding hands together and she said the girl looks like me . Is that a real sign? Or...??
@@noface6502 be careful with that in a sense. Because the enemy will and can trick you. We have to be careful with being consumed by someone's looks or whatever the case maybe.
I thought God showed me my husband in a dream at one point. My dreams were usually accurate however, I later realized that it was only my desire (thank God I didn’t say anything lol) You have to remember that the devil can also interrupt our sleep. Not everything you dream about is from God. Especially if you have a prophetic or apostolic anointing (it takes time to understand your gift... what is from God and what is not) the devil will try to tap into your gift (visions and dream). The purpose of that is to distract you... get you off your game. The fact that you are so anxious about him means that God have not given you peace and that is a SIGN all by itself. I’ve been there so my love.... please move on with your life and block him. You’ll thank God later. It’s not time (whom ever he is) and that’s ok 😘
Before I knew my boyfriends whole name (he’s Spanish so he has a very long name and I knew him as just Sam) I was speaking with my Christian friend about my future husband and he told me to pray to God about what his name would be. I believe God told me Raymondo. Well this discouraged me so much because at this point in my life I just want to find the right one I don’t want to waste time with people who aren’t the right one and I think Sam is the right one so I thought omg this is just another random guy who won’t be my husband. Well after talking to him he tells me his full name and it is also Raymondo. But I don’t know if we will really get married.
I had 3 different men tell me that God told them, via a dream, vision and fasting and prayer, that I was their wife. I was not focused on marriage just my relationship with the Lord. I didn't even have a relationship with either of these men outside of ministry and rarely spoke to either of them. This happened for about a year and a half. I figured if God hadn't notified me it most likely wasn't true. I kept my distance from them and prayed about it. I have now been married 22 years and not to any of them.
I had one man tell me that God told him I was his wife. I also had another tell me to stop me talking to men and dating (using God as the excuse while I was on my journey). I would later find out that he began to grew feelings for me. The same man said that God revealed something to him about us. Here is my thinking, if God has a plan for us in either situation to be with someone I'm sure God will reveal it to both parties. If it is meant to be God will move mountains for it to come into fruition.
Kimbjm79 but sometimes , at least in my experience, the other person knows but will still choose free will. I don't think God would force one person to marry another, if God did move mountains for the couple to be together, instead of allowing them to choose, I personally would be living a very different life . I think God has plans, but He gives us the choice
This is good! I had a dream and In the dream God showed me who my husband was. I said lord if that was you show me again. He confirmed it through someone that knew nothing about me having a dream. I said lord if that was you show me again. HE DID! I definitely did not tell the guy b/c if God showed me, I knew he would show him too.
I had a dream where this guy ask me if I will be his wife forever and then a coworker said he had a dream of me and the same guy getting married. I also had another dream and vision and an auidble voice telling me he was my husband. I have been talking to him for over a year his father was a pastor and he does have feeling for me. I do hope he is the one and I will keep seekimg the Father and wait for Him to do it if is him. I believe what God has for you is yours.
Us women tend to think a lot with our emotions and we're often misled. Don't feel bad for having feelings for this person, because its human nature for as to have feelings. But allow yourself to be guided by the Holy Spirit and not by your heart. Submit those feelings and emotions to God, and stop overthinking things. Once you take away the feeling and the emotions, your focus will be redirected back to God..which is exactly where you want to be. Also when you pray for him, ask God to bless him with a Godly spouse, and ask God to bless you with a Godly spouse. If it's really God speaking to you, you both will end up together, if not you both will be blessed with great people. #noprayerwasted
I wonder if we are really really hearing the Voice of God and not our own desires? Our passions for something or someone can deceive us to say “it’s God!”.... 👀
p31ChicaLove True i think about that too how can they be so sure that it is God and not their desire messing things up with their brain so they see that person in their dreams or hear thoughts🤔🤔Because when you like someone then you start seeing that person in your dream it doesn't mean that is your godly spouse.
Girl this is so true because a few years ago I thought I heard God and that was clearly not the truth... now looking back I am so happy he was not the one... I am also happy that I kept my mouth shut
Kay Bell True I always get sceptical when people say God spoke to me because i'm like "how are you so sure it was God talking in your head and not you thinking those thoughts" There is such a fine line between those too so i wouldn't be so sure in telling people God told me this or that🤔
Kelly K. Exactly.... your only job is to pray about it and ask God for tangible confirmation. If he really told you that, then he will confirm it in a way that is clear. I personally know someone who God showed her husband, however.... it was confirmed through random people who knew them separately and was trying to set them up. The person had no clue they had crossed paths already. She showed her a photo of a guy she wanted her to meet and my friend was just in shock. It was the same Guy. Lol they are now married. That’s why it’s important not to say it out loud. This way God can confirm it and there will be no doubt.
When GOD says anything to anyone that’s a promise that will come to past. I love you guys advice, a man will purse his wife you don’t have to chase him down.
I'm looking for love... I'm praying God to help me find that right woman from God.. I see her in my visions many times. If you se this message.. answer, because maybe its you that I see.
Yes, she did. We as women need to show a guy we are interested. Otherwise they might not have the courage to approach us. We walk by faith and not by sight, it's true. But on the other hand, faith without works is dead. I believe that a woman has to give a man that sign that she wants to he found by him.
I also believe that God has told me who my husband is. Honestly, I used to obsess about it and I used to stalk him everyday to a point that it became unhealthy . I agree with what Ashley and Carrington said. I had to let go and give it to God. It was really hard at first, but I believe that if he really is my husband ,then one day he will pursue me. There is nothing I can do about it till then, except prayer. So I'd advice you to let go, focus on what God has for you in this season and growing as an individual.
Julian Walters I just dont get it. Why can´t you find your own husband? You have free will. It´s like you need to sit back and wait and have some deity do it for you. Wow. This is off the wall.
@@teenherofilms This advice is only for Christians that have submitted themselves to the will of God... Just like Jesus submitted himself to the will of his father. Hence, we ask God for everything including spouses, because we're his children. The wisdom of God is foolishness to the world, while the wisdom of the world is foolishness to God.
@@deniskimani9062 Like I said this is off the wall. It´s actually HORRIBLE. The idea that "God" picks out your marriage partner is absurd in the first place and that I should "submit" to that is fuc..ed up BIG TIME. This video is for people with an IQ around the same as their shoe size
Just sharing my experience in this area: I truly believed for 2 years that God showed me who I would one day marry. He was an acquaintance but nothing more. I had dreams, visions, signs, words, and literal prophetic dreams that would come to pass in his life. I became obsessive for a long time because I didn't know how to handle everything. I saw a word on a billboard one day that said "Guardian", and so I started to pray over him as a brother in Christ rather than a husband. I would have amazing months and moments where I felt like my feelings/thoughts on this subject were completely surrendered to the Lord, but then something would spark it back in my mind, and it would hurt me all over again. Honestly, I felt like God was teasing me. One of my best friends (who is also my mentor) had a conversation with me a few days ago because once again, I was hurt. This guy who hadn't been around in months showed back up to church the day after I gave the vision back to God because that vision isn't the same one He showed me 2 years ago. I was annoyed and frustrated, and my friend/mentor had an AMAZING Holy Spirit led word for me: this guy that I believed I would marry one day but had to let go was actually a representation of what I thought about God deep down: that He was unfaithful, He was cheating me, that He would not fulfill His promises in my life - which of course is the opposite of truth. God IS faithful, just, and the fulfiller of all His promises. This is aparently more than just me - it is a generational pattern, and I'm the one to break it. I felt like sharing this because sometimes it's not about what we're shown at all - it's what God is trying to teach us about Him as our Father and about our heart posture towards Him.
Thanks for sharing. Similar situation happened to me. It's been almost 4 years now. But I am pretty sure the guy is married to someone else now. I seriously need to work on trusting God. I have certainly felt and still sometimes feel that God is untrustworthy and won't keep His promises, or that He will but there's some sad "catch" or twist to them that leaves us miserable. I'm having the hardest time though because I feel that if I let it go and move on, then I'm not having enough faith in Him. But if I don't let it go, then I'm letting it consume me. I met someone else, but this relationship broke too. I have asked God to restore it. He has shown me signs of this, but it hasn't fully happened. I feel I'm in the same boat... I know I need to let it go, but won't doing so mean not having faith in Him? Idk. I just have been so confused.
smilecolorsan I am in the same situation, it's hard letting go, but God is true and his promises are yeah and Amen. Sometimes, God wants us to learn patience. Trust me, what your feelings is just a part of it. With time, if you continue to hold on to God and trust in him. He gives you peace. This thing has tormented me for the last 6 years, I have tried running away. But God kept bringing me back. Now.. He hasn't said one thing but am hoping for God's perfect season. It's frustrating and hard being without him.. Pray for grace to go through the whole process.
I think a lot of women went through a "this is my husband" moment and it went the opposite direction and sometimes it's God way of saying to not be focused on the flesh, but the spirit.
God may use that vision even if you "mess it up" to train you into your purpose. Like Joseph. Don't believe for one second you can mess up a promise from God, you aren't that powerful. Focus on understanding your visions and dreams while soaking in as much scripture as possible. You'll see how you were meant to compliment that person in Christ instead of just be with that person. It's a difference.
I was told when I met a certain guy that “ this is your husband”. I became obsessively into my ideology that this guy was my husband. What lessons I learned from this statement given to me of this guy being my husband was I became more closer to God and learned to love myself more and set healthy boundaries while healing my inner wounds from abandonment and trust issues. This guy, who I thought was my husband, moved on to another girl, and I’m in a place where im no longer desiring the connection but giving God praise through the connection I had in him. There is a saying. What’s meant to be yours will be yours. I trust God will my whole life and if this guy is meant for me and im for him we will be together when Gods timing says we can so until then im going to continue to grow in God and follow His will for my life. The guy that God will want me to end up with and build a strong marriage with God being the center will come when God thinks we are both ready so no need to freak out if I lost him cause what’s mine is never lost.
God told me who my husband was/is and we are not married yet but we talk about it all the time and we been together for 3 years now as of Dec 2018!! God will reveal it to male or female but it is up to the male to recognize that, that is his wife, that shes the one and also to propose. my man told me today that he gon propose and he gon do it his way and on his timing and I let him be. But God told me what it was in dec 2016 and i didnt share it with my king until we was like 5 or 6 months together. My king is so spiritual just like me so I couldn't hold in for forever. My spirit was just screaming to tell him so I did and he was with it 100 percent remind u we was only 5 to 6 months into our relationship. And as time passed we grew together, learned to love ourselves more etc now I'm sittin back and waiting on that outcome for my proposal and wedding and hopefully 2 beautiful chocolate babies. Thank u heavenly father for the gift that you gave me. The gift of a life partner, best friend, lover, provider etc thank u....3 years strong AMEN also Meagan good and devon Franklin's story and mines is so similar to the point to where it's scary LMAO 😊😊👌
"The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing." Not necessarily. Sometimes it's about timing. It could be the right thing just came at the wrong time, but the right time could come later on.
NOT IF HE A TRUE MAN OF GOD AND IN THE SPIRIT IT WONT SCARE HIM OFF. BECAUSE GOD WILL SHOW HIM ALSO. WHAT GOD HAS FOR YOU IT IS FOR YOU. AND IF GOD SAID IT HIS WORD WILL NEVER RETURN UNTO HIM VOID.
Joyce Woodruff Though that may be so, God also made the man to pursue, and not the woman. When she takes on what God designed the man for, it will complicate the natural order. It may not scare him completely off, but it will create some problems.
Joyce Woodruff thanks! Great reminder. I needed to read this in this season. I am just focusing on God and daily surrendering what I believe God has spoken and the confirmation from others who I never told. I really appreciate it! :)
So these days we are the ones approaching men and telling them that they are our husbands. What happened to us as women remembering that we are the favour and daughters of the most high king? Daughters of a king don't Chase Anyone! Focus on God and relax.
Absolutely agree with you. Daughters of a KING never Chase anyone, quite the contrary we must focus on our relationship with our ABBA FATHER and in the right time He Will provide us with our husband.
ManelyNatural Me I agree with you and I think the best way is to just rest in the Lord and not worry about which guy we will marry. Everything will come together eventually. I know it's easier said than done but we need to occupy our minds with other things and try not to stress about who our husbands are. 😊
Some women focus too much on the romanticized version of marriage instead of the realities. Women should focus on thier relationship with GOD, developing themselves, and the qualities of a GODLY woman. If not happy or complete/content alone, you'll never be happy in a marriage. Best wishes or shall I say, GOD's wishes to you in life and live. ❤.
but if you been single way too long and you feel you're carrying a void around, it doesn't necessarily mean that you're not content with your single life, it just means that you're missing your other half and that it's time to meet him.
Karon G Women should focus on finding somebody they are compatible with and love, not a "relationship with God", this is absurd. "God" is not responsible for your life or your free will, you are!!!
I heard married couples say marriage is hard work. I know I lot of people that say once the honeymoon bliss is gone....1 to 2 years or after the baby is born, then the unveiling of the true personality of your significant other starts to unveal......what you thought was cute about him or her before the marriage becomes annoying. growing in character.....knowing how to strategies and critically think....studying the word and learning how to hear from God should be a woman's main focus and making sure she's ready to choose a man of character instead of waiting on a man to put a ring on her finger and fulfill a position that he may not be ready for.
Also Dreams don't walk straight. Sometimes what He is showing is sometimes symbolic of your future spouse character. So its important you pray and ask God for revelation
We may think we are hearing from God, but sometimes we can be wrong (I know from experience) and that’s okay. Doesn’t mean your relationship isn’t strong with God, it just means you may have heard incorrectly. Just remember there is no need to stress or obsess about what you believe is true, because If it is God will bring it to pass. Us trying to help in the manifestation is above our pay grade..This is why God doesn’t tell us everything because he loves us so much. He understands showing us a glimpse of our future at the wrong time can give us blurred vision. Just live, let go and trust god! If you mess up and repent he will turn your mess into a message and still give you more than you could ever want or imagine❤️🙏🏽😇
This is spot on. I tried chasing my future husband and I thank God that he didn't let me pursue him. I was and am not ready to be his wife or even ready to know him. I obsessed, but never acted on that obsession. I believe God showed me who my husband is so I will grow closer to God and not be obsessive anymore. I have come a long way since God showed me and I have a long way to go still. Thank you Ashley and Carrington and all the other commenters.
Great advice - and of course God is never going to "bless" you with an idol. If you are hyper-focused on this guy to the point that he occupies more of your thoughts than God does, you need to pray that God changes your heart. It's all part of the growing process - perhaps God is highlighting this to you in this situation.
I am so glad that I stumbled across this channel! I believe that God has showed me my future husband and I was praying about the next step! I am just going to wait.. work on myself and wait for our season.
Amen. Very good advice. Love is beautiful but us as women, myself included, have sort of made marriage an idol. It is not the end all of everything. Marriage is ministry and is deeper than just having someone you can call a "boo thang." God can very much show you who your future spouse is. I've had a similar experience, and yes please learn to keep your mouth shut!!! But then it became an idol and I clearly wasn't ready. In this season of waiting ask God to prepare you not just to be a wife but to be all that He has called you to be. Right now that is my focus and when you are walking in ordered steps and are focused on God, God will set things up to bring you and your husband together. You also don't want to become obsessed with a person because remember, we are humans, we are in this flesh, and we fall into sin. Maybe that person can backslide and fall out of the will of God and then you'll be really disappointed when ya'll don't end up marrying. Stay focused on God!
Kay Jarboe Definitely Agree! I have had to remove marriage as an idol and now enjoying life, getting myself in line with where GOD wants to lead me. GOD loves us so much that we shouldn't want to put anyone or anything before HIM. HE us a JEALOUS GOD. And simply don't want to keep breaking HIS heart with my own desires. Great comment.
Kay Jarboe, this is "way out thinking". It is like you are a wind-up robot and "God" calls the shots. You have no free will of your own, "God" has decided it all for you.
God showed me my future wife(wich is my current gf) but 1 dream is not enough i had like 10 dreams because i prayed a lot,and God told me everything and told me that she is 1 step behind me in the relationship but will come to my level just need time most people just stop at step 1 satan will do everything to stop it,once God reveales you that you should keep asking how to act and for revelation 1 dream is not enough you must have confermation because with this Satan starts being very deceitful and can confuse you and make you rush when you have to wait
Well I believed God showed me my husband at some point, I was so convinced he was the one. I didn't go telling them about my belief. We found ourselves talking then dating but it ended in hell. This has happened a lot of times. My conclusion was, I was convinced by myself and I believed what I wanted to believe because I was desperate. God can never send u in the wrong direction, I sent my self in the wrong directions.When I decided to put my focus only on God, stay calm and trust him, he brought an angel int my life. BE STILL & KNOW HE IS GOD!
An obsession with a man (or anything) is called "idolazation,meaning that you are replacing God's place in your heart with this man and God hates idol worship. I'd say she must focus on God & putting him first.
Great video. This is off topic but Im basing it on revelation and how we can get things wrong with God, I always test the spirit when someone prophecy's over me or speaks into my life. For instance, Ive been single for 3 years, never been with any man since and fully focused on my career... I went to a church service with a very small congregation and before church I completed a marathon race and my knees were hurting....afterwards as I was leaving service a guy came up to me and asked if he could pray for my knees I was like " Sure, Thank you" He prays and right after he goes "I believe God wants me to tell you to guard your heart, and stop jumping from relationship to relationship" I was like " Umm? WOW! Ok well Im single.... and I have not been in a relationship of any kind in 3 years so yeah? awkward" hahaha the guy was like " Ohhh!!!"
Just tell her the truth! That man is NOT that lady's husband. God is not the God of anxiousness, confusion, and worry. If God speaks something to you He will provide PEACE. This woman was so anxious and worried about expressing to this man that he was hers that she revealed this prematurely. God is NOT in that! Furthermore, now this man is confused and thinks she is crazy and probably will never pursue her, even if he was thinking about it. Move on, sis, and redirect your focus to God. Stop letting Satan play games with your mind!
Adawg that's not always true. Sometimes God shows you visions and a person can mishandle the situation. I've heard deliverance pastors say they learned their lesson not to expose to people everything God reveals to them. Because the enemy can use that to create drama/conflict. What she should of done was kept her mouth shut and waited for him to make a move on her while she kept her focus on God.
This happened to me, I thought God told me that someone was my husband. I mean I had dream and “confirmations”. But a few months later, after obsessing over it, God told me that he was not the one for me. The whole situation was not from God, it was filled with confusion and anxiety. The funny thing was God was telling me that He was not the author of confusion, but I wasn’t getting it. The dreams I had caused me to chase this guy and obsess over him. This was out of order, the man chases the woman, not the other way around. So in cases like this it’s from the devil or you. And it’s funny cause this happened to me at a time when I was ok with being by myself, and I was content with my singleness and God. The enemy brought the delusion because he wanted to get my attention off the Lord. Please don’t this this happen to you guys!!!! Test the spirit!!!!! I wasted time!!?!
Reading your comments , I'm learning a lot. I also have dreams about " husbands to be" and turnout they aren't for me. Thank you! From now on I will be calm if its happens its happens
Though I understand what you are saying. You do not know what you are say for absolute certainty. Situations like this are usually specific to each person and their relationship with God and the other side is God's plan for them. I have every reason to believe what you are saying. Yet I agree with the approach they took to answer. You don't just give people answers on things like without really knowing. I get anxious when it comes to these things so what I do is pray speak to my pastors and spiritual mature people so that I have the right advice to go off of. So that it helped me. Now I'm good simply because I've never really had to deal with relationship stuff. So when my emotions arose. I was in shambles. Was a new thing but thank God he answers prayers.
I liked because you guys make such a beautiful couple 😍 but yes lol I absolutely agree. Just trust God and focus on living out your purpose in Him. Seek God. Marriage will come and no matter what seek God. There’s purpose in singleness and in marriage.
trust in God.if you truly believe that God has something install for you.why worry or waste time trying to speed up things when God knows the right time and right place for it to happen.God is precise in his methods.he doesnt need help.wait for God to fulfill his promises.
Not everyone is given the privilege to have an amazing marriage but whatever your heart desires, always think that God has a perfect plan for you. Just enjoy life and appreciate what you have at the moment because the right husband that you wished for will come when you least expect it.
Kayyy I was looking for this comment, thanks sis! Like seriously I wish somebody would give him a tissue I don't know if it's allergies, if his nose is itching or what but I was so distracted. They had a great message though.
I think hubby was trying to hold back what he REALLY wanted to say. "Sister, you are bugging...you DID chase that man off...Sister just SURRENDER, SURRENDER, SURRENDER TO GOD!!!! Proverbs 3:5- Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
This is exactly what I needed today. I lost my focus because I was so focused on the guy i believed would be my husband. Thank you so much! Just subscribed ❤️
Beautiful advice thanks!! I have had a similar experience. I just told the guy I had a crush. He said his feelings were not mutual. He would be so weirded out if I said God said hes the one. After awhile I got over him thought he was immature anyways. Then in the car 2 times I randomly felt again he was the one. Im like no way we are soooo not compatible hes 3 years younger than me and not mature enough. He is a youth pastor I am a teacher at our church school. We are on school board and he comes to school to help sometimes. Time will tell. In the meantime Im not obsessed because Im at peace weather it was God or weird feelings Ive had. Ive heard in the past but I could tell the difference between my feelings and the visions and voice God showing me.
If I was talking to her I would say this..."'GIRL" Stay still just like God said. The Bible says when a MAN finds....a wife, not a pest, a nuisance, not a whiner or stalker. What I heard in this question was, I, I, and I.......re-shift your focus on God....amen to all that Ashley and Carrington said.....
The story of Abraham helped me with this situation. It’s a dangerous thing to go before the lord. God plans is perfect and he tells them to us not to work it for him but to wait on him don’t be like Sarah and end up with a Hagar situation
I had a dream this morning. I’ve decided to remain celibate last year. I don’t know who he is never seen or met him. It was a very detailed dream. It just gave me hope to keep waiting and getting myself together. I have a lot of work to do on myself. I’m so excited I held his hand and touched his face.
One of the things we all often forget, it's not everything God tells you, that is for publication... Most of the time, keep quiet and pray the will of God.
I had the same dream and the guy is now married with 2 kids and am still single 😂😂😂and no longer thinking about this man ..girl..don t focus it s just a dream if it s going to happen after 5 years why god will reveal it for u now ..move on you will find someone better along the way 😀😎
That's true - when a man really loves and wants you then he will pursue you. Amen to that! Praise the Lord cause His ways are the best, yet usually not without effort, hardships and our self-development.
I did the same. I’ve dreamt since 2010 concerning my wife. The same woman. In 2014 I had the most dreams. About 14 dreams of her. Of a Child. Angels bearing witness and God Himself speaking of the Union. I became anxious and sought her out religiously! It scared her and ever since it has been difficult just to get a simple conversation. Though, in most dreams she does seem to be very thick skinned. But many of the visions have come to past already.... I’ve grown more patient and less concerned. Setting these promises in the hands of the Giver.....
Thank you so much! I needed to receive this message about focusing on God, and not on my desires only. This applies not only to marriage, but to every other thing in life. God bless you
I had dreams about a coworker I liked that went on for a few years. They were not sexual or inappropriate, but very detailed. Eventually I got another job and did not keep in contact with him during the time this was happening. I prayed and tried to confide in my pastor about it. He quickly dismissed it as a soul-tie (I thought soul-ties only came for sexual intercourse) so I wasn’t satisfied with that answer. Then unfortunately I came across somebody on a Christian forum who claimed to have the gift of dream interpretation. Long story short, he gave me false information and made me think the interpretations meant that I would reconnect with this guy and get married in the future. We reconnected briefly on social media as friends and then a year later he married someone else. I’ve heard stories of people being misled in this way before, but I hoped it would NEVER happen to me. Now I’m not looking for signs, dreams, prophetic words or whatever. I just want things to unfold in real life one day at a time without analyzing everything. I’m honestly devastated by the whole thing.
First thing I would say is that anytime you think you've had a dream or a vision from God, but you want clarification, ask God. He would be more than willing to clarify what you ask of Him.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6. This verse is an anchor for my soul when I'm tempted to figure it out on my own.
Omg I cannot count the number of times I prayed to God to bring me a husband. I'm 34 and still no sight of mr. right, so now I actually gave up praying for that request even though it's a desire that I still carry in my heart but I no longer believe that there is someone out there for me because it's been way too long and it's just not happening.
Estel Villz u can't give up praying now. it's all a test of faith. Still make your requests known and in the meantime pray that he gets you ready to be that Godly wife.
Praise God! Love your ministry! We have to lead by the Holy spirit! The word of God says in Proverbs 18:22 (KJV) " Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD." As a man we have to go after the women that God have for us. It's are decision to choose. That's why God gave us freedom of choice. But Before any dating or courting relationship with to have Close relationship with God. Proverbs 3:5-6(KJV) Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Matthew 6:33(KJV) But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
I know God sent me a vision of my husband's name. I've not said anything to a guy. I know God is preparing me for him to come to me. My being a helpmeet is coming soon.
I'd would say she need to pray asking God to shift her focus and not too much on this guy. And daily ask The Holy Spirit for practical ways to focus on other things in life.
Elaine Elaine that is true. It happened to a woman that I know and it was confirmed a few times but he decided to marry on his own free will and even though that was Gods will, it didn't happen.. But God will bless her and prepare her for better! The guy just went downhill from there though because I believe he married for money and materialistic things but when God blesses you..
Christina Lucas , same experience here. He is making no sign of choosing Me after many years. I decided to move on but I can't see God's blessing on My choice to move on. I felt that since You were the willing party, even if things don't work out, God will compensate You. Why is Mine different?
I keep having a recurring dream where I'm in the church at the altar in my wedding gown with family in the background but never a groom. I wonder if this dream indicates that i will be single forever. Everytime I get that dream I wake up in a panicky state.
@@estelvillz3637 I think that dream is just revealing your fears and anxieties concerning whether you get married - not a prediction that you won't. In the meantime, surrender your desires to God and choose to trust Him and put Him first. If it is God's will for you to marry, He will bring the right man, under the right circumstances, in His perfect timing.
Gr8 ans Carrington!!!! Wow God spoke your exact words to me... Ashley i couldn't of said it better myself, Keep your focus on God.. Matthew 6:33 "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these. things shall be added unto you.
Both of you are so blessed. God give you a good husband like him, because God knows how good person you are too. and I just want to thank you for sharing this kind of video.
Hey, thanks for this video! How do you KNOW that God labels someone as your husband? I got a lot of confirmation about a certain guy and I think we might end up together one day (maybe). I have written, specific confirmation and prayed for God to bring me a man with the qualities I wrote down. They were internal things, God already what I like height wise and other things like that so I prayed about the internal things and different unique qualities that I have always been attracted to that I would love to see in my future husband one day (if I end up getting married)- anyway I prayed that specific and prophetic prayer 2 months before I saw this guy and 8-9 before I met him and when I prayed I said "God I know this will weed out 99.9 percent of guys- so when I see someone with all of these qualities I will know that he is the one for me. I also prayed I know you know what I want and need and I trust you to give it to me and I know the things I just prayed for are things you want for me so thank you Jesus in advance". So then 2 months later I found who that guy was, we met and hung out a little bit at an event he was playing and before I left he gave me a hug and said I had to come to the next show he does in that area, so I happily agreed and I'll see him this year. That was last year. We are both nondenominational Christians and our ages are 19 and 21 (I'm 19 & he is 21). So anyway a week and a half after we met an old friend of his decides she wants to date him and now they are dating and I felt foolish, betrayed and crazy because if you knew the whole story you would know the confirmation was real, no one knew about my prayer and things were being revealed to me quite fast. And I hope and pray I didnt ruin God's plan because I was foolish enough to joke with his now gf's sister about the two of them dating- then they started. I was confused, I was also super tired that day so when that joke came to mind I had a thought that said dont say it but I did it anyway. I thought that was my own voice saying that so I ignored it and now I think it was God saying dont say that but I cant fix it and it was eating me up at one point but I think he had a crush on her before but she was annoying with him and acted like she wasn't interested in him for a long time. So I keep thinking I should just give up, but when I tried I felt like I could not because I was not just crazy- I had direct and clear confirmation but circumstances don't seem to be lining up. Some people say don't worry about the circumstances because God sees what we dont see and then some people (also Christian) say that God speaks through our circumstances as well as His word and personal confirmation (if I remember correctly). So I really dont know whats gonna happen. I have tried to just see if I can find someone else to be with and God is refusing to let that happen and I also feel like no matter what I do or who I am with it's settling if it is not that guy. I keep thinking of all the prayers and the several months of confirmation that I kept track with in my prayer journal. So that is the reason why I have not stopped thinking it MIGHT happen, if you knew the things that have happened you can see it was intentional. Well thanks for the help on the vid, God bless!
Good information! I was thinking it sounds like she needs to redirect that obsession to the Lord because as long as she puts him on a pedestal above the God it won't happen and you two basically said it another way.
God communicates to each one of us in a different way, because we are all Unique and Special. to him, we re all his children and which father doesnt want the best for his child . You were led this way but another it would be different .God sees the Heart and also the future. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much for this video, God bless you guys and God bless that young lady who asked that question: receive peace in Jesus name and plese meditate in this frase: "If it comes from God why are you anxious? And if it's not why you insist?" ~Omayra Alvarez
A lot of law, you need to be this and this good, you have to have good prayer life and then expect... gods blessings... it is not a New Testament it is law and Old Testament , you cannot be enough good in order to expect gods favor.. All you need is faith that god would bless you not because of your works but through your faith..
I think some of us are premature in judging wether or not this young lady heard from God. yes I do believe that God speaks to us directly about anything pertaining to our lives including potential life partners and spouses. but we play a part in how we go about receiving it and whether or not we open ourselves to the counsel of God on how to learn how to wait, and also implementing actions which opens up the door to what we heard becoming a manifested reality.
I actually dream about my husband. I have never met him but I got his name in my dream. He is well built and gorgeous. I know I will get married someday. I’m just wondering if the name I dreamt about is actually his
LISTENNNNNNNaahh!!!! I feel like the same applies in the reverse. Please tell me this applies in the reverse... meaning, God showed this man that I am his wife (God actually showed both of us simultaneously and shook my whole entire world up...omg!) I've been enjoying single-hood and settling into my purpose and letting God love me back to wholeness....and then this guy swoops in telling me he loves me and wants me to be his wife and has fasted/prayed about it and yada, yada, yada AND God confirmed it all with me sitting right there in the sanctuary. Now Im over here like a deer in headlights asking God what in the name of Peter, John and Paul is going on here!? I just need dude to let my feelings catch up with his cause he would marry me yesterday if I let him. #PumpYaBreaksHomeBoy #Chill #ThisIsAllNewToMe #Sigh #PleaseHelpMeUnderstand
So i dated a guy 2 years ago, i was so happy and we made promises that we were going to get married to each other. I talked to God about it and i asked God so many times and the answer was yes. I am a believer and that time i was at my highest of obedience, faith, honesty name it.i knew i was communicating to God and i still believe today that i was speaking to God and hearing from him, its just so happened that the guy God told me was my husband got married last month. I was not really heartbroken because we had broken up months ago. Now i met someone else i prayed and God said no i should not be with him am just confused as to how God could give me all the signs i wanted to get to know if he was my husband but married another person and now am asking about another person and he says no should i believe it... or how do you know its from God am afraid i believed his answer at first and now i don't know if i should believe that i shouldn't be with this new person. Help me
I had a vivid dream about a guy who'd be my husband in the near future but I didn't tell him anything. I prayed for God to make things clear because sometimes emotions can mix things up (I liked him anyway)..so when I was preparing for my 7days prayer and fasting asking God what I should do and how I should go about it or whether he is the one, I heard he was in a relationship and he is not those guys who play around with girls so they are not breaking it off any time soon as a matter of fact, they have a wedding next year. I cried my eyes out but asked God's peace. Here I am still waiting on God. unfortunately, I vowed to myself that I won't believe in dreams again, it will pro'ly require God himself to believe that a dream is true. Thanks for this segment.
Just subscribed .u guys are awesome..Christian couple empowering everyone to Seek Christ..etc .omg..You guys spirit is so bright and beautiful...I'm about to look at all ur videos...Inspired..God Bless...
You are correct that the enemy gives dreams. However, just because she has fallen into idolatry doesn’t mean God never gave her the word. If it has gotten to a point of idolatry, then Satan is INVOLVED. He has planted seeds of worry, fear and doubt to turn the mature stewarding of God’s promise, into SIN (idolatry). It’s our responsibility to steward the promises of God and exercise our faith muscles. However, were never called us to obsess about it-and that is where many are going wrong. That doesn’t mean God never showed her that though...that’s for sure.
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted and strength n arms I trust God and believe in him. I need to lead God for me pick him out to be my new future husband. I'm praying for his heart
In 1970, I was a teenager. I dreamed very clearly that I was in a church, marrying someone in the Air Force. I only knew 1 guy in the Air Force, and it wasn't him; I met someone else and got married. It was awful. In 1980, after my husband left us, I dreamed about the same guy, in the AF. I felt SO glad to see him, I cried. He hugged me, laughed, and said he had 8 years to go until he could retire; I remarried, a friend, but an alcoholic. Another bad marriage.
In 1990, a coworker introduced me to her dad, who had retired from...you guessed it...the AIR FORCE, in 1988!! We've been married for 29 great years! I'm so dumb, I didn't recognize who he was until his dad gave me a portrait of him at 18 in the AF, and IT WAS HIM! The guy from both dreams! He's been a great step-dad, and now a wonderful grandpa. He's the best. For some reason, it wasn't God's time for us until 1990. I just wish now I had waited and spared myself 2 bad marriages before God brought us together.
I love this
Wow
What?
God is soooo good
I love your story. God is truly faithful
The Lord told me that someone was my husband when I was 19. We dated on and off and went on with our lives separately. Fast forward we married 15 yrs later. It was right but the wrong season. Be still live ur llife. If it is God it WILL happen with and without your help. His word does not return void!!!
Dee Driver 🙌🏾
how did He tell you?
Dee Driver, let me get this right. "God" talks to you in your head? This same "God" supposedly directs your life. You have a brain but do not use it, wait for "God" to tell you what to do.
Gary Williams Let me get this right is that the interpretation you got from my spiritual experience? (Being facetious). Listen I never asked for anyone to understand. I simply stated a factual event that took place in my life and HE told me would take and it DID years later. It has nothing to do with Him thinking for me but I used my brain which allows me to choose free will to listen or not to listen and fortunately for me, the story went well. So yes hopefully you got it "straight". I dont mind sharing. I do mind being insulted but again we have free will to choose what we do with it. IF you're not married I suggest you trust Him to send you the right one. It will help u avoid much heartache but dont take my word Take HIS
Estel Villz He spoke it to me. I was walking on campus YEARS AGO. He was coming up a hill with black shorts on and a white cut off t shirt and the Lord said "and thats your husband" as if we were in conversation. I didn't know his name. I'd never seen him before but heard the Lord clearly. Mind you I grew up 7day adventist but was not saved at that time but believed in God. Dont let people talk you out of your experience. They believe with their head not their heart and surely not by their spirit. Be led. Theres nothing wrong with that. If you want to hear Him just pray and ask and request how you want to hear Him and trust me you will AVOID a lot if unnecessary unwanted events if u do.👍👍
And if God indeed told you that this man is your husband.... then sit back and trust God that he will bring it to pass no matter what the circumstances look like. We walk by faith and not by sight. God bless you
Cynthia Cooksey. Let me get this right. "God" decides everything in your life. You don´t choose, so you have no free will. This is nuts.
@@teenherofilms Your taking her comment out of context and reading into it things she did not say.
There are some people who choose to leave the mate selection process to God. It's their choice to ask Him that. And He can tell people who He knows is best for them. There are others who choose to date and seek His will through that process. It's not that people don't have free will, it's that they want to walk in line with God's will because that's what THEY want to do.
@@valerielinares2068 Except there is NO GOD. Human beings came about through Evolution. God is imaginary. God does not have a will because he does not exist
@@teenherofilms If you believe there is no God, then I wonder why you bother to comment on a video like this. Granted, you're allowed to comment on whatever you like. However, I don't see the point of commenting a comment like this on a video like this, unless your goal is to stir up strife. In which case, I don't bite. If you choose to believe in evolution, that's your choice. Just as it is my choice to believe in God, and I'm sure the same could be said for this Cynthia person. I highly recommend you move on with your life and stop seeking to stir up strife with those who believe differently than you.
Amen. God bless you. A really good comment and advice.
Ladies, it is NEVER the woman's place to tell a man he's your husband. It's out of order. The Bible says that he that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. It is the man's responsibility to find you AND to pursue you. Usually, God works on both sides, and the MAN and the WOMAN will receive confirmation from God about each other. If God shows you who your mate is, sister, keep it in your heart and put it to prayer until the man approaches you and gets things off the ground. Blessings.😊
So many women are left single and lonely believing this. Wow. Ladies, Approach the one you want, or be happy being single. It's not that hard.
Taking the scripture out of context
Aven Norfleet exactly! what is faith without works! sometimes you have to make the first move
@@issasecretsecret7814 In this climate men have been far too damaged to consider ever dealing with any woman. No religion or social programming will change that.
Aven Norfleet not necessarily true. i believe its who you surround yourself among. the men i know and are friends with arent in that category but yes ive ran into guys like that - arent my cup of tea lol
Seek first the kingdom and all its rightousness and everything shall be added unto you.
Tanyawillis yeeess
Why do I keep SEEING THIS?!?!?!?
Blessed Beloved maybe God is trying to tell you something
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Matthew 6:33 🙏
“Marriage is a minor theme in the Bible, the major theme is God.” Come on in here Ashley and speak ALL the facts!
surline jolicoeur love it
The book "30 Days to a Better Dating Experience" by Logan Tindell is an interesting approach using mindfulness and meditation. Dating can suck...if the person's perspective is off. Mindfulness helps.
But marriage does sanctify one and reduced alot of temptaions involving sexual immorality which is a serious sin since the bible says. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. NIV: Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body -1 Corinthians 6:18
sad how you think about this, actually it is a very important thing said in the first book of the Bible, it is not good for people to be alone, not a minor theme
I heard a story about God revealing this woman's husband to her in a dream. She knew he was going to be her husband for about 4 years before the guy realized she was the one God called him to. 4 YEARS! Just because God may have revealed your husband to you does not mean he has revealed you to your future husband yet. "Be still and know that I am God"
That sounds VERY similar to my story. I had a vision while awake, about 15 months ago, of my future wife. I saw what she looked like, I got her first name, some info about her personality and our future together, and how old we'd each be when we marry. The age which I was told I'd be when we marry is about 4 years in the future from now. I haven't met this woman yet and I don't even know her last name but God gave me probably close to a dozen signs out in the real world, out in every day life to prove to me that it was real and not my imagination or the devil causing the vision. God also told me she would search for me, and I wouldn't have to chase her. I'm standing on that, and prepping myself the best I can in every area of my life in the meantime while focusing on what God has called me to do work/business wise.
I've wrote about my ideal type of guy on my notebook and after that I pray to God to give me a hints about how my future husband would look like . Surprisingly after a week, I got a dream where I was holding this man's hand . He looks so handsome and it was literally fits with the ideal type I wrote on my note . That man never mention anything about we were getting married or whatever but I already knew it in my heart that he is my husband . I never felt so happy in my life when I was in that dream with him . Weirdly enough, I told this to my friend and she also had a dream where she saw a couple holding hands together and she said the girl looks like me . Is that a real sign? Or...??
@@noface6502 I would continue praying abut it. Surrender it to God and ask for His confirmations, trusting in His will.
Amen
@@noface6502 be careful with that in a sense. Because the enemy will and can trick you. We have to be careful with being consumed by someone's looks or whatever the case maybe.
I thought God showed me my husband in a dream at one point. My dreams were usually accurate however, I later realized that it was only my desire (thank God I didn’t say anything lol) You have to remember that the devil can also interrupt our sleep. Not everything you dream about is from God. Especially if you have a prophetic or apostolic anointing (it takes time to understand your gift... what is from God and what is not) the devil will try to tap into your gift (visions and dream). The purpose of that is to distract you... get you off your game. The fact that you are so anxious about him means that God have not given you peace and that is a SIGN all by itself. I’ve been there so my love.... please move on with your life and block him. You’ll thank God later. It’s not time (whom ever he is) and that’s ok 😘
Kay Bell what i didnt know devil can interupt your dreams wow :(
Well said! This really spoke to me. Be blessed! ❤️
Girl, discernment/wisdom on 100! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Before I knew my boyfriends whole name (he’s Spanish so he has a very long name and I knew him as just Sam) I was speaking with my Christian friend about my future husband and he told me to pray to God about what his name would be. I believe God told me Raymondo. Well this discouraged me so much because at this point in my life I just want to find the right one I don’t want to waste time with people who aren’t the right one and I think Sam is the right one so I thought omg this is just another random guy who won’t be my husband. Well after talking to him he tells me his full name and it is also Raymondo. But I don’t know if we will really get married.
@@putjesusfirst9814 How many Raymondo do you know Sis to doubt if you will really get married? :)
I had 3 different men tell me that God told them, via a dream, vision and fasting and prayer, that I was their wife. I was not focused on marriage just my relationship with the Lord. I didn't even have a relationship with either of these men outside of ministry and rarely spoke to either of them. This happened for about a year and a half. I figured if God hadn't notified me it most likely wasn't true. I kept my distance from them and prayed about it. I have now been married 22 years and not to any of them.
Awesome
I had one man tell me that God told him I was his wife. I also had another tell me to stop me talking to men and dating (using God as the excuse while I was on my journey). I would later find out that he began to grew feelings for me. The same man said that God revealed something to him about us. Here is my thinking, if God has a plan for us in either situation to be with someone I'm sure God will reveal it to both parties. If it is meant to be God will move mountains for it to come into fruition.
Kimbjm79 incredible comment that He'll move heaven and earth to make it happen, so true!
Amen. I often say, "God is not going to put my mail in your mailbox. We should both get a note."
Kimbjm79 but sometimes , at least in my experience, the other person knows but will still choose free will. I don't think God would force one person to marry another, if God did move mountains for the couple to be together, instead of allowing them to choose, I personally would be living a very different life . I think God has plans, but He gives us the choice
This is good! I had a dream and In
the dream God showed me who my husband was. I said lord if that was you show me again. He confirmed it through someone that knew nothing about me having a dream. I said lord if that was you show me again. HE DID! I definitely did not tell the guy b/c if God showed me, I knew he would show him too.
I had a dream where this guy ask me if I will be his wife forever and then a coworker said he had a dream of me and the same guy getting married. I also had another dream and vision and an auidble voice telling me he was my husband. I have been talking to him for over a year his father was a pastor and he does have feeling for me. I do hope he is the one and I will keep seekimg the Father and wait for Him to do it if is him. I believe what God has for you is yours.
Us women tend to think a lot with our emotions and we're often misled. Don't feel bad for having feelings for this person, because its human nature for as to have feelings. But allow yourself to be guided by the Holy Spirit and not by your heart. Submit those feelings and emotions to God, and stop overthinking things. Once you take away the feeling and the emotions, your focus will be redirected back to God..which is exactly where you want to be. Also when you pray for him, ask God to bless him with a Godly spouse, and ask God to bless you with a Godly spouse. If it's really God speaking to you, you both will end up together, if not you both will be blessed with great people. #noprayerwasted
Mercy Well said 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Yes I agree with Alicia! Well said & thoroughly put. Needed to see this, thanks 4 sharing 😎💖!!
Mercy wow wisdom!
Love this advice 🙌🏾
Mercy You say do not be guided by your heart???? Wow. How blatently stupid.
I wonder if we are really really hearing the Voice of God and not our own desires? Our passions for something or someone can deceive us to say “it’s God!”.... 👀
p31ChicaLove True i think about that too how can they be so sure that it is God and not their desire messing things up with their brain so they see that person in their dreams or hear thoughts🤔🤔Because when you like someone then you start seeing that person in your dream it doesn't mean that is your godly spouse.
Girl this is so true because a few years ago I thought I heard God and that was clearly not the truth... now looking back I am so happy he was not the one... I am also happy that I kept my mouth shut
Kay Bell True I always get sceptical when people say God spoke to me because i'm like "how are you so sure it was God talking in your head and not you thinking those thoughts" There is such a fine line between those too so i wouldn't be so sure in telling people God told me this or that🤔
Kelly K. Exactly.... your only job is to pray about it and ask God for tangible confirmation. If he really told you that, then he will confirm it in a way that is clear. I personally know someone who God showed her husband, however.... it was confirmed through random people who knew them separately and was trying to set them up. The person had no clue they had crossed paths already. She showed her a photo of a guy she wanted her to meet and my friend was just in shock. It was the same Guy. Lol they are now married. That’s why it’s important not to say it out loud. This way God can confirm it and there will be no doubt.
Kay Bell Amen sis totally agree👐God always confirms what he says or shows at least 3 times.
When GOD says anything to anyone that’s a promise that will come to past. I love you guys advice, a man will purse his wife you don’t have to chase him down.
That's right Ayesha
Exactly
Didn’t Ruth pursue Boaz?
I'm looking for love... I'm praying God to help me find that right woman from God.. I see her in my visions many times. If you se this message.. answer, because maybe its you that I see.
Yes, she did. We as women need to show a guy we are interested. Otherwise they might not have the courage to approach us.
We walk by faith and not by sight, it's true. But on the other hand, faith without works is dead. I believe that a woman has to give a man that sign that she wants to he found by him.
I also believe that God has told me who my husband is. Honestly, I used to obsess about it and I used to stalk him everyday to a point that it became unhealthy .
I agree with what Ashley and Carrington said. I had to let go and give it to God. It was really hard at first, but I believe that if he really is my husband ,then one day he will pursue me. There is nothing I can do about it till then, except prayer. So I'd advice you to let go, focus on what God has for you in this season and growing as an individual.
Julian Walters I just dont get it. Why can´t you find your own husband? You have free will. It´s like you need to sit back and wait and have some deity do it for you. Wow. This is off the wall.
@@teenherofilms This advice is only for Christians that have submitted themselves to the will of God... Just like Jesus submitted himself to the will of his father. Hence, we ask God for everything including spouses, because we're his children. The wisdom of God is foolishness to the world, while the wisdom of the world is foolishness to God.
@@deniskimani9062 Like I said this is off the wall. It´s actually HORRIBLE. The idea that "God" picks out your marriage partner is absurd in the first place and that I should "submit" to that is fuc..ed up BIG TIME. This video is for people with an IQ around the same as their shoe size
@@teenherofilms way too many people divorced these days. We don't have time for that
@@eisenhower9069 "God" does not exist
Just sharing my experience in this area:
I truly believed for 2 years that God showed me who I would one day marry. He was an acquaintance but nothing more. I had dreams, visions, signs, words, and literal prophetic dreams that would come to pass in his life. I became obsessive for a long time because I didn't know how to handle everything. I saw a word on a billboard one day that said "Guardian", and so I started to pray over him as a brother in Christ rather than a husband. I would have amazing months and moments where I felt like my feelings/thoughts on this subject were completely surrendered to the Lord, but then something would spark it back in my mind, and it would hurt me all over again. Honestly, I felt like God was teasing me. One of my best friends (who is also my mentor) had a conversation with me a few days ago because once again, I was hurt. This guy who hadn't been around in months showed back up to church the day after I gave the vision back to God because that vision isn't the same one He showed me 2 years ago. I was annoyed and frustrated, and my friend/mentor had an AMAZING Holy Spirit led word for me: this guy that I believed I would marry one day but had to let go was actually a representation of what I thought about God deep down: that He was unfaithful, He was cheating me, that He would not fulfill His promises in my life - which of course is the opposite of truth. God IS faithful, just, and the fulfiller of all His promises. This is aparently more than just me - it is a generational pattern, and I'm the one to break it. I felt like sharing this because sometimes it's not about what we're shown at all - it's what God is trying to teach us about Him as our Father and about our heart posture towards Him.
WHOA!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for sharing. Similar situation happened to me. It's been almost 4 years now. But I am pretty sure the guy is married to someone else now. I seriously need to work on trusting God. I have certainly felt and still sometimes feel that God is untrustworthy and won't keep His promises, or that He will but there's some sad "catch" or twist to them that leaves us miserable. I'm having the hardest time though because I feel that if I let it go and move on, then I'm not having enough faith in Him. But if I don't let it go, then I'm letting it consume me. I met someone else, but this relationship broke too. I have asked God to restore it. He has shown me signs of this, but it hasn't fully happened. I feel I'm in the same boat... I know I need to let it go, but won't doing so mean not having faith in Him? Idk. I just have been so confused.
smilecolorsan I am in the same situation, it's hard letting go, but God is true and his promises are yeah and Amen. Sometimes, God wants us to learn patience. Trust me, what your feelings is just a part of it. With time, if you continue to hold on to God and trust in him. He gives you peace. This thing has tormented me for the last 6 years, I have tried running away. But God kept bringing me back. Now.. He hasn't said one thing but am hoping for God's perfect season. It's frustrating and hard being without him.. Pray for grace to go through the whole process.
Aly DelCueto my dr God is faithful n will never led us in to confused.
Wow
I think a lot of women went through a "this is my husband" moment and it went the opposite direction and sometimes it's God way of saying to not be focused on the flesh, but the spirit.
God may use that vision even if you "mess it up" to train you into your purpose. Like Joseph. Don't believe for one second you can mess up a promise from God, you aren't that powerful. Focus on understanding your visions and dreams while soaking in as much scripture as possible. You'll see how you were meant to compliment that person in Christ instead of just be with that person. It's a difference.
Amen I agree.... he knows what we’ll do ahead of time- He wouldn’t tell us or reveal something to us if He knew we’d really “mess it up”
I was told when I met a certain guy that “ this is your husband”. I became obsessively into my ideology that this guy was my husband. What lessons I learned from this statement given to me of this guy being my husband was I became more closer to God and learned to love myself more and set healthy boundaries while healing my inner wounds from abandonment and trust issues. This guy, who I thought was my husband, moved on to another girl, and I’m in a place where im no longer desiring the connection but giving God praise through the connection I had in him. There is a saying. What’s meant to be yours will be yours. I trust God will my whole life and if this guy is meant for me and im for him we will be together when Gods timing says we can so until then im going to continue to grow in God and follow His will for my life. The guy that God will want me to end up with and build a strong marriage with God being the center will come when God thinks we are both ready so no need to freak out if I lost him cause what’s mine is never lost.
Did he ever come back ??
A man chooses a wife, not vice versa...That simple!
Cina Allen preach!
God told me who my husband was/is and we are not married yet but we talk about it all the time and we been together for 3 years now as of Dec 2018!! God will reveal it to male or female but it is up to the male to recognize that, that is his wife, that shes the one and also to propose. my man told me today that he gon propose and he gon do it his way and on his timing and I let him be. But God told me what it was in dec 2016 and i didnt share it with my king until we was like 5 or 6 months together. My king is so spiritual just like me so I couldn't hold in for forever. My spirit was just screaming to tell him so I did and he was with it 100 percent remind u we was only 5 to 6 months into our relationship. And as time passed we grew together, learned to love ourselves more etc now I'm sittin back and waiting on that outcome for my proposal and wedding and hopefully 2 beautiful chocolate babies. Thank u heavenly father for the gift that you gave me. The gift of a life partner, best friend, lover, provider etc thank u....3 years strong AMEN also Meagan good and devon Franklin's story and mines is so similar to the point to where it's scary LMAO 😊😊👌
Excellent point Carrington, timing is everything. The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing... Fear indicates misalignment
"The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing." Not necessarily. Sometimes it's about timing. It could be the right thing just came at the wrong time, but the right time could come later on.
NOT IF HE A TRUE MAN OF GOD AND IN THE SPIRIT IT WONT SCARE HIM OFF. BECAUSE GOD WILL SHOW HIM ALSO. WHAT GOD HAS FOR YOU IT IS FOR YOU. AND IF GOD SAID IT HIS WORD WILL NEVER RETURN UNTO HIM VOID.
Joyce Woodruff Though that may be so, God also made the man to pursue, and not the woman. When she takes on what God designed the man for, it will complicate the natural order. It may not scare him completely off, but it will create some problems.
Joyce Woodruff thanks! Great reminder. I needed to read this in this season. I am just focusing on God and daily surrendering what I believe God has spoken and the confirmation from others who I never told. I really appreciate it! :)
So these days we are the ones approaching men and telling them that they are our husbands. What happened to us as women remembering that we are the favour and daughters of the most high king? Daughters of a king don't Chase Anyone! Focus on God and relax.
Anne Grace HALLELUYAH!!!
Absolutely agree with you. Daughters of a KING never Chase anyone, quite the contrary we must focus on our relationship with our ABBA FATHER and in the right time He Will provide us with our husband.
ManelyNatural Me I agree with you and I think the best way is to just rest in the Lord and not worry about which guy we will marry. Everything will come together eventually.
I know it's easier said than done but we need to occupy our minds with other things and try not to stress about who our husbands are. 😊
Woah! Y'all look alike
Rosa Nkatha first think I noticed 😂😂truly a union and becoming one
@@authenticallyseen amen
I thought so too
Rosa Nkatha twin flames
Some women focus too much on the romanticized version of marriage instead of the realities. Women should focus on thier relationship with GOD, developing themselves, and the qualities of a GODLY woman. If not happy or complete/content alone, you'll never be happy in a marriage. Best wishes or shall I say, GOD's wishes to you in life and live. ❤.
but if you been single way too long and you feel you're carrying a void around, it doesn't necessarily mean that you're not content with your single life, it just means that you're missing your other half and that it's time to meet him.
Karon G Women should focus on finding somebody they are compatible with and love, not a "relationship with God", this is absurd. "God" is not responsible for your life or your free will, you are!!!
@@teenherofilms A LIFE NOT LED BY CHRIST IS EMPTY AND SORROWFUL. ABRAHAM WAS FULL OF DAYS.....NOTE "FULL OF DAYS". SEEK THE MEANING
Karon G hahaha tell us
I heard married couples say marriage is hard work. I know I lot of people that say once the honeymoon bliss is gone....1 to 2 years or after the baby is born, then the unveiling of the true personality of your significant other starts to unveal......what you thought was cute about him or her before the marriage becomes annoying. growing in character.....knowing how to strategies and critically think....studying the word and learning how to hear from God should be a woman's main focus and making sure she's ready to choose a man of character instead of waiting on a man to put a ring on her finger and fulfill a position that he may not be ready for.
Also Dreams don't walk straight. Sometimes what He is showing is sometimes symbolic of your future spouse character. So its important you pray and ask God for revelation
We may think we are hearing from God, but sometimes we can be wrong (I know from experience) and that’s okay. Doesn’t mean your relationship isn’t strong with God, it just means you may have heard incorrectly. Just remember there is no need to stress or obsess about what you believe is true, because If it is God will bring it to pass. Us trying to help in the manifestation is above our pay grade..This is why God doesn’t tell us everything because he loves us so much. He understands showing us a glimpse of our future at the wrong time can give us blurred vision. Just live, let go and trust god! If you mess up and repent he will turn your mess into a message and still give you more than you could ever want or imagine❤️🙏🏽😇
Are you making that man an idol.....? Girl, chill. Didn’t the Lord say “be still?” CHILL, sis. That’s a dangerous road
Yes ma’am! You nailed it!!
This is spot on. I tried chasing my future husband and I thank God that he didn't let me pursue him. I was and am not ready to be his wife or even ready to know him. I obsessed, but never acted on that obsession. I believe God showed me who my husband is so I will grow closer to God and not be obsessive anymore. I have come a long way since God showed me and I have a long way to go still. Thank you Ashley and Carrington and all the other commenters.
weenieboys 2 Same!!!
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Any updates?
@@onlineversion No, He's in another country now and I found out he has a girlfriend.
Great advice - and of course God is never going to "bless" you with an idol. If you are hyper-focused on this guy to the point that he occupies more of your thoughts than God does, you need to pray that God changes your heart. It's all part of the growing process - perhaps God is highlighting this to you in this situation.
I am so glad that I stumbled across this channel! I believe that God has showed me my future husband and I was praying about the next step! I am just going to wait.. work on myself and wait for our season.
Amen. Very good advice. Love is beautiful but us as women, myself included, have sort of made marriage an idol. It is not the end all of everything. Marriage is ministry and is deeper than just having someone you can call a "boo thang." God can very much show you who your future spouse is. I've had a similar experience, and yes please learn to keep your mouth shut!!! But then it became an idol and I clearly wasn't ready. In this season of waiting ask God to prepare you not just to be a wife but to be all that He has called you to be. Right now that is my focus and when you are walking in ordered steps and are focused on God, God will set things up to bring you and your husband together. You also don't want to become obsessed with a person because remember, we are humans, we are in this flesh, and we fall into sin. Maybe that person can backslide and fall out of the will of God and then you'll be really disappointed when ya'll don't end up marrying. Stay focused on God!
Great advice too
Kay Jarboe, that was well said, I love it.😍😘
Kay Jarboe Definitely Agree! I have had to remove marriage as an idol and now enjoying life, getting myself in line with where GOD wants to lead me. GOD loves us so much that we shouldn't want to put anyone or anything before HIM. HE us a JEALOUS GOD. And simply don't want to keep breaking HIS heart with my own desires. Great comment.
Kay Jarboe, this is "way out thinking". It is like you are a wind-up robot and "God" calls the shots. You have no free will of your own, "God" has decided it all for you.
When I’m ready, I’ll pray to god to show me my future wife.
God showed me my future wife(wich is my current gf) but 1 dream is not enough i had like 10 dreams because i prayed a lot,and God told me everything and told me that she is 1 step behind me in the relationship but will come to my level just need time
most people just stop at step 1 satan will do everything to stop it,once God reveales you that you should keep asking how to act and for revelation
1 dream is not enough you must have confermation because with this Satan starts being very deceitful and can confuse you and make you rush when you have to wait
Are you guys married yet?
God only shows me who my husband will NOT be, and I’m so tired of it.
It’s just a season ❤️
Well I believed God showed me my husband at some point, I was so convinced he was the one. I didn't go telling them about my belief. We found ourselves talking then dating but it ended in hell. This has happened a lot of times. My conclusion was, I was convinced by myself and I believed what I wanted to believe because I was desperate. God can never send u in the wrong direction, I sent my self in the wrong directions.When I decided to put my focus only on God, stay calm and trust him, he brought an angel int my life.
BE STILL & KNOW HE IS GOD!
An obsession with a man (or anything) is called "idolazation,meaning that you are replacing God's place in your heart with this man and God hates idol worship. I'd say she must focus on God & putting him first.
Great video. This is off topic but Im basing it on revelation and how we can get things wrong with God, I always test the spirit when someone prophecy's over me or speaks into my life. For instance, Ive been single for 3 years, never been with any man since and fully focused on my career... I went to a church service with a very small congregation and before church I completed a marathon race and my knees were hurting....afterwards as I was leaving service a guy came up to me and asked if he could pray for my knees I was like " Sure, Thank you" He prays and right after he goes "I believe God wants me to tell you to guard your heart, and stop jumping from relationship to relationship" I was like " Umm? WOW! Ok well Im single.... and I have not been in a relationship of any kind in 3 years so yeah? awkward" hahaha the guy was like " Ohhh!!!"
#candace am wondering if you ever encountered the guy again and whether you are still single.
Hahaha.
Just tell her the truth! That man is NOT that lady's husband. God is not the God of anxiousness, confusion, and worry. If God speaks something to you He will provide PEACE. This woman was so anxious and worried about expressing to this man that he was hers that she revealed this prematurely. God is NOT in that! Furthermore, now this man is confused and thinks she is crazy and probably will never pursue her, even if he was thinking about it. Move on, sis, and redirect your focus to God. Stop letting Satan play games with your mind!
Adawg that's not always true. Sometimes God shows you visions and a person can mishandle the situation. I've heard deliverance pastors say they learned their lesson not to expose to people everything God reveals to them. Because the enemy can use that to create drama/conflict. What she should of done was kept her mouth shut and waited for him to make a move on her while she kept her focus on God.
This happened to me, I thought God told me that someone was my husband. I mean I had dream and “confirmations”. But a few months later, after obsessing over it, God told me that he was not the one for me. The whole situation was not from God, it was filled with confusion and anxiety. The funny thing was God was telling me that He was not the author of confusion, but I wasn’t getting it. The dreams I had caused me to chase this guy and obsess over him. This was out of order, the man chases the woman, not the other way around. So in cases like this it’s from the devil or you. And it’s funny cause this happened to me at a time when I was ok with being by myself, and I was content with my singleness and God. The enemy brought the delusion because he wanted to get my attention off the Lord. Please don’t this this happen to you guys!!!! Test the spirit!!!!! I wasted time!!?!
Adawg sis!!! This was exactly what I was thinking!!! She had so much FEAR. She made it up, it ain't this hard!!
Reading your comments , I'm learning a lot. I also have dreams about " husbands to be" and turnout they aren't for me. Thank you! From now on I will be calm if its happens its happens
Though I understand what you are saying. You do not know what you are say for absolute certainty. Situations like this are usually specific to each person and their relationship with God and the other side is God's plan for them. I have every reason to believe what you are saying. Yet I agree with the approach they took to answer. You don't just give people answers on things like without really knowing.
I get anxious when it comes to these things so what I do is pray speak to my pastors and spiritual mature people so that I have the right advice to go off of. So that it helped me. Now I'm good simply because I've never really had to deal with relationship stuff. So when my emotions arose. I was in shambles. Was a new thing but thank God he answers prayers.
I liked because you guys make such a beautiful couple 😍
but yes lol I absolutely agree. Just trust God and focus on living out your purpose in Him. Seek God. Marriage will come and no matter what seek God. There’s purpose in singleness and in marriage.
For more inspiration you can check this out ua-cam.com/video/PmgTEYiOvp8/v-deo.html
trust in God.if you truly believe that God has something install for you.why worry or waste time trying to speed up things when God knows the right time and right place for it to happen.God is precise in his methods.he doesnt need help.wait for God to fulfill his promises.
Rose Madara amen! But how do you know if God promised you something?
Seek first the kingdom of God all these righteous things shall be added unto you
Very good thought .. God Bless U
Not everyone is given the privilege to have an amazing marriage but whatever your heart desires, always think that God has a perfect plan for you. Just enjoy life and appreciate what you have at the moment because the right husband that you wished for will come when you least expect it.
Lol i can't focus while your hubby be making these facial expressions!! 😂😂😂 rotf.
Kayyy I was looking for this comment, thanks sis! Like seriously I wish somebody would give him a tissue I don't know if it's allergies, if his nose is itching or what but I was so distracted. They had a great message though.
Hahahahaha Haaaaaa i was thinking the sammmme thing!😂😂😂😂😂
thought it was just me
I think hubby was trying to hold back what he REALLY wanted to say. "Sister, you are bugging...you DID chase that man off...Sister just SURRENDER, SURRENDER, SURRENDER TO GOD!!!!
Proverbs 3:5- Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
This is exactly what I needed today. I lost my focus because I was so focused on the guy i believed would be my husband. Thank you so much! Just subscribed ❤️
Beautiful advice thanks!! I have had a similar experience. I just told the guy I had a crush. He said his feelings were not mutual. He would be so weirded out if I said God said hes the one. After awhile I got over him thought he was immature anyways. Then in the car 2 times I randomly felt again he was the one. Im like no way we are soooo not compatible hes 3 years younger than me and not mature enough. He is a youth pastor I am a teacher at our church school. We are on school board and he comes to school to help sometimes. Time will tell. In the meantime Im not obsessed because Im at peace weather it was God or weird feelings Ive had. Ive heard in the past but I could tell the difference between my feelings and the visions and voice God showing me.
If I was talking to her I would say this..."'GIRL" Stay still just like God said. The Bible says when a MAN finds....a wife, not a pest, a nuisance, not a whiner or stalker. What I heard in this question was, I, I, and I.......re-shift your focus on God....amen to all that Ashley and Carrington said.....
Bernice Coles you need to copyright that phrase!!!!
Right!! So good...
So true.
😹😹😹true
The story of Abraham helped me with this situation. It’s a dangerous thing to go before the lord. God plans is perfect and he tells them to us not to work it for him but to wait on him don’t be like Sarah and end up with a Hagar situation
Sonya Henry Wow!
I had a dream this morning. I’ve decided to remain celibate last year. I don’t know who he is never seen or met him. It was a very detailed dream. It just gave me hope to keep waiting and getting myself together. I have a lot of work to do on myself. I’m so excited I held his hand and touched his face.
When I say she answered that question, I mean she ANSWERED that question.👏👏👏
But how he looks at her. It's beautiful. They love each other so much. I love this message
One of the things we all often forget, it's not everything God tells you, that is for publication...
Most of the time, keep quiet and pray the will of God.
Oh my ! Exactly as my scenario today! 😭 and I will still hold on to that vision! In His perfect time 🙏🏻
I had the same dream and the guy is now married with 2 kids and am still single 😂😂😂and no longer thinking about this man ..girl..don t focus it s just a dream if it s going to happen after 5 years why god will reveal it for u now ..move on you will find someone better along the way 😀😎
Elisabesse Gracia , that doesn't mean You didn't hear well.
The Guy might have heard and decided not to.
Thank God You are not obsessing tho' 👌
Thank you guys😇
@@graceibelegbu189 thats sad....😢
That's true - when a man really loves and wants you then he will pursue you. Amen to that! Praise the Lord cause His ways are the best, yet usually not without effort, hardships and our self-development.
First question happened to someone I know. They ran that man down. To the point I was embarrassed for them. He answered the question right on point.
I did the same. I’ve dreamt since 2010 concerning my wife. The same woman. In 2014 I had the most dreams. About 14 dreams of her. Of a Child. Angels bearing witness and God Himself speaking of the Union. I became anxious and sought her out religiously! It scared her and ever since it has been difficult just to get a simple conversation. Though, in most dreams she does seem to be very thick skinned. But many of the visions have come to past already....
I’ve grown more patient and less concerned. Setting these promises in the hands of the Giver.....
Any update?
@@onlineversion Still waiting…
Thank you so much! I needed to receive this message about focusing on God, and not on my desires only. This applies not only to marriage, but to every other thing in life.
God bless you
I had dreams about a coworker I liked that went on for a few years. They were not sexual or inappropriate, but very detailed. Eventually I got another job and did not keep in contact with him during the time this was happening. I prayed and tried to confide in my pastor about it. He quickly dismissed it as a soul-tie (I thought soul-ties only came for sexual intercourse) so I wasn’t satisfied with that answer. Then unfortunately I came across somebody on a Christian forum who claimed to have the gift of dream interpretation. Long story short, he gave me false information and made me think the interpretations meant that I would reconnect with this guy and get married in the future. We reconnected briefly on social media as friends and then a year later he married someone else. I’ve heard stories of people being misled in this way before, but I hoped it would NEVER happen to me. Now I’m not looking for signs, dreams, prophetic words or whatever. I just want things to unfold in real life one day at a time without analyzing everything. I’m honestly devastated by the whole thing.
First thing I would say is that anytime you think you've had a dream or a vision from God, but you want clarification, ask God. He would be more than willing to clarify what you ask of Him.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6.
This verse is an anchor for my soul when I'm tempted to figure it out on my own.
Omg I cannot count the number of times I prayed to God to bring me a husband. I'm 34 and still no sight of mr. right, so now I actually gave up praying for that request even though it's a desire that I still carry in my heart but I no longer believe that there is someone out there for me because it's been way too long and it's just not happening.
Estel Villz u can't give up praying now. it's all a test of faith. Still make your requests known and in the meantime pray that he gets you ready to be that Godly wife.
Same.....45 and it hasn’t happened. 😒
"Seek first the kingdom of God..... do you in this season"!!!!!!!! Amen! "keep calm! yes words to live by!
Praise God! Love your ministry! We have to lead by the Holy spirit! The word of God says in
Proverbs 18:22 (KJV) " Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD." As a man we have to go after the women that God have for us. It's are decision to choose. That's why God gave us freedom of choice. But Before any dating or courting relationship with to have Close relationship with God.
Proverbs 3:5-6(KJV)
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Matthew 6:33(KJV)
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Sometimes you have to use the wisdom of Mary the mother of Jesus. She PONDERED things in her heart. When its the season for it to happen it will.
sassyasme 123 Hmmmm.. interesting take on this.
I know God sent me a vision of my husband's name. I've not said anything to a guy. I know God is preparing me for him to come to me. My being a helpmeet is coming soon.
Less of me, more of Him (God)!
I'd would say she need to pray asking God to shift her focus and not too much on this guy. And daily ask The Holy Spirit for practical ways to focus on other things in life.
Shaunée Nicole thank you I needed this 🤗
God showed you your husband but as I get older I realize it doesn't work like that with everybody
Elaine Elaine that is true. It happened to a woman that I know and it was confirmed a few times but he decided to marry on his own free will and even though that was Gods will, it didn't happen.. But God will bless her and prepare her for better! The guy just went downhill from there though because I believe he married for money and materialistic things but when God blesses you..
If God showed you ask for a proff , and if He is God, He will give you the Word .
Christina Lucas , same experience here.
He is making no sign of choosing Me after many years.
I decided to move on but I can't see God's blessing on My choice to move on.
I felt that since You were the willing party, even if things don't work out, God will compensate You.
Why is Mine different?
I keep having a recurring dream where I'm in the church at the altar in my wedding gown with family in the background but never a groom. I wonder if this dream indicates that i will be single forever. Everytime I get that dream I wake up in a panicky state.
@@estelvillz3637 I think that dream is just revealing your fears and anxieties concerning whether you get married - not a prediction that you won't. In the meantime, surrender your desires to God and choose to trust Him and put Him first. If it is God's will for you to marry, He will bring the right man, under the right circumstances, in His perfect timing.
Gr8 ans Carrington!!!! Wow God spoke your exact words to me... Ashley i couldn't of said it better myself, Keep your focus on God..
Matthew 6:33 "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these. things shall be added unto you.
Both of you are so blessed.
God give you a good husband like him, because God knows how good person you are too.
and I just want to thank you for sharing this kind of video.
Hey, thanks for this video! How do you KNOW that God labels someone as your husband? I got a lot of confirmation about a certain guy and I think we might end up together one day (maybe). I have written, specific confirmation and prayed for God to bring me a man with the qualities I wrote down. They were internal things, God already what I like height wise and other things like that so I prayed about the internal things and different unique qualities that I have always been attracted to that I would love to see in my future husband one day (if I end up getting married)- anyway I prayed that specific and prophetic prayer 2 months before I saw this guy and 8-9 before I met him and when I prayed I said "God I know this will weed out 99.9 percent of guys-
so when I see someone with all of these qualities I will know that he is the one for me. I also prayed I know you know what I want and need and I trust you to give it to me and I know the things I just prayed for are things you want for me so thank you Jesus in advance". So then 2 months later I found who that guy was, we met and hung out a little bit at an event he was playing and before I left he gave me a hug and said I had to come to the next show he does in that area, so I happily agreed and I'll see him this year. That was last year.
We are both nondenominational Christians and our ages are 19 and 21 (I'm 19 & he is 21).
So anyway a week and a half after we met an old friend of his decides she wants to date him and now they are dating and I felt foolish, betrayed and crazy because if you knew the whole story you would know the confirmation was real, no one knew about my prayer and things were being revealed to me quite fast. And I hope and pray I didnt ruin God's plan because I was foolish enough to joke with his now gf's sister about the two of them dating- then they started. I was confused, I was also super tired that day so when that joke came to mind I had a thought that said dont say it but I did it anyway. I thought that was my own voice saying that so I ignored it and now I think it was God saying dont say that but I cant fix it and it was eating me up at one point but I think he had a crush on her before but she was annoying with him and acted like she wasn't interested in him for a long time.
So I keep thinking I should just give up, but when I tried I felt like I could not because I was not just crazy- I had direct and clear confirmation but circumstances don't seem to be lining up. Some people say don't worry about the circumstances because God sees what we dont see and then some people (also Christian) say that God speaks through our circumstances as well as His word and personal confirmation (if I remember correctly). So I really dont know whats gonna happen. I have tried to just see if I can find someone else to be with and God is refusing to let that happen and I also feel like no matter what I do or who I am with it's settling if it is not that guy. I keep thinking of all the prayers and the several months of confirmation that I kept track with in my prayer journal. So that is the reason why I have not stopped thinking it MIGHT happen, if you knew the things that have happened you can see it was intentional. Well thanks for the help on the vid, God bless!
Good information! I was thinking it sounds like she needs to redirect that obsession to the Lord because as long as she puts him on a pedestal above the God it won't happen and you two basically said it another way.
God communicates to each one of us in a different way, because we are all Unique and Special. to him, we re all his children and which father doesnt want the best for his child . You were led this way but another it would be different .God sees the Heart and also the future. Thanks for sharing.
He gave good advice about what to do with the information God gave you, worked on yourself or keep praying yourself.
You guys are true Christians.
I feel like this was really wise counsel ! Thank you 😊
I believe GOD will use the woman to confirm to the man what HE said to him. GOD ALWAYS CONFIRMS HIS WORD✝️
If he’s yours sent from God.... He WILL be back
Thanks for sharing. Confirmation from God. Really spoke to me.
Thank God for this message. Focus💪🏾
God bless you and your family!
Ashley snaaaappped…..thank you for the honesty and insight
Thank you so much for this video, God bless you guys and God bless that young lady who asked that question: receive peace in Jesus name and plese meditate in this frase:
"If it comes from God why are you anxious? And if it's not why you insist?"
~Omayra Alvarez
I LOVE watching Carringtons facial expressions when she reads messages 😂
A lot of law, you need to be this and this good, you have to have good prayer life and then expect... gods blessings... it is not a New Testament it is law and Old Testament , you cannot be enough good in order to expect gods favor.. All you need is faith that god would bless you not because of your works but through your faith..
I think some of us are premature in judging wether or not this young lady heard from God. yes I do believe that God speaks to us directly about anything pertaining to our lives including potential life partners and spouses. but we play a part in how we go about receiving it and whether or not we open ourselves to the counsel of God on how to learn how to wait, and also implementing actions which opens up the door to what we heard becoming a manifested reality.
Sister, just SURRENDER, SURRENDER, SURRENDER IT TO GOD! Proverbs 3:5 - Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
Great advice as always, but girl,I love your lipstick and nail polish combo!!
It's Ashley's flawless make-up for me!💗
Thanks that was absolutely spot and story of my life. Thank u.
Love the new look Ashley! The straight hair softens you that much more. #KeepSlaying
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband ? Thanks, God bless you ...
I actually dream about my husband. I have never met him but I got his name in my dream. He is well built and gorgeous.
I know I will get married someday. I’m just wondering if the name I dreamt about is actually his
Great advise. Thanks, family. Y'all are so beautiful, I got something from that also. 💯🔌♥☮
LISTENNNNNNNaahh!!!! I feel like the same applies in the reverse. Please tell me this applies in the reverse... meaning, God showed this man that I am his wife (God actually showed both of us simultaneously and shook my whole entire world up...omg!) I've been enjoying single-hood and settling into my purpose and letting God love me back to wholeness....and then this guy swoops in telling me he loves me and wants me to be his wife and has fasted/prayed about it and yada, yada, yada AND God confirmed it all with me sitting right there in the sanctuary. Now Im over here like a deer in headlights asking God what in the name of Peter, John and Paul is going on here!? I just need dude to let my feelings catch up with his cause he would marry me yesterday if I let him. #PumpYaBreaksHomeBoy #Chill #ThisIsAllNewToMe #Sigh #PleaseHelpMeUnderstand
So i dated a guy 2 years ago, i was so happy and we made promises that we were going to get married to each other. I talked to God about it and i asked God so many times and the answer was yes. I am a believer and that time i was at my highest of obedience, faith, honesty name it.i knew i was communicating to God and i still believe today that i was speaking to God and hearing from him, its just so happened that the guy God told me was my husband got married last month. I was not really heartbroken because we had broken up months ago. Now i met someone else i prayed and God said no i should not be with him am just confused as to how God could give me all the signs i wanted to get to know if he was my husband but married another person and now am asking about another person and he says no should i believe it... or how do you know its from God am afraid i believed his answer at first and now i don't know if i should believe that i shouldn't be with this new person. Help me
He will confirm all His promises.
I need to listen to this on repeat 😂
I had a vivid dream about a guy who'd be my husband in the near future but I didn't tell him anything. I prayed for God to make things clear because sometimes emotions can mix things up (I liked him anyway)..so when I was preparing for my 7days prayer and fasting asking God what I should do and how I should go about it or whether he is the one, I heard he was in a relationship and he is not those guys who play around with girls so they are not breaking it off any time soon as a matter of fact, they have a wedding next year. I cried my eyes out but asked God's peace. Here I am still waiting on God. unfortunately, I vowed to myself that I won't believe in dreams again, it will pro'ly require God himself to believe that a dream is true. Thanks for this segment.
The devil gives dreams too. Pray for discernment.
@@eisenhower9069 By the way..I am married now to the man who exceeded my dreams..not the one I saw in the dream, lol
@@gloriamutoni5137 praise be to God
more grace and wisdom Ashley and Carrington in JESUS NAME AMEN.
God bless you
This was very encouraging!!!
Just subscribed .u guys are awesome..Christian couple empowering everyone to Seek Christ..etc .omg..You guys spirit is so bright and beautiful...I'm about to look at all ur videos...Inspired..God Bless...
satan can speak to use in our dreams just like God can. if it turns into an obsession thing that takes us off of God then it ain't Him.
You are correct that the enemy gives dreams. However, just because she has fallen into idolatry doesn’t mean God never gave her the word.
If it has gotten to a point of idolatry, then Satan is INVOLVED. He has planted seeds of worry, fear and doubt to turn the mature stewarding of God’s promise, into SIN (idolatry).
It’s our responsibility to steward the promises of God and exercise our faith muscles. However, were never called us to obsess about it-and that is where many are going wrong.
That doesn’t mean God never showed her that though...that’s for sure.
Love this 💛
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted and strength n arms I trust God and believe in him. I need to lead God for me pick him out to be my new future husband. I'm praying for his heart
GREAT ADVICE. You guys look great together😁😁😁😁