NEVER delete yourself over a woman. They won’t even care, they’ll probably just laugh.
They won’t be happy but slightly proud that they caused such a great effect on you. It strokes their ever growing ego
My sister's ex committed suicide shortly after their break up. She feels guilty about it. She leaves flowers on his grave on his death day and she doesn't ghost guys anymore because she doesn't want something like that to happen again.
I understand how you feel but one thing you have to understand about women is that they're like 10 year old kids in adults' bodies. They can't comprehend as much as guys can.
Reminds me of the monks who immolated themselves on national TV back in the day... And that's precisely what the news anchors did. They laughed. Nobody cared what they felt, what they represented, why they'd go through all that misery just to send a message... a message that was lost on them. That lack of sympathy is fucking reprehensible.
@@jordanhurst4460 I hope she never forgets what she did, and I pray she never finds a successful relationship.
I know a women that helped her BF deletion. She has a smile everyday. Also two of my exes did not care at all about my mental heath. They just scoffed and eventually skipped to other dudes. I have survived, 40 now and going hard to be successful again without heartless b1tches. Men, rise above, you are worth way more than women.
Love how they all only think about the embarrassment of women cheating. They completely forgot about the devastation caused by losing almost everything to a woman and possibly having to continue to pay for the women that cheated.
These women also ruthlessly destroy their children's lives with their s-xual choices. It's selfish and the new men they bring home are 20x more likely to abuse the children.
I believe most understand your points and more are included. The start over aspect is huge. But the Anthony Bourdain example shows the devastation still exists when you have everything else to back up your daily life. On so many levels a man is gutted when he's devoted to a woman and she cheats
There was a psychological study, unsuccessful suicide RR were interviewed, asked if someone somewhere cares that you attempted suicide and would want to help you. Most women said yes, most men said no. They concluded that suicide is attempted by women as a cry for attention, but men just wanted to check out.
i have a friend that attempted suicide and met a girl in psychiatry that did the same. the guy chose 68 pills of a drug that causes seizures without help dead is certain and a pretty horrible death at that. the woman told him her way to go was to take 10 sleeping pills. at that time the stuff that kills you in sleeping pills was taken out, cause too many ppl killed themselves with sleeping pills, what she did isnt a real suicide attempt its a cry for attention or in her case because of her bipolar disorder.
Yeah I reference this whenever someone mentions women's high suicide attempts. There are SO many people who poorly attempt suicide for attention from family or friends and it isn't a good metric for life satisfaction.
The old man must be flabbergasted by the type of women modern men have to deal with. I wish RP would talk to that old generation that can communicate to help communicate what is going on to women
I’m 65. I’m flabbergasted by the type of women that I have to deal with, let alone what young men have to deal with. But, the thing is, I can recognize this is how women have always been. We men (most of us ) were just blind to it. Thank a feminist for making female nature visible.
@@interestingtimes6242 Female nature is also clearly visible in ancient writings, but alas, hardly anyone reads historical texts.
@@interestingtimes6242very true. The older gentleman experienced firsthand female monkey-branching against their self-interest and blowing up their family relationships in the process.
I was cheated on by my ex 4 years ago. She cheated on me with her boss who made 500k a year.
Thoughts of deletion rose up, but also the urge to follow HIM in the night and put a blade into his spine also crossed my mind.
These are things many people don't think about.
The amount of men arrested for battery and attempted murder from these situations are pretty serious.
I didnt do either but coming from a previous life that i was good at doing things at night it was hard.
But here i am remade. And she has herpes and paid 25k for baby with her tubes tired snd hes divorced, herpes ridden, and well he may have some money left but not much😂.
I hate hearing people laugh about cheating cause you never know what that dude you fucked over will do🤷♂️
good men are weak. caus the laws prevent them from evening the scale.
so the rich dude, tainted another women, broke a relationship. keeps making cash and going around destroying society.
and hes completely innocent... hes just an alpha chad.... and the guy whos cheated on is the sap. the feeling of betrayal from society is just as great when you realise the scales of justice are unbalanced
he gets to go on spreading that mantra. and you get to sit and feel betrayed. those thoughts you had are gonna start coming up for alot of men
dont get it wrong either. the guy making 500k would have you deleted if you walked up to him warning him you had those thoughts, hed go to jail willingly, or hed have someone else do it for him. those men dont care about society. they care only about themselves and their lineage
jail doesnt affect a rich man's resume as much as it does a working man's resume
I dont allow myself to get upset when hearing/viewing females speak about men in such a dismissive manner because this topic hasn't touched them personally.
*As the older gentleman shared his story, the women were looking at him like, "Sucks to be you" and immediately transitioned to the next topic. Like I said, people can only empathize with something thats his them personally.*
No men can empathize, women lack almost all empathy toward men. It's sociopathic.
It is not more pain, it is more loss. For men, replacing a woman is difficult,
One of the main reasons men are looked down on after breakup no matter who instgates it is a woman's tendency to claim abuse or toxicity for the attention it garners
I've.never once in my life hear a woman claim she was the reason they split up it's always the man who did something wrong or wasn't good enough
@@mattc3510 yup pretty much also women in 2023 have giant egos because of social media you have obese cows thinking they are 10's
Its the reason to this day why me and my wife don't speak to my wife's sister in law (who cheated on my wife's brother, blamed it all on him, and now walks around as if the whole thing never happened).
I know a women that helped her BF deletion. She has a smile everyday. Also two of my exes did not care at all about my mental heath. They just scoffed and eventually skipped to other dudes. I have survived, 40 now and going hard to be successful again without heartless b1tches. Men, rise above, you are worth way more than women.
Taking a life is the ultimate expression of control so her being a control freak psychopath is ofc giddy that she got someone to self delete.
Infidelity is a FAR greater threat to a man's sexual strategy than it is to a woman's sexual strategy. That's why it results in breakup 95% when the woman does it, and only 2/3 of the time when a man does it.
I can't fathom ending it over a woman. I can't even fathom letting her have the satisfaction of me being depressed for a long period of time because of her. She gets 24-48 hrs of my emotions - MAX.
Facts! 💯💯💯 I’m starting to get pretty disgusted with Rollo and this dude Sartain. Sounds to me like they’re a couple of reformed simps turned pseudo-alpha. Any real man would never become so dependent on one woman to the point where he let her get in his head like that! These dudes sound like a couple of pu$$ies! 😂
Facts! 💯💯💯 I’m starting to get pretty disgusted with Rollo and this dude Sartain. Sounds to me like they’re a couple of reformed simps turned pseudo-alpha. Any real man would never become so dependent on one woman to the point where he let her get in his head like that!
Facts! 💯💯💯 I’m starting to get pretty disgusted with Rollo and this dude Sartain. Sounds to me like they’re a couple of reformed simps turned pseudo-alpha. Any real man would never become so dependent on one woman to the point where he let her get in his head like that!
Facts! 💯💯💯 I’m starting to get pretty disgusted with Rollo and this dude Sartain. Sounds to me like they’re a couple of reformed simps turned pseudo-alpha. Any real man would never become so dependent on one woman to the point where he let her get in his head like that!
I got zeroed out year and half ago and to this day struggle daily not to self delete. Men’s struggle is real
The fact is that men are more invested in a relationship than a woman. The thing a woman is heavily invested in is her kids. Thats why when women leave a man the loss for a man is way more overwhelming than for a woman. Let alone the effort it take for a man to get a woman compared to how little effort a woman needs to suitors lined up for 10 street blocks.
"guess men need women more" no bitch we just actually rely on you to be a decent human being which is clearly our fault.
i knew young guysin highschool who went on killing rampages and went to prison because they had 304 cheat on them..And they are in a maximum prison till this very day while that same girl who cheated on them is still roaming around with no remorse
It's funny to them. Just look at the smirks on their Faces.
This goes deep, men can very quickly reduce themselves to NOTHING , women always feel they have some level of value . Anthony Bordain , such a huge loss , he was a phenomenal man and human being . We need to check on our friends , it could mean life or death . God bless ❤
This is true, when girl cheated me.. I need 4 years to stop thinking on her
The pain is the same but the loss is not.
If a woman is cheated on and dumped and left with nothing - she can simply put makeup on and walk into a millionaires life the next day and be set. She probably wouldn't even need to as she would receive so many parachute payments via the divorce settlements. She will be just fine with minimal effort.
Guys cannot do that, nor do they receive such parachute payments. They receive the opposite.
Does not surprise me one bit the way the stats are stacked in male deletions favour
I think more men rather delete themselves then remake themselves. What I mean delete is giving up and removing themselves from the market place becoming less of a man playing videos games and jerking off losing confidence n not working on themselves. Rejection and cheating is part of the game. Move forward and become a better you then u was yesterday. As a Man U if ur working on everything consistently eventually u win as u get older.
its easier said than done bro.
Imagine working your whole life for what you have (social status, family, financial security, house) - then in an instant, through no fault of your own - its all gone.
Your wife cheats, divorce, you lose the house and bank, and sentenced to overinflated childcare alimony payments for the next X years, you lose your social status (as most of the time husbands and wives share the same social circles - and of course they will pick her side and freeze you out) - you lose respect from your colleagues, you lose productivity due to the stress of it all. You now live in a garbage flat alone and broke monday-friday and with weekends dedicated entirely to your children.
yeh, that aint an easy situation to pull yourself out of bro.
@@CamronLummus-mx6zj with that mentality u will always be unsuccessful with women and everything else in life. U need to have confidence and improve in all areas. No excuses
@@CamronLummus-mx6zj you have the whole world to explore u don’t have to settle for the states
Look at their faces they don't give af and keep making dumb jokes. They are evil, never take them seriously, never be simpathetic , never pander to them when they play victim.
How fucking evil do you need to be to turn that around and call men "unstable" or weak. We're ugly on the outside but these women are ugly on the INSIDE
It comes down to hope. Women always have hope that they can find someone else, whereas most men do not
Delete yourself over a woman? Lol. From the streets she came and to them she has returned.
Look at the bright side those people finally get to leave this universe and escape it
When a man cheats on a woman, she has a support group, Men don't have that. Men have been told to suck it up from a very young age when something hits them emotionally. If a man to shows his emotions, He is considered weak, ridiculed amd teased by his friends. Womens friends can take her to a club where she can be hit on by men and make her feel better. What are the man's options? Be taken to a strip club where he can look at women, he'll never have a chance with. When you suck it it up long enough and don't have enough reasons to continue sucking it up, you don't see why you should continue. It's not just the cheating, It's just the last straw.
he should start posting links to the full episode. Or guest socials because that's really what I'm looking for lol
I think a big part of this is also that women have at each point in their lives like at least 50 contacts in their phone or social media who would compliment their pictures show interrest in their lives and would immediatly show interrest in a relationship if they where to break up with their bf. So a women doesnt even have the option to feel unwanted, maybe for a short time but she will be swarmed by love interrests in no time.
Guys dont have that, nobody cares about you if you lose her you start from 0 trying to find someone who knows you exist. So feeling unwanted is a very real asessment of the situation as a guy. Self deletion is not a revenge on anyone its not to make anyone regret their choices, its to make the pain go away, its an easy way out of a shitty situation. And this number will go up, my guess would be that in the next 20 years this will get so severe that even the government has to step in in some way. Social media is a blight on mental health
I lost my long career,my girl and had to put my dog max down,the only reason I didn't delete myself was because my brother beat me to it and I didn't want to leave my parents childless
if u live a shit life like us it makes it that much harder when ur black pilled lmao
That one really thinks she's making some points.
It'd be nice having a summary of who's on these shows.
How does it affect the everyday man?
1. Well, let’s start with the emotional pain you’d expect with a loss.
2. Then let’s go with the mental pain of torturing yourself constantly trying to figure out what you did wrong to make her do this to you. Because it will be your fault in your mind regardless of the actual reason.
3. Then let’s go with the humiliation of EVERYONE finding out (and they will).
4. Your friends don’t respect you anymore.
5. Your job performance suffers so they don’t respect or value you as much as they may have.
6. People are disgusting so it will be brought up to anyone new you try to meet and before you have a chance , they’ve already decided you’re not worthy.
7. All these things can culminate in possible self deletion, forced unemployment, loss of home, loss of a support system that you’ve spent your life building, loss of your identity as a human being because again, people are disgusting and will twist the knife when they can. Friends, family, whoever. It’ll happen.
This shit actually kills people and it’s gross af that this chick literally sits there with a straight face and asks a question like that
Never delete yourself. Just take yourself out the Matrix and tell women to F off!
Far too many of my friends and family have bought a one way ticket to Greenland.
Miss Anthony Bourdain he was amazing on his tv shows. I’m sure as a person also.
Where is the link for full video?
how do they not put some options to click on pics of these women? Content is one thing, but seeing them can clear some things up on why people think what they think. Not a bad thing, just making a point!
Build yourself up man.
What’s the older guys IG? Weekend cowboy or real weekend cowboy? Can’t find it.
What episode is this from?
A good friend of mine in my unit killed himself while we were on deployment because he found out his fiance was cheating on him.
Another friend of mine from the same unit on the next deployment found out he was cheated on by his wife while deployed. He's still serving time over the case. The DA wanted to get them on torture, kidnapping, and aggravated assault and battery. These dudes were in my fire team, hell I was their point man. Men don't fuck around with that stuff. That being said I also slept with a married woman and would own the consequences if anything ever happened.
Apparently I can't post the link.. But there's an article on the Washington post about them
Ssriously? Your saing its no big deal if im cheated on? He broke my heart, he emotionally damaged me, he fucked me up mentally. When i leave i am never dating again, ever. I will never go through this again, never. I will be the crazy cat lady but no man will get my trust or come near me again.
who's Joe Shmoe in this episode?
Is It Greg Glassman
Men: Protect yourself emotionally.
Always have a rotation of women, So when you lose one you have others to fall back on. An its not such a devasting lost.
Why have
Multiple cars
Multiple streams of income
Multiple properties
But only have ONE Woman?
Thats like saying you can only have one child or one pair of underwear, or ONE dollar pay check.
Dont blame the victim here. Adults have the right to walk away. To say you're committed while you cheat around is shit tier human.
Will say Bourdain had thoughts of offing himself his entire life. It may be a chemical imbalance like lack of good chemicals. Melancholia.
My ex boyfriend self deleted himself after he found out I moved on living my life with someone new! He was a successful black man, 6”6, 250 lbs, ex military and he had everything and had the looks and money. But the control/ego was an issue and he couldn’t fathom the fact that I am happy with someone else without him being part of his life. 12 days later, self deleted himself 😢
I'm glad you found happiness. I'm sad for his family that spent decades raising him from a giggling baby, adolescent teen, to full on adult man that will never take care of his mom or grow old. But I don't know both of your lives, there was probably many factors. He may looked like a man on the outside, but we are all squish boys on the inside. I do appreciate that you made this comment 🙏🏽.
I call BS. The entire ego was an excuse probably so you wouldn't get called out by others here for leaving him for another man and him self deleting himself. You want to be absolved by your actions by getting the validation of random people on the internet but it is what it is, reality is often disappointing and doesn't change to suit our emotional problems
What about those of us that are beyond the scope of average creativity yet dream of non existence? I am so tired of the thoughts and sounds of mass consciousness: I am so very fucking tired of men's binary squabbling.
Meditate then. Learn to quiet yourself. You are not special, you are a b-tch who hasn't done the work with yourself.
Are you on bath salts? Your take from men's suicide issues and cheating is "squabbling". Grow up
Hahahahaha ..... Michael, you have confirmed the reason my Rule of 10 works so well ...... I am a gay male and have always told my straight female friends that when they enter into a serious relationship/marriage with a guy, they need to tell him that they have a Rule of 10 .... that if he ever cheats on her, she will not get mad or sad or cry, but will take a day for herself .... go to the gym or spa for a massage .... then go find the hottest and sexiest guys she can get and have hot steamy sex all night and every night until she has done it 10 times the number of times the cheating guy had done .... and then she will tell all of his friends that she did it, because the cheating guy could not satisfy her sexually. My Rule of 10 works with gay guys and with straight guys! 😄
Wait. I thought men were rational, women emotional. So what's with this "Men hurt more!" crying?
And these guys sell themselves as dating coaches.
Men are the only ones who trully love women... Women don't love men
Men commit (for life). Women occupy until there's a better opportunity.
It hurts more to break a bond that was supposedly for good.
Most women don't love most men, and they even hate themselves and especially other women. Men care.
@@edheldude Yes, men care, at the end of a piece of misogynistic hatred. Read you like a book.
Negative effects of betrayal are far greater on a man. It's not simply emotion.
Jesus these guys teach men to play victim . My ex wife left me and I had no issue I had women lining up when I was married and especially when divorced
It's rare for a man to have women lining up immediately after divorce.
@@chanceklein Dude forgot that there are somethings called exceptions.
Men actually fall in love with women.... Women fall in love with what men provide for them
This is very true. Men created civilization for women…and it is still not enough for them. Art, music, literature…just think about how much they are devoted to the love (often unrequited) of a woman. The desire to protect “our women” has led to untold suffering in the world. And the tragic thing is that the women don’t really care. The sad truth is that they are actually rejecting the civilization that was created for their benefit, because too much is never enough.
Women should hope that they actually don’t get their way (for once) and we return to the cold hard brutality of the majority of human existence.
Women are incapable of truly loving a man because they barely love themselves. They mostly care for the attention and financial and emotional security a man gives them. They get their self love from what attention and validation they obtain from men and the Ra Ra Sisterhood. It’s not self love. Men must make themselves with skills and through turmoil and loneliness. Women are barely ever lonely which doesn’t allow for introspection. The only time a woman ever feels love is when they have children. Some don’t even feel it. If the man cannot make her life easier she even feels resentment towards the children and sees them as a burden.
aka men get used
@@CulturePROVOCATEURalways finding something new to whine about is a turn off that eventually even beats the Male libido
@@cactaceousthat's true. The women who have that calmness that comes from being ok with who she is always have a loving husband and family. 0 drama