The way you handled Zizi feeling left out was so incredible! Then to hear her say "you're my best friend" to her sister, that just made me smile so big!!
@ChimezirimOnwumere-tj8ggexactly, zizi is like 1-2 thats what they say if they like siblings. Its also what you say to future siblings when youre still pregnant so they start having positive associations with their future sibling. You know itll be true as well cause i can already imagine the talks of mom saying that your sister will be by your side for ever etc.
That's how a good mommy does it. No reason for jealousy when siblings are brought all in it for one another. My siblings were raised like that - very involved with and protective of each other.
Such an amazing mother to keep Zizi included. The older children often feel left out when new babies arrive 💕🙏🏼 it's the little things that bring the sweet joys of life!
That's exactly what I was about to say Yep it's so important to include and make time for all your kids it can be a bit challenging juggling 🤹🏾♀️ it all but it's so important ❤
Exactly. My ex said that he felt that way when he was two and his sister was born. His mom said that she felt that she and his dad made a mistake by not preparing him for the fact that his sister was coming. She admits that she messed up and they're fine now. Of course they're adults and they're not as close as I wish they would be like me and my brother are but they get along well.
@@mildredlockhart9085 Naturally if a mom is mindful enough to do these things, she will repeat them. Even if you feel it’s an act, it still has a positive impact on Zizi and the relationship with her sister. It’s also likely to be repeated if just for “show” or even Zizi will start to automatically start to or ask to help in other situations. Still a win/win situation. And of course she will not be able to help at every single moment or situation. Sometimes there’s places to be and things have to get done in a timely manner, but there will always be other days and opportunities where time can be taken to do things slower.
I'm happy our mom loved like that. My sis and I are together today. After her separation, and the passing of my husband, we're getting to know each other again. A Bond Never Broken. Love 🫵🏾 sis 🥰😘🫶🏾🌹
Absolutely! I always remember when I am admiring and complimenting a baby I meet to say something sweet to any older siblings. “Wow! Cuties pies run in your family! You 2 are beautiful,’ or ‘Oh your baby is beautiful. And _you_ (gasp) what a lovely dress. Don’t you look pretty today.’ I remember the look of longing on my step daughter’s face when people would admire her baby brother, even though she was super proud.’ They will get it when they are older, but it’s crushing to their little hearts to be ignored.
No wonder I’m not bonded with my other sis she said she was never involved with caring for me, I’m 5yrs younger. She just saw herself as a baby till now 😅
Absolutely. My 2 yo is obsessed with her baby brother. She even gets sad when I tell her she can’t breastfeed him 🤦🏿♀️😂🥰 it’s the thought that counts ig lol
No.she grooming the little girl to to be parentified to be the baby surrogate. No love is in this lady's eyes for those kids. Edit;watch for the syrupy sweet voice and non verbals.
My 14yr old son would say "we're gonna be best friends l" to my pregnant belly. 9yrs later him and his little sister are truly the best of friends. This is so precious!.
It made me cry, too! It's so loving and pure that it squeezed my heart with joy! God bless you and your family. And God bless all children. I could keep going on and on, lol. This video just made me happy. 😊
That is a great mum, right there! With divine wisdom being demonstrated! Thus ensuring no sibling jealousy or rivalry is birthed. Love her so much for doing this❤ God bless and protect this dear family in Jesus Name. Amen. Thank you Lord🤗✝️🕊😍👍
@@artchick07 Yes!! I love that because it‘s the same with my nephews I once started crying when I saw how loving and caring my sister was to my older nephew during times my parents would‘ve been verbally and physically abusive and I told her that on one side I love seeing that he gets better treatment but on the other it hurts to know we could‘ve had that too… I hope your healing goes great though and I know you‘re strong and got this! ❤️
Yes mom understands that it's a mother who must ensure that her children must have a strong bond with each other forever. These two sweeties will protect each other's backs. I love how she told her baby sister your my best friend, so sweet.
Sorry to disappoint you but that's not something the mother can control. She can raise them to be friends but the choice is ultimately theirs. They might still end up being mortal enemies based on other things despite how they're raised.
This literally made me realize where so many of my childhood wounds come from in the simplest of ways thank you so much for being you and sharing these things you are so wise and such a good mother, I pray blessings over you and your family and may you be protected from all and any hate from those that hate on your beautiful family, thank you lord for bringing me to these peoples channel for the healing they bring is exactly what I’ve needed thank you lord Amen and blessed be
I love this ! Sometimes kids hold resentment towards siblings because of all the attention which is completely understandable coming from only child to a big sister . Involving her is making her understand sissy’s a baby & needs lots of attention to be okay . ❤️
It's funny that I would stumble across this comment after thinking the same thing. I was thinking that due to watching another vlog of a child acting that very same way after the mother gave birth to a younger sibling. I was so disappointed that the mother did not talk to the older child. Not teaching one's children manners and respect sets children up for disaster, emotional issues, mental issues, and depression when they enter this cruel world, starting with school. I do support commenters who point it out that the older child is rude, disrespectful, and has no manners. However, I do not agree with blaming the child. Children are products of their environment and those who influence them. I carefully chose my words so that I did not expose the vlogger as I love his/her videos, and I do not like setting people up to be attacked and bullied. Instead, I pray for them. I did not have social media when I was pregnant and raising my child, but I did get good advice from my mother, grandparents, my elders, friends who had children, my daughter's doctors, and my Psychology professors whose children were adults. I thank GOD for those who gave me advice, too. By the time my daughter was in middle school, I had no problems with her all the way through high school and college.
Yeah. I'm the oldest too, I remember being so jealous and resentful of my younger sister after she was born. I think you're absolutely right and the creator is an amazing mom.
@@GailBecker-MSED-CM-AuthorThank goodness you had elders, community, and educated people to help you. If I did not have the internet or social media, I would not have learned as much as I do now. I wish even with the internet and online community, I wish I had a community offline like you did. In the US everything is hyper individualistic and hyper independent. Interdependence and a solid community is frowned upon and even taken away. I just wish I had even older adults to look up to too. I'm the oldest and I have to be an even older adult to the youngers, pass wisdom and skills I picked up alone from online. But I don't have someone like that for me and I hope I make it better for them. If you ask about parents, well...they were either not present or did not know how to raise children, let alone four. I just hope your children still feel safe and secure with you, enough to come back to you like when they were younger, and I hope you all have happy and fulfilling relationships that last your entire lives.
@@ShadowTheRippleI'm the oldest and only girl 😭 I have so much resentment built up inside of me still towards my parents not doing a better job. But at the same time, they were very young. 23-24 I think when they first had me. I just turned 35 and I can't begin to think about bringing children into the world yet. I can't imagine how ill prepared they probably felt. I'm working on it though, it's definitely a tough lesson to learn though that's for sure
@@ashly-no-EPray about it & have a calm conversation with them about it , if possible. That’s what I did. My parents married young(18/20). Also I don’t completely agree with because they were “young parents” there are parenting classes and tons of information on the Internet that is actually useful.
@@scribe712You can’t eliminate it, but you can discourage it, and make sure it never becomes a defining part of your children’s relationship from a young age.
Great job, Mama! U saw her peaking & invited her to join, u let her know Mama loves her too & she's just as valuable to u as the little one is. With a Mama like u, those babies will end up being confident adults who will know they're worth.
Zizi burping the baby! Too cute, you can tell she pays attention to everything and soaks it up like a sponge, she's very aware & intelligent for her age!
Those little angels look just alike!! They’re simply beautiful and when Big Sissy says “you’re my best friend “, my heart melted. What a precious family. God bless you all!!
Awwwwww! So sweet! I’m so happy that this mother had the intuition to know that her other daughter was feeling left out! That is important to pick up on. When she said she was her best friend it made my heart melt! 💜Her doing stuff like that could make the difference between those girls being best friends versus arch enemies! Good job mom! Keep up the great work! 💜💞🥰🌹😘💋
Now I can go to bed peacefully thinking abt my little sister ❤ when I was a kid my parents told me my sister is going to be my birthday present as she was born just a few days after my birthday. So I always treated her as the most precious gift ever telling her year by year that she’s the best gift I could ever imagine. Currently we live more than 8000km apart so I miss her a lot but this video gave me the happiness I feel around her
I always wished I had a sister. Please call her soon and tell her how you feel? I bet she’d love to hear it over and over again. Everyone wants to feel loved. Im pretty sure if you miss her she misses you back. ❤ Sending you well wishes
The best thing my mom did when my brothers were born was to involve me in the caretaking. Us eldest girls often complain how we were kind of another parent, but honestly, if it's done right, it's the best thing you can do. I love my little brothers dearly and didn't feel "dethroned".
Thanks for sharing this! I was raised as an only child in a toxic household, but I truly strive to be the mother and wife Nika portrays herself to be❤ so sweet and pure, great to know that you experienced such kindness and I’m happy for you that you were so fortunate to experience it☺️❤️ ***Btw my childhood was not the worst…but also toxic enough for me to have dealt with major relationship issues myself due to childhood trauma that I’ve worked through at this point with my fiancée and his family’s patience thank God❤
I grew up involved in caring for my little cousins and was never treated as a parent. But my aunt and uncle taught me how to care for babies/kids as they got older whenever I asked if I could help rather than shoving me away because it would have been faster. Now I’m a teacher and totally a nerd about childhood development.
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Haven't seen anything this sweet in a long time! I love the love between mom and the babies, and how the toddler has learned to be loving to her baby sister.❤😊❤
This is is so so so so sooooo incredibly precious and beautiful to watch. You as a beautiful mother to your kids and nurturing them and loving them, seeing how calm and truly happy your babies are and seeing the bond form with your kids and how caring they are to each other and that they truly love one another is just gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your experiences and your life with us.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is how we heal the world - diversity inclusivity lovingly .... Beautiful beautiful all 5he reasons I'll keep working for world peace for these generations❤😊. Parenting loving 101 !! Blessings to all biggest bow n cheeks ever!!!!❤❤❤❤
So beautiful to watch!!! Zizi is such a sweet and humorous little girl that is making the best sister!!!! Love and communication make a strong, fierce family bond 💕😘 Great work mama and you all look amazing 😍 your little lemon drop is cute to boot!!! Your whole family is precious!!!
She is definitely an amazing mom by nature. When i have my kids, i want to be able to handle this just like you do. Thank you, Nika. God bless your entire family ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊
Aww bubba ❤ you are an amazing mother thank you for sharing and helping to unknowingly educate mothers like myself with many of your videos ❤ many blessings to you and your husband i hope yous have a wonderful day 🤍
🎉Aww Zizi is so sweet. You and your husband raised her well. I usually prayed that my sister and I are best Friends, I miss that a lot.God bless your family
I remember when my pediatrician told me that my daughter shouldn't help me with her younger brother.. I was shocked... Today my youngest is 16 and all my kids still help each other when they need it, even though they don't live together. They share the same friends and all get along. They have different hobbies, likes, and personalities and are building their own relationships. But they have each other's backs and help each other work through EVERYTHING that causes them pain. I'm glad I didn't listen
I ALWAYS told my kids that it's the most important thing for me that they love each other care for each other. So one day, when my time comes, I don't need to worry to go ...
There is no room for the Holy Spirit because these people are greedy and hungry for views and money from UA-cam. If they were serious about the Holy Spirit, their lives wouldn't be a shit show for everyone to watch.
It’s fake. She’s exploiting her kids. Watch the video again and tell me you don’t feel like you’re watching a movie with all the camera cuts and shift. If this was a real moment then how would she do that while not having any cuts in their conversation. No she told her daughter to go look sad in the corner for her video. Please stop supporting these kinds of channels, it is CHILD ABUSE.
If this moment was genuine. Why is there so many cuts ? Why is your daughter looking at you like she wants a confirmation that you're ready to film her. And why is there a camera perfectly pointing at Zizi in the spot she is hiding ? Like, would this moment be this real, unexpected and vulnerable if there was a camera pointing at you AND your daughter while you're taking care of your baby 😂? I just got out of the fantazy recently. Idk if either the content are so obviously scripted lately, or if i was just blind all this time to miss such obvious details. Take care of yourself and your family. And don't put your kids in weird scenarios to sell an exaggerated fantazy. If happy moments happen, they are not filmed most of the time.
What do you mean by "perfectly set up"? Someone caught Zizi there and then decided to film her - and then the two reactions were edited... What's the problem?
They are exploiting their kids for views and money just like every other family channel. And unfortunately UA-cam allows it, and people enjoy it. Just watched an exposed video of this mom getting real mean with her little daughter because her daughter didn’t want to be on camera. I’ve seen videos of moms making their kids cry for thumbnails, and let’s not forget the mother who was arrested for child abuse off this site. UA-cam will continue to support this content as long as their pockets are being filled. They don’t care about the child abuse.
And your minds didn’t tell you there’s someone holding the camera What if the original content idea was to show us her baby’s skin care routine and she happened to notice zizi There’s nothing looking staged here just you and your negative curiosity
@@Gemini_chiksYES! People will do things you don’t think they ever would. Life lesson - there are always going to be people who do the complete opposite of what you think people should or shouldn’t do. Statistically and mathematically there is always an equal opposite reaction.
You are doing a great job! Including your other little ones in everything helps to develop those lifelong bonds. I could only have my two, but our baby was all of ours not just mommy and daddy but big brother too.
@@BettyAlexandriaPride funny things are fine. “Hey, can you go back over there and look sad and lonely again for me” is crazy. Having the mom bring the daughter on camera later, and them both explaining what happened and how it was resolved or something, would have been much less tacky and weird.
Yeah, with a second recording camera conveniently facing Zizi. Your life choices are not my business, and I don’t know your situation, but I hope you aren’t just using your kids for these scripts. Too many “family channels” end up neglecting their kids after the money starts pouring in, I hope you are smarter than that, children deserve parents, not screen writers.
And thats how you take a situation that could lead to the oldest resenting her sister for getting mommy time and turning it into an opportunity for them to both have mommy time together and bond. Way to go momma!
Oh my gosh. That is so sweet of Zizi tender moments like that will make your day.❤ Beautiful gorgeous Mom. Your so amazing with your special little ones. Precious little angels.❤❤❤❤
The way you handled Zizi feeling left out was so incredible! Then to hear her say "you're my best friend" to her sister, that just made me smile so big!!
It was wonderful ❤
Manipulation
@@takkadi3116how…? she wanted to help out with her little sister, how is that “manipulation”?
@@takkadi3116why would it be manipulation???
Amen
When she said “you’re my best friend” I just knew that they really would become best friends. They are gonna grow up and be such good kids
She told her to say that lmao
@@littleleah310how did yk where u there or did she tell u
@ChimezirimOnwumere-tj8ggexactly, zizi is like 1-2 thats what they say if they like siblings. Its also what you say to future siblings when youre still pregnant so they start having positive associations with their future sibling. You know itll be true as well cause i can already imagine the talks of mom saying that your sister will be by your side for ever etc.
My kids loved each other at that age, now they don't. Both wouldn't associate with the other if they weren't related
@@littleleah310they told you that personally 💀
Those words "Your my best friend!" solidified their bond forever and ever. Super precious ❤
Those words didn’t solidify anything. Words are words. The bond existed already.
Js ruining
Polly positive but that could all drop in a second if the baby want to play with her favorite toy all day!
Definitely ❤
@@Schrodingers_Kat ok weirdo
That's how a good mommy does it. No reason for jealousy when siblings are brought all in it for one another. My siblings were raised like that - very involved with and protective of each other.
Their complexion is gorgeous! The melanin is popping!
Simply gorgeous, beautiful baby girls
Husband has strong genes!!
Yesssssss...it is
I said the same thing so beautiful
@@danettegreenw3412 Mother is of a similar colour
Such an amazing mother to keep Zizi included. The older children often feel left out when new babies arrive 💕🙏🏼 it's the little things that bring the sweet joys of life!
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That's exactly what I was about to say Yep it's so important to include and make time for all your kids it can be a bit challenging juggling 🤹🏾♀️ it all but it's so important ❤
Exactly. My ex said that he felt that way when he was two and his sister was born. His mom said that she felt that she and his dad made a mistake by not preparing him for the fact that his sister was coming. She admits that she messed up and they're fine now. Of course they're adults and they're not as close as I wish they would be like me and my brother are but they get along well.
Good morning Even Leef I love you too ❤
Much agreed❤❤❤❤
Her mother made room for her and her emotional need, it’s so simple but so impactful ❤
Spot on. The mum read the situation.
Yes , she did then, but will she soon forget. I pray not... A picture is worth a thousand words. 🙏🏾😢
@@mildredlockhart9085 Naturally if a mom is mindful enough to do these things, she will repeat them. Even if you feel it’s an act, it still has a positive impact on Zizi and the relationship with her sister. It’s also likely to be repeated if just for “show” or even Zizi will start to automatically start to or ask to help in other situations. Still a win/win situation.
And of course she will not be able to help at every single moment or situation. Sometimes there’s places to be and things have to get done in a timely manner, but there will always be other days and opportunities where time can be taken to do things slower.
I'm happy our mom loved like that. My sis and I are together today. After her separation, and the passing of my husband, we're getting to know each other again. A Bond Never Broken. Love 🫵🏾 sis 🥰😘🫶🏾🌹
Makes a Very Big Positive Healthy Difference ❤❤❤❤❤ Speaking as a big sister myself.
Such a goid mommy and what a sweet moment. Very swery big sister. Beautiful family. God bless. ❤❤❤🙏🏾
Aww… she said, “I love my sissy”. “You’re my best friend”. That’s the sweetest thing to hear! Beautiful!
It's really important to understand that the older child is not soo grown up. They still require love and attention
I wish my parents saw this comment in 1993
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@sharonkasivwa9387 ik this is sad for you... but it made me giggle 😂
@@ney2510 while ur giggling i'm crying😢
Absolutely! I always remember when I am admiring and complimenting a baby I meet to say something sweet to any older siblings. “Wow! Cuties pies run in your family! You 2 are beautiful,’ or ‘Oh your baby is beautiful. And _you_ (gasp) what a lovely dress. Don’t you look pretty today.’ I remember the look of longing on my step daughter’s face when people would admire her baby brother, even though she was super proud.’ They will get it when they are older, but it’s crushing to their little hearts to be ignored.
It's always best to involve the older siblings in the care of the younger one. Helps them bond and shows them they're still important to you.
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No wonder I’m not bonded with my other sis she said she was never involved with caring for me, I’m 5yrs younger. She just saw herself as a baby till now 😅
I was thinking the same thing:)
Absolutely. My 2 yo is obsessed with her baby brother. She even gets sad when I tell her she can’t breastfeed him 🤦🏿♀️😂🥰 it’s the thought that counts ig lol
How precious!! Hope these sisters stay best friends for life!!🙏🏼✝️💖🤗
This mother is so sweet. These babies are just so loved.
No.she grooming the little girl to to be parentified to be the baby surrogate. No love is in this lady's eyes for those kids.
Edit;watch for the syrupy sweet voice and non verbals.
Stop, they’re too precious ❤❤❤
“You’re my best friend” melted my heart 😭
Oh sweet elt my heart sing 🤞 🎶 n granma deserve it now watchin hopes for
Iktr ❤
My 14yr old son would say "we're gonna be best friends l" to my pregnant belly. 9yrs later him and his little sister are truly the best of friends. This is so precious!.
This made me cry 🥹🥲😭is so beautiful seeing our kids having a very close bond.🫶🏽
WHY AM I CRYING DANGIT. Omg. The sweetness and innocence in kids is so heartwarming and tear jerking. . This was so wholesome ❤
It made me cry, too! It's so loving and pure that it squeezed my heart with joy! God bless you and your family. And God bless all children. I could keep going on and on, lol. This video just made me happy. 😊
I adore them ❤❤❤❤
You're right!
This is so deep, emotional, loving, and pure!
Same ❤
And the fact that they are so stinking cute ❤
Because you fall for fake shit
That is a great mum, right there! With divine wisdom being demonstrated! Thus ensuring no sibling jealousy or rivalry is birthed. Love her so much for doing this❤ God bless and protect this dear family in Jesus Name. Amen. Thank you Lord🤗✝️🕊😍👍
I always tear up watching their videos because I grew up in a very toxic household and seeing so much love and positivity warms my heart
Same ❤🙏
There's something so healing seeing kids get what we didn't have growing up. It's a part of me I didn't know needed to heal.
@@artchick07 Yes!! I love that because it‘s the same with my nephews I once started crying when I saw how loving and caring my sister was to my older nephew during times my parents would‘ve been verbally and physically abusive and I told her that on one side I love seeing that he gets better treatment but on the other it hurts to know we could‘ve had that too… I hope your healing goes great though and I know you‘re strong and got this! ❤️
Same ❤
Same.
She saved those sisters from being life long mortal enemys.
Such a lovly mother❤😮❤❤
Right........children are like that, gotta add them in
Yes❤
Yes mom understands that it's a mother who must ensure that her children must have a strong bond with each other forever. These two sweeties will protect each other's backs. I love how she told her baby sister your my best friend, so sweet.
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Sorry to disappoint you but that's not something the mother can control. She can raise them to be friends but the choice is ultimately theirs. They might still end up being mortal enemies based on other things despite how they're raised.
This literally made me realize where so many of my childhood wounds come from in the simplest of ways thank you so much for being you and sharing these things you are so wise and such a good mother, I pray blessings over you and your family and may you be protected from all and any hate from those that hate on your beautiful family, thank you lord for bringing me to these peoples channel for the healing they bring is exactly what I’ve needed thank you lord Amen and blessed be
God bless us all
Simple routines bonding sister foreber is very beautiful
Aww you and your family are so great! Lots of love, so important♥️
Thanks to you their bond will be strong! Beautiful moment
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Those kids are adorable! 😊
"You, my best friend." Awwwww So Sweet and Precious!❤️
I love this ! Sometimes kids hold resentment towards siblings because of all the attention which is completely understandable coming from only child to a big sister . Involving her is making her understand sissy’s a baby & needs lots of attention to be okay . ❤️
It's funny that I would stumble across this comment after thinking the same thing. I was thinking that due to watching another vlog of a child acting that very same way after the mother gave birth to a younger sibling. I was so disappointed that the mother did not talk to the older child.
Not teaching one's children manners and respect sets children up for disaster, emotional issues, mental issues, and depression when they enter this cruel world, starting with school. I do support commenters who point it out that the older child is rude, disrespectful, and has no manners.
However, I do not agree with blaming the child. Children are products of their environment and those who influence them. I carefully chose my words so that I did not expose the vlogger as I love his/her videos, and I do not like setting people up to be attacked and bullied.
Instead, I pray for them. I did not have social media when I was pregnant and raising my child, but I did get good advice from my mother, grandparents, my elders, friends who had children, my daughter's doctors, and my Psychology professors whose children were adults.
I thank GOD for those who gave me advice, too. By the time my daughter was in middle school, I had no problems with her all the way through high school and college.
Yeah. I'm the oldest too, I remember being so jealous and resentful of my younger sister after she was born. I think you're absolutely right and the creator is an amazing mom.
@@GailBecker-MSED-CM-AuthorThank goodness you had elders, community, and educated people to help you. If I did not have the internet or social media, I would not have learned as much as I do now. I wish even with the internet and online community, I wish I had a community offline like you did. In the US everything is hyper individualistic and hyper independent. Interdependence and a solid community is frowned upon and even taken away. I just wish I had even older adults to look up to too. I'm the oldest and I have to be an even older adult to the youngers, pass wisdom and skills I picked up alone from online. But I don't have someone like that for me and I hope I make it better for them. If you ask about parents, well...they were either not present or did not know how to raise children, let alone four.
I just hope your children still feel safe and secure with you, enough to come back to you like when they were younger, and I hope you all have happy and fulfilling relationships that last your entire lives.
@@ShadowTheRippleI'm the oldest and only girl 😭 I have so much resentment built up inside of me still towards my parents not doing a better job. But at the same time, they were very young. 23-24 I think when they first had me. I just turned 35 and I can't begin to think about bringing children into the world yet. I can't imagine how ill prepared they probably felt. I'm working on it though, it's definitely a tough lesson to learn though that's for sure
@@ashly-no-EPray about it & have a calm conversation with them about it , if possible. That’s what I did. My parents married young(18/20). Also I don’t completely agree with because they were “young parents” there are parenting classes and tons of information on the Internet that is actually useful.
That is how you eliminate sibling rivalry....❤ So sweet those two ❤❤❤
You can't eliminate sibling rivalry. That's something parents can't control. Just so you know.
@@scribe712You can’t eliminate it, but you can discourage it, and make sure it never becomes a defining part of your children’s relationship from a young age.
Too adorable 😊. When she said "You're my best friend" my heart melted😢😊😊.
The way you look at your babies is heart warming ❤❤
Real
Great job, Mama!
U saw her peaking & invited her to join, u let her know Mama loves her too & she's just as valuable to u as the little one is. With a Mama like u, those babies will end up being confident adults who will know they're worth.
You're a very attentive and loving mom to two beautiful children. You and your husband make a great team.
Zizi burping the baby! Too cute, you can tell she pays attention to everything and soaks it up like a sponge, she's very aware & intelligent for her age!
Those little angels look just alike!! They’re simply beautiful and when Big Sissy says “you’re my best friend “, my heart melted. What a precious family. God bless you all!!
Awwwwww! So sweet! I’m so happy that this mother had the intuition to know that her other daughter was feeling left out! That is important to pick up on. When she said she was her best friend it made my heart melt! 💜Her doing stuff like that could make the difference between those girls being best friends versus arch enemies! Good job mom! Keep up the great work! 💜💞🥰🌹😘💋
Now I can go to bed peacefully thinking abt my little sister ❤ when I was a kid my parents told me my sister is going to be my birthday present as she was born just a few days after my birthday. So I always treated her as the most precious gift ever telling her year by year that she’s the best gift I could ever imagine. Currently we live more than 8000km apart so I miss her a lot but this video gave me the happiness I feel around her
I always wished I had a sister. Please call her soon and tell her how you feel? I bet she’d love to hear it over and over again. Everyone wants to feel loved. Im pretty sure if you miss her she misses you back. ❤ Sending you well wishes
That’s sooo beautiful!! I pray that you will be able to see your sister soon!!
My mum refused to give me a playmate even though I frequently requested her to present me with a sister ... 🎁
- Actually, she disliked children.
Sorry hun @@helgardhossain9038
Nice story
That's what Motherhood is....pure Love 🎉🎉🎉
Great call mommy! Your children are learning how to love. Good job helping with baby, Zizi. 💞
This video just made my morning better!! The bond the mother is helping to create between the sisters is awesome!!
How beautiful is that ❤. Sister's love is so vital. She's the 4th person to look out for her. "You my Best Friend. " Pure unconditional ❤️
My word your babies are GORGEOUS!!! Blessings continued!!
Seeing you makeing zizi feel included and showing her affection making sure she doesnt feel ignored it heals my inner child, you are amazing ❤
Nika is an amazing mother! Including Zizi when she was feeling left out with the new baby! That’s amazing ❤
Zizi is an awesome big sister! Great job helping your daughters build a strong loving bond. Lovely little girls.
God bless you little one.
You can see so much love between big sister and little sister!
God Bless Them, Always 🙏🏾🙏🏼🙏🏽
The best thing my mom did when my brothers were born was to involve me in the caretaking. Us eldest girls often complain how we were kind of another parent, but honestly, if it's done right, it's the best thing you can do. I love my little brothers dearly and didn't feel "dethroned".
Thanks for sharing this! I was raised as an only child in a toxic household, but I truly strive to be the mother and wife Nika portrays herself to be❤ so sweet and pure, great to know that you experienced such kindness and I’m happy for you that you were so fortunate to experience it☺️❤️
***Btw my childhood was not the worst…but also toxic enough for me to have dealt with major relationship issues myself due to childhood trauma that I’ve worked through at this point with my fiancée and his family’s patience thank God❤
I grew up involved in caring for my little cousins and was never treated as a parent. But my aunt and uncle taught me how to care for babies/kids as they got older whenever I asked if I could help rather than shoving me away because it would have been faster. Now I’m a teacher and totally a nerd about childhood development.
What a patient and loving mom! Gave me such a warm feeling watching her care for her babies. ❤❤❤❤
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Haven't seen anything this sweet in a long time! I love the love between mom and the babies, and how the toddler has learned to be loving to her baby sister.❤😊❤
They are adorable 😀
Nothing more beautiful than a mother loving and nurturing her children like this ❤
Aww. Awesome mom. Paying attention to her little Queens. So important to balance the love in their (little ones) eyesight!
Great joy Mom!
This is is so so so so sooooo incredibly precious and beautiful to watch. You as a beautiful mother to your kids and nurturing them and loving them, seeing how calm and truly happy your babies are and seeing the bond form with your kids and how caring they are to each other and that they truly love one another is just gorgeous.
Thank you for sharing your experiences and your life with us.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Priceless Mommy and daughters. Love wins all. Blessings
Zizi looks _just_ like her dad! Both are absolutely precious! Love this family. 🥹💚
This is how we heal the world - diversity inclusivity lovingly .... Beautiful beautiful all 5he reasons I'll keep working for world peace for these generations❤😊. Parenting loving 101 !! Blessings to all biggest bow n cheeks ever!!!!❤❤❤❤
This is by far the cutest and wholesome thing I saw, today. I just love it. ❤
Awww...that good ole' Palmer's cocoa butter bringing the bond of sisterly love together! 11.30.24
Aww the sincerity of how you notice and include her was just precious
💞
You’re so wise and aware of your children’s needs. It’s beautiful and peaceful to see you meet everyone’s needs and reassure them that they are loved.
Exactly
So beautiful to watch!!! Zizi is such a sweet and humorous little girl that is making the best sister!!!! Love and communication make a strong, fierce family bond 💕😘 Great work mama and you all look amazing 😍 your little lemon drop is cute to boot!!! Your whole family is precious!!!
She is definitely an amazing mom by nature. When i have my kids, i want to be able to handle this just like you do. Thank you, Nika. God bless your entire family ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊
Aww bubba ❤ you are an amazing mother thank you for sharing and helping to unknowingly educate mothers like myself with many of your videos ❤ many blessings to you and your husband i hope yous have a wonderful day 🤍
🎉Aww Zizi is so sweet. You and your husband raised her well. I usually prayed that my sister and I are best Friends, I miss that a lot.God bless your family
So sweet 😍 Love how Zizi said "I love you sissy, you're my best friend." ❤
Your family is blessed! Your a good mommy ❤
Wow! You and those babies have the most beautiful souls! And it shows on the outside!
Oh my goodness!!!! She’s her Daddy’s twin! And your oldest is beyond precious. God bless them
I remember when my pediatrician told me that my daughter shouldn't help me with her younger brother.. I was shocked...
Today my youngest is 16 and all my kids still help each other when they need it, even though they don't live together. They share the same friends and all get along. They have different hobbies, likes, and personalities and are building their own relationships. But they have each other's backs and help each other work through EVERYTHING that causes them pain.
I'm glad I didn't listen
I ALWAYS told my kids that it's the most important thing for me that they love each other care for each other. So one day, when my time comes, I don't need to worry to go ...
Your kids are so beautiful ❤
Aww the baby is so cutee 🥹 and Zizi is such a great sister 💕💕❤️ this video melted my heart 🥹🥹❤
Two absolute sweeties.
Love how mom rhythmically pats the lotion on.
And those unexpected sneezes.
How was the other camera perfectly angled where zizi was? 😅
"Now sit still here until I call your name and make the video as cute as possible"
AND the pan back to mom
Exactly what i was thinking
@@newtonstesla9445 I know. I think it's a little sad to do that. Just for clicks
everything seems so staged i used to believe what she post but not anymore
Too sweet!! What beautiful babies she has!!
So lovely. Only the Holy Spirit can tell parents what to observe and respond quickly to any situation. God bless you both as parents.
That is so true. 👏
There is no room for the Holy Spirit because these people are greedy and hungry for views and money from UA-cam. If they were serious about the Holy Spirit, their lives wouldn't be a shit show for everyone to watch.
It’s fake. She’s exploiting her kids. Watch the video again and tell me you don’t feel like you’re watching a movie with all the camera cuts and shift. If this was a real moment then how would she do that while not having any cuts in their conversation. No she told her daughter to go look sad in the corner for her video. Please stop supporting these kinds of channels, it is CHILD ABUSE.
Cute family!! She takes very good care of her two girls!!❤
Awww. You're such a great mom 😊
That is so precious! Changed her whole attitude ❤❤❤
If this moment was genuine. Why is there so many cuts ? Why is your daughter looking at you like she wants a confirmation that you're ready to film her. And why is there a camera perfectly pointing at Zizi in the spot she is hiding ? Like, would this moment be this real, unexpected and vulnerable if there was a camera pointing at you AND your daughter while you're taking care of your baby 😂?
I just got out of the fantazy recently. Idk if either the content are so obviously scripted lately, or if i was just blind all this time to miss such obvious details.
Take care of yourself and your family. And don't put your kids in weird scenarios to sell an exaggerated fantazy. If happy moments happen, they are not filmed most of the time.
I agree but maybe it is scripted from something that happened the day before so she wanted to get the message out
Okay, it's a cute video... but can someone explain why there were two cameras perfectly set up to capture this?
Probably because this was rehearsed and not authentic🤷🏽♀️
What do you mean by "perfectly set up"? Someone caught Zizi there and then decided to film her - and then the two reactions were edited... What's the problem?
Um…Im going to go with to capture this. 🤷♀️ Idk, just a guess! 😒
I’m sorry girly pop would you like explaining some behind the scenes. Why was there a camera coincidentally pointing where Zizi was being sad?
Because she’s fake AF and people are dumb AF to believe it.
Came to the comments wondering the exact same thing. There have been a bunch of videos now that haven't felt very authentic
We know why, and it’s so sad…anything for views. Staging her kids for fake scenes without consent. Just weird if you ask me. Poor babies.
They are exploiting their kids for views and money just like every other family channel. And unfortunately UA-cam allows it, and people enjoy it. Just watched an exposed video of this mom getting real mean with her little daughter because her daughter didn’t want to be on camera. I’ve seen videos of moms making their kids cry for thumbnails, and let’s not forget the mother who was arrested for child abuse off this site. UA-cam will continue to support this content as long as their pockets are being filled. They don’t care about the child abuse.
And your minds didn’t tell you there’s someone holding the camera
What if the original content idea was to show us her baby’s skin care routine and she happened to notice zizi
There’s nothing looking staged here just you and your negative curiosity
Omg! So precious! Beautiful babies. ❤🥰😍🥹
Awwww such beautiful babies!! ❤❤❤
This is so staged. Why are y’all letting her insult your intelligence. She SET UP THE CAMERA… she didn’t catch anything. 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
I was hoping to find someone else who noticed!
You know influencers do have camera assistants. Do you honestly think she would told her daughter to pretend this?
@@Gemini_chiks Yes.
@@Gemini_chiksYES! People will do things you don’t think they ever would. Life lesson - there are always going to be people who do the complete opposite of what you think people should or shouldn’t do. Statistically and mathematically there is always an equal opposite reaction.
@@Gemini_chiksvery much so. Why do you think she wouldn't 💀
HOW do you have 2 cameras set up for this. Makes it seem inauthentic
Such sweet mama and babes. My eyes had happy tears when toddler told her little baby sis, "You're my best friend."
Beautiful three 😊
There’s nothing worse than feeling left out or ignored.
It happens to adults, too. I feel you, Zizi.
Good job momma.
She’s so cuteeee!I love watching your family’s journey
Awe, they are beautiful. It's called connecting.They are connecting...with one another as mommy is connecting with them.💖
Such a beautiful family❤❤❤
These are joyful moments 🥰 Thank you for sharing xoxo ❤
Dad's tiny twin is getting so big. You're awesome, momma. Blessings to you
You are doing a great job! Including your other little ones in everything helps to develop those lifelong bonds. I could only have my two, but our baby was all of ours not just mommy and daddy but big brother too.
I love how she has genuine love for us black folks. God bless you precious woman and wife
The way there were two cameras already set up to face the other sister makes this feel staged and set up. Quite inauthentic smh 👀🤔
No one's talking about how "accidentally" she filmed this and how "accidentally" she got a clip of her kid hiding behind those curtains 💀
" oh youre lonely? let me just set the camera up real quick, stay there for a minute"
💀💀💀💀 She could've still been lonely. Sometimes I ask my nieces and nephews to repeat funny things they just said or did and turn my camera on.
@@BettyAlexandriaPride funny things are fine. “Hey, can you go back over there and look sad and lonely again for me” is crazy. Having the mom bring the daughter on camera later, and them both explaining what happened and how it was resolved or something, would have been much less tacky and weird.
The love she has for her sister is beautiful! 🥰
Well rehearsed, perfect memorization of lines...kudos to your kid girl.. 😂
She looks exactly like her big sis❤❤❤ love them😊
Yeah, with a second recording camera conveniently facing Zizi. Your life choices are not my business, and I don’t know your situation, but I hope you aren’t just using your kids for these scripts. Too many “family channels” end up neglecting their kids after the money starts pouring in, I hope you are smarter than that, children deserve parents, not screen writers.
Awwww she beautiful little princess 👸🏾 👸🏾
And thats how you take a situation that could lead to the oldest resenting her sister for getting mommy time and turning it into an opportunity for them to both have mommy time together and bond. Way to go momma!
Amen!
Soo cutee... literally they grow so fast 🥹🥹
Oh not the “you’re my best friend” 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 soo sweet!!!
Oh my gosh. That is so sweet of Zizi tender moments like that will make your day.❤ Beautiful gorgeous Mom. Your so amazing with your special little ones. Precious little angels.❤❤❤❤