FROM NORTHERN BRITISH COLUMBIA CANADA 🇨🇦!! So thankful that you made the choice to do this video. My 23 yr old son has ALL of the traits you explain SINCE A BABY! He never connected with people socially. I’ve been researching & seeking help for him for 22 years! Because he “looked normal “ he never received any help. Only bullying including from teachers. Major problems trying to get through a day in school. He is of GOOD Character & extremely intelligent. As he could not be open to help due to constant reprimands from anyone around him including “friends “, He now lives on the street, is suicidal, no job, no income, after holding a good job for 5 yrs but was fired because of the symptoms you describe including major digestive problems & daily anxiety where he vomits upon going into society! I KNOW he has Asperger’s! & no professionals are listening! How do I reach my son from your point of view!!! I’m DESPERATE for my son to receive help that is available for him! GOD BLESS YOU! From Greg’s wife.
ok... that was in the beginning she sounded critical. She sounds really nice and supporting further into the video. It's a big journey and I can say, looking for information for my boyfriend of nearly 5 years, it was really hard to find. Once I saw videos, I realized what was going on with him and our relationship has totally transformed and blssomed!
I wish there were some kind of outline or topic list for these videos. It's hard to listen to a long video, hoping to hear something on the topic I was hoping to learn more about. Hopefully this is a helpful suggestion. :)
FINALLY! Just, finally. Deep breath of gratitude from the mom of an 18 yo son. Did you say you were in the middle of Seattle? We're up north of you and can't wait to plug into your resources. Thanks
I'm so glad to watch this I just find out my son has Asperger. You guys can help me with my son His is almost 33 years old but I'm going to keep help him I wish I known this earlier But never late Thank you so much Now I can understand him .
Please stop saying that joining ae+ costs one dollar. I got all excited and then very disappointed to find out that it’s only the first month and later it gets more expensive. Let me rephrase that: I felt misled and taken advantage of. My whole life people have been taking advantage of me, often financially. Imagine my MASSIVE disappointment when I found out that you use the same exploitative advertising tricks and misdirects that I have experienced time and time again. You HAVE to mention that the $1 is for a one month trial only and $20 per month after that. You are misrepresenting yourself. $20 may not be a WHOLE lot of money but not exactly cheap. But it’s also the principle that rubs me the wrong way. You lost credibility in my eyes.
I tried to listen to this, I really did, but the sound quality was literally hurting my ears. You might not know it, apparently not, but many of us Autistics are extra sensitive to sound. Try a condenser mike across the room recording to a ' stereo ' file. ( eg two channel mono).
Actually this is true unfortunately. I didn't understand why it was hurting my ears to listen but I really wanted to listen so I just endured the pain. As I was scrolling the comments I realized, oh that's why.
Im not diagnosed, but i relate, while in highschool, I just played video games and watched anime all the time.. but then I tried psychedelics and it opened my mind up to the possibilities of my true inner being
Your videos only work on my right headphone speaker. I'm hard of hearing in that ear, so I have to strain to hear. Please fix? The ads play in both speakers!
Omg! I'M That way, too, of being so different in ways than "normal" people do. However, conversely, same as your mother, I also get mad at others for being so different. But, I get mad at neurotypical people cus it means I have to constantly repeat myself to others or reiterate for them of what I just said, and I hated others repeating to me of something cus I usually remember whatever they've said, which to someone like me is torture. Can it be normal for people with Asperger's to get mad at having to even slightly often repeat themselves?
I always have my brother repeat him self because he has a mild speech problem. His tongue 👅 is not very flexible so he mispronounce lots of words or don’t finish saying them or his consonants are very weak. I feel bad for doing this and I want to help him and me to be able to have better communication skills.
I am alienated from my family, am emotionally numb, and have been unable to find work; I am very much traumatized, and in defense mode; how do I escape? You spoke of trauma work; how to do that?
Dear Noitartst, I think that If you can listen to all the videos Asperger Experts has in youtube, you will probably get to understand quite a bit what is going on with you, and what you can do to start living happier. You will also get to the videos where he explains about trauma work, and refers to the people and website, if I am not mistaken. Much love, and great luck!
I already know about Traumatic Experiencing, but I haven't been able to afford one in my area, though I am looking. As to learning about Aspergers, I've known that for three decades. Do you have any specific videos, to recommend, though? I'd appreciate more specifics.
Meetup dot com for meetups to do Raspberry Pi Supercomputer building (Supercomputer building in this case is when you take several Raspberry Pi boards, put together the one housing into which they should be placed. And they are linked together).
Is like to see what he says about burn out. Many individuals get deep in burn out and lose their phisical health and eventually mental health goes down the tubes as well.
I don't technically have aspergers or autism, but I strongly relate to the freeze/defense mode in response to absorbing, spoken or unspoken, familial "fix my kid" mode. I was frustrated with myself that i'm maturing late due to this, but this gives me relief and clarity. Anyone with a drastically different personality type from the rest of their family and/or disability I believe can have very similar experiences and benefit from this information. Thank you.
Good question. The mom said she was type A and thinks in a linear fashion. Hmmm...maybe the opposite end of the spectrum than her son. Women learn to mask better than men....much better.
I really liked your “freeze” video but just realized you have tried to monetize your advice. Are you a psychiatrist and specialist in autism? Then maybe not call yourself an Asperger Expert
Anybody can monetise their work as it’s a public tool on a public platform, it doesn’t in any way regulate the information he is trying to provide. This person seems to seeks comfort in knowing they are receiving evidence backed research and rightly so, there’s a whole world of people trying to convince you they know best. And bad information can most certainly be damaging. I can agree with Ee Fsss in implying only legitimate information form a consummate professional should be charged for.
Some psychiatrists and specialists aren't as educated about Autism as people believe and when you have the personal experience of living with the condition, is some ways you have the likelihood of becoming more of an expert then some professionals. It's tempting to have blind faith in appeals to authority over keeping an open mind.
FROM NORTHERN BRITISH COLUMBIA CANADA 🇨🇦!!
So thankful that you made the choice to do this video. My 23 yr old son has ALL of the traits you explain SINCE A BABY! He never connected with people socially. I’ve been researching & seeking help for him for 22 years! Because he “looked normal “ he never received any help. Only bullying including from teachers. Major problems trying to get through a day in school. He is of GOOD Character & extremely intelligent. As he could not be open to help due to constant reprimands from anyone around him including “friends “, He now lives on the street, is suicidal, no job, no income, after holding a good job for 5 yrs but was fired because of the symptoms you describe including major digestive problems & daily anxiety where he vomits upon going into society! I KNOW he has Asperger’s! & no professionals are listening! How do I reach my son from your point of view!!! I’m DESPERATE for my son to receive help that is available for him! GOD BLESS YOU!
From Greg’s wife.
I hope he finds the help he needs, stay strong, don't give up on him or yourself.
Yes we can mature much later in life. I am in my 30s and might as well be a teen ager. But I am finally maturing so better late than never, right?
Danny, thank you...Our family is learning by following your lead.
Thank God you understand about not remembering to do all the things on a to-do list. I go through that.
I wish this information had been around when my children were younger.
ok... that was in the beginning she sounded critical. She sounds really nice and supporting further into the video. It's a big journey and I can say, looking for information for my boyfriend of nearly 5 years, it was really hard to find. Once I saw videos, I realized what was going on with him and our relationship has totally transformed and blssomed!
I wish there were some kind of outline or topic list for these videos. It's hard to listen to a long video, hoping to hear something on the topic I was hoping to learn more about. Hopefully this is a helpful suggestion. :)
FINALLY! Just, finally. Deep breath of gratitude from the mom of an 18 yo son. Did you say you were in the middle of Seattle? We're up north of you and can't wait to plug into your resources. Thanks
What a wonderful Mom you are!
Mom is so critical!
I'm so glad to watch this I just find out my son has Asperger. You guys can help me with my son
His is almost 33 years old but I'm going to keep help him I wish I known this earlier But never late
Thank you so much Now I can understand him .
She is her self! Mrs perfect woman. 🤣🤣🤣
Please stop saying that joining ae+ costs one dollar. I got all excited and then very disappointed to find out that it’s only the first month and later it gets more expensive. Let me rephrase that: I felt misled and taken advantage of. My whole life people have been taking advantage of me, often financially. Imagine my MASSIVE disappointment when I found out that you use the same exploitative advertising tricks and misdirects that I have experienced time and time again.
You HAVE to mention that the $1 is for a one month trial only and $20 per month after that. You are misrepresenting yourself. $20 may not be a WHOLE lot of money but not exactly cheap. But it’s also the principle that rubs me the wrong way. You lost credibility in my eyes.
Get over your self and be grateful he is doing this!
Gosh..... done with negativity.
I tried to listen to this, I really did, but the sound quality was literally hurting my ears. You might not know it, apparently not, but many of us Autistics are extra sensitive to sound. Try a condenser mike across the room recording to a ' stereo ' file. ( eg two channel mono).
Actually this is true unfortunately. I didn't understand why it was hurting my ears to listen but I really wanted to listen so I just endured the pain. As I was scrolling the comments I realized, oh that's why.
You are wonderful Danny.
Thanks 🙏
Im not diagnosed, but i relate, while in highschool, I just played video games and watched anime all the time.. but then I tried psychedelics and it opened my mind up to the possibilities of my true inner being
Danny
I am a mum in the UK - and u rock!. Would love to be able to pay for a 121 from you. Can you help?
Your videos only work on my right headphone speaker. I'm hard of hearing in that ear, so I have to strain to hear. Please fix? The ads play in both speakers!
Omg! I'M That way, too, of being so different in ways than "normal" people do. However, conversely, same as your mother, I also get mad at others for being so different. But, I get mad at neurotypical people cus it means I have to constantly repeat myself to others or reiterate for them of what I just said, and I hated others repeating to me of something cus I usually remember whatever they've said, which to someone like me is torture. Can it be normal for people with Asperger's to get mad at having to even slightly often repeat themselves?
I always have my brother repeat him self because he has a mild speech problem.
His tongue 👅 is not very flexible so he mispronounce lots of words or don’t finish saying them or his consonants are very weak.
I feel bad for doing this and I want to help him and me to be able to have better communication skills.
I am alienated from my family, am emotionally numb, and have been unable to find work; I am very much traumatized, and in defense mode; how do I escape? You spoke of trauma work; how to do that?
Dear Noitartst, I think that If you can listen to all the videos Asperger Experts has in youtube, you will probably get to understand quite a bit what is going on with you, and what you can do to start living happier. You will also get to the videos where he explains about trauma work, and refers to the people and website, if I am not mistaken. Much love, and great luck!
I already know about Traumatic Experiencing, but I haven't been able to afford one in my area, though I am looking. As to learning about Aspergers, I've known that for three decades. Do you have any specific videos, to recommend, though? I'd appreciate more specifics.
Noitartst have u read anything by Tony Attwood ? his book " The Complete Guide To Aspergers Syndrome" is really good
Meetup dot com for meetups to do Raspberry Pi Supercomputer building (Supercomputer building in this case is when you take several Raspberry Pi boards, put together the one housing into which they should be placed. And they are linked together).
Is like to see what he says about burn out. Many individuals get deep in burn out and lose their phisical health and eventually mental health goes down the tubes as well.
They start to exhibit signa of autism that is more "full blown"
Thanks for sharing!
Thank you!
Hello from the Netherlands 🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱
Same here a mum from UK and need advice
just don't get time to join your classes unfortunately
I set this card facedown in defense mode.
can some one fix the mono output? only hearing it in one headphone is distracting
Daniel Schick haha I only wear one headphone. Two headphones is too much for me!!!
You miss out on soo much dynamic range with just one headphone. Those of the music I listen too is in stereo
I don't technically have aspergers or autism, but I strongly relate to the freeze/defense mode in response to absorbing, spoken or unspoken, familial "fix my kid" mode. I was frustrated with myself that i'm maturing late due to this, but this gives me relief and clarity. Anyone with a drastically different personality type from the rest of their family and/or disability I believe can have very similar experiences and benefit from this information. Thank you.
Do either of your parents have signs of Aspergers? Is it hereditary?
Good question. The mom said she was type A and thinks in a linear fashion. Hmmm...maybe the opposite end of the spectrum than her son. Women learn to mask better than men....much better.
was 20 still am . but realy "grow up"
Aberdeen
Why the fuck is this video almost an hour long?!
Please stop trying to sell your courses all the time, and this big teaser about the defense mode ...
Aaand just when I resume after commenting ... 19:40
I really liked your “freeze” video but just realized you have tried to monetize your advice. Are you a psychiatrist and specialist in autism? Then maybe not call yourself an Asperger Expert
Ee Fsss anyone can monetize the work they do you don’t have to bea doctor to share your experiences opinions and advice thanks for your concern!
Anybody can monetise their work as it’s a public tool on a public platform, it doesn’t in any way regulate the information he is trying to provide.
This person seems to seeks comfort in knowing they are receiving evidence backed research and rightly so, there’s a whole world of people trying to convince you they know best. And bad information can most certainly be damaging.
I can agree with Ee Fsss in implying only legitimate information form a consummate professional should be charged for.
Some psychiatrists and specialists aren't as educated about Autism as people believe and when you have the personal experience of living with the condition, is some ways you have the likelihood of becoming more of an expert then some professionals. It's tempting to have blind faith in appeals to authority over keeping an open mind.
There’s no such thing as an expert in asperger’s, the actual “professionals” will tell you that, over and over again.
Argh! My ears!!!!!!!!!!!