on being wealthy (sooner rather than later)

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @SpriteMcBain
    @SpriteMcBain 28 днів тому +61

    Watching in my 40s... And only just starting investing I feel so behind!

    • @PersonalFinancewithLeila
      @PersonalFinancewithLeila  27 днів тому +3

      You got this 💪🏻 I'm planning on hosting a free investing webinar soon (November or December) and I want to make it a series...so if there is anything that would be helpful to learn, please let me know!

    • @VanillaCherryBread
      @VanillaCherryBread 23 дні тому +9

      Keep going buddy I started at 41... was in 7K debt and living in my overdraft. I'm now debt free have a 15K emergency fund. 20K saving pot and just surpassed ~$115K in my portfolio. Diversification is key... I am almost 43 now

    • @Otis-the-III
      @Otis-the-III 23 дні тому +2

      Don't feel behind. Just add a bit more to a good retirement fund making greater than 10% annually. Between your inputs, 15% to 20% of your income, and a company match, you can hit 7 figures in 25 years. I did it in 15 so it's not impossible. It just requires you to put away, live a frugal life style and be able to take care of your assets, house and car(s). Maintenance on those two will suck your $$$ away. Good luck.

    • @estevez1942
      @estevez1942 22 дні тому +3

      I lost a lot chasing individual stocks and I feel pretty silly for not understanding how investing works. I have a double major in economics but I’ve been trying to make sense of the market. Well done on profits!

    • @VanillaCherryBread
      @VanillaCherryBread 22 дні тому +2

      Great advice here. Keep it simple, buy things you understand, take some risk but don't try to shoot the lights out. I’m invested in ETFs, REITs, and individual stocks and use a CFA. On average, she takes 10% of earnings, but using *Lina Dineikiene's* system allows for a more hands-off approach. I conservatively follow her recommendations and market entry and exit points, and tbh this makes it fairly simple for me... I am convinced it's not just hard work but smart work:-)

  • @allisbookishadventures8260
    @allisbookishadventures8260 Місяць тому +40

    Do more of these chill videos expressing your thoughts.

    • @PersonalFinancewithLeila
      @PersonalFinancewithLeila  Місяць тому +6

      I'm glad you like it I was a bit nervous about this one so thank you!!

    • @allisbookishadventures8260
      @allisbookishadventures8260 Місяць тому +4

      @@PersonalFinancewithLeila your content is great, you don't need to be nervous about any of your content.

  • @PenniesNotPerfection
    @PenniesNotPerfection Місяць тому +2

    This was great. It has taken me a while to get to the point where I want to be wealthy. I've never really wanted that before because of childhood stuff I've had to work through but yesss girl, let's be wealthy. And rich too ;)

  • @brunadelimazampieri8236
    @brunadelimazampieri8236 Місяць тому +9

    I’m with you. I wanna be wealthy and rich. I’m not the type who likes to show off but I want to buy groceries without worry, I want to go on vacation every year and live where I want to live not just where I can afford to.
    I’m comfortable now and I don’t need to be a millionaire in the future, I just want to be happy, comfortable, and secure

  • @Joseph_Zimmerman
    @Joseph_Zimmerman Місяць тому +8

    I live extremely frugal with a great salary, and that constantly bugs my friends. They always tell me I can afford more. However, I'm primarily happy precisely because I'm frugal, I don't want much, and I've learned to focus on those few things that make me ultimately happy, such as travel, hiking, and space flight related adventures. I'd rather have the latter with a smaller salary than all the best stuff and constantly stressed. The peace of mind a frugal lifestyle provides is absolutely priceless to me.

  • @catgodfrey6451
    @catgodfrey6451 Місяць тому +1

    Wealth is definitely a huge factor for me. So many things are greatly controlled by money.

  • @NanetteLoves2Budget
    @NanetteLoves2Budget Місяць тому +3

    As a 60 YO mom, I agree that parents should not assume their kids will be their fallback. However, it’s always important to understand the various dynamics that have led to a situation like that. I truly believe that people are always doing the very best that they can under the circumstances. I didn’t fully appreciate my mother‘s circumstances until I was in my 50s. I am so grateful for the insight I gained in the last several years of her life. We became so much closer than I thought we could ever be. It’s such a great comfort now. Hopefully your fears about their reliance on you and your sister will prove to be unfounded, but if it does happen I’m sure you’ll handle it with grace. There is so much abundance in this world. Money certainly helps and there are lots of other factors to consider as well. I appreciate your thoughtful perspective.

  • @lmanderson2012
    @lmanderson2012 Місяць тому +4

    I also completely agree with you. I too want to be rich and wealthy and have been working towards that for about a decade. After finally starting to earn more I can definitely say that money solves a lot of problems. And it's something I'll also see need to care for my mom as she gets older and has little to nothing in retirement. I would love to travel to watch my favorite ballet companies, create a scholarship for non traditional STEM students at my alma mater, and donate to arts organizations.

  • @brian7110
    @brian7110 Місяць тому +2

    Mid 30s and I want to be rich now as well. I'm having a really hard time trying to enjoy the journey and not the destination... Constantly trying to balance future vs current me and not be EXTREMELY frugal. I've been enjoying seeing your progress!

  • @Lorde_Nanners23
    @Lorde_Nanners23 Місяць тому +2

    It would be so interesting to be able to adopt a care-free mentality with spending money. Talk about a complete liberation from the shackles of self-limitations!
    However, just for the sake of argument, could we infer that being able to spend money without a moment of consideration could potentially be a slippery slope?
    To elaborate; right now we are conscious of our finances in how they stand presently, and what impact any costs may have on them. This forces us to learn and make educated decisions/choices on how to proceed with our spending.
    If we eliminate that variable of financial consciousness (i.e spending at will), is there a chance we could then cross over a threshold into making less educated decisions that could have a negative impact on our wealth? Gluttony, to put it simply.
    Thanks for the insight and your thoughts! Very cool of you to document your financial journey, and surely you’ll be able to look back pleasantly at your work and progress.
    Edited to remove redundancies.

    • @nelly.alqaisi
      @nelly.alqaisi Місяць тому +1

      I imagine it would depend on who you are and your values. For example, I personally come from a place of eco justice. A goal in my life is to live in a way that is in integrity with the health of the environment. That means being aware of how the level of consumerism in the West is killing making the environment ill. I seek to purchase within reason, locally made if possible, natural fabrics, thrift, etc etc.
      So if I didn't hAve to worry about counting every dollar, my values of being somewhat minimal would still carry over.
      On the other hand, if someone buys into the consumer/capitalist nature of mainstream society- sure it's a slippery slope! 😊

  • @SS-mt4zm
    @SS-mt4zm Місяць тому +2

    I agree with you! I consider money as a tool that help you make happier.

  • @annicks7385
    @annicks7385 Місяць тому +2

    This is your best video yet .and first time i have commented . Excellent 👌🏽 honesty and very sensible topics.

  • @markwaudby
    @markwaudby Місяць тому

    Shoot for the stars Leila, we are all here behind you and your motivating us all to do better for ourselves. Your doing a great job and i love all your videos x

  • @colorsofavon934
    @colorsofavon934 Місяць тому +3

    Other: I would like more peace and a simpler life. Thanks for sharing your ideas. 💖

  • @lmanderson2012
    @lmanderson2012 Місяць тому +3

    5:41 I would say that even if to have some sort of illness or disability, money allows you to get the treatment you need to at least have a better quality of care and life.

  • @KatieoftheHouse
    @KatieoftheHouse Місяць тому +1

    I misread the thumbnail as “healthy,” but honestly, I’m here for it either way!

  • @winnyhanse2909
    @winnyhanse2909 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for posting this video.❤ it feels good to know that I am not the only one that feels this way. I also want to be wealthy for the many reasons you mentioned there. I have started the journey and it feels great.

  • @rkw2917
    @rkw2917 Місяць тому +1

    You are a lovely woman
    I'd say you have a quite good chance to find yourself in a wealthy family circle
    Being wealthy only adds to daily pressures, hope you know that

  • @slwdro
    @slwdro Місяць тому

    Many people who are wealthy are always happy, there is a saying Money doesn't buy happiness, yet it does allow you to solve most of your problems by writing a check. Yes you'll be less stressed when something comes up. For me having a better mental health will allow me to have better relationships, in order to have access to the best care Money is needed. So My Vote would be more money in which it will allow me to focus on mental health improvement.

  • @JoshuaTrinityWolf-dc4up
    @JoshuaTrinityWolf-dc4up Місяць тому +1

    I had a great deal of stress in the 1990's because I used to work in a violent facility while dealing with severe IBS and a childhood brain injury. So, the wife and I decided to take some mental health time and go down to Daytona Beach and Clearwater. I remember one day I was fishing on a pier and talking to other guys about money and then I blurted out that I wanted to retire by age 40. Yes, it was a wish and a dream but in 2008 it happened. I believe I put that idea in my mind and held it their. And, in the last 16 years my health has been excellent with exercise and vitamins and Kale powder = Sulforaphane or raw 1/2 cup raw is fine and two 20 minute hot baths a day as per science studies.
    Because we don't have children so we will give our estate to the cats and dogs as we are dog volunteers for 15 years.
    Leila, thinks like I do so I know she will achieve anything she holds in her mind while the universe works out the details.

  • @ChanelleAnim
    @ChanelleAnim Місяць тому

    Your thoughts are exactly what I’ve been thinking since I decided to get my finances in order ❤

  • @KatieoftheHouse
    @KatieoftheHouse Місяць тому

    I really enjoyed this style of video, Layla!
    I agree with so much of what you said 😊

  • @mybdayis420
    @mybdayis420 Місяць тому

    Hey Leila! Do you have a number of “enough money” in mind? I find as I continue on my own financial journey, enough never feels like enough, even when I exceed goals. Have you come into this dilemma as well? If you have could you talk about it in a future video?

  • @budgetlifegoals
    @budgetlifegoals Місяць тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video.

  • @boot-strapper
    @boot-strapper Місяць тому

    yeah, and I want to live forever. Good luck

  • @BRBRidingMyHorse
    @BRBRidingMyHorse Місяць тому

    There's nothing wrong with a woman saying she wants to be wealthy. It's a huge part of my life journey.

  • @SntYvsLrnt
    @SntYvsLrnt Місяць тому

    you would think a state like Florida that experiences hurricanes every single year, would make home insurance more affordable or at least more accessible to everyone
    yet here we are

  • @singleparentfire2363
    @singleparentfire2363 Місяць тому

    I would love to be wealthy as well. I’m tired of money always being a problem in my life. I want to retire early and be free but I need money to do that 😂

  • @juliequick5526
    @juliequick5526 Місяць тому

    Imho there is no such thing as financial security. Financial serenity is the goal because it is more easily achievable and will always be attainable xxx

    • @nelly.alqaisi
      @nelly.alqaisi Місяць тому

      A play on words. Just depends on who/how it's defined

  • @belengauto3801
    @belengauto3801 Місяць тому

    I totally agree 😊

  • @mybdayis420
    @mybdayis420 Місяць тому

    Would you rather be wealthy and rich instead of being in a relationship, like break up with your partner if you were given a huge about of money? In the poll people had to choose between the two. Just curious.

  • @lindadorman2869
    @lindadorman2869 Місяць тому +2

    For me, it's all about balance and adapting to change over time. When I was younger, I worked really hard but I spent too much and never invested for my future. Now age 63, I have my own business and earn enough to be financially secure but not wealthy. I've achieved peace and tranquility and lead a simple life. I was always healthy but got really sick last year so focusing on my physical health is a priority. Life looks a lot different from age 25 to 35 to 45 to 55 to 65...

  • @EricMoore790
    @EricMoore790 Місяць тому

    She is good looking!

  • @mexicanmax227
    @mexicanmax227 Місяць тому

    Me 2 😃. Great content as usual.

  • @ypey1
    @ypey1 Місяць тому +2

    She is gonna explain to us why she want to be wealthy soon rather than later?... I dont think that needs an explanation, lol

  • @DanielGonzales-di6tq
    @DanielGonzales-di6tq Місяць тому

    Hi Leila, it’s been a minute since I’ve watched your videos but they are always great. I just wanted to share, I’m building my wealth with Bitcoin. I’ve been stacking $10-$20 dollars per day since 2021 and it’s paid off really well.

    • @PersonalFinancewithLeila
      @PersonalFinancewithLeila  Місяць тому +1

      Crypto scares me 😂 if I had a chunk to blow though I wouldn't mind some bitcoin

    • @DanielGonzales-di6tq
      @DanielGonzales-di6tq Місяць тому

      @@PersonalFinancewithLeila I get that. There is definitely reason to be worried about crypto. Look in Bitcoin, not crypto. Think of Bitcoin as the S&P500 of Crypto as far as investing. It’s much more than that.

  • @bigegames2019
    @bigegames2019 Місяць тому

    Vote Blue and get great nation wide healthcare.

    • @PersonalFinancewithLeila
      @PersonalFinancewithLeila  Місяць тому

      Aren't we currently blue and healthcare/coverage is shit? Lol it needs a whole overhaul. Neither party helps

    • @slwdro
      @slwdro Місяць тому

      @@PersonalFinancewithLeila Correct with both RNC/DNC our healthcare will never be fixed as long those two parties are in control. I believe they could solve it but that would be one less talking point during election time.