He's Not Attracted to Me Anymore - The Change-Up | RomComs
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- Опубліковано 6 лис 2022
- Dave as Mitch (Ryan Reynolds) is horrified to hear that Mitch as Dave (Jason Bateman) told Jamie (Leslie Mann) he's not attracted to her.
What is The Change-Up (2011) about?
One drunken night, two friends admit that they wish they had the other's life. Mitch (Ryan Reynolds) thinks Dave has it all: a beautiful, loving family and a high-paying job at a prestigious law firm. But Dave (Jason Bateman) thinks Mitch's stress-free life without obligation or consequence is the real dream come true. The next morning they wake up, hungover, in each other’s bodies, and proceed to freak out! With time not on their side, Mitch and Dave comically struggle to avoid completely destroying each other's lives before they can find a way to get their old ones back.
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Can we appreciate Leslie's performance during this scene. She's an underrated actress
What's her rating?
Yes she is....She is a fantastic actress
Ever since her Ursula Stanhope days
She has one character that she plays in every movie (many of which her husband is producing/directing). Obnoxious crying =/= underrated acting.
She is good. But I think she plays the eccentric type too much, which is sometimes overwhelming to watch. But here is a pretty spot on.
Ryan plays Jason SO WELL!
I haven't seen this in years, time to rewatch.
You’re so right! Im just now noticing even the way he holds his arms out by his sides is like Jason spot on lol
Eventhough she is crying and complaining it is beautiful to see how she understands her husband
yea, that's y this is a movie. irl no one does.
Well you can it’s just incredibly rare
This is such sincere acting and a genuine confession. It's amazing how easier it is to confess things like this to others rather than the person directly and it'd be great if we could BUT the receiver has to listen...Just listen.
My heart breaks, because this happens in real life and is one of my biggest fears. That I won’t be good enough one day for the person who claims to love myself and my child so much.
Happened to me after nearly 30 years.
This is most males, sadly.
@@Nirobiscloset10 I understand why you say that. If you really think about it, that mindset isn’t just in men. It goes without saying that it’s a cultural mindset problem. As a husband when I watched this and the scene before, it broke my heart because I would never talk to my wife like that. But I am guilty of saying other things or not saying things that made her feel like trash. And since becoming aware I know to succeed in that area of my life.
@Ninjakittykat the fear you illustrate here is super normal obviously. I would however like to point out a different view of the same fear. If someone were to say you are not good enough especially after you giving birth to another human being, I can openly speak for everyone and say they aren’t good enough for you.
This isn't going to sound nice coming from a mom of six and married for thirty-one years, but move on. Find someone else or don't. It's their loss.
I was getting teary for a lot of this and then when she said “I have huge feet, there size 11” the tears completely stopped. I have size 11 feet as a woman because I’m 5’11 close to 6 feet and I felt personally attacked 🤣. AND I HAVENT EVEN HAD A BABY YET! 😭😭It’s so horrible and when she talked about those online shoe stores, I felt that in my soul 🤣🤣🤣
Soul or sole?
OMG SAME GIRL
@@atikshagarwal5147 lol. Good one
You monster 😆 jk
Beautifully acted scene! Props to LM for keeping the emotion going. Props to RR for taking her in in a way that drives the story and also channels Jason Bateman’s original character.
Why does she always play such downtrodden characters? I know it’s to showcase her talents, but she’s just so beautiful to me x
She plays in most movies her husband directs, so maybe that's why?
"Why did you hesitate?" lol
Reynolds does an incredible Bateman impression
Lmao I felt bad for her and then I was laughing a bit about the feet...
Me too! Poor kid.
It's a thing
Now that I rewatched the movie and seen this scene especially…they had to have that change up so Dave knows what his wife’s feeling and Mitch also so he could get his life in line sometimes we don’t know how lucky we are until one day it’s not there one of the main reasons I love this movie it’s funny and at the same time it throws beautiful life messages left and right good job to whoever wrote and produced this movie
I forgot about this movie and how funny it was and also the acting was incredible, especially from Leslie ... brilliant romcom with important points!
This lady is a good actor like fr. Nice little scene here, W actress
Leslie Mann is the most amazing actress
It's amazing the things we keep inside and tell the people who need to know them the most!
SHE IS ALWAYS THE WIFE IN EVERY RAUNCHY COMEDY.
Her husband is Judd Apatow
and their kids are often cast in the movies too : )
Because every raunchy comedy is made by her husband 😂😂
And because we all want to marry her
This was a great one with Leslie Mann who’s always crying in movies 😂😂😂 Jason Bateman and Ryan Reynolds!!! The way he looked at her during this conversation was hilarious.
Jamie before Linda Rio
Dave before Nick Wilde Zootopia
For those who don’t understand, the husband had never said he’s not attracted to her anymore, because in this movie her husband and his best friend have switch bodies, so Ryan Reynolds is the best friend but now he is the husband and the husband who is now the best friend have said that he is not attracted to her now is because he doesn’t want to hookup with his friend’s wife.
That’s it, I have seen a lot of comments talking about « that’s what men do, they lose attraction to their wife, there always want more … » when it isn’t the case at all in this movie, and it’s pretty sexist to said that about men.
“how can you stay married to someone who is in capable of being happy?”. True. I tried. I was good. And whether she did it intentionally or not, I became her collateral damage, her punching bag. And she wanted more. She wanted people to see her as someone with a perfect life, a perfect boyfriend, blonde and handsome, who is desired by many. As time went on, day by day, bit by bit, she stopped seeing my value. She wanted external validation. So I left, cut off all contact, and now am happier. Like a weight, a burden, was lifted off my shoulders. I am happier not being devalued whenever she didn’t get the validation elsewhere. Folks: value yourself, and your happiness, and your identity. Make them your priority. God bless.
She is a great actor n beautiful
"How can you stay married to someone who is incapable of being happy..." That' hits hard!!
I cannot help seeing the clown in Ryan in any movie 🤣
Except for the ridiculous scenes this is actually a pretty good movie.
Leslie is legendary potraying newly mom. My feet grew bigger after the birth of my son.
The feet. That's funny right there.
😂😂😂🔥🔥😭😭Her complaints will always make me laugh Shower Sandals
Thanks for the info, Jon.
Leslie Mann is so underrated
I kept waiting ryan to break character and say something funny and outrageous
"How can you stay married to someone who's incapable of being happy.."
I think men are finding that out now more than ever.
She is such a talented, beautiful actress. Good for her and Judd and the girls.
Very funny too
Leslie acts so so well here. Just fabulous!
Wow! Great actress.
That was a lot this morning.
Such a great scene.
This right there is what sets us up for failed relationships - the unrealistic expectations that seemed to be ingrained from these romcoms who have only two hours not only set the premise but also explore it, justify it and resolve it. Happiness is not the end goal, being at peace and having your actions in unison with your being is the absolute motive.
“Dave’s not here man.”
This performance is so on point. I felt it in my soul, cuz I'm in love with someone who works a lot as well....
YOU ARE LUCKY TO BE ALIVE MATE
This movie beside the grossness of it, actually has some really good scenes.
This exactly is the biggest fault in relationships- you have to TALK to each other! Nobody can help you; but you and your husband! Like how do you think the problems will be solved with basically no emotional communication! He can't smell it tho...some men just don't think about These things like women do and you have to open your mouth and let your thoughts and feelings out. Why would anything changes if you don't talk to the person, it is all about
She probably did and he ignored her
Actually the way she's saying Ryan Reynolds if et all she can say that to her husband he could have helped her
It's hard to hear the truth from your wife in another man body
lol I saw an interview where Judd was teasing Leslie about her supposedly big feet. I'm starting to think he'll take any opportunity to joke about it.
Her emotional behaviour is the same as me literally
Incredibly powerful and dramatic life scene that resonates in lots of grown-up people. Gosh, and this seemed like a primitive comedy...
This seen is great because all women have been here when thier husband loses attraction to them. Because they are bored, or thier wife's perfect body was sacrificed to bring babies on the world.
When she cries 😢
How do you even marry someone who is incapable of being happy..
Being young and hopeful and in love would get you to do a lot of things tbh
I did unfortunately 🙋🏻♂️
@@thedarkknight9153 On second or third thought, this clip is just fucking funny.🤣🤣
I never saw this movie, but as a parent, I wanna watch the whole thing just from this scene.
wauw that was a rant.
they don't make rom coms like this anymore 😢
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I feel for her in this scene but at the same time, how can you tell this stuff to your friends(even though it is her husband) but not tell your husband?
Do you see the confusion on his face when she says for years...........he was dumbfounded by that because in his mind he thought everything he was doing was ok and that everyone was happy. Folks NEVER be afraid to tell your partner what's on your mind, what you need/want of them, and what you will no longer take because while we would all love for out partners to just get it, sometimes they don't
We LOVE YOU MATE
This was sad. What movie is it?
The change up, an alternative freaky Friday
It's in the freaking title of the video
The Change Up
That’s actually her husband in their friend’s body.
I thought that this was Blake for a second...
Because of the ponytail right haha
She's lucky her feet only went up one size mine gained a whole size for each kid
😂😂😂😂
Heads or tail😢
What is actually going on with her husband? Never seen the movie
2:18
This is probably the weirdest place to say this, but in Islamic Jurisprudence, one of the rights a wife has over her husband is the never to be called ugly. The crude translation of the Arabic word would be "uglify." Interestingly, a man doesn't have that privilege.
When is she not crying or screaming in a movie lol she loves acting miserable 😂
It was kinda nice until she revealed her issue was that he was not paying attention to her.
Everybody needs attention from time to time. It's natural, nothing bad.
Ben Affleck
This should be put into context though… honestly, in the scene before she took a huge dump in front of him. Its hard for anyone to be attracted after that. Some people think others don’t mind, but its hard not to. Its gross not to shut the door and respect yourself and the other person.
Yeah but the context is that they switched bodies so the husband is still attracted to her
A wise man lives a Bachelors Life 😂
@ymarrero23 it’s different for Men…. All the best
@ymarrero23 i hate to break this to ya but there's no such thing as that, Disney sold Men a lie.... I'll stay rich and single, thanks
@ymarrero23 "My parents didn't set me up" "no one guided me" Nobody can guide you. They can only advise you. YOU have to be your own guide. Stop blaming everyone else and start taking control of your future.
@@du4lstrik3 though I agree that she should stop blaming others and take accountability but regardless, a parent is supposed to give their children an image of what life is like. Most of our life choices, we dont notice but are impacted by the opinions we had about our parents
@W. S. I dont think men watch disney.. if the lie was sold to anyone, it was to women. Cuz women expect a freaking beast to turn into her lover and these prince charming characteristics in men.
Maybe I'm dumb, but I don't get the feet thing. So what if they got bigger? If my wife gave me kids and does all that for me, her feet getting larger would be the last thing on my mind. If anything, I'd be more concerned about making it easier for her to find shoes in her size.
Men are known for this it’s in their psychology and it sucks for them. And i feel so sorry for them. Their biology is always searching for more more more. They are very productive & accomplished people :) i love men for that reason. But if u let ur husband know this maybe he can start paying attention to u and his new shiny things. Just because u have new toys doesn’t mean u should throw away ur old ones ❤ remember ur humble beginnings. Remember what gave u the energy to keep going
One that's one part of it. (Maybe)
No. It's not a genetic component attached to maleness.
Lmfaoooo what a pick me. This is not how psychology or biology works.
Oh honey, that’s not biology or psychology work? 😮
She’s not attracted to him. He just switched it around on her ;)
This is one of those clips nobody wants to see
So, then lie and cry about how terrible he is!
Woe is the house wife who has everything easy and doesn't have to work. Still finds ways to complain about him behind his back, and call him a p*ssy. Every movie or TV show the man of the household is seen as a chump
That's an interesting comment you made, several years ago I had a male friend say the exact same thing??? Hmmm...
Financial security does not equal emotional security. Some women would be happier with less money but more emotional security. :: shrugs :: Every relationship is different
Trump 2024🎉
@@JaxLittles emotional security doesn't pay for the essentials to stay alive. And most women don't think that way. If so then why so many women who want a man who makes 6 figures?
@@okaydudes no most women just don’t want to settle for just getting by and want to actually be happy in their relationships, crazy I know some people don’t consider just surviving financially to be living. Do you really not desire to have anything in life beyond being able to afford rent?
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