I hate to state the obvious, but usually people who have a mean streak in them to hurt others tend to not have likable qualities that would endear others to them, thus leading to a life of loneliness in the long run because nobody wants anything to do with mean people!
I hear so many stories bout boys and girls who have no parents! When you have parents, you feel so alone & lonely.. I know that as a HMONG lady you can't take in another person because everyone is poor and it's a lot to take care of another person!! But, I guess I am too nice as someone who isn't their mom but when your so nice, people treat you like TRASH
To those who are blaming the narrator and her mom, you must not understand the evil side of Hmong culture. Did you not see what happened when they stepped in to dress her for the Hmong New Year? They blamed the poor girl. If anyone stepped in to take her in, it’s clan war! Sad but very very true in our Hmong dark historical culture.
In the old days its hard for others to love and take in orphanage because everything is money, her mom help nkauj mim with hmong clothes and it got into a huge drama which lead to nkauj mim death. If her mom would've say I'll take her the stepmom will start asking for payment.
Tsis hais. Thaum ub tam sim no those who claimed hlub hlub menyuam ntsuag cas ho tsis mus coj los hlub kiag ne… nyib ib cag ntsia thiab lam hais tias hlub hlub nws li os no xwb es..
Koj tus ua txiv tsev koj mas thiaj yog txiv dev tiag lau. Thiab Nkaujmim niam tshiab nyaj koj thiab tus ntxhais yuav tau txais kev npam lawm lau. Yog koj txha tsis tau qob, los koj yog nkauj mim niam tshiab tus ntxhais yauv npam es tsam no mam paub lawm lau. Qhov koj tug tub tuag ces tejzaum yeej yog tus niam tshiab muab tshuaj lom Nkaujmim tuag xwb mas.
I hate step mom like this person. I also hate man like this father who only want PIM ntawm niam tshiab. Cov neeg zoo li tus niam tshiab thiab tus txiv nog ces tuag mus zoo dua, nyob los nhyav av xwb
Kuv tsis paub tias ua cas yus tus pojniam los yus tus txiv tsim yus tej me nyuam ua luaj es yus nrog nws sib tsoob puas zoo nyob no na. Yog kuv mas yeej tsis zoo nyob li os
I hate to state the obvious, but usually people who have a mean streak in them to hurt others tend to not have likable qualities that would endear others to them, thus leading to a life of loneliness in the long run because nobody wants anything to do with mean people!
I hear so many stories bout boys and girls who have no parents! When you have parents, you feel so alone & lonely.. I know that as a HMONG lady you can't take in another person because everyone is poor and it's a lot to take care of another person!! But, I guess I am too nice as someone who isn't their mom but when your so nice, people treat you like TRASH
That’s so sad, she probably noj tshuaj. 😢😢
The Hmong Cinderella.
To those who are blaming the narrator and her mom, you must not understand the evil side of Hmong culture. Did you not see what happened when they stepped in to dress her for the Hmong New Year? They blamed the poor girl. If anyone stepped in to take her in, it’s clan war! Sad but very very true in our Hmong dark historical culture.
Ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag. Cov neeg siab phem ntuj yeej tsis puj kom nws tau ib lub neeg zoo ua. Nws yuav tau them kev npam tag nws mas li tuag.
First!!❤
This is a story of Cinderella
In the old days its hard for others to love and take in orphanage because everything is money, her mom help nkauj mim with hmong clothes and it got into a huge drama which lead to nkauj mim death. If her mom would've say I'll take her the stepmom will start asking for payment.
Yep..happens everyday..
In laos...
Pab koj khuv xim koj tus me phoojywg zoo os tus niam tais aw. Cov neeg siab phem li niag niam tshiab no mas tsi tsim nyog muaj leejtwg hlub li os.
Hmoob ces phem ib yam nkau xwb yog muaj cov neeg zoo thiab ces yeej coj nkauj mim mus nrog nyob kom cawm tau nkauj mim txoj sia nej sawv daw tsua yog hlub lub ncauj xwb yeej tsis muaj ib tug twg muaj lub siab hlub tiag 2 li
Cov niagpoj niam plhu tuab no mas tsis paub txaj muag rau teb rau chaw kiag li twb yog yus tsim tsim thoaj tuag los tseem muaj muaj ntsej muag kawg
A lot of women did and do that even these days.
Tsis hais. Thaum ub tam sim no those who claimed hlub hlub menyuam ntsuag cas ho tsis mus coj los hlub kiag ne… nyib ib cag ntsia thiab lam hais tias hlub hlub nws li os no xwb es..
Koj tus ua txiv tsev koj mas thiaj yog txiv dev tiag lau. Thiab Nkaujmim niam tshiab nyaj koj thiab tus ntxhais yuav tau txais kev npam lawm lau. Yog koj txha tsis tau qob, los koj yog nkauj mim niam tshiab tus ntxhais yauv npam es tsam no mam paub lawm lau. Qhov koj tug tub tuag ces tejzaum yeej yog tus niam tshiab muab tshuaj lom Nkaujmim tuag xwb mas.
I am so mad. Where is the father when all this abuse happened.
I hate step mom like this person. I also hate man like this father who only want PIM ntawm niam tshiab. Cov neeg zoo li tus niam tshiab thiab tus txiv nog ces tuag mus zoo dua, nyob los nhyav av xwb
Kuv tsis paub tias ua cas yus tus pojniam los yus tus txiv tsim yus tej me nyuam ua luaj es yus nrog nws sib tsoob puas zoo nyob no na. Yog kuv mas yeej tsis zoo nyob li os
This a old story sav
I blame you too. You didn’t do anything to help. You should have taken her in.