Wow! I came here to say the exact same thing. He seems like a master manipulator and control freak. I pictured him as a cult leader telling everyone that he knows what everyone wants better than they know themselves. Red flags everywhere.
I have UA-cam open on my TV for some light watching before bed and I literally turned my computer on to write my comment, that's how red the flags are. MARINARA FLAGS ALL OVER.@@lisahumphries3898
@@natashakuzmanoska9656 Thinking of her age, this may not be the first time she has been in this situation. Would have really liked a follow up on this one.
I have HUGE concerns for Sherry. Give that girl some running shoes to go with that dress. Only bonus of him making them cut it shorter is she wont trip when she runs!
@@Shasha-jo5iv not according to other updates. She seems to be living in Boston as of 2020 and he's still in Beverly, MA. She is also no longer in any pics on his business page.
I need an update for the second bride, I’m very concerned. If this is how he behaves in public and a camera crew can you imagine his demands in private.
I did some digging and found that they were at least married until 2019 but, on the family photo on his car dealership website, she isn’t in the pic. Hopefully she managed to get away!
@@scooterbaby1 I have a friend, and her boyfriend treats her kind of like that. He's very emotional abusive to her. She's in the process of leaving him.
Glad she's leaving him, a lot of the time it takes women too long to work up the courage to leave. Glad she found the strength, it helps a lot to have a good friend to lean on
Oh man, that last bride with the controlling groom, I feel so sorry for her. You could see the Kleinfeld staff biting their lip. Good luck to her, she's going to need it.
The groomzilla is a narcissist scary. I was cringing through their whole appointment, and my heart hurt for the bride. She is always going to do what he wants because he has control in their relationship. 😢
@mrs. Tammy, Been there, done that. Hung in there for 40 years. My control Freak ended up a double amputee with me in control for the most part of his last 3 years of life. Sherri BEWARE of his narcissistic attitude. He may be good in business, but honey he is/will be hell to live with. GOD help you & any children ya'll may have. I see fireworks JUST listening to him.
The groom, Brian, in the second clip is not only controlling, but domineering, egotistical and mentally and emotionally abusive. I see him here playing mind games with her, making her doubt her own likes and dislikes, her choices about the dress (something that is traditionally chosen by the bride with no "help" from the groom). He is even now, at this relatively early stage of their relationship, worming his way into her psyche to undermine her self confidence, her perception of herself as a fully functional, independent individual as a separate person from him. I think his domination of her will continue until she has no more sense of herself as a thinking, feeling, intelligent individual in any way separate from her husband. This is an extremely dangerous and abusive relationship with no visible scars (although physical abuse could also occur) that will leave traumatic and heartbreaking scars which will be unbelievably difficult to heal. Shahrezad, my heart goes out to you and I wish you the courage to see your groom's true nature before it is too late. Blessings, healing prayers and wishes for hope, happiness and true and trusting love in your future are being sent to you.
My first thought after they altered the train was the dress was now ruined. You said it exactly right. It changed the flow, shape, and drape of the dress. It looked so much better before. So what if you had to take a couple of minutes to "bustle" the train for the reception.
@@darlenedavis8690agreed, dress bustles add so much volume and are beautiful when done well on their own. He really doesn’t understand that or doesn’t care.
"I'm here to make sure she gets what she wants"🤦🏻♀ "I'm interpreting what she wants"😫 I give them 5-7 years max, 2 before she starts going crazy then another 3-5 to GET OUT!!
The second bride has no backbone but also when she said they are taking scissors to it, what are they doing?….. errrrr she asked them to against their advice 😂
Dear Randy, Just before I went into the US Navy in 1981, I lived in an apartment next door to a male hairdresser who catered to female clientele. He was the best friend EVER. We shopped together and he styled my hair according to US Navy regs. We both moved on in our lives, and I have brother-sister memories of him. You are much like him. I wish you well.
I loved the dress for the bride getting married the next day. It was perfect. I am glad she kept the netting for her hair, and the imitation fur coat was just perfect.
Narcissists and codependents fit together like a hand in a glove. Sadly, it’s a misery for the codependent but they don’t leave because of trauma bonding and having their self-esteem destroyed. I hope she got away from him but I doubt she did.
The eloping bride,s dress was beautiful...l wish we saw more simple, light dresses like this. The groom." This is what you want, isn,t it ?" Run for the hills, girl, from that control freak.
Oh my god - That groom - talk about controlling! I interpret what she wants ?!!! Her dress was beautiful before the train was chopped off. She should have run a mile.
He took the glory from the dress and judt made it a glitzy evening or stage gown. Bad call. First brides dress so adorable on her. It really captured her personality.
Bride #2’s fiancé is horrible, he’s a major control freak. I don’t think that marriage is going to last, he’s going to be physically abusive with her, all the signs are there. Bride is blind.
The fiancee of the second bride seems controlling - he was nitpicking endlessly when he could CLEARLY see she wasn't happy. Then repeatedly saying 'I interpret what she thinks' - no, he doesn't. He is CONTROLLING what she thinks. Very worrying tbh
Can't believe I found it! I watched this episode YEARS ago and have been searching for the video for a rewatch ever since! But no matter how I searched, I couldn't find the eloping bride. This is awesome!!
It was in the Atlanta version, and happened years after this episode. I don’t think there’s ever been someone with a closer wedding date than this in this version.
Wow, Mr. Control....I feel sorry for this lady, she will have no say in her marriage whatsoever. He manipulates her into thinking that what he wants is what she wants.
The fiancé in the second story kept saying "This is what she wants" on the things he liked and gave her no option to say herself if she did or didn't. It was quite worrying to me and reminded me of an abusive partner who made that kind of controlling move, and god help me when we were in private later if I said otherwise.
That second bride...he's got her convinced already that he's smarter than her, knows better than her, he doesn't look to be that much older than her, but I wonder. I hope she figures out what is going on before too much longer. The thought of her living like that for years just breaks my heart.
Me and my husband got married at the courthouse I wore a dress similar to the first bride it was a knee length and we had about 4 or 5 family members there and afterwards we all went out to eat and we kept it super simple.. we have been married 11 years ❤
This second bride I recall: I still find that groom creepy, controlling, and cold. I have bad feelings about him beating her down the road. Made me sad and nervous.
7:55 this man is…. Something else for real I just can’t believe he was low balling her confidence in that dress she looked amazing just the way it was and he was talking about shorting the train and making the Brest area tighter and making it give more support to make her chest look bigger and I’m like WWAOOOOOHHHHH dude hold up, her smile told you she was happy with everything about the dress and you just had to make her feel less comfortable just because you can …. Fuck off dude she’s beautiful
That second couple was rude. She’s asking do they know what they’re doing, questioning the seamstress. She’s doing what your fashionista fiancé is asking her to do. Get over your self.
The way the guy from second part says "is that what you wanted" reminds me documentaries from Crime&Investigation type of TV channels. 😳 That's disturbing...
Unfortunately, the second bride is still with that piece of crap so I'm sending prayers her way that she's okay and happy. Cuz what the hell was that and why do they allow for abuse to air?
Wow if you’re looking for a partner to control your life so you’re free of making any of your own decisions then that guy is the guy for you! But I could never 😂😂😂
WHAT THE HECK were they thinking when they CUT the TRAIN off that dress???? It went from elegant to that look a Barbie gets when you give her a haircut. You “interpret” what she thinks? Poor girl. I hope she is not settling.
That groom is scary, manipulative, controlling, completely discounts the fiance' s feelings. I see abuse in her future
Yeah those are signs of a controlling person..
So worrying………
I think abuse is already here.😒
Yep, same here. Plus I think he's gay...all that concern over fashion, and is compensating. He certainly doesn't act like a fiance'!
@@lisawentworth6831😂 my thoughts exactly even the mannerisms
So many red flags with the groom in the last story
Wow! I came here to say the exact same thing. He seems like a master manipulator and control freak. I pictured him as a cult leader telling everyone that he knows what everyone wants better than they know themselves.
Red flags everywhere.
I'm sorry but how many years until they divorced?
Yeah, run girl, run.
HE'S GOING TO BE CONTROLLING AND A NARCISSIST DOWN THE ROAD.
I have UA-cam open on my TV for some light watching before bed and I literally turned my computer on to write my comment, that's how red the flags are. MARINARA FLAGS ALL OVER.@@lisahumphries3898
1st Bride, the dress is pretty and looked good on her.
2nd Bride... Red Flags!! Control - emotional, financial, mental.
he reminds me of my ex
Run! "I interpret how she feels about things" Girl run and run fast!
@@LillianPendragon Same. It sucks when you can see the flags and you know what she's in for.
@@ms.sunshinesue8719 If she run - will her next be similar to this? Red flags were visible to all of us in 1 minute.
@@natashakuzmanoska9656 Thinking of her age, this may not be the first time she has been in this situation. Would have really liked a follow up on this one.
I have HUGE concerns for Sherry. Give that girl some running shoes to go with that dress. Only bonus of him making them cut it shorter is she wont trip when she runs!
good one...run girl run
Me too. He freaked me out!
They're still married, I'm persian like Shahrezad and I understand her behavior but my heart breaks for her.
@@Shasha-jo5iv not according to other updates. She seems to be living in Boston as of 2020 and he's still in Beverly, MA. She is also no longer in any pics on his business page.
I need an update for the second bride, I’m very concerned. If this is how he behaves in public and a camera crew can you imagine his demands in private.
Narc groom = danger!! I am so sorry for her. I hope she Runs!!
I m absolutely not easily scared, but that second guy is scary, she must be very desperate or very downtrodden not to realize that or accept it….
I did some digging and found that they were at least married until 2019 but, on the family photo on his car dealership website, she isn’t in the pic. Hopefully she managed to get away!
@@Lisa-kd3uh so interesting
Thanks
I think they’re still married more than 10 years later.
Someone’s gotta get the second groom a dress of his own to wear to the wedding ASAP 👰🏻♂️🚩
Best comment XD
He's her best gal for a reason! She said it because deep down she sort of suspects it. Run away, girl!
Justina’s dress is pretty. They did an amazing job with the timeframe. The second clip 🚩🚩 he is telling HER what she wants?
control freak
When he said I interpret what's on her mind.. 😅
Wonder if couple #2 are still married!
I give it a year before she kicks him to the curb
No men should be allow in this store doesn't matter outcomes!!!
With the second one. With the groom to be. Just seeing him the way he took over. Can only imagine the way he treats her at home...
yeah, she's not allowed to make decisions for herself. Thanks but no thanks
@@scooterbaby1 I have a friend, and her boyfriend treats her kind of like that.
He's very emotional abusive to her. She's in the process of leaving him.
Glad she's leaving him, a lot of the time it takes women too long to work up the courage to leave. Glad she found the strength, it helps a lot to have a good friend to lean on
@@scooterbaby1 thank you we are to.
Oh man, that last bride with the controlling groom, I feel so sorry for her. You could see the Kleinfeld staff biting their lip. Good luck to her, she's going to need it.
Oh my, creepy vibes galore from that groom. He is actually scary the way he's gaslighting her.
Groom: “I interpret what she wants.” Yeah, uh, nope. Big red flag.
Ain't that some crap???? "I interpret what she wants." Hope she doesn't end up "disappeared" somewhere!! This guy is scary....
@@evelyngoodson9611 At best, she’ll be miserable.
😂😂😂
The groomzilla is a narcissist scary. I was cringing through their whole appointment, and my heart hurt for the bride. She is always going to do what he wants because he has control in their relationship. 😢
@mrs. Tammy, Been there, done that. Hung in there for 40 years. My control Freak ended up a double amputee with me in control for the most part of his last 3 years of life. Sherri BEWARE of his narcissistic attitude. He may be good in business, but honey he is/will be hell to live with. GOD help you & any children ya'll may have. I see fireworks JUST listening to him.
The groom, Brian, in the second clip is not only controlling, but domineering, egotistical and mentally and emotionally abusive. I see him here playing mind games with her, making her doubt her own likes and dislikes, her choices about the dress (something that is traditionally chosen by the bride with no "help" from the groom). He is even now, at this relatively early stage of their relationship, worming his way into her psyche to undermine her self confidence, her perception of herself as a fully functional, independent individual as a separate person from him. I think his domination of her will continue until she has no more sense of herself as a thinking, feeling, intelligent individual in any way separate from her husband. This is an extremely dangerous and abusive relationship with no visible scars (although physical abuse could also occur) that will leave traumatic and heartbreaking scars which will be unbelievably difficult to heal.
Shahrezad, my heart goes out to you and I wish you the courage to see your groom's true nature before it is too late.
Blessings, healing prayers and wishes for hope, happiness and true and trusting love in your future are being sent to you.
Major control freak vibes from groom 2...that lovely lady should not be walking down the isle...she should be running for the door
I truly loved the dress of the bride getting married the next day! She's lucky they accommodated her!👍
My goodness. Could that groom be anymore obnoxious? Acts like a daddy, not a husband.
Yes, very patriarchal acting
@@RkbmommaThat's MORE than "patriarchal"... he's a narcissistic, controlling, misogynistic, domestic abuser!
A Dad shouldn't act like that either.
There were very wired vibes, i did not liked her or him. But I agree on the train, from that material does not even look that good.
I think he acts gay.
The groom Brian ruined the flow and shape of the dress by « interpreting what she wants ». Run girl before he interprets the rest of your life.
Fr, the dress was so pretty before and he ruined it
My first thought after they altered the train was the dress was now ruined. You said it exactly right. It changed the flow, shape, and drape of the dress. It looked so much better before. So what if you had to take a couple of minutes to "bustle" the train for the reception.
@@darlenedavis8690agreed, dress bustles add so much volume and are beautiful when done well on their own. He really doesn’t understand that or doesn’t care.
As long as she obeys his every wish, they’ll get along fine.
He's a puke
"I'm here to make sure she gets what she wants"🤦🏻♀ "I'm interpreting what she wants"😫 I give them 5-7 years max, 2 before she starts going crazy then another 3-5 to GET OUT!!
They're still together
@@ceramicvasesThat doesn't mean she is happy in that situation 😞
So sad to see how she has no opinion at all! He is a typical controller and it will one day turn on him
@@rosannasanseverino7419 Sadly. That's why she ended up with someone like him.
@@janettewebster2151She is absolutely delighted in her marriage because....he said so.
I love the dress Justina picked - so chic, and perfect for an elopement and jetting off to Paris!! ❤
The second bride has no backbone but also when she said they are taking scissors to it, what are they doing?….. errrrr she asked them to against their advice 😂
Second bride; good luck in your marriage. You're going to need it!
Say yes to the dress and no to the groom until he can learn his place.
The guy is a control freak- girl
You need to run as fast as you can the other direction!!
The train was so beautiful on that last dress and they cut it off??!! My brain was about to blow up when they cut that off omg! 😭😭😭
The 2nd groom seems to be obsessed with what he considers a waste of time or unimportant. Hope this bride called it off and canceled the wedding.
They got married and are still together 10 years later
@@Beth-mi2hf Is she allowed out of the house on her own? Does she see her friends?
@@Beth-mi2hf
proof?! you don't have it!
Dear Randy, Just before I went into the US Navy in 1981, I lived in an apartment next door to a male hairdresser who catered to female clientele. He was the best friend EVER. We shopped together and he styled my hair according to US Navy regs. We both moved on in our lives, and I have brother-sister memories of him. You are much like him. I wish you well.
thank you for your service
@@asdfghjkl-uz1tt It was my honor and a privilege. Thank you for the kind words.
Thank you for your service.🤗
@@avamarshall7242 It was my honor and privilege to serve. Thanks for the kind words of support.
Thank you for your service!
This second Bride better find her VOICE!!!!
Red flag on groom #2. Looking at his eyes when the seamstress said which against his opinion, that controlling looks surface...wowza! Scary!!
Last Bride: Molly, you in danger girl. 😕
I loved the dress for the bride getting married the next day. It was perfect. I am glad she kept the netting for her hair, and the imitation fur coat was just perfect.
I wouldn't have such guy even as a friend . Run, girl!
I absolutely love Randy!!!
run far, run fast from that last guy!
I hope Sherry is living in wedded bliss for her own sake and safety. That groom is wayyyyyyy too controlling and she is caught under his spell
WTF with that groom? What a one-sided relationship that is going to be.
This fiancé is a creepy control freak! Beware--he will try to run every aspect of your life...she needs to 'grow a pair'!!
guys have no place telling women what to wear -- enjoy your life of being controlled - he RUINED that dress by having it cut WOW
The way the second groom talks to the bride sounds a bit like a sociopath. Frightening.....
"I have an eye for fashion" says the guy with a t-shirt out of his color palette and jeans 🤦♀️
She’s so SWEET!
He wants someone he can CONTROL / OWN!!!
Girl… RUN!!!
Listen to your instincts!!!
" I interpret what she thinks" Wow!
!!!!! 😮 !!!!!
The dress Justina tried before the Marilyn dress was stunning
I love Randy and all the consultants ! So much patience. !
Narcissists and codependents fit together like a hand in a glove. Sadly, it’s a misery for the codependent but they don’t leave because of trauma bonding and having their self-esteem destroyed. I hope she got away from him but I doubt she did.
Brian feels comfortable he made the right call😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh dear. That groom! “Bouquet of red flags pour Madame?” “Oh how lovely! Thanku I shall put them in water.”
Loved the first story!! 😄😄
2nd one 😳😳 made me think of the movie sleeping with the enemy 😢.
Well said. They are "twins".
The eloping bride,s dress was beautiful...l wish we saw more simple, light dresses like this.
The groom." This is what you want, isn,t it ?" Run for the hills, girl, from that control freak.
Right about the RED Flag's on the last bride ! The groom got his way by bullying! 🙄
Oh my god - That groom - talk about controlling! I interpret what she wants ?!!! Her dress was beautiful before the train was chopped off. She should have run a mile.
The last couple…I’m concerned for her. He is taking overbthe appointment and telling his bride what she wants…way too controlling!!! Run now!!!!
The second groom is scary. I hope the bride is ok.
(First Bride) *Me being distracted by her adorable accent and fun attitude*
He took the glory from the dress and judt made it a glitzy evening or stage gown. Bad call. First brides dress so adorable on her. It really captured her personality.
Walking red flag.... Groomzilla
Wow, that groom couldn't be more controlling if he tried. She'll wake up one day and see what she's married.
Bride #2’s fiancé is horrible, he’s a major control freak. I don’t think that marriage is going to last, he’s going to be physically abusive with her, all the signs are there. Bride is blind.
Dude, the groom in the second part is giving me the biggest heebie-jeebies ever. I can seriously feel my hair stand on end whenever he talks.
The fiancee of the second bride seems controlling - he was nitpicking endlessly when he could CLEARLY see she wasn't happy. Then repeatedly saying 'I interpret what she thinks' - no, he doesn't. He is CONTROLLING what she thinks. Very worrying tbh
The last groom; I buy you everything so I decide what you get. 😏
Wow the 2nd woman is going to be controlled by this man
She already is
I'd like to know, did this woman end up in a shelter for abused women?? Overcontrolling spouses are soooo scary!
Can't believe I found it! I watched this episode YEARS ago and have been searching for the video for a rewatch ever since! But no matter how I searched, I couldn't find the eloping bride. This is awesome!!
RUN GIRL RUN! HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU! HE WILL HURT YOU BADLY!
Justina had my dream wedding and her dress was absolutely perfect!!! 😍
I strongly doubt this is the closest deadline in their careers. Have they forgotten the military wife who needed a dress in 5 hours?
That may have happened after this episode
It was in the Atlanta version, and happened years after this episode. I don’t think there’s ever been someone with a closer wedding date than this in this version.
The 2nd segment, the groom is a creep. She wouldn't give him the time of day if he didn't have money, and he is going to control everything she does.
'I interpret what she thinks' RED FLAG- can we say narcissist? Run Sherry run!
Wow, Mr. Control....I feel sorry for this lady, she will have no say in her marriage whatsoever. He manipulates her into thinking that what he wants is what she wants.
I loved dress #1! So different.
The fiancé in the second story kept saying "This is what she wants" on the things he liked and gave her no option to say herself if she did or didn't. It was quite worrying to me and reminded me of an abusive partner who made that kind of controlling move, and god help me when we were in private later if I said otherwise.
What about the bride whose husband was deploying the next day she needed a dress in a couple hours
If I'm not mistaken that happened in Atlanta, not at Kleinfeld's.
@@ajds7597It was Atlanta.
It was in Atlanta and it happened years after this,
That second bride...he's got her convinced already that he's smarter than her, knows better than her, he doesn't look to be that much older than her, but I wonder. I hope she figures out what is going on before too much longer. The thought of her living like that for years just breaks my heart.
Oh, the control has just begun! Run girl, RUN!
Oh wow!! That guy is absolutely GROOM-ZILLA!
The bride with the controlling groom is in deep trouble.
Me and my husband got married at the courthouse I wore a dress similar to the first bride it was a knee length and we had about 4 or 5 family members there and afterwards we all went out to eat and we kept it super simple.. we have been married 11 years ❤
The groom is scary…he is controlling!
2nd groom wishes he was the one wearing the dress lol. Not picking every little detail of the dress like he's the bridal expert 😂
He sells cars, and from his attitude it is hard to believe his customers leave with a car of their choice.
What a controle freak .i feel sorry for that woman IMO
She picked him. 🤷♀
This second bride I recall: I still find that groom creepy, controlling, and cold. I have bad feelings about him beating her down the road. Made me sad and nervous.
The last appointment makes me never want to watch another video! It was rather frightening to watch the groom manipulate the bride!
7:55 this man is…. Something else for real I just can’t believe he was low balling her confidence in that dress she looked amazing just the way it was and he was talking about shorting the train and making the Brest area tighter and making it give more support to make her chest look bigger and I’m like WWAOOOOOHHHHH dude hold up, her smile told you she was happy with everything about the dress and you just had to make her feel less comfortable just because you can …. Fuck off dude she’s beautiful
That second couple was rude. She’s asking do they know what they’re doing, questioning the seamstress. She’s doing what your fashionista fiancé is asking her to do. Get over your self.
The second wife could have this episode screened at her divorce hearing.
The way the guy from second part says "is that what you wanted" reminds me documentaries from Crime&Investigation type of TV channels. 😳 That's disturbing...
What a controlling groom! Girl run 🏃♀️
That groom is such a control freak...but hey...he has several dealerships so that should help! 🤦🏻♀
Control freak!!!
RUN GIRL!!!
She's already turning into his doormat.
"I interpret what she thinks." Honey, I don't care if you're already married when you see this. Get out now. This will only get worse over time.
Any updates on what happened to this marriage?
It seems that they're still together, doesn't mean she is happy 😞
Unfortunately, the second bride is still with that piece of crap so I'm sending prayers her way that she's okay and happy. Cuz what the hell was that and why do they allow for abuse to air?
Wow if you’re looking for a partner to control your life so you’re free of making any of your own decisions then that guy is the guy for you! But I could never 😂😂😂
“Is that what you want?” Red flags flying high.
The last bride is a DOCTOR as well. At least as of 2019, they're still together.
That dress was PERFECT for an elopement in CP!!
Didn’t she wear it on the plane ride to France? I love her spontaneity! 😊
I love the first dress, such an unusual top
Good luck to that bride. Better her than me with that husband!!
WHAT THE HECK were they thinking when they CUT the TRAIN off that dress???? It went from elegant to that look a Barbie gets when you give her a haircut. You “interpret” what she thinks? Poor girl. I hope she is not settling.