Conversations Every Couple Has
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- Penn was pretty convinced I went to Napa with him, but I also thought he watched Pretty in Pink 🤷 2020 is a weird year. We promise to continue making songs, skits, and vlogs to keep you smiling. Please subscribe - all you gotta do is click here: bit.ly/2UroXoU #relationships #comedy #whatcouplesay
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There's 3 stages of a romantic relationship
1: I like you
2: I love you
3: WHY ARE YOU BREATHING SO LOUD!?
I start with 3 and if they can't figure it out they don't make it to the other 2
@@SlickRieck I forgot:
"Answer your phone or I'll spam you!"
The 3 rings...the engagement ring...the wedding ring...and the suffering
IN THAT ORDER🤣🤣🤣!
So true🤣
"You pick " is one of the 7 most feared things a wife can say to her husband
I wanted to disagree, then I remembered that I am the husband in this marriage, and my guy is the wife
@@paigeturner4425 omg me too lol
Pro tip: ask her where she thinks you picked.
Take her to the first thing she says
Lmao 😂
Facts
I never let my husband pick...or if I do it's from a short list of options...like the irianian and american elections. technically it's a democracy and he is free.
"You just need something sharp like a knife or some kind of stabning weapon."
That's my favorite line in the video 😆😆😆
LOL. It got a bit dark when he said this. 😅😅😅
Just watched this and thought the same thing!😀
“Yeah, but you haven’t picked the right one yet “
lol! 🤣 ❤
My late husband and I used to have all of these conversations! He NEVER used to close cabinets or drawers...and our conversations about the “movie with the blonde who was in that thing” were just like that! Loved the thing about what do you want for dinner, also! Very cute.
First one in and I’m already laughing because I am exactly like this! My husband is shocked about how accurate this is and relieved that after 22 years married he finally knows he is not alone!
It's a stereotype for a reason :)
“I’m ME and I’m using MY memory!”
Excatly!!
Hahaha EXACTLY!
I have literally said exactly that to my husband.
@@julianndavis9415 omfg!!
I was watching that part when I read this comment
You know y’all are so right about these things
Right? She sees the colorful lights and the music "This is how we do it" plays in the background and she walks in yelling PARTY!!! Then everyone starts running out screaming and she is like "Don't worry I danced with a few of them." End scene PSA for don't be a DA!
We don’t close the cabinets because when we do we get yelled at that it makes too much noise. Same for front door. It’s a courtesy.
John B yes vibes
Matt kmoch oh so relatable
*Are my hubby and I that special, that we’ve been married for almost 4 years and we’ve had only 2 of these fights?* lol
*I love my hubby!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
Just showed my hubby..it's soo PERFECT 😂😂and sent to my daughter & son in law..this is a classic!! Thanks for all the laughs at a time when we all really need them!
I can relate! My husband hates when I don't breakdown the boxes.
EXACT conversations we have every day! OMG! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The actor with the hair and the eyebrows - She’s obviously talking about Bradley Cooper
🤣😂🤣😂Yeeessss
Or Eugene Levy 🤣🤣
Yep! Silver Linings 👍
Idk what y’all talking about
Or Nicolas Cage.
All the girls know the guy with the hair, eyebrows and with Jennifer Lawerence was Liam Hemsworth!!!
Yes!
Um no I thought it was Bradley Cooper
Either one.... mmmmm, yummy.
Yes we have so many flies in our house right now! Tis the season!
I hate them!
The flies i. e.
Thank you that's the biggest argument my husband I have is he leaves every cupboard open every door open he has no commitment to push it completely closed!!! It's nice to know that someone else has the same problem so we know it's not brain injury.
bugasalt
You need some pinguiculas. Or VFT for larger flies.
We just had fly season about that time too. It’s followed by big spider season.
the second one made me laugh the hardest because my mom did that same thing. she said “it’s about this guy who does this thing”
You guys have made my quarentine so much better...love you all
My fiancé and I JUST HAD the closing cabinets talk. It’s nice to know I’m not the only one out there pulling out my hair over it.
why is your fiance permitted access to the kitchen?! so what if he's starving. dinner will be ready when it's ready.
@@HisameArtwork Because it’s his kitchen too. And what if he’s cooking. I hope that you’re kidding because you are really dumb.
Same here! What is the deal with closing a cabinet?
It could have been ghost. 👻
I thought my husband was the only one who didn't close cabinets!
Ma’am. Sorry but I’m also a husband and I can tell you that none of us are physically capable or remembering to close a cabinet. Even if we built said cabinets. But, there is hope. We now have the slow closing kind that can be open for a while then they slowly just close on their own. Or my wife comes behind me and does it. I’m not sure.
@@glenn2407 my dad closes cabinets
scatterbrained female here who forgets to close them.
Oh my gosh. I am laughing so hard. These have been the same convos my hubby and I have. Especially the breaking down of boxes.
Gonna be married 19 years this September 21st.
This video is very accurate.
Loved this video, it's so true, especially the part about trying to decide what to eat. We usually have that discussion in the car and end up driving all over town before deciding. When you were talking about Napa I was thinking that Penn was somehow going to turn that into NAPA Auto Parts. I guess that may be the first thing that males think about when they hear Napa. It is for me.
Omg!!! The flys!!! Dealing with the same problem in my house in Georgia! I counted 6 at one point buzzing under my ceiling fan. They're little flys. Bought a small bug zapper. Zapped 4.
This is the best thing for couple’s therapy ever lol 😂
The boxes are so spot on. 😂
When the heat is above 85 outside, all the flies come in our house. It’s ridiculously annoying. I swear every time an exterior door opens, five flies.
I thought it was just me.. The Flies and Mosquitoes this year are Crazy.
I am so glad other people are experiencing this and it isn't just my house! My husband and I are constantly killing flies. So gross.
They're just trying to cool off too..😜
Female Flies can also lay eggs in cool dark places clothes to crumbs and then you have hidden larva in your house til they form a cocoon like thing and turn into a fly. 🤢 yeah it happens
The portal to hell has been opened in our kitchen. So many flies.
This is so absolutely spot on.... Thanks...
The first part with what to have for dinner was spot on 1,000% accurate. 🤣🤣🤣
There seems to be more flies than normal this summer, just another reason to hate 2020. You guys make me laugh everyday, thank you!
No, I love 2020:)
We have flies too and we are in winter/spring Melbourne!! Eeeeew
Omg, I was just saying how bad its been this year compared to last. I am over this 2020 BS. #ronagoaway
Omg! My house is infested and I cannot figure out where they're coming from! It's driving me nuts!
We had trouble with yellow jackets getting in our house in the summer of 2020.
Those are also our biggest fights too. Especially the dinner one! Lol
We have like 5 flies in our kitchen alone. *Someone* has been leaving the doors open again!!!
I have had EVERY one of these conversations with my hubby! But to his credit, this whole quarantine bit has helped him learn he CAN empty the dishwasher!!!🤣🤣🤣 And Yes about the flies....🙄🙄🙄
Flies are in my house too! My dog likes to chase them. 🤣😂
The boxes in the recycling convo is SO REAL!!
Now looking for the cameras in our house.
Karl Taylor I’m looking for the hidden microphones in mine...😜😄
Me too !
You are SO funny and SO creative and SO talented! You’ve done an incredible job keeping us (and SO many others!!) feeling positive and hopeful during this incredible mess in our country. We love and appreciate you more than words can convey...and yes! my hubby and I recognize these conversations!! 🥰😂🤣😂🤣🥰
Hahaha These are too funny. Deciding the food and a movie are totally my husband and I. And yesssss with the open cabinets! Why do they leave them open?! 😂
I can totally relate to all of it, especially the movie part where he states he has never seen it and he has. My hubby is the same way. He does that with conversations too. We will have a full conversation about something and later when I mention it again,he will say, that I never told him. Drives me crazy.
whenever you watch a movie together, just write it down on a paper or spreadsheet or whatever, to keep track of it
You guys are so great! Personally, I think that this works for both couples and families considering the conversations I have at home lol 😂
We all have the same kinds of conversations -- roommates, friends, coworkers. It's universal.
OMG the movie conversation has actually happened at my house! My poor husband... I'm all "you know, the guy!" He has no idea because he has no information or context. 🤣 So funny.
Another great video! The dinner conversation and the dishes situation have both definitely been lived. (Just slide that plate on the counter.)😂😂
Dude this was funny AF 😹 When you asked the million dollar question "what’s for dinner?" I died!🤣🤣 I related to just about every scenario, altho in my house some of those are reversed. Omg I'm totally sharing this w/ my hubby!
I love watching your videos. Thank you for taking the time and making the effort with these. You are both so clever and witty.
Hey, who has been bugging my place and passing the recordings on to the Holdernesses?
Love you guys! You ALWAYS bring a smile to my face and a “feel good” to my heart ❤️
These are so spot on! If my husband is not in the house I do not see cabinet doors once they have served their function of being opened to allow me to get at what is inside. If it were up to me, every item in the house would be hanging on the walls where I could see it.
Hi guys! You’re so funny. Thank you, all, for the laughter-I guess that makes ya good for my soul! :D
btw: flies are known to make a mad dash indoors before it rains. A senior lady taught me that one day when I was asking the same question: Why are all these flies coming in here?
Turns out, she knew.
Much love from Massachusetts!
Be well.
The flies are EVERYWHERE! We have 3 in our house right now.
The last part about the dishwasher was so accurate.
"How about this one the guy has hair". LOL!!!! That was great!!! Yes I totally have been trying to figure out where our flies have been coming from. Thought it was only us. Love to know others have experiencing the same thing!!
This reminds me of my mom and dad😂 especially the one in the car
The dinner conversation was so me and my husband!!
Omg the cabinets and the boxes 🤣🤣🤣 the struggle is real 🙌🏻
But who turns down Thai food? Any married couple knows the answer to “Do you want Thai?” Is always “YES!”
Now I want Thai food.
I'm not a big Thai fan...
@@DevilTrojanChic Ah well, nobody's perfect. I’m sure that doesn’t make you an entirely terrible person. Mostly sure. Like, 68% sure.
Especially if it has crazy levels of heat. Chili peppers for the win!
Lol that’s so true except sometimes I say no because I’m the tightwad. That’s the only reason I ever say no to it!
The flies might be due to all the cupboards that are left open or the bin lid not being able to close with all the boxes not flattened-ha, ha
The day in the life of more couples than you'd wish for, and not just going through this virus 😣
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is so my marriage!! I swear especially when it comes to food!! Majority of our fights is literally what we are eating for dinner!
I thought it was just us that had those conversations. 😂😂😂 It's fun cause we are bilingual and still use the same words. Lol. Groovy!
Omg so true I ask my husband what he'd like to eat and he will say anything!
My husband will say, I don't know. I ask him how do I fix I don't know.
well he better comit to that. kale and blanched chicken it is.
"You've seen this" "I've never seen this"
"I never went there, you must have went with an ex"
Definitely my husband and I 🤣
Lol
Can you do a skit when Rona mentions large parties in colleges and universities
yes they should
You literally said this comment like 3 different times. They get it. Once should be enough.
I just love this particular video since it hits the nail on the head. Thanks for keeping us entertained during this Covid-19 pandemic. I look forward to lots more daily life moments and representations.
There are at least 10,000 movies that my wife swears I’ve seen that I have absolutely no recollection of. Add that to the 250,000 books that she swears I’ve read and I am possibly one of the most well-versed in modern pop culture people there is.
Omg i totally have flies too!!!! I thought it was just me!
LOL!!! So true! I have these conversations not only with my Honey but also with my adult college kids. Ugh! We have flies and wasp. We live on a farm so I expect this. We purchased a fly zapper that is shaped like a tennis racket. I can now go around the house pretending to play tennis 🎾 and kill flying bugs. A double win!
Oh my goodness, the cabinet doors! I thought my husband was the only one who did this. I will say he's a million times better than when we were dating and he had his own place. He now closes them about 99% of the time. I'm actually a bit relieved to hear it's not just me having this conversation. :-) Keep up the great videos!
Are you eavesdropping?? 🤣🤣🤣 So true and so funny!
Omg!! The boxes !! I thought it was only me 🤣😂
Hilarious... “closing the options to our future”. Love it!
The “Eww” at the end was so perfect!
**10 MINUTES LATER** 😴 💤
🤣 lol! GREAT JOB!
This is SO us! One of us not closing the cabinet doors, one of us falling asleep when the movie starts, letting him pick where to eat but none of the choices are right. Ha ha!
Omg! Love this video!😂. Yes little flies in my house! Friggin annoying!!
You all deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for marriages. Your videos definitely save mine. I laugh instead of getting mad.
🤣 So true!!!!!! Every argument Corey and I ever had.
Yes! We have a ton of flies too! We've started naming them.
Lots of flies this year! That's another conversation we have continually, often caused by the "close the door" conversation with our kids.
The cabinets and boxes!!! Yes!! 😂😂😂
The amazing supportive but passive aggressive cabinet closing is the best
That's me talking to my employees about the cupboards and boxes XD is this a professional working environment or a kindergarten? I'm not sure
SO many flies!!! And this is awesome. :)
The universal "yep" -- you nailed it for couples!! We're all kindred spirits in the game of marriage, but you two make it so entertaining! Even the troublesome parts become fun...well, kind of...😉😁
So in love with the "sideways" movie music! Nice touch!
I so get the thing about breaking down boxes!
Hahaha! Love you guys! You make me laugh so much 😂
Loved this one! Spot on!!!!
This is so my husband and I! I swear, we legit live parallel lives. My husband is Mr ADHD, and in or going 50 places at once despite it being physically impossible, and I’m the anxiety riddled mom with OCD that just needs five minutes (even though that is wayyyyyyy too little) to just have no one needing or wanting something from or of me. 🙈🙊
Omg the CABINETS!!! That’s my house and basically the conversation I go through multiple times a week 🤣🤣🤣
I'm stuck in a Holderness Family Hole! Help! Too funny. You all rock!
Was off news and youtube for over 2 weeks. Just caught up on the news. Also, might actually have caught covid from air travel. Majorly bummed from both news and covid chance. Then remembered! Holderni! Instant day brightener. Pro tip: just quick scan the news. Always wear mask and social distance (I did btw but got too close to peeps who didn’t), and drink lots of fluids and take vitamins. And ALWAYS ALWAYS FULLY view Holderness vids!
I totally understand about the boxes though!!!🤣
My love and I have been in a relationship for 3 yrs and this is very familiar! Lol constant especially when we are living together but I can’t complain it isn’t as bad.
True story. I've had every one of these conversations with several of my ex's and can vouch for the authenticity of this video. 😂😂
I was literally going bonkers this morning about all the cabinets being left open. I feel so attacked. 😂
Yes I've noticed more flies. Are they the food for monster hornets. Is something rounding them up lololol. You guys are so darn funny...
I’m getting ready for my first day of seventh grade,online learning! Wish me luck
Lots of luck. Be safe!!!!!
Hope you don't have to go into school for anything!
Good luck, you can do it!
It's good practice anyway, about half of my college degree was done with online classes and the rest on campus.
Hope you did well...buttttttttt how did you end up on this video
I don’t know 😀
Totally, exactly, spot on in our home. 😝
"Marrying for love may be a bit risky, but it is so honest that God can't help but smile on it. "
Josh Billings.
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We love your whole family! Boop, and Will
Haha so accurate, except my husband and I have reversed almost everything. Love your content.
Sometimes I have flies on my house and its like so annoying..... this video was so hilarious!!😂😂😂😂 you guys are so talented and good!!!! Great job Penn and Kim!!