The only real exception I can think of if their wife/husband is using denial of intimacy as a way to abuse them. That's of course assuming they can't leave.
@@hungrymusicwolf That and Alana touched on another aspect where it's financially devastating to formally divorce, so people might find other solutions. I'm not really justifying it, but there are rare situations where it's almost understandable. Cheating in general is horrendous behavior, though, and way too normalized.
@@hungrymusicwolf Men can never leave. Men usually out-earn their spouse by a factor of 20-50% yet she will get 50% anyway xd Of course, you can't stop giving her money but she can stop giving you sex cause "marital SA" Well, isn't it "marital slavery" then too?
You know the thing? People who actually cheat tend to be bad people for different things. One thing I learned is that if someone is doing bad things, they may be cheating, too. A friend of mine cheated on one of my exes and he was a shoplifter. And one of my exes? She did things to a dog and other things I don't wanna get into but she cheated on someone with me.
Great observation Hervey Cleckley, it’s almost like scoundrels have a distinct cluster of personality traits, such that the presence or absence of one trait is a predictor of the presence or absence of another. Some kind of connection being Masked here, can’t put my finger on it…
You aint all that either, if you get your freak on with a cheater. At least tell me, that the incident happened, after she became your ex, and not before you were dating. Otherwise you sacked up with a cheating garden implement knowing her proclivities.
@@TextBasedRPG not true at all, a lot of people take it to the grave, and even if they don't, there's a good amount of women and men who just ignore it because they are thinking with emotions.
@@Aliefr3550 Well if it is something you take to the grave with you, its propably something you can never really forget and will always plague you to some point. Also, sure let's imagine you cheated. You also cheated yourself out of having a true real and meaningful, honest relationship where you really love your partner and get loved truly. Sad when you life your life like this and definetly not a life i wanna be having.
It didn’t have any women on it not because women don’t cheat but because women can find someone to cheat with just by going outside 😂 men cant get a date to save there lives
Also because cheating wives are more likely to cheat by having a long term relationship with someone she already knows like a friend, in-law, or coworker, instead of men looking for casual hookups.
2:14 "Ah Canadians, the source of all evil." - Canadians do have a little bit of reputation related to war crimes. Mind you not for committing war crimes, but for being the reason they're in the Geneva Conventions. Or as the joke goes: "For the Canadians it is the Geneva Suggestions." (or other variants)
I think some of that reputation is based on technicalities. Like, in WW2, Canada never took war prisoners. That sounds intense, but what they did with prisoners was ship them off to other allies to deal with instead (and thus technically "took no prisoners")
@@HomekittyL2They have a semi-infamous reputation even outside that. Even if you factor out their reputation in WWI and WWII for executing anyone who surrendered, there's a story that when the prisoners in a POW camp in Canada (sent by Britain I assume) rioted over harsh treatment, the guards flooded the building with water and then went in with clubs because *they wanted a fair fight.* Not because it was less likely to kill anyone. Not because it was all they had for the situation, but basically because it'd be boring/uninteresting otherwise. Other things Canada has done that I can find: 1. Spent years trying to prevent other nations from banning asbestos (apparently) in spite of banning its use themselves 2. Quebec (and the church) took children from single mothers and institutionalized them in order to get federal funding, then kept them in orphanages or mental institutions where they were basically tortured and experimented on 3. Took part in MKUltra 4. Orchestrated the forceful expulsion of a nomadic African tribe in the 70s and 80s for a poorly-planned wheat farming initiative. 5. Spent two years during WWII producing anthrax with the intent to bomb Germany with it.
They were brutal especially in ww1, heard they would use some trench raiding tactics like throwing cans into the german trenches and then throw actual grenades after fooling the germans
Noel Biderman is a native of Toronto, Ontario.[5] He was born Jewish and had a bar mitzvah ceremony. His grandparents were Holocaust survivors. Growing up in Toronto, he attended the York Mills Collegiate Institute in 1986, the University of California (economics) in 1989, and in 1996 graduated from York University's Osgoode Hall Law School.[2]
Adultery is a misdemeanor in most states, but is a felony in Oklahoma, Wisconsin, and Michigan. Though there’s also states where it’s legal or there’s movements to repeal the laws like Colorado and New Hampshire.
My favorite factoid about Ashley Madison is that shortly after firing their SEO expert, Google autocomplete's first result for Noel Biderman suddenly became "Jew"
Women don't really cheat much less than men, but they tend to cheat very differently than how men do. Cheating wives tend to cheat with either people both she and her husband already know or other people in close proximity like coworkers, and they tend to maintain these relationships for longer. This is because (again, on average, so not all) women tend to cheat for more attention and emotional investment, whereas men tend to cheat for hookups. Obviously there are role reversals, there are men who have long-term emotional affairs with mistresses, and women who casually sleep around with strangers, but they're the minority, and when you extrapolate out to millions of people, you'll get dramaaaaatically more men on something like AM than women, to the point where the men have basically no hope of finding anyone.
It was mostly men. And then they paid people to talk to the men as women. Not a lot of cheating went on, if any. Because there wasn't even a voice they could hire men and women, unlike the similar services that came before over phones. What it actually ended up being was a service to just talk to someone for almost every single user. To sell the idea the company had to hire people to respond to be able to charge it's prices. They couldn't just hope a man matched with a girl then talk. The business model was around number of messages sent. Just talking. But because it wasn't real no cheating actually happened, least I never read of any. The thrill of just being there was enough for it's users. None of the men actually had an affair, but the idea they did ruined them. Divorce, delete, loss of jobs, custody of children. Over a great big lie.
at 6:00 I heard once that most people who are married do not get a divorce (at least in the US) when the flame dies etc. is more expensive for many people than actually living in different homes and living like singles, and only getting a divorce if they found someone new... or not
That's why you shouldn't get married nothing but a contract to screw you over if something happens. Just throw a mock wedding and do the while wedding thing without the contract.
This is the type of stuff that I wish I could do, but similarly to you, I found out pretty quickly that being a white hat hacker was not going to be an option with how terribly and absolutely INEPT I am at coding I’d love to try to learn, but I don’t know, that’s a lot of work and I do not have the time or motivation anymore 😂
Key phrase "everyone being reasonable." Your spouse could very easily have been very unreasonable and caused that cost to inflate faster than a children's cartoon character on Deviant Art.
United States Adultery is illegal in 16 states and Puerto Rico, but it is rarely prosecuted. The laws are strictest in Michigan, Oklahoma, and Wisconsin, where adultery is a felony. In Virginia, adultery is a Class 4 misdemeanor.
even if this world is "survival of the fittest", some still feel like this world is a fairytale... i guess this is how those idiots get a reality check huh? not to even mention that i'm also a victim of a cheater... even after years, i still feel cringe and anger just thinking about what she had done behind my back...
Cheating is a crime in the Uniform Code of Military Justice. The military could prosecute its members that used Ashley Madison and if they used a government email, that’s potentially another charge.
based alana. i also wanted to be a cool white hat hacker too until i realized i was too stupid to code well. well, i did learn to code, but there's a mountain of difference between knowing basic python and training an AI to do exactly what you want. music and video games suit me better, and though i still code some basic HTML & CSS for work, mostly i'd rather be the user than the coder. like making a really cool graphic design feels good because you can start admiring it immediately after you're done, but learning to make an app takes far too long. i'm too lazy and wise to stray too far from what i enjoy. sure being white hat hackers are cool, but you don't know what they sacrifice in the process. i... for once, would like to remain a casual normie.
According to the message at 22:50 90% of actual users were male, the females being fake profiles. So... Yeah, for every 10 9 were husbands, so it makes sense.
Yeah because most cheating wives don't go looking for random hookups. They tend to have long-term physical and emotional affairs with people they already know like friends, coworkers, and even in-laws.
@@HuuuuuuueThat is the most naive, devoid of experience thing I have ever heard. Single women engage in random hookups all the time, and cheating wives FACTUALLY do the same thing.
It's a little different here. Most of the customers listed in the video were in high-standing societal positions (military, politics). Likely their marriages were failing already, but it would have been harder for them to divorce or reconcile rather than simply have an affair (at least, from their perspectives). Someone once said, if you can imagine a way of living worse than death, you can imagine why someone would want to eject from life. The same may true of hell for some people; if you can imagine a fate worse than purgatory, you can imagine why someone would stoop so low.
@@almalone3282 it's not difficult at all. I've never cheated in any of my relationships even if I knew I was going to end it soon, and even turned down offers I would have 100% taken if I was single. have some personal responsibility and self respect man, it's not right to willingly hurt people
The need to reproduce is carved into our DNA. It takes selfawareness and willpower to resist the need to fulfill these urges with someone other than your spouse.
Cheating is wrong, but please never be too quick to judge. I'll use one example, but there are multiple, and both parties can be victims, though I believe, because of how marriage works, men are more likely to become one. Scenario: A man falls in love and wants to trust the girl because why would he marry a person he doesn't trust? Unfortunately, she lied. Once they have kids, she stops pretending she cares about him. He lives an unempathetic, deprived of emotions, sexless life. The problem is, he can't leave without losing half of the money he worked for his entire life and his kids he probably still loves, as they are his blood. And yes, a prenup is a thing, but if you can't believe a person who is supposed to be your soulmate for your entire life, the one who you'll raise your children with, why even marry?
The reason why men have to pay for the premium features and women don't is the same reason why women get vip access to the clubs/discos for free, and men have to both pay and wait in line: Men are the customers and women are the bait to them.
A class action lawsuit involves more than 1 person. So basically if you're a company and you defraud or hurt a large group of people, the victims can collectively sue the company. The reason why that 578 million dollars suit is so high is because it likely involves a ton of people.
It’s not illegal, but if a divorce cites cheating and can prove it, you have basically already won the divorce. Prenups can be overturned, alimony can be denied, pretty much the only thing it doesn’t automatically make get ruled in your favor is if you want to deny any child visitation to the cheater. They have to be an even worse person to lose that bare minimum.
"they noped out of life instead of taking it like men" Wow, that is really fucked up. If you really meant to say that please go check your reality. You don't know what situations these people are in. Sure, what they did on the site wasn't right but the consequences can easily lead to depression and severe helplessness!
@11:30 The bgm that plays is one Tex Talks Battletech uses. So I just had a flash of Comstar fighting the Clans XD oh man what a crazy experience to have in a cheating video XD
I think it is super funny since all governmental emails is technically open for the public, on enough grounds to pick them up. Not military that is another thing but still
I mean, if you go onto Ashley Madison, you know exactly what you're doing. That's blatant cheating with full intention of doing so. Being hacked and everyone knowing you're a cheater is deserved.
23:56 - apparently, she is/was suing for carperal tunnel😂😂😂. The fact she said she was "forced" or "coersed" instead of asked or told (because it was part of her job) to make those profiles is how she was seen as a victim. Make those fake profiles, sure. But that didn't mean she had to also monitor them. Hell, she could have just created the backstories of those profiles, and then given the paper to various employees to add their photo and use their given back story to make the profile.
I actually feel for the woman who had to make those accounts for the Portuguese version. As I did the same thing with my arms for my late job haha. Can still feel the tendons in the tips of my fingers.
The sadness part about all this is, as of November 2024, Ashley Maddison is apartently still active... So people are either too stupid or too far gone to care.
The Saying Cheating to find companionship. Translation. I am Bored the Pool guy Looks fun? Or If the Guy Jogging Is fun etc. Or the Open marriage (But the other partner Is unaware lol)
Step 1: Create married cheater dating app. Step 2: Wait for cheater to subscribe for $10 a month. Step 3: Blackmail cheaters into never canceling subscription by threatening to ruin their marriage. Step 4: Profit?!?!?!
in some locations in USA, affairs can be illegal. i think it's called alienation of affection & it's a civil crime. the idea is that if you participate with a married person's affair, you helped cause a rift in their marriage & the person who was cheated on could sue you for being a "homewrecker" it might require knowledge that the cheater is married, but civil lawsuits have lower proof standards than criminal cases. so probably just need to demonstrate that the Affair Partner PROBABLY knew it was an affair.
No such thing as a civil crime, the legal system is segregated between crimes that make the government have a problem with you which can only be litigated by prosecutors, and civil offenses which can only be prosecuted by attorneys representing the people or entities affected, the plaintiffs. Alienation of affection is a civil tort, meaning you can plausibly file a lawsuit against someone for it, but also it's not quite making affairs illegal because there's no equivalent for the cheating spouse, just the affair partner. AoA is notoriously hard to prove, though, because the plaintiff needs to prove three things in court: 1. The marriage used to be loving, 2. It's not anymore, and 3. The reason it isn't anymore is because of the AP's malicious (legalese for intentional) conduct. In particular, proving number 1 and proving intent for number 3 is very difficult. You likely wouldn't have much documentation on how loving your relationship was, and if your ex is still on good terms with your AP they could very easily be called to the stand to say they never loved you and destroy the AoA claim. The defendant could also very easily say they didn't know that the cheater was married. If you can't shut down both of those defenses with evidence, your claim goes bye bye and you're out thousands in attorney's fees. For that reason, AoA claims aren't particularly common.
As a person I've been cheated on twice. (Two different relationships) As a engaged man I was also cheated on twice (again two different relationships) One of them literally said it's not cheating because it was another woman....! Lmao I lost my last partner to Diabetes. Thinking back she was the only woman bar my mother I actually loved. Compered to the others. I'm happy being being single. Don't think I can do a relationships after her. Wish I had one last day to let her know just how much she lighted up my life and how special she was
How many millions of females got exposed in that madison, ashly whatever, when that website leaked,. lol "no hubby, I only created an account to see what it was" 🤣
23:55 That type of injury is real and can have a real impact on your everyday life. I know she can't imagine it because she's young and healthy, but just pictures waking up one morning and being unable to simply pick stuff up.
Im so glad it got hacked. If you’re a cheater, you deserve to be found out. Dox’ing them is a bit too far but the wives might not have known otherwise. It’s really sad there were so many people. What makes it kind of funny to me is that they were not that many women so a lot of these men ruined their marriages over literally nothing, or they ruined it by talking to men dirty they thought were women 😂
Real talk I wonder if this is why I keep getting randomly phished. I put on my Facebook that I was married just so people wouldn't bother me. But in reality I am single and just didn't want a relationship at the time.
God i missed the best age of man. If i had been an adult when Ashley Madison was going nuts, I would've gone on it, and copped enough spleens and kidneys and livers to sell on the dark web. I would've been a king.
I’m pretty sure it less legal to be be in an open relationship than it is to have an affair but it’s been a while since I’ve looked into marital laws, I don’t remember why I did in the first place to be honest.
In no way am i defending the cheaters who made accounts on Ashley Madison, but this "Impact Team" sent that e-mail talking like they were some anime protagonists, like they use their middle fingers to push up their glasses and do a sly chuckle like "So.... what's it gonna be?" with a full theatrical dialogue.
Another comment pointed out that women wouldn't need to rely on a sketchy app to make it happen. But I guess trying to meditate wasn't the intention of the video, just presenting something for other people to slug out on the internet.
Well after 22:50 the video explains how more than 90% of real user profiles were male, and later how less than 0.1% of female profiles had actual use. So... Yeah, it may sound sexist, but in this case the cheating wives exposed are just a rounding errors compared to the cheating husbands.
Did you even watch the video? They couldn't get any women on the site so they flooded it with bots to trick men into staying. Wives still cheat at comparable rates as husbands, but they don't usually go looking for hookups like this, and even if they did, they wouldn't need to go to a site like this. Wives typically cheat with people they already know, not randos.
12:54 yes there are adultery laws in america, they just aren't enforced like they used to be. basically the laws are still on the books but since no one ever gets charged with it, its a crime that isn't a crime.
@@savejeff15 try reading something twice or three times, then it would be easier to understand. and yes, i also agree that cheaters are the very worst of the worst...
12:39 Ah, yes.... Adultery charges... Because letting your government into your personal relationship issues is a real good idea. Having religious laws in the government is a fantastic idea, especially when these cheaters are already being punished by the hack, their reputation being destroyed, divorce, family falling apart, their kids no longer trust them, etc.... (In case my sarcasm isn't obvious enough, that chatter is a nitwit).
My teacher found out her husband was there... From the other classes teacher who was on their to cheat on her husband...
The irony is palpable. 😂
Imagine getting found out by the only actual woman on the platform in your region
What do you want to bet she didn't do the same for that woman's husband?
@@gratefulguy4130 if she was telling her students about it, word probably got back to him one way or another.
bro what ?
If you actually cared about your marriage you wouldn't have cheated
The only real exception I can think of if their wife/husband is using denial of intimacy as a way to abuse them. That's of course assuming they can't leave.
This is like saying: If you really care about your job, you would still work even if you're not being paid.
@@hungrymusicwolf That and Alana touched on another aspect where it's financially devastating to formally divorce, so people might find other solutions. I'm not really justifying it, but there are rare situations where it's almost understandable. Cheating in general is horrendous behavior, though, and way too normalized.
@@hungrymusicwolf Men can never leave. Men usually out-earn their spouse by a factor of 20-50% yet she will get 50% anyway xd
Of course, you can't stop giving her money but she can stop giving you sex cause "marital SA"
Well, isn't it "marital slavery" then too?
@@Firzen39 This is like saying: If you trully love your wife, then you should let her be fucked by the entire city.
You know the thing? People who actually cheat tend to be bad people for different things. One thing I learned is that if someone is doing bad things, they may be cheating, too. A friend of mine cheated on one of my exes and he was a shoplifter. And one of my exes? She did things to a dog and other things I don't wanna get into but she cheated on someone with me.
Damn bro
You heard it here first guys. The striking revelation! Bad people do bad things.
Great observation Hervey Cleckley, it’s almost like scoundrels have a distinct cluster of personality traits, such that the presence or absence of one trait is a predictor of the presence or absence of another. Some kind of connection being Masked here, can’t put my finger on it…
You aint all that either, if you get your freak on with a cheater. At least tell me, that the incident happened, after she became your ex, and not before you were dating. Otherwise you sacked up with a cheating garden implement knowing her proclivities.
So the hackers hacked it because it was a scam, not because it was morally horrendous.
Kind of both. They wanted to take the hole things down
Its Pointless to Exposé cheaters Just for the reason that they cheated.
They will Bring the Most suffering upon themselfes If you dont interfere.
@@TextBasedRPG not true at all, a lot of people take it to the grave, and even if they don't, there's a good amount of women and men who just ignore it because they are thinking with emotions.
@@Aliefr3550 Well if it is something you take to the grave with you, its propably something you can never really forget and will always plague you to some point.
Also, sure let's imagine you cheated. You also cheated yourself out of having a true real and meaningful, honest relationship where you really love your partner and get loved truly.
Sad when you life your life like this and definetly not a life i wanna be having.
Mad respect to the Impact Team for doing what had to be done. Total madlads.
I’m sure 2015 was an amazing year for divorce lawyers
It didn’t have any women on it not because women don’t cheat but because women can find someone to cheat with just by going outside 😂 men cant get a date to save there lives
Also because cheating wives are more likely to cheat by having a long term relationship with someone she already knows like a friend, in-law, or coworker, instead of men looking for casual hookups.
Dating is weird there are still too many submissive women.
I remember this being talked about on Mock the week years back
Man I feel older now
"Happiness is about being open and healthy"
Alana: Yeah 🙂
"Which is why today's sponsor"
Alana: 😱
That false sense of security got me 😆
"Oh nice! A decently long video to watch while I eat!"
5:25
"Oh. I think I'm no longer hungry."
Weakness disgusts me. 😂
As someone who's been cheated on by an ex the thought of putting my wife through the same thing actually makes me feel physically ill
2:14 "Ah Canadians, the source of all evil." - Canadians do have a little bit of reputation related to war crimes. Mind you not for committing war crimes, but for being the reason they're in the Geneva Conventions. Or as the joke goes: "For the Canadians it is the Geneva Suggestions." (or other variants)
I think some of that reputation is based on technicalities. Like, in WW2, Canada never took war prisoners. That sounds intense, but what they did with prisoners was ship them off to other allies to deal with instead (and thus technically "took no prisoners")
@@HomekittyL2They have a semi-infamous reputation even outside that. Even if you factor out their reputation in WWI and WWII for executing anyone who surrendered, there's a story that when the prisoners in a POW camp in Canada (sent by Britain I assume) rioted over harsh treatment, the guards flooded the building with water and then went in with clubs because *they wanted a fair fight.* Not because it was less likely to kill anyone. Not because it was all they had for the situation, but basically because it'd be boring/uninteresting otherwise.
Other things Canada has done that I can find:
1. Spent years trying to prevent other nations from banning asbestos (apparently) in spite of banning its use themselves
2. Quebec (and the church) took children from single mothers and institutionalized them in order to get federal funding, then kept them in orphanages or mental institutions where they were basically tortured and experimented on
3. Took part in MKUltra
4. Orchestrated the forceful expulsion of a nomadic African tribe in the 70s and 80s for a poorly-planned wheat farming initiative.
5. Spent two years during WWII producing anthrax with the intent to bomb Germany with it.
They were brutal especially in ww1, heard they would use some trench raiding tactics like throwing cans into the german trenches and then throw actual grenades after fooling the germans
Noel Biderman is a native of Toronto, Ontario.[5] He was born Jewish and had a bar mitzvah ceremony. His grandparents were Holocaust survivors. Growing up in Toronto, he attended the York Mills Collegiate Institute in 1986, the University of California (economics) in 1989, and in 1996 graduated from York University's Osgoode Hall Law School.[2]
*Geneva Bingolist
Alana: I'm ready I'm ready I'm ready
The video: I cheated to find companionship
Alana: I'm not ready
My reaction too, this is... oof.
*Facepalm*
Ever heard off main Character syndrome? No, ok.
Alana: I need to think of an example of something embarrassing.
Her Brain: Cleveland Steamer...?
Adultery is a misdemeanor in most states, but is a felony in Oklahoma, Wisconsin, and Michigan. Though there’s also states where it’s legal or there’s movements to repeal the laws like Colorado and New Hampshire.
Colorado has been going down the shitter so hard
Of course the "People" of Colorado want to make it legal...
If it sounds too good to be true... it probably is
My favorite factoid about Ashley Madison is that shortly after firing their SEO expert, Google autocomplete's first result for Noel Biderman suddenly became "Jew"
Interesting how they fixate entirely on the husbands who were cheating. I wonder how many were wives.
well the according to the video there were hardly any female users on the site
Women don't really cheat much less than men, but they tend to cheat very differently than how men do. Cheating wives tend to cheat with either people both she and her husband already know or other people in close proximity like coworkers, and they tend to maintain these relationships for longer. This is because (again, on average, so not all) women tend to cheat for more attention and emotional investment, whereas men tend to cheat for hookups.
Obviously there are role reversals, there are men who have long-term emotional affairs with mistresses, and women who casually sleep around with strangers, but they're the minority, and when you extrapolate out to millions of people, you'll get dramaaaaatically more men on something like AM than women, to the point where the men have basically no hope of finding anyone.
It was mostly men. And then they paid people to talk to the men as women. Not a lot of cheating went on, if any. Because there wasn't even a voice they could hire men and women, unlike the similar services that came before over phones. What it actually ended up being was a service to just talk to someone for almost every single user. To sell the idea the company had to hire people to respond to be able to charge it's prices. They couldn't just hope a man matched with a girl then talk. The business model was around number of messages sent. Just talking. But because it wasn't real no cheating actually happened, least I never read of any. The thrill of just being there was enough for it's users. None of the men actually had an affair, but the idea they did ruined them. Divorce, delete, loss of jobs, custody of children. Over a great big lie.
Oh, the sisterhood will try to cover that up while being outraged about the men.. even if they do it in a 10:1 ratio.
@@gratefulguy4130 they do, but not on a dedicated purpose-built website. They already have Instagram and Snapchat.
As a Canadian we don't claim that man
Ashley Madison, from the country that brought you Sweet Baby Inc.
and just like Sweet baby inc, you see a lot of goverment email addresses
at 6:00 I heard once that most people who are married do not get a divorce (at least in the US) when the flame dies etc. is more expensive for many people than actually living in different homes and living like singles, and only getting a divorce if they found someone new... or not
That's why you shouldn't get married nothing but a contract to screw you over if something happens. Just throw a mock wedding and do the while wedding thing without the contract.
19:35 a few things. Cause this, dependapotomuses, deployments, and degeneracy. It’s also a military crime.
This is the kind of stuff I remembered growing up and then forget about many years later
This is the type of stuff that I wish I could do, but similarly to you, I found out pretty quickly that being a white hat hacker was not going to be an option with how terribly and absolutely INEPT I am at coding
I’d love to try to learn, but I don’t know, that’s a lot of work and I do not have the time or motivation anymore 😂
15,000 out of 37 million isn't even half a percent. I'm shocked too, at how low it is.
Omg, just noticed it now, we have entered the 1080p era! Glory be!
As a not rich person here in TN and everyone being reasonable, my divorce cost $200 and took about an hour
Key phrase "everyone being reasonable." Your spouse could very easily have been very unreasonable and caused that cost to inflate faster than a children's cartoon character on Deviant Art.
@@HuuuuuuueAnd her lawyer could have very emphatically encouraged her to be unreasonable, if they thought he was worth taking to the cleaners.
United States
Adultery is illegal in 16 states and Puerto Rico, but it is rarely prosecuted. The laws are strictest in Michigan, Oklahoma, and Wisconsin, where adultery is a felony. In Virginia, adultery is a Class 4 misdemeanor.
It's also illegal for military personnel, and can be punished in a military court with jail time, though this is incredibly rare.
even if this world is "survival of the fittest", some still feel like this world is a fairytale... i guess this is how those idiots get a reality check huh?
not to even mention that i'm also a victim of a cheater... even after years, i still feel cringe and anger just thinking about what she had done behind my back...
Cheating is a crime in the Uniform Code of Military Justice. The military could prosecute its members that used Ashley Madison and if they used a government email, that’s potentially another charge.
based alana. i also wanted to be a cool white hat hacker too until i realized i was too stupid to code well. well, i did learn to code, but there's a mountain of difference between knowing basic python and training an AI to do exactly what you want. music and video games suit me better, and though i still code some basic HTML & CSS for work, mostly i'd rather be the user than the coder.
like making a really cool graphic design feels good because you can start admiring it immediately after you're done, but learning to make an app takes far too long. i'm too lazy and wise to stray too far from what i enjoy. sure being white hat hackers are cool, but you don't know what they sacrifice in the process. i... for once, would like to remain a casual normie.
It seems like 2013 - 2014 is when everything went to shit
It's insane how many people got NTRed in real life.
Why go through such a laborious process when they can just break up
@@rumplstiltztinkersteinwhy get married in the first pace
@@nexstbob6911tax benefits, not wanting to get your own job and have someone care for you
@@nexstbob6911health insurance… stability for kids
And that's why I hate NTR. It makes wives and husbands or boyfriend and girlfriend or crushes to have some serious trust issues.
Adultery across the board should be criminally charged. That, or every marriage is included with a prenup, no matter the economic status.
Idaho and Oklahoma have the harshest adultery laws. Maybe we should follow their example.
uh no. It shouldn't lol.
@@robertpresley1503Why not?
@@greenskull3384 it should be grounds for a divorce. Not fucking criminal charges lol.
@@robertpresley1503 Divorce plus damages. That's the FuCkInG charge LoL.
I'm guessing cheating _wives_ just wouldn't generate the same amount of clicks, despite the fact that there are tangibly more of them.
According to the message at 22:50 90% of actual users were male, the females being fake profiles. So... Yeah, for every 10 9 were husbands, so it makes sense.
@@masteryoraerasanteOn that site? Yeah.
@@masteryoraerasante On that site? Yeah.
IRL is a little more complicated than a site designed to catch men specifically.
Yeah because most cheating wives don't go looking for random hookups. They tend to have long-term physical and emotional affairs with people they already know like friends, coworkers, and even in-laws.
@@HuuuuuuueThat is the most naive, devoid of experience thing I have ever heard.
Single women engage in random hookups all the time, and cheating wives FACTUALLY do the same thing.
Dunno if anyone mentioned it in the video yet but adultery is a crime in 17 states and of those a felony in 3
So roughly 20/50 have consequences for adultery... crazy.
Bruh what are you in for? I put my penis in someone other then my wife.
I hate cheaters so much. how is it so hard to just not fuck other people?
It's a little different here. Most of the customers listed in the video were in high-standing societal positions (military, politics). Likely their marriages were failing already, but it would have been harder for them to divorce or reconcile rather than simply have an affair (at least, from their perspectives). Someone once said, if you can imagine a way of living worse than death, you can imagine why someone would want to eject from life. The same may true of hell for some people; if you can imagine a fate worse than purgatory, you can imagine why someone would stoop so low.
Hey we didn't cheat we just tripped while erect and happened to fall into a vagina and you can't waste vagina what kinda person would I be.
Pretty difficult actually.
Lust is a key emotion for many people. If you no longer lust for your spouse but don't want to divorce then you cheat.
@@almalone3282 it's not difficult at all. I've never cheated in any of my relationships even if I knew I was going to end it soon, and even turned down offers I would have 100% taken if I was single.
have some personal responsibility and self respect man, it's not right to willingly hurt people
The need to reproduce is carved into our DNA. It takes selfawareness and willpower to resist the need to fulfill these urges with someone other than your spouse.
Cheating is wrong, but please never be too quick to judge. I'll use one example, but there are multiple, and both parties can be victims, though I believe, because of how marriage works, men are more likely to become one.
Scenario: A man falls in love and wants to trust the girl because why would he marry a person he doesn't trust? Unfortunately, she lied. Once they have kids, she stops pretending she cares about him. He lives an unempathetic, deprived of emotions, sexless life. The problem is, he can't leave without losing half of the money he worked for his entire life and his kids he probably still loves, as they are his blood.
And yes, a prenup is a thing, but if you can't believe a person who is supposed to be your soulmate for your entire life, the one who you'll raise your children with, why even marry?
I know we're joking cuz it's cheaters, but lying to someone in order to get money is literally the definition of fraud
The reason why men have to pay for the premium features and women don't is the same reason why women get vip access to the clubs/discos for free, and men have to both pay and wait in line:
Men are the customers and women are the bait to them.
guess cheating itself is the major kink at work.
They literally advertise cheating? That shouldnt even be legal.
A class action lawsuit involves more than 1 person. So basically if you're a company and you defraud or hurt a large group of people, the victims can collectively sue the company. The reason why that 578 million dollars suit is so high is because it likely involves a ton of people.
It’s not illegal, but if a divorce cites cheating and can prove it, you have basically already won the divorce.
Prenups can be overturned, alimony can be denied, pretty much the only thing it doesn’t automatically make get ruled in your favor is if you want to deny any child visitation to the cheater. They have to be an even worse person to lose that bare minimum.
"they noped out of life instead of taking it like men"
Wow, that is really fucked up. If you really meant to say that please go check your reality. You don't know what situations these people are in.
Sure, what they did on the site wasn't right but the consequences can easily lead to depression and severe helplessness!
Now if only they could expose all the cheating women
@11:30 The bgm that plays is one Tex Talks Battletech uses. So I just had a flash of Comstar fighting the Clans XD oh man what a crazy experience to have in a cheating video XD
4:10 - You can say they are getting cheated.... ba dum tzzzzzzz 🥁
The Impact team are probably absolutely swarmed by now if they’re still holding onto their morals described here😅
Started watching Alana recently and was like "I really like this intro Jingle."
Me playing FF XIV "OHH, this is where it came from!"
25:00 It was a maidenless site
I think it is super funny since all governmental emails is technically open for the public, on enough grounds to pick them up. Not military that is another thing but still
If you are going to cheat tell your companion, honest is the best way to keep a good relationship.
Swinger. The word you're looking for is swinger.
@@greed94odd way of calling them a cuck but okay.
@@greed94swinger implies mutual consent
I mean, if you go onto Ashley Madison, you know exactly what you're doing. That's blatant cheating with full intention of doing so. Being hacked and everyone knowing you're a cheater is deserved.
23:56 - apparently, she is/was suing for carperal tunnel😂😂😂. The fact she said she was "forced" or "coersed" instead of asked or told (because it was part of her job) to make those profiles is how she was seen as a victim. Make those fake profiles, sure. But that didn't mean she had to also monitor them. Hell, she could have just created the backstories of those profiles, and then given the paper to various employees to add their photo and use their given back story to make the profile.
Great video smu
Looks like a Top 10% men problem.
Facts
Top 10% brainrot coomers
@@Lampoluke Coomers don't have wives
@@almalone3282 you'd be surprised what some married man fantasize about
@@almalone3282you'd be shocked by how many I met in BMT that actually do. 😂 Made me realize ANYONE can get married.
I actually feel for the woman who had to make those accounts for the Portuguese version. As I did the same thing with my arms for my late job haha. Can still feel the tendons in the tips of my fingers.
The sadness part about all this is, as of November 2024, Ashley Maddison is apartently still active...
So people are either too stupid or too far gone to care.
The Saying Cheating to find companionship. Translation. I am Bored the Pool guy Looks fun? Or If the Guy Jogging Is fun etc. Or the Open marriage (But the other partner Is unaware lol)
What happened here? Justice! Justice happened. F cheaters
Step 1: Create married cheater dating app.
Step 2: Wait for cheater to subscribe for $10 a month.
Step 3: Blackmail cheaters into never canceling subscription by threatening to ruin their marriage.
Step 4: Profit?!?!?!
Haha, nothing to bypass.
We will never cheat on our fluffy fox vtuber ❤
in some locations in USA, affairs can be illegal. i think it's called alienation of affection & it's a civil crime.
the idea is that if you participate with a married person's affair, you helped cause a rift in their marriage & the person who was cheated on could sue you for being a "homewrecker"
it might require knowledge that the cheater is married, but civil lawsuits have lower proof standards than criminal cases. so probably just need to demonstrate that the Affair Partner PROBABLY knew it was an affair.
No such thing as a civil crime, the legal system is segregated between crimes that make the government have a problem with you which can only be litigated by prosecutors, and civil offenses which can only be prosecuted by attorneys representing the people or entities affected, the plaintiffs.
Alienation of affection is a civil tort, meaning you can plausibly file a lawsuit against someone for it, but also it's not quite making affairs illegal because there's no equivalent for the cheating spouse, just the affair partner. AoA is notoriously hard to prove, though, because the plaintiff needs to prove three things in court: 1. The marriage used to be loving, 2. It's not anymore, and 3. The reason it isn't anymore is because of the AP's malicious (legalese for intentional) conduct. In particular, proving number 1 and proving intent for number 3 is very difficult. You likely wouldn't have much documentation on how loving your relationship was, and if your ex is still on good terms with your AP they could very easily be called to the stand to say they never loved you and destroy the AoA claim. The defendant could also very easily say they didn't know that the cheater was married. If you can't shut down both of those defenses with evidence, your claim goes bye bye and you're out thousands in attorney's fees. For that reason, AoA claims aren't particularly common.
As a person I've been cheated on twice. (Two different relationships) As a engaged man I was also cheated on twice (again two different relationships)
One of them literally said it's not cheating because it was another woman....! Lmao
I lost my last partner to Diabetes. Thinking back she was the only woman bar my mother I actually loved. Compered to the others.
I'm happy being being single. Don't think I can do a relationships after her.
Wish I had one last day to let her know just how much she lighted up my life and how special she was
The TTS chats 0/10 this video. Dayum 😂
How many millions of females got exposed in that madison, ashly whatever, when that website leaked,. lol
"no hubby, I only created an account to see what it was" 🤣
Oi, we are not the source of ALL evil..... we store that in our Geese and send them south in a yearly ritual
23:55 That type of injury is real and can have a real impact on your everyday life. I know she can't imagine it because she's young and healthy, but just pictures waking up one morning and being unable to simply pick stuff up.
Programmers have to be careful about this, since this is our method of work and if it becomes chronic...
13:37 Alana does her Ran Yakumo impression
Im so glad it got hacked. If you’re a cheater, you deserve to be found out.
Dox’ing them is a bit too far but the wives might not have known otherwise. It’s really sad there were so many people.
What makes it kind of funny to me is that they were not that many women so a lot of these men ruined their marriages over literally nothing, or they ruined it by talking to men dirty they thought were women 😂
Alana how much do I have to pay in order to hear you sing Avril Lavigne's "skter boi"?
So it exposed 37 million husbands but all the women are perfectly innocent............................
i'm more impressed it is still online
I remember seeing this commercials and stuff
Infidelity only pays if you're a scammer.
Or a woman whose hisband didn't get a prenup.
Real talk I wonder if this is why I keep getting randomly phished. I put on my Facebook that I was married just so people wouldn't bother me. But in reality I am single and just didn't want a relationship at the time.
I'm not big on V-tubers, but i like this kid. Keep it up, you're turning me around on the whole V-tuber thing
Sometimes when I'm alone i like to put peanut butter all over my naked body and dance to the national anthem while watching Oprah
When I'm bored I cover myself in melted butter and crawl around my house pretending I'm a slug
Every dating app charges men to message and charges women nothing. Women are the choosers. You said it yourself.
Noah, get the boat. Lol
Good job hacker
Huh, another reason to not cheat.
It's to expensive. As if all the other reasons weren't enough.
For every man that cheats there is 5 or more wives that chests.
God i missed the best age of man. If i had been an adult when Ashley Madison was going nuts, I would've gone on it, and copped enough spleens and kidneys and livers to sell on the dark web. I would've been a king.
I’m pretty sure it less legal to be be in an open relationship than it is to have an affair but it’s been a while since I’ve looked into marital laws, I don’t remember why I did in the first place to be honest.
You need to take more of there money so they go bankrupt.
No women in site, no one actually cheated!!!
In no way am i defending the cheaters who made accounts on Ashley Madison, but this "Impact Team" sent that e-mail talking like they were some anime protagonists, like they use their middle fingers to push up their glasses and do a sly chuckle like "So.... what's it gonna be?" with a full theatrical dialogue.
I can't cheat on you, Alana. You're actually my side piece when Mouse is too busy with her Dawg
Weird that they use a sexist title like only guys cheat. It takes 2 to tango
Another comment pointed out that women wouldn't need to rely on a sketchy app to make it happen. But I guess trying to meditate wasn't the intention of the video, just presenting something for other people to slug out on the internet.
Well after 22:50 the video explains how more than 90% of real user profiles were male, and later how less than 0.1% of female profiles had actual use.
So... Yeah, it may sound sexist, but in this case the cheating wives exposed are just a rounding errors compared to the cheating husbands.
Did you even watch the video? They couldn't get any women on the site so they flooded it with bots to trick men into staying. Wives still cheat at comparable rates as husbands, but they don't usually go looking for hookups like this, and even if they did, they wouldn't need to go to a site like this. Wives typically cheat with people they already know, not randos.
16:09 WHAT THE EFF MAN!
We can say that they all got cheated on
Ha, can't catch me.... I'm 34 and never had someone to cheat on... or cheat with for that matter
It was always Canadian was involved in any social and sxual trouble.
Yeah, (((Canadians))).
12:54 yes there are adultery laws in america, they just aren't enforced like they used to be. basically the laws are still on the books but since no one ever gets charged with it, its a crime that isn't a crime.
from what i just read, 16 us states still have it as a crime.
Now I see why some people hate men.
cheaters are scum and i like there exposd dont go in a relation ship if you cant stay loyale tose hackers did humanaty a service
Please add some punctuation. It's actually hard to read
@@savejeff15 try reading something twice or three times, then it would be easier to understand. and yes, i also agree that cheaters are the very worst of the worst...
I seen this commercial a long time ago
12:39 Ah, yes.... Adultery charges... Because letting your government into your personal relationship issues is a real good idea. Having religious laws in the government is a fantastic idea, especially when these cheaters are already being punished by the hack, their reputation being destroyed, divorce, family falling apart, their kids no longer trust them, etc.... (In case my sarcasm isn't obvious enough, that chatter is a nitwit).