Oh helllllll naw!! Not only for the abuse they delt when he was a child, but to have the gall to talk sh*t while at HIS own house?? Nope nope nope, time for them to leave and go NC imo! Good on him for overcoming everything and making it to where he is now!
Not talking sh*t. Sister asking valueable question - she was told OP gave up his college fond for her and she believed it, now assuming he/she already knew, he/she would get funding otherwise. Mom confessing, they didn't ask him... Hope the sister finally saw her parents true colours and apologized!
Looks like his sister was his only true family. She was just as much in the dark about the money as he was. The mother should be ashamed of herself for taking your child's money from them and giving it to the other. Did they use the daughter's money and replace it with the son's and tell him they didn't have it... Wouldn't surprise me if they did just that.
@sammieh9695 Either way it goes they took his money and gave it to the sister and lied to her about it. It wasn't right no matter the reason why they did it. That could have killed the sister's relationship with the brother and she wouldn't have known why he had such hatered for her.
@@sammieh9695 religious colleges go one of two directs with tuition, they either charge Ivy League tuitions for community college education or they are completely free for excellent educations. No in between. There was an "excellent religious" college near my home that gave out degrees in things like home economics then put JUST enough actual degrees out in their curriculum to maintain accredidation, but made it impossible for anyone to finish those courses in less than seven years because of how they offered them. "You need all 9 of these classes to graduate with your econ degree, but 7 of them are only offered fall quarter at 8am.
I’d tell my mom as she was leaving goodbye and to never come back. Don’t call, don’t write and don’t ever try to contact you again! If she ever steps foot on your property again you will call the police. She is not family. You don’t owe her anything not even an explanation of why.
@@sammieh9695 not all religious private schools are extremely expensive. I went to a college where you work for your tuition. And it was a Christian college. That being said, it’s one of the hardest school to get into so if they had the extra income, she probably would not have qualified to get.
OMG, WTAF?!?! That's so horrible! I was a Drill Sergeant at Ft. Leonard Wood my second year there I thought I had seen everyway family could screw over others, until a Soldier came to me with postcard from Hawaii that his parents sent him. He was so messed up he couldn't tell me what happened to him, it took a few minutes until he started crying, between sobs he said his parents had emptied his bank account and went on vacation! He was graduating in 3 days and had zero money to get to his duty station. He was really close with them until this. We passed the hat around and we raised $1500 for him to go to Ft. Carson. He said that as far as he was concerned his parents were dead. One of the worded things I saw happen to a Soldier. Wives and girlfriends come and go but parents are supposed to be there for you no matter what! Poor guy!
@@Seypup they do have to pay for some stuff. It's changed from the old days . You expect them to pay your way. Does your job pay for your gas to get to work?
My parents got into an argument over abortion in 2012. My mom completely against it and my dad trying to explain why abortion should not be 100% illegal. Then he hit her with “well what about that time you were considering an abortion?”. I have no idea who out of my three siblings it was.
Well said by your dad. The number of people who are adamant about this issue suddenly feel like they should be the exception. Why do people feel the need to police other people's private life? But yeah, this must be shocking for you to hear. One thing though, it might be health related if your births are very close together. My mom was counseled by everyone to abort me because it was too close to my older brother and her body was really weak at the time.
@ My older siblings are two and a half years apart and me and my older sister are three and a half year’s apart. My mom was pregnant at 21 with my brother and thought it was weird because everyone else was older. Pregnancy with my sister went fine. Then when she was pregnant with me for a while it looked like I was going to have very severe Down syndrome. They said I probably wouldn’t survive the first week of life if so but they could do extra blood work to figure out if I had it or not. They ended up doing extra blood work that they pulled from the placenta and I was fine. Personally I would not blame them if they were thinking about aborting me if I had severe Down syndrome like that. We know people who have given birth to watch their baby suffer and die a few hours/days later because of Down syndrome. It destroyed them so bad.
@@maxwell4431 could be that considering it as an option made her views clearer. Could be something else, people change their views. It's however a very cruel thing to bring up, especially risking kids finding out.
Some people like me were conditioned to always think of family first and never second guess until we were taught differently by experience and new relationships. My family always taught me to share 50% of my income for them and cover whatever else needed until I got into an accident and suddenly I was the rotten fish in the sofa for them because I generated no money in their eyes. A friend of mine adopted me for about 6 months in which I healed and saw a different world of family support and decided to cut ties with my family. I have improved so much that it's a fact if I would have started my career path when I was an adult instead of 10 years later I would have grown way more than I've had now because I would have chosen my actual career instead of changing it 13 times. But yeah, that's what people get when they don't get exposed to the world and have a nurturing family.
.Everything you have you earned. Your achievements are still yours. You now know you have no further obligations to those who are no longer your family.
When I was about 13 years old, I was at my cousin's house when he accused me of being "dumb". That I was so dumb that I didn't even know my own birthday. Well, I told him my birthday, and he laughed at me. Saying that it was wrong. I had been told my birthday all my life, and even had seen the hospital issued birth certificate with the birthday that I believed was mine. When I told my mother that my cousin was saying that I don't know my birthday, she admitted that I didn't. She had forged that birth certificate from the hospital to get me into school early. Talk about a shift in perspective about my parents.
Good of him if he’s still in contact with them . I would let them enjoy that one time at the house then never invite them again . If they should asked why then I would tell them and anyone that was family
So, I had a great-great aunt, Kitty (sister to my great-grandfather), who spilled all the family beans to my mother one day... including what happened with my grandmother's divorce which no one ever talked about except for explaining our surname (my grandmother kept her married name, child out wedlock got her name, and then my mother never married - we all have my grandmother's ex's surname which is awkward). To this day, my mother said it was a good thing that Kitty was blind because my mother's jaw was on the floor.
My sister and I overheard our grandfather talking with our grandmother about their youngest child (our ncle). Our uncle's wife, our aunt, told our uncle he was bad at sex. That conversation has stuck with me for almost 3 decades.
For those taking up for the sister, are we listening? She may not have known exactly how her tutition was paid for, and his wasn't, but she knew something shady was going on and never bothered to pull his coat tail to her thoughts. Then, after he made it, was successful, and brought a house, she decides to gossip like a little girl at the school lunch table with her Mother about how it came to be while in her brother's home?!? While he's trying to be a host at his party?!? Definitely go no contact with the mother and stepfather, but sister would be no contact as well. You saw them mistreat him, suspected that they lied to him, and never said a word because it benefitted you.
We don't know how many years there are between the siblings. He may well have been through university before she went and she was unaware of the situation. i.e. thought the step father pulled strings. She may well have been told that this is the school you are going to and this is when you are going. Remember,the stepfather was a control freek and the mother too cowardly to set his boundaries
How did the sister know about the college fund? Man, run don't walk away from that so called family. Your mom and stepdad showed a clear preference for your sister by giving her your college fund. At least you can take pride in making it on your own and you owe these people nothing.
I recently learned a family member tried to commit a few years back… up until yesterday I didn’t realize I had trauma, add this to my parents divorce + custody battles and up until two years ago a constantly drunk dad and sleepless nights with my parents fighting over dumb stuff like leaving the light on. I genuinely thought it was normal…
So your Mom stole your college money and gave it to your sister for her expensive college and just told you we don't have no money for you your mom and your stepdad suck I would tell them I know and I would say you're no longer welcome at my house. I would ask for a genuine apology and make sure that they know how horrible it was to do me dirty like that. They should not be able to reap the benefits of your new house and your pool they should not be able to enjoy being around you and a part of your life if they don't care about you.
My parents did similar to me. I told all of my family that they are to never speak to me again. They are lucky I let them live given the other things they did and the fact that I am the type of engineer who can easily make it look like an accident.
My mother in law took like 80% of my husband’s college fund to use on herself and her bf and told him he only left you $8,000. That was a lie. To top it off, she sent my brother in law to ask us for money while he was getting divorced and fighting for his kids. While A we both didn’t have jobs and B my husband was finish school. We let him borrow our savings which was about $8,000 and he swore we would pay by the end of the year. It’s been 6 years he’s maybe paid half but only because I sent him to court after we asked him countless times for it but continued to say he didn’t have money but he had it to spend on trips, drinking, and eating out. After he gave us the finger and told us to go to hell they switch it around on my husband saying his father would be disappointed in him and he would want him to leave me. I told him fine if that’s is what you want but since they mentioned they had the money and they would pay me if he left me then ask for it and you can stay with them. He said okay and they didn’t want him or want to pay me. That’s when he realized they were manipulating him. Families are sometimes the worse 🤷🏽♀️
My cousin is my brother. Yes, my birth father and his sister. She named him after my birth father. I found out while he was alive, we were already close, I had overheard it in the middle of the night at a reunion my aunt invited me to. She loved me and by then, not my parents. There was talk of an illness an he was hoping his brother could help. They were frightened, they didn't want my cousin to find out. It did explain why my birth father tried to be close to him. Also, I have a half brother, I know who he is, but have no plans to introduce myself. He had a great childhood and was close to his parents. My birth parents are just that, they birthed me, then foster care, ward of State, on my own at 18.
Concentrate on the positive. Don't associate with the negative. Lies attract more lies. No matter how you want things/people to be, they will be what they are,. Accept it & categorize it, then continue accordingly. Treat a lady/gent like a lady/gent until they stop acting like one. I will treat you as you treat me! If you try to take mine, you forfeit your own.
Sleepover at grandparents house. Got woken in the middle of the night by loud knocking on the door. It was one of my cousins hysterically crying to my pop that she was pregnant throufh SA by my dad.
When they ask for money/help/ sympathy op be like: " I have no love, money, sympathy, or need to help you....ever. figure it out on your own. Sabotage or try anything and I will destroy you"
Yeah I would look at the mother and say what college fund. Because you do realize college funds sometimes come with ties to that student and you can be sued if you misappropriate those funds. One family found out not only do they get to go to jail for misappropriating the funds but they also got to serve some time in federal prison after they got out for tax fraud.
I dont understand. So they told him they didn't had the money to send him to college but they had it for the sister and they weren't sure he would get a scholarship?
Step dad disliked the son, so he told the wife to not give the son no money and help after he graduates high school, basically you're an you're thrown to the wolves, but the daughter gets a full ride and probably doesn't have to work.
I wish i can find the OP and see some update, but the question is kinda misleading since i typed the exact phrase and theres no posts with the exact phrasing, similar posts but comments aren't that many
Yeah, I'm more agreeing with these guys. The sister seems to be the only one who never knew. While she probably did, treat him differently than how the stepfather wanted everything done or his father knew his their father. But yeah, no, the mother, and the stepfather would be out of the house out of the pool out of property with restraining orders. Because of past abuse and afraid that they're going to abuse my family now.Yeah, now I do everything anything and everything that makes s***They didn't come back while letting the sister know that she's allowed to come back in times she wants
I wonder where is dad in all of this, the parents divirced, he didn't die, why is he not helping out? Not to defend the mother, she seems horrible but if it wasn't some sort of fund that was set up at birth or early childhood she is not obligated to pay his tuition. It would be nice and fair of course but not an obligation. May be she saw that he was smarter than his sister and thought that he would get a scolarship and for the sister it was the only way to get into school?... And if it was some sort of fund set up for his collage expenses, he can probably sue.
I mean unless the bio dad or grandparents put money in OP really has no grounds to. Yeah it's super shitty that step-dad & mom gave the sister all the money bit not really illegal.
@liwiathan Mom is still alive so it wasn't anything she left, just money she'd saved likely with stepdad chipping in. Which unfortunately for OP means he had no legal right to the money.
Ah, mom is one of those that let's a man come in and dominate her and cause emotional if not physical damage to her children because she can't see herself without a man but she is fine with whatever they do as a result. Hopefully, OP severed those ties now that he knows the truth. The sister didn't know, but given she follows the way mom is to the stepdad odds are she is just as bad or she would have said something like ''I'm so happy you got that scholarship after giving up your college money for me to go to school'' but no, whispering it to the mom means she is not one to trust either.
If that was me I’d let the party finish so not to make a sene unless I felt the need too and then tell them I heard everything and if you ever need money or help don’t ask for it because I’m not going to give it and I’m also not inviting you back for a while and the sis we can meet up outside my house since you didn’t know anything but that’s it
![[FULL STORY] Found out my sister has been lying about our family to her friends for years.](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/LefGSQ6lvD4/mqdefault.jpg)
What?... get out of my pool... Get out of my house.
I yelled this as if I was OP😂
Yep
Exactly
Get out of my life!
Oh yeah. They would all have about 2 minutes to get their shit and go.
Oh helllllll naw!! Not only for the abuse they delt when he was a child, but to have the gall to talk sh*t while at HIS own house?? Nope nope nope, time for them to leave and go NC imo! Good on him for overcoming everything and making it to where he is now!
My thoughts exactly
Not talking sh*t. Sister asking valueable question - she was told OP gave up his college fond for her and she believed it, now assuming he/she already knew, he/she would get funding otherwise.
Mom confessing, they didn't ask him...
Hope the sister finally saw her parents true colours and apologized!
@KatZwe Exactly! I think many people love to ignore specific details of these stories just to feel more offended 😅
Not enough they stole his college funds so sue them.
@@doblove😂😂😂
Looks like his sister was his only true family. She was just as much in the dark about the money as he was. The mother should be ashamed of herself for taking your child's money from them and giving it to the other. Did they use the daughter's money and replace it with the son's and tell him they didn't have it... Wouldn't surprise me if they did just that.
Religious colleges are private. So they often have higher tuition rates than public universities.
@sammieh9695
Either way it goes they took his money and gave it to the sister and lied to her about it. It wasn't right no matter the reason why they did it. That could have killed the sister's relationship with the brother and she wouldn't have known why he had such hatered for her.
@@sammieh9695 religious colleges go one of two directs with tuition, they either charge Ivy League tuitions for community college education or they are completely free for excellent educations. No in between.
There was an "excellent religious" college near my home that gave out degrees in things like home economics then put JUST enough actual degrees out in their curriculum to maintain accredidation, but made it impossible for anyone to finish those courses in less than seven years because of how they offered them.
"You need all 9 of these classes to graduate with your econ degree, but 7 of them are only offered fall quarter at 8am.
I’d tell my mom as she was leaving goodbye and to never come back. Don’t call, don’t write and don’t ever try to contact you again! If she ever steps foot on your property again you will call the police. She is not family. You don’t owe her anything not even an explanation of why.
@@sammieh9695 not all religious private schools are extremely expensive. I went to a college where you work for your tuition. And it was a Christian college. That being said, it’s one of the hardest school to get into so if they had the extra income, she probably would not have qualified to get.
Evil Step Father 🚩 Evil Mother
if this story is real, i would have to wonder if the mother "sold" the daughter to the evil step father...
Hope he stayed in touch with his sister and left his mother and stepfather to their fates.
Well at least the sister didn't know. There's that.
OMG, WTAF?!?! That's so horrible!
I was a Drill Sergeant at Ft. Leonard Wood my second year there I thought I had seen everyway family could screw over others, until a Soldier came to me with postcard from Hawaii that his parents sent him. He was so messed up he couldn't tell me what happened to him, it took a few minutes until he started crying, between sobs he said his parents had emptied his bank account and went on vacation! He was graduating in 3 days and had zero money to get to his duty station. He was really close with them until this. We passed the hat around and we raised $1500 for him to go to Ft. Carson. He said that as far as he was concerned his parents were dead. One of the worded things I saw happen to a Soldier. Wives and girlfriends come and go but parents are supposed to be there for you no matter what! Poor guy!
The brothers came through for the young soldier - well done for giving help in such a sad situation.
Are you telling me that military personnel have to pay their own transportation to their duty stations followed training? That is outrageous!
@@amjPeace no. They give you a plane ticket. I cry bs
@@Seypup they do have to pay for some stuff. It's changed from the old days . You expect them to pay your way. Does your job pay for your gas to get to work?
My parents got into an argument over abortion in 2012. My mom completely against it and my dad trying to explain why abortion should not be 100% illegal. Then he hit her with “well what about that time you were considering an abortion?”. I have no idea who out of my three siblings it was.
Well said by your dad. The number of people who are adamant about this issue suddenly feel like they should be the exception. Why do people feel the need to police other people's private life? But yeah, this must be shocking for you to hear. One thing though, it might be health related if your births are very close together. My mom was counseled by everyone to abort me because it was too close to my older brother and her body was really weak at the time.
@ My older siblings are two and a half years apart and me and my older sister are three and a half year’s apart. My mom was pregnant at 21 with my brother and thought it was weird because everyone else was older. Pregnancy with my sister went fine. Then when she was pregnant with me for a while it looked like I was going to have very severe Down syndrome. They said I probably wouldn’t survive the first week of life if so but they could do extra blood work to figure out if I had it or not. They ended up doing extra blood work that they pulled from the placenta and I was fine. Personally I would not blame them if they were thinking about aborting me if I had severe Down syndrome like that. We know people who have given birth to watch their baby suffer and die a few hours/days later because of Down syndrome. It destroyed them so bad.
@@maxwell4431 could be that considering it as an option made her views clearer. Could be something else, people change their views. It's however a very cruel thing to bring up, especially risking kids finding out.
Why on earth did you even include your family at your BBQ?
You are an amazing man, but, those people are against you, and, are toxic
Some people like me were conditioned to always think of family first and never second guess until we were taught differently by experience and new relationships.
My family always taught me to share 50% of my income for them and cover whatever else needed until I got into an accident and suddenly I was the rotten fish in the sofa for them because I generated no money in their eyes.
A friend of mine adopted me for about 6 months in which I healed and saw a different world of family support and decided to cut ties with my family.
I have improved so much that it's a fact if I would have started my career path when I was an adult instead of 10 years later I would have grown way more than I've had now because I would have chosen my actual career instead of changing it 13 times.
But yeah, that's what people get when they don't get exposed to the world and have a nurturing family.
well, the sister didnt know, so assuming she stood by the brother once she found out id say shed fine
The sister didnt know about the money so now she's probably on ops side 😢
Both op and the sister didnt know till the bbq? Op said he assumed it was his step fathers "connections" that got her in not a college fund
.Everything you have you earned. Your achievements are still yours. You now know you have no further obligations to those who are no longer your family.
When I was about 13 years old, I was at my cousin's house when he accused me of being "dumb". That I was so dumb that I didn't even know my own birthday. Well, I told him my birthday, and he laughed at me. Saying that it was wrong. I had been told my birthday all my life, and even had seen the hospital issued birth certificate with the birthday that I believed was mine. When I told my mother that my cousin was saying that I don't know my birthday, she admitted that I didn't. She had forged that birth certificate from the hospital to get me into school early. Talk about a shift in perspective about my parents.
A lot of people did that back in the day...
@@richj120952 Holy crap, so they forgot to tell him his real Birthday! That is So Effed up!!!
And after they left, I would never be bothered with the mother again, the sister didn’t know.
Throw away mom and step-dad. Keep sister and love up your life.
Good of him if he’s still in contact with them . I would let them enjoy that one time at the house then never invite them again . If they should asked why then I would tell them and anyone that was family
So, I had a great-great aunt, Kitty (sister to my great-grandfather), who spilled all the family beans to my mother one day... including what happened with my grandmother's divorce which no one ever talked about except for explaining our surname (my grandmother kept her married name, child out wedlock got her name, and then my mother never married - we all have my grandmother's ex's surname which is awkward). To this day, my mother said it was a good thing that Kitty was blind because my mother's jaw was on the floor.
Time to go NO contact with mom and step father
My sister and I overheard our grandfather talking with our grandmother about their youngest child (our ncle). Our uncle's wife, our aunt, told our uncle he was bad at sex. That conversation has stuck with me for almost 3 decades.
Yeah... That's a 'go no contact' moment.
For those taking up for the sister, are we listening? She may not have known exactly how her tutition was paid for, and his wasn't, but she knew something shady was going on and never bothered to pull his coat tail to her thoughts. Then, after he made it, was successful, and brought a house, she decides to gossip like a little girl at the school lunch table with her Mother about how it came to be while in her brother's home?!? While he's trying to be a host at his party?!? Definitely go no contact with the mother and stepfather, but sister would be no contact as well. You saw them mistreat him, suspected that they lied to him, and never said a word because it benefitted you.
We don't know how many years there are between the siblings.
He may well have been through university before she went and she was unaware of the situation. i.e. thought the step father pulled strings.
She may well have been told that this is the school you are going to and this is when you are going.
Remember,the stepfather was a control freek and the mother too cowardly to set his boundaries
A lot of us unsupported made great lives.
"Mom, siss, I think it's time for you to leave, please. I'm not comfortable having you here."😢
Not really the sister fault if the mother told her lies about it.
How did the sister know about the college fund? Man, run don't walk away from that so called family. Your mom and stepdad showed a clear preference for your sister by giving her your college fund.
At least you can take pride in making it on your own and you owe these people nothing.
I recently learned a family member tried to commit a few years back… up until yesterday I didn’t realize I had trauma, add this to my parents divorce + custody battles and up until two years ago a constantly drunk dad and sleepless nights with my parents fighting over dumb stuff like leaving the light on.
I genuinely thought it was normal…
So your Mom stole your college money and gave it to your sister for her expensive college and just told you we don't have no money for you your mom and your stepdad suck I would tell them I know and I would say you're no longer welcome at my house. I would ask for a genuine apology and make sure that they know how horrible it was to do me dirty like that. They should not be able to reap the benefits of your new house and your pool they should not be able to enjoy being around you and a part of your life if they don't care about you.
And I bet as soon as he confronted said "Parent" he was made out to be the villian? Yeah that is how it goes cause Parent ALWAYS have a favorite
He’s the dumbass inviting them to his house after they treated him like shit.
At that point it would be "You can all get your things together and go home. Party is over". I'd then proceed to make sure everyone knew why.
Trust no one 100%
If you want to know your best friend look in the mirror !👤
Even if he becomes a high-tech billionaire, he should never give them a single dime.
Get out my pool and out of my life right now
this is why you go no contact with family that treats you like shit.
I want to know what happened next 😢
Me 2 😅
It took her 8 years to ask that question. Sis was quietly letting him know.
One of my uncles had Aids 😥 not the sort of thing should hear by accident. Talk to your damn kids people!
I never had to worry about this. Nobody in my family had any money.
Queen never cry.
If that was me, as soon as I hear that: "Party is over! Everybody pack up! I don't care where you go but you can't start here!"
"Woman, get off of my property, and never return. Sister, you can stay, because you didn't know." That's how shit woulda gone down if I were him.
He is entitled to his money . Id sue for my college fund .Id take that money and make a huge payment on my home.
A mandatory test should be given before having children, I bet 98 percent would fail.
I would tell them to leave immediately
Get up, get out and forget I exist incubator. I will surely work on forgetting you
My parents did similar to me. I told all of my family that they are to never speak to me again. They are lucky I let them live given the other things they did and the fact that I am the type of engineer who can easily make it look like an accident.
How sad and cruel. Sorry, guy. Hugs.
My mother in law took like 80% of my husband’s college fund to use on herself and her bf and told him he only left you $8,000. That was a lie.
To top it off, she sent my brother in law to ask us for money while he was getting divorced and fighting for his kids. While A we both didn’t have jobs and B my husband was finish school. We let him borrow our savings which was about $8,000 and he swore we would pay by the end of the year. It’s been 6 years he’s maybe paid half but only because I sent him to court after we asked him countless times for it but continued to say he didn’t have money but he had it to spend on trips, drinking, and eating out. After he gave us the finger and told us to go to hell they switch it around on my husband saying his father would be disappointed in him and he would want him to leave me. I told him fine if that’s is what you want but since they mentioned they had the money and they would pay me if he left me then ask for it and you can stay with them. He said okay and they didn’t want him or want to pay me. That’s when he realized they were manipulating him.
Families are sometimes the worse 🤷🏽♀️
My cousin is my brother. Yes, my birth father and his sister. She named him after my birth father. I found out while he was alive, we were already close, I had overheard it in the middle of the night at a reunion my aunt invited me to. She loved me and by then, not my parents. There was talk of an illness an he was hoping his brother could help. They were frightened, they didn't want my cousin to find out. It did explain why my birth father tried to be close to him.
Also, I have a half brother, I know who he is, but have no plans to introduce myself. He had a great childhood and was close to his parents. My birth parents are just that, they birthed me, then foster care, ward of State, on my own at 18.
Concentrate on the positive. Don't associate with the negative. Lies attract more lies. No matter how you want things/people to be, they will be what they are,. Accept it & categorize it, then continue accordingly. Treat a lady/gent like a lady/gent until they stop acting like one. I will treat you as you treat me! If you try to take mine, you forfeit your own.
Yeah.. that would be the last time I’ll be involved with them if that happens to me..
I wonder what the sister did after knowing
Oh, f*** no. Where's the rest of the story where he tossed him out of his yard?
Yeah I want to know 2
Sleepover at grandparents house. Got woken in the middle of the night by loud knocking on the door. It was one of my cousins hysterically crying to my pop that she was pregnant throufh SA by my dad.
When they ask for money/help/ sympathy op be like: " I have no love, money, sympathy, or need to help you....ever. figure it out on your own. Sabotage or try anything and I will destroy you"
Yeah I would look at the mother and say what college fund. Because you do realize college funds sometimes come with ties to that student and you can be sued if you misappropriate those funds. One family found out not only do they get to go to jail for misappropriating the funds but they also got to serve some time in federal prison after they got out for tax fraud.
They would have to leave immediately. Smh
Just heard a not choppy version of this. He was a born again Christian and the two followed
this now needs a revenge video
I dont understand. So they told him they didn't had the money to send him to college but they had it for the sister and they weren't sure he would get a scholarship?
You should've let them know you overheard
Step dad disliked the son, so he told the wife to not give the son no money and help after he graduates high school, basically you're an you're thrown to the wolves, but the daughter gets a full ride and probably doesn't have to work.
I wish i can find the OP and see some update, but the question is kinda misleading since i typed the exact phrase and theres no posts with the exact phrasing, similar posts but comments aren't that many
The things some people will do to keep a man
That seems like the kind of secret you take to your grave Mom! 🙄. Sheesh!
Sounds like they're scheming to get your house now
Hell no!! That would be a "get the fuck out of my house" from me 😮
Yup, I am not so politely asking them to leave the premises or the police will be called
And did that revelation tell the sister anything important? Or did she just assume it was natural for her to be favored?
Yeah, I'm more agreeing with these guys. The sister seems to be the only one who never knew. While she probably did, treat him differently than how the stepfather wanted everything done or his father knew his their father. But yeah, no, the mother, and the stepfather would be out of the house out of the pool out of property with restraining orders. Because of past abuse and afraid that they're going to abuse my family now.Yeah, now I do everything anything and everything that makes s***They didn't come back while letting the sister know that she's allowed to come back in times she wants
But just think on this. Even with a quality education it didn't buy her any common sense you have the option of living your life the best you can.
I wonder where is dad in all of this, the parents divirced, he didn't die, why is he not helping out? Not to defend the mother, she seems horrible but if it wasn't some sort of fund that was set up at birth or early childhood she is not obligated to pay his tuition. It would be nice and fair of course but not an obligation. May be she saw that he was smarter than his sister and thought that he would get a scolarship and for the sister it was the only way to get into school?... And if it was some sort of fund set up for his collage expenses, he can probably sue.
Wouldn't the dad have noticed that? Hopefully.
Sue them
I mean unless the bio dad or grandparents put money in OP really has no grounds to. Yeah it's super shitty that step-dad & mom gave the sister all the money bit not really illegal.
@elisonholace4033 mom left it to him
@liwiathan Mom is still alive so it wasn't anything she left, just money she'd saved likely with stepdad chipping in. Which unfortunately for OP means he had no legal right to the money.
@elisonholace4033 tell Mom should sue the dad for using on his step kid cuz that could certainly has no legal right to it
@liwiathan Considering what OP says about Mom going along with whatever step-dad says she was probably in on it, prioritizing new hubs over her son.
I don’t get it. What did the mother do or say? Did she use his money for the daughter? Or did they just keep it for themselves?
Now i wanna know the rest of the story
Even the sister didn't know?!
So am I getting this right? He got a scholarship and the mom and dad put the sisters name on it instead of his and she got a full ride.
That my great grandmother had kids with 2 brothers. 5 for each one
Ah, mom is one of those that let's a man come in and dominate her and cause emotional if not physical damage to her children because she can't see herself without a man but she is fine with whatever they do as a result. Hopefully, OP severed those ties now that he knows the truth. The sister didn't know, but given she follows the way mom is to the stepdad odds are she is just as bad or she would have said something like ''I'm so happy you got that scholarship after giving up your college money for me to go to school'' but no, whispering it to the mom means she is not one to trust either.
Sounds made up. Who even thinks about a scholarship from years past for a sibling. 🙄 😅
Looks like they all get coal for Christmas
if you are a parent you cannot choose between one child or another
Found out my father is gay from a younger cousin. She thought we ( my sister's and I) knew.😮
Why did he even invite them to a bbq? They abandoned him for the asshole stepdad. Should’ve gone no-contact then already
What? Thats terrible. Poor guy, sorry guys party is over, get out and stay out
I wouldn't have invited them in the first place. You don't HAVE to like your family if they are a-holes.
Did I miss hear something 🤔 why are yall saying keep the sister.... she says how were you sure he'd get a scholarship after giving up his money for me
She asked how he knew he wouldn't need the college money he gave to her himself..
Sister knew that they didn't give him any funds and didn't care.
Bye bye mom. Its been real
At least the girl didn't know
Seriously? You didn't have any idea they did that??
That's so peculiar. For real?
😢😢😢
Get tf out of his pool, his house, and his life. wtf??
You mom will get old. Just remember when she needs looking after. She all your sister's to take care of.
Pls go NC
girls get every advantage u.u
If that was me I’d let the party finish so not to make a sene unless I felt the need too and then tell them I heard everything and if you ever need money or help don’t ask for it because I’m not going to give it and I’m also not inviting you back for a while and the sis we can meet up outside my house since you didn’t know anything but that’s it
WHF do you mean? You used MY collage fund for my entitled sister then can to my house? Get out of my house. Get out of my life.
maybe,,,, your mom knew you would be ok without their help. and your sister would not.
No contact
I bet that struggle with no support is why he succeeded so well. Sometimes, you actually need to thank the ones who go against you.
Wow
Wow wtf