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I have never had a man refuse a request to help me when I ask. This is especially true when purchasing large bundles of water or items at Sam’s or Costco! I don’t hesitate to ask loading them into my shopping cart, or unloading them into my car in the parking lot. They have always been happy to help. 👍
Thank you so much for these insights. Last week at the grocery store while fighting to disconnect two carts an attractive man came up and volunteered to unjam them for me and I stepped aside to allow it. When he proudly pushed the cart to me with a broad smile, In return gave a wink and a smile. Later he came up to the self serve line behind me when I giggled, he rushed towards me and picked me off the ground with an embracing hug said 'thank you for that wink, it made my week'. Just giggled as he put me down. That made my week 'cause realized the power of my feminine at 76. Wow, a lovely hug from a man half my age!
The problem with accepting too much help and gifts from men is that they will inevitably expect me to give “something” in return. For this reason, I tend to be *very* careful who I allow it from, especially if it involves material things.
Yes it can be true for some men, more healthy masculine men also do it because they feel masculine and feel good as a man and helping and serving others
Part of the issue of why things got so misconstrued , i believe, in society is that..with the economy, women have to work also...most of them, and AT work we have to put everything you just said aside and lots of women's potions require US to be the provider, whether its providing customer service, providing comfort, providing heath care etc. THEN when we get home, it is hard to switch gears into RECEIVING mode. Double that if you have children. Especially if spouse or anyone 'jumps' on you, for lack of a better word, AS SOON AS you get home from work, thus not allowing you TIME to switch gears into receiving mode. There are veriables in this day and age that werent there in the past.
I didn't have help from my husband for the 10 yrs we was married, except to be the father of my kids, then on my own to raise them alone, & now 41 years alone having to always be both parents, now I don't know how to let a man help me cause I had to do it all on my own, way to long !!!
The only thing that gets tricky for me is if I cannot read a man, but I am trying to tell myself it's not me being the problem, but it might be the situation he's in that cuts me short. I have ppl in my life I want to draw closer to me - high value ppl - but they are having a professional relation to me. So yesterday my therapist was annoyed with me (maybe bc I tagged the therapy to the Gospel I shared on my FB). So I used - I believe - my feminine energy, but there was annoyance. My greatest purpose is to share the Gospel with them as my treasure is built in the heavenlies. My man is going to be my man even for eternity. Just in general I ask if ppl truly like me, but I treasure myself in my identitet in Christ.
I see Vulnerability as a strength, but Discernment is needed in how much to reveal and when, and maybe more info gathered about the guys in question. Otherwise, I check off all these ( I’m 61- widowed, so have the advantage of life lessons/ maturity).
Yes l feel volnerauble expresing my emotions. I can't open my heart easy & show emotions. I know it' s not good but l am strugeling couse being hurt as a child & before in a relationship. But now l am learning with your help of course. : " I can see voureabilitiy now as a weeknes! " And l shall be working on these untill l am 100 % sure . Thank you for your vudeos l realy need these now . At my moment in life. ❤❤ Still a beliver than Love can conqer all! ♥️♥️ With a little help from myself & others!
Do you think once these have happened… you can fix ( apply what you teach) & change the situation & possibly open up way to have relationships again ?? This has really been an eye opener for me … I took this as moaning/complaining…from a guys prospective . Keep sharing so much with him about yourself 😳 What do you think about… when your guy you’ve been dating/living with for couple of months talks about other women his dated.. is this at test of jealousy??
❤Thanking you Sweetly Sweetie....I would appreciate your opinion on when one starts to chat with someone and they say brb and when I wrote back to him after 4 days waiting to hear back from him I literally told him that I didn't consider him a friend which in turn he responded that I had been rude towards him... and again he cut off the conversation for a second time...ps.he happens to be an official general...❤can you give me your opinion dear thank you Sweetly Blessed ❤
I ask men for stuff all tge time but i get brushed off and been rejected by my son and family so much that i can not emotialy take tge rejection. It hurts and make me feel unlikable so how do you ask symple thing to see if i can even ask.
I clearly do not know how to ask for help. 😩 i do ask but i get no help. I got ran over two yrs ago and my whole family and my only son abanded me and now i have noone and i have asked for help to be rejected and shamed for it or i get angry response. I learning so much from these vidios and i can not even help myself emotinal becuase all i can do is just push threw my pain and work. I am a massage thrapiest so i have no medical. All i want is safty and people who want to help me. I just can not help myself outside of working and helping ither out of there pain because i truley know what it feels like to not feel support of love. I always done everytung alone my whole lfe.
Should I accept the man back into my life after he left and went and got married and now divorced after 2 years he's coming back into my life...... He says he doesn't know what he wants, Been married 3 × first was divorced second wife passed away and third married 2 years and now divorced..... Please help
Not if he doesn't know what he wants. Men are hunters by nature. They Go After what they want. You deserve someone who knows they want to be with only you.
Man I do that I smile and try to respond but all I get is men who scrol at me like it makes them uncomfortable when I look at them and smile. But I think they see how desperate I am about being excepted and liked. Past year I been going out to try and make friends but all I get is angry men and weman who don’t like me and think I after there man. As a single woman I feel I am looked at as stay clear of her if she don’t have a man your a crazy Nancy. But I just traumatized and have no money or medical to heal. One more thing I have to do alone so some of us are just trying to survive.
@davinathedivine do you mean he is not alive or do you mean your connection to him os more spiritual than it is in the human mundane stuff? I had a relationship in the latter for several years and it's really tricky. It was like a soul relationship or twin flame. Most powerful, inspiring, deep, connected relationship ever. Very polarized, magical and lifting. But in reality world, he didn't help, work, be consistent or reliable. I said our souls are in the most beautiful relationship but our humans couldn't get it right. We need both. It was a godt. But we are human after all and sometimes Mr needs to hold the door and carry some heavy stuff.
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I have never had a man refuse a request to help me when I ask. This is especially true when purchasing large bundles of water or items at Sam’s or Costco! I don’t hesitate to ask loading them into my shopping cart, or unloading them into my car in the parking lot. They have always been happy to help. 👍
Not only do I ask or let, I emphasize my admiration for being a Gentleman in this day and age! Makes their day, I think.
I see vulnerability as an asset and a strength. It’s the way God made us. I’m so happy
Thank you so much for these insights. Last week at the grocery store while fighting to disconnect two carts an attractive man came up and volunteered to unjam them for me and I stepped aside to allow it. When he proudly pushed the cart to me with a broad smile, In return gave a wink and a smile. Later he came up to the self serve line behind me when I giggled, he rushed towards me and picked me off the ground with an embracing hug said 'thank you for that wink, it made my week'. Just giggled as he put me down. That made my week 'cause realized the power of my feminine at 76. Wow, a lovely hug from a man half my age!
The problem with accepting too much help and gifts from men is that they will inevitably expect me to give “something” in return. For this reason, I tend to be *very* careful who I allow it from, especially if it involves material things.
Not all men think you owe them something, and I often think its actually you who feels you owe them
Yes it can be true for some men, more healthy masculine men also do it because they feel masculine and feel good as a man and helping and serving others
Part of the issue of why things got so misconstrued , i believe, in society is that..with the economy, women have to work also...most of them, and AT work we have to put everything you just said aside and lots of women's potions require US to be the provider, whether its providing customer service, providing comfort, providing heath care etc. THEN when we get home, it is hard to switch gears into RECEIVING mode. Double that if you have children.
Especially if spouse or anyone 'jumps' on you, for lack of a better word, AS SOON AS you get home from work, thus not allowing you TIME to switch gears into receiving mode.
There are veriables in this day and age that werent there in the past.
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I didn't have help from my husband for the 10 yrs we was married, except to be the father of my kids, then on my own to raise them alone, & now 41 years alone having to always be both parents, now I don't know how to let a man help me cause I had to do it all on my own, way to long !!!
The only thing that gets tricky for me is if I cannot read a man, but I am trying to tell myself it's not me being the problem, but it might be the situation he's in that cuts me short. I have ppl in my life I want to draw closer to me - high value ppl - but they are having a professional relation to me. So yesterday my therapist was annoyed with me (maybe bc I tagged the therapy to the Gospel I shared on my FB). So I used - I believe - my feminine energy, but there was annoyance. My greatest purpose is to share the Gospel with them as my treasure is built in the heavenlies. My man is going to be my man even for eternity. Just in general I ask if ppl truly like me, but I treasure myself in my identitet in Christ.
It was awkward after my divorce cause I was always waiting for someone coming back at me with unkindness but I’m learning
I resonate with this so much. Just got divorced 2months ago after 6 years. Still healing. Sending you love and light❤
Loved this video. Thank you. Trying very hard to get into my most feminine self. Your tips are so helpful.
I've never been treated well by a guy I gave up 19yrs ago.
It JUST now happened to me. I’m 45 & have had a LOT of long term relationships
Nice video! Thank you for the information! ❤
Glad it was helpful!
What is that? A Real Man that is truly " A HERO PROTECTOR OR TRUE PROVIDER" 😢😂😂 Is this even a reality anymore??
I just love all your videos. Thank you so much.
Please keep making them. I find them very helpful.
Glad you like them!
I love when men do these thing for me and I ask, I have a problem with them not offering help when you need help - 😜
I see Vulnerability as a strength, but Discernment is needed in how much to reveal and when, and maybe more info gathered about the guys in question. Otherwise, I check off all these ( I’m 61- widowed, so have the advantage of life lessons/ maturity).
Yes l feel volnerauble expresing my emotions. I can't open my heart easy & show emotions. I know it' s not good but l am strugeling couse being hurt as a child & before in a relationship. But now l am learning with your help of course. : " I can see voureabilitiy now as a weeknes! " And l shall be working on these untill l am 100 % sure . Thank you for your vudeos l realy need these now . At my moment in life. ❤❤ Still a beliver than Love can conqer all! ♥️♥️ With a little help from myself & others!
I feel like I’m vulnerable! It makes me wonder what a man would say about that though!
You’re calling dude. You’re awesome
Does this also apply to someone you are getting to know long distance? Or do you have a video on that?
Do you think once these have happened… you can fix ( apply what you teach) & change the situation & possibly open up way to have relationships again ??
This has really been an eye opener for me … I took this as moaning/complaining…from a guys prospective . Keep sharing so much with him about yourself 😳
What do you think about… when your guy you’ve been dating/living with for couple of months talks about other women his dated.. is this at test of jealousy??
❤Thanking you Sweetly Sweetie....I would appreciate your opinion on when one starts to chat with someone and they say brb and when I wrote back to him after 4 days waiting to hear back from him I literally told him that I didn't consider him a friend which in turn he responded that I had been rude towards him... and again he cut off the conversation for a second time...ps.he happens to be an official general...❤can you give me your opinion dear thank you Sweetly Blessed ❤
39:45 Ahab and Jezebel where the roles are confused
I ask men for stuff all tge time but i get brushed off and been rejected by my son and family so much that i can not emotialy take tge rejection. It hurts and make me feel unlikable so how do you ask symple thing to see if i can even ask.
I clearly do not know how to ask for help. 😩 i do ask but i get no help. I got ran over two yrs ago and my whole family and my only son abanded me and now i have noone and i have asked for help to be rejected and shamed for it or i get angry response. I learning so much from these vidios and i can not even help myself emotinal becuase all i can do is just push threw my pain and work. I am a massage thrapiest so i have no medical. All i want is safty and people who want to help me. I just can not help myself outside of working and helping ither out of there pain because i truley know what it feels like to not feel support of love. I always done everytung alone my whole lfe.
I haven't read his new book yet if you're referring to MH but I do have it in my possession. I really hope I get a different takeaway than you did.
Should I accept the man back into my life after he left and went and got married and now divorced after 2 years he's coming back into my life...... He says he doesn't know what he wants, Been married 3 × first was divorced second wife passed away and third married 2 years and now divorced..... Please help
Not if he doesn't know what he wants.
Men are hunters by nature.
They Go After what they want.
You deserve someone who knows they want to be with only you.
Hell no
No
Man I do that I smile and try to respond but all I get is men who scrol at me like it makes them uncomfortable when I look at them and smile. But I think they see how desperate I am about being excepted and liked. Past year I been going out to try and make friends but all I get is angry men and weman who don’t like me and think I after there man. As a single woman I feel I am looked at as stay clear of her if she don’t have a man your a crazy Nancy. But I just traumatized and have no money or medical to heal. One more thing I have to do alone so some of us are just trying to survive.
Should a woman tell the man he is her hero protector provider
Yes that's a great way to share appreciation if it's an authentic feeling for you
The man I am madly in love with is all those things to me! But in spirit not In his physical actions! Is that normal?
@davinathedivine do you mean he is not alive or do you mean your connection to him os more spiritual than it is in the human mundane stuff? I had a relationship in the latter for several years and it's really tricky. It was like a soul relationship or twin flame. Most powerful, inspiring, deep, connected relationship ever. Very polarized, magical and lifting. But in reality world, he didn't help, work, be consistent or reliable. I said our souls are in the most beautiful relationship but our humans couldn't get it right. We need both. It was a godt. But we are human after all and sometimes Mr needs to hold the door and carry some heavy stuff.
9:26 I disagree. We need to compliment them from time to time. I don’t see anything wrong when we compliment that they look good or smell good.
I don’t mind asking men for advice but too many times they aren’t self aware and come across condescending/patronising which is disrespectful.
Good grief! Do fathers not teach their daughters to be atound men anymore???! These are basic thing that fathers must teach period!😮
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How can you stop a man stop call me out of my name
Why does this video have to be an hour long though? Come on now
I love hour long videos ❤
So sick of needing to prop up a man’s need to be needed. Exhausting.
Or you just can’t let your guard die.
Can't spend an hour watching this, stuff I probably already know. Why can't people make 5 minute videos, get to the damned point
There are plenty of 5 minute videos for you to watch. This video is awesome. Valuable learning can't be rushed....