What women want is an eternal question which people say is very hard to answer. Watch this video to find out what they look for in men (but don't say it!)
Don't go for unsuccessful girls who never did anything in her life and was not with you in your struggle...and now she is here to enjoy your success with you.
A beautiful girl can't give a beautiful or successful career, but a beautiful and successful career can give you an opportunity to get a beautiful girl.
Very true, I agree. Girls need successful and positive guys or a guy who has potential to grow in future, it gives security, stability for a better life, positive environment encourages a girl to grow in her career too.
Well that's reason I am not marrying. Because I only earn 20000 per month. And girls prefer guy who earn 1 lakh which I am not able to earn. I am planning to adopt a baby. But some relatives and neighbors are criticizing me for taking that decision. Some people are thinking I am gay which I am not. I wanted to marry girl but because of 1 lakh salary demand I stepped down. At the end of day everyone want a peaceful life. Nowadays boys who earn lakhs in months. Even they are getting divorce. So I believe I am playing a safe game. Single is far better than divorce. I would love to be father and mother to a child. I believe boy dont need girl to raise a child. If boys get parents support they even can raise a child nicely.
Anyways, from my experience I would say we need to have a balance...everything is important. I earn ~2L/m, but I never valued going to gym or using social media or dressing/grooming and I am not tall either. So until a guy is rich AF like thousands of crores, then may be no looks are fine otherwise one have to have a balance. I figured it hard way when now I find myself short of time & confidence. I can talk for hours stocks, history, science, natural selection, astrophysics, AI...but I hated going out, social media(the insta type) etc...the thing is that the people I actually meet on day to day basis like the 2nd kind of things.
Live with women Honorably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allah brings through it a great deal of good. Aurton ke saath achchi tarah se zindagi basar kiya karo , Agar wo tumhe na pasand ho to bhi, mumkin hai ki tumhe ek cheez pasand na aaye magar Allah Subhanahu ne usmein bahut kuch bhalayee rakhi ho,Surahnisa.
Seriously after 23/24 no face or looks matters, the only thing that matters is personality, success, and compatibility with your partner & this is for both girls and guys. Well said sir!
naah. for girls looks do matter a lot. guys usually don't give a fuck about their success and want girls who r beautiful and r less successful than them, but, women want men who are more successful than them, this is an evolutionary trait of humans.
@@akshatzz_iitb6052 being successful is like you can find your goal in grave , and some don't understands this humanist language. The answer is in how they treat us . Not what they say.
Lessons: 1) Dedicate yourself fully towards your goal, stay single untill you become successful. 2) Learn to stay happy with or without anyone in your life. 3) Keep your standards high. You are the "Prize".
100 % true. Neeraj Chopra was tall, broad and handsome and athletic since many years. But he became the "national crush" only after getting the gold medal / becoming successful / achieving his mission. Therefore yes, girls want a successful man. A successful man is one who always puts his vision and mission in life first ! Our Shastras have long said it, no surprise first Dharma, then Artha, only then Kama and then Moksha ! 🙏🏻
Well I had a crush on him since I read about his Asian Games performance.😉 Nevertheless, he has shown immense maturity and level-headedness even after the Olympic win.
Oh man....."OUR ANCESTORS SAID THIS 1000 years AGO" bullshit again. If you think about it...these are not any tremendous inventions like relativity betc...but common sense. Philosophy. By the way...you completed meesed the meaning of Dharma artha kama....it actually means By earning(artha) wealth in dharmic way...you enjoy pleasures(Kama) and thus finally get moksha nirvana. Kama doesn't mean sex only.
Such a person would always have respect in society and a sense of responsibility, these are all interlinked qualities.. One must focus on self improvement and rest would follow🙂
a sorted person ( mentally, emotionally and spiritually ) first sort yourself and your life only then you can be in harmony with someone else applied to both girls and boys.
Universe language . 💚🌎🌌 One can find their goal in a grave . Life is not work , Work is not life . We are here to help each other. As the universe , so the soul
But aisa ladke h kitne india mai aadho ko toh 25 se 27 tak unke maa bap hi paalte h aur thode jo is umar tak kaam bhi krte h toh woh average hi kama pa rhe hote h success toh 30 ya 35 ke baad aati h but tabh tak shaadi ki umar nikal jaati h so shaadi is not the priority in 2021
@@japjotsinghdhir8926 ur success will be reflected from your thoughts and goals in the age of 25 mostly...... success is not like a lottery ticket........
Never listen to girls who say, we like this and that type of a guy. Never trust a woman's words, trust her actions. Attraction is not choice. Subconsciously, they always follow an ambitious badass man.
I am in my struggling phase and my wife is supporting me in all the way she could. She is doing it from last 5 years. She is earning for the family and always keeps me motivated to achieve my goals
Focusing on career is good. And it's a need too but focusing only on career will not give you success or may be you can but with lots if regrets As career is only one aspect of successful life (give career priority) but never get that involved in career that you are not spending time with your parents friends BCoz at the ends what matters is memories we create
Then Similarly Girls Should Also Make an Effort To Look Better. And there should be a scale a Girl Looking 6/10 should get a Man Making 5 Lakhs/ year A Girl Looking 7/10 Should Get a Man Making 10 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 8/10 Should Get a Man Making 20 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 9/10 Should Get a Man Making 50 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 10/10 Gets a Man Making Over 75 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 6/10 With Gandi Shakal , Should stay Away from Men Making More than 6 Lakhs a Year. And i think you look like a 3/10 sadly ...
For those who don't have time to watch full video Moral: Just focus on yourself, on your work, on your health, on your happiness, on your strength, on your mission, on your finance and lastly on your mental peace. Just be a genius MAN
Then Similarly Girls Should Also Make an Effort To Look Better. And there should be a scale a Girl Looking 6/10 should get a Man Making 5 Lakhs/ year A Girl Looking 7/10 Should Get a Man Making 10 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 8/10 Should Get a Man Making 20 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 9/10 Should Get a Man Making 50 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 10/10 Gets a Man Making Over 75 Lakhs a Year A Girl Looking 5/10 With Gandi Shakal , Should stay Away from Men Making More than 6 Lakhs a Year. You are 6/10, so the maximum you should ever get is a guy making 10 lakhs a year. And as you grow older you'll look 5/10 and then later 4/10, so you're a depreciating Asset. While the Man's Salary and Wealth Will Keep Growing
You people agreed or disagree with my words but a women do everything for their partners success. 💪women is support system for success ,vo phir Maa ho, wife ho ya girlfriend.
I agree, 7 years of relationship & after 2 years of marriage with the same man.It's good & beneficial for the man too, he can be man enough(hero) & women will feel her feminine self & motivate him to do better. In the end both win.
Even in shaadi me zarror aana , Aarti left satyendra for becoming PCS officer , had he been IAS officer at that time , she would have thought 10,000 times before leaving him . So, guys success is the first priority.
I agree with ur point but I think u didn't go into detail..... she already knew he was clerk before getting into marriage but she left him only after her elder mother told her that her mother in law would not let her do.....
@@Quizzingspeed I do agree with you , but if he had been an officer at the time of marriage , no one would have pointed out the clerk stuff , and being eduacted he would have supported her wife to become an officer too irrespective of family demands , that is why eduaction is important , to eradicate orthodox views that countinues to be in the society even today , and with eduaction comes success(in most cases)
Whatever you are saying is absolutely right. At the time of marriage I had Engineering degree and my husband was 12th passed just earning 600 rs monthly doing some bogus apprenticeship in which he was just passing his time and just to show that he is doing something. I was very career oriented and built my career as software engineer. He was not able to accept my hard work and success despite his resistance. I always say it openly about his unemployment and his whole family was against me even when I was absolutely right. So boys don't put someone's daughter into dilemma just to fulfill your sexual needs. Be a man. Be mature and successful before marriage.
😂😂Yeah right. Beautiful, virgin, must leave her parents, must balance both career and home....yeh toh bohot unconditional hai na. Children main bhi boy ho, disabled na ho. Zara apni nazar ghoomake charon taraf dekha karo, apna dukh ka gaana gaane se pehle.
For whatever reasons a guy is putting effort, ultimately the aim is to be successful. Cheers to the effort which you are putting in to discuss about the topics that society ignores.More power to you Man
Except mother and father both bro...duniya me bs 2 log hai jo sochte hai ki aap usse vv jyada successful bne...baaki sb sochte hai successful bne...bt hmse thora kam
You'll love your mother right. Don't you'll wish toh fulfill her dreams/wants or want her to live comfortably? Yes, right. That comes out of love. So why is it different when it comes to you wife?
ive dated a guy for 6 years. we met in college. yes i fell for his cuteness and his popularity in college, ambitious and the best part, how gentle and kind he was. we dated for a while...........slowly i saw his ambition diluting. he didnt have high goals after college. he was spending more free time in "exploring" his passion instead of sticking to one skill....(he is very talented.....kaafi log mein talent ki kami bhi hoti hai, but i can see the big light of talent in him).....in the process his health also went down, and mostly his confidence was not as bright as he was in college. but, i felt it was not a dealbreaker........ slowly i saw he really was not pushing himself and was more interested in spending free time in connecting with people and researching and other stuff .... nothing bad but, definately not focussed towards success. And i am an ambitious person. i like to use my max time to achieve my desired and goals. in the process with him, i started to see myself questioning my desire ... like why do i have desires. he would give more spiritual reasons for why he thought ambition and going after money was not as great. Its not like i was wanting him to support me financially. im very much capable of that. but then if i earn aa certain amount, and want to spemd it on certain experiences, it wouldnt match with his ideas of money. so many things started creating the conflict..... his whole fie started looking elsewhere and mine elsewhere. and all this while, his looks also went down, he got asthama and would sometines get attacks..... but still somehow wouldnt stop occasional and social smoking. he lost a lot of his hair too ....... (though that was never the main reason, but somehow if i mentioned his health to him that he should work on it .......he would admit to that and yeah maybe show a lil disappointment in me that im very bothered about it but he would never really express how much it botehred him. he was really insecure. and i felt like i was walking on eggshells, unable to express my concern. I went through a lot of guilt. i started seeing how he had transformed in to a person i didnt love anymore. and i wouldnt acknowleghe the fact that i dont anymore. that made me feel like a villan. when someone said " love is not that changes with sittuations changong" ....... ifelt under deep sadness that im incapable of love, because i didnt love him for who he is totally and absolutely. but, at the same time, the reality is that i am uncomfortabe with who he is now. and the worst part. i got to know today.... he got a hair transplant and planing to get a nose job. i feel terrible and helpless. so, i really dont know whats right and whats wrong anymore. its a mystery....... that i tried to solve for 6 years. and listening to this video, i feel terrible that yes, thats what i wanted. but, my shallow desires beat my deeper desires of love. thats the most perplexing feeling. it doesnt even feel like its a matter of courage........ or is it? mayeb i was afraid to deal with the consiquences of his insecurities. lack of courage to face terrible things in the name of love? ........ what is love
love and serve , no matter how weak he becomes ,such woman is known as sati(chaste)in vedic times.and such woman are worshipable as they are rare in this world.
You just answered my question I was asking myself from long time 😢......your bf and my story is totally same....Mai v talented tha, but health issue ki wajah se Career me downfall aa gya.....but farq ye hai ki mai hmesha kosis ki mera career aur health wapis set ho jaye.... but is dauran Maine bahut Kami mahsoos ki apni ex ki.... mujhe uska support chahiye tha,pr wo chhor k chli gyi Mera future insecure dekh ke😊. Unexpected and inhuman behaviour
Even my ex said while breaking up and I'm quoting that.." I love you that's okay but i want a powerful guy, i want one with a powerful aura" . I completely relate it sir!
No she doesn't want . Chetan Bhagat does not understand today's women It was applicable on older generation but not now I am a girl and I swear I am not lying I hv nothing to do with guys income ,it should be that much in order to bear his expense that's it What I really want is a loving caring obviously understanding the only one in front of whom I can open my heart be so emotionally attached and a honest smile. Even sense of humor does not matter he can crack his lame jokes cuz I laugh on even lame jokes.Thats it a very honest answer . Today and in coming years majority women will definitely hv this mentality .
@@physicsislove6100 who said success means income only ? It has different meanings for different people.. for a doctor success is saving a life.. for a teacher it's producing good ranks.. for a social influencer it's gaining fame.. for me success is being respected by everyone in the society through my qualifications and profession.. there are tons of profession which might pay more than my chosen one but I find success in being respected. For different girls successful has different meanings..
@@physicsislove6100 Lagta hai Papa ki pari ho jo abhi Paida bhi nahi theek se. Girls want successful boy (Money. )😀😁 They Left their Bf for other successful person person
Well said sir. I was in relationship for 10 years before marriage and people used to praise about us but I used to say one thing " pyar se pet ni bharta". I used to work hard. And this is the fact that without money the love will jump out of window. So the money, a long good career is very important part of your love life. 🙏
When girls are young they want cool dude type guy, good looking charming, adventurous. When they get old and face value declines they want to secure their future and want to settle with high earning nerd, no matter how he looks.
#Girls DIVORCING husband's is VERY HIGH these days and they run to another MORE SUCCESSFUL PREY *Obviously and there are LOTS of girls specially in INDIA 🥵 SHAMEFULLY these days where THEY have become just that and wanna rich richer richest BF and Husband's and should also be a GREEK GOD and Loyal and Humourous and also SHARE the work and Cook and wash Vessels too or have 3 SERVANTS atleast ! Unlike ALL our **#MOTHERS** who in their age KNEW WHAT A FAMILY AND HUSBAND MEANS AND WHAT A MARRIAGE MEANT*
@@deboraabh Lol.. You are talking as if India has that many rich guys!! Stoo being an emotional fool and check the average annual income of an Indian. It is righly equal to 1.5 lakhs per year. The uber rich are very few for you fantasy of women divorcing their husbands for a richer husband.. ha ha..
@@studying548 This joker has no understanding. Most girls want rich guys as a provider but they want good looking guys as partners. That is why most girls are cheating these days. They marry a provider and then cheat with some good looking guy. But he won't get it because of obvious reasons. Now it is upto guys if they want to be provider or Alphas. This guy is truly a beta.
Girls ladder of expectations is: 1.Basic expectation:Don’t ditch me & protect my present lifestyle I am living at my parent’s house. 2. Intermediate expectation: Be the guy out of my imagination, who appreciates me forever and doesn’t restrict my basic freedom. 3. Advanced expectation: Take me for long drive, exotic holidays and to the restaurants which I only imagined when I was single.
@@girlssquare844 we all are dependent in someway or other , being independent is a myth We want mother for mother's love Want father for father's love , everybody has a role to play in our life . We should be grateful and have gratitude for everything ..... Rather than saying I am independent. People who say I am independent must have courage to go and become sanyasi 😂
here is the thing. With this third wave of feminism most of the women (i said most not all) are pretty much entitled and with rise of social media there are tons of desperate guys in their dms who pump up their ego and they over value themselves. So even an average girl in terms of looks and success have over expectations from when they are looking for a guy.
@@nalinipravabiswal945 That's what i thought , but once you start climbing that ladder of success ,there is no end. The cycle of slipping down ,picking yourself up and then climbing up again goes on. i do not expect a girl to his word " be so hot , funny". finding a companion is not like finding a gem that looks good . For myself , i will try no matter what , i don't know what the future beholds for me or for anyone. i will try to be successful and for some " i tried to my level best " is satisfaction .....
That is the ultimate truth. Girls aren't being greedy or money minded when they are choosing their partners. What they really need is a comfortable lifestyle and a man who can give them a life which was given by their parents. Thank you sir for your valuable explaination and for not being biased.
Till clg, girls want guys wid gud sense of humor, smart, fitness freak, guitarist, sportsperson, rich & usually dey stay away from studious & shy guy but when it comes to marriage dey only prefer iit/iim/govt. Officer. I'm not complaining bt jst an piece of advice to guys, please remember you have only two true friends one is ur career & other one ur parents. & a/f being successful also look for girl wid same struggle & success as u hv done & achieved.
Being a girl I personally feel that a girl would be attracted to a guy who shares the same interests as her so that they can connect well. Also someone who has a strong character and respects her. What you have said sir is also absolutely correct.
@Aso Fotida I would rather like to watch cricket and football matches with my partner. Not all girls like crappy TV serials. Do not stereotype, first have a good knowledge about girls. 🙏
I like your thoughts and how you express them. Having said that no amount of connection and respect can replace her need to have a partner who has a high social status. If he's broke then youll simply friendzone him. That's how things work. By the way, you don't know how attractive you made yourself sound when you said you'd watch Cricket, football with him. That means a lot to guys and they'll be super interested in a girl that likes sports.
@@anisha1668 what about physical attraction then... Will you marry a ugly guy..but he has good manners, respects everybody, amazing personality and good job??
@\\xyz yes.... girls look not matter a lot,.... And boys also judge by their look...its reality but not at large scale,... always success and...life stability matter 👍
It's not the bitter truth sir, it's the reality . Rather than faking or hiding our society should appreciate and should gently and lightly take all these things as a normal phenomenon . As a girl I am agreeing to all your points . If I will date someone then I will frankly ask for it . Because I love reallity .
Success is defer from one person to another it takes time , big goal take long time but if a girl love you at ur struggle period that's the true love But boys should focus on goal
@@sandeshrangari694 You must be wrong....taxi driver is happy becaz he need to show that he is nice so that he can make some money. Have u ever heard being millionaire is sad???
When girls marry mostly in 20s-30s most of the guys had started in their careers. success comes along way as time progresses.Girls look in man if he is open enough to give her- her space, freedom and career to pursue whatever she wants to do.
I would love to spend my life with an Inspirational Guy who inspire me to live like living in heaven . He may not have lot of money but should have positive attitude and successful in terms of achieving goals and a family man . It is good to see some people really care about what girls really want . (hope god will see my comment ..haha)
With experience I am saying this, Success alone isn't enough. You have to have a hell lot of patience, empathy, sense of humour, knowledge & "talent" to sustain the relationship well. Because once you both fall in love, your success becomes a normal thing. Being successful will help you get a good girl but not a good relationship. You have to have knowledge about how to deal thing's.
@@parthasarathi3855 if I have criticized Chetan Bhagat for this video, then my comment is BASELESS. But I have added my knowledge in comment which is appreciated by 30 people. You are simply senseless.
@@telugubusinesschannelsome fools still think just having a different view makes him or her cool and wake.....irrespective of how stupid that so called opinion is and also irrelevant with the topic.......congo for the flock of donkeys you found...🙏
I agree Man should be successful but success is not always for all. Good and Bad times will come in everyone's phase so girls and men both should accept each other and support them.
Absolutely right sir. I can't think of having a guy who isn't intelligent or ambitious enough to make my head held high with pride with his success .If he is not honest with his work he can't be honest with his partner.As being a earning woman myself it's not about money but about my pride and prestige.
@@comicguy4417 I have such quality dear.I am a financial advisor and analyst myself and work quite hard to get what I want in my life,so as per my caliber,this is not a blind wish or desire ,this is something which I deserve .
@@madhumitabanerjee9127 I respect you for your self-awareness. A hard working woman certainly deserves a successful man. May God bless you with your desired partner! Amen.
Have you watched the film "Thappad"? The man was ambitious, got a promotion, his wife was happy with him, but was he a nice man? He was abusive, narcissistic and highly misogynistic. And the female lawyer who fought Taapsee's case in the film, her husband too was intelligent, ambitious and they hailed from a highly prestigious family. So is an intelligent, ambitious man enough? Or rather we must look forward to men who are empathetic, understanding and emotionally intelligent and make a great dad for our kids. I am too like you, an independent highly educated working woman but for me my man's professional success isn't important because life keeps changing. Today he might be the CEO, tomorrow he might land up on the streets. What matters to me is whether he is willing to put in efforts to keep himself together in tough times, is he able to balance our relationship during periods of fights, misunderstandings, etc, basically his inner strength and integrity.
Financial independence is the first step to self love . Love yourself to be loved by anyone else. Spend money on yourself let the ugly duckling become a beautiful swan and then quack for its mate
Mostly girls notice their dressing sense so that they can make an assumption about their lifestyle and income. Girls also notice their nature or behaviour and how a guy treats people around him. So it depends from person to person. ❤️
Nature and behaviour sometimes changes with situation around him/her , What is changes with situation may be it's not real so search for success in a guy because it's real many times in this materialistic life 😁
what is your age dear? when you will be big enough n have to start a family, you will also look for a guy who is successful because a more successful guy means more income, more income means a better environment for your child to grow and women have been evolutionarily trained to select the best environment for there child, that is why a majority of women run after successful guys.
1)standard of living if that man 2)then comes the most important qualuty of man-"is he able to make the girl feel comfirtable while they r together? That decides the nature of man for the girls.
Sadly but chetan Bhagat cud not understand today's women I am a girl and I swear I am not lying I hv nothing to do with guys income ,it should be that much in order to bear his own expense that's it What I really want is a loving caring obviously understanding the only one in front of whom I can open my heart be so emotionally attached and a honest smile. Even sense of humor does not matter he can crack his lame jokes cuz I laugh on even lame jokes.Thats it a very honest answer . Today and in coming years majority women will definitely hv this mentality .
I think women don't express their feelings openly bcoz they expect from their men to understand their inner feelings. and I completely agree with you sir.
Han ye sach baat hai Par ye illogical nehi hai koi dusreka maan kaise jaan sakta hai, ye bohot hi difficult kaam hai Par ladkiyan chota chota sign deti rehti hai jab interested hoti hai.😀
Don't go for unsuccessful girls who never did anything in her life and was not with you in your struggle...and now she is here to enjoy your success with you.
exactly,
True!
Yes sir! 🙏
Bhai Dil ki bat kah di
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As a wise man once said "women are waiting on the finish line for the winner".
True bro!!!
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😂😂.
As a wise women said"Men are waiting on the finish line for the winner"😅💁😎
@@Iam-um5qj lol
Success is Not Dream or Goal
it is Necessity..
True
True
Respect🙏🏻
@@gauravbhowal7075 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Well said 🔥
A beautiful girl can't give a beautiful or successful career, but a beautiful and successful career can give you an opportunity to get a beautiful girl.
Wahhh!😂💙
Too many Girls*
So true❤❤
This is true
@Ashok Kirtania............ Waah kya baat hai sirji................ 🙏😉
Very true, I agree. Girls need successful and positive guys or a guy who has potential to grow in future, it gives security, stability for a better life, positive environment encourages a girl to grow in her career too.
Well that's reason I am not marrying. Because I only earn 20000 per month. And girls prefer guy who earn 1 lakh which I am not able to earn. I am planning to adopt a baby. But some relatives and neighbors are criticizing me for taking that decision. Some people are thinking I am gay which I am not. I wanted to marry girl but because of 1 lakh salary demand I stepped down. At the end of day everyone want a peaceful life. Nowadays boys who earn lakhs in months. Even they are getting divorce. So I believe I am playing a safe game. Single is far better than divorce. I would love to be father and mother to a child. I believe boy dont need girl to raise a child. If boys get parents support they even can raise a child nicely.
Well if you want a girl, who agrees with your proposal, she will be only a parasite to your life.
@@sujay4533 If you are saying truth then you are a very strong man.
@@AbhishekSingh-op2tr well these are my future plans. Let's see brother how it goes.
Anyways, from my experience I would say we need to have a balance...everything is important. I earn ~2L/m, but I never valued going to gym or using social media or dressing/grooming and I am not tall either. So until a guy is rich AF like thousands of crores, then may be no looks are fine otherwise one have to have a balance. I figured it hard way when now I find myself short of time & confidence.
I can talk for hours stocks, history, science, natural selection, astrophysics, AI...but I hated going out, social media(the insta type) etc...the thing is that the people I actually meet on day to day basis like the 2nd kind of things.
Moral To Guys - If you want Sita Become Ram first
Moral To Girls - If you want Ram Become Sita first
Well Said Sir❤️👏🤘
I am trying to become Ram in fear that my little sister will run with Ravan.
When You Become Ram,
Ravan Will Die Naturally 😀 Don't Worry !!!
Aaj kal na koi Ram hey na koi Sita.
@@OmPrakash-zh5hm Ravan toh sab ghoom rahe hain na. Jab samjh mein nahin aaye to munh band rakhna chahiye.
Live with women Honorably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allah brings through it a great deal of good.
Aurton ke saath achchi tarah se zindagi basar kiya karo , Agar wo tumhe na pasand ho to bhi, mumkin hai
ki tumhe ek cheez pasand na aaye magar Allah Subhanahu ne usmein bahut kuch bhalayee rakhi ho,Surahnisa.
Seriously after 23/24 no face or looks matters, the only thing that matters is personality, success, and compatibility with your partner & this is for both girls and guys. Well said sir!
Nc
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naah. for girls looks do matter a lot. guys usually don't give a fuck about their success and want girls who r beautiful and r less successful than them, but, women want men who are more successful than them, this is an evolutionary trait of humans.
@@akshatzz_iitb6052 well said Buddy
@@akshatzz_iitb6052 being successful is like you can find your goal in grave , and some don't understands this humanist language. The answer is in how they treat us . Not what they say.
Lessons:
1) Dedicate yourself fully towards your goal, stay single untill you become successful.
2) Learn to stay happy with or without anyone in your life.
3) Keep your standards high. You are the "Prize".
Nobody is prize
@@user-pi4qd8ik5i why?
100 % true. Neeraj Chopra was tall, broad and handsome and athletic since many years. But he became the "national crush" only after getting the gold medal / becoming successful / achieving his mission.
Therefore yes, girls want a successful man. A successful man is one who always puts his vision and mission in life first !
Our Shastras have long said it, no surprise first Dharma, then Artha, only then Kama and then Moksha ! 🙏🏻
Well I had a crush on him since I read about his Asian Games performance.😉
Nevertheless, he has shown immense maturity and level-headedness even after the Olympic win.
@@srishtishetty8578 🤣
Thats why Modi ji is most wanted bachelor among men
But still If he did not had looks No one would have given importance.
Oh man....."OUR ANCESTORS SAID THIS 1000 years AGO" bullshit again. If you think about it...these are not any tremendous inventions like relativity betc...but common sense. Philosophy.
By the way...you completed meesed the meaning of Dharma artha kama....it actually means By earning(artha) wealth in dharmic way...you enjoy pleasures(Kama) and thus finally get moksha nirvana. Kama doesn't mean sex only.
Moral of the story = DON'T BE A MINIMUM GUY🤣🤣🤣
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Bhutt shi😂😂😂
Unless you have a government job as a backup
😂😂😂
You wanna be like the Srikanth... 😂😂
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I want become successful for myyy motherrrrrrrrr...she struggle too much for meee 💗💗💗💗💗
I wish you will definitely succeed .you are already a good person because now a days people don't think about their parents 🙏
Family is the first priority.♥️💯
@@luckyboygyana this is not true..
@@PrateekS1411 I wish you make my statement false 🙏
Best comment so far
One thing I always believe "Beauty is temporary, Character is permanent"
@@vijay-ms5li I mean related to Good character. Character in the sense, His/Her behavior, mindset and nature.
@@Ch.Hemachander-03 nothing is permanent mate, character, mindset,goal, behavior, thought process,like dislikes, good and bad , changes time to time.
@@IMMORTAL7556 100% true 🙏❤️
@@IMMORTAL7556 nothing is permanent. But the "Change" is permanent ❤️🙏
A beautiful girl with gud character is way better
I really don't care what girl wants, but I want to be successful for myself and make proud my parents.
This!!!
Proud of you
Same here.i study whole day and night just to be successful🙏👨⚕️
Then you'll get great partner too automatically
We are bro vinod!!
Hardworking person who is serious about himself and always work on improving him.
No they want successful person only .
Such a person would always have respect in society and a sense of responsibility, these are all interlinked qualities.. One must focus on self improvement and rest would follow🙂
Girls need to be hardworking as well rather than lazing around and burden the husband with all finances.
@@bitankumarmani7339 ya absolutely true sir .
I agree with you
Here we met again men of culture
a sorted person ( mentally, emotionally and spiritually ) first sort yourself and your life only then you can be in harmony with someone else applied to both girls and boys.
TRUE 💯
Universe language . 💚🌎🌌 One can find their goal in a grave . Life is not work , Work is not life . We are here to help each other. As the universe , so the soul
Ye raveer allahabadia se cut copy paste maara tmne xd .
Here we met again men of culture
@@cosmic2096 i am ENFP❤️
This is so true everybody seeks security and there is nothing wrong in it .
Always be the guy to a girl you want for your sister ❤️
Agree
Value in Society as a man.... This knocks me up everytime I get tired or lazy.
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Man with his goals more attractive
Rightly said!!
But aisa ladke h kitne india mai aadho ko toh 25 se 27 tak unke maa bap hi paalte h aur thode jo is umar tak kaam bhi krte h toh woh average hi kama pa rhe hote h success toh 30 ya 35 ke baad aati h but tabh tak shaadi ki umar nikal jaati h so shaadi is not the priority in 2021
@@japjotsinghdhir8926 ur success will be reflected from your thoughts and goals in the age of 25 mostly...... success is not like a lottery ticket........
@Surbhi Mishra Ye kisi book ki line hai??
Can you tell me the name of book??
I forgot!😅
I agree
This comment section has more emotionally matured people than any other❤️❤️
❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
Yeep
Sahi pakde
Yes Chetan I 100% agree with you. Thank you for stating it without judgement. Boys please be the kind of man you would want for your sister.
Wow! Thought provoking!😌👌
Same goes for girls. Girls, please be the kind of woman you would want for your brother.
And you too do something in life don't be berojgar if u don't want to marry a berojgar person
Dude.. Im not berojgar.. Im doing good in life.
@@sadhnaminj4956 good that's what i was saying one need to be first at that stage where he she is choosing life partner for herself himself
Money is honey ...rich man's joke is always funny
Waah bete moj kardi 🤣🤣🤣
Ye v thik hai
@@jaydipprajapati9740 bade harami ho beta
Ultimate truth
100 %
Never listen to girls who say, we like this and that type of a guy. Never trust a woman's words, trust her actions. Attraction is not choice. Subconsciously, they always follow an ambitious badass man.
right bro
After hitting "the wall", everthing changes
Agreed ...👍
point!!
This is true af!
Primary GOAL- SUCCESS + HUMANITY
Secondary things - Height, color, beauty, biceps etc .
Success ka definition kya h?
@\\xyz kitna? Wo to jitna aaye kam hi rehta h...
Humanity lol
I am in my struggling phase and my wife is supporting me in all the way she could. She is doing it from last 5 years. She is earning for the family and always keeps me motivated to achieve my goals
Not many women are like her. Hats off to her🙌
exceptions are always there
@@shivnathbalawat6489 very true and i am proud of her...
fasgayi woh ab buss tarkewala daal pe ghee dal rahi hain
अब उसके पास कुछ ऑप्शन नही है
He should be understanding and successful also..looks doesn't matter
The girl should be successful as well.
If a girl isn't succesful she shouldn't expect a successful guy bcz they don't deserve tht !!
Its exactly like like dowry .
I only have looks now, now success.
Looks do matter with other things too.., at first instance people judge us by looks..than other things comes into picture...
Men's entire focus should be on his career.
Wrong
Don't drink water and eat then, stay focused on career only.
Chase excellence!
Yess 👍
Focusing on career is good. And it's a need too but focusing only on career will not give you success or may be you can but with lots if regrets As career is only one aspect of successful life (give career priority) but never get that involved in career that you are not spending time with your parents friends BCoz at the ends what matters is memories we create
Everything you said is true.
Evryone wants maturity and practical approach in relationship.
@Wake Up India 🇮🇳 (जागो भारत) but they would only give you sexual pleasure and not emotional support
Then Similarly Girls Should Also Make an Effort To Look Better. And there should be a scale
a Girl Looking 6/10 should get a Man Making 5 Lakhs/ year
A Girl Looking 7/10 Should Get a Man Making 10 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 8/10 Should Get a Man Making 20 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 9/10 Should Get a Man Making 50 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 10/10 Gets a Man Making Over 75 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 6/10 With Gandi Shakal , Should stay Away from Men Making More than 6 Lakhs a Year.
And i think you look like a 3/10 sadly ...
For those who don't have time to watch full video
Moral: Just focus on yourself, on your work, on your health, on your happiness, on your strength, on your mission, on your finance and lastly on your mental peace. Just be a genius MAN
Agree with all the points, That's what the truth is.
Agree👍👍
Thank you Hugh respect to you
Atleast kisine sach kaha, thanks👍🏼
Absolutely false..guys date girls even during college and school when they are not successful
Then Similarly Girls Should Also Make an Effort To Look Better. And there should be a scale
a Girl Looking 6/10 should get a Man Making 5 Lakhs/ year
A Girl Looking 7/10 Should Get a Man Making 10 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 8/10 Should Get a Man Making 20 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 9/10 Should Get a Man Making 50 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 10/10 Gets a Man Making Over 75 Lakhs a Year
A Girl Looking 5/10 With Gandi Shakal , Should stay Away from Men Making More than 6 Lakhs a Year.
You are 6/10, so the maximum you should ever get is a guy making 10 lakhs a year.
And as you grow older you'll look 5/10 and then later 4/10, so you're a depreciating Asset.
While the Man's Salary and Wealth Will Keep Growing
You proved it......
"Behind every successful man there is a woman" is a myth
The truth is "A woman is always behind a successful man"
Wah kya baat hai. 😀👍
You people agreed or disagree with my words but a women do everything for their partners success. 💪women is support system for success ,vo phir Maa ho, wife ho ya girlfriend.
Waaaaah😅😅😅🙌🙌🙌🙌😃😃😃
If you are successful, woman will be behind you. 😂😂
🙄🙄🙄
“The worst wait in life is waiting for someone to text back"
Obsession comes from Ignorence...so be aware..
@@jaydipprajapati9740 “Determination becomes obsession and then it becomes all that matters.”
😂😂😂.....
Waiting with patience is very hard !!
@@divine6442 too much hard like stone! 😂😬
Ohh...god
Lagta h tmne mujhse jyda patience rkha h 😂😂🤣🤣 tabhi stone ka bola
I agree, 7 years of relationship & after 2 years of marriage with the same man.It's good & beneficial for the man too, he can be man enough(hero) & women will feel her feminine self & motivate him to do better. In the end both win.
Bhak
Even in shaadi me zarror aana , Aarti left satyendra for becoming PCS officer , had he been IAS officer at that time , she would have thought 10,000 times before leaving him . So, guys success is the first priority.
I agree with ur point but I think u didn't go into detail..... she already knew he was clerk before getting into marriage but she left him only after her elder mother told her that her mother in law would not let her do.....
* elder sister
@@Quizzingspeed I do agree with you , but if he had been an officer at the time of marriage , no one would have pointed out the clerk stuff , and being eduacted he would have supported her wife to become an officer too irrespective of family demands , that is why eduaction is important , to eradicate orthodox views that countinues to be in the society even today , and with eduaction comes success(in most cases)
Bollywood is shite, but good instance
Here the man is sharing his life experience out of his real conversation with real people. Par nahi.. tumhare benchmark to Alag e hain prabhu 🙏
*Half income: Half Girlfriend*
😂😂
🤣🤣
Quarter, half kuch nahi hota. Ha ya na hota hai.
😂😂 wahh
I agree 100% .There is nothing wrong in it.
Tum ek larki ho?
I do agree with you😌
@@user-hu6st2pk1w 😂
Sir what if everybody is successful, rich and happy? No body has any issues or bad thing?
Whatever you are saying is absolutely right. At the time of marriage I had Engineering degree and my husband was
12th passed just earning 600 rs monthly doing some bogus apprenticeship in which he was just passing his time and just to show that he is doing something.
I was very career oriented and built my career as software engineer. He was not able to accept my hard work and success despite his resistance.
I always say it openly about his unemployment and his whole family was against me even when I was absolutely right. So boys don't put someone's daughter into dilemma just to fulfill your sexual needs. Be a man. Be mature and successful before marriage.
But I have a question if boys become successful, then why he need girls??.
He has money, he can do anything.
Totally fake comment. A girl can't marry to marry a boy who is not more successful than boys.
@@aj-1549 come on man, be mature, she didn't say anything incorrect
@@atifalie-8207 completely incorrect.
A girl can't marry a boy who has less money or is less successful than her.
@@aj-1549 Well it seems you haven't learnt anything from this video and straight away jumped into comment section.
Only women and children are loved unconditionally, but men are loved only when he provides you something.
@Keshav Yadav Roll no. 77 tu haldia institute of technology ka student hai kya bhai??
I agree, but you still need a girl, right? Don't you?
So why not accept the truth and work harder.
Good day bro
No one is loved unconditionally ,we must be valued for something,it's not a bad thing .
@Bubble bobo so is man who chooses career over kids
😂😂Yeah right. Beautiful, virgin, must leave her parents, must balance both career and home....yeh toh bohot unconditional hai na. Children main bhi boy ho, disabled na ho. Zara apni nazar ghoomake charon taraf dekha karo, apna dukh ka gaana gaane se pehle.
For whatever reasons a guy is putting effort, ultimately the aim is to be successful. Cheers to the effort which you are putting in to discuss about the topics that society ignores.More power to you Man
The person who is not successful won't be able to see her partner's growth especially that hardwork.
Right👍
@\\xyz especially in our middle class society. Everyone wants beautiful and simple so called kam kaazi brides.
चेतन बाबू जितना आपने वीडियो में नहीं बताया उससे ज्यादा लड़कियां कमेंट में Actual needs ke regarding bta रही है।
Thank you so much chetan babu ❤️
I am glad to hear from someone mature and who genuinely cares about the youth. Long way to go !!!
Laughed alot at, "mere dil ka kya hoga, mera dil".
Thank You sir!! For your guidance to this generation 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Except mother's every relationship comes with terms and conditions..everyone has its own agenda ..be it siblings relatives or your wife..or girlfriend
Exactly bro! Have experienced that!
Except mother and father both bro...duniya me bs 2 log hai jo sochte hai ki aap usse vv jyada successful bne...baaki sb sochte hai successful bne...bt hmse thora kam
exactly the point which i want to make as well.
@@richagaharwar7782 well said
You'll love your mother right. Don't you'll wish toh fulfill her dreams/wants or want her to live comfortably? Yes, right. That comes out of love. So why is it different when it comes to you wife?
ive dated a guy for 6 years. we met in college. yes i fell for his cuteness and his popularity in college, ambitious and the best part, how gentle and kind he was. we dated for a while...........slowly i saw his ambition diluting. he didnt have high goals after college. he was spending more free time in "exploring" his passion instead of sticking to one skill....(he is very talented.....kaafi log mein talent ki kami bhi hoti hai, but i can see the big light of talent in him).....in the process his health also went down, and mostly his confidence was not as bright as he was in college. but, i felt it was not a dealbreaker........ slowly i saw he really was not pushing himself and was more interested in spending free time in connecting with people and researching and other stuff .... nothing bad but, definately not focussed towards success. And i am an ambitious person. i like to use my max time to achieve my desired and goals. in the process with him, i started to see myself questioning my desire ... like why do i have desires. he would give more spiritual reasons for why he thought ambition and going after money was not as great. Its not like i was wanting him to support me financially. im very much capable of that. but then if i earn aa certain amount, and want to spemd it on certain experiences, it wouldnt match with his ideas of money. so many things started creating the conflict..... his whole fie started looking elsewhere and mine elsewhere. and all this while, his looks also went down, he got asthama and would sometines get attacks..... but still somehow wouldnt stop occasional and social smoking. he lost a lot of his hair too ....... (though that was never the main reason, but somehow if i mentioned his health to him that he should work on it .......he would admit to that and yeah maybe show a lil disappointment in me that im very bothered about it but he would never really express how much it botehred him. he was really insecure. and i felt like i was walking on eggshells, unable to express my concern. I went through a lot of guilt. i started seeing how he had transformed in to a person i didnt love anymore. and i wouldnt acknowleghe the fact that i dont anymore. that made me feel like a villan. when someone said " love is not that changes with sittuations changong" ....... ifelt under deep sadness that im incapable of love, because i didnt love him for who he is totally and absolutely. but, at the same time, the reality is that i am uncomfortabe with who he is now. and the worst part. i got to know today.... he got a hair transplant and planing to get a nose job. i feel terrible and helpless. so, i really dont know whats right and whats wrong anymore. its a mystery....... that i tried to solve for 6 years. and listening to this video, i feel terrible that yes, thats what i wanted. but, my shallow desires beat my deeper desires of love. thats the most perplexing feeling. it doesnt even feel like its a matter of courage........ or is it? mayeb i was afraid to deal with the consiquences of his insecurities. lack of courage to face terrible things in the name of love? ........ what is love
You are not in love with him but in a relationship, and that to happen both must be giving girls her beauty,boy aukad..
iska mtlb h uska bura waqt aate hi use laat maardi😂😂
sb esi hi hoti h
love and serve , no matter how weak he becomes ,such woman is known as sati(chaste)in vedic times.and such woman are worshipable as they are rare in this world.
You just answered my question I was asking myself from long time 😢......your bf and my story is totally same....Mai v talented tha, but health issue ki wajah se Career me downfall aa gya.....but farq ye hai ki mai hmesha kosis ki mera career aur health wapis set ho jaye.... but is dauran Maine bahut Kami mahsoos ki apni ex ki.... mujhe uska support chahiye tha,pr wo chhor k chli gyi Mera future insecure dekh ke😊. Unexpected and inhuman behaviour
@@pawankumarmehra94😂😂
Even my ex said while breaking up and I'm quoting that.." I love you that's okay but i want a powerful guy, i want one with a powerful aura" . I completely relate it sir!
Yes true
If she said that then she was a bitch , she was just making up to you nothing else
Be A Powerful Aura Yourself
at least she was honest...And good for you she figured it before marriage.
you should have lit yourself up with led lights
All he said is absolutely right,,..a girl may love a funny boy but she wants a successful husband...
But is she successful enough to be yearned for by her partner to be.? Guess we are never having that answer.
No she doesn't want .
Chetan Bhagat does not understand today's women
It was applicable on older generation but not now
I am a girl and I swear I am not lying
I hv nothing to do with guys income ,it should be that much in order to bear his expense that's it
What I really want is a loving caring obviously understanding the only one in front of whom I can open my heart be so emotionally attached and a honest smile. Even sense of humor does not matter he can crack his lame jokes cuz I laugh on even lame jokes.Thats it a very honest answer .
Today and in coming years majority women will definitely hv this mentality .
@@physicsislove6100 what is your age? if u r young u wont be able to relate to this vid
@@physicsislove6100 who said success means income only ? It has different meanings for different people.. for a doctor success is saving a life.. for a teacher it's producing good ranks.. for a social influencer it's gaining fame.. for me success is being respected by everyone in the society through my qualifications and profession.. there are tons of profession which might pay more than my chosen one but I find success in being respected. For different girls successful has different meanings..
@@physicsislove6100 Lagta hai Papa ki pari ho jo abhi Paida bhi nahi theek se.
Girls want successful boy (Money. )😀😁
They Left their Bf for other successful person person
Let's appreciate his simpleness in video making, no promotion for subscription, no any costly editing..
That's what he is.... quality
Well said sir. I was in relationship for 10 years before marriage and people used to praise about us but I used to say one thing " pyar se pet ni bharta". I used to work hard. And this is the fact that without money the love will jump out of window. So the money, a long good career is very important part of your love life. 🙏
When girls are young they want cool dude type guy, good looking charming, adventurous. When they get old and face value declines they want to secure their future and want to settle with high earning nerd, no matter how he looks.
#Girls DIVORCING husband's is VERY HIGH these days and they run to another MORE SUCCESSFUL PREY *Obviously and there are LOTS of girls specially in INDIA 🥵 SHAMEFULLY these days where THEY have become just that and wanna rich richer richest BF and Husband's and should also be a GREEK GOD and Loyal and Humourous and also SHARE the work and Cook and wash Vessels too or have 3 SERVANTS atleast ! Unlike ALL our **#MOTHERS** who in their age KNEW WHAT A FAMILY AND HUSBAND MEANS AND WHAT A MARRIAGE MEANT*
@@deboraabh brother you hit at the point, I m astonished by your maturity!
@@mohitkumaryadav9150 well ... when you grow you experience and you sometimes suffer and you also observe you learn
@@deboraabh Lol.. You are talking as if India has that many rich guys!! Stoo being an emotional fool and check the average annual income of an Indian. It is righly equal to 1.5 lakhs per year. The uber rich are very few for you fantasy of women divorcing their husbands for a richer husband.. ha ha..
All film star doing the same
Bony Kapoor and Sridevi....
Agree:
Successful (potential 4 success)
Open minded
Pleasant personality.
Seriously!
Do you have that. ??? If not then you are meaningless to say you want... if you have then absolutely you can want...
@@studying548 Bhai...Tu inta research Kar Raha he.. literally...😂😂
@@studying548 This joker has no understanding. Most girls want rich guys as a provider but they want good looking guys as partners. That is why most girls are cheating these days. They marry a provider and then cheat with some good looking guy. But he won't get it because of obvious reasons. Now it is upto guys if they want to be provider or Alphas. This guy is truly a beta.
@@studying548 hello...you don't have to say anything...respect them.
Pyar mohabbat Dhokhaa hai.. Padh le Betaa Maukaa hai😂🤣
Baba SSP KA SHORT H 😀
@GAIRIK yep all illusions 🌹
Girls only want money from guys
@@mr.x4766 not at all..
All girls are not like this .some girls
Ye hai bhai
Girls ladder of expectations is: 1.Basic expectation:Don’t ditch me & protect my present lifestyle I am living at my parent’s house. 2. Intermediate expectation: Be the guy out of my imagination, who appreciates me forever and doesn’t restrict my basic freedom. 3. Advanced expectation: Take me for long drive, exotic holidays and to the restaurants which I only imagined when I was single.
True
Nothing is like that, either they are gold diggers or just want handsome hot even when they haven't done anything in their life
Agree but for girls it's equally important to be successful so that she can be independent
Yes 🙂
Exactly🙂
Independence jaisi koi chiz nahi hoti.
@@user-jc1km1qv1m Acha fir kon si chij hoti hai
@@girlssquare844 we all are dependent in someway or other , being independent is a myth
We want mother for mother's love
Want father for father's love , everybody has a role to play in our life . We should be grateful and have gratitude for everything ..... Rather than saying I am independent.
People who say I am independent must have courage to go and become sanyasi 😂
This makes CHETAN sir so special, truth in simple way..
Chetan sir - life saver of many boys🙏
here is the thing. With this third wave of feminism most of the women (i said most not all) are pretty much entitled and with rise of social media there are tons of desperate guys in their dms who pump up their ego and they over value themselves. So even an average girl in terms of looks and success have over expectations from when they are looking for a guy.
Absolutely true 👍👍👍
Tagda👌
TRUE..and they might date above their standard guys..but at last.. they only get what they deserve for marriage
and then these girls end up with fake guys and regret later
I completely agree with this. This video is so accurate.
Is being successful more important or being satisfied ???
@@Hlobni a man can be satisfied after being successful but he can't be satisfied being unsuccessful
@@nalinipravabiswal945 That's what i thought , but once you start climbing that ladder of success ,there is no end. The cycle of slipping down ,picking yourself up and then climbing up again goes on. i do not expect a girl to his word " be so hot , funny". finding a companion is not like finding a gem that looks good . For myself , i will try no matter what , i don't know what the future beholds for me or for anyone. i will try to be successful and for some " i tried to my level best " is satisfaction .....
I think a girl herself should be financially independent ... also she needs a type of a guy who is successful and matured also 👍
Exactly.. We don't need a guy to buy something for us.. We can earn our own money. ❤️
@\\xyz but reality is once women get started working .. she start to annoying , disrespect to his man .
@@kunalgajbhiye3544 so if a woman doesn't work then a man would do the same thing right??
@\\xyz 🤗☺️
Really if we want to be a 👑 Queen then we have to treat a man as a king and most imp we have to become financial independent.
Fun fact: Intelligent & Sucessfull man dont have time to fall in that trap
I wish YT had the option of doing a zillion likes !!!
Absolutely 👍
Dill jeetliya bhai me 🤣
Vice versa.. N u got me
Yeeeep
That is the ultimate truth. Girls aren't being greedy or money minded when they are choosing their partners. What they really need is a comfortable lifestyle and a man who can give them a life which was given by their parents. Thank you sir for your valuable explaination and for not being biased.
Yes this is so true!.. it's just no one can say it directly
👍🏾👍🏾
Im also agree with sir @megha
Till clg, girls want guys wid gud sense of humor, smart, fitness freak, guitarist, sportsperson, rich & usually dey stay away from studious & shy guy but when it comes to marriage dey only prefer iit/iim/govt. Officer.
I'm not complaining bt jst an piece of advice to guys, please remember you have only two true friends one is ur career & other one ur parents.
& a/f being successful also look for girl wid same struggle & success as u hv done & achieved.
Correct
so damn true bro.
Sahi baat bole brother
great bro .Great lesson you have given to guys.
Sahi bole yaar...
That's why my proposal is
"still pending"
And i am
" till reading."🤣🤣🤣
Try madkont erapa...
😂😂
Welldone sir… kisi ne hme.. 20 saal pahle itnaa khul ke bataa diyaa hota… kher lot of thanks sir… ab sirf okaat banaane par focus karunga
Being a girl I personally feel that a girl would be attracted to a guy who shares the same interests as her so that they can connect well. Also someone who has a strong character and respects her. What you have said sir is also absolutely correct.
Why ask respect separately? When the basis of marriage is love for each other and family, then why?
@Aso Fotida I would rather like to watch cricket and football matches with my partner. Not all girls like crappy TV serials. Do not stereotype, first have a good knowledge about girls. 🙏
I like your thoughts and how you express them. Having said that no amount of connection and respect can replace her need to have a partner who has a high social status. If he's broke then youll simply friendzone him. That's how things work.
By the way, you don't know how attractive you made yourself sound when you said you'd watch Cricket, football with him. That means a lot to guys and they'll be super interested in a girl that likes sports.
@@Iamlegend91 Thanks
@@anisha1668 what about physical attraction then...
Will you marry a ugly guy..but he has good manners, respects everybody, amazing personality and good job??
Totally agree .every one need physical security first only then you will be able to give company to someone.
Girls look matter but awareness about society, finance, relationship with family and responsibilities taken by girl is matter a lot
@\\xyz yes.... girls look not matter a lot,....
And boys also judge by their look...its reality but not at large scale,... always success and...life stability matter 👍
@\\xyz that's natural process
Not societal or financial issue..
The most honest video i saw ever in my 30 years of life ... 🙏❤️👍
It's not the bitter truth sir, it's the reality . Rather than faking or hiding our society should appreciate and should gently and lightly take all these things as a normal phenomenon . As a girl I am agreeing to all your points .
If I will date someone then I will frankly ask for it . Because I love reallity .
But why u girls are so hypocrite and selfish
Thank you for speaking real
Mei b bandi ki aukaat dekta hu tb hee usse friendship krta hu
Success is defer from one person to another it takes time , big goal take long time but if a girl love you at ur struggle period that's the true love
But boys should focus on goal
Bhai aise love m dhokha milta h....kyuki ldki ko 20-22 tk ki age m shaadi krni hoti h 🤣🤣🤣
Having a source of earning & reputation in society .... Parents pround on him = success 🏆💪
"A MAN WHO IS NOT SUCCESSFUL IS NOT A VERY HAPPY MAN" Of course 😂
💯true
😂😂😂 i have seen taxi drivers way more peaceful and loving than a millionaire..
@@sandeshrangari694 You must be wrong....taxi driver is happy becaz he need to show that he is nice so that he can make some money.
Have u ever heard being millionaire is sad???
@@riheli4678 i have seen millionaire and bollionaire suiciding...
When girls marry mostly in 20s-30s most of the guys had started in their careers. success comes along way as time progresses.Girls look in man if he is open enough to give her- her space, freedom and career to pursue whatever she wants to do.
That's why girls marry men older than them who are quite successful in their careers
Absolutely bro
Absolutely, very well said
Right brdr
There's this exact reason that I admire you a lot like always.
A good physique or body gives you the priority over others but for keep going you have to be successful
A man's value is determined by his success.
Truly true
Open minded person as well.
Purely apt,boys too should get a girl who's successful,just don't go by the beauty.
Yes 👍👍👍
Then there are high chances that u remain unmarried in india. It also apies to other nations. 😂😂
@@user-jc1km1qv1m could be the chance 😂,but I believe that's how real equality would prevail
Hahah there hardly any...
@@xman6267 there will be many if we let them to do so, help your wife/gf/sisters in daily chores.
Sir this is absolutely right..but then it's more of a deal rather than love.
Principal of equivalent exchange
Richer you are, more likely it is for you to get married to a girl you wanna be with.
Toh kya hua tum kya ek black ladki se sadhi kar sakte ho yadi tum bahut sundar aur rich ho
Ha to that's my point ...call it a partnership where everything is considered in the domain of profit and loss.
Absolutely
Yes absolutely ❤!! No sugar-coating.. diplomacy
Straight and blunt thought 👍🏽
I would love to spend my life with an Inspirational Guy who inspire me to live like living in heaven . He may not have lot of money but should have positive attitude and successful in terms of achieving goals and a family man . It is good to see some people really care about what girls really want . (hope god will see my comment ..haha)
That's the definition of Success overall 👍
We saw
Sorry didi god not have Social media
I saw it.....
@Antony right
With experience I am saying this, Success alone isn't enough. You have to have a hell lot of patience, empathy, sense of humour, knowledge & "talent" to sustain the relationship well. Because once you both fall in love, your success becomes a normal thing. Being successful will help you get a good girl but not a good relationship. You have to have knowledge about how to deal thing's.
He has already said....he is not giving relationship advice....
@@parthasarathi3855 so what?
@@telugubusinesschannel so your comment is baseless
@@parthasarathi3855 if I have criticized Chetan Bhagat for this video, then my comment is BASELESS. But I have added my knowledge in comment which is appreciated by 30 people. You are simply senseless.
@@telugubusinesschannelsome fools still think just having a different view makes him or her cool and wake.....irrespective of how stupid that so called opinion is and also irrelevant with the topic.......congo for the flock of donkeys you found...🙏
Shwetabh Gangwar ke sath aur ek podcast please sir 😭
Bhai dill ki baat kardi meri
Bhai already hain ek
@@vinayakagrawal8993 part 2 ki baat ho rhi hai bro
@@rj-wo7ug oh
I agree Man should be successful but success is not always for all. Good and Bad times will come in everyone's phase so girls and men both should accept each other and support them.
Irony is your books are different from these UA-cam discussions.
People, thoughts, change and enhance over time buddy
Dude You Read Only Half Girlfriend,
Not The Girl in Room 105.
When Zara Lone Is Ready With Raghu Not Keshav Rajpurohit.
Shots fired
Absolutely right sir. I can't think of having a guy who isn't intelligent or ambitious enough to make my head held high with pride with his success .If he is not honest with his work he can't be honest with his partner.As being a earning woman myself it's not about money but about my pride and prestige.
Well, you should also have the same qualities which you seek in a partner.
@@comicguy4417 I have such quality dear.I am a financial advisor and analyst myself and work quite hard to get what I want in my life,so as per my caliber,this is not a blind wish or desire ,this is something which I deserve .
@@madhumitabanerjee9127 I respect you for your self-awareness. A hard working woman certainly deserves a successful man. May God bless you with your desired partner! Amen.
Have you watched the film "Thappad"? The man was ambitious, got a promotion, his wife was happy with him, but was he a nice man? He was abusive, narcissistic and highly misogynistic. And the female lawyer who fought Taapsee's case in the film, her husband too was intelligent, ambitious and they hailed from a highly prestigious family. So is an intelligent, ambitious man enough? Or rather we must look forward to men who are empathetic, understanding and emotionally intelligent and make a great dad for our kids. I am too like you, an independent highly educated working woman but for me my man's professional success isn't important because life keeps changing. Today he might be the CEO, tomorrow he might land up on the streets. What matters to me is whether he is willing to put in efforts to keep himself together in tough times, is he able to balance our relationship during periods of fights, misunderstandings, etc, basically his inner strength and integrity.
@@comicguy4417 bro she was waiting for someone to say something like you said so that she can spill out her well deeds in life. think
Agreed.
Personally I just want a
responsible,
sincere,
good behaved,
fit person,
and friendly that we can share everything freely without insecurity.
Well im the one with more such qualities
And what you can give? 🤨
@@iitian8961 asking me ?
@@aritrighosh2008 aur bataye kya hua
Fit person is not part of personality...it's about genetics
Every girl/woman wants to be the reason behind a successful man BUT not a single 1 wants to be with the struggling guys.
This is #bitterTruth also.
Financial independence is the first step to self love . Love yourself to be loved by anyone else. Spend money on yourself let the ugly duckling become a beautiful swan and then quack for its mate
Hey
Omg Chetan Sir u r the first man who really understood the girls side . Such a big brother advise
Mostly girls notice their dressing sense so that they can make an assumption about their lifestyle and income. Girls also notice their nature or behaviour and how a guy treats people around him. So it depends from person to person. ❤️
Nature and behaviour sometimes changes with situation around him/her ,
What is changes with situation may be it's not real so search for success in a guy because it's real many times in this materialistic life 😁
what is your age dear? when you will be big enough n have to start a family, you will also look for a guy who is successful because a more successful guy means more income, more income means a better environment for your child to grow and women have been evolutionarily trained to select the best environment for there child, that is why a majority of women run after successful guys.
😂😂😂 toh to mark zuckerburg chutiya h bro . ...usko dekh k lag ta h ki koi paisa nai h uske pass
But Muslim girls love half biryani k2a
1)standard of living if that man
2)then comes the most important qualuty of man-"is he able to make the girl feel comfirtable while they r together? That decides the nature of man for the girls.
Chetan sir your age is just a number your thoughts always like a young people that's why are a legendary writer. luv u sir
You are absolutely right "Chetan Sir". U are amazing ... As for some people truth is always bitter..
But not for everyone ☺
Right diwakar
@@amaryadav7109 sale
We agree to you sir.. But further adding a thing tht the being real is too important..
" Girls want successful guys" - who doesn't...... I can say one previous sentence from your previous videos.... " Being poor isn't fun"😂
Sadly but chetan Bhagat cud not understand today's women
I am a girl and I swear I am not lying
I hv nothing to do with guys income ,it should be that much in order to bear his own expense that's it
What I really want is a loving caring obviously understanding the only one in front of whom I can open my heart be so emotionally attached and a honest smile. Even sense of humor does not matter he can crack his lame jokes cuz I laugh on even lame jokes.Thats it a very honest answer .
Today and in coming years majority women will definitely hv this mentality .
@@physicsislove6100 😢😢😢 ur so nice...
@@physicsislove6100 how old are you lol
@@physicsislove6100 same bro
@@physicsislove6100 chal hat jhuti eik ladki ladke se kavi saadi nhi karti agar uski job nhi lagi hai toh jhut na hi bolo
100% agreed .... & Nothing wrong with it ... Not from girls perspective but from guy's perspective as well.
A man with a vision needs a woman with vision too !
A beautiful girl and a successful boy love happend in a second.
I think women don't express their feelings openly bcoz they expect from their men to understand their inner feelings.
and I completely agree with you sir.
Han ye sach baat hai
Par ye illogical nehi hai koi dusreka maan kaise jaan sakta hai, ye bohot hi difficult kaam hai
Par ladkiyan chota chota sign deti rehti hai jab interested hoti hai.😀
How will we understand if u want something speak it.. Don't expect we are not god unless ND until u don't speak ..
Bhai Bhai Bhai😂😂😂
How can someone understand your inner feelings if you don't share them with anyone ??
It may be wrong to expect others to understand without saying something. But that's the way Girl's are. We have to respect it.
Be successful for you and your society..not for girls but fot you society and God ❤